Men are trying

[_act_]

This is how nature is.

In the past in the olden days, men are the ones going to war. Also if another city attack another city, it is the men that will try to fight back. Women and children are taken somewhere like inside a building just for their own survival. The men would have been killed before they can get to the children and women.

[New Judgement]

You'reright, the hearts of men are different from women heart's. Men was created to protect and sacrifice for women, after when God created everything he first made man from his own image the he put the man in charge to take care of all the things he has created. Women are made from finished materials that's why God created them true our ribs he created them to be our assistants in life, be under the men so the men are the one to provide for them.

don't kill your self thinking it is your responsibility to provide for a woman. Women have both hands and legs, they have eyes and brains to provide for themselves. Not everyone believe in that story that was told that men are to provide for women. What are women doing that they can’t provide for themselves? Most men have come under pressure thinking that they are to provide for women. Who is to provide for the men? Marry a woman that see provision as the responsibility of both genders. This will go along way in reducing your stress and make you live longer. So many leverage has been given to women in this world, yet they can respect men as they are supposed to be respected. When it comes to provision they shift it to the men, but when it comes to submission they will tell you gender equality. Are you all not seeing that the other genders have been using men from time immemorial?

[danieldavidd]

Life of a man is not a joke because when men trying to make sacrifices for the benefit of people in this world bringing different ideas men are the ones doing the hardest job taking risks that chances of you surviving less than you not surviving to make sure the universe have a better life

[free-bit.co.in]

Are you all not seeing that the other genders have been using men from time immemorial?

Stop whining and playing the victim. Men have held most of the power, wealth and advantages in society for pretty much all of history. And you are telling me they got used by women for thousands of year?

How exactly did your wife use you? By making you grind at work to feed the family?  Do you even realize who's sacrificing her youth to get pregnant, give birth, do the housework, raise the kids, and even look after your parents while you're out working?

I'd bet you anything that if you could take over all those jobs from your wife, she'd gladly become the breadwinner and support you in return. Question is, do you have the guts to swap places

[Supreme Donvic]

This is how nature is.

In the past in the olden days, men are the ones going to war. Also if another city attack another city, it is the men that will try to fight back. Women and children are taken somewhere like inside a building just for their own survival. The men would have been killed before they can get to the children and women.

You are correct, and not just in the past even in today's world.
When I saw this your write-up I decided to do some research about the population of men and women and I was shocked to see that men are more than women in today's world.
I am still doubting that information I saw online because men are the once always going to war as soldiers in military, so how come women are still not populated than men or is it because they are giving birth to men more than women.

[Doan9269]

Men are having more influential rule to play both in the society and at the family settings, this is where we must see it as a personal decision as a man to be responsible without anyone telling you what to do before you make a move.

This does not also render women irrelevant, but they are only there as a supportive partner to enhance every man experience and efforts in life, no side should be taken for granted and this is why I got the men and women should have a sense of being responsible.

[Mayor of ogba]

Men are having more influential rule to play both in the society and at the family settings, this is where we must see it as a personal decision as a man to be responsible without anyone telling you what to do before you make a move.

This does not also render women irrelevant, but they are only there as a supportive partner to enhance every man experience and efforts in life, no side should be taken for granted and this is why I got the men and women should have a sense of being responsible.

If being responsible is by sacrificing my life so that women can live I rather remain nonchalant for the rest of my life so that I can live long. Men seeing women as a supportive partner is the reason why women hardly support their family even when they have the money of doing that, and this act has made a lot of men to lost their lives. I think women should be seen more than a partner, they should contribute 30 to 40 percent of the growth of their family so that men can live longer.

[Shineup]

Are you all not seeing that the other genders have been using men from time immemorial?

Stop whining and playing the victim. Men have held most of the power, wealth and advantages in society for pretty much all of history. And you are telling me they got used by women for thousands of year?

How exactly did your wife use you? By making you grind at work to feed the family?  Do you even realize who's sacrificing her youth to get pregnant, give birth, do the housework, raise the kids, and even look after your parents while you're out working?

I'd bet you anything that if you could take over all those jobs from your wife, she'd gladly become the breadwinner and support you in return. Question is, do you have the guts to swap places

Is really funny how the question sounds lol, things are ok the way they are and am not complaining at all I don't know about others and at such I wouldn't dare or have the guts to swap places with the women, the gender go through a lot in their way aside all that they seemly do at home, being a woman comes with it's own responsibilities and the same as that of the man and I can't for sure that one is better than the other instead they are unique in their ways without being sentimental.

[Smack That Ace]

I think women should be seen more than a partner, they should contribute 30 to 40 percent of the growth of their family so that men can live longer.

