Not everyone deserves to hear of your winning in gambling.

[arjunmujay]

Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Can't believe we should be careful about that?

I'm free to do what I want. If I want to talk about my success in gambling or share my big winning experience, I will just do it. Where should the adjustment should come from? From the one who told the story, the listeners, or both? As if we know everyone's feelings before telling them the story. In that case, the listener should do their best not to be affected by any winning story, or if someone is already discussing that experience, make some ways to end or shift the discussions into something else. Either side should adjust as not all have the same thoughts.

That's right, but rather than telling other people about our success in gambling and still having to think about how to tell the story or stop telling it.
For me, it's better not to talk at all about the gambling we do. unless that person wants to hear our story.

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[angrybirdy]

Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Can't believe we should be careful about that?

I'm free to do what I want. If I want to talk about my success in gambling or share my big winning experience, I will just do it. Where should the adjustment should come from? From the one who told the story, the listeners, or both? As if we know everyone's feelings before telling them the story. In that case, the listener should do their best not to be affected by any winning story, or if someone is already discussing that experience, make some ways to end or shift the discussions into something else. Either side should adjust as not all have the same thoughts.

That's right, but rather than telling other people about our success in gambling and still having to think about how to tell the story or stop telling it.
For me, it's better not to talk at all about the gambling we do. unless that person wants to hear our story.

Funny as it may seems but that's true, much better if we keep this kind of thing to ourself because it's just like we are exposing our financial privacy or other source of money by telling it to other people, even if the closest friend of ours. It seems like it's hard to explain to them again and again, and maybe later in the end, when they try to do it and they lose, they'll blame us for what happened. We have our own ways of how to share things with other people, but for me, when it comes to financial matter or source of income, I prefer to keep it to myself as confidential.

[Barikui1]

Generally it is wrong to tell someone of how much money that you earn, because most people out there are going through a lot of shit, they are just looking at someone or something to prey on, I had a news in my locality of how a guy won 4.7million box on football betting, the news spread all over my locality, this guy was the one that told people of his winning, in the night breaking the next day, arm robbers visited him, and they were demanding for that money they heard he won, he said that he haven't cash out the winning from the locall betting shop, they thought he was lieing that he doesn't want to give them the money, so he was shot dead in front of his love one, why am I saying This? For your own security, it's really wrong to tell someone of how much you are worth or how much you own, if it's really a huge amount of money.

[arwin100]

Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Can't believe we should be careful about that?

I'm free to do what I want. If I want to talk about my success in gambling or share my big winning experience, I will just do it. Where should the adjustment should come from? From the one who told the story, the listeners, or both? As if we know everyone's feelings before telling them the story. In that case, the listener should do their best not to be affected by any winning story, or if someone is already discussing that experience, make some ways to end or shift the discussions into something else. Either side should adjust as not all have the same thoughts.

That's right, but rather than telling other people about our success in gambling and still having to think about how to tell the story or stop telling it.
For me, it's better not to talk at all about the gambling we do. unless that person wants to hear our story.

Funny as it may seems but that's true, much better if we keep this kind of thing to ourself because it's just like we are exposing our financial privacy or other source of money by telling it to other people, even if the closest friend of ours. It seems like it's hard to explain to them again and again, and maybe later in the end, when they try to do it and they lose, they'll blame us for what happened. We have our own ways of how to share things with other people, but for me, when it comes to financial matter or source of income, I prefer to keep it to myself as confidential.

Maybe not totally exposing our privacy in means of financial aspects but rather we can be used by those people especially if they need something from us. Their are people want to exploit something especially if they know they have something to get from us that's the reason why its really better to keep silent on everything especially on our win so that we will not get bothered by those opportunist. People need to understand that we are not selfish on our wins but rather we are just careful since winning on gambling is temporary and also we need to protect ourselves for any harmful possibilities that's why its important for us to secret all activities related on financials spendings to avoid issues that might come to us.

[bitterguy28]

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Why do we need to tell everyone about your winning? this is somewhat a way for you to be in trouble or target of robbery .

I Only tell my Wife when I won in gambling , though sometimes when I wanted to treat  my parents then I have telling them my winning but that is only for sometimes.

But all In all , lets keep our winning in secret because not all people knows how to handle this precautions .

[Blitzboy]

This goes back to how each individual responds to it..... And if the person responding to it is wise enough, then this will be a motivation for him to continue trying to improve his abilities and knowledge in gambling, so that he can also increase his chances of winning. get a win or so that he can also get the same opportunity, namely getting a big win in his gambling. However, if the person responding is stupid enough, then when he gets a story that someone has managed to win big in a certain type of gambling, then he will immediately go to the gambling site and play the same type of gambling, without considering everything, he just assumes that he You will also get the same luck and get big wins. but in reality, because he was too ambitious to win, this caused his gambling to become uncontrolled, so that instead of getting a big win, what happened was that his gambling ended in defeat.

