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A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.
 Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do. My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.
 I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

In this case, gambling is “Schrödenger’s cat” - it is both bad and good at the same time. Gambling is, first and foremost, a game in which you enjoy the process. Some people make them their hobby, others their work (a means of earning money). But ludomania is already a very specific disease, a deviation. Condemnation of gambling and “imaginary” help for game addicts is the lot of hypocrites.

This is where people do usually mess up on the time that they would really be trying out to mimic someone specially if they have been able to win up something big and on the time that mindset and emotion has been fixed on this way then it would really be creating out that kind of imaginary approach towards gambling on which they would really be trying it out to make it happen on the same way for themselves and this is why people do really end up on having that miserable lives because of those wrong assumptions on which they do really believe that they could really be able to get out safe.
If you are lucky then you might be able to achieve those things but if not then you would really be ending up on regretting.

Regrets are always at the end, this is why it would really be that important that you should really know on when to get in and when to get out on certain conditions
on which it would really be just that a normal thing.

First of all, gambling has nothing to do with investments. Gambling is a game, an expensive hobby, and like with many other hobbies, you have to keep your sanity and enjoy it in moderation. It is not all black, but not all white either.

If you want money to start your own business, you should work hard for it instead of only relying on luck. Maybe this way you learn something valuable in the meantime, and make some extra money to gamble without the pressure of having to win at all cost in order to get the fulfilling life you and your family deserve.

Instead of gamblers putting the blame on their selves they will go ahead giving it to the game they play, I hope they realized that the game doesn't play itself, we choose to play them and how to go about it, this has been a common practice that you will discover from many gamblers always finding reason to why they are losing while gambling, what is needed is to have fun and enjoy more about gambling.

I think this isn't so much a trait shared by gamblers as much as it is a trait shared by losers.  You seem the same things with investments.  People make a bad decision and then look for everyone else to blame but themselves.  I think some people just can't accept that things didn't turn out how they thought and in hindsight their decision was a bad one.  They'd rather believe they did everything right and everyone else did everything.  Not saying that's never the case, but for some individuals it seems they think that is always the case.

Gambling, to most, is a hobby. Hobbies by nature, should be enjoyable, they should be fun. The moment it stops being fun is when it becomes a problem and you probably need some time out.

The only person whose fault it is, if you lose enough money that it becomes a problem, is you.

With most addictions, the addict needs to take responsibility for their actions if they want to change. There is no point blaming anybody but yourself. All reputable casinos and sportsbooks do all they can to promote responsible gambling, you can set yourself limits. Ultimately, the punter is in control of their gambling habits.

It might be funny, but this topic seems like a continuation of another topic I earlier came across today, where the OP detailed on the title "If you don't take a risk, you will not win." It totally confirms that gambling is full of risk to lose money, so who dares to make unnecessary blame on gambling because they lose their bet? Do they not know that gambling is a game of luck where winning is uncertain?

By the way, I want to point out that gambling is never an investment, so it should not be treated as one, or even compared to being an investment.

Lastly, people who hate gambling will paint it black because, maybe their costume or religion forbids it. So, they will definitely paint it black and have a very point to convince others why gambling is not good. Yeah, people can paint it black and you will not do anything.  ;D

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Thank you for also pointing this out. You beat me to it while I was typing.   :'(

When it comes to the "blame game" it's always easier to blame everything and anything else than accepting the blame on yourself. But that game ends once we grow up and take responsibility for our actions.


And gambling can be a very dangerous thing for people who don't understand how easily they can lose everything they have. I mean, it's again about responsible gambling, but we know that some people are not responsible and for those people, gambling can be a very dangerous thing. As I said many times, it's all fun & games as long as we gamble with money we can afford to lose, but when people start playing with amounts they can't afford to lose the problems will start. The more they lose bigger the problems will be. In the end, they can blame anyone but the blame will be on them.

So the point of the story should be simple, play with the money you can afford to lose. Only like that you can relax and have fun while playing some of your favorite games.

There is no doubt that gambling has helped some people step up on the level of financial independence but that is a very small average of people and I believe those who have benefited that way are not addict gamblers, they are reasonable gamblers who got lucky and use betting profit to better their lives. However, the reason that majority of the response try to throw some guide on gambling is because what what they see, withness and even part of the majority that has been losing in gambling. It is normal if you are losing to let others understand that it is not a tea party to make it from gambling because there are gamblers who are expecting to make it through gambling and they need to hear the reality from participants who have also felt that way but unsuccessful.

Lack of discipline, bad upbringing, different cultures.... There are many reasons but it all boils down to one thing:

Well, it is all plain human nature, isn't it? We all seem to think that we are special, different and unique. But the truth is, that we react the very same way as every other human being. That is not a bad thing, either. The predictability of human nature just makes it easier to understand how gambling can make people irrational/angry.  But in the end, it all has to do with how you view the win or loss from your own perspective. And if you do not like the way that you (or someone else) acts, then there is always a way of dealing with it.