Contributing to a family is not just about money. It also mean putting in the time to take care of house and raise the kid. So just because woman earn less because she spend time looking after the children does not mean she's contributing any less to the family.

Don't take such a one sided view of it, as if money were the only contribution that mattered and unpaid work counted for nothing. And don't slap some arbitrary percentage on women as if family responsibilities were just a bill to split.

[Mr Reporter]

If being responsible is by sacrificing my life so that women can live I rather remain nonchalant for the rest of my life so that I can live long. Men seeing women as a supportive partner is the reason why women hardly support their family even when they have the money of doing that, and this act has made a lot of men to lost their lives. I think women should be seen more than a partner, they should contribute 30 to 40 percent of the growth of their family so that men can live longer.

Honestly brother I think I find truth in what you have said, when I was a kid I have watched how men pass through hell a because they want to give their family the best life, don’t get me wrong and not saying it very wrong, but this generation has finally turned everything to the men, men dying earlier is a real data in Nigeria here and if am correct globally, why this mostly happened is because even the society has not been fair on the men, society has really taught men that responsible means carrying everything thing alone, they make look like don't complain, sacrifice your health, sacrifice your sleep, pay all bills even when you are drowning. And the honest truth is that the pressure of that kills…..

For many years now I have watched my father take most of the responsibility in my family house back then, and now am also taking such responsibility too, which kills a lot…

So even in this your statement when you said I’d rather remain nonchalant than sacrifice my life for women I really see no harm in that,

See women as supporters is not a bad idea or a big problem, but the problem is seeing supportive as an optional, sometimes I would ask if partners should mean team then why do same women mix this up for us men….?

[HelliumZ]

This is not only the case of Titanic but if there is a shipwreck like Titanic then in this case also you will see that most of the men will die. The tendency of self-sacrifice is observed most among men especially if you pay attention to the family area you will see that men try to keep their wives happy by working hard in their lives. Men are naturally born with such qualities where they work tirelessly from sunrise to sunset to keep their beloved wife or girlfriend happy.

[ASloveapg]

This is not only the case of Titanic but if there is a shipwreck like Titanic then in this case also you will see that most of the men will die. The tendency of self-sacrifice is observed most among men especially if you pay attention to the family area you will see that men try to keep their wives happy by working hard in their lives. Men are naturally born with such qualities where they work tirelessly from sunrise to sunset to keep their beloved wife or girlfriend happy.

The ability to sacrifice, to make sacrifices, to keep the family happy by suffering himself, to buy the things he likes for his loved ones without spending anything himself, these are only found in men in 95% of cases. Men express their love more by fulfilling their responsibilities and making silent sacrifices than by expressing it verbally. To ensure that the loved ones are well, the family is safe, and that no kind of lack causes any suffering in the life of a family and loved ones, a man forgets his own desires, forgets his own well-being and his own feelings, and a man finds his happiness through the happiness of his family and loved ones.
Such tireless work, sacrifices, can a woman actually do these? Not everyone is the same and there are may some such woman exist, but most women i think 98% woman in "today's era" will never be able to do these.

[Findingnemo]

What is the point of taking an incident that is 100 years old? Because it is not the same now and I doubt men would act the same way if something happened now.

Anyway, women wanted equality so the survival rate should be 50/50 if we want to get there.

[uneng]

What is the point of taking an incident that is 100 years old? Because it is not the same now and I doubt men would act the same way if something happened now.

Anyway, women wanted equality so the survival rate should be 50/50 if we want to get there.

That is not the kind of information you see available frequently these days. The archetype of the protector and loyal men has been erased from the collective imaginary. The new generations were taught to see men as aggressive, abusive, violent and deceptive.

Naturally, men nowadays won't act the same way they did in previous centuries. First, because society doesn't encourage that kind of behavior, and second, because they didn't have role models to follow, unlike the generations of their fathers and grandfathers.

[Alonso_]

I just saw this on YouTube, I used AI to confirm it and it is true. See the percentage of men that died in Titanic compared to the percentage of women that died.



https://titanicsurvivors.com/survivors/titanic-survival-rate/?utm_source=chatgpt.com

Approximately 80% of men die but 75% of women survived.

It is very clear that the man sacrificed for the women not to died. If everybody should stay on their own, I do not think 5% of women will survive the bad incident.

That is what love can do, if most men in that ship was only interested in saving themselves I think we would have a situation where most men can save themselves, I don’t really blame men for caring more to save women because I think men loves truly, but I doubt if women truly loves to the point of saving a man’s life or sacrificing there life for mean, I have never heard were they said a woman saved a man’s life or died for a man, majority of the men in that ship that died are lovers, and I can’t imagine myself dying for a woman, love would definitely get men killed and men doesn’t listen when it has to do with love, men should be careful with love.