The people who get success was not like by all the relative and friends around us.This was the reason for which the gamblers will not share about their winning to the relatives mostly and to some of the friend.If the loss happened,many relatives are ready to blame him for the loss.But they are not ready to accept the winning by their hard work.Because the relative are more jealous on us,the winning is based on luck will be the word of the relative on your winning.The experienced gamblers will not accept the words of their relatives,So the best way to handle such time waster will forget the words of that people.Even though you had win sometimes with the luck,the gamblers should not agree it as happened due to luck.Because let the relative wicked by seeing your big money winning.

If you just share stories about your success in gambling by getting several big wins. But you don't share the victory. Yes... it's only natural that this can make other people feel jealous and dislike you. Moreover, if the person you invite to tell the story is someone who has just experienced consecutive gambling losses. So I think, if we are kind enough, then we shouldn't just share stories, but we should also share love. Even though the amount we give is not much, because at least it will be an entertainment for him, after experiencing several failures and disappointments because he was not able to get good results when gambling.

And do we have to think about what other people say about us.? yes... we need to think about it, as an evaluation material so that we can be better in the future. And when you receive sweet words, consider them as honey, and when you receive bitter words, consider them as medicine. So both of these things can be good things for you.

Sharing gambling victories without losses is incomplete. Telling half the tale and expecting cheers is like that. I usually say, "If you talk the talk, walk the walk." Sharing your luck, however modest, isnt about bragging; its about making someone else happy.

Yes, worrying what others think is smart, not weak. Like collecting data. Every response - good or bad - is feedback. I can improve my social game. Why not make every tip a personal growth tool? I consider that a win.

While we love gambling and its stories, let's remember the human aspect. Sharing wins or moral support can make all the difference. The feedback from others? Bring it. Everything's part of the game and keeps it interesting. Gambling is about the experience and the connections we establish, not simply the money.

[len01]

If you just share stories about your success in gambling by getting several big wins. But you don't share the victory. Yes... it's only natural that this can make other people feel jealous and dislike you. Moreover, if the person you invite to tell the story is someone who has just experienced consecutive gambling losses. So I think, if we are kind enough, then we shouldn't just share stories, but we should also share love. Even though the amount we give is not much, because at least it will be an entertainment for him, after experiencing several failures and disappointments because he was not able to get good results when gambling.

And do we have to think about what other people say about us.? yes... we need to think about it, as an evaluation material so that we can be better in the future. And when you receive sweet words, consider them as honey, and when you receive bitter words, consider them as medicine. So both of these things can be good things for you.

maybe what you mean is telling about success in winning but not telling about the amount.
there's no harm in telling anyone about winning from gambling, but you still have to look at your friend's condition, whether they are feeling well or are sad about losing from gambling because the impact is not only to make you jealous, but your friend might borrow money to bet and catch up. it's a loss and of course you will think that if you lend him money, you will only lose again and he won't be able to return your money, but if you don't give him a loan, your friend will definitely be angry.
well, that's when the bad impact of telling stories about winnings to the wrong people is like misleading yourself and actually the right friend to tell the story to is only your partner.
giving a little money to another friend and telling about the win is a very wise way, but it still has bad consequences in the end.
I prefer to hide everything about defeats and wins to avoid other risks as I said.

thinking about other people? yes, it is necessary but I won't do it because usually they will continue to approach us when we get a big win but they will avoid us when we have nothing left.

[AnonBitCoiner]

Why do we need to tell everyone about your winning? this is somewhat a way for you to be in trouble or target of robbery .

I Only tell my Wife when I won in gambling , though sometimes when I wanted to treat  my parents then I have telling them my winning but that is only for sometimes.

But all In all , lets keep our winning in secret because not all people knows how to handle this precautions .

Sharing your success is good in order to share successful field with others but I think the success of gambling should be hidden because if someone hear about your success then may be he force you to gamble for him but here it is not possible to earn all the time therefore keep every success as a secret. The wife is only a trustable person is one's life and sharing success with wife is a good idea because a person wants just a single loyal person with whom he can share all his worries and happiness. If you share your success with others then also think that everyone cannot get success in gambling because everyone's luck is not same in it.

[traderethereum]

Why do we need to tell everyone about your winning? this is somewhat a way for you to be in trouble or target of robbery .

