"No finance, no romance" What do you think about it?

[Mhizlove]

Love is superior to money and without money love exists. It's just that nowadays, girls put their love in money and not because they love the guy. This is why you will see them getting married and file for a divorce just to take part of the man wealth.

Money is good because it can give you the comfort you need but money cannot buy true love. Money cannot buy true happiness.

Honestly speaking money you see can make relationships much more easier but what it can not do is giving you genuine love or feeling in the relationship. But I will say that you should not generalized it that it's only the girls that goes after money or puts money over love. Both gender has that mindset, the thing is that for the guys is rare to see than that of the girls. The thing is that, no matter anything genuine love and financial stability are not supposed to compete with one another rather dey are supposed to work one in hand or work together as one. Because even if you love someone genuinely and that person don't have enough to meet your needs you will get tired along the line.

[jvanname]

Women can't understand Bitcoin and how Bitcoin has a mining algorithm that was never designed to advance science. Women are not even creatures that can pass the Turing test, so it is best just to stay away from them. The only thing that women understand is greed, and stupid men fall for it because they do not understand that women are good at making men miserable creatures who do not care about life at all.

Regards,


-Joseph Van Name Ph.D.

[Merit.s]

Love is superior to money and without money love exists. It's just that nowadays, girls put their love in money and not because they love the guy. This is why you will see them getting married and file for a divorce just to take part of the man wealth.

Money is good because it can give you the comfort you need but money cannot buy true love. Money cannot buy true happiness.

Honestly speaking money you see can make relationships much more easier but what it can not do is giving you genuine love or feeling in the relationship. But I will say that you should not generalized it that it's only the girls that goes after money or puts money over love. Both gender has that mindset, the thing is that for the guys is rare to see than that of the girls. The thing is that, no matter anything genuine love and financial stability are not supposed to compete with one another rather dey are supposed to work one in hand or work together as one. Because even if you love someone genuinely and that person don't have enough to meet your needs you will get tired along the line.

So, what are you doing that you expect someone you love to meet your needs. Don't you have hands to work and earn something for yourself in order for you to be able to take care of your needs yourself.

It's not a must that the guy should take care of the girl needs. This is why it's good for a girl to also be working so that, she wouldn't put her hope and anyone to Carter for her needs and marry for genuine love. When both partners are working the family income increases and there will be less expenses on one side.

[Findingnemo]

It is between the two people, and no one can decide which is good for them, only two decide that, I had seen a homeless couple lived a happy life and traveled all around the world with almost nothing but surviving and also I witnessed two rich people who met and fell in love and end up marrying each other but in just one year both decided that they can't be with each other.

So romance is more about compatibility rather than finance but money is important for live.

[Franklyn-wood]

When there is money, there is love in abundance. When there is no money, love is limited.

Love in a relationship shouldn't be based on finances because if the finances stop coming, the love will be broke. It wasn't like this when we were growing up to become adults. Love was genuine, not minding the circumstances. A man will meet someone to love him for who he is. But in today's society, a broke woman, ugly, without a stunning body figure, also needs a dark, tall, rich, charming man to marry. The woman has made a relationship transaction, so the man has agreed to pay for it but won't dare to fall in love anymore.

It is only in today's society that we will see a single mother with 7 children. Like, is she an animal?

All this about love limitations started in this Jenzy generation. And this is mostly from the female forks who either are not trained or refuse training from parent and are not ready to work, but looking for a man with a bright future. A man that will foot there bills and give them the kind of life there parents could not afford to give them. Some of this is based on believes that men should carry the responsibility of his family, then the woman now seats and watch, which I see as misconception.
When a woman feels financially independent she might be carried away by pride if the husband or fiancee earns lower than she does.

[Nanga Parbat]

I've seen many wives who are disrespectful to their husbands because they are not financially bouyant.

Do not give blame only women or wives for this, but men also mistreat them, after earning higher income men start getting involve with two or more girl friends. They usually start cheating to their partners or spending money in term of expensive gifts to attract them. So we should not attach the weaknesses of relationship only with women.

Love should be unconditional, it should be for better for worse but that was in the past, it is not the case in this age because people in relationships are comparing themselves with other relationships which is myopic. What I can conclude is that love and romance can exist between couples without money but there would be a lot of tolerance in the relationship. Money is very important in a marriage although good character is the most important.

