Where exactly do you think we are getting it all wrong be it as a person or a country as a whole, is it our leadership, is it corruption or our attitude as so called citizens?
If the right system were available, then you can say that by being honest and hardworking, you can push yourself to the top by mere doing the right. ideally, the natural consequence of being hard working and honest is that you get good result but when you are in a faulty system, you get to experience some problem even when you are an honest person.
Take for instance our schooling system. most young guys goes into the higher institution with hopes and plans to be serious and intentional about their lives but unfortunately, when they come to discover that the system is already dead, all the zeal and passion dies instantly. when you finish and discover that what you are coming out with is just paper with zero experience and that you are meant to compete against those that are more connected that you are and that have stayed long on the field, it is just enough to kill every motivation that you have and push you to taking a route you never see yourself in.
In the end, it still takes you back to the government who have failed to create the right system for the honest and hardworking guys thereby encouraging people to only follow short cut that doesn't help any nation.