Does a cheating woman develop the habit of cheating or it runs in the family?

[Somto9Light]

I do not agree that cheating is a family pattern, it is a habit that is being developed by an individual. Majority of women cheats by the way, it's just that they hardly get caught because they are very careful and manipulative when they want to cheat on their partner. Why did I said that majority of women cheats, that's because whenever doing a DNA test for one's child/children is being initiated, most women object to it. What's their fear if they know that they didn't cheat on their partners. The reason why it looks as if men cheat more is because men easily get caught because they are not always careful and the woman they cheated with can even set him up with his wife or will even be disturbing him after the pleasure which can lead to exposure to their partners. Everyone should take responsibility for their cheating lifestyle, it's not a family thing. There are families that don't have cheats, but they can give bet to a child that will begin to cheat. Cheating is a habit that is why when people cheats, they are likely to cheat again and again.

[Swordsoffreedom]

I do not agree that cheating is a family pattern, it is a habit that is being developed by an individual. Majority of women cheats by the way, it's just that they hardly get caught because they are very careful and manipulative when they want to cheat on their partner. Why did I said that majority of women cheats, that's because whenever doing a DNA test for one's child/children is being initiated, most women object to it. What's their fear if they know that they didn't cheat on their partners. The reason why it looks as if men cheat more is because men easily get caught because they are not always careful and the woman they cheated with can even set him up with his wife or will even be disturbing him after the pleasure which can lead to exposure to their partners. Everyone should take responsibility for their cheating lifestyle, it's not a family thing. There are families that don't have cheats, but they can give bet to a child that will begin to cheat. Cheating is a habit that is why when people cheats, they are likely to cheat again and again.

I also do not agree that women cheat more because they are better at hiding it than men.

I also don't agree with saying men only seem to cheat more because they're easier to catch, and that it's just an illusion.

Truth is, most surveys and data out there show men actually cheat more than women.

And I dont think cheating is simply a habit either. There can be many different reasons behind it, and every case can be different.

https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america

[Salahmu]

But do you know that there’s some of ladies that inherited it from their family’s, whereby some right from their single life the mothers knows that they’ve been exposed to a so many behaviors and instead of them to take action they will just over look them,

Is possible because we have some certain people in my country with similar tradition and culture and while every other tribe dislike and resent cheating women but they see it as a common thing so actually whenever people marry some of them that believes in that way of life they always sleep with other men on their marriage, but however I keep wondering what people stands to gain by cheating on there spouse because is very risky, they wouldn't know the sickness the man they're cheating with has and if contracted anything it affect both their husband and children so actually since most cheating is resulted because of tiredness in marriage is better for the woman to leave the marriage than staying there to cheat.

[Cossyblack]

There is nothing like inherited bad behavior. Every individual have their choice to decide what they wanted, that you have a poor background or being raised badly does not mean you shouldn't afford to train yourself in the appropriate manner and behavior self, if you choose right, then things will work well with you, rather than when you choose the wrong part, when we were still in childhood, our parents decided for us what to do, but the moment we grow up, we can decide for ourself on what we want, and that is best for us.

For poor parents, what could corrupt their children behaviour is their environments. Most poor parents live in ghettos and we all know about the ghettos and the kind of immoral lifestyle people who lives in there has, as a parents, raising your child or children in such an impoverished neighborhoods, people who lives in the same neighborhood can corrupt your child and influence them to be doing bad things. So the chances of that child growing up to be a bad is high because of the environment he or she grew up in, though not all of them would grow up to be bad but majority of them will be bad. You have look out for a nice neighborhood that isn't filled with bad influence to trained your children because environment also influenced children morals.

[Popkon6]

Does a cheating woman develop the habit of cheating while in the husband house due uncertainty that she might need and the husband is not capable of providing of or is in their nature to cheat or cheating runs in their family lineage because some times it marvel me to see that a married woman will just decide her own to cheat on her husband for know reason to hold on to  and before know it, a marriage that is not even a year, she will come up  with the idea of divorcing her husband.

Look, it should not be accepted in all cases, different people can be different. Not all wives commit adultery after entering their husband's family, some wives have habitual problems who commit adultery and cheat on their husbands. And I have heard that many of them have had an immoral relationship with another young man in their past, that is, before marriage, then that relationship remains with him and if they get married in another place, then they also go there and get involved in this adultery.
But some people commit adultery because of the weakness of their husbands, if the husband fails to fulfill her needs, then that wife takes help from someone else to fulfill her needs. But in most cases, I do not see adultery, rather they have been living in the family for a long time, some people's habits and temperaments cause them to get spoiled, everyone should not be blamed for this.

[Cryptoprincess101]

Most cheating wife’s development the habit of cheating, and I don’t think it runs in a family. Some ladies have been exposed to so many men before they married, so even after marriage, they will want to continue the lifestyle which they were leaving when they were not married yet. And I just feel most women that cheat are not just satisfy with what they have, most of them are always comparing themselves with other people, so if they want something and husband have not been able to do it, or the husband can’t afford it, they going to follow other men’s just to get it.