Here i agree with you, Love should be unconditional, every body should be pure in emotions, whether they are your siblings, friends or spouse. Otherwise what is benefits to live in fake feelings.

Few decades ago sincerity was the key to maintaining the relationship. But now it is considered as a fantasy, because now love is only measured through the money . Or relations sustainability is dependents upon that how much you spend on them. It is true that any financial disturbance also put great impact on the strength of the love and romance. For example if a I win lottery of worth of few lakhs, then i assure many friends and releative might come or claim about how strong they love for me.

[laspol65]

Can romance be meaningful in a relationship without money to take care of material things to blossom and rekindle the romance? If a couple are struggling to survive which means that they can hardly afford basic necessities and luxuries of life do you think that they will be truly happy or just managing to remain in the relationship?

It is not that people are happy if they have money, I have seen many rich people neglecting their relationships. They do not get the self-respect of their wives, they are just money machines and if they can earn money, their wives treat them well. But besides that, you see those who own a lot of money have several houses and sometimes they take shelter in old age homes.
But it does not matter whether you have money or not, if your life partner has real humanity, then he or she is definitely and undoubtedly a good person. People cannot be happy if they have money.

[BALIK]

All this about love limitations started in this Jenzy generation. And this is mostly from the female forks who either are not trained or refuse training from parent and are not ready to work, but looking for a man with a bright future. A man that will foot there bills and give them the kind of life there parents could not afford to give them. Some of this is based on believes that men should carry the responsibility of his family, then the woman now seats and watch, which I see as misconception.
When a woman feels financially independent she might be carried away by pride if the husband or fiancee earns lower than she does.

I don't deny that many Jenzy women prefer looking for men with a bright future who can take care of them instead of working hard themselves. But don't put all the blame on women either, because there wouldn't be any supply without demand. Men with money are also using their financial advantage to go after younger women, enjoy the relationship, and then dump them when they are no longer young and attractive. These men don't deserve genuine love.

Furthermore, I also disagree with men doing everything within a family, and women sitting around doing nothing. Do men give birth, cook, take care of children, help with housework, or look after their in laws?  How can anyone say that women do nothing in marriage?

[Findingnemo]

Can romance be meaningful in a relationship without money to take care of material things to blossom and rekindle the romance? If a couple are struggling to survive which means that they can hardly afford basic necessities and luxuries of life do you think that they will be truly happy or just managing to remain in the relationship?

It is not that people are happy if they have money, I have seen many rich people neglecting their relationships. They do not get the self-respect of their wives, they are just money machines and if they can earn money, their wives treat them well. But besides that, you see those who own a lot of money have several houses and sometimes they take shelter in old age homes.
But it does not matter whether you have money or not, if your life partner has real humanity, then he or she is definitely and undoubtedly a good person. People cannot be happy if they have money.

People will not be completely satisfied if they have money but it gives them comfort and many people can live with that for sure and some women from third world countries who are in their 20s are ready to marry 50 or 70 year old just because they are rich and only people lived their life in povery knows how cruel it is to live with no money.

[Decimetre]

Can romance be meaningful in a relationship without money to take care of material things to blossom and rekindle the romance? If a couple are struggling to survive which means that they can hardly afford basic necessities and luxuries of life do you think that they will be truly happy or just managing to remain in the relationship?

It is not that people are happy if they have money, I have seen many rich people neglecting their relationships. They do not get the self-respect of their wives, they are just money machines and if they can earn money, their wives treat them well. But besides that, you see those who own a lot of money have several houses and sometimes they take shelter in old age homes.
But it does not matter whether you have money or not, if your life partner has real humanity, then he or she is definitely and undoubtedly a good person. People cannot be happy if they have money.

People will not be completely satisfied if they have money but it gives them comfort and many people can live with that for sure and some women from third world countries who are in their 20s are ready to marry 50 or 70 year old just because they are rich and only people lived their life in povery knows how cruel it is to live with no money.

Living without money is not a good life and even a man living without money doesn't love himself that way so why do you expect someone else who's not your mother to love you when you do not have money? There are things that don't just happen like that. People have basic necessities and until those necessities are met, their joy is usually not complete which extends towards the people around them. In a relationship without money, the man feels very insecure. The man believes the woman can leave him and follow another wealthier man and the woman too feels insecure thinking that if the man finally makes money, he may change his attitude.

