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Consider this an AMA but for bitcointalk, not reddit.  I will answer any questions truthfully, just please be respectful, or I will end the thread.  This should be a good way to get to know people like me, and maybe for me to help myself as well.

So lets start.  Ask me anything about being a sex addict.


 

Is it sore?

It can be.  I guess it depends, you need to be a little more elaborate in your question.

Are you frequently worried about your health, or are you cautious with your partners?

OK. Well I assumed you're a man but let me know otherwise.

I guess being a sex addict involves a lot of masturbation since you may have trouble satisfying your addiction with partners even if you're very confident/lucky. From my experience (when I was a young man), masturbating a lot makes your penis very sore. I guess I wondered how you deal with this.

I also wonder how one becomes a sex addict. You obviously have a high sex drive, but an addiction is an affliction of the mind; an obsession. So, what led you to this?

I an constantly worried. I am not very cautious, and I need to be. I have been extremely lucky thus far to have avoided all the main stds.  I have had a few, but have been able to them up.

I generally masturbate one to two times a day. I also am pretty good at finding new partners on a regular basis. I don't get sore often from masturbation, but it happens occasionally. It doesn't stop me from doing it or skipping a day though.

I started late sexually, at about 17 years old. I had very low confidence in myself, but once I started having sex, everything seemed better. I am hung well, so I think that helped me to get confident fast.

It is very much an obsession. It's not even about the sexual release, it's more about getting a new partner as often as possible. I have been with some very hot women, but after a few times, I would rather find someone new, even if they were terrible looking, than to have sex with the great looking girl. It's a need to get something different.  

Do you need the constant flow of new women to prove something to yourself?

I think deep down, yes. I feel like crap afterwards usually.  But it's almost like a drug.

Yes any addiction will make you feel like crap because they don't really give you what you need and you often feel shame at the depths you've gone to in pursuit of an illusion.

What age group are you in?

Hvae you seen the movie Don Jon? It has a very good message. (not that a movie can change your life or anything)

I have not seen that movie, but I do have it downloaded. I'll watch it this week.

My age range is 25-35

That age group was very turbulent for me too (in other ways). Things get better after 40 for many people as their minds settle down.

Great topic and thanks for your honesty. I may be back later :)

Do you have thin (skinny) wrists and forearms ? Like at the wrists, basically all bone so there's no adding mass.

Strangely, yes

Do you watch porn? If yes, your fav categories? :D

Almost nonstop unless working.  Gangbang, and interracial mostly.  Must have a facial in it for me to watch it generally, preferably more than one.

Do you think it's genetic. Is it a big turn off for women any experience like that. Have you tried to bulk them with exercises.
Lastly, is it embarrassing to have arms like that, like are you ashamed of walking in tea s.

Thank you, look forward to it.

I am not really sure how this is related.  I will answer this, but after this question, if you have no serious questions related the topic, please refrain from asking.

Is it genetic, yes, everyone in my family is slim.  Working out does not bulk me up.  It is not embarrassing, and generally women find me attractive, or they lie to me.  However, I have never had a problem getting the ladies. 

What is it you're trying to prove to yourself?

I really do not know.  I wish I did.

I have an awesome family, but I cannot seem to control this part of my life. 

You mentioned earlier that as a youth, you had very low confidence. I wonder how you thought about yourself.

Then you discovered sex and it made you feel good about yourself. I'd imagine that could be very addicting. Though ultimately futile and destructive.

How do you view women in general? Have you ever had a meaningful relationship with one?

I think my self confidence as a youth was a factor.  I was very shy, and had a hard time talking to people in general.

I view women more as objects than people, honestly.  I have had relationships, but have cheated each and every time.  My relationships are generally not great, I used to have major jealously issues, but that has stopped as of late. 

I've read recently that some scientists discovered people who watch a lot of porn have smaller brains than others, because the part responsible for motivation doesn't develop. You can look it up online.
What's your opinion?

Is there a huge difference in quality between masturbation vs sex? Does sex satisfy your addiction more than just masturbation?

I am pretty intelligent, I work in a field where I have to be pretty bright.  My opinion is that its not a smaller brain capacity, but it may be that the person who watches a lot of porn is nonstop thinking about porn, as opposed to other things.

I used to have problems with jealousy too. It stemmed from my belief that everyone was better than me. So they could come along and take her from me any time they desired.
I also went through addictions trying to blot out this hideous self-hatred. But of course this just creates a huge aversion in your mind, for your mind (or its contents). In the end things only started to improve when I began to face my fears.

It's amazing how quickly fears disappear when you look at them directly.

I guess it's easier for you to have meaningless sexual encounters than go through the hard work of having a proper relationship and all the fear that entails?
But you're giving up so much to your fear :/




Have you thought about getting some help to learn how to deal with stuff?

