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Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Success stories will always be different from the perspective of the listeners.
Yes, it can be positive or negative but if your purpose is to educate and inspire then just stay positive and your listener might still find a good lesson on your story. Though if the addicted gambler gets inspire to gamble more, i believe the problem is still with him and not yours anymore as your intention is clean and your purpose is positive.

In all aspects of life, it's generally advised not to overshare about your life, especially if it's something that has to do with money, and that includes how much money you've earned or lost through gambling. That also includes lottery tickets and anything similar that distributes large amounts of money. It's not about who is triggered by your success story; social media is filled with so-called entrepreneurs that show off their supposed wealth; your story as an individual won't make a difference. If someone is motivated to gamble more because he's addicted, after you post about your winnings, it's not your issue, but one they need to resolve themselves. The internet is filled with success stories; hardly anyone ever posts about failures.

What's happening in your life should stay in your life, despite what the subject is. I'm not fond of oversharing, and delicate issues should only be discussed with people you trust or professionals.

You cant stop people on doing so since we are really that free on doing the things that we do want to do and express or say. It is really just that on someones fault if they would really be taking those words to be that an inspiration for them to move forward. We do know that there would really be those people who do really likes on expressing out their emotions that they have won something
big as part of being that excited on which its their right to do so. Just like on what i had said that you dont have that rights on stopping them on what they would gonna say.
It is really just that you should make yourself that realistic on the things that you are dealing with, we know that in gambling that there would be those people who are really that
lucky and there are ones who arent.

The story had the motivation if the motivation was their in that story,if we consider one story which was repeated one in the gambling site.Nearly eighty percentage of the gamblers was get into the gambling by seeing one of the gambler who made the big winning in the gambling site,even it was the same story for myself.Many gamblers was motivated by another gamblers it similarly to the business entrepreneur was motivated by the big business man.The serious gamblers will earn more money than the usual gamblers who do the gambling with the huge time gap in the gambling site.Plan your game along with the huge savings for the future gambling game.

Only a retarded person will see another gambler success story and would feel motivated to continue gambling blindly. Did you know how much the person has lost and never disclose to the public? I think 100% of the time gamblers post their gambling stories, it's always the good part, nobody share you their journey how they have lost their live savings. If they tell you that they have lost their live savings, will that makes you happy that they lost, it doesn't make sense to me for you try something you might regret later. If you are good, your own day will come and if you don't know much, improve or just quit, life is not that hard.


It's difficult for a gambler to quit especially if they have plenty of debts and money to back but you know what? If a person really want to quit gambling, they will quit and they wouldn't look back. It's just like saying I want to stop dating and cancel a relationship but on sighting your spouse, you developed feelings again and want to give it a trial when you know it's can't work because all the signs are there but you don't want to quit because you think you might not succeed elsewhere if you stop. Gambling isn't different from this analogy.

Don't tell me you want those winners to adjust to that situation. How is that even possible?

You can't dictate what others have to do. If you can't go with the flow, then gambling is not for you.

If you don't find that comfortable, then just ignore those. You can't control someone to brag or show their winnings. Others just feel glad that they won big. It's part of the gambling environment. Aside from that, not everyone will have the same reaction towards those winning stories. Some will be inspired and some will just take it as a bragging rights by the winner.

Thanks for bringing this. I can understand what you are communicating. There is a good reason a gambling site is capable of paying big winning and letting people to know, so that those people that know about it can be motivated to gamble the more. This is just like what's you are also saying. If a gambler is telling people about the big amount of money he won, this will trigger people that he is telling to gamble or to gamble more if the person is already a gambler. Best to keep this to themselves.

We cannot control them at all and sharing your success stories is not a bad thing but maybe, you have to filter out and just share it to anyone who you think can be more inspired by your stories and not to encourage them to gamble more. I get the point here and that addicted gambler should start seeking a professional help so he will not think this way. I’ve heard a lot of good stories and I can say that its really encouraging to gamble more.

Sharing your winning with people around you in a right manner is actually a very good gesture to help motivate people around you as well as make them to enquire more about what to do and how to do it to succeed but because of how bittered the heart of men are, it's now not advisable for people to share their winnings with others as it now resurrects their bad thoughts instead of serving as a motivation to others. So if you ask me, I think it's now better to remain discreet when it comes to your personal winnings in other not to attract bad energy and enmity round yourself.

You cant really stop people on the things that they would say, just like on what others been saying that we do have the full rights on the words that we do tell in public. It is really just that there are people who do really make those words as their inspiration to make themselves do push to play more on gambling and having those kind of reflections towards themselves which is wrong.

You wont really be putting up yourself on such trouble if you are really just that taking those words to be normal and realizing that there are people who are born lucky.
Dont make these winnings to be that your inspiration because if you do then you are really that prone into more losses as you would be finding yourself that desperate
on which we know that this is something that will really pushing you too hard.

We all need to take responsibility for the choices we make.  And yeah, hearing stories of folks winning big at the casino or whatever can be inspirational for some people, but it can also be rough for others battling addiction issues.  However, I do not think it is on us to police what motivates people. Like how is that our responsibility?

Very good advice and just as you said,  every story is either a motivation or course for depression,  taking a none gambler for example,  when you tell them how you use $3 to win $200 within a few hours can motivate them to start gambling without even checking the risk that is involved in gambling and that is why we have to be private as most as we can,  because we don't know who our stories may motivate and how it may motivate them on the long run.

The majority of those you tell you winning to act on it more negatively than positively,  so there is no need to tell anyone about what and how much you win at some point to avoid stirring up some form of negative energy in them at some point in time.

Do they even have to know that you’re into gambling? I have never been the type that shares his win story with people who have seen my face or know me, so it will be difficult for me to sit down and start sharing with others how I predicted that this and that will happens because of my prediction I risked a certain amount of money but luckily for me my prediction was correct.

If you've ever gambled, you should know that success stories don't always serve as motivation because you've seen it for yourself, but just reading through a blog post and seeing how they made thousands of dollars by betting will no longer work on you. I would agree if you said "newbies," but not for veterans! You'd be wasting your time since they know that going back because of what they heard will just result in them losing more money.  Although, some might still be gullible enough to try it again.

I think the main objective here is to choose whose success story you should read and learn from. Unfortunately, there are people who fake their stories for the sake of creating an argument and a discussion with others. But with some, they also have their respective stories that can be both beneficial and informative as they can share their key insights during those times.

In conclusion, success stories are not bad per se; people share them all the time due to the joy of winning a huge amount of money. If you really want to avoid these success stories, then just keep it to yourself- no need to call it out and make a fuss about it.

There are certain rare moments in life that we feel compelled to share with others, mainly when we achieve a victory. I understand your point of view but the issue is not with winners. It's problem gamblers who struggle to control their addiction. If you win and want to celebrate on social media or here in a forum, feel free to do so, as life doesn't always bring success. Why should you worry about others who don't show concern for you? And please don't blame the winners, as they want to share their joy of winning.

Funny story, but it's very very true because just the other day I was with a family friend and he was complaining very bitterly about how he has been losing on gambling and that he has spent alot of money but he failed to understand that you can't actually force your winning to come and this was his case because he actually tells himself that on every new try he is going win and he affirm or assures this act by actually raising his stake and reducing the odds feeling he can actually make it but at the end he always get losses.

So I visited him not long ago and was discussing with a friend about my winning and he immediately felt like he too can achieve this but I cleared him it was all luck because no one can be certain of that win. He immediately deposited some funds and starting interrogation with me on how I played my game and  funny enough after everything the game we played together still ended a loss to him.

I want us to not see everyone who is participating in the gambling like people who is having a challenge from one problem to another, because we have so many people who is in the gambling platform or playing gambling subsequently but they gamble because is part of them and they seems it like entertainment or kind of what they use for reduction of depression or thinking, so not all gamblers that do think whatever they spent in gambling, so let us not label gambling as bad one

I think maybe casinos have thought or planned for this from the beginning, their ability to pay out large amounts of winnings by gamblers is not something that casinos give away for free, or maybe there is another purpose that casinos have planned for. Simply put and the logic is that gambling winnings come in the form of money and the fact is that everyone wants money, so when one person wins and the casino pays them then we cannot simply say that the casino lost some of their budget to give to the winner, but the fact is that there is a reciprocity that can be greater than the large amount that the casino has given to the winner, That is usually people who manage to get a win, especially with a large amount, then surely they will tell their luck to one or even several of their friends and that's where the casino will again take advantage of several friends of the winner who are also clear they will participate in gambling at the casino that has been won by his friend, not only that because usually people who have managed to get a win at a casino then usually they will come back again to gamble there by putting hopes for a much higher number of wins. On the other hand, I think this is a statement that is in accordance with the facts.

You're so right.  We gotta think about who we're talking to.  For folks with gambling problems or who've lost a bunch betting, hearing stuff like that can hurt or even trigger unhealthy stuff.  I'm not saying hide it but maybe tone down the bragging around certain people and  the last thing we wanna do is rub salt in someone's wounds or cause them pain. Just something to chew on.

Success stories will always be a success story. Dang if you think it might hurt your feelings then ignore the post and move on to another post. People don't need anybody's opinion when they share their success stories, unless they are talking nonsense and looks like a made up story. Well, most success shared story have this note "this is to inspire but not to brag" something like that, so...

Since individuals have diverse perspectives, it is undoubtedly their fault if someone uses information negatively. Additionally, you might not have intended for your sharing to serve the purpose that the other used it for. It's wise advice, we shouldn't share our winnings with strangers when we succeed in life, particularly if it involves money. This applies to winnings in gambling as well. It's not always a good thing since you never know what someone could think of you, and sharing it with them could backfire.

If I happen to talk with family or acquaintances about gambling I will only share certain aspects of it.
I will concede to talk about the social aspect of gambling like card game tables etc.
Other times we will talk about the athleticism of certain sport teams.

Talking about amounts gambled and winnings to me is a no go, because I know everyone's financial situation is different and honestly there's no need to flex finances to people that know you. It would be akin to sharing your net worth with everyone. Some people just don't take well to that. And gamblers sometimes have even worse reactions. At least that's my two cents.

That's one way of looking at it and I agree with you, but unfortunately you can't seperate information on who it gets to or not because this is a public place without any sort of filters , and besides like they say one man's poison is another man's medicine...

Btw, with how the forum is setup with signature campaigns and the alike when it comes to marketing, showing winnings is part of growing a companies userbase..which says it's a game of numbers which needs to be done.

What you said is sadly true, but this also says the gambler has no self-control and are not capable of making the right decisions... and fyi gambling is an adult activity and as an adult you need to own up on the decisions you make and not the next guy taking responsibility for your actions, everyone has free will....

as much as possible, be discreet on this aspect of your gambling. you have no idea what other people are thinking about you knowing about your winnings. much better if you will just keep it to yourself or your immediate family. do remember that when you are on the losing side, no one bothered to ask you.

and also, that is also good for your security. as there are so many bad actors these days you have no idea who is watching your moves and with bad intentions. just waiting for the right timing and victim.

and it is best to celebrate it with your close family and friends as they are the ones who have witnessed what you've been thru with your life.
for other people, they are only interested about their share or tips coming from you. afterwards, you won't hear anything from them.

I quite understand what you are saying, mate, and you are right.

For example, someone might be in a confused state of mind where they are contemplating either to gamble or not to gamble, and if, by coincidence, you are in the midst  of such a person and you perhaps shared your testimony of winning a huge amount from gambling, your testimony can actually aggravate them to go and gamble while they are actually trying to draw a conclusion of not gambling. If the gambler gets influenced by your testimony and gambles with the money, they have no plans of losing. There are two things involved: either they will win or lose, and if they get unlucky and lose that money, your testimony has become a disadvantage to them.

I actually don't hide my winnings from my fellow gamblers or friends; I really don't think it will cause any harm to them, but if they really allow it, then it was born in their decision.

It is always key to keep a secret life because it is the first point of protection. People can never destroy something they don’t have knowledge about. Concerning the issue betting or gambling, I don’t see much of a thing there about advising someone because this could be a motivation for the person, the problem remains how you pass the message, if you keep on bragging about how you win, it might inspire them to continue but if you actually relay the message continuously how it is for them to go back to having knowledge before coming back to gambling it will at least inspire true learning by that person

I often try to view gambling to be for matured minds. Don’t really subscribe to the age differentials got adulthood and what’s legally binding by law but, for the mature minds. Unfortunately, that isn’t quantifiable and as such, we keep having those gamblers that would take a deep dive into what ever is paraded to them. Either through promotions or unsolicited/unconscious broadcast of wins. It’s pretty motivating I tell you especially, when it’s all by this individual whom you know, in your locality or is right there before you. He immediately becomes an evidence that it’s possible and you go about searching for that big win and forget the luck factor to gambling.
Not everyone can win and so, even with these broadcasts going on, still play within limits.
When it doesn’t bring you any security issues, I feel it’s okay to tell just those you hope to share it with but, be sure to know that, not everyone would be happy with your successes.

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I think that's with anything.  You can say the same with drinking alcohol.  Tons of events coincide with alcoholic beverages.  If you have a friend or someone you know who is addicted yeah you might want to limit it but just talking about it shouldn't be a determining factor for theor relapse.  I do agree if it's severe that you should steer clear of those conversations though.

I don't really see this as that bad because it can give someone a hint on how they can become successful in their gambling life, The issue here is that people have different ways of understanding things, so in this case, it can be encouraging to some set of gamblers and in the other hand provoke the feelings of those who have lost heavily in gambling or who are gambling addicts to likely continue, I kind of think is an individual thing, if you feel good sharing it, there's nothing wrong with that.

Gambling is a practice or activity of betting which involve staking or losing money and It all works with the law of probability while staking. There is a chance of winning and losing and it all comes with different stories. A story that can make one to either stop or continue gambling, someone success story can make an addict to go into debt in order to have his or her own success story. Hearing someone story should actually help you to learn on how the gambling works and also where or who we give these teachings to matters a lot.

I myself am not used to announcing the winnings I achieve anywhere or on any platform, whether it is gambling, trading,
because it will only trigger someone who is jealous and should not know it will be hurt.
It is better to enjoy its own benefits without the need for others to know how much we get.

If the goal tells you the profit because of motivation, then do not mention the exact nominal because it will be more sensitive.
Simply say that you are successful in gambling and hit the Jackpot.

Someone who is addicted will indeed trigger to do gambling again if they hear this kind of thing.
They will never be satisfied and always say that he is close and close to the jackpot to be gotten.

The way and manner in which you put things to them determine how they convey and understand the whole thing,  but just as we have all agreed on the role privacy plays in our overall security,  it is also better to give anyone you are telling about you bug winning,  give them the right information and what is needed for the well being as you break your winning news to them,  this way,  they will be aware of the risk of overbearing since they already know what sacrifice it takes to arrive at such a result.

But I will never tell a none gambler about my winning or losses,  because one of my principles is that,  I will never teach anyone how to gamble both directly and indirectly,  so it is a tradition for me,  and unless someone shows me Interest in gambling if not you can never hear me discussing anything related to gambling with anyone.

Honestly speaking, I could care less if it demotivates them into gambling, In fact I hope they become disheartened. You might think I'm evil or whatever but the thing is that people who get disheartened quit from what they do. And if that's what it takes for them to finally quit chasing wins and their dreams of getting a financially full life from gambling their lives away, then I say so be it. Now it's a different story when they get encouraged or inspired to gamble even more, as I want as less people who are not for gambling to even explore the world of gambling if you know what I mean. We have a surplus of people here who are revenge gambling and at the same time those who are already on the verge of gambling addiction. If we let these people run around gambling and getting even more riled to gamble when they should've already stopped then the blame is indirectly put upon those who plants the idea of gambling to their minds.

Plus from a safety standpoint, it doesn't make sense to brag about your winnings, you're attracting people who aren't supposed to know about your shit.

That's what I also believe. We are able to discover about other people's betting patterns through their stories. At times, it might help us in picking up new skills that could lead to success. I don't see any negative impact in telling stories. Rather, I find it to be helpful.

It's doesn't make sense to blame those gamblers who are just sharing their winning experiences.

We can compare it to what you read in social media nowadays, or media, news and any platforms where there are stuffs, stories, incidents, situations, that you don't like to hear. Just simply let it go away on your other ear. That is something we can't control.

If these gamblers got motivated and become addicted because of such good winning stories, blame that person instead as they are the one responsible on where they are now. Gambling stories are everywhere and sometimes, you can't avoid encountering those.  

And not everyone should bother themselves with caring about people winning. It doesn't even matter that people share their own personal wins, the media will ALWAYS portray big winners of gambling in their news every now and then. And just as how most people don't really care about that kind of stuff, they shouldn't really care as well with how other people share their victory wins regardless of how close they are personally.

And really, it's rather tiring already to take care of yourself, minding how others would also think kind of kills the self. Not that I personally share my personal wins though. Maybe when we bet together, but arbitrarily? Nope.

Because I hear the success story of a gambler, do you think that will serve as motivation for me to keep on gambling? I don't really think so. If some one gambling story serves as motivation, then you might end up regretting it because you will never want to stop gambling when you are supposed to stop, you will want to keep on gambling, hoping to make it from gambling one day, and you might never make it, you might just keep on losing money from gambling and you will never win, other people's success in gambling shouldn't serve as motivation.

When gambling, your winnings should be kept a secret to only yourself. Don't be too joyful and decide to share your winnings with people. Don't be surprised that you might be tracked and robbed because they already know that you have money with you. That's why I prefer to gamble online rather than visit a physical shop, because when i gamble online and win, nobody will discover that i have won if i don't tell anyone, but when you visit a physical shop, you are going to be exposed to people who think you won some reasonable amount of money, which might end up endangering your life.

This is also because of the referral system in casinos. when the main player gets a win, he will definitely share the winnings with the referrals under him so that they will continue to be excited to play gambling and get the same winnings. but the fact is that a referral will never get a lot of winnings even more than the main player. most of them will get defeated continuously and make them get into debt to continue playing gambling.
or even there are also main players who only benefit from their referrals while the capital from playing gambling they no longer have or experience the same defeat as their referrals.

The gambler who like to earn money from the gambling site should ready to spend his money and time in the gambling site.Because the gambling was based on the knowledge towards the game,many people consider the gambling was based on the pure luck.But the gambling industry had another story which was not shared to you at your earliest stage of childhood.The success story of one gambler will be the reason for new gamblers to the gambling site.Because new people join only if they had some money based income at the end.Because our income is not enough to run the peaceful life.

The gambler who surround by the fake relatives will face this issue,because they never life his relations to live the better life than their family.This was main reason the gamblers hide their own gambling as their secrets to the friends and relatives to escape from the traps.

In my opinion, it is not advisable to share success tales in the gaming industry. The reason I say this is that there are some people who, as soon as you share your gambling stories, will begin to be disturbed that they, too, want to participate, which means that all their anticipation will be that gambling is a platform where they can fast earn money. They are unaware that some people lose too much money before they may succeed. If gambling is a palace that makes a person's future bright, then everyone has become a gambling billionaire by now.If you don't, let me tell you right now that the gambling we're witnessing is just a lucky game to win.

