It is true, in that case where both yours and his posts were deleted (I reported them, but probably there were more who are also annoyed AF with that drama) he started it, but you joined in that offtopic. In the end, it doesn't really matter who started when you are both derailing the thread from its initial purpose.
I also reported those posts for off topic. I’m sure there were several of us who did so, lending further weight to the report.
If you consider his posts on-topic, then my replies to his posts are supposed to be on-topic as well. If he was addressing the main topic, so am I. The Moderators are deleting my replies to his posts while his posts are still there. I feel like they are just telling me to shut up. If you delete my posts because it was off-topic, then how are his posts addressing the main topic?
Right, but there are cases, like the one I mentioned, where both of your posts were deleted for being off-topic. Now you have this one where your post was deleted but his wasn’t, because they weren’t sure or whatever.
What’s untrue is what you’re suggesting in the title. The moderators aren’t unfair; if any of them were, they wouldn’t last long. You’re making a bigger deal out of it than it is.