Does a cheating woman develop the habit of cheating or it runs in the family?

[qurbanshah02]

I think is in some family blood and no matter how wealthy the man is or the woman are he or she will definitely involve in cheating on behalf of the husband or wife. Some women learn it from their bad friends in the same environment because they never told them is a bad character every woman or man don't want to associate with in the society.

Women cheat without any reason, a good girl from decent family will marry and continue to cheat , some girls can't date one man and they carry same character into marriage,  it's a woman thing,  as a man, if toubamrry a girl that was already in a relationship and 6ou came in and she accepted to date you , just know she will cheat on you same.way she cheated with you.

Such women have become very common in society and I think everyone who teaches them is following wrong advice.  Although a ethnic woman will not do this at all because she knows that she has to keep her home environment and her honor and the honor of her family and her husband always at the top.  If a woman's honor is damaged, then the honor of many people who are married to her is damaged.  In today's time, dating has become very bad, and some men take advantage of it.  In my opinion, what you do is what you get, so if a woman is wrong, it will also be wrong with her and the man who is wrong will also be wrong with him.  But I have still seen some men who still give such women a chance to be okay, but still women are not okay with their work.  Such things should be eliminated from society so that everyone's home remains free from this work.

[laspol65]

Does a cheating woman develop the habit of cheating while in the husband house due uncertainty that she might need and the husband is not capable of providing of or is in their nature to cheat or cheating runs in their family lineage because some times it marvel me to see that a married woman will just decide her own to cheat on her husband for know reason to hold on to  and before know it, a marriage that is not even a year, she will come up  with the idea of divorcing her husband.

Look, a woman does not participate in extramarital affairs by her lineage or birth, but that woman is forced to commit extramarital affairs due to her partner's fault or due to the negligence of her husband. You are not the same. There are many types of people in this world who follow different strategies to fulfill their own interests and honor. So some people may not get complete happiness from their husbands. For their confidence and peace of mind, they love to touch other men, but for all these reasons I blame men more. But in some cases, there are some people with different natures who give their bodies in exchange for money.
I condemn all those women, but due to this extramarital affairs, the most divorces are happening in the current society. So one must stay away from this extramarital affair and every man and woman must be careful, because the better you are, the more your husband and everyone will respect you with good reputation.

[Audrey Simmons]

Just wanna ask, is it okay when its the man cheating? A man's cheating does not affect his kid or family, or ruin their peace of mind and home environment?

It is not okay if the man cheats and not the woman, cheating from any of the partners are wrong.

People who kept on forgiving cheating partners have something different in them, cheating on a partner is a deliberate act, I don't see why people gets away with cheating, the level of trusts broken and how differently I regard that person hence forth, it won't be in a normal condition.

[BitBakerr1]

Every woman that is cheating on her husband has a reason for doing that, and there are many reasons why women cheat on their husband, the reasons are because they don’t really love the man, because the man can’t proved her needs and lastly because they want to enjoy other men’s dick.
These are the three reasons why women usually cheat on their husband.
I don’t think it runs in family, it is a personal stuff, if your mother is cheating on her husband it does not mean that you will also cheat on your husband. It is only when you decide to do it that you are going to.

I always say, if you cannot stay faithful to your partner don’t get married.

[Swordsoffreedom]

Just wanna ask, is it okay when its the man cheating? A man's cheating does not affect his kid or family, or ruin their peace of mind and home environment?

It is not okay if the man cheats and not the woman, cheating from any of the partners are wrong.

People who kept on forgiving cheating partners have something different in them, cheating on a partner is a deliberate act, I don't see why people gets away with cheating, the level of trusts broken and how differently I regard that person hence forth, it won't be in a normal condition.

I do not really wanna argue about whether cheating should be forgiven, or who deserves forgiveness and who does not. Its personal choice between the couple, and it depends on the situation they're in.

I see that most of the threads constantly come back to women. It's like they're the only species that cheat. Men, however, are some other species that never cheat. So I wanna hear what everyone has to say when it's the guy who's cheating.

At the end of the day, people should be treated equally. Man or woman, neither one matter more than the other.

[Mr Reporter]

Every woman that is cheating on her husband has a reason for doing that, and there are many reasons why women cheat on their husband, the reasons are because they don’t really love the man, because the man can’t proved her needs and lastly because they want to enjoy other men’s dick.
These are the three reasons why women usually cheat on their husband.
I don’t think it runs in family, it is a personal stuff, if your mother is cheating on her husband it does not mean that you will also cheat on your husband. It is only when you decide to do it that you are going to.