I only tell my wins and losses to my close friends, I never tell my wins to just anyone. Apart from that, I also share my wins on this forum, I think it's fun to share wins and there's no harm in sharing a little wins on this forum.

I don't share my winnings other than in this forum because I think in this forum most of them are mature gamblers, most of them already know the risks and responsibilities in gambling, so I feel comfortable sharing in this forum.

This is right and it mostly deepens on a person’s mood or what they are currently going through, at different moods a certain story can serve two different purposes. Sharing your success stories just as you mentioned Op is good to serve as motivation for others and it is not your fault if it triggers some people because you are not aware of their situation and yoyr intentions are clean and you never intended for them to suffer. If they have really suffered and are willing to change then they would because gambling addiction is bad and it is always advised to gamble responsibly.

Gambling addiction is being discouraged and just because a person hears stories of someone else wins doesn’t guarantee he is also going to win as well so no matter what we hear about others we should not try to think about it too much because gambling will continue draining you no matter how motivated you think you are.

Please!  What are you talking about,!  It's not the players' fault to share information about their successes and then have other players get involved.

In fact, it is recommended that players keep a blog of their victories and defeats, check your idea, it is poorly founded.

I agree!
Positive results in a game of chance are generally the result of one or two of the following reasons: Luck and Professionalism.

About luck, we are talking about something that happens rarely, we hardly see anyone getting rich in gambling games just with luck because it needs to occur several times at a strategic moment so that you can multiply your winnings a few times exponentially.

Regarding competence, we are talking about that player who knows what he is doing, who only bets on what he knows, who studies games a lot (mainly sports or cards) and has mastery over the subject.

Both scenarios are for few people, most simply don't fit these criteria and that's why most of them lose.
Unfortunately, these factors are not explained by people when they say they made a lot of money, they say it as if it were actually something simple that anyone can do, but no!

There is always a process that goes through before winning, as is generally the case in gambling, gamblers must go through several losses before winning. Telling other people stories of success in gambling is like opening the door for those who often lose to lend you the money you have just won to gamble.
Their obsession with wanting to win like the one you just got, very often happens when someone tells their success story to other people, it always ends in borrowing. You need to consider before telling other people about the winnings you have just won, including where the money will be used.

I get OP's point, but exposing someone to these kinds of stories is inevitable when gambling is accessible to most people due to online gambling and others would even use it as a way to promote their casinos. Some gamblers can't help but share their gambling experiences because they don't have someone they can share these stories with. I appreciate reading the winning stories of gamblers because it can be interesting to know the twists and turns they've made before winning. Instead of encouraging cautiousness, the victims should put in more effort when they have more control over the issues that affect them.

the bad impact when we tell other people wrongly about our victory is that they can become jealous and we will be shunned by them.
we often see this common thing wherever we are because it is related to big wins which can always make other people feel heartbroken when they hear it and feel discouraged and feel like they can't be like us who get big wins and this is the bad impact of something like this.

another thing that has a bad impact from telling stories about winnings is that many people will come to you to borrow money and if you dont give them a loan, they will make you enemies because they feel that you have a lot of money from your gambling winnings.

from this problem I concluded that how important it is for us to hide every activity in gambling, whether it is a win or a loss, we don't need to tell anyone, just ourselves who know. because there are so many risks and negative impacts if we tell the wrong person, so I only tell about my victory to my wife who I trust.

You're just overthinking stuff OP, you can tell someone about your wins to someone and if they're really depressed, talking to you about anything and everything is probably a good thing for them to not succumb to that disease. And also, if that's the thing that you'll talk about someone, shouldn't it be your responsibility to treat them on something to celebrate the win? That's a good way to talk about your wins without looking like you're an asshole but at the same time, don't make it a habit that the talks will only be about you and your wins, check up on them if they're really depressed.

In fact, everyone must be responsible for everything, be responsible by sharing the winnings by telling us how it is something that is difficult to obtain, and vice versa, if we are the ones who see the post, don't overreact to it and play along because we think it will be possible to get it without us knowing the story behind the winning result, because every gambler who manages to win must have gone through many things including how much money he has bet and it is definitely not the first attempt so it is possible that the results obtained are not commensurate with the money that has been spent for the gambler to achieve the results obtained.

People who are addicted and not winning might even be envious of that person that is winning while they are not, except the addict that is very close to you and won't see your winning to be spite on him but want to be encouraged to continue striving for his own win then he can learn the rope of how the winning is happening to you.

Usually it is not a good advise to keep exposing your winning to third parties because you can become target of attack.

Celebrating and showing off your winning is a actually a personal thing and we can not decide for others what they choose to do after winning their bet but if you read the post properly, the poster is not against the showing off but he's concerned about the effects or rather influence it will have on others. Perhaps, the person you are sharing your success and winning story with might be an addict struggling to make a change to their life. There's no doubt that only few will survive that temptation and the rest will be triggered by your winning with the hope of winning like you.

Even when you choose to share your winning with others, you should always try to consider how your actions might affect others and most importantly, you should focus on the process of achieving the success rather than the outcome itself. Talk about the hard work you put in and the lessons you learned along the way so that they should not assume it to be an easy ride without sweat.

But sometimes this is the objective of those winner to attract another gamble to play more because of His success .
and also this is how streamers do , pretending they are winning constantly so gamblers will take that as opportunity to go with them in same place but sadly in different path , streamers are being paid gamblers are being losers.
lets not lure them to gamble more instead hide our winnings from those people that we knew are addicted so we are not giving them hints to play more and try their luck after losing.

It depends on the kind of success stories,  some success stories in gambling needs to be shared with other gamblers,  expecially the ones that are having serious addiction.  A gambler that is not addicted and plays with amount that he can afford to lose can share his success story about his win so that fellow gamblers will understand that gambling is not about playing games all the time trying to win by all means. Their are still good gambling stories that we need to speak out, it can encourage or change one how they go about gambling.  Playing gambling with an amount one can afford, even if it comes out to be lose is a success story.

I felt it was better to hide the story of my big win. Maybe I'll still share the small wins I've had. But it's not as frequent as others. Yes, I don't want to make other gamblers look depressed because they can't win. After all, I've felt that way.

But it depends on each gambler. If they can restrain themselves and not think too much about other people's wins, they will not be depressed or frustrated. They will stick to their original goal in gambling. And if they want to win, they can still try. But they also have to remember that gambling will not always give them a win.

If they could understand it, they wouldn't be so deep in gambling. They can use gambling as intended and not try to make money from gambling. We can share our success stories with the right people so they don't feel sad or jealous of our wins.

Success stories in gambling can vary based on the context. Sharing success stories, especially those involving responsible gambling practices, can be valuable. Emphasizing the importance of playing with amounts one can afford to lose and highlighting positive experiences can contribute to a healthier gambling culture. Encouraging responsible behavior and showcasing that success isn't solely about winning every time can positively impact fellow gamblers and promote a more balanced perspective on gambling.

Personally,  I think it's not a bad idea for people to share their success stories in gambling with others but because of the fact that different people have their different ways of reacting to such stories, keeping your success story in gambling with yourself is the better.  To some  gamblers, immediately they hear other people's gambling stories,  they begin to gamble uncontrollably in their quest to also succeed in gambling and in most times,  it makes them to become gambling addicts while others try to know the exact  strategy that was used by the person who's sharing his success story and responsibly put them to practice.

That's hard. Why not if a gambler is too happy about his winnings?
There's a choice for every reader to avoid reading a good story about success in gambling or not. If he/she thinks it will affect him then just close the damn article and go on with their lives.
It's not like a writer is forcing it on everyone, it's called "sharing" for a reason. Some readers will find this a boost in their motivation while others will think this is a step to their failure.

Do imagine if no one shares their multi-wins? Will we even believe that we can hit those kinds of numbers if there are no testimonies about it? I mean, it's the proof that there are people who got lucky and got a win that could be impossible for others. Then, what about the streamers? Should they be stopped too because they are showing multi-wins in their videos? I don't think that will be fair for them.
Again, this will depend on the reader or the watcher. It may not look cool for them or the effects will be different but it's on them. Maybe they need some help because they ain't thinking straight anymore.

Not all stories can be motivational, it depends on the person's point of view in understanding them.
Gambling addiction is not based on other people's stories, he will be addicted naturally.
Whether we talk about winning no matter how much it will not affect anything, because what the winner feels is not necessarily what he feels. Because it's all just a story.
He will continue gambling until the maximum point where he has to stop, whether he runs out of money or whatever the factor is.

Never mind gambling, whatever profit you get from anywhere, if it's big then I'm sure many will be jealous of you and want to bring you down. Moreover, this is about gambling, gambling is always bad in the eyes of many people, so it is very wrong to show victory to them, I always hide anything about gambling from the people closest to me. This is just a matter of how we have to avoid what they know about our gambling.

I understand the problem of people being easily manipulated by greed to manipulate their emotions, giving someone a vague belief is like destroying them, being realistic about helping and every outcome is not easy it is the real. There may be many stories in life like someone's success in a field where they don't know that their hard work pays for it but failure is rarely mentioned, so I feel satisfied. When I hear anything about a formula for success, I have my own way of evaluating these issues and looking at what people around them are enjoying from that perspective. So trust does not always apply to any source, just verify it yourself and go back and see the truth to what extent.

Instead of announcing our victory, I often give gifts to those closest to me as a celebration of my victory. if they ask I just answer this is the result of my work. They will definitely be happy if we share rather than showing off our wealth in front of them. because winning is still closely related to luck. if they are not as lucky as the winner then they will only be sad or disappointed.

I'm not sure about it though, I might hear someone win big, but that is, I'm not a free loader. I think it's ok though, I mean of course everyone is going through phases in life specially in gambling. But gamblers have to face that, if you can't take it, then stop for a moment so that it won't affect you mentally.

Or do something that will let you forget about gambling. And if by chance you tell someone then they are depressed or something, it's not going to be your fault though. I met other gamblers throughout that boast of their winning but that it's, no consequences whatsoever.

Also for your safety, don't share your story as you might expose yourself to harm from kidnappers or friends that don't want to see you win. Hide your wins and live your life to the fullest, when your network isn't known you can live freely and enjoy your money without having to be scared about your environment or things happening to your love ones. Some individuals are very evil and don't want to see others winning when they're not the ones winning.

Your story could also make the other individual that you're telling the story get into depression as they're not winning but you're. From the depression, they can do things to harm themselves or harm you. Only your very closed family members that are benefiting from your victory that you are allowed to tell you story and after that you can also give them some money for their upkeep.

I totally agree that it's not everybody that deserves to hear about your big win in gambling, whether it's a fellow gambler or any other person. We live in a wicked world and you don't know if the person that you're sharing your success story with is happy for you, some might be happy while others can become envious of you, to the extent that they'll plot your downfall. Again when you anounce your big win, some family and friends will think that it's a free money and they're entitled to a share of it, they'll be coming to ask you for unnecessary financial helps or borrowing. These set of people will not stop until their sure that the won money is finished and you're back at their level. It's good to share your success story, but be very sure that you know the true character of people that you tell about your finance, so you won't regret your sincere action.

Well, you have a point. It may trigger those person who really wants or trying their best to quit. Tho, this should be confidential, anything that connected about your income or profit should be keep to yourself or to your partner only. I understand that sharing some of your highlights about gambling is for encouraging and giving motivation to other gamblers but I agree that it may trigger those person who has a negative outcome towards gambling so we should limit ourself when it comes to sharing your good experience in gambling most especially your winnings.

We share our success tales with pride and achievement; it's part of our journey. Your perspective shows that our tales are strong influencers, not merely narratives. They can change someone's life, especially in delicate fields like gambling. Remember that each gambler's journey is unique, with own accomplishments and tribulations. Our words can unintentionally pull on the delicate strands of human emotions, undoing the hard work of addiction recovery.

Every gambling win or loss is personal. Sharing gambling wins with caution is a sensible and insightful advice that shows you understand human psychology. We must think how our triumphs may affect addicts. Our actions (or stories) have consequences in our community. Our triumphs must be handled gently, acknowledging their power. Celebrate our achievements, but protect each other's tales so they don't hurt.

OP, you have a point there, you never can tell what others are facing, and some will envy you due to that. It could also put some people under much stress/pressure as they might want to believe that they can replicate what you told them. Not knowing that gambling success doesn't work like that, it can come at any time and when you have a good fate on a day and have the chance to win it big, then you are indeed lucky at that time. Even those players who made it big today might not be able to replicate the success in months or years, so one should be mindful of the people they tell their story as their story might either make them or break them. Nevertheless, I am sure that those who would be broken by it will be more than those who will be made by it.

Come to think of it, those who react or get carried away by what others say to them or what they see others do are not wise. This is because what works for them might not work for you, and this is more reason why we should learn about gambling and know all the fundamentals of it before venturing into it. That aside, the security aspect is there as well, telling people your gambling success might put you at risk as you do not know the mind of the person you are telling your story towards you.

Success in gambling doesn't come always so we get a lot lose than win in gambling, the issue with gamblers now they decide to share their success with their friends but neglect the lose, I still don't understand why someone will want to gamble more because of some else success, it sounds senseless cause an addict struggling to pay debt cause of gambling will change their decision over night because of another person success. Although when sharing about the win we should not forget the countless times we lose so people will not have a wrong view on gambling, some people get easily moved by others success so it's best to avoid sharing wins that sounds risky to people especially gambling that has to do with taking risk.

I agree - sharing gambling wins needs compassion. We typically glorify gambling by sharing our wins, forgetting its darker aspect. This could unwittingly feed addiction, especially in silent sufferers. But there's another way of looking at this. Success stories can inspire if shared appropriately. Techniques, risk management, and limit setting can be taught. The narrative's framing and audience attitude matter.

This comes down to balance and empathy. We should tell our story with audience awareness. What we say and how we say it matter. Our words carry power and responsibility. We should lift, not hurt, with that power.

I don't think that sharing your success story should be taken like that by those who are struggling because of their habits. It is not your problem if they are in debt because of gambling. And don't let others cut your fun and happiness to share what you have achieved, you can share it to anybody as you wish and you're not going to let them cargo their burdens upon you when you're just there to share what you have won and the amount you profit. But anyway, it is to each their own and if OP thinks that it's not right to share it like that when you have no idea what others are dealing with, it's just best to keep yourself lowkey.

I guess what you are trying to say is to control their mouth shut and just keep their success story on their own. Well, you can’t control others from doing that just because there might be some people who will be offended or get influenced. Gamblers are gamblers, if they can’t stand their losses due to their greed and their deep urge to gamble more, then they shouldn’t enter gambling in the first place. One gambler should not adjust to the comfort of other gambler. It should be known that once you decide to enter gambling, you should be responsible enough to manage your losses as well as your winnings. If you can’t do that, then leave gambling for good.

Every success story is sometimes need to be told especially if that person finds fulfillment in sharing. If you think his success story affects you, just pretend that you’re never there hearing his story so you won’t feel totally bad.

Yes, that's the best advice for all of us here, gamble as much as you can and by considering all the risks that can happen unexpectedly, I think those who have their principles are the ones who succeed in gambling, they always bet on commitment, without being guidedon other people's principles.

Gambling does have risks, as long as we have principles, of course we will avoid all risks that might occur, For this reason, it is very important that we have to control our level of ability in gambling, don't force ourselves if we are not able to do it, it makes us depressed and so on.

It's understandable to want to share your successes with others. After all, winning feels good, and it's natural to want to celebrate or even inspire others. Your experience could potentially motivate someone considering gambling, offering a glimpse of the potential rewards.

However, your wins might unknowingly tip the scales for someone already grappling with the decision to gamble or not. Sharing your wins, while unintentional, could be misconstrued as minimizing the risks, glossing over the potential for losses, and ultimately pushing someone down a path they might not have chosen on their own.

The issue lies in the individual's interpretation and their own mental state. For someone predisposed to gambling, your story could fuel their fire, pushing them to chase similar wins without properly considering the risks. The "win or lose" mentality you mentioned might lead them to underestimate the dangers of gambling addiction and potential financial ruin.

Depends on your goal.

If you're a gambling affiliator who's make money by commission, you should publish every of your winnings because this is a way for you to attract audience.

If you're just an ordinary gambler, you don't have to share your winnings, if you share it, people will ask you tip or money because you win big.

In reality, who really needs to adjust? We cannot discredit anyone if they are celebrating their winnings simply because they 'worked' hard for it and like all of us they once suffered from loss, which I think why we shouldn't take it negatively. If you are envious of them, you are the one who should adjust; continue playing 'til you win or just quit already to lessen your expectations to yourself. Everyone is having their own battles and if it is our insecurities we would imply to other people then we would be wrong for it. The only danger I see of announcing one's winnings is the risk of getting robbed by bad people. It would be looking like you are inviting them to get your money from you, unconsciously and unintentionally.
Indeed will not be the winner's problem. It is not being insensitive, the ones who are taking it negatively, does. For sure we know to ourselves that upon entering this industry, luck won't be equal to all of us and that there'll be times fortune would be hard to most of us. If you did not have this mindset then you are wrong in the first place. It also depends on how the message is delivered and how it is being received; always a two way interaction I guess.

I believe that, on the contrary, sometimes talking about winnings helps.
because it is a way to give advice to other players: for example on a certain type of sport or bet etc etc
obviously I'm not talking about self-celebration but about "constructive" topics.

Its none others business if you would really be sharing up your winnings or would really be boasting it out into the public. Why? there are people who are really just that happy on the experience that they are really that in that moment even if it wasnt intentional those actions or reactions are really just that normal. It is really just that there are people who do really have that kind of behavior on being too perfectionist on which they dont really like for them to see and let other people would really be telling on what they should gonna do. This is a free market or  space on which we could freely express on the feelings and emotions that we are currently experience
whether its a win or lose then it wont really matter or really that an issue. It is really just that there are people who are really that too sensitive when it comes to things on which it is really just
that being too sensitive i shall say.

Dont stop yourself on doing into the things that you do really want to do. Dont mind others situation whether they would really be getting inspired on the winnings that you have experienced.
It would really be just that still depending on someone on how they would really be that controlling themselves towards gambling and its up to theirs decisions
on what would happen into them. You dont have the rights on pointing out your fingers into those people who had recently won and make out some sharing.

Exactly so. An individual should learn to be more discreet with their winnings mostly when in the midst of those who know nothing about gambling nor have an interest in the subject.
Infact, among those who gamble, it is best to keep ones winnings on a low volume because jealousy and envy can make others doing same and not winning as much, to have an evil eye for the one who is sharing his winning story.

A testimonial is way better to reveal the source of winnings from gambling when asked about how the winner came into such winnings. It is better to be asked before one should try to reveal where such winnings came from.