Money is very important even as a parent. The love that children have for their parents also depends on what their parents have done for them or what their parents can be able to do for them. A poor parent will hardly create bond with his children because to create bond with anyone, gifts are usually involved and if you don't have money, how will you gift. You may be broke and people will be thinking you are stingy and you won't have a way to prove that you are not stingy because you don't have. So money lightens up families and makes life worth living both in romance and otherwise.

[Taricoins]

Love is superior to money and without money love exists. It's just that nowadays, girls put their love in money and not because they love the guy. This is why you will see them getting married and file for a divorce just to take part of the man wealth.

Money is good because it can give you the comfort you need but money cannot buy true love. Money cannot buy true happiness.

There was this famous soccer player that said, "without football I won't be able to meet the women I met and enjoy the life I did" we most times piss on the money but it depends on what you do with it, am not saying being rich doesn't have its challenges but can we compare it to the challenges of being broke ? Atleast with being rich we can surround yourself with things that can make you happy.
 

Talking about love, it's not all girls that are after one's money

[free-bit.co.in]

There was this famous soccer player that said, "without football I won't be able to meet the women I met and enjoy the life I did" we most times piss on the money but it depends on what you do with it, am not saying being rich doesn't have its challenges but can we compare it to the challenges of being broke ? Atleast with being rich we can surround yourself with things that can make you happy.
 

Talking about love, it's not all girls that are after one's money

I agree with you. Having money doesn't guarantee real happiness, but it definitely makes life a lot easier and more comfortable than having no money.
Being rich doesn't necessarily make you happy, but does being broke make you happy? I seriously doubt that someone struggling with money can really live a happy life.


I also don't agree with putting all women in the same box. Not every woman is after money. Some do care about money, but there are many women who care more about the relationship and the person they're with than how much he owns.

[programmer3666]

Money is very important in every relationships, if you have it you can afford to take care of your expenses without stress and you can afford to surprise your spouse, girlfriend or boyfriend with gifts which would delight them. When money is available in a relationship there is less quarrels about the basic things of life because there are adequate provisions for them, couples would wake up happy every morning knowing that they can afford the material things that they need and want.

Love is a verb which means that it is an action word and when it is expressed in physical terms it helps to strengthen the bonds between couples, in this generation love is mostly expressed in physical things which money can buy. Imagine surprising your partner with a brand new car for their birthday, it would surely help to express your feelings of love or taking the person on a vacation that is fully funded by you, the romance would be massive.

Can romance be meaningful in a relationship without money to take care of material things to blossom and rekindle the romance? If a couple are struggling to survive which means that they can hardly afford basic necessities and luxuries of life do you think that they will be truly happy or just managing to remain in the relationship?

In my own view, when couples are broke and they decide to struggle and hustle together from scratch, it creates a stronger bond between them because they see each other from the lowest point and doing things like share a plate of food and putting heads together to see how bills will be paid, that builds a high level of trust between them. You can tell that's true love at its peak and your partner loves you for who you are not what you have in your bank account.

[Judith87403]

It is between the two people, and no one can decide which is good for them, only two decide that, I had seen a homeless couple lived a happy life and traveled all around the world with almost nothing but surviving and also I witnessed two rich people who met and fell in love and end up marrying each other but in just one year both decided that they can't be with each other.

So romance is more about compatibility rather than finance but money is important for live.

Unfortunately romance is no longer for compatibility but everyone is now money minded. I have seen a girl who refused to let go of a guy that has same Genotype with her (AS AS) simply because the guy throws money around her. In such case will you call it compatibility? The mindset of people about dating has shifted from what it ought to be, to what they want it to be. Romance in the old days used to be about love, affection and respect for each other but these days, partners are already looking at what to benefit from each other when they start courtship. In the past, most women were avoiding guys who are into illegal businesses to make money but in this modern world a lot of ladies prefers to date those fraudsters than date those that makes their money legitimately. What is the reason for this? They believe that fraudsters get easy money and also spends lavishly on their girlfriends. Of course when people scam others of their hard earned money they spend it extravagantly because they are not aware of the pains that the person went through or how many years it took that person to save money. It is true that poor people still find love but truth be told, no poor man is completely happy that they are poor likewise a poor woman.