A more precise way of looking at it is something like this. It is very common, even everyone who has a hobby always gets negative judgments from people who are not as frequent. As long as everyone's standards of taste and enjoyment are different, I think it is natural that there are those who judge gambling as something that is not worth continuing, while there are people who like gambling and continue to play it because personally they like the game.

Hobbies are not cheap, because many people are willing to exchange their money for pleasure that only they can experience.

Only a silly cannot accept the risks of decisions he has previously determined. Moreover, blaming the casino or other gamblers who win will only happen to gamblers who are unlucky. His emotions were in turmoil within moments.

well some gamblers are hypocrite and in denial to themselves. let us put it this way, in gambling, don't expect that you will go home as a winner because you already know the reality here - most of the time you will go home as a loser esp if you don't manage yourself to quit before you busted your bankroll.

if you make gambling as a hobby, then, for sure, you already know potential repercussions if you go beyond your limits. because the truth in this game is not a secret, a player is only pretending the reality of things if he thinks he can go home with bag of money afterwards.

The ratio of those who have got helped through gambling to set up themselves is relatively low compared to the numbers of those who have lost their money and becoming bankruptcy, this is what have been onnthe average and we have to accept that reality, and despite the fact that we can undermind that possibility but we still need to point out the obvious truth that the numbers of successful gamblers are less comparde to the problematic gamblers.

And all that is as a result of the outcome of theor gambling results and realities, so gambling shouldn't be taken as a way to financial freedom and we should only gamble because of the fact that we have some level of fun and staking only an amount we can afford to lose and be comfortable with so we don't have to blame the casino or gambling for whatever realities that weay face at some point in time when you feel you need to blame someone for the reality of things.

I get that you get to compare gambling and investments because of losing and profiting. But many are also considering it the wrong way because of that comparison and whether we believe it or not, there are gamblers think that gambling is investing.

But the fact there is that it is becoming an investment when you invest to a bankroll and be with the casino that allows it and not actually the one who gambles and be against the casino.

Going on with blaming, many times we've seen that a lot have lost and they have no one to blame but the casino for any reason that they can invent. But it all sums up that it's their problem, they have a gambling problem and they shouldn't resonate to anyone to blame for their losses but only themselves.

Exactly! , honestly, the idea of gambling or gambling games is not to blame or to treat as bad hubbies because the people are the ones who put money into gambling, and at first gamblers only know how risky and dangerous gambling is but still proceed on doing so. The ones that should be blamed by those gamblers are themselves, no other than them, because they are the ones that make the decision; they are the ones that can't control themselves from gambling too much if they're unlucky, and they know that they should already stop but instead still continue until there is no more money left, and then proceed with blaming that luck is not favouring them. Yes, now a days gambling is being treated as bad deeds, but they don't see that the one who is bad or the cause of misfortune is themselves also, those blamers are  not thinking logically.

The main reason why people crying over every little lost in gambling is because they have centered themselves to make profits from gambling but without knowing that it doesn't work that way, at first the must have this mindset that is just a game without rewards and if they have this in their minds it would be more better than put their whole lives out there thinking the very moment they steps into gambling their whole story would change overnight that's why we see people easily got addicted at the process of constantly betting it turns into addiction whereby they would have to channel their blames on gambling how it has damaged their life's.

What always come to my mind whenever i see this kind of topic it the possibility of having a gambler who blames the casino for they loses, because most of the time, their blames always go to a friend or individual who give them the bet if that be the reality of the case, but if not then they can also transfer the blame to other family members, because when it becomes so obviously unbearable for them, and the dont have the courage to accept that their have themselves to blame then the blame games set in for them and at that point the tend to shift it to someone else.


But gambling should be done with almost description since at some level, it only take the individual to gamble and come out with whatever outcome.

  I am aware that gambling is just a mere speculation of event and nothing is certain but then same thing applies to investing, the level of uncertainty in investing is inevitable and cannot be overlooked, just like any investment gambling involves profit and loss, it might not be an investment plan for the bettor but it definitely is for the casinos and online gambling site owners. So you can see how similar they all are. The context of the post is not to make people rely on gambling after all we all know that gambling is mainly for the fun and shouldn’t be used as a major source of income.
   Being a source of income for the casino owners makes it an investment for that person. Also it is not new that gambling as really help a lot of people to gather up capital to start a new business for themselves, with right strategy and discipline anybody can achieve success in gambling.  Gambling is a game of chance, and hence the theory of probability and chance calculations apply in full measure. Moreover, those who depend on gambling to either become rich or to make a livelihood are basically who are lazy and don't wish to work . Easy money makes one greedy also. I have seen several people lose everything after they won the first round..out of sheer greed to win more. Life has an element of luck in it, but is not totally based on luck.
  

Those are immature behaviour of people/gamblers who doesn't want to attest their responsibilities when gambling. These are same people who always regrets their moves and blaming others is their defense mechanism to make them feel good after gambling. This also happens when emotions controls your moves and decisions. In simple terms, these are behaviour of problematic gambler.