I think every story is unique in its own way and I like to read most of them. Some of those winners actually lose their gains later on because they keep playing but on the other hand, some smarter people use their money to create a financial empire for themselves and I am really interested in their story. Using the money for something else other than gambling takes huge dedication which almost means quitting gambling. Obviously I am talking about life changing money here. I too don’t like to read people who won $100. All I think when I read those stories is “gj go buy yourself a happy meal now.”

It's not really other people's responsibility to tiptoe around someone who is experiencing their lowest of lows. But it could really help if people would be mindful about what they are posting online and sharing in personal. It would depend on the reader and the receiver of the message if he or she will take it as an inspiration to do better or to continue gambling impulsively because of the possible benefits.

Putting the disclaimer such as the benefits and the disadvantages in your story will definitely play a part to let people know that you didn't success just because of pure luck. It comes with skills and strategies too. Letting them be aware of the hard work you put into it as well as the consequences might let them think twice before gambling. In this case it could make your story a good basis to weigh their choices on either joining or not.

How their condition or situation an issue that should concern me stopping me from celebrating my wins in the manner I chose to celebrate it. A scattering reasons will make me chose not to publicly celebrate my gambling win of which this one from Op can't be one of them.

If your asking me not to celebrate it for security reasons of not being attacked or a target by some miscreants due to how huge the money I have won is, of course that will sound right to accept, or to avoid those episodes of people begging you for money and feeling entitled to be gifted money from you, that also is another good thought to accept and not publicly celebrate big wins.

But telling someone that it's because of his gambling winnings you heard that dragged you back to gambling is unjustifiable and a sort of blame game that doesn't make sense to me. All my losses didn't make you to quit from gambling why should my one time big win make you gamble the more? What's the logic in that!

I think what @OP said is true because carelessly sharing our success stories in winning gambling games with everyone without choosing who the person is can arouse their curiosity so that they will try to gamble openly or secretly. If they gamble and lose, they may say that what they got from gambling has made them lose. And unfortunately, maybe some of them will ask for compensation because they tried gambling because they heard our story. Indeed, we should not be blamed for sharing stories about our success in gambling, but we should be able to choose who can listen to our stories. This is to avoid misunderstandings from people who don't understand it. We have to be careful in telling what we experience while gambling so that we don't influence other people and end up gambling too.

but you certainly see that there are people who share their winnings with other people. some of my friends did that, sharing winning screenshots from the slot sites they usually played on. For friends who are used to gambling, there may not be a problem. but there may be negative sentiments from people or their families if someone doesn't like gambling.
It would be better not to share our defeats or wins with anyone. play for ourselves and don't need to listen to what people say.

What might seem as a success to one might get the other jealous over him because he himself would have encountered losses.
We have seen cases where people who won big and announced their winnings were either kidnapped or received threats or found their relatives asking them money.
So not everyone is happy for you when you win big. So it's best to keep your happiness to yourself in such cases.

And if that person is the one to engage and start the conversation, it's not your fault if you've told him good winning stories of yours. Maybe actual on that day or from the past and it's not your problem if currently that guy is struggling or has got problem. But if he's not the one to start the conversation and you're the one that just want to tell it, you'll notice it as well that they will feel a bit uncomfortable with your talks. And when that happens, that's the time for you to just walk away and lead the conversation into an end because you want no drama and you just want good vibes because of how you've won on that day.

Yes those who happily share their gambling success stories are really addicted to gambling because they enjoy those winnings with great joy. They share their success stories but never their losses.  So if one hears someone's success story and thinks that gambling is a very easy thing and winning here is a very wrong thought. And those who think like this are attracted to gambling and rush into gambling without thinking about anything. And they gradually become addicted to gambling and lose everything in gambling

I think there is no point in sharing my success story in gambling, let alone the wins I get and then sharing them with other people, because I prefer to gamble for myself so I only want the wins and losses I get only for myself, no matter what other people want. know about me, of course I won't share anything about my gambling, which only my wife knows and no one else knows except my gambling friends who have stopped gambling.

OP's words are correct. The point is, never share anything about your winnings, keep it to yourself because it could have a negative impact on other people who we don't necessarily know, they are struggling to stop gambling, whereas when they see our winnings, they will want to gamble again. if you keep it to yourself it would be even better.  ;D

I’m the one that usually share story of success here because this is the only place I can share my feelings because my family and close friends doesn’t know that I’m gambling. This is a gambling discussion while your request is the one being indiscriminate because this board is dedicated for gambling discussion.

People with gambling problem shouldn’t be hanging out here if they are really depressed when they saw someone success story. I believe they are the one that needs to getaway here and not people like me that share gambling story for discussion. I’m not really sure what’s your goal on creating this topic on a gambling discussion board.

I’m not even sure why this kind of discussion get tons of response and questionable support. It’s like asking not to smoke on smoking area just because non smoker is hanging out on that smoking area.  :-\

I'm very careful about whom I talk to when it comes to my gambling activity much more on my winnings, I don't talk to strangers or a gambler whom I just met, gambling conversations should be with your close gambling friends who know you personally, its never my intention to encourage anyone to keep on gambling I always emphasize that it takes luck, courage and hard work through analysis to be able to win huge amount of money, so if they can't do this better treat gambling as entertainment.
I also emphasize that you should prioritize having fun while waiting for your opportunity to win.



 

I think there are times when when we tell the winnings we get by gambling to other people, it may make them motivated or it can also make them upset because they don't get the winnings like we do. I also have a friend who always gambles and if he gets a good moment, let alone a win, of course he doesn't forget to screenshot what happened to tell others, what I'm afraid of is when someone who is both gambling but only one person gets the win and he shows the win to others I'm afraid that other people will be motivated by thinking "he can just get a win, why can't I". and this makes them motivated which can eventually lead to gambling addiction.

I myself always see my friend showing off his winnings but I am not motivated because I know gambling is a game of luck and also probability that makes everyone will not definitely get a win in gambling.

Actually I think in this problem it is difficult to control, or that means not everyone will think that the winning information they share with others can trigger or thwart someone's process to stop gambling, they will not think to this point and they just assume that something like this is normal and no problem to do and share with others, especially some of their closest friends. So maybe in my opinion in the problem of its impact depends on someone who listens to it, if indeed they remain ordinary and do not feel motivated to return to gambling in the sense of having assertiveness in the process of getting out of the gambling zone then obviously they will be fine, and maybe what the OP means is that it refers more to some people who are easily tempted by the victories that other people or their friends have managed to achieve so that they return to getting involved in gambling, so this depends on how someone can maintain their assertiveness in planning to be able to stay in the process of getting out of gambling activities.

Maybe for someone who can win at gambling it can be a matter of pride and this will definitely be told to friends, relatives or social media. It is true that thing related to someone enjoyment will definitely cause the envy of other people who can't get it, but we can't forbid someone not to show off their winnings to the general public because it is their own right. This is indeed good advice because your goals is not to needs other people to know about the life we live whether we are successful or not.

But what is called human nature is that even though we share our defeated with the general public, there are still bad comment, not concerned but also making fun of them because they feel that this mistake was a stupid mistake, for those who share stories about success in gambling, they are not immune from people bad words. Those who don't like us will still hate, people who like us will be happy with our success. Indeed, for people who are addicted or for people who gamble, this can be a reference for them to continues gambling, but I am sure not everyone think that gambling it will definitely provide the same profit because everyone has different luck and it is not certain that they will be lucky.

Not everyone who hears about achieving big wins from gambling will make them feel depressed or jealous because there are also many gamblers who have skeptical attitude and don't care about whatever happens to other people, whether they win big or lose.
But for those who feel depressed or feel jealous of other people wins, it may be because there is losing streak that occurs and they hope for big win but fail.
This really affects person psychology and mentality because they will think that they have failed, they cannot get the victory that they have really hoped for for long time.
Conditions like this are very dangerous because they will cause quite significant negative effects such as not having confidence in their own abilities and they can do careless things such as spending more money or following other people ways of playing and betting carelessly without any consideration.

The biggest concern is not about those who are motivated and can become addicted to gambling but that they can be more than an addict.
Moreover, when we get big win and it is known by many people it will also be very dangerous for ourselves because it can lead to crimes such as robbery or confiscation, we must always be careful in sharing winning information with anyone.

Only share your winnings with the person that you think gives you support as these are people who will appreciate your winnings. In fact, there is no reason to tell everyone because they don't like hearing it (this is very usual in our place) instead, they are happy to hear your losses. Many people make assumptions or rumors when something good things happens to us so have to avoid it. Let them speculate...that's it.

We'd rather keep a distance from other people and keep it private. Maybe a small celebration within the family is enough.

What you say is very true, because when we win, of course those who know about it will pay attention to us, hoping that a little win will be shared with them and will not care about the defeat we get.
When we win, all we have to look at is the people closest to us who always care about our situation in gambling and choose to celebrate small wins with the people closest to me. I think this is very natural because they are the ones who deserve it.

When it comes to gambling, telling people about only the positive side( your winnings) may not help them. It's better the knows the two sides of your gambling stories so they won't be carried away by only the success story you told them alone.

I think this is absolutely true and not just for gambling. In general, for almost any activity related to receiving money or losing money. The last thing you should do is discuss all the little details of your game with your family. If you control yourself in gambling or, for example, trading, if you limit your losses and expenses, then there is no point in discussing your failures with anyone again. You will only hurt yourself. You will find out what a fool and loser you are, although you may know it yourself at the moment. Of course, they won’t tell you anything new, but your motivation will begin to fall, and you may even get depressed. It is also not advisable to talk about winnings.

Your point is on the right track. Yes in gambling we really got to mind the way we talk expecially when we are talking to a fellow gambling so just imagine someone that have lose alot of funds in gambling and you telling he or she about your wins in gambling that may cause them gambling which can lead them to getting addicted to it. Like there's this time I was planning to give gambling some breaks then my friends where talking about people wins and was like is it not same gambling we doing then, for I to take my break I continue and the losses were more than my few profits so was kinda frustrating.

That obvious because it's also combines with the fact that people don't care too much about the wins of any stranger that would talk to them, it's none of their business and it's not your duty to tell them anything lest you want to look like a piece of shit that's bragging about the stuff that they do then by all means be my guest to be an arrogant asshole. Also, it's unlikely that your depressed friend would get more depressed about talking to them about your wins.

Gambling wins is not even something to share to others, how will this motive anyone? When it's not a degree or a badge of honor, or even a safe way to success, if you win big today from gambling it doesn't mean you won't be broke again, and some people made millions from gambling only to lose everything back to gambling again, success from gambling is not something to celebrate.

If I win big I will rather keep it a secret, and that's why I choose online gambling, I don't want anyone to know that I am into gambling, so I have no reason to tell anyone that I win a lot from gambling, you are right that this can motive the stupid ones, because gambling is a game of luck, how can you be motivated by something that's all about pure luck?

but we cannot dictate to someone not to share their success story with others, because it is their right to share their success story and whether it will have a positive or negative impact on other people is none of their business.

because it's quite funny when someone shares their success story in their gambling life, and someone reads it and uses it as motivation for his gambling, but unfortunately he fail and end up spending a lot of money without getting anything. but can the person who shared the story be blamed? i don't think so, because he only shared his story, the one who is to blame is the person who used the story as motivation for himself because he was not wise in acting and thinking.

That's true there are many selfish people around us who are getting jealous from the others success so if we think about this cost then yes not everyone deserve to hair a person winning in gambling.  I will also say one thing that there are also lot of people that who learn wrong think and become addicted on gambling for saying others success. So I am agree with your words that not everyone deserve to hear your winning in gambling.

It's very tempting to brag about your winnings because not every day do you get to win, in our gambling journey there are more losses than winnings and to boast about our ego and to make it appear that we are doing good we tend to brag about our winnings, we have seen this happening also here in Bitcointalk, posting their winning telling people this is to inspire and not to brag but anyway you look at it it's meant to brag.

You are right that gamblers should be careful about who they are telling their story of winning, it could be people who just started out in gambling or it could be people who do not know about gambling but tempted to do so because they become inspired by what you're showing them.
In the end, you get the blame for misleading these newbies.

This is what im saying that we are free to express our feelings and emotions on which it is really just that normal on the time that we do have some wins on playing gambling. No one would really intentionally sharing up their success stories just to make someone desperate on playing gambling or making them impulsive but rather it would really be just that normal that they would really be happy
on the time that they do make up some hits.So whether we dont really like for those things to be said then it cant really be just that stopped for someone to tell on what they do feel and what are the things that they do have in mind. So for someone who do be able to hear out those kind of boast of winnings then it would really be up to us whether we do let ourselves getting impulsive or not.

I didn't like sharing my wins or losses with everyone because I like keeping it secret. I can comfortably share my wins with only people that are close to me like my relatives and friends. Anybody who is engaging in gambling should know that other people's stories shouldn't determine how they gamble because wins are unpredictable. These stories could serve as a motivation for us not to give up, however we should gamble within our means. I don't also think that an experienced gambler will be moved by these stories because he has understood how the gambling space works.

Another reason why broadcasting your win is not appropriate is because of safety reasons. You might be a target of criminals if they know that you have won big.

Some of the wins that are publicized on social media might even be fake, which is why it shouldn't be a motivating factor. We have seen cases where some casinos partner with celebrities to promote the gambling firm by showing their wins and losses to their followers on social media. This is why newbies should be careful not to believe everything they see on the internet.

Yes, I have seen someone share their winnings with other people, and that was my friend who managed to win from a gambling game. Yes, some people cannot accept such things because they think negatively about gambling. And we should not tell other people about our defeats and victories because it could cause problems for us.
And instead of experiencing things like that, it's better to keep them for ourselves so that things don't happen that we don't want. Besides that, keeping that from others will save us time from people who want to say many things about what we did in gambling.

That's what many gamblers should do when they win at gambling, it's better to keep quiet and close themselves off, because not everyone has to know about the wins we get because maybe there are also many people who are jealous of our success, making someone do something they shouldn't do, especially If someone is in the process of stopping their gambling addiction, it will certainly have a bad impact on that person.

Believe me, there is no need to prove to anyone that we won against the dealer, always remember when the dealer beats us, maybe more than we won, how much we have lost in gambling and it should be a slap to ourselves so we don't just show off our victory. because you win against the dealer, the best advice is to try to be quiet and enjoy it yourself without other people knowing.

that's true, because in my opinion everyone definitely has their own selfish attitude, and that makes them always jealous of what other people get, and in my opinion when someone wins at gambling they don't have to tell everyone, because of the nature of each different people so maybe many of them respond to winning differently, obviously there are those who take it casually, and maybe there are others who take it seriously, where they become motivated to win at gambling which makes them themselves are addicted to gambling, even though being addicted to gambling doesn't guarantee that they will get the same win as the previous person, because everyone's luck is different.
That's true, not everyone deserves to hear about someone's victory because it will bring something of its own, it also depends on the people who respond to it.

Some gamblers cannot stop doing this, it's one of their motivation why they want to win so they can boast that they are winning and other people are wrong in their impression that you cannot win in gambling.
Even though they lose money, they will hide it and only tell their victories, they don't care who is listening to their story, some gamblers are addicted to telling their winnings to the point they are faking their winnings so that they can tell people that they are good in gambling.

This is just one of the symptoms of people who are addicted to gambling, they deny their losses and boast about their winnings, they tell everybody that they can win in gambling, and it creates a bad effect on newbies, this is why newbies should not just believe on gamblers and pick the right gamblers who will give them advice on how to become a good gambler, not someone who is addicted to story telling.

I prefer not to talk about my gambling activity to anyone, especially to people who are close to me, if I tell them about my winnings they may be tempted to try gambling, if I tell them my losses they might think that I'm too addicted to stop, and advice me to stop gambling because they think there's no logic in gambling if you're losing, even I tell them that I'm playing for fun.
So whatever you tell them whether your losses or your winnings it will backfire, so it will do you good if you keep everything to yourself, it will save you from criticism and from influencing other people from playing and you will not get into any debate about your gambling, you are not going to be in a position to be defensive.

Gambling victories are best kept private, in my experience. They can unwittingly stimulate gambling addicts in online forums. Being sympathetic to others' journeys is key. Gambling should be fun, not stressful. I also find it grounding to focus on losses rather than celebrate successes. It reminds us that the house usually wins. A humbling idea that promotes responsible gambling. Finding a balance between thrill and risk is key.

I like your self-enjoyment point. Wins should remain personal joys. Gambling should be personal and sensitive of its effects on others. Responsible gambling and community service are both important.

Arsenal are currently trailing to Fulham away from home, this is not the time Arsenal would be dropping point, Manchester city and Liverpool are both in good form and any slip up from Arsenal would be costly, although I think they did not play badly today so far and I still believe in the second half of the match Arsenal would come out stronger and at the end of the day they should be the winner.

The skills gambling may teach are acknowledged, not celebrated. Regarding discretion, your approach makes sense. Gambling is risky, so hide earnings. Prevents unwanted attention, envy, and expectation. Online platforms offer anonymity for privacy. Another perspective is that sharing experiences, especially in gambling, can promote learning and community growth. Risk and reward are better understood by discussing techniques and risks. Giving insight into a misunderstood world, not encouraging reckless gambling

Gambling is primarily luck, but it takes strategy and skill. Winning is about talent and chance, not luck. Influence requires balance. Our stories may teach, not deceive. We use wins and losses to demonstrate that gambling is a complex combination of luck, skill, and sometimes just fun. Enjoyable but risky, gambling requires respect for its volatility and luck

Free loader or not, there is no way that we can't avoid it. Also even if we are not into gambling, as we can hear it on the news or on some random talks. It is okay for some but for some it isn't. The effect to us, can also depend on the story of the gambler. Whether we accept things or not, I think we still can get used to them later on, so things aren't going to be that heavy anymore.

If we are an over thinker and then we don't want to hurt someone else feelings even if we don't mean it, then it's better to just keep things for ourselves. I know it can be hard but if the things that we fear of, came in to a reality, then that is going to be much harder.

I usually share stories related to gambling with friends who are fellow gamblers. and those are close friends who usually exchange experiences and information related to gambling.
Some gamblers, maybe like me, have a hangout that includes almost all gamblers. but I chose to play alone somewhere else. meeting friends just to tell stories, although some of them still play at hangouts.
but I will usually be more closed about sharing anything related to my gambling. I limit what I need to tell and what I don't need to.

So maybe it's up to them to decide how they feel about it? If someone can feel good or motivated with my win, who am I to decide if they should or shouldn't hear about it?
I'm not a person who likes to brag, but when you win, you're happy and you share that with others. Person who feels envious or depressed with that news has a problem. I'm not to blame for that problem buy that person's inability to cope with the real world. You can't save everyone and you can't think about everyone around you because you'll never do right by them all.

Everything has two sides, so when you show your winning to many people, be prepared to receive anything that you won't expect.

There are many possibilities:
1. The skeptic: they will keep asking and denying if you really win.
2. The beggar: they will ask you money because they think you're rich.
3. The enemy: it's either your friend or a new person that ask you a strategy to win, if you not tell it or your friend are lose after using your strategy, they will blame you.
4. The robber: they will search any information about you in order to steal your money.
etc.