[Apex_1]

I have also thought of this scenario before, the sacrifices men gives especially in their various family just to make everyone in the family is happy and okay is something I just can't explain. I remember there was a time when my dad was going through some difficult challenges in his life were we hardly see one square meal to eat. My dad always make some difficult sacrifices and risk just to make sure that I, my other siblings and my mom see food to eat everyday and sometimes he will go to bed hungry risking his life just to make sure that the food available at that moment is enough for us in the house to eat.

Truly men are really trying for the sacrifices they make in some difficult situations just to make sure that everyone around them is safe and happy not minding them risking their various lifes for others to survive.

[Ab de villiers]

Contributing to a family is not just about money. It also mean putting in the time to take care of house and raise the kid. So just because woman earn less because she spend time looking after the children does not mean she's contributing any less to the family.

Don't take such a one sided view of it, as if money were the only contribution that mattered and unpaid work counted for nothing. And don't slap some arbitrary percentage on women as if family responsibilities were just a bill to split.

Your point is valid, we should not underestimate the value or hardwork of women, both usually contribute to raising the family well. Both make sacrifices but nature of their sacrifices is different. We cannot say that one is superior than the other or we cannot compare their contribution monetey wise. Do not associate it only with one gender, basically it is important to understand each person's duties within the family. But yes there are few facts we should acknowledge. Like women have choice to leave their work or take some break from financial duties. But man do not have that choice even if they need a break because they have to fulfil the responsibility at any cost. Same as women cannot take break from their duties of household taking care. Both are usually struggle in under their circumstances but appealing part is that both should cooperate with each others with out letting down one another.

[Princess Leah]

Same story has kept me thinking how men sacrifice themself just for the other Gander to have alife yet they see them like they haven't done enough



The name man really hold alot of responsibility most times I feel men are trying so hard just to die sooner

 Gender aside, it's only a bad and ungrateful person that would appreciate the help rendered to them by someone. Men have responsibility of taking care of their spouse and family at large but it's the woman duty to show care and support to encourage her man to do better.

 The roles those men played to keep their spouse safe won't go in vain, maybe some of them need to safe their spouse so she could give proper care to his kids. Although some women can be very ungrateful but generalising that all women are ungrateful is not tru, there are good women who appreciate the effort of their spouses.

[Rockson1]

Men are forever the most kind and selfless creatures anyone can think of. A man is born into believing that a woman's best interests should come first at all time even if it means giving his life. When I watched this movie and got to the point of evacuation, I realised what real sacrifices look like. The men were carefully saving all the ladies until the end when they had to go into the deep sea and couldn't survive. It's painful but life has remained like that. Even until tomorrow, a man is always ready to die for his wife and family, a love that the women would never give to men.

When they tell you to be a gentleman, it means displeasing your self to please a woman and the world sees it as courtesy. But still, men are not celebrated, everything about man is hard and hard, death and death just to save the world always.

You can say that again bro, men are good, but when it come emergency situation do you think that some sacrifices are worth it, this movie keeps reading in my head those days I watch it, I stoped watching it, cause it reminds me some memories that I need to delete totally, do you know that if it were to be in this era, I don't think such level of sacrifice would've been made by men, I do not think that some women actually need to be sacrificed for, I know a man will always be a man, we want to always got our ladies back, to which is not bad, but do this gender that we want to die for measure up the same way men do, I don't want to sound selfish, maybe I end it here.

[Swordsoffreedom]

That is what love can do, if most men in that ship was only interested in saving themselves I think we would have a situation where most men can save themselves, I don’t really blame men for caring more to save women because I think men loves truly, but I doubt if women truly loves to the point of saving a man’s life or sacrificing there life for mean, I have never heard were they said a woman saved a man’s life or died for a man, majority of the men in that ship that died are lovers, and I can’t imagine myself dying for a woman, love would definitely get men killed and men doesn’t listen when it has to do with love, men should be careful with love.

Seriously? Have you ever watched movie or documentary about Titanic?

Right in Titanic story. There was a woman named Ida Straus who refused to get on a lifeboat just to stay behind with her husband, Isidor Straus. She even gaveup her chance to survive so her maid, Ellen Bird. According to later account, Isidor's body was found, but Ida's never was.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ida_Straus

There are plenty of stories out there of women sacrificing themselves for men, for the people they love, for their families. Just because you have never heard of them doesn't mean they do not exist. Stop looking at the world through such a narrow lens and assuming only men are capable of true love. Goodness and sacrifice aren't measured by gender.