I get more pleasure at the thought of sexing a new woman.  The actual process though, is about the same. 

I want to stop, I am looking into getting help professionally with this, actually.

Good. I'm sure you won't regret it.

I know I won't.  As soon as I have the funds to see a professional, I will be going. 

This topic is really interesting to read. I have some more questions.
Have you ever dated another sex addict?
What if you met a woman who likes it as much as you do? Could you stop chasing other women and just have fun with her?

I currently am meeting a woman like me, but its still not enough, as I tire of seeing the same person all of the time.  She does anything I ask or want, no limits.  She sees a lot of men herself, and we have done group things together. 

However, I am not happy with just her.  Even knowing I can do anything I want with her, at any time, it still doesn't fill my need or desire. 

Could you have a meaningful relationship with someone and agree to have other sexual partners? Monogamy isn’t for everyone (excuse the pun).

I mean, apart from the addiction, you may just have a very high sexual drive.

That might work.  In the past though, even when I was with someone, it was more of the thrill of someone new, and I would completely lose interest in the person I was with, regardless of how much I was attracted to her.

Do you find yourself deceiving new women you meet? As in telling them you're interested in a relationship and not just sex.

Where do you meet most of these new women you're constantly pursuing?

Do you think that if you were less hung you would also have less interest in sex with new partners constantly? Is part of your motivation in effect 'showing off' to all these new women?

Hey op my question's for you:

Have you had any girl partner's that where also interested in bitcoins?
Are you rich?
How do you pickup girls?

Thanks

Just few questions I have for now
1 How old are you?
2 If you maintained the count would you like to tell how many sex encountered you are indulged into till date. [approx if not totally accurate]
3. At what age you had your fist sex encounter.

Haven't you read the topic? He said he was 17.

There are two other questions ..!
There are so many stupid question asked in the thread , so its better to ask question thats answer you want to get I don't want to read all of them because  many of them are totally stupid according to me..! You might call these stupid too , but its your opinion  like mine..!

Are you a sex addict from having too much sex? or just masturbation.

Do you want to change or are you happy with it?

These have both been answered if you care to read the thread.

Yes. I'm up front about being very sexual, but I do pay like I want a relationship. I'm a very smooth talker, and can convince most people to do most anything.

I meet the majority online. Different social media sites. A few dating sites.

I think being well endowed is a major reason, I do like to show off.

I have not met a single female who knew what bitciin were.

I am not rich, far from it. I work and live paycheck to paycheck.

Online, or through work/meeting people at stores, gas stations, through friends.

I am between 25-35.  I prefer not to name exact age, as I want tostay annon.

I can't remember all the girls names. I tried to make a  list, and it got really hard.  It's easier for me to remember the places I had sex, as opposed to names. I used to also keep a desperate phone with the numbers of all the girls I've slept with, and would randomly call one up when I needed someone. Surprisingly most would agree to hook up again, regardless of tthem knowing by then that all I wanted was to have sex, and regardless if they had a boyfriend or hhusband.

Most accurate count I can come up with is around 150. That's not an exaggeration. It may be a low count also.

I was 17 when I first had sex. I Exposed to sexual stuff at a young age though.

most people here are sex addicts. if you stop ejaculating for 7 days, you would probably go nuts.

Both, but my problem is more that I will become obsessed with finding a new wwoman every night to sleep with. It controls how I plan my days.  

If you like sex and can't live without It and you also love to meet new girls and have sex with them, you could try being a gigolo (male prostitute), why not..  How would you rate your look out of 10?

It seems to me that perfectly would fit your needs and plus you would even earn a living out of It?

I want to change because I have a family, and obviously this cuts into my ability to have a fulfilling relationship. I need professional help, but cannot afford it at this time. I am not happy with it at all, but it's like a drug addition, I can't control it. The funny thing is, drugs are not addicting in any way to me. I've tried them all, and don't like any of them. Sex is literally my drug of choice.

Also sorry guys for the show responses. I am limited to posting every six minutes, and don't know how to multi quote. If some one wants to pm me how to multiple that would be welcomed.

Oh sorry If you have family than you should decide if you want to get ride of your addiction or you want to stay with your family because It's really bad to fool yourself just listen to your heart what do you want in your life. Addiction like these are almost impossible to lose. If you like It at early age that means no one influence you do have so much sex , maybe It's just genetic. You just have to live with It or pull up your self and just don't do any mroe sex even If It will feel really bad and see how It goes , maybe after several months you will not need It anymore? Just masturbate and dont do anything more and after masturbation you should lose the want of sex.

I strongly disagree with this.  Thats like saying most people are drug addicts, because they like to smoke weed.  An addict is completely different than someone who can control their urges.