That's true, and it has become commonplace in society that someone can become selfish and jealous of seeing other people's success and this also makes someone try to get the same success as other people.
It would be better if we were successful in gambling, it would be better if we just kept quiet because that is the best step so that later we don't cause problems for other people because the nature of social jealousy is different for each person and of course the success we receive is not necessarily acceptable. by other people. .

This is good advice generally, we should all be humble because we don't know the circumstances of people around us and you might actually cause yourself some unnecessary trouble if you go spouting off your successes too loudly. It's best to avoid introducing people who are unfamiliar with gambling into the scene, because it can be highly destructive if someone is lacking in self control or does not understand the fundamental odds that are set against them, a couple wins at the early stages can cost them a lifetime of ruin potentially. The only setting that it might be acceptable to talk about your gambling, although keep mention of any big wins to a minimum, is in specific gambling locations like casinos.

Honestly for myself I would not say that it is success but rather a victory that they get for the luck they get in the gambling session they do so that they can get a number of wins, on the other hand we have to distinguish victory from success because in gambling I think there is no word success but only winning because of luck. Moving on to the topic, from what you said of course it could be a possibility for people to feel jealous of the wins that other people or even their own friends managed to get so as the OP said that it has the potential to make them feel motivated to join in hoping to get the same fate as those who managed to win.

But it's not that easy, simply put in terms of gambling someone will not be able to follow the luck or the number of wins that other people have managed to get, the point is all about winning and losing and for the problem of when you will win and how much victory you will get all that is still gray - gray. And obviously I agree to the point of what you said that if indeed we managed to get a win then it is better not to tell others and enjoy it alone, except maybe telling some of the closest people like friends actually it can't be avoided. 

This also includes if someone is lucky to win, it does not necessarily mean that he will be successful in the future. This means that in gambling there is no such thing as success, but winning will lead to success if he can truly consistently maintain self-control. However, we often see people who win, they cannot maintain control well so their winnings are in vain, because they believe it will be easy to win again and in the end they will often lose and in fact their life will get worse because of their own mistakes.
Of course, it is better to keep your winnings a secret than to talk about them with other people, because it is not certain that other people will be able to accept them or even use the winnings for bad things.

Maybe for some people who want to enjoy their own winnings, they will hide it from other people so that they can enjoy their own winnings without worrying that their friends will borrow money from them from their winnings. However, there are also gamblers who are proud thats they can win from gambling by telling people that they won and making people feel happy, but don't forget that if you tell people about your winnings, you also have to be prepared to risk spending money to treat friends your friends or maybe someone will ask you for money for your winnings, and there are also people who are jealous of your winnings, so it's better to hide your winnings from other people or just tell your family about the winnings you get, so that no one is jealous of you and you can enjoy it with your family.

If you do the math, maybe the winnings are not worth the expenses we have used for gambling so it is better that we don't have to tell people that we fooled the bookie, because the winnings are not worth the money the bookie fooled us to gamblers.

Sharing success stories is not a bad thing. If someone continues based on the success story of your gambling, I think it's just a momentary thing. Whether they decide to continue or quit, I believe it's not heavily influenced by your story, maybe just a temporary inspiration.

On the contrary, if your story contains experiential elements that can help them avoid unwarranted mistakes, that's also a good thing, right? Don't weigh too heavily on the idea that sharing your story will make them continue to plunge into debt or gambling addiction. If not from you, it could be from someone else, and whether they continue or quit can only come from their own awareness and decision.

I think not only to gamblers but in our everyday activities. Or in any of our financial activities. You know human are naturally wicked In all ramifications. Showing some people your success book is like inviting the demons for a feast. And definitely they will be Verry glad to accept it in good faith. Any huge  sume of money gotten to your wallet is a risk to you especially if you spill it out. So never showcase your wining otherwise you might got kidnapped or traced by rubbers and probably be harmed.

Sharing success stories should not be used as a trigger to gamble excessively because that happens to many people. They see this success story as an encouragement for them to continue gambling, especially if they have never won big from gambling. They won't stop gambling if they haven't gotten a big win, but even if they have, they won't stop gambling but will continue gambling because they want to get another big win.

It would be greed if they didn't realize that getting a big win was enough for them to stop gambling for a while and they should enjoy their winnings. That is why, if you want to share your success story with people, you should choose who can listen to the success story so that they are not triggered to gamble any longer. We don't want to be blamed by those who start gambling excessively because they have heard our success stories.

Interesting, I'm trying to understand your intent and purpose. but maybe you forgot, that we are here on a gambling discussion board. we cannot prevent or prohibit someone from creating threads according to their wishes, the most important thing is not to violate the rules within the community. in our discussions in the community, everyone can tell stories about their gambling, whether it's about their wins, tips, tricks and even their losses. we can exchange information, knowledge and insights as material for our discussions. but, I really understand the intent and purpose of this discussion. none other than, so that those who are addicted, especially those who want to end it, are not motivated to gamble again.

Well, actually the problem doesn't lie with us. suppose, I am the one who posts wins or successes in my gambling sessions. moreover, I posted a screenshot of a large number of wins. as long as you don't break the rules here, everything is fine. and the problem is, it is precisely those who are tempted to see other members' posts about their wins. they are unable to control themselves, even though they have the intention to stop gambling. especially those within our community. IMO, for me the answer or solution is quite simple regarding what you said in this thread. if, you, I, we, realized that we are very easily influenced by other people's posts of success or victory. the ideal option is, to avoid discussions that involve gambling. we ourselves are responsible for what we do, see and listen to. so one of the efforts to prevent it, we ourselves must be fully aware and avoid it. after all, the one who has the problem is ourselves. so, other people are not responsible for other gamblers' addictions.

Every gambler loses at gambling but I don't know of any gambler who never loss. I think every gambler loses and wins again. So as much as they regret the loss, when they win again they enjoy it. If we don't celebrate after winning, we will never get anything from gambling. We should enjoy those victories, if only for a short period of time, even if it is to comfort our minds. But it must be limited to a certain extent. Also, if a gambler has more losses than wins, he will never find the joy of celebrating those wins. As a gambler I think losing is a common thing. If we can control gambling, we can enjoy the winnings.

This goes back to how each individual responds to it..... And if the person responding to it is wise enough, then this will be a motivation for him to continue trying to improve his abilities and knowledge in gambling, so that he can also increase his chances of winning. get a win or so that he can also get the same opportunity, namely getting a big win in his gambling. However, if the person responding is stupid enough, then when he gets a story that someone has managed to win big in a certain type of gambling, then he will immediately go to the gambling site and play the same type of gambling, without considering everything, he just assumes that he You will also get the same luck and get big wins. but in reality, because he was too ambitious to win, this caused his gambling to become uncontrolled, so that instead of getting a big win, what happened was that his gambling ended in defeat.

Gamblers get joy and rejoice whenever they win in their gambling platforms it's very rall before you could see anyone who wins a bet and hind it to the public what they normally do is to ensure that they have dispense the information of their wining so that anyone who do mock them because they are playing gambling will never believed them or trust in them, so things gamblers does in order to attract people or get their emotions is during the period they win gambling, so gamblers knows what they needs is your encouragement and good news about gambling that their fellow gambler win somewhere else, so such will trigger them to gamble more.

Really just that normal to have those reactions since we are really just that humans on which it would really be just that have that kind of impulsive feeling or boost up on the time that we do win up.
So its normal that you would really be that keeping on saying to public that you have won, yes despite of the losses that you do have then those kind of disappointments would really be going away on which
you would really be that definitely be thinking up on telling anyone that you have won something specially if its a significant amount that you havent been able to win before but if it just really that small then you would really be having those typical stuffs or reactions. There's no way that you can stop someone for them to have those kind of reactions.

If someone had been inspired of  those winning reactions or calls then its up into their own decisions in life whether they would be following someone and become that impulsive
or they would really be that definitely going on the other way or path on which they just dont care on what other situations that they are currently seeing.
It would really be just that depending on you because if you do look with those winnings positively then most likely this one would be pushing you
to play even more.

The people who get success was not like by all the relative and friends around us.This was the reason for which the gamblers will not share about their winning to the relatives mostly and to some of the friend.If the loss happened,many relatives are ready to blame him for the loss.But they are not ready to accept the winning by their hard work.Because the relative are more jealous on us,the winning is based on luck will be the word of the relative on your winning.The experienced gamblers will not accept the words of their relatives,So the best way to handle such time waster will forget the words of that people.Even though you had win sometimes with the luck,the gamblers should not agree it as happened due to luck.Because let the relative wicked by seeing your big money winning.

Very important to note otherwise you will be in unnecessary situations. Imagine if you won $1M and you go about telling everyone who knows you. They will all come to you saying that they want their own cut of the money, or may even start telling you their life problems and all sort of tales. Asides that, you don’t really know who is your friend. The person you trust could have envy and plan something bad for you. At least such bad friendship stories have been heard numerous times. Merely telling someone you won is still motivation.

Sharing your success gambling story does not only encourage a gambling addict but can also but you at risk too unknowingly because you may not know who is listing to your story and maybe envying you and would one day become a potential threat to your safety because they want to have a fair share of your wins which you did informed them about.

It's very much advisable you be discreet with your wins and if you must share to the public use an anonymous system of identity it will help keep you safe from certain attention which you don't desire to get. It's very important to think of your safety before sharing certain stories. Most addict can actually get triggered when they hear stories of people's success and so it's important that whenever an addict is trying to quit gambling, as much as possible such person should avoid anything that suggest gambling in any form to them because it may trigger them again therby making quitting even more difficult.

On the time that you do hit up some million winning then it would really be just that common sense that you wont really be that making yourself that too obvious on which on the situation or condition that you have said that people would really be that flocking around you and telling and asking about money or whatsoever since they do know that you have won big. There's a right time for that, its not bad to express out your emotion in terms of winning gambling on which i do agree that unavoidable on some moments in life but there were people who are really that good when it comes to control
on which they wouldnt really be that easily getting that affected or simply that really just good when it comes to hiding those things on which i could say that it is really just
that better on having that way rather than on telling anyone basing on the situation that you are facing.

If you just share stories about your success in gambling by getting several big wins. But you don't share the victory. Yes... it's only natural that this can make other people feel jealous and dislike you. Moreover, if the person you invite to tell the story is someone who has just experienced consecutive gambling losses. So I think, if we are kind enough, then we shouldn't just share stories, but we should also share love. Even though the amount we give is not much, because at least it will be an entertainment for him, after experiencing several failures and disappointments because he was not able to get good results when gambling.

And do we have to think about what other people say about us.? yes... we need to think about it, as an evaluation material so that we can be better in the future. And when you receive sweet words, consider them as honey, and when you receive bitter words, consider them as medicine. So both of these things can be good things for you.

Everyone has different ways of reasoning but it all depends on how they see's it otherwise there is nothing wrong sharing success story with people over there, only that they are naive and can go to utilized the information in other way round where it could affects them entirely. when you said that there is nothing wrong with but just of human nature they don't wanna hear someone made good money from something they've been trying for years and has no success. Then we also say that anyone who goes to utilized this information the other way round can be seen as irresponsible gambler.

I have lamented in this thread before and I made it know that gambling is a game of luck and neither you and lose is not something a gambler have to or need to campaign outside concerning it Victory in gambling and also it's sad mood in gambling, this the things we have to know, speculating or announcing your wining in gambling to everyone is not encouraging due to you don't know who ha e you in negative mind and you don't know if procrastination will continue to be your surname when publicise your wining to the world, so gambling is something of secret and it suppose to remain secret

Can't believe we should be careful about that? :D

I'm free to do what I want. If I want to talk about my success in gambling or share my big winning experience, I will just do it. Where should the adjustment should come from? From the one who told the story, the listeners, or both? As if we know everyone's feelings before telling them the story. In that case, the listener should do their best not to be affected by any winning story, or if someone is already discussing that experience, make some ways to end or shift the discussions into something else. Either side should adjust as not all have the same thoughts.

Don't cut the fun of others if they are sharing their wins, so what if they have won and shared it? Just quickly scroll to other things and threads so that you won't see it.
I don't think that you're jealous and don't pass the burden of your emotion and feelings to the people that are happily sharing their achievements and you may never know how long they've waited to just win that moment.

That's right, but rather than telling other people about our success in gambling and still having to think about how to tell the story or stop telling it.
For me, it's better not to talk at all about the gambling we do. unless that person wants to hear our story.

Funny as it may seems but that's true, much better if we keep this kind of thing to ourself because it's just like we are exposing our financial privacy or other source of money by telling it to other people, even if the closest friend of ours. It seems like it's hard to explain to them again and again, and maybe later in the end, when they try to do it and they lose, they'll blame us for what happened. We have our own ways of how to share things with other people, but for me, when it comes to financial matter or source of income, I prefer to keep it to myself as confidential.

Generally it is wrong to tell someone of how much money that you earn, because most people out there are going through a lot of shit, they are just looking at someone or something to prey on, I had a news in my locality of how a guy won 4.7million box on football betting, the news spread all over my locality, this guy was the one that told people of his winning, in the night breaking the next day, arm robbers visited him, and they were demanding for that money they heard he won, he said that he haven't cash out the winning from the locall betting shop, they thought he was lieing that he doesn't want to give them the money, so he was shot dead in front of his love one, why am I saying This? For your own security, it's really wrong to tell someone of how much you are worth or how much you own, if it's really a huge amount of money.

Maybe not totally exposing our privacy in means of financial aspects but rather we can be used by those people especially if they need something from us. Their are people want to exploit something especially if they know they have something to get from us that's the reason why its really better to keep silent on everything especially on our win so that we will not get bothered by those opportunist. People need to understand that we are not selfish on our wins but rather we are just careful since winning on gambling is temporary and also we need to protect ourselves for any harmful possibilities that's why its important for us to secret all activities related on financials spendings to avoid issues that might come to us.

Why do we need to tell everyone about your winning? this is somewhat a way for you to be in trouble or target of robbery .

I Only tell my Wife when I won in gambling , though sometimes when I wanted to treat  my parents then I have telling them my winning but that is only for sometimes.

But all In all , lets keep our winning in secret because not all people knows how to handle this precautions .

Sharing gambling victories without losses is incomplete. Telling half the tale and expecting cheers is like that. I usually say, "If you talk the talk, walk the walk." Sharing your luck, however modest, isnt about bragging; its about making someone else happy.

Yes, worrying what others think is smart, not weak. Like collecting data. Every response - good or bad - is feedback. I can improve my social game. Why not make every tip a personal growth tool? I consider that a win.

While we love gambling and its stories, let's remember the human aspect. Sharing wins or moral support can make all the difference. The feedback from others? Bring it. Everything's part of the game and keeps it interesting. Gambling is about the experience and the connections we establish, not simply the money.

maybe what you mean is telling about success in winning but not telling about the amount.
there's no harm in telling anyone about winning from gambling, but you still have to look at your friend's condition, whether they are feeling well or are sad about losing from gambling because the impact is not only to make you jealous, but your friend might borrow money to bet and catch up. it's a loss and of course you will think that if you lend him money, you will only lose again and he won't be able to return your money, but if you don't give him a loan, your friend will definitely be angry.
well, that's when the bad impact of telling stories about winnings to the wrong people is like misleading yourself and actually the right friend to tell the story to is only your partner.
giving a little money to another friend and telling about the win is a very wise way, but it still has bad consequences in the end.
I prefer to hide everything about defeats and wins to avoid other risks as I said.

thinking about other people? yes, it is necessary but I won't do it because usually they will continue to approach us when we get a big win but they will avoid us when we have nothing left.

Sharing your success is good in order to share successful field with others but I think the success of gambling should be hidden because if someone hear about your success then may be he force you to gamble for him but here it is not possible to earn all the time therefore keep every success as a secret. The wife is only a trustable person is one's life and sharing success with wife is a good idea because a person wants just a single loyal person with whom he can share all his worries and happiness. If you share your success with others then also think that everyone cannot get success in gambling because everyone's luck is not same in it.

Some people feel that sharing their winning moments in gambling can give them pride. They will see how many people will congratulate them so it will give satisfaction to those who win.
But someone who doesn't care about that will keep their winnings to themselves and only tell about it to those close to them. They feel it will make them forget that winning is due to their luck in gambling.
I agree to share moments of success with my wife but not to share moments of victory in gambling because not all wives can accept the fact that we gamble and win ;D

Yeah there is always two sides of the story and of course choices as well. Some people tell stories of victory but it's the opposite of what had happened to them but can't blame them because they also have reasons why they do that. There is this honest gambler that just wanted to share his or her winnings. It is actually up to us whether we get inspirations to those stories or not but the important thing is that we are enjoying the game but yeah it is really not everyone deserves to hear our winnings in gambling.

share it with the right people. Share stories of wins or losses in gambling with people who have the same activity. so there will be feedback for us.
but nowadays you certainly see quite a lot of people sharing their wins on social media via screenshots. I guess it really shouldn't be done. it might make things even more difficult for itself if more people don't like it.

If you can think sharing your success in gambling will make other to force to gamble for them, I see no difference with:

1. Sharing a success in cryptocurrency, they will force you which coin you invested and trade for them.
2. Sharing a success in real life e.g. promotion, they will force you to give them a job.
3. Sharing a as an athlete, they will force you to share your winnings a little bit to them.

In the end, they will ask something that gives them benefit even though they did nothing for you.

Unless you straight up reject those person who are requesting these things to you. It's just that there are people who don't understand the struggle and the risk we face whenever we get a success from what we are doing. I find it no problem sharing our winnings especially if the person can understand the struggles I face to get the success, but if there are other person who I know new to the thing and just want to ride my success, I will mostly no entertain them.

Atleast for the people who requested to join the ride to success, they should at least learn the fundamentals or know the risks. It is hard to be blamed if you failed, also it's an additional pressure if someone is waiting for your success.

What about someone whom in his circle has no friends that are into gambling? Anyway thanks for the advice, some gamblers do get motivated by others winnings while some get depressed, but they get depressed because they have tried multiple times to win in gambling with no luck so far, I won't dare get depressed because you win in gambling while I don't, because it's complete luck at work.

Sharing success stories is not a great idea apart from gambling, people who share their success stories are easily becoming a target of bad people around the world, now kidnappers will go on social media to look into peoples stories, see who just do something great, like build a giant hotel or houses and so on, then they try to find them in the real life.

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You are you, don't me moved about what happened to others around you, your time will come if it's bound to happen, especially in gambling, you can't sleep on it, your friends or people around you just get lucky, when they lose money I bet they won't be ready to share that with you, every gamblers have their bad days and good days.

I was really thinking about it, but yeah it could be true though, but within our circle of friends, most of the time we will share our win, not of the intention to give them some when you win, but I guess we just want to compare. Maybe it was a competition from within our circles or just bragging right, hehehe. But for those you don't know or at least not that close, yeah, maybe it's not good to tell them that you are winning and what is the amount.

They might take it negatively and say that you are arrogant and brandish for bragging your winning. Or if they are secretly gamblers themselves and might go and think that they will gamble again after hearing on how much you win.

