Stake Poker is the most reputable, CoinPoker is great
Stake casino last I checked is fully KYCed since January 2025, which kyc is what the op is not comfortable with.
Most the casino do say that they are not kyc but when there is a huge winning you would see them demanding for additional verification to prove the origin of the funds. Meanwhile, during deposit they wouldn't ask for such verification till when the said gambler wins something big.
IICRC there is a generalized list of casino that is collected by one of the forum user here.