I Only tell my Wife when I won in gambling , though sometimes when I wanted to treat  my parents then I have telling them my winning but that is only for sometimes.

But all In all , lets keep our winning in secret because not all people knows how to handle this precautions .

Sharing your success is good in order to share successful field with others but I think the success of gambling should be hidden because if someone hear about your success then may be he force you to gamble for him but here it is not possible to earn all the time therefore keep every success as a secret. The wife is only a trustable person is one's life and sharing success with wife is a good idea because a person wants just a single loyal person with whom he can share all his worries and happiness. If you share your success with others then also think that everyone cannot get success in gambling because everyone's luck is not same in it.

Some people feel that sharing their winning moments in gambling can give them pride. They will see how many people will congratulate them so it will give satisfaction to those who win.
But someone who doesn't care about that will keep their winnings to themselves and only tell about it to those close to them. They feel it will make them forget that winning is due to their luck in gambling.
I agree to share moments of success with my wife but not to share moments of victory in gambling because not all wives can accept the fact that we gamble and win

[0t3p0t]

Yeah there is always two sides of the story and of course choices as well. Some people tell stories of victory but it's the opposite of what had happened to them but can't blame them because they also have reasons why they do that. There is this honest gambler that just wanted to share his or her winnings. It is actually up to us whether we get inspirations to those stories or not but the important thing is that we are enjoying the game but yeah it is really not everyone deserves to hear our winnings in gambling.

[deathcode]

Yeah there is always two sides of the story and of course choices as well. Some people tell stories of victory but it's the opposite of what had happened to them but can't blame them because they also have reasons why they do that. There is this honest gambler that just wanted to share his or her winnings. It is actually up to us whether we get inspirations to those stories or not but the important thing is that we are enjoying the game but yeah it is really not everyone deserves to hear our winnings in gambling.

share it with the right people. Share stories of wins or losses in gambling with people who have the same activity. so there will be feedback for us.
but nowadays you certainly see quite a lot of people sharing their wins on social media via screenshots. I guess it really shouldn't be done. it might make things even more difficult for itself if more people don't like it.

[Apocollapse]

Sharing your success is good in order to share successful field with others but I think the success of gambling should be hidden because if someone hear about your success then may be he force you to gamble for him but here it is not possible to earn all the time therefore keep every success as a secret. The wife is only a trustable person is one's life and sharing success with wife is a good idea because a person wants just a single loyal person with whom he can share all his worries and happiness. If you share your success with others then also think that everyone cannot get success in gambling because everyone's luck is not same in it.

If you can think sharing your success in gambling will make other to force to gamble for them, I see no difference with:

1. Sharing a success in cryptocurrency, they will force you which coin you invested and trade for them.
2. Sharing a success in real life e.g. promotion, they will force you to give them a job.
3. Sharing a as an athlete, they will force you to share your winnings a little bit to them.

In the end, they will ask something that gives them benefit even though they did nothing for you.

[abel1337]

Sharing your success is good in order to share successful field with others but I think the success of gambling should be hidden because if someone hear about your success then may be he force you to gamble for him but here it is not possible to earn all the time therefore keep every success as a secret. The wife is only a trustable person is one's life and sharing success with wife is a good idea because a person wants just a single loyal person with whom he can share all his worries and happiness. If you share your success with others then also think that everyone cannot get success in gambling because everyone's luck is not same in it.

If you can think sharing your success in gambling will make other to force to gamble for them, I see no difference with:

1. Sharing a success in cryptocurrency, they will force you which coin you invested and trade for them.
2. Sharing a success in real life e.g. promotion, they will force you to give them a job.
3. Sharing a as an athlete, they will force you to share your winnings a little bit to them.

In the end, they will ask something that gives them benefit even though they did nothing for you.

Unless you straight up reject those person who are requesting these things to you. It's just that there are people who don't understand the struggle and the risk we face whenever we get a success from what we are doing. I find it no problem sharing our winnings especially if the person can understand the struggles I face to get the success, but if there are other person who I know new to the thing and just want to ride my success, I will mostly no entertain them.

Atleast for the people who requested to join the ride to success, they should at least learn the fundamentals or know the risks. It is hard to be blamed if you failed, also it's an additional pressure if someone is waiting for your success.

[Z390]

What about someone whom in his circle has no friends that are into gambling? Anyway thanks for the advice, some gamblers do get motivated by others winnings while some get depressed, but they get depressed because they have tried multiple times to win in gambling with no luck so far, I won't dare get depressed because you win in gambling while I don't, because it's complete luck at work.