A lot of things has been said concerning the topic of discussion but I think it is based on your relationship with someone that will make you to even talk about your winning and your losses in gambling.To some people your story be it winning or loss may motivate them to give gambling a tryer to some it may cause them to reduce or stop gambling entirely so it depends on who you tell your story. Privacy should be one of the things we consider when discussing with people especially stories that involves investments i believe it depends on personal understanding of everyone who's into any kind of investment.

Everyone has a different view on this matter and that's why again those who see any information about your winnings don't always like it, because it's true that not everyone likes the winnings you share on social media or in this forum because there are still many people who experience defeat at gambling and will take it as something serious, like a kind of ridicule, but for true gamblers they will consider it as good motivation that there is still a win at gambling that can be obtained.

Everyone has different characteristics and behavior in viewing someone's pleasure and victory at gambling, sometimes they are angry with themselves because they feel like they have failed and did not get the full victory as you shared, there are even people who regret taking quick decisions that make them end up losing a lot of money in gambling, that's what drives a lot of views from the public, that's why I never like sharing my winning stories on social media. It also prevents friends from borrowing money from me later. lol  ;D

This is very true, every story you hear can either make you or break you. There are persons who may be at the verge of giving up on gambling, but when they hear the success story of a fellow gambler, the decided not to quit and they get to smile at the end. While others it may be the nail on their coffin, as they keep trying their luck and they become more broke and depressed. Your advice is good but I don't think it can actually stop gamblers from talking about their success story because some persons feel good doing this.

I usually hate to brag about my gambling winnings. Those winnings are mostly based on luck and luck just comes and goes. There's no point for me to brag about having luck, because my luck would most likely go away tomorrow. And I hate bragging in general.
Almost all gambling addicts are mentally unstable and I agree that bragging with your success in front of a gambling addict could have negative consequences. The problem is that many casinos use testimonials from gamblers, who won money as a part of their marketing campaigns. How can you stop the casinos from doing such sneaky marketing moves?

Winning requires strategy, discipline, and understanding when to quit. You avoid discussing victories to avoid envy or loan requests, but there's more. To promote responsible gambling, gains are shared as lessons in strategy and self-control, not flaunted.

Yeah, not everyone is motivated by wins. But disguising success doesnt work. Why not teach instead? Explain your victories. Make it clear that gambling is entertainment with risks and benefits. Your story can warn or educate, not brag.

Remember, never bet more than you can lose. This is about creating a community that prioritizes smart decisions above quick victories, not just you and me. Let's shift from winning to learning and improving.

Your story will affect each individual differently and you won't know how it affects them therefore not telling them your gambling story regardless of it being a win or lose would be better. If the story motivate them then they'll start gambling and as beginners, they have more chances of doing it all wrong due to the greed they'll be getting from your story. They've seen someone that won from gambling and they will want to also win but they don't yet understand how gambling works.

The story can also cause envy and jealousy which will make them to plan evil towards you. There are stories of friends betraying each other after winning together or getting to know about the wealth that their friend has gotten from gambling. Being private is the best thing to do and don't tell other individuals about your success or failure in gambling. It should be a personal experience so you don't regret telling others.

Indeed, telling about gambling success will indirectly encourage gamblers and try as much as possible to follow our style, but on the other hand, people will ignore it because they know the true meaning of gambling, depending on the character of the person who hears it.

And that means we shouldn't share our winning stories with other people carelessly because that could trigger them to follow what we do. If they follow us in gambling but they don't have good self-control, they will only plunge themselves into gambling, and in the end, they will become addicted to gambling. When they still don't realize it, their gambling addiction will get worse, and later, we may be blamed for telling them about our winnings even though we had no intention of inviting them to gamble. It is the fault of those who do not know what needs to be prepared before they gamble and what they must have before gambling. They are fascinated by the wins we get and want to win like us, so that will make them gamble like we do.

As practice shows, rational arguments do not work on addicted gamblers - otherwise they would not even start (or continue) spending money on gambling. Yes, other people's success stories can cause harm (psychologically) to people because they compare their results with someone else's and maybe become jealous or feel their need more acutely. But this is the real world - you cannot hide from it behind rose-colored glasses, you must be able to accept it as it is. If someone cannot do this, then this is more likely their problem and not yours, and you should not stop being proud (even publicly) of your achievements. The main thing is that it be in an adequate form and not in the form of arrogant boasting or something like that.

The approach you take towards sharing your winnings in gambling shows a positive and loving mindset. Acknowledging defeat as an integral part of the storytelling process shows wisdom and a holistic understanding of the game. Treating shared experiences as a way to bring joy to others and foster stronger social bonds adds a positive aspect to the gambling experience. Embracing feedback, whether constructive or critical, as an opportunity for personal development also shows maturity and balance in one's approach to gambling activities.


By paying attention to our friends' emotional and financial balance and condition, and by being aware of the social consequences of discussing our gambling adventures, we can proactively avoid potential problems, such as unwise loan applications. It is wise to carefully choose which friends to confide in and refrain from divulging specific figures regarding our wins or losses, as this can maintain the integrity of our relationships and reduce the detrimental impact on both parties involved. Additionally, upholding a sense of financial confidentiality serves as an additional layer of protection against further harm.

The less people know about you, the happier you will be.

I think that is very true. At least it has been, for me. Most people will choose to exploit your weaknesses if it serves them. This does not go for ALL people, of course. But I have found it useful to hedge your bets against human nature.

And everyone is differently affected and need different cures. So they are the only ones who know how to best help themselves.

Success stories are great motivators though. That alone may also help people battle their addiction.

The gambler had their own winning and losing story,but he need to motivate himself on the losing story begin.Because when the losing was possible in the gambling,the gamblers should accept their will be the next story of winning.The gambler who able to control themselves with the game can able to make the biggest money in the gambling site.The gamblers who can control to the temptation of playing more game after the big winning able to withdraw the funds from the gambling site.The rest of the gamblers will lose their money in the gambling site by the greedy on the gambling game.Greedy was the enemy to the gamblers to get satisfied with the dollars which he won based on their ability.

Come in mind that we are just humans on which we are really that beings who do have feelings or emotions on which on the time that you would really be having those kind of winnings then
you would really be just that simply having those normal reactions that you would really be tending to boast it up. Yes, it might make others to be that desperate but its none of their business
or right on what you should gonna say and what you shouldnt. This is why it is really that common that there would really be those winning gamblers are really that being too tactful
in regarding into their wins on which its better to let them celebrate at least. If we are really that in concern into those people who might be able to hear out then its their
fault if they would be making these wins to be their inspiration on playing more with gambling.

Well in this case things are very emphatic, there are more bad things than good, and more bad things than good, that will always be something that is evident in every sense, I personally have always noticed and realized something, When I'm about to look for casinos and things and they give me money, sometimes the slightest envy of the people makes me block out many more opportunities. I could say that when things like that are noticed, one should keep quiet, in fact He says that the polans you have have to be quiet.

Sometimes the best things are the ones that are not counted, if we count our things, things can be thrown back and nothing is fulfilled, so taking these things into consideration we will not be able to emerge, it is better than the profits in it don't tell each other too much, because first the envy of many, secondly the ideas that they want to steal will always look for a way to do it.

If humanity were that, a little more human, then the victories of others make the eprosans happy and few suffer from envy, not everyone thinks like that and few make a difference, however when we are in a casino that is why Crypto makes the difference, so we do it in the most anonymous way possible to avoid these types of problems. When we are expecting some privacy, we are always going to do the best we can so that we are not tracked. There have been many thefts when the companies announced They have crypto in fact many have been robbed from their home, criminals come in and threaten them with a gun, and that makes them rob them, so sometimes things are better kept secret, when it comes to money we should be secretive in that sense and it doesn't do much to stop others from starting to invent, because the bad things are the ones that predominate the most, so it's better to avoid them

There are ones who do really love on sharing up their success stories which actually its not really that a success but rather a temporal win on which it would really be wiping all the
frustrations that you do have been able to feel a while ago. On the moment you would really be able to win up some amount in gambling then there are ones who do
celebrate out on obvious manner on which there are ones who do just that being silent. This is why it would really be that depending on someones preference
and when it comes to their reaction then it would really be that different to each other. Just like on what others been saying that its none of their business
on how you would celebrate yourself about into those wins.

I'm not of the opinion you should be constantly meticulous about your words in order to not potentially harm someone around, especially when sharing personal achievements which were and are important for you, as this way you are expressing your happiness and emanating it around. It's wrong to be opressed to not express feelings anymore, being them good or bad emotions. If people around are going to get upset somehow, then it's their problem, not yours.

Of course, each case is unique, and you won't arrive to a burial laughing and joking, so use your reason and act accordingly to the present situation, but don't feel fearful of saying something, because you don't know how the reaction of the present people will be. Actually, people are too fearful about saying and expressing how they feel and their genuine personalities nowadays, which turns to be one big issue in our society, as people don't act naturally and authentically anymore. In the end people just get paranoid and artificial.

This is the same kind of mindset where people can't tell someone he or she is beautiful, because an ugly one who is present will feel offended. A gambler in loss has to be aware there are winning gamblers in the world, and there is nothing he can do about it besides accepting it's not his case. We can't have everything we want and things don't always turn to happen the way we want. To understand and accept it means to be mature to face reality.

Maybe they are just happy with the result they earn for certain day and for them its a success since they survive the day for winning some amount on gambling. But they don't actually count the stats since obviously we know what would be the result.

What's more important to them is they get that win and that makes them feel more excited and enjoy on what they currently do.

This will really depend on someones preferences since not everyone have good mindset in each result they get since there are other people still not happy even if they win since they want more and always count how much overall they spend on weekly or monthly basis.

From your point of view, telling success stories in gambling is very important. You should be happy about your wins, but you should also think about how they might affect other people. Getting hooked on gaming is very dangerous, and people who are already hooked may use success stories to keep gambling instead of getting help. Be aware of the different things people around us are going through and be careful when we talk about these things. People can make the gambling community more helpful and understanding by being aware of what might happen if people share their wins and tell others about their good luck.

It's like for example Instagram: people share perfect images about their apparently perfect lives. The problem is that, many times, it is all fake and, even if someone managed to get such a perfect life, sharing it so other people with normal or even miserable lives see and compare them is not very ethical.

With gambling, I can understand that people who win big can be eager to share their victory with others, but remember that people who lose don't often talk about it, so only sharing these good news creates a false impression about a very different reality that can be devastating to sensitive people who often lose.

Don't confuse the exception with the norm.

Well, some casinos offer the option for people to post their winning bet ID in public, to actually show that people are winning on their platform.

The social media postings also do not show all the prior losing bets and their accumelated amount subtracted from that win that was posted. (Example : You bet $5 per bet and only win after say 2 hours, spending $10 000 and then you win $9500..... Net profit = $500)  :D

It should be noted that not all gamblers share success stories because they want people to gamble. Most people who share success stories on their pages want subscribers so they can make money. This person can go to the length of fabricating stories just to make gambling so lucrative. Even when we consider the bookies it is still their mode of advert. They make winning so easy and this is so because they want more players so that they can make more money.

The above notwithstanding, when I win, I only tell my friends who are into gambling. If you are not into gambling then I don't have to tell you about my winnings because the information is not important to you. The reason why I don't bother sharing my loss is that all gamblers know that you must lose so why tell them what they know? The only exciting report is that you won and when I do I tell my guys and we eat the bookie's money together.

As we all have different perspectives, it is true that we should exercise caution when sharing our gambling success stories with those who listen. While some listeners may see it as motivation to keep playing, others may see it negatively due to a bad gambling experience they had. I believe that various individuals may react differently when you share your own gambling stories with them. For example, some people may find your descriptions of gambling inspiring or amusing, while others may feel jealous, disapproving, or even triggered if they have experienced gambling addiction.
Of course, I think that sharing such experiences in a casual conversation may be received differently than doing so in a formal or professional setting.
I think it's also crucial that we keep sensitive or personal information about anyone who could have been engaged in your gambling activities private, especially if they haven't granted their consent. In summary, when we share our gambling success stories with others, we should eventually use careful consideration for their opinions and emotions.

       -   Well, in that matter, it's really better for us to decide for ourselves whether or not we will be successful in the field of gambling here in the crypto space. You may be right, because we do not hold the mind of every gambler who has a gambling addiction.

We have heard a lot of bad news because of the effect or cause of having an addiction, which even leads to a crime situation or a gambling addict hurting someone just because of the greed they have.

That's why it's important for us to keep the story of our victory to ourselves because the victory we get doesn't necessarily have a positive impact, and besides, we shouldn't tell other people about our victory, because we never know whether it can encourage other people or vice versa, personally, I I prefer to keep it to myself, meaning I never tell or just show my winnings on my social media, unless my wife knows more about my winnings than anyone else.

I am a person who always takes care of the feelings of other gamblers, sometimes we never know that other people have a lot of debt because of gambling so they feel annoyed with themselves seeing us win at gambling, it definitely really hurts their feelings, that's why I always take care of other people's feelings by we gamble for ourselves and win for ourselves so we don't have to let other people know the story about our winnings at gambling, even though it might have a good impact, we can't see it from just one point of view, we have to look at it the other way around.

Because in the end in this case we must know that everyone just want to show their strong side and does not want to show the negative side that they have and that is quite normal because after all everyone wants to do that not only in gambling but in all aspects because they do not want to show that they are weak and always want to show their strength in the form of victory in gambling or other achievements that they have.

This is a form of normal self-protection from a human being because we know that when we show ourselves weak then we can indirectly get a situation where we become underestimated and not everyone expects something like this so they will continue to try to publish strength so that the stigma of everyone who sees us considers that we are someone who can do success and will not be underestimated.

Most gamblers who lose are unable to motivate themselves and will instead continue gambling because they think they can still win the gambling game even though it will still be difficult for them. When they lose, they should be able to understand that it is a sign to stop their gambling activities before the loss becomes even bigger. They must be able to control themselves from the temptation that will come after they lose, and that can make them return to gambling. That is why they must continue to exercise self-control so as not to be tempted by the offers they see at the casino. And when they win, they also don't need to tell anyone they know about their win because that is the gambler's privacy.

In gambling advertising especially social media post like stake.com doing they talk about both winning and losing to grab people's attention. They want to make it exciting, so they mention the possibility of getting prizes but also say that sometimes you might not win. This way they get both people who like taking risks and people who are careful about losing money to pay attention. It's like telling a story that makes gambling seem more interesting to a lot of different people.

Yes, I completely agree with the OP. Even if you wanted to show off to your friends, relatives or other people, they will probably think about the game and they will definitely have an irresistible desire to play. They will do this with thoughts like “why am I worse than him or other winning players” or they just want to test their luck. And even if the player starts to lose, he will bet more and more furiously with each bet, trying to make the winnings higher than you told him. Behind these stupid actions will be human envy, depression, anger that a person has accumulated, whether at work or anywhere else.

The main thing I want to say is that even when telling someone about our victories, we seem to invite the person to play, but at this moment we don’t realize it, because we just want to show ourselves higher, increase our worth, or just show off like a little boy, and not an adult and reasonable person.

I don't think we need to boast it big here yet just because of the euphoria you get when you hit a huge win it is normal you want to publish it somewhere where it will get glorified,like this forum.However I agree that we should not overdo it and it would be enough to just share the bet slip that you won it.I don't like sharing the replays anymore as it can have bad consequences on people watching the replay who can go and try to get that huge win themselves.

Well, you do have a point, but sometimes it's not bad to share your achievements. Let's put it this way: you are a humble person who is gambling and suddenly wins a jackpot. Now a days, people have the habit of posting on social media about great things to them, so it can't be helpful to share those experiences, just not in the form of flexing or showing off to the people or viewers of your post or story. Also, be prepared, as many people might have different views about you doing gambling. It can't be helped because we are in a social media era where discrimination and saying bad stuff to others are scattered or are becoming a norm or habit for many people. So if you want a quiet life and you are winning at gambling, it's much better to stay low-key and do what you want without someone judging you.

That's right, I have the same view as you which is that I think bragging about winning in gambling is not really necessary, I understand that it is a great achievement especially if the amount of victory is very large which makes me think it is natural if you want to brag by publicizing it to others, especially some of your friends who are also gamblers, it doesn't matter because everyone always wants to look superior to others, but it is unnecessary to brag in an excessive way. One of the disadvantages is that it is very likely that some of your friends who are also gamblers will eventually ask for or claim the right to the amount of winnings that you have won, no problem if you are willing to share it, but if it turns out that you are one of the stingy people then obviously this situation will cause problems in your friendship with them. And besides that, as you said, there is a possibility of adverse effects that can be experienced by people who see it, there is a possibility that they will try to pursue the same winnings as you get with the aim of bragging back to you, but the worry is when they are not as lucky as you in the sense that they will spend more money.

Oh, I totally agree with you, that was not what I meant. Of course, most people share their victories not in order to sell anything, but as a protection mechanism like another member answered before or, imo, because we often like to pump our selfs when we are successful by showing these moments to others. This behavior os not specific to humans, but there is no doubt that our species behaves that way too.

Here in my country I have seen many people who, when they don't have money, don't post anything, they are completely anonymous people, it seems like they aren't alive because they disappear for a long time. but these same people, when they earn a lot of money thanks to some business or job, they start to carry out a wide campaign of exhibitionism on social networks, when men are posting photos with very expensive clothes and in luxurious places, they post a lot of cars and women and luxury food. I honestly constantly wonder what the purpose is for them to do these kinds of things, although I suspect they do it because they want to be admired and loved in society. but the problem with that is that the thieves, the criminals, the kidnappers when they look at this

They are seeing a great opportunity to steal from the house of that person who keeps posting luxury things, when they are women, when they don't have money they don't post anything about themselves, but when they have money they start posting photos with exaggeratedly short clothes. and they post food and luxury places, because the rich will invite them to travel to luxury places and give them money, in other words, they are prostituting themselves. The problem with this is that when they are old, they no longer have that beautiful body, and they go looking for a man to marry and will only end up with a man who is characterless, violent and a liar and who every day will be condemning them for their past. That's why, in my opinion, people shouldn't focus on showing off on social media. should live without showing off

Which turns out to be that always a part of us eh? on having that kind of moments on which we do really just focus on sharing out the winning moments and not on to those who are losing on which it is really just that normal on having that kind of behavior on which people would really be that having those kind of approach when it comes into this specific condition.
Going back into the thing about trying to tell on your winning moment then its none others business on how you would really be making out those sayings into public.
It is really just that depending into someone if they would really be finding out themselves to be that getting inspired into the moments that someone do make out
those winnings.

Of course gambling wins are exciting and come sometimes with logical celebrations. However it is not a proper practice to make ones gambling wins drive him to gamble more or gamble less. Yes some gambling activities are based mainly on analytical skills and experience but it still always has a percentage dedicated to luck.

