Not everyone deserves to hear of your winning in gambling.

[Dewi Aries]

That's true there are many selfish people around us who are getting jealous from the others success so if we think about this cost then yes not everyone deserve to hair a person winning in gambling.  I will also say one thing that there are also lot of people that who learn wrong think and become addicted on gambling for saying others success. So I am agree with your words that not everyone deserve to hear your winning in gambling.

That's true, and it has become commonplace in society that someone can become selfish and jealous of seeing other people's success and this also makes someone try to get the same success as other people.
It would be better if we were successful in gambling, it would be better if we just kept quiet because that is the best step so that later we don't cause problems for other people because the nature of social jealousy is different for each person and of course the success we receive is not necessarily acceptable. by other people. .

Honestly for myself I would not say that it is success but rather a victory that they get for the luck they get in the gambling session they do so that they can get a number of wins, on the other hand we have to distinguish victory from success because in gambling I think there is no word success but only winning because of luck. Moving on to the topic, from what you said of course it could be a possibility for people to feel jealous of the wins that other people or even their own friends managed to get so as the OP said that it has the potential to make them feel motivated to join in hoping to get the same fate as those who managed to win.

But it's not that easy, simply put in terms of gambling someone will not be able to follow the luck or the number of wins that other people have managed to get, the point is all about winning and losing and for the problem of when you will win and how much victory you will get all that is still gray - gray. And obviously I agree to the point of what you said that if indeed we managed to get a win then it is better not to tell others and enjoy it alone, except maybe telling some of the closest people like friends actually it can't be avoided. 

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[zuzie]

But it's not that easy, simply put in terms of gambling someone will not be able to follow the luck or the number of wins that other people have managed to get, the point is all about winning and losing and for the problem of when you will win and how much victory you will get all that is still gray - gray. And obviously I agree to the point of what you said that if indeed we managed to get a win then it is better not to tell others and enjoy it alone, except maybe telling some of the closest people like friends actually it can't be avoided. 

This also includes if someone is lucky to win, it does not necessarily mean that he will be successful in the future. This means that in gambling there is no such thing as success, but winning will lead to success if he can truly consistently maintain self-control. However, we often see people who win, they cannot maintain control well so their winnings are in vain, because they believe it will be easy to win again and in the end they will often lose and in fact their life will get worse because of their own mistakes.
Of course, it is better to keep your winnings a secret than to talk about them with other people, because it is not certain that other people will be able to accept them or even use the winnings for bad things.

[klidex]

That's true there are many selfish people around us who are getting jealous from the others success so if we think about this cost then yes not everyone deserve to hair a person winning in gambling.  I will also say one thing that there are also lot of people that who learn wrong think and become addicted on gambling for saying others success. So I am agree with your words that not everyone deserve to hear your winning in gambling.

That's what many gamblers should do when they win at gambling, it's better to keep quiet and close themselves off, because not everyone has to know about the wins we get because maybe there are also many people who are jealous of our success, making someone do something they shouldn't do, especially If someone is in the process of stopping their gambling addiction, it will certainly have a bad impact on that person.

Believe me, there is no need to prove to anyone that we won against the dealer, always remember when the dealer beats us, maybe more than we won, how much we have lost in gambling and it should be a slap to ourselves so we don't just show off our victory. because you win against the dealer, the best advice is to try to be quiet and enjoy it yourself without other people knowing.

Maybe for some people who want to enjoy their own winnings, they will hide it from other people so that they can enjoy their own winnings without worrying that their friends will borrow money from them from their winnings. However, there are also gamblers who are proud thats they can win from gambling by telling people that they won and making people feel happy, but don't forget that if you tell people about your winnings, you also have to be prepared to risk spending money to treat friends your friends or maybe someone will ask you for money for your winnings, and there are also people who are jealous of your winnings, so it's better to hide your winnings from other people or just tell your family about the winnings you get, so that no one is jealous of you and you can enjoy it with your family.

If you do the math, maybe the winnings are not worth the expenses we have used for gambling so it is better that we don't have to tell people that we fooled the bookie, because the winnings are not worth the money the bookie fooled us to gamblers.

[SeriouslyGiveaway]

Sharing success stories is not a bad thing. If someone continues based on the success story of your gambling, I think it's just a momentary thing. Whether they decide to continue or quit, I believe it's not heavily influenced by your story, maybe just a temporary inspiration.