The excuses that some married women that are caught cheating do tell is that their husbands didn't satisfy them but the question i use to ask is that how did they end up getting married if the husband doesn't satisfy her. Just as you said, cheating happens as a result of too many men have slept with that woman in the past before she got married which means that she might still be in touch with some of her Ex's and she might be having a flashback on a sexcapade she did with a previous guy and might want to experience it again. Cheating is a personal trait, it is not inherited and it is not a family thing.

I don’t think a married man won’t provide the basic things which the family needs, most of them are not just satisfied, with what the man is providing. Instead of cheating in a marriage, then it’s just because the woman request for divorce, everyone should just go their separate ways.

That's also what I normally say that instead of cheating on a partner, it is better to go separate ways because there are dangers in cheating such as contacting deadly diseases which can be transmitted to your partner. Instead of risking the life of the other person it is better to just divorce if that will make you happy.

[BADecker]

Women are so mixed up. Part of each woman wants:
- Security, just like everybody else;
- Children, because she has the machinery in her;
- No children because it's difficult to find security;
- A loving, trustworthy husband... so she can have security to have children;
- And a standard of good living conditions.

That's what a woman wants. Some women don't realize that cheating only makes it worse. Some don't realize that they should have been more careful in the first place. A few just want to have fun, and don't realize that having cheating fun will be painful in the future.


Here s what people who are considering marriage should do.
1. Realize that marriage is basically for procreation purposes.
2. Go together for a full year without having sex, so that you get to know if your potential marriage partner will be a good partner.

[New Judgement]

Cheating is a choice that people make on their own, I don’t believe that cheating run in lineage. A girl child that is born to a certain lineage that has been labeled as cheating lineage, can grow up with other relatives who supports her, give her quality education and she have a better life. Marry a supportive husband that’s always there for her and attention to her emotional needs, she has a job of her own that keeps her busy will hardly cheat, even if it has been established that cheating runs in their lineage. Circumstances makes most women to cheat, not that they enjoy cheating on their husbands. I kind of believe those your female colleagues that argued that cheating is a habit women develop in their husband’s house.

[Smack That Ace]

Women are so mixed up. Part of each woman wants:
- Security, just like everybody else;
- Children, because she has the machinery in her;
- No children because it's difficult to find security;
- A loving, trustworthy husband... so she can have security to have children;
- And a standard of good living conditions.

That's what a woman wants. Some women don't realize that cheating only makes it worse. Some don't realize that they should have been more careful in the first place. A few just want to have fun, and don't realize that having cheating fun will be painful in the future.

Here s what people who are considering marriage should do.
1. Realize that marriage is basically for procreation purposes.
2. Go together for a full year without having sex, so that you get to know if your potential marriage partner will be a good partner.

Are men not complicated too? In a relationship, they want their girlfriend to give them everything but still want their wife to be a virgin. In marriage, they want wife who can handle the house, always look good and always care about her husband. But sometimes they ain't even ready to give the same thing back.

And when it comes to cheating, there are already many surveys and data showing men cheat more than women. But funny enough, nobody really talks about that. They just keep focusing on women cheating.

Love or marriage is a relationship between 2 people, so the responsibility and problems in it belong to both sides, not just one.

[DYOR+BTC]

Women are so mixed up. Part of each woman wants:
- Security, just like everybody else;
- Children, because she has the machinery in her;
- No children because it's difficult to find security;
- A loving, trustworthy husband... so she can have security to have children;
- And a standard of good living conditions.

That's what a woman wants. Some women don't realize that cheating only makes it worse. Some don't realize that they should have been more careful in the first place. A few just want to have fun, and don't realize that having cheating fun will be painful in the future.

Here s what people who are considering marriage should do.
1. Realize that marriage is basically for procreation purposes.
2. Go together for a full year without having sex, so that you get to know if your potential marriage partner will be a good partner.

Are men not complicated too? In a relationship, they want their girlfriend to give them everything but still want their wife to be a virgin. In marriage, they want wife who can handle the house, always look good and always care about her husband. But sometimes they ain't even ready to give the same thing back.

And when it comes to cheating, there are already many surveys and data showing men cheat more than women. But funny enough, nobody really talks about that. They just keep focusing on women cheating.

Love or marriage is a relationship between 2 people, so the responsibility and problems in it belong to both sides, not just one.

It is in the nature of a man to love and desire a woman that brings peace of mind, loyalty,  faithful and all the desired benefits of life in their wifes but can be in a relationship with a lady that lacks all this qualities. Many women today are suffering because of the lifestyle they learned from a man unknowingly to her that is why i always say men a whore makers but don't like whores.
On the aspects of cheating,  its acceptable that men covers over 80 percent on the chart but its their nature to do so except for those that chooses to remain faithful that is why its acceptable for a man to marry more than one woman but not for a woman to marry more than one man