Now when we make some money whether through gambling or not, most of the time we can get so excited we tend to break the news to a whole bunch of persons. But the truth is not all of these persons are happy when they see you happy especially when it comes to you hitting a jackpot. Due to this reason some of this persons may want to harm you directly or indirectly because they envy you. Therefore I think it is best that when sharing news of your winnings if necessary, you try as much as possible to keep the circle small.

Showing off our winnings to close friends or co-workers will only trigger them to gamble like we do, they will definitely think that they too can win if they try continuously and without realizing this can give rise to a gambling addiction because they are too ambitious to win big, they should aware that gambling is full of risks and it is not easy to win large amounts of gambling if they are not lucky because gambling is a luck-based game.

But someone who wins at gambling will definitely not be able to keep quiet, they will definitely tell their friends about their win because they feel that something is missing if they haven't told them about their win because they are proud of the results they got which are not easily achieved by many people. This doesn't need to be said because apart from causing envy, this can also make people who are addicted to gambling give up their intention to stop gambling.

I have never really understand why people boast about the profits they got through gambling, since it is not as if they got those profits through their skill, and instead they just got lucky to win in that instance.

And even if the win was the result of your skill, it still makes no sense to boast about it, as you never know who may be monitoring your account and they may target you now that you know that you have some money at your disposal and they may try to steal it.

In the process of adrenaline and joy of a player who has just won a lot of money, of course, you can commit light, rash acts, this is completely normal. I don't see anything bad for a player to write about this on the forum. And if he doesn’t take his money back to lose it, then he will have a lot of wonderful things in life. Of course, he will not think about those who want to repeat his success, but there will be hundreds and thousands who will not be able to do this.

Thanks to social networks, tens of thousands of photos appear every day with the beautiful lives of people, and sometimes it seems to me that nothing can surprise me anymore. Probably if I were swiping and came across this photo with a win, I would devote 5 seconds to it and no more, and then I would simply forget about it. This concerns me, but there will be those people who will be interested in this and they will just want to know what gambling is, register and start playing. Then they will be sad when they find out that behind that beautiful photo with a win, there was a lot of lost money.

So gamblers who are out there and having fun to share their joy with the others could be the suspect of others mishap and sadness because they're not lucky at that day?

That's true, while people think that those that have happily shared their winnings and photos think that it is only it. No, there has been an adventure that gone through with that and that's what they need to understand that it is not only about the winning but also how much losses that sharer/gambler have gone through so just be happy with them if they're happy. It's free to be happy for other people.

I don't see the need to show off in the first place. I don't actually know why people do that because my definition of wealth is that it should be used to help humanity and not oppress them. Flaunting one's wealth is actually oppressive and I do not subscribe to that in any way whatsoever.

Looking at it from another perspective, how you go about with the publicity of your winning depends on your safety. If you are from a neighborhood where disclosing your finances will pose a security threat to you, then there will be no need letting anyone know you have a winning. On the other hand, if such publicity does not generate any form of security threat, then there shouldn't be any problem with sharing with friends and associates. However, in my own case, I love my privacy so all information about my gambling stays with me.

You are right dear. Your success story is another person sad story. People hate to hear you talk about your success, but when you talk about your sad story they will be claiming they have pitty for you, but deep down they are happy for your downfall. Note people don't want to hear or see your success but always want to see you below them. It's not all about telling them your success story, but also don't seek advice from people on how to succeed in life because they will never advice you on how you can succeed more than them. Rather suggesting a way for you to be lesser than they think of you. So let's be mindful of how we tell people things about our private life because it has a negative implications there after. I watched a video online that say" it's better to Work hard in silence and let your success speak for you" and alway don't post your success on social media rather you can post unnecessary things to get rid of There attention on you. Then when you have finally succeed you can post your success story when they have no time to advise you anymore.

Because they feel proud of their victory which their friends can't get so they show it off, even though this may not be important to their friends and they don't get any benefit other than they are thirsty for their friends' praise because they can win the gambling, maybe they will get praise. and applause, but apart from that, his friends will definitely want to ask him for a portion, either with a treat or just a drink to celebrate. But deep down he was very happy and hoped that his friends would also follow in his footsteps and continue gambling so they could win like him.

Bragging about it is pointless and actually triggers other friends to continue gambling and chasing losses, which can make a person uncontrollable.
This thing is indeed a kind of trick in casinos to attract users by making it profitable for users to continue gambling, therefore, if we can win at gambling, don't ever be greedy, immediately take your winnings and stop gambling for a while.

Not everyone deserves to hear of your winning in gambling. Yes it much very true and I also have a story of mine that I do win but in trading I can basically earn 100$ in 2 hours I tell my friend and that night I just lost all of it including the first balance that Im using for my first trade.

There some youtube short say if you winning don't tell everybody or you gonna lose after it, and somehow this is very true.

Its just coincidence i would say because whether you do tell or not about something then it cant still be able to assure whether you would be losing or winning into the next one and this is how gambling do works.

If you do hear out someone about their winning then just let them be,we know that it is one of the most common behavior of someone whenever they do able to hit up some wins
and they would really be focusing into that on which they do really believe that they could be able to beat up gambling and make those continous wins. For those who do able to hear out
those kind of declaration or able to read it up. Then to those who arent that good when it comes to emotion would really be having that kind of some emotion boost up
on which they would really be that able to hear it out.

We do know that there are people who would really be that easily get attached when someone does have those kind of declaration and
celebrating that they have won something.Loses would be normally be kept secret of course.

Yes, that's correct. We have to choose anyone who can know about our win so that news of the win does not spread to many people. Moreover, we don't know who will later find out that we have won a lot of money from gambling. That can cause problems for us because they can ask us for money and say that asking for a little money will not reduce the winnings we get. But I don't know if telling other people can make us lose all the money because I just heard about that. Maybe it's just a coincidence. But I agree with the short sentence you said that don't tell everyone about our win. We must decide with whom we will share our win and who we will invite to celebrate it.

I fully support your opinion. In fact, showing off or sharing experiences with other people has a bad impact if we are not right in terms of sharing winning experiences from gambling because even though we are in a safe environment without any threats, it still won't be safe because if we tell stories to others friends about big wins, the most common impact that often occurs and I often say is that a friend will approach us and borrow money from us, even some people will definitely know about this because sometimes a friend will reveal the winnings that we get.
It's not a threat, but it will have an impact on friendships when he knows you have a lot of money, but when he borrows money from you and refuses, friendships will definitely be destroyed.

there's nothing wrong with sharing our experiences, but it would be better to maintain financial privacy from anyone because money can threaten us from any bad impacts.

it's difficult for someone who mostly having fun to sharing his winnings to stop this activity. I'm not talking about player experiences on this forum, but this is IRL. There are several slot players, they talk about the win they got each other, they seem to be competing to proof he is the biggest winner. Maybe this is one of the effects of their habit of often talking about their wins. So they don't hesitate to beat each other from playing slots. I'm not sure how many losses they'll get before or after, but if this continues there will probably become endless competition between them.

sometimes it is much better for gamblers to maintain their privacy by not talking about their winnings to other people because we don't know what other people mean to us and what if it turns into a bad incident that harms us. it's better to keep quiet and keep all the winning money to ourselves because it's much better to keep quiet like that compared to talking about or even flexing it to other people because it's no use either.

Having a bad impact or not, its none others peoples business on how you would really making yourself do tell those things. Its not their right to stop you on what you should gonna say. It would really be just
on someones decision whether they would really be trying out to reflect those words into their own trading or investment decisions on which it would really be that adding up that kind of risks towards into yourself if you do find on having that kind of impulsive reaction in towards those winnings. No one had forced you to gamble and those winners or those people who do said that they have won havent been able to say that you should gamble. It is really just that your own responsibility on what are the things that you've been deciding.

If you do saw that they had won up something big then so be it, and let them play continuously. But if you are that somone whose really that loving on trying out to copy
someones luck or trying to reflect yourself then you are really that bound into these kind of mistakes or errors. This is why it would be important that you should
really know on what you are doing.

I think it's normal for people to want to show off what they've got, because everyone has that trait. but I myself sometimes get irritated by seeing my friends showing off their winnings that they got in gambling, even though their winnings are not much, I mean don't exaggerate too much because there are still many people who have won more than we have got, I myself don't dare show it off. winnings obtained from gambling, because in my environment gambling is prohibited, so if I show it off, many people will think badly of me, and I myself think that the winnings obtained from gambling should not be shown off, it's better to feel it yourself if you really want to feel it. more happiness, then you can treat your friends to a drink or meal. that's just an appreciation.

That's right, depending on the environment too, maybe there are some out there who don't mind gambling so showing off their winnings over gambling isn't a problem. But I'm sure that many people have a bad view of gambling, so if someone shows off their winnings, it's possible that many people will look bad at the winnings they've got.

Publicly I agree with you especially if your identity is exposed since you will never know who can see your post and will have interest on your money.

But sharing it anonymously like in the forum is fine with me as long as there’s no personal information attached on it. As a gambler, sharing my achievement after an adrenaline fun filled game is satisfying when it resulted to a great win. It’s more on self satisfying act to make your day complete.

I don't want to share my experiences because it could damage someone in playing gambling, who previously was not very interested in gambling when given the person's direction becomes motivated to gamble and that could harm someone, but I agree more with what you said about maintaining financial privacy from anyone Of course, that will threaten him because money knows no one, be it relatives or friends. It will certainly be detrimental if he just throws out the results of his winnings in gambling.

The gambler who had huge experience should share their experience to the people with some good heart.It was true you had earned the experience by loss of the dollars.But you can help your community people to earn some dollars because of your experience.They also help in your future,when you doesn’t have money for the gambling game.Actually they can give you the loan at the time of no money.Every gamblers will get this situation of no money for the next game at the bad time.


The gambler should not gamble with the loan money,it’s important to skip the gambling with the loan money.The loan can be used for the personal uses and not on the gambling game.The gambler should earn and play gambling with earning money to avoid of friends misunderstanding.

There's no harm in telling other people about our victory, but first look at who we tell it to. And what is your reason for saying this?

And if the reason is just to show off and brag about having achieved a number of big wins in gambling, it would be better if you didn't do that. Not a few people experience disaster after winning at gambling, where upon returning from the casino he was robbed by a number of people, one of the robbers was someone he had talked to at the casino about the winnings he had just obtained.

We may talk about the victory we have just achieved, only to those closest to us who we trust. And it would be careless to tell this to someone you don't know, whose background we don't even know. Careless things that can have fatal and unfortunate consequences.

I would not share my winning either. I am not against it being displayed, not I will never post on purpose that I have won. Why would I even do that? To get approval and praise? That is imo unethical. It is like boasting. I doubt that information about where, how and how much I have won will be valuable for someone. It will give them no help to get the same experience. And I am the "money loves silence" theory supporter.

Some gamblers enjoys sharing their wins with their friends, just because they are very excited that they won big. In some cases, maybe the person has never had any win before, and his first win becomes like a testimony to him. It is old time gamblers that are use to winning, that might see sharing the story of their win as a threat to them because they don't want anyone to know if they won or not or if they are gamblers or not. My first win gave me joy and I had to tell my friends and even took them out to the bar that evening so that they can also enjoy from it. Currently, I don't share my wins anymore, and I don't like the idea because it can make your friends or other people that are envious of you to start gambling, even when they have never gambled before.

You're very right with your opinion on this topic. There was a time a friend of mine luckily won big in gambling so because of the fact that the amount of money he won was too much, I advised him to only disclose his winning to his immediate family members as well as his close friends if he wishes to or better still keep the news to himself and think of how put the money to good use but to my greatest surprise, he decided not to heed to my advice and went about telling everyone in the neighborhood of how big his winning was.

Weeks later, so group of people attacked him and robbed him of all  his valuables and forced him to transfer all the money in his account to them. It was later that we learnt that it was one of the boys in the neighborhood that led the gang that robbed him and that made him to learn his lessons the hard way

I don't think that a loose mouth person is a wise person, and as long as anyone didn't know you gamble, not to talk of you winning, then it is wise to keep it that way. Disclosing your gambling winning has a lot of risk attached to it than not disclosing it, so why not opt for the first to keep yourself intact? One of the issues of offline gambling is that people get to know you and your results, and this could cause issues like robbery and harassment which no one will like. So, telling people now despite gambling it online makes it almost the same as offline, if not the same as that situation. Note that you do not know the mind of anyone towards you, the minds of some people towards one another could be wicked, especially if they are your jealous friends unknown to you. This could be a serious issue.

It is better to live your life as you've lived it without causing unnecessary attention to yourself. We hear of cases where people will have crypto and some unscrupulous people will force them into isolated places for them to move their assets to them. This could be possible also if you win big and a friend sets some people you didn't know to come and attack you and collect that money from you. While some will only be hateful because of your success, and even if you give them a fraction of winning, they might never be satisfied. So, it is better to keep your winning to yourself, unless it is so small to the extent that it can't attract attention.

Telling people or social media about your winnings can indeed be dangerous, especially if the winnings are big, your house could be robbed or your friends steal your money secretly, sometimes financial matters can give someone evil thoughts if they have the opportunity. To get it, remember that thieves come when they have the opportunity and no doubt those closest to us can also do it, so it's better to hide our winnings to ourselves or just give them to our family rather than having to tell the public, let alone social media.

Yes, sharing it on the forum is no problem because we can all share stories and experiences when gambling and most forum people also share stories of their losses and wins here so it will be safe because we don't know each other and the forum is anonymous. Indeed, being able to win at gambling is a satisfying and enjoyable result, therefore many people want to share their winning stories on this forum.

winning will bring people to ask you for money. invite criminals to crime to you. and if you don't get what you want, aka money from you. you will be talked about the badness of him, he is a gambler, which will damage your reputation in the community.
So if you win gambling, just enjoy it for fun, no need to publicize it.

If we talk about losses, maybe the losses are big, but they don't tell you about it and only share the winnings, so we don't know how big the losses are. Yes, it is natural for them to share their winnings so that it is possible for other members to feel motivated to get their big wins. But they should remember that slot games can cost them all their money without them realizing it because they will be curious about the results they receive and still want to chase big wins. After all, it is rare for people to get big wins continuously, especially in slot games, unless they really have more luck than others.

Yesterday I read in another topic (sorry, I'm writing from my smartphone and cannot find it right now) a member who said that he told some friends that he was into Bitcoin, in order to encourage them, and they started calling him "Mr. Bitcoin" and such things, and he regretted having told them anything because people who hear that usually think that everyone who is into Bitcoin is rich, and he was a bit worried about his safety.

With gambling it's the same, I guess: if someone wins big, it's better not to tell it to anyone, if you want to stay, or at least feel, safe. Envy is really bad.

Nice. It's okay to share, who knows, maybe it will boost the confidence of another gambler that he makes a goal the same as you.
IMO, it's not always a negative thing. There are people who like reading positive vibes and winning a big multiplier is not like being boastful about it but telling other people that it can happen. I mean, it's not impossible which other gamblers think.

Also, it gives a chance to the one who will share it to inform others that they can do it too. Why? Because he is a legitimate player and not a streamer who might have a rigged system while he is recording his playtime.
Many don't believe those anymore but when the information comes to the gambler itself, then it's easier to be believed by other players especially those who have not yet experienced those huge multipliers in their entire life of playing whatever the game it is.
Yes, I think it will satisfy both the gambler who shared and the one who will read it. It's a big proof that it can happen to anyone.

Well, not everyone will indeed be happy for you when you tell them about your achievements and a lot of people might have evil eyes which can affect the overall results of what you are doing. So, you should keep your achievements to yourself so that they are safe from the evil eyes of the world.

People often get excited when they achieve something, especially when it comes to gambling or trading, because they become extremely happy when they win or earn something and they want to share that excitement with others but that isn't always a good thing to do, especially if the person hearing about your achievement isn't your well-wisher and they envy you from inside while might be friendly on your face, most people are like that in the world.

That is the purpose of hiding big wins so that someone can avoid problems that could arise from their relationships. People often do not show envy towards other people, but they often show it behind that person's back when they talk about things that they don't like. This will, of course, cause disputes between them, so this must be avoided. By hiding his winnings from many people, he can enjoy them for himself and his family or invite some of his closest people to enjoy them. But it would be better only to share the victory story with people who understand it so that no problems arise. We determine who should know about the wins we get so we can be careful about all problems.

I sometimes wonder if I should even tell anyone about winning. Because I noticed that even from those closest to me, many people experience irresistible envy. They want to have the same winnings and will dispose of them as they wish; there is a feeling that the winnings are close to them. They are visited by the thought that they are no different from us, we live in the same area, we eat the same food. These are stupid thoughts based on envy. There will always be someone who wins, and 20 players sitting next to each other will win absolutely nothing. And of course they will have bad thoughts in their heads and wonder why he won and we didn’t. For these reasons, I don’t want to talk about the win, because there will be almost no people who are sincerely happy about it.

Welcome to the real world, where sharing good news is like throwing chum into shark-infested waters. In reality, its about the spotlight, not the win. Everyone becomes a critic, an authority on how to spend your winnings. Funny, right? How everyone becomes a financial advisor suddenly.

Simply put, keep your cards close. Your win is a testimonial to luck (or talent, depending on the game). Accept envy. Indeed, its the sincerest flattery. It reveals more about them than you. You only need to justify your winnings to the mirror in this game of life. Keep your winnings close, your circle small, and the world curious. Mystery is life's spice.

No mate, he just said that we should be careful on sharing our winning stories. Even not in gambling, the same scenario can still be applied, so we should think twice by now if we are that type of person.

A win does sound positive but not all are happy about it because they think it was not enough to compensate their previous losses. For those who are, it's not always necessary to talk about it to others. Just enjoy it on your own. It may sound selfish but it's better than if we can harm other people.

Those who are about to quit gambling, if they are truly committed they won't be affected by these things. They can even think that the person is only lying.

I don't think you need to tell many people about the win you got unless those people are very close to you so they can feel the pleasure you got and you can celebrate it with them. If we tell many people, they will be jealous of our win so they can do something about us. Instead of taking bad or other risks that we don't know about, we should anticipate these things so that we can still enjoy the winning money and only tell some people who are very close to us. Yes, we don't know how many people sincerely share the pleasure and joy of the win we get, so we must be careful in sharing our win.

It's commonly said that money loves silence. And if you talk a lot, you can scare away good luck. If everyone knows that a person is successful, he will be greatly envied and will wish various bad things. There will also be a temptation to borrow money without repayment or simply robbed. So here, of course, everyone does as he wants, but still silence is gold.

Gambling wins might feel like navigating a minefield of emotions. Like you, I've noticed envy is natural. Not only the money, but the what-ifs and could-have-beens. We unknowingly reflect others' unrealized goals when we share our wins. The pill is hard to take, right?

Please note that sharing your achievement can demonstrate the unpredictable thrill of gaming. The spice of chance makes each journey distinct, even though we live identical lives. Envy and inspiration are inevitable. Arent you limiting someone's dreams by keeping your win private?

Share at your own discretion. But remember, in the big drama of life, every win and loss affects humanity. Your narrative may inspire someone else to gamble, giving them hope, fun, or an exciting risk.