On the contrary, if your story contains experiential elements that can help them avoid unwarranted mistakes, that's also a good thing, right? Don't weigh too heavily on the idea that sharing your story will make them continue to plunge into debt or gambling addiction. If not from you, it could be from someone else, and whether they continue or quit can only come from their own awareness and decision.

[Samlucky O]

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

I think not only to gamblers but in our everyday activities. Or in any of our financial activities. You know human are naturally wicked In all ramifications. Showing some people your success book is like inviting the demons for a feast. And definitely they will be Verry glad to accept it in good faith. Any huge  sume of money gotten to your wallet is a risk to you especially if you spill it out. So never showcase your wining otherwise you might got kidnapped or traced by rubbers and probably be harmed.

[ethereumhunter]

Sharing success stories is not a bad thing. If someone continues based on the success story of your gambling, I think it's just a momentary thing. Whether they decide to continue or quit, I believe it's not heavily influenced by your story, maybe just a temporary inspiration.

On the contrary, if your story contains experiential elements that can help them avoid unwarranted mistakes, that's also a good thing, right? Don't weigh too heavily on the idea that sharing your story will make them continue to plunge into debt or gambling addiction. If not from you, it could be from someone else, and whether they continue or quit can only come from their own awareness and decision.

Sharing success stories should not be used as a trigger to gamble excessively because that happens to many people. They see this success story as an encouragement for them to continue gambling, especially if they have never won big from gambling. They won't stop gambling if they haven't gotten a big win, but even if they have, they won't stop gambling but will continue gambling because they want to get another big win.

It would be greed if they didn't realize that getting a big win was enough for them to stop gambling for a while and they should enjoy their winnings. That is why, if you want to share your success story with people, you should choose who can listen to the success story so that they are not triggered to gamble any longer. We don't want to be blamed by those who start gambling excessively because they have heard our success stories.

[rahmad2nd]

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Interesting, I'm trying to understand your intent and purpose. but maybe you forgot, that we are here on a gambling discussion board. we cannot prevent or prohibit someone from creating threads according to their wishes, the most important thing is not to violate the rules within the community. in our discussions in the community, everyone can tell stories about their gambling, whether it's about their wins, tips, tricks and even their losses. we can exchange information, knowledge and insights as material for our discussions. but, I really understand the intent and purpose of this discussion. none other than, so that those who are addicted, especially those who want to end it, are not motivated to gamble again.

Well, actually the problem doesn't lie with us. suppose, I am the one who posts wins or successes in my gambling sessions. moreover, I posted a screenshot of a large number of wins. as long as you don't break the rules here, everything is fine. and the problem is, it is precisely those who are tempted to see other members' posts about their wins. they are unable to control themselves, even though they have the intention to stop gambling. especially those within our community. IMO, for me the answer or solution is quite simple regarding what you said in this thread. if, you, I, we, realized that we are very easily influenced by other people's posts of success or victory. the ideal option is, to avoid discussions that involve gambling. we ourselves are responsible for what we do, see and listen to. so one of the efforts to prevent it, we ourselves must be fully aware and avoid it. after all, the one who has the problem is ourselves. so, other people are not responsible for other gamblers' addictions.

[GigaBit]

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Every gambler loses at gambling but I don't know of any gambler who never loss. I think every gambler loses and wins again. So as much as they regret the loss, when they win again they enjoy it. If we don't celebrate after winning, we will never get anything from gambling. We should enjoy those victories, if only for a short period of time, even if it is to comfort our minds. But it must be limited to a certain extent. Also, if a gambler has more losses than wins, he will never find the joy of celebrating those wins. As a gambler I think losing is a common thing. If we can control gambling, we can enjoy the winnings.

[topbitcoin]

This goes back to how each individual responds to it..... And if the person responding to it is wise enough, then this will be a motivation for him to continue trying to improve his abilities and knowledge in gambling, so that he can also increase his chances of winning. get a win or so that he can also get the same opportunity, namely getting a big win in his gambling. However, if the person responding is stupid enough, then when he gets a story that someone has managed to win big in a certain type of gambling, then he will immediately go to the gambling site and play the same type of gambling, without considering everything, he just assumes that he You will also get the same luck and get big wins. but in reality, because he was too ambitious to win, this caused his gambling to become uncontrolled, so that instead of getting a big win, what happened was that his gambling ended in defeat.