Hope you know that cheating is a general gender thing from the both parties, men also cheats and women also cheats as well too, in fact the men has the largest percentage of who cheat the most in a relationship and it aslo a  personal choice to cheat, you have stated only 3 reason which I would not say those are the only reasons, sometimes it just lack of emotional connection or love was not there at first, and sometime it could even be  financial problems “ like for example using myself as an life experience my ex-girlfriend cheated on me because I had no funds, and she followed another man because I could not afford her luxury lifestyle” and sometimes to it's just that lack of discipline and respect for the partner, not necessarily because the man can't provide things as such could lead a woman to cheat…and then for the men sometimes when the woman is not sexual beautiful it leads a men to cheat or she not the type that make up, wearing nice dress and lot of things as that to….

Lastly you can come from a broken home and decide to be loyal It's about character and choices, not bloodline or some family inherited

[OgNasty]

I’ve never heard someone say that cheating runs in the family, but I guess it could make sense. If you grew up thinking that was normal you might not have any issue with it. I think each cheater probably has their own reasons depending on their own life experience, but family influence could be part of it.

[Qhunman]

Hope you know that cheating is a general gender thing from the both parties, men also cheats and women also cheats as well too, in fact the men has the largest percentage of who cheat the most in a relationship and it aslo a  personal choice to cheat, you have stated only 3 reason which I would not say those are the only reasons, sometimes it just lack of emotional connection or love was not there at first, and sometime it could even be  financial problems “ like for example using myself as an life experience my ex-girlfriend cheated on me because I had no funds, and she followed another man because I could not afford her luxury lifestyle” and sometimes to it's just that lack of discipline and respect for the partner, not necessarily because the man can't provide things as such could lead a woman to cheat…and then for the men sometimes when the woman is not sexual beautiful it leads a men to cheat or she not the type that make up, wearing nice dress and lot of things as that to….

Lastly you can come from a broken home and decide to be loyal It's about character and choices, not bloodline or some family inherited

All that you have said about why person cheat is true but it is a personal decision. Nobody cheats by a mistake,a woman who opens her leg for a man who isn't her husband or boyfriend does it intentionally and not a mistake. There is no excuse or reason that justify cheating. There is a reason why spouses cheats on each other but whatever the reason may be, it doesn't justifies such an action. If your spouse cheated because of money,they will still cheat when you later have money. So it is not a bloodline thing but rather a personal decision and a reflection of how the person was raised when they were growing up.

[BitBakerr1]

Every woman that is cheating on her husband has a reason for doing that, and there are many reasons why women cheat on their husband, the reasons are because they don’t really love the man, because the man can’t proved her needs and lastly because they want to enjoy other men’s dick.
These are the three reasons why women usually cheat on their husband.
I don’t think it runs in family, it is a personal stuff, if your mother is cheating on her husband it does not mean that you will also cheat on your husband. It is only when you decide to do it that you are going to.

Hope you know that cheating is a general gender thing from the both parties, men also cheats and women also cheats as well too, in fact the men has the largest percentage of who cheat the most in a relationship

How did you know that men are the ones that are cheating more in a relationship? Where did you get that percentage from?
Sometimes we always assume that men are the bad ones in a relationship. Men are always the ones doing the wrong things, and the women are God that never do any wrong.
Women may be cheating more than men in a relationship, but they will say it is the men that is cheating more, a man is always to be blamed when the relationship is failing, but when the relationship is going on and working very fine, the woman will take all the praises.

[JoyceBTC]

Any woman that cheats are husband cannot be satisfied sexually by one man and it wasn't in her husband's house that she learned it. It means that she love cheating and her husband isn't the first person that she has cheated in all the relationship that the had.

Lack of being satisfied with what you have can also make an unfaithful woman to cheat.

I will say you’re wrong for saying this because there are actually different reasons as to why a married woman cheats and not all is sexually related. Also I’m not justifying a married woman cheating on her husband but it might also be that she has been faithful all along and something then triggered her to cheat. Apart from just sex or their husband not satisfying her, a woman can also cheat when she’s not emotionally attached to her husband again and this might also be as a result of the husband neglecting her emotionally, not always having her time even after several complains, this can also create distance between two partners and some also cheat because their husband cheats on them, which they felt disrespected about and so many other reasons.