I agree, I can understand why some people may boast about the win they got online, but there is a reason why many lottery winners decide to hide their names, and why even bitcoin holders prefer to not advertise to others they do it, and this is because you can attract a lot of unwanted attention from the wrong people if you do this.

So if the win was high enough for you to boast about, it is also big enough to generate envy and for others to covet it.

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That's a good point. You never know who is sincere with you and who has their personality and reality masked in front of you but aren't well-wishers of you, so it's not advisable to share every single thing and every joy with every person you know. You don't even know if your close friends are sincere with you or not, and anyone can have evil eyes for your joys, which is why, it's better if you keep such things to yourself.

When we talk about gambling, some people generally don't think very well about it, so when you share that you've won something from gambling, they might show that they are happy for you at first, but there will surely be discussion about how you are indulged in gambling and that maybe you are an addict.

I noticed two things when you tell others

First, if you intend to do something, you will not do it by simply telling people about it.

Secondly, there are 3 people who come when you tell them something.
-Who listens to you and does not know what you are talking about and has no intention of knowing?
-Someone who listens to you just wants to know about you and your projects
-Who listens to you to know all your steps and likes it when he hears that you failed at something

The bottom line is, do not tell anyone about your successful or failed steps and projects, as there are those who envy you even for the oxygen in your lungs.

We can only find people who are sincere to us by establishing friendships with many people and from those friendships, we will know which friends are truly sincere and can be trusted. Friends whom we can trust are the ones who can find out about our wins, and celebrating with them will make our friendship even closer. But those who are not sincere towards us will try to find a way to continue approaching us because they have certain aims and objectives towards us.

Yes, there will be people who will ask lots of questions about our winnings in gambling and about things related to gambling. We might become busier because we have to answer questions from them and if we don't want to experience that, we don't need to talk about our wins and don't even tell our close friends. We have to be able to take care of ourselves after winning because we don't know if there are bad people who will do bad things to us.

Yeah I believe that's just a coincidence but I had this more than once time it was like 3-4 times after I told a friend about winning and then the other day or just in an hour I lost hahhahah that is why Im rarely tell nowadays.

But different from you I tell the loses to my friend aswell  ;D


Yess that is 1000% very true I only tell my close friend I don't even tell my family member hahahahah maybe my brother. Because if i tell to everyone especially about gambling that is gonna be a big shit show hahahaha. so I only tell my close friend because sometimes he do gambling too

I'm not sure anyone is truly successful at gambling. What often happens is that we lose and then win, lose again, win again, lose again, win again, it's like a repeating cycle. For gamblers, losing and winning are normal things, and I believe that when someone gets a big win, there must be a big loss behind it.

So actually there is no problem sharing the winnings, in fact usually someone asks for a tip if someone shares the winnings so they prefer to keep quiet so that no one asks for a tip.  :D

Its an endless cycle and this is something that we should really be that thinking about and this is something that we should really be treating up this way on which there's really those winning moments but with those loses are even more. It would really be just that common that there would really be those people who would really be boasting out their winnings into public as if they are really that true winners
on this space and someone who do really just that making those simple reactions on which we know that as a human being then it would really be just that normal on having those reactions.
We do really mean that much but its not our fault if we do make out some inspirations into other people since its their decisions on how they do play. You arent forcing them and this is why
i dont see such issues.

Any individuals that asked alot of questions can be ignored, when they ask you questions you don't have to reply them or you can change the topic or avoid exposing yourself to them as many individuals have bad intentions against us when we're succeeding. You can also tell them small things and not tell them everything that's happening or the big amounts that you have won. Problems comes from closed friends more than it comes from other individuals that we don't know.

People are angry when you're doing better than them and they'll want to bring you down also when we win big from gambling, we shouldn't be loud about it. Use that money to invest in anything that's more dependable than gambling as gambling doesn't give you money always. Some days, it'll be taking money from you and when you don't have somewhere that's a reliable source of income you'll get broke quick.

In as much as what you're saying is true, gamblers find it difficult to keep their little win to themselves. It's very difficult before you see someone win up to $1000 in gambling and people will not know. For those who are into sports betting and who do it in a betting shop, you will agree with me that before you even come to the betting office with your ticket, they already know that you've won, and even when you try to keep the win to yourself, they will tell others in the shop that someone won a certain amount in that betting shop.

I know of some fellow sports betting friends who will even be angry at you because you refused telling them you've won a bet you've previously played.  People always believe that if me A can win, that they will also win and that's one serious course of addictive gambling.

Yes, there are, but the percentage is very small or could be called very rare because in each country there are not necessarily more than 10 people who can actually get success from gambling, but on average they are not gamblers like most of them out there.
They are professionals and have various knowledge and skills that can help improve their playing abilities, usually referred to as poker experts or gambling gods and people like this do not gamble in just any place.
They will also take part in various official championships and competitions which are like world championships and of course there are prizes and awards in championships like this, we can see them almost every year.
It just that not everyone or every country will be able to have the freedom to watch every competition because of the various prohibitions that each country has against gambling.

If we talk about gambling in general, there will only be defeats and losses because this is business, this is an industry that provides uncertainty to customers.
But we are happy, we get entertainment and excitement in every game or bet we make, so we don't need to think long about losing or losing, just use the money we have prepared to lose and have fun.

Moreover, whatever happens is our right whether to tell other people or not, but almost all of them are gamblers who prioritize anonymity.

It should really not be a problem. The message of sharing your winnings is just a gesture of celebrating that once in a lifetime opportunity and everyone should have a freedom of doing so. It is the receiver who is responsible of interpreting and to give meaning of it whether he would take it as bragging or welcoming him to borrow or be hopeful of a tip or whatever comes to his mind; it is just subjective. We shoul not discredit  other people of something which made them happy just because we are not having the same experience. It would be an inspiration to rightful ears but a negative thing for people who are envious and toxic. It is not meant to attract bad people to force you getting it, no one would want such thing and adjustment should not he made by the winner himself just because of threats around. It also depends on the intention of the player and for sure most of us, if not all, are already in the right age and mind, to know when to speak of your profit or not. Just a commonsense I guess.

That's good because you know who can find out about your winnings. If you tell everyone, they will ask for a share of your winnings and you will not be able to enjoy the winning money because it may have been used up by the people who asked for a share of the winning money. We have to determine the people who need to know about our winnings from gambling and that means we have to be really selective in choosing the people.

With fewer people knowing about our wins, it will be better because we don't have to talk about our wins to many people. We can also avoid people with bad intentions towards us because they don't know we have won a big victory. By keeping the big winnings we get a secret, we will be calm in living our days and can also enjoy the winnings with the people we want. We also don't need to bother with the many people who will come to our house if they know about our win.

Instead of making people angry because they know that we won big and have evil intentions toward us, we should remain silent and not share our winnings with them. That would be better because we can enjoy the money and use it for our daily needs so they won't ask any further questions. We don't need to buy expensive things because that can arouse their curiosity and they may ask us where the money comes from.

People will always want them to be celebrated, and for people like me who gamble in their house before people later find out about my win, I would have spent the money and gotten something valuable for myself from gambling. I love my privacy people don't even know that I gamble, When I am in the comfort of my house, I start making a good selection of what my games look like, and since I gamble very well, I take a lot of time when selecting and arranging my games. and from what your betting sites hear, you see a lot of people exposing their wins. If you are the kind of person who bets in a betting shop, you cannot hide your victory, and people will start disturbing you for money. When you finish giving away, they will still be the ones insulting you. And if I win, I tell them, after I have used my money, anything anyone wants to say, let them say it.

Very true envy is also one of the big 7 sins hahaha so if we win big and tell everyone not everyone going to accept that. sometimes there a people who envy you and talk nonsense after that. I mean tell a friend is totally a friend if you have close friends that support you etc. but not all our friends are good hahah sometimes they have two faces behind them.

So, you've mastered invisible winning, keeping your wins and techniques close. Impressive, but lets not dismiss your success's isolation. You avoid public victory by working in the shadows, but you miss out on the community component of achievement. Gambling, like life, requires balance. Although it protects your gains, your strategy raises questions. Worth the solitude? What price do you pay to prevent beggars and envy? Gamblers live for connection, camaraderie, and danger

Your story's focus on techniques rather than people shows a win-at-all-costs attitude. But remember, the best successes are shared, adding to our richness and human experience. Opening out, even a little, can enrich your life more than money can

The issue here is not the way some people may interpret your actions, rather the hidden danger is that there is a lot of people out there that are looking for potential targets to steal from, and celebrating on the internet about a big win that you got may attract those kind of people to your life.

And even if most of the time nothing will happen, due to this celebration you could become one of their victims, is it worth? Not in my mind but maybe that is a risk worth taking for you.

What you say is correct because we should keep hiding our winnings from many people and only tell it to those closest to us to avoid any danger. We don't want to be victims of acts of violence that might occur, so we must always be careful if we want to share stories of win. We also cannot show off to many people because that will cause something bad for us later.

By always being alert, we can avoid any danger that might come so that we can avoid it. And if it is a very large winning money, we have to keep it a secret by not saying or sharing about the big winnings we get. However, if we tell many people, we don't know who will have bad intentions against us, so we should be really careful.

This story reminds me of the amount of people started gambling because of me, sometimes I really don’t know how to feel. I don’t think it’s guilt that bothers me now, but it’s a mistake I have done many time which is gambling beside my friends and showing them my biggest winnings. Due to my actions, many friends are asking me to top up their gambling accounts on weekly basis just to gamble and bet on anything, chasing some wins that I have got with much luck, the while story is just to compete and show us in between that they also can get that.

For instance, on sweet bonanza slot, I have got 12x before which is something very hard to get in a low risk and low volatility slot. What happened is that my friend from that day are trying to get the same number, because of that sometimes I feel bad sharing such things. Everyone should be careful showing winnings to anyone else, it might be pushing them to addiction or worse, trying to steal your winnings!

The concept of a person's achievements having a damaging effect on others does not appeal to me. While a person winning may encourage another person having difficulty with addiction to keep going because they believe they too can win if they keep playing, I believe it is necessary to bear in mind that everybody's path is unique, and we ought not to compare ourselves with those that we see on social media. We ought to concentrate on our own objectives and satisfaction rather than allowing the achievement of others to make ourselves seem insufficient, because we don't see the problems and sufferings that they may be experiencing, which can lead to inflated hopes and unhappiness with our own life.

I have princilples when it comes To disclosing information, when it comes To gambling I have alot of secrets that helps me alot , firstly, I can tell people that I have won a game But I cant tell them the amount because it is not everyone that likes your Progress . Actually it is not everyone that deserve To hear your winning because It is not everyone that you share your loss experience wirh Too. I Dont actually disclose the amount I won To people because I have never borrowed money from anyone To bet So i bear My loss alone And My gain all alone And i Dont know the reason why maybe that is How nature wants me To be .

Lastly , there are sets of people that you will tell about your winning And they will  think that you have turned to be an experts And will be disturbing you for predictions from time To time . So learn to keep your Success To yourself because people can also mock you on being successful .

We should not gamble in front of our friends because they will definitely arouse the desire to gamble as a result of seeing our winnings, even though we do not influence them to gamble, they will try to open gambling to play again and they will definitely experience gambling addiction because they have a history of being active gamblers.

We must choose to gamble away from the public environment, so that our gambling does not have an impact on other people and actually gambling must be hidden from other people except fellow gambling communities, because I never publish jackpot wins in front of friends or publish them on social media because they will definitely gamble in the hope of winning, but if they participate in gambling then they have indirectly made a mistake that invites them to gamble.

This proves that your story of success might become a downfall for others. So be careful to whom you are sharing your story of success, as some people might misinterpret it and might rush into gambling without analyzing that it could lead them to a lot of losses and misfortune, rather than constant winnings and profits.

As long as gambling is concerned, it’s better that you just keep your winnings on your own. You don’t know what will be its  effect to others if they hear it, it’s either they get envy and start following your pattern, or they’ll take advantage on your success and make you as their next victim in line.

True, we never know about the feelings of others which may be something that we consider pleasant or joyful is news that makes them feel superior which is clearly every human being has feelings of envy or jealousy that can sometimes make them do anything because of unacceptance when seeing other people have better luck in life and in the end this kind of thing can trigger problems that actually shouldn't be a problem.

Of course, however it is better to hide it because there is no point in showing off the results of your victory to others anyway and if it turns out that you cannot plan to hide the victory then I think you have a reason for this action which is most likely that you want to get praise from others for your success, so of course think rationally when you want to make decisions, if for example there is no benefit then it is better not to do it.

For every gambler, of course they must have their own goals and do not need to be influenced by other people's lives and the wins that other people get do not require us to continue gambling in the hope of getting wins like other people have, but we have to stick to our planning. ourselves and also don't let us not be able to enjoy the bets we are playing because we are influenced by the winnings that other people have obtained so that we cannot concentrate on the game we are playing and no longer control ourselves in betting so we bet greedily which will make us a lot of money. the losses we get and it is true that someone's life path will always be different even if they play the same type of bet because someone's luck is certainly different.

You have said it all by pointing to the fact that you are a private person, my friend, you better keep it that way. Thankfully, we have the privacy option in our gambling activities by silently opening our betting apps and doing our thing in our closet in such a way that people might not even know we gamble. If this is what you love, then always do it. And if you are such who cares about giving, you can still do that on a different volition by knowing the people in need and helping them without telling them the source of your income. They do not have to know to the point that they know what you do and be using it to insult you later like you said.

Although I do not see shame here, once you are good at gambling and earn through it, those who are even begging you for the money should be the ones burying their heads in shame and not the other way around where they insult you. For what?

Alternatively, if you are such that like to go out for gambling and are only concerned about the people you would see there and who might know you, why not change location? After all, it is not everywhere you would know people that will be disturbing you. I made this last suggestion because, at times, we can't do everything in isolation, we should mingle as well too. Or else, you might kill your social life if you think you can be doing everything privately.

Of course every person or gambler must have their own goals whether it's to win gambling or to have fun But I think it's true that not everyone, deserves to hear the victory over the gambling we do because there are some people's views on gambling that don't like gambling Even with the winnings on display but still for people who do not like gambling they will not have a good view even if it is with a win.

It is true,  we must be able to enjoy the gambling that is done if we only think about winning it will only make the gambling that is done cannot be enjoyed or the gambling that is done will only make us lose self-control.  It's important to know that you're not going to have to worry about a lot of things, but it's important to know that you're not going to have to worry about a lot of things.

In such a situation, I think you shouldn't think of other people. The fact that those people disagree with the idea of gambling, only means that they are not the target people who deserve to hear about your gambling activities.  Basically, they have a different view of your habit, which is gambling, this sole reason is the only thing they need to disregard hearing or knowing your gambling story.

Basically, humans live in groups and when there is someone who can make the atmosphere different then they will try to follow him. In gambling, it is the same, when there is a gambler who is very engrossed in playing his bets, his friends will definitely be curious about that too. They will also bet regardless of the type of bet and who doesn't want to make a lot of money?

But they forget not to measure their abilities so they are very obsessed with winning big and they don't realize they are losing a lot of money. This is very difficult to stop because when they lose, they will try to return the money they lost while also making a profit. In reality, this is not the case and the more you bet, the more money you lose. It is best to gamble only as a means of having fun and not to involve using large amounts of money. The impact of social media is real and I think every time there is a win from gambling, they will try to ask where the site is that can make money.

Privacy in gambling? That's not fixing the problem, it's hiding from it. Why the shame? Because society judges. But what if we change the damn game? Gambling, done right, is just another skill, like picking stocks or anything else. People spend money on entertainment, right?

Hiding your wins with charity donations... that's a weak move. If you're good enough to profit, own that sh*t. It's your money, earned with your head. Don't apologize. The people judging, they need to check themselves. Is it jealousy? Frustration with their own lives? Their insecurities are bleeding onto you

Moving away? Might buy you time, but it's not a solution. We gotta tackle the stigma head-on. Expose the hypocrisy. Demand honest conversations about what responsible gambling actually means. Shifting the blame won't shift the culture. We need to change the hearts and minds, not just zip codes

Sometimes it cant really be that be avoided that you might really be having that kind of reaction on which you would really be that having some boast when it comes to your winnings publicly
on which its normal since we are just humans on which excitement could be felt but there are really should moments that you should really be avoiding on being that too showy or expressive on what you do have in mind and its true that not all would be a happy for you on what you are currently experiencing. The other thing on here is that we do know about the probabilities that there would really be those individuals who would really be that becoming that too boost up on the time that they are seeing someone who do make out those big wins and trying to copy as much as they could.

It's best to just shut your mouth when you're around with people that don't have the same hobby as you. And that's because that you'll just hear bad things about what you do coming from them. You don't have the same activities and that's why as we all know with gambling, it's always the negative thinking that everyone is placing towards the gamblers. Despite that you know yourself better and you're a responsible gambler, they're going to include you as one of the worst people in the world just because they've known you as a gambler.

See, they know not better than you and you know yourself better than them. But take a look at them as they give negative feed back to you not knowing that you can control your gambling activities and you've won some and lose some. Even with that, it's best to remain lowkey and remain it as a secret with all of your gambling activities so that they won't give any feed back to you and you're just there having fun. If you win, then that's fine and you'd just continue with what you're doing while them, they're there to watch you out whether you do good or not.

I don't think so, as everything has a positive as well as a negative side and catching the inspiration is their own decision whether they took the positive side or negative one. But I think maybe someone will get it and take it in his gambling track and will be successful like you. I know sharing your success story with anyone and any type of success whether it is gambling-related or something else is not always beneficial because people change when they hear about your success but I believe that there may be someone who needs some motivation and from your success story he will get it and perform well. So always Think positive its results will be always positive.

Neither I nor you have the power to stop a man from telling his success story. A man's success story can have a positive impact on my life, and a moral message can impact. We humans have our humanity, we can judge ourselves what is good and what is bad. Now if I tell my success story here it is my personal right and others will say it is his personal right. Gambling for entertainment This gambling game should never be used outside of entertainment. If success is obtained while taking entertainment then it is definitely good for a gambler and if loss occurs while taking entertainment then it is also good for a gambler because a gambler must understand the pain of losing. So people are free to tell their success stories and taking gambling as entertainment is good for me for all of you. So take positive cues from someone's success story and avoid negative cuse.

A gambler who became motivated to keep playing because of the successful story of other gamblers are not that bad if he can still play with discipline. But believing the same fate might hit him as well despite of the losses he already had is not a good mindset. Because you're already influenced by this motivation to not lose hope, that's not how gambling works.

It's always nice to see someone gained a decent amount from gambling. But it is important for us to limit ourselves and not too hopeful just because others are able to do so. Remember that majority of gamblers are not in profit.