[Onyeeze]

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Gamblers get joy and rejoice whenever they win in their gambling platforms it's very rall before you could see anyone who wins a bet and hind it to the public what they normally do is to ensure that they have dispense the information of their wining so that anyone who do mock them because they are playing gambling will never believed them or trust in them, so things gamblers does in order to attract people or get their emotions is during the period they win gambling, so gamblers knows what they needs is your encouragement and good news about gambling that their fellow gambler win somewhere else, so such will trigger them to gamble more.

[Mahanton]

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Gamblers get joy and rejoice whenever they win in their gambling platforms it's very rall before you could see anyone who wins a bet and hind it to the public what they normally do is to ensure that they have dispense the information of their wining so that anyone who do mock them because they are playing gambling will never believed them or trust in them, so things gamblers does in order to attract people or get their emotions is during the period they win gambling, so gamblers knows what they needs is your encouragement and good news about gambling that their fellow gambler win somewhere else, so such will trigger them to gamble more.

Really just that normal to have those reactions since we are really just that humans on which it would really be just that have that kind of impulsive feeling or boost up on the time that we do win up.
So its normal that you would really be that keeping on saying to public that you have won, yes despite of the losses that you do have then those kind of disappointments would really be going away on which
you would really be that definitely be thinking up on telling anyone that you have won something specially if its a significant amount that you havent been able to win before but if it just really that small then you would really be having those typical stuffs or reactions. There's no way that you can stop someone for them to have those kind of reactions.

If someone had been inspired of  those winning reactions or calls then its up into their own decisions in life whether they would be following someone and become that impulsive
or they would really be that definitely going on the other way or path on which they just dont care on what other situations that they are currently seeing.
It would really be just that depending on you because if you do look with those winnings positively then most likely this one would be pushing you
to play even more.

[usekevin]

This goes back to how each individual responds to it..... And if the person responding to it is wise enough, then this will be a motivation for him to continue trying to improve his abilities and knowledge in gambling, so that he can also increase his chances of winning. get a win or so that he can also get the same opportunity, namely getting a big win in his gambling. However, if the person responding is stupid enough, then when he gets a story that someone has managed to win big in a certain type of gambling, then he will immediately go to the gambling site and play the same type of gambling, without considering everything, he just assumes that he You will also get the same luck and get big wins. but in reality, because he was too ambitious to win, this caused his gambling to become uncontrolled, so that instead of getting a big win, what happened was that his gambling ended in defeat.

The people who get success was not like by all the relative and friends around us.This was the reason for which the gamblers will not share about their winning to the relatives mostly and to some of the friend.If the loss happened,many relatives are ready to blame him for the loss.But they are not ready to accept the winning by their hard work.Because the relative are more jealous on us,the winning is based on luck will be the word of the relative on your winning.The experienced gamblers will not accept the words of their relatives,So the best way to handle such time waster will forget the words of that people.Even though you had win sometimes with the luck,the gamblers should not agree it as happened due to luck.Because let the relative wicked by seeing your big money winning.

[oktana]

Very important to note otherwise you will be in unnecessary situations. Imagine if you won $1M and you go about telling everyone who knows you. They will all come to you saying that they want their own cut of the money, or may even start telling you their life problems and all sort of tales. Asides that, you don’t really know who is your friend. The person you trust could have envy and plan something bad for you. At least such bad friendship stories have been heard numerous times. Merely telling someone you won is still motivation.

[Weawant]

Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Sharing your success gambling story does not only encourage a gambling addict but can also but you at risk too unknowingly because you may not know who is listing to your story and maybe envying you and would one day become a potential threat to your safety because they want to have a fair share of your wins which you did informed them about.

It's very much advisable you be discreet with your wins and if you must share to the public use an anonymous system of identity it will help keep you safe from certain attention which you don't desire to get. It's very important to think of your safety before sharing certain stories. Most addict can actually get triggered when they hear stories of people's success and so it's important that whenever an addict is trying to quit gambling, as much as possible such person should avoid anything that suggest gambling in any form to them because it may trigger them again therby making quitting even more difficult.