[Royal Cap]

Although expensive gifts can keep a relationship going, but problems arise when they become the main way of expressing love. Today you can afford a car or an expensive tour but tomorrow, if business is in trouble, you may not be able to give those things, If the warmth of the relationship also decreases then you will understand that the foundation was not very strong. Financial pressure can indeed create problems in a relationship, but money itself is not a substitute for love.

[Achalugo BTC]

Although expensive gifts can keep a relationship going, but problems arise when they become the main way of expressing love. Today you can afford a car or an expensive tour but tomorrow, if business is in trouble, you may not be able to give those things, If the warmth of the relationship also decreases then you will understand that the foundation was not very strong. Financial pressure can indeed create problems in a relationship, but money itself is not a substitute for love.

Some people's love is based on money. Although you are right that money should not define love, love should be genuine and real. This helps their relationship to be intact, even when there is no money or when their business goes down, because nothing lasts forever in this world. Material possessions will eventually fade away and the earlier people understand this, the better it will be for them.

[TopTort777]

Some people's love is based on money. Although you are right that money should not define love, love should be genuine and real. This helps their relationship to be intact, even when there is no money or when their business goes down, because nothing lasts forever in this world. Material possessions will eventually fade away and the earlier people understand this, the better it will be for them.

Not some but almost everyones love is based on money. If a person is poor, no matter how attractive he is and how good character he is, little who will pay attention to him. Other half wont even start a conversation with that person. Nobody wants a poor second half. People are pragmatic today. Nobody need a poor romantic who will choose walks in park and plucked flowers. Cant provide a base minimum of cafe, restaurant, some presents - you are automatically in a low tier of potential person to marry.

[Sulegzy39]

Existing without sufficient funds is not a happy life, and even a man that does not have money cannot adore himself in a comparable manner, so why should you expect someone other than your mother to love you when you don't have money? Things rarely turn out that way. People have basic needs, and unless those needs are addressed, their joy is incomplete, and this extends to the people surrounding it. In a relationship without financial support, the man feels extremely alone. The man worries the woman will leave him for another wealthier man, and the lady is also concerned that if the individual ever acquires money, he would change his mindset.Wealth is extremely crucial, even for parents.

Children's love for their parents is also determined by what their parents did or can do for kids. Any poor dad will rarely form bonds with his children since bonding normally involves gifts, which are difficult to provide if you do not have money. You may be poor, and people may assume you are poor, and you won't be to show it since you do not possess. So money brightens the family's spirits and makes life more enjoyable, both romantically and socially.

[knowngunman]

Can romance be meaningful in a relationship without money to take care of material things to blossom and rekindle the romance? If a couple are struggling to survive which means that they can hardly afford basic necessities and luxuries of life do you think that they will be truly happy or just managing to remain in the relationship?

Well, I can't deny it. Money plays a vital role in relationships but that's not all it takes to make it perfect. We've seen rich couples struggling to stay together despite there's money and could basically afford to buy everything money could buy. Likewise, we've seen couples that financially average class but they are living together happily.

Let me tell you about a rich family in Nigeria. I don't have to keep it anonymous because the story is everywhere on the internet already. Ned is a Nigerian senator, a billionaire that owns several mansions, has a private jets and can literally afford everything you can think of. Her youngest wife is a famous actress. If money is the only thing that makes relationships perfect, this couple should be the most perfect one on earth. But guess what's happening, we can not even tell whether they're still together or not.

[Salahmu]

Living without money is not a good life and even a man living without money doesn't love himself that way so why do you expect someone else who's not your mother to love you when you do not have money?

Money is very important even as a parent. The love that children have for their parents also depends on what their parents have done for them or what their parents can be able to do for them. A poor parent will hardly create bond with his children because to create bond with anyone, gifts are usually involved and if you don't have money, how will you gift.

I know that money can influenced love and respect but you are wrong to say that every children bonding with their parents depends on Money because there are love that doesn't require any material things and that's the love for parents and it doesn't change even if they could not afford the money to send us to school, although sometimes most children hates their parents because they're poor but that's not in general perspective. As for finding love is true that money has become the ultimate desire for a woman to consider before accepting but is not fair to require so much from someone when you do not have anything.