One thing you refuse to understand is that we are not the same person, so we can't have the same personality, and I so much respect the plight of @Baki202 which I replied to. The plights are all genuine, but the caution, control and solution that will be attributed to them could be different, and that difference could be based on our different personalities which I respect so much. You may live your life as though you do not care about others, but others can't be like you because they are not you. We have different kinds of people, some will dare you, do bad to your face and do not care at all, while others may even be worse. But you also see other people who are good and care to a fault, so people can never be the same. As it is, just as I replied in line with the context, if the solution to the whole issue is for him to gamble privately in his closest, why not? Even if he is such a private that do not want people to know what he does with his life, especially about gambling, whyn't he go for it?

Technology has helped gambling and gamblers to that extent, it is never by force we go out to gamble or be lousy about our gambling activities, especially the winnings.

Mind you, the settings of his locality matter as well, maybe it is possible he can't just risk it and not be detected by people. If the guy is a well-known person in that locality, even the agent who attended to him when he placed the best could be the one who would leak it out to other people. From there, unnecessary knowledge happens which could lead to demands and begging from him by people. And when you are a generous type, you would want to satisfy enough people to avoid further issues since it's his locality we are talking about. In light of this, it is better for him to have a concern about his gambling activities and outcomes while gambling outside even if he would be forced to do it once in a while. These are serious concerns even if you take them lightly, and you should know that everybody can't lead a life of I-don't-care-about-others you tried to preach.

When we brag about our wins, other people may not like it and think we are showing off to them. They might do something that could be bad for us so we shouldn't tell everyone about our win.
We must be able to choose anyone who can listen to our win so that they really feel the joy that we get. We don't need to share our winning stories on our social media pages because there will be people who don't like it.
We should hide our winnings from the crowd and only share them with people close to us. That way, we can avoid bad things that could happen to us.

Unfortunately, this is how it works. Rich people are very blind to the feelings of the poor, they just don't understand how much they are influenced by success stories. I can tell you a situation in my life when I had a rich friend who constantly bragged about how well he was doing trading, and that he earned $3,000 in a week.
Should I have been happy for him?
I tried, but in the end I don't care about his success, because I don't earn that much money, and why should I listen to these boastful stories? It's the same in gambling - everyone is jealous of a successful person, although he doesn't understand it like a fool.
Also, in gambling, such stories motivate others to play more and more fiercely, wanting to win.

Why create bad karma for yourself by unnecessary boasting? Sooner or later, this karma will receive a boomerang of punishment. In general, I can say that boasting is a natural human characteristic. This is probably a special kind of instinct. This is at the gene level. It's hard to say what the biological meaning of boasting is. Perhaps the desire to raise your social status in the eyes of others. It's better not to do this, it often ends badly. If you really want to brag, slightly underestimate the amount of your winnings. And brag only to loved ones who will not envy you.

Everyone has a choice for their life, every person's successful journey is not always what we see goes smoothly, we often see the end result there are struggles and sacrifices at stake so that we get satisfying results, never be someone else let alone show our pleasure to others because It's not certain that people can do what we do, a person's successful life is enough to be a motivation, not a form of target that must be pursued, let alone trying to achieve it, everyone has different luck in life.

So that's how life is, sometimes poor people like us sometimes have big dreams of being someone else, let alone being obsessed with other people's success, which we think is easy, even though there is a process of struggle in it that we never know, for example, when we see successful people gambling and winning, but we only see the victory, don't see the struggle of the money he has spent to get that victory, it's not easy to be a successful person and it's not that easy to be a successful person there is a hard job to do and even we find it difficult to do it, that's why when we are in the position of being a successful person, never show your victory to others.  ;D

If there is something I have learnt is that one is even supposed to be careful when talking about money in front of family and friends, anyone who we could consider to be loved ones in general. Because there are many cases of very bad parents out there which are capable of feeling envy on their own children and brothers.
I have a friend from Peru whose mother constantly tries to get money out of him, regardless how he earned it, as soon as he gets a job or manages to buy something for himself, she talks to him and asks for her part.

Because of cases like that one, we must contain any urge on bragging about money or a very good luck streak in the casino. Even if we talk about it to loved ones, there is no warranty the word won't spread around ones neighborhood...

I was surprised by what you said when someone who is motivated to win is not bad, but it is true that it is not bad if they can still be disciplined in their gambling, which is where they gamble appropriately. but when they are motivated, I think it will encourage them to continue gambling, whereas what will happen is of course just losing or losing money. so in my opinion even if they are like that there is still a chance they could become addicted to gambling.

I agree with you, it is very important for us to limit the gambling we do, don't be jealous when we see other people or our friends win at gambling. By assuming that other people can do it when we can't, that's not the concept in gambling. Of course, everyone's luck is different, maybe other people are lucky at gambling but not at work or other things, and vice versa.

Not all people would really be having on the same control when it comes into their emotions on the time that they would really be hearing out someones success on which it would really be just that normal that there would really be that some sort of boost up on the time that they would really be able to hear out someone who is really that winning. It would really be that impossible that you wont really be able to have those kind of thoughts that it was really just that possible for you to be able to hit up on the same thing and this what makes you desperate. You cant really be able to stop someone for you not to have those kind of reactions like sharing up
on what you had won publicly since it would really be just that a normal human being reaction to have that kind of approach that you are really that basically making some wins.
Sometimes it do really just turns out that its a bit exaggerated on some point.

I believe there is no point in bragging about gambling achievements. Firstly, because gambling is very much dependent on luck and win a large sum of money repeatedly is unlikely to succeed. Secondly, bragging is the fate of a weak person who, as you rightly said, is trying to make himself stronger in the eyes of others. In my opinion, if a gambler wants to improve his self-esteem after a big win the best solution would be to give a small part of the money won to a charity or buy things and personally take to one of the orphanages. 

You said it right on which its normal to have reactions since we do really love that kind of winning moment specially when you are experiencing some losing streak then suddenly you have won up something?
Who wouldn't really be that happy to have that kind of reaction on the time that  you do won? Of course you wont really be minding about others situation as long you could freely express your emotions or reaction.

There are really just that those people who are really that mindful about other peoples condition even if it means on stopping completely your freedom. lol. We are free on sharing up our expression
and its up to someone whether they would really be motivated out to play gambling again just because they've seen or hear out someone that they are winning.

Yes, some sort it would really be sparking out someones interest for those people who would be tending to completely stop or having a break but its their mistake or
fault that they do keep on coming back into those gambling platforms or communities on which it would be normal that they would really be possibly or likely to hear out those words.

Your winning story will not make people you share your story with to stop you not to win again than to help them to introduce some tactics that will position them to success too.

I know there are many gamblers who will be asking you if you have win from your gambling, so that they can borrow money from you, you can hide your winning story from such gamblers because they can do anything evil to collect the money from your hand later.

 I will never allow others gamblers winning story to make me to increase my budget on gambling or get motivated to continue playing when I'm losing or winning in the gambling center, which are some of the things I will never do in the gambling.

I very much agree with you. Firstly, a person may be jealous. After all, we all hear stories about someone’s success many times and we really want to be in their place. Because of this story, a person can be pushed to act recklessly.
I would especially emphasize the situation when a person lost a lot of money and decided to stop gambling, every minute he struggles with the desire to win back the money, and at that moment he meets someone who has won a lot of money and is now happy.
Next to one story about winning money, there are ten (not exact statistics) stories about losing money; it is not customary to talk much about them, but it is always worth remembering. We always look at one side of the coin and don’t know how many people have lost before, how to win and how many will lose in the future
I wish everyone to be wise!

What you said is also true my friend that there is actually no point in saying or showing off the achievement of victory in gambling because the results they get are nothing more than the victory they get when they are in a lucky situation, gambling has absolutely nothing to learn to make you always win, because in the end it is always about the chances of winning and the possibility of losing which is not based on any certainty and guarantee, meaning that no matter how big your victory is in the end it is still possible for you to experience defeat in the next few sessions which may be greater than your current victory.

Well exactly, if they just brag about themselves regarding the victory they managed to get then I think there is nothing to appreciate because it is nothing more than just luck, but if for example they use the winning money as a result of the lucky situation on some useful things such as donating some of the winnings to the orphanage or to the poor or the poor then obviously it is an act that I think deserves appreciation.

That makes sense, indeed if we see other people being able to get something or be successful, we definitely want it too. If it's not like that, we might be jealous. The urge to want to get the same results as other people who can get something that is truly tempting is definitely there when we see other people getting it, especially family members or friends. especially with what is called profit, after all who doesn't want profit? Of course everyone wants it, but we have to be able to see what we see, because in gambling the results will not be the same even if we follow the same steps as those who have won.

In my opinion, winning at gambling is based on luck, so if we see someone else win and we want to get it, it won't just happen smoothly, of course most likely what will happen is only defeat.

As If it even matters, no body cares about you, either money made from gambling or other ways its your business, you don't owe anyone any explanation, it should be private, and everyone has enemies, if you tell them good news all the time they can turn into devils instrument and they will come after you.

It is very hard to make it in life today, so if you are getting there you should keep your mouth shut, many people won't be happy when they see you win, because they are also trying so hard to no Vail.

People should keep their success and progress hidden and look like someone who isn't even progressing, just so that you can get to where you wanted to be, unless you are living in a secluded area where everyone minds their business.

Yeah right, We should really keep as a private and confidential things everything that gives us income, let's remember that people's behavior changes especially if money is involved, here we can see what the effect of money is on one person, and not all of our friends can be trusted because it's not because of being paranoid right? but not everyone is happy with what you have, for sure they talk about you behind your back. I believe in the so called eviil eye nowadays, so even on social media we should not be too public about what we share, that's one of the things I've learned lately, I realized that it's really better to act low key, no expectations from other people and no one will criticize your every action and move, those who are jealous of you are waiting for all your mistakes and failures in life so it should be private so they wait for nothing.

Yeah, it's just like investment. We should always keep our winnings to ourselves. People should not always know how much we are earn or the amount of profit or progress we have financially. Even if they do not have bad intentions toward you. They may boast about you in an unpleasant place where hoodlums and bad gangs are. Perhaps their intentions are to share about your progress and motivate the people around that environment, but they do not know they are putting you in a critical situation.

The most important thing is we should always know the friends we keep around and the people we choose to share the amazing things that happens in your life.

Instead of having an enemy under cover, we should anticipate it before it happens. It's okay to hide our winnings from the crowd for our safety and comfort.
They don't need to know what we get from gambling, and if it is a win, it is our right to tell anyone we want to know. We don't need to tell other people we don't like because this is a matter of someone's privacy. We only spread it to people who are really close to us so that there are no misunderstandings between us and them.

But trying to check out on where OP is really that pertaining or concern into then this is basically talking about your influence about into those gamblers who are really that tending to quit on which on the time that
you would really be making out those kind of announcing your winnings publicly then there are indeed some individuals who would really be seeing this to be some sort of boost.
Instead of quitting then they would really be that definitely be continuing just because they've been that heard of those words and this is something that OP is really that concern into.

For me its really just that normal that people or winning gamblers would really be having that kind of reaction,specially if they do come after a series of loses and
made out some immediate comeback then for sure that kind of reaction would really be just that normal or something that a human being would do.

Deep down we just want to express our financial gains to the world in one or other way but it's better not to that will avoid lot of distractions that comes on your way especially when you have money lot of people will be giving advices about utilising the money properly which is overwhelming for most people and they could make a wrong move with the money which they actually don't want to.

I will stay quiet not to save anyone but to save myself from others.

Yeah, but most people don't understand this, and whenever you manage to win something significant, they become too excited, and out of that excitement, they tell everyone about their winnings, this also often becomes the reason for their luck to get struck by evil eyes and they start losing right after that and then they regret why they shared their winnings with others. As said a hundred times already, not everyone will be happy in your happiness, so you should keep it to yourself.

People who lose constantly but don't stop gambling are often motivated by the stories they have heard or seen of others so it's also not good sharing your success stories with others because a lot of people would gamble more after they hear about the success you got from gambling.

I got your story op and frankly I must say that your last illustration of getting other gamblers back to gambling isn’t were the problem lies but rather on the safety of the winner.
Have you thought of the dangers of sharing a success or winning story at the wrong place and at the wrong time?, there might be possibilities of the winner been robbed or harmed to claim his winnings and the rest of other challenges that might be associated as well.

Whatever the case might be, it is always advisable to be conscious of the environment at which we stay to share our success stories be it from gambling or any other place, as there have been several cases of people losing their lives as a result of jealousy and it’s likes.

Not only on gambling winnings but every other aspect of life, it is important to stay private with our incomes most especially when a tangible amount of money 💰 s involved because at some times you don't know the mind of the other person wether or not they are happy with you or will want to take the money from you at the end.


So you are very right when you say that privacy is of utmost importance concerns for anyone gambler and learn to be silent when in public transport avoid evil attractions.

Privacy is one of the most important aspect that we should really be that in concern on which its true that whenever you are really that boasting up on how much you do earn or won then it will really be giving out some idea to those people around on how much money you do have or how much you do possess at that moment. If possible then you should really be making yourself as private as possible or something that cant be tracked specially if its really been known that physically then it would really be that so damn hard to let those eyes be getting away from you.
If we do speak about normal reactions then it is considerable but if you are really that doing it on exaggerated way then you should really be that careful.

In conclusion, staying private and not sharing some kind of winnings with the public is always the best as, just as every one of us have already written that privacy is key, we should always try as much as possible to protect ourselves and always stay safe as we don’t know and can’t read the minds of people we share out winnings wit, so as not to regret at the end of the day.

Just as op already stated in the op, I think we also have to consider the emotional and mental health of the peoooe we share these news with as most time, as we might be sharing the news with the wrong people that might get motivated to get into gambling which they never budgeted from but got the motivation from your winnings.

In some cases usually people who hear stories about your winnings usually they will claim unilaterally about the rations that you have to give them from some of the winnings that you managed to get, if for example you are willing and willing to give it then maybe it won't be a problem but if for example you only tell and brag about the victory and absolutely do not want to share part of your victory with them then maybe bad things can happen, As you said, we don't know what's going on in other people's minds and they might be planning something bad in their minds like planning to take your money in an unexpected way.

Of course the solution is always better to keep your winnings a secret regardless of the amount, but if you want to share some of your winnings with them maybe it won't be a problem, but if you don't want to then it's definitely better to keep it a secret.

We should maintain the level of improvement and also fold our hands in the days of losses. We're mere gamblers and will make certain mistakes leading to our losses in the system. We should keep our gambling activities discreet especially when it have to do with winnings. We should make it our priority to alway be silent because not everyone is rejoicing based on the winnings. Not all gamblers are opportune to witnessed winnings, instead they tend to face huge dissapointing results back to back.

People can't really destroy or get jealous over what they don't know so keeping your winnings can go a long way for you especially when the winning is extremely huge, just like you said not everyone who hears about your success is actually happy with you so that's why keeping the habit a secret is of utmost importance itself but some persons can't really hide their gambling habits but the winning and success from shouldn't be so losely shared to avoid story of planned attacked or negative energy.

I agree with you that privacy is essentially very important, not just in gambling but every area of life. I know that urge to brag about your win or success, it can be really difficult to gulp it up and very tempting to let it out but yet a very dangerous thing to do, because the world isn't completely a very safe place filled with dangerous people with lots of hidden intentions, and bragging about your winning, especially when it's potentially big, would attract these set of persons to you and they could end up harming you and possibly steal your winnings.
So it's very important to avoid falling into traps of these set of people by keeping your winnings and certain success stories to yourself and only share with people within your trust cycle.

Frankly, while talking about keeping our winnings to ourselves, I was just having a second thought based on your writings and it’s obvious that, it might be difficult for a struggling gambler to keep its winning to himself especially when the winning is huge just as you said, because at the long run, they might want to prove and announce to the world that, they’re not weakening and don’t have bad luck.

I also remember a story of a guy in my neighborhood who lost his life as a result of sharing his success story to neighbors without knowing there was an exterior plan for him and at the end of the day, he was attacked three days later in his house, and was shot dead even after making away with his money and belongings.
After all investigations were made, the culprits were apprehended and the sad story behind the man’s dead plotted by a next door neighbor was reviewed and this is a clear sign to be conservative with success stories except the need be to share it.

Will it be our fault if we share it in social media and many addicted gamblers are encouraged to continue? It is NO if you I have to answer it myself, but for personal share then yes I have to agree that it is better if we do share it with filter, at least we should know the situation of the person we want to share. But if we talk about sharing it publicly, there is nothing wrong with it and the audience/viewers are those who responsible for what they see/watch in social media. 

Those who win from gambling should be able to select people who can hear about their winnings. Otherwise, we will not know who has hidden intentions and wants to use our winnings for their own interests.
If we can be careful in sharing our wins with the people around us, we can avoid evil desires from people who don't like seeing the wins we get. We also don't need to worry about what they will do because we know we have done what we can.
We had better be careful in this matter to enjoy the winning money. We can also share it with the people we want.

In essence, whatever we share publicly, whether it is about victory or defeat, is our own right and when something happens that is caused by seeing the victory that we publish, it is clearly the responsibility of those who are still affected by what they see.
It just that this is not about influencing other people but more about privacy, by maintaining the privacy of every gambling result, we can indirectly avoid various negative actions that could occur.
In many cases, such as hacking, extortion and robbery, by showing the victory we have obtained, it means we have allowed or invited bad things like that to ourselves.
So basically all of this is not just about being affected or not but more about our own security.
Moreover, I sure that only few gamblers will talk about or share their winnings publicly and most will always keep it secret.

Indeed, not everyone deserves to hear about your gambling wins, especially if sharing could potentially enable or encourage harmful behaviour in others or strain relationships. It's essential to consider the impact of your words on those around you and exercise discretion in sharing such information.

As a gambler, we need to be sensitive with gambling, this will help us to know how we are expected to behave with others or relate with them while gambling, when we make wining, i don't see a reason why we should about in sharing the good news with other gamblers when we are actually not going to give them a penny from the money, we can feel the excitement in us, express it, but must also be considerable and reasonable while doing such, so that others may not use it as a weak point in attacking us.

You play gambling on your own, and you enjoy the wins on your own, sometimes because of too much fun, with the wins we have we overshare too much information with other people just could be fun to share or get flex with the information we have. If you want to enjoy i guess with your family that always take care with you or the people around you that always be there even you didnt win in your gambling hobby. Also try to become lowkey as possible to avoid too much attention from others for your safety too.

Indeed, sharing our victory or defeat with the public is our own right, other people have no right to regulate what we do, but even so, we must be able to see what we share with the public, whether the things we share with the public can trigger problem or not. with the gambling statement that I think there are some people who don't like gambling or who really have a bad view of gambling, it can be a problem when they see the gambling activities that we do, whether it's because they advise or criticize, well if we really want to share the winnings or our defeat to the public, we must be prepared for the criticism that will occur.  If we cannot accept this, conflict could possibly occur.

It's better to keep your gambling activities a secret, I myself keep it a secret, because I don't want conflicts with each other. Apart from that, in my opinion, sharing your victory or defeat with the public will not be beneficial, maybe for people who like to show off they will share their winnings with the public, but it seems impossible for them to share their defeats with the public.