[Quidat]

Very important to note otherwise you will be in unnecessary situations. Imagine if you won $1M and you go about telling everyone who knows you. They will all come to you saying that they want their own cut of the money, or may even start telling you their life problems and all sort of tales. Asides that, you don’t really know who is your friend. The person you trust could have envy and plan something bad for you. At least such bad friendship stories have been heard numerous times. Merely telling someone you won is still motivation.

On the time that you do hit up some million winning then it would really be just that common sense that you wont really be that making yourself that too obvious on which on the situation or condition that you have said that people would really be that flocking around you and telling and asking about money or whatsoever since they do know that you have won big. There's a right time for that, its not bad to express out your emotion in terms of winning gambling on which i do agree that unavoidable on some moments in life but there were people who are really that good when it comes to control
on which they wouldnt really be that easily getting that affected or simply that really just good when it comes to hiding those things on which i could say that it is really just
that better on having that way rather than on telling anyone basing on the situation that you are facing.

[topbitcoin]

This goes back to how each individual responds to it..... And if the person responding to it is wise enough, then this will be a motivation for him to continue trying to improve his abilities and knowledge in gambling, so that he can also increase his chances of winning. get a win or so that he can also get the same opportunity, namely getting a big win in his gambling. However, if the person responding is stupid enough, then when he gets a story that someone has managed to win big in a certain type of gambling, then he will immediately go to the gambling site and play the same type of gambling, without considering everything, he just assumes that he You will also get the same luck and get big wins. but in reality, because he was too ambitious to win, this caused his gambling to become uncontrolled, so that instead of getting a big win, what happened was that his gambling ended in defeat.

The people who get success was not like by all the relative and friends around us.This was the reason for which the gamblers will not share about their winning to the relatives mostly and to some of the friend.If the loss happened,many relatives are ready to blame him for the loss.But they are not ready to accept the winning by their hard work.Because the relative are more jealous on us,the winning is based on luck will be the word of the relative on your winning.The experienced gamblers will not accept the words of their relatives,So the best way to handle such time waster will forget the words of that people.Even though you had win sometimes with the luck,the gamblers should not agree it as happened due to luck.Because let the relative wicked by seeing your big money winning.

If you just share stories about your success in gambling by getting several big wins. But you don't share the victory. Yes... it's only natural that this can make other people feel jealous and dislike you. Moreover, if the person you invite to tell the story is someone who has just experienced consecutive gambling losses. So I think, if we are kind enough, then we shouldn't just share stories, but we should also share love. Even though the amount we give is not much, because at least it will be an entertainment for him, after experiencing several failures and disappointments because he was not able to get good results when gambling.

And do we have to think about what other people say about us.? yes... we need to think about it, as an evaluation material so that we can be better in the future. And when you receive sweet words, consider them as honey, and when you receive bitter words, consider them as medicine. So both of these things can be good things for you.

[MainIbem]

Everyone has different ways of reasoning but it all depends on how they see's it otherwise there is nothing wrong sharing success story with people over there, only that they are naive and can go to utilized the information in other way round where it could affects them entirely. when you said that there is nothing wrong with but just of human nature they don't wanna hear someone made good money from something they've been trying for years and has no success. Then we also say that anyone who goes to utilized this information the other way round can be seen as irresponsible gambler.

[Onyeeze]

I have lamented in this thread before and I made it know that gambling is a game of luck and neither you and lose is not something a gambler have to or need to campaign outside concerning it Victory in gambling and also it's sad mood in gambling, this the things we have to know, speculating or announcing your wining in gambling to everyone is not encouraging due to you don't know who ha e you in negative mind and you don't know if procrastination will continue to be your surname when publicise your wining to the world, so gambling is something of secret and it suppose to remain secret

[agustina2]

Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.

Can't believe we should be careful about that?

I'm free to do what I want. If I want to talk about my success in gambling or share my big winning experience, I will just do it. Where should the adjustment should come from? From the one who told the story, the listeners, or both? As if we know everyone's feelings before telling them the story. In that case, the listener should do their best not to be affected by any winning story, or if someone is already discussing that experience, make some ways to end or shift the discussions into something else. Either side should adjust as not all have the same thoughts.

[terrific]

Don't cut the fun of others if they are sharing their wins, so what if they have won and shared it? Just quickly scroll to other things and threads so that you won't see it.
I don't think that you're jealous and don't pass the burden of your emotion and feelings to the people that are happily sharing their achievements and you may never know how long they've waited to just win that moment.