[MusaPk]

How did you know that men are the ones that are cheating more in a relationship? Where did you get that percentage from?
Sometimes we always assume that men are the bad ones in a relationship. Men are always the ones doing the wrong things, and the women are God that never do any wrong.
Women may be cheating more than men in a relationship, but they will say it is the men that is cheating more, a man is always to be blamed when the relationship is failing, but when the relationship is going on and working very fine, the woman will take all the praises.

Both men and women are equally capable of cheating and its not correct to say that only men cheat every time. Relationship is very sensitive when its between a men and women thats why its responsibility of both of them to protect the integrity of that relationship otherwise it won't last long. Cheating is eventually someone's own choice and can't be linked with any specific gender. It may be because of factors like no compatibility or equation among partners but linking it to their lineage is totally baseless.

[DYOR+BTC]

This issue of cheating is becoming more stronger on daily basis but I think something needs to be made clear and so we will know our next line of action.  In marriage i believe male has no limitation on getting involved in a different relationship that is why they the teaching of polygamy is taught but the limitation is more functional for women. For me i don't have anything to say about men having an external affair because its their nature but its not so for women because they are meant to remain submissive but if by chance wish to do so, it is very wrong.

[IDRIS22]

Does a cheating woman develop the habit of cheating while in the husband house due uncertainty that she might need and the husband is not capable of providing of or is in their nature to cheat or cheating runs in their family lineage because some times it marvel me to see that a married woman will just decide her own to cheat on her husband for know reason to hold on to  and before know it, a marriage that is not even a year, she will come up  with the idea of divorcing her husband.

When i brought this discussion among my colleagues, so many came with allot of supporting opinions that, woman cheating habit because it runs in the family lineage and why most of my colleagues who support on the motion that, woman do develop cheating habit while in the husband house are mostly the ladies, so i decede to make it open by creating the threat at once to sees reaction here and for everyone to learn too.

There is no such thing as habit that runs in the family. Habit are developed due to a lot of factors which include environmental and peer group. A woman that is sane and matured decide to become a cheat due her personal reasons and what she wants from life, her behavior does not generally makes it a generational thing. I think is time we stop blaming families for the sin of a member of that family.

[Nasdel4]

It's not necessarily a fact that cheating should be a trait that runs in the lineage, it's probably something a girl child grows up noticing from others older than her while growing up. If the mom cheats and she gave birth to three girls, if the first daughter notices her mom doing it and eventually get to the age of dating she might not want to stay with one man. If the second daughter sees that in the first daughter, she might follow suit. Same goes to the last daughter. It's a character that is learned or imitated consciously or unconsciously so it's definitely a behavioural patterns. If a girl is brought up in a good family and she's taught morals, I believe for the sake of those morals she will likely make better choices even when it comes to not cheating on her partner.

[Swordsoffreedom]

This issue of cheating is becoming more stronger on daily basis but I think something needs to be made clear and so we will know our next line of action.  In marriage i believe male has no limitation on getting involved in a different relationship that is why they the teaching of polygamy is taught but the limitation is more functional for women. For me i don't have anything to say about men having an external affair because its their nature but its not so for women because they are meant to remain submissive but if by chance wish to do so, it is very wrong.

From what I have researched, there are still quite a few countries and cultures practicing polygamy. No wonder some people think its normal for men to cheat while seeing it as disgusting when women do the same. But you know what? In modern society, that double standard doesnt fly anymore. Men and women are equal, cheating is cheating, and its trash behavior either way.

Second, I do not think cheating and polygamy are the same thing. Polygamy is a form of relationship that the people involved agree to, while cheating usually mean breaking the trust and commitment in a marriage.

And lastly, dont force your way of thinking onto everyone else. Seem like only you and one other guy here think cheating is just part of men's nature. Not every man is that shitty.

[FrankoKool]

This issue of cheating is becoming more stronger on daily basis but I think something needs to be made clear and so we will know our next line of action.  In marriage i believe male has no limitation on getting involved in a different relationship that is why they the teaching of polygamy is taught but the limitation is more functional for women. For me i don't have anything to say about men having an external affair because its their nature but its not so for women because they are meant to remain submissive but if by chance wish to do so, it is very wrong.