The longest I have gone without sex and/or masturbation in the last 10 years is probably 36 hours. 

I have done this. I also am able to convince the women I sleep with to do just about anything for me, money wise, etc.  I have stopped using women for money though long ago. 

I would rate myself 6/10.  Most the women I am with though would rate me higher I think, since I dont have a problem really getting most any of them.

Yeah there's a big difference between a sex addict and not ejaculating for a while. It's not the orgasm that the sex addict craves, it's the actual sex with new women(or men in some cases).

Which brings up another question, have you ever met a woman who you thought was a sex addict as well?

never met a women EVER who wanted it.  it's a sensitive subject for a sensitive ego, like yours.

Ha.  I am not interested in having a baby with someone I am not with.  I've been lucky that I dont have kids from a random person (that I know about, a lot of these girls don't even know my name).  As of the last few years, I have been getting more into not finishing in a woman, and more into finishing places that a lot of women find degrading.  Face, ass, etc.

So If you liked sex, different women and you even got payed for It, why you stopped doing It?

As stated before, I am currently seeing a woman who is a sex addict as well. 

The sex with new women is definitely the thrill.  I have received oral from a man before, as well, although I do not consider myself bi or gay.  To me, it was just another way to get a release.

I didn't feel right doing it, and honestly it is hard for a man to find a woman willingly to openly pay for sex/time with a man, regardless of what you see on TV/Movies. 

When I was doing that, 95% of the people who responded were men, the other 3% were fake bots.  Maybe 2% were actual women.

Wow you surprise me , only 36 hours.. So If you had sex even with a man and enjoyed It, then probably It's all about excitement for you, but If man excited you I would say you could be bi, because straight guys just wouldn't do that probably. And why would you want "another sex addict" I don't think there is any difference between sex addict who is having sex and  normal horny people who wants sex, or you want to have sex addict to be couple with?

I think I misunderstood you earlier when you mentioned your family. Just to be clear, you have a wife/gf and child?



This is interesting, especially coupled with what you said about seeing women as objects. There seems to be some strong misogyny in your relationship to women. Do you agree with that? If so, any idea where that may originate?


p.s. the only way I know how to multi-quote here is to open 2 tabs so I can copy-paste into the reply box.

I did not enjoy the man part, especially right after.  Was very awkward.

And I didnt seek out another sex addict, she just happened to be one.  I could care less about the person I am sleeping with's status, etc.

Ok, so you have family and kids, and you are addicted to sex? What things do you enjoy in your life without sex and Is there any moments when you do not think about sex? And with the addict part, you 100% sure you want to lose your addiction or you are not sure?

Yes, I have a significant other, and a child with her.  She knows I have an issue, but not the full extent.  

I think I agree with the misogyny.  It stems from not being popular in school, and having a hard time making friends.  Now I feel like I can take revenge on women because of it.  I have also sought out people who I did not get along with in school, and seduced their wives/gfs.  



I am sure I want to stop.  200%

I am into sports pretty heavily in life. But sex outweighs all, specifically with random new people.

Ok so you had sex with 150+ women..! thats a huge number and I read your early posts on this thread where you said you are not much cautious about your safety during sex.... I must say " Not a good choice "

Isn't this ask me anything thread , and you claimed you'll answer everything honestly


Not so surprised because that exactly what they wanted too :) you are not the only sex addict on this planet.

I will answer honestly but I will not reveal info that may reveal who I am.  If you can't handle that, that is your problem.  You may stop reading if thats an issue.

With what things you are unhappy in your life without sex? Do you have any dreams? And are you self confident or you have communicating problems. Or what problems you have without sex or are unhappy with and would like to change?

it's not sex he's worrying about.  it's with random people.  he's obviously the Devil

Yes I can understand that. Being unpopular in school  is very dis-empowering. Probably more so from girls. It also explains why you're unconcerned about lying to them to get what you want. You might even enjoy that aspect? It sounds like to some extent this is all about regaining your power as a person/ego.

I have similar tendencies (misogyny) myself which I've only recently realised the full extent of. It's kind of sad really; to have such a negative relationship to half the human race :/

 ;D

If talking about random people, I again see big money there. You could make porn videos where you find random person on the street and offer him sex for $5k and he will likely accept It. You put those videos on porn sites and you make very good money, but that's not the point probably.  :P

I am still struggling with self esteem, but sex fixes that, at least during it.  I think knowing that I can still get a woman to sleep with me makes me feel awesome, then after I feel like crap because I know the person I am with I love, and I am destroying my relationship.


Obviously   ::)


I do enjoy the aspect of being able to say whatever I need to say to get a woman to get sexual.  It's almost a pride thing, that I am able to do this. 