Sharing success stories is not a great idea apart from gambling, people who share their success stories are easily becoming a target of bad people around the world, now kidnappers will go on social media to look into peoples stories, see who just do something great, like build a giant hotel or houses and so on, then they try to find them in the real life.
You are you, don't me moved about what happened to others around you, your time will come if it's bound to happen, especially in gambling, you can't sleep on it, your friends or people around you just get lucky, when they lose money I bet they won't be ready to share that with you, every gamblers have their bad days and good days.

[Baofeng]

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

I was really thinking about it, but yeah it could be true though, but within our circle of friends, most of the time we will share our win, not of the intention to give them some when you win, but I guess we just want to compare. Maybe it was a competition from within our circles or just bragging right, hehehe. But for those you don't know or at least not that close, yeah, maybe it's not good to tell them that you are winning and what is the amount.

They might take it negatively and say that you are arrogant and brandish for bragging your winning. Or if they are secretly gamblers themselves and might go and think that they will gamble again after hearing on how much you win.

[mvdheuvel1983]

A lot of things has been said concerning the topic of discussion but I think it is based on your relationship with someone that will make you to even talk about your winning and your losses in gambling.To some people your story be it winning or loss may motivate them to give gambling a tryer to some it may cause them to reduce or stop gambling entirely so it depends on who you tell your story. Privacy should be one of the things we consider when discussing with people especially stories that involves investments i believe it depends on personal understanding of everyone who's into any kind of investment.

[piebeyb]

They might take it negatively and say that you are arrogant and brandish for bragging your winning. Or if they are secretly gamblers themselves and might go and think that they will gamble again after hearing on how much you win.

Everyone has a different view on this matter and that's why again those who see any information about your winnings don't always like it, because it's true that not everyone likes the winnings you share on social media or in this forum because there are still many people who experience defeat at gambling and will take it as something serious, like a kind of ridicule, but for true gamblers they will consider it as good motivation that there is still a win at gambling that can be obtained.

Everyone has different characteristics and behavior in viewing someone's pleasure and victory at gambling, sometimes they are angry with themselves because they feel like they have failed and did not get the full victory as you shared, there are even people who regret taking quick decisions that make them end up losing a lot of money in gambling, that's what drives a lot of views from the public, that's why I never like sharing my winning stories on social media. It also prevents friends from borrowing money from me later. lol 

[sokani]

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This is very true, every story you hear can either make you or break you. There are persons who may be at the verge of giving up on gambling, but when they hear the success story of a fellow gambler, the decided not to quit and they get to smile at the end. While others it may be the nail on their coffin, as they keep trying their luck and they become more broke and depressed. Your advice is good but I don't think it can actually stop gamblers from talking about their success story because some persons feel good doing this.

[davis196]

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

I usually hate to brag about my gambling winnings. Those winnings are mostly based on luck and luck just comes and goes. There's no point for me to brag about having luck, because my luck would most likely go away tomorrow. And I hate bragging in general.
Almost all gambling addicts are mentally unstable and I agree that bragging with your success in front of a gambling addict could have negative consequences. The problem is that many casinos use testimonials from gamblers, who won money as a part of their marketing campaigns. How can you stop the casinos from doing such sneaky marketing moves?

[slapper]

They might take it negatively and say that you are arrogant and brandish for bragging your winning. Or if they are secretly gamblers themselves and might go and think that they will gamble again after hearing on how much you win.

Everyone has a different view on this matter and that's why again those who see any information about your winnings don't always like it, because it's true that not everyone likes the winnings you share on social media or in this forum because there are still many people who experience defeat at gambling and will take it as something serious, like a kind of ridicule, but for true gamblers they will consider it as good motivation that there is still a win at gambling that can be obtained.

Everyone has different characteristics and behavior in viewing someone's pleasure and victory at gambling, sometimes they are angry with themselves because they feel like they have failed and did not get the full victory as you shared, there are even people who regret taking quick decisions that make them end up losing a lot of money in gambling, that's what drives a lot of views from the public, that's why I never like sharing my winning stories on social media. It also prevents friends from borrowing money from me later. lol 

Winning requires strategy, discipline, and understanding when to quit. You avoid discussing victories to avoid envy or loan requests, but there's more. To promote responsible gambling, gains are shared as lessons in strategy and self-control, not flaunted.

Yeah, not everyone is motivated by wins. But disguising success doesnt work. Why not teach instead? Explain your victories. Make it clear that gambling is entertainment with risks and benefits. Your story can warn or educate, not brag.

Remember, never bet more than you can lose. This is about creating a community that prioritizes smart decisions above quick victories, not just you and me. Let's shift from winning to learning and improving.