From what I have researched, there are still quite a few countries and cultures practicing polygamy. No wonder some people think its normal for men to cheat while seeing it as disgusting when women do the same. But you know what? In modern society, that double standard doesnt fly anymore. Men and women are equal, cheating is cheating, and its trash behavior either way.

Second, I do not think cheating and polygamy are the same thing. Polygamy is a form of relationship that the people involved agree to, while cheating usually mean breaking the trust and commitment in a marriage.

And lastly, dont force your way of thinking onto everyone else. Seem like only you and one other guy here think cheating is just part of men's nature. Not every man is that shitty.

You just said my mind sir. Cheating is cheating and theirs no other way to defend it, respect is what we owe for one another, every relationship deserves transparency, commitment, value and respect, you don't expect a woman not to cheat while you as the man does.
Polygamy is an understanding between family in some situation maybe the first wife couldn't give birth to a male child and in agreement they decided to marry another for that purpose and that's polygamy not cheating.
Cheating is not a family thing, it's a way of life some people choose to live,some call it fun for the men while the ladies see it as way of making money.

[kingstep]

As long as the man is a faithful partner, Cheating is a choice and neither a product of an habit that runs in the family nor a one that comes just because either of the partner isn't capable of satisfying the other. if you have never been someone that cheats while unmarried, if issues comes up in your marriage, you will find an alternative means of resolving those issues other than resorting to giving yourself out as a married person.

In most part of the world, the highest form of unfaithfulness is cheating and even though after cheating and eventually a party might find it out and still forgive in some cases, it leaves a scar that last and that is capable of destroying most homes. the only point where the home comes in is that the lady might come from a broken home and so does not have the right examples and people to look up to as good guide. but even at that, it takes a lot to cheat on a partner and i will still hold the view that cheating is a matter of choice and not always a circumstantial thing.
 

[Dunamisx]

There is nothing like hereditary in character, everyone has the ability to choose the path at which they want to follow, people have their own decision to take and will also know what is best for them to do without anyone telling them since they are no longer children than it direction, everyone feels more comfortable to do evil than good, when you discover someone doing wickedness, something that already comes from their mind to do it.

[JoyceBTC]

This issue of cheating is becoming more stronger on daily basis but I think something needs to be made clear and so we will know our next line of action.  In marriage i believe male has no limitation on getting involved in a different relationship that is why they the teaching of polygamy is taught but the limitation is more functional for women. For me i don't have anything to say about men having an external affair because its their nature but its not so for women because they are meant to remain submissive but if by chance wish to do so, it is very wrong.

From what I have researched, there are still quite a few countries and cultures practicing polygamy. No wonder some people think its normal for men to cheat while seeing it as disgusting when women do the same. But you know what? In modern society, that double standard doesnt fly anymore. Men and women are equal, cheating is cheating, and its trash behavior either way.

Second, I do not think cheating and polygamy are the same thing. Polygamy is a form of relationship that the people involved agree to, while cheating usually mean breaking the trust and commitment in a marriage.

And lastly, dont force your way of thinking onto everyone else. Seem like only you and one other guy here think cheating is just part of men's nature. Not every man is that shitty.

You just said my mind sir. Cheating is cheating and theirs no other way to defend it, respect is what we owe for one another, every relationship deserves transparency, commitment, value and respect, you don't expect a woman not to cheat while you as the man does.
Polygamy is an understanding between family in some situation maybe the first wife couldn't give birth to a male child and in agreement they decided to marry another for that purpose and that's polygamy not cheating.
Cheating is not a family thing, it's a way of life some people choose to live,some call it fun for the men while the ladies see it as way of making money.

And it’s so funny when most men use the term they are “polygamous in nature” just to get away and justify unjust things they do, without realizing how much hurt this will bring to their partner or relationship, they just feel they are men and so therefore, they have the right and entitlement to do anything but once it a woman that does that, it becomes an outrageous act.

[Charcol]

I don't think it's that simple that someone in the family has had an affair before, so the next person will have an affair. It can also happen that no one in the family has had an affair before, but someone else has. In many cases, it can happen that someone's solution to relationship problems since childhood is not through talking or separation, but rather by secretly going into another relationship, so that environment can affect his beliefs and behavior.

Sometimes a husband may not be able to meet his wife's physical needs, so he may get involved in an affair. Again, there are some wives who have no intention of getting involved in an affair, but still indulge in this act.