I have been asked why I didnt get into porn by many partners.  Until a few years ago, I thought I was average, since watching porn will get you a misguided image of what average is.  I was under the impression that when I was told I was very large, it was just a lie.  I now know that I am well above average. 

Doing porn for men is not a well paying job, unless you are doing gay porn.  I am not willing to go that far, as of yet. 

are u on a drug like Adderall or dexedrine?  cause i know those drugs gave me the evil sex having powers meth users have.

No, I am not on any type of drug, or prescription drug, at all.

Up all night tonight, bump for questions.

Why are you confessing on a forum?

Why do people post in IAMA on reddit?  Because I can talk annon here, and it is interesting.

Do you easily become angry or scream/argue with those you care about?

I used to.  I am very laid back now, and my quality of life and stress level has went down significantly since.

Have you ever been checked by a doctor for bipolar/compulsive/obsessive disorders? Do you take drugs of any kind?

LOL at this.

I am bi polar, I do not take meds.

If you have been to a doctor that claims you are bipolar this is good but not good if this is a self diagnosis. See a doctor that can tell you the severity of the problem because bipolar/compulsive/obsessive disorders have ranges of severity and they can manifest with the improper label of sexual addiction. Medications can help you to control your impulses when the level of the disorder is severe.

That is some really good insight, I will for sure look into that.  I never thought that this may be a major part of my problem.

Do you sometimes stick your dick in the cardboard toilet paper roll like I do pretending it's a tight pussy while masturbating?

I'll save my next question concerning the use of an electric can opener once I read your reply to the above.

I went to a palm reader the other day, and upon her seeing the calluses on my palms, she immediately informed me that I was bipolar. Don't remember anything else she said, for the rest of the time I was there, the only thing on my mind was wanting to fuck her dog. And, she didn't even have a dog, but I was able to read her mind and was aware that she was going to get one.

No.

No to electric can opener either.

However, I appreciate the tip you gave me via PM about the blender, the bag of pistacio's, the aloe plant, and the 2x4.  Tried it, worked awesome. :)

you should be careful with sex addiction many have died as a result of sexually transmitted diseases  ;D

In case anybody tries this, it's the red pistachios we're in reference to - for obvious reasons.  ;)

What's your condom use pattern like? Do you always use them or are there times when you just say 'fuck it'?

How far have you lowered your standards in order to find a new partner to have sex with? Do you get so desperate that you'll take any girl that is willing?

You made Jesus cry.

I have lowered my standards very very low, just to get new pussy.  I would literally leave a 9/10 girl, to mess with a 2/10 girl, just because it was new.


I rarely use condoms, and have been lucky thus far.

What do you do to make the girl ,
want to sex with you ?  ???
     ::)

I am a very good talker.  I have never had any issue getting people to do what I want, when it comes to sales or sexually.

I have read everything, it is very interesting, I hope it will help you get rid of this addiction so you can save your relationship, your family and yourself

I will ask a few questions myself :
-Did you think about going to SAA (Sexaholics Anonymous) meetings?
-What has been your best sexual experience recently or ever?
-How is the se.x with your wife/gf?

I have seen Thanks for Sharing a few months ago and it seems to relate a part of the se.x addiction problem very accurately

Do you know the number of girls you fucked? If yes say it please!

RBP (read before posting) ;)

RBP (read before posting) ;)

I couldn't wait until I could find that info and saw he was online so i just asked my question!

so let's pretend you are 25 ... this means you changed partners once every 20 days ... that is normal mate!

That is not a sex addict! A sex addict is a person who is having sex 5 days without getting out of the house!

And believe me I've meet a girl like that!

You are more like in a crisis ... normally men get there at around 35-40 when they try to fuck as many girls as possible before they die!

How long was the duration of your best sexathon?

Posting from phone, I'll answer the new questions shortly.

Did you get your hands on a computer?

I hope you still want to answer questions if it helps you

I hope he will say he just finished having sex now! And that he had sex for more than 3 days without stopping!

Who knows? Let's hope he is not AOK because he is having some troubles

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Warning: Trade with extreme caution!" :https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=664916.0;topicseen Very weird, the thread was interesting

My friend once told me that once she got so frustrated with the school nurse because he/she made her put on and remove her clothes all the time and go to another room so finally she just walked to the next on her underwear and she walked by a window and inside there was a convention for sex addicts. (I think this was in grade school)
I just wanted to ask what was going on in their minds? And if this was in anyway out of line I'm sorry cause I can't really tell..

I wonder what actually constitutes a sex addict.  I have a fairly high sexual drive as well but only have 1 partner.  Can I call myself a sex addict in this scenario?

That was confusing


Probably not but you may have some aspects of your life that ressembles those of a se.x addict; it is an addiction when it fuck.ed up your life and your well being