I mean in the end, we have nothing to blame on this but ourselves since we are the ones who make the decision, I get your point here where gambling is not really a bad thing to anyone, in my perspective gambling is entertainment and yes for sure it is not something that is totally bad depends on how you're going to gamble, you could totally gamble responsible and moderately and not get any problems or probably even win sometimes. But I guess the problem here is just how people see gamble just like what you have said there are people who win a huge amount on a gamble and change their life here which is for sure not something that you might want to try on a gamble because this surely involves some luck not just something that has some kind of blueprint in order to win. Gambling is for sure not the quick way to get rich, maybe because you could easily get rich on gamble if you are lucky but it might be the other way around if you're not careful, so just dont look at gamble as something that you could use as an income or something where you could earn a huge amount of money easily since it is for sure a double edge sword that could easily destroy your life.

If you already have the money put it on some kind of investment like cryptocurrency for sure, or do a legitimate business that could give you income, we already know how risky gambling is so just dont put your money on it before you regret it, we already witness a lot of people destroy there life on gambling at least dont go all in on gambling, invest on something like real estate, apartments, stocks, cryptocurrency, etc. which will make more sense.

See the sad thing is the moment you start relying on gambling or trusting it to turn around your life in one moment, you already lost. Unlike investing, which is something you'd truly spend time and effort to make it work, gambling is purely about luck. And just by its definition, luck isn't really something you'd want to rely on all the time. While it's understandable that we all want that moment where we can turn our lives around, which is to say, luck, relying on gambling, which is another form of luck, just seems really dumb. it's like relying on luck squared.

Since people fail to realize that, they start thinking that gambling is just like any other opportunity out there which they can blame. Like that bad manager that refused to promote you, the industry you're in just refused to improve, and stuff like that.

There is no point in blaming the games or blaming the casinos. people buy cars and every day we see on TV and in the newspapers saying that there have been many car accidents with many deaths. But even so, every day car manufacturing companies continue to manufacture cars and more people continue to buy cars, because it's not the cars' fault. the blame and the people. The same thing happens with alcoholic beverages, every day we hear in the news that many people are dying in accidents because they were under the influence of alcohol, but no government has banned beer and wine factories. on the contrary, presidents of countries have been seen celebrating with wine. That's because it's the people's fault, not the wines.

people should be honest with themselves, when they cannot achieve something, then they should first look for information and practice and then execute that thing. By this I mean that those people who enter casinos without having knowledge about games and do not know that games are not a guaranteed source of income, must first study the games and the casino before creating an account. because this way they will avoid creating high expectations when they enter the casino, they will know that they will not obtain constant profits, and that the only thing they will obtain will be fun

Everyone makes a choice when they first sign up to a gambling site, they either know that they will lose their money eventually or they have a plan to make what little they can and run away with it. If you play the game properly and happen to live in places where it's available, there are a whole host of opportunities to make money with "matched betting" and welcome bonuses. If you have the discipline to unlock this free cash, you can leave the gambling scene a winner and never return. Optionally, there are many free games out there and you can play them as long as the casino doesn't ban your account. People who talk about being unlucky, are the ones who didn't do research and figure out that the mathematics is stacked against them ever winning.

People need to understand that gambling is considered as game of luck. It’s not a game of skill. I mean you can’t just enhance your skill in order to win the games. If your luck is not good, then you can’t win the games. No matter what strategy you apply or how you play. Yes the blaming is done in order to calm down the brain for losses. In gambling in order to win the games, you just need a good luck. That’s all.

It depends. In poker, sports betting and horse racing you can. In the rest of casino games it is not, but many problems would be avoided if people understood in depth concepts such as the House Edge. One would like to think that a solution would be that concepts like that and others would be taught in high school, but if basic financial training is not taught, there is no way that curricula with chapters with mathematics applied to gambling will be implemented.

This is all caused by someone's lust which is very big in themselves when playing gambling, they often forget about the finances they have and in addition the chance of winning at gambling is not commensurate with the losses they achieve, that is where someone's mistake lies in  gambling on all things that can make them get money instantly.  and in the end they forget that it is a bad thing that will happen to their personal economy in the future, it is difficult to get out if someone feels comfortable when playing gambling.

It is unfortunately in our nature to find excuses for our actions, when something goes wrong. The thing with gambling is that too many people do not understand the basic concept that a higher percentage of people have to lose for a small percentage of people to win.

They do not understand things like RTP / Variance / house edge and how things like the RNG and client/server seed are working.

So people make up things, based on their own lack of understanding to shift the blame for their lack of knowledge.

Do you really think people will magically stop blaming gambling whenever they lose? Anyone who thinks like that are way too naive and gullible since people always find something/someone to try and blame for their losses.

They try to reduce their own guilt by diverting the blame towards something/someone which is basic human nature.

If people scream about how gambling is destroying them, it is their own fault. They should introspect themselves on how they use gambling. Gambling will not ruin their lives if they can use gambling as intended.

They forget that gambling is just entertainment and there is no need to gamble too often or too seriously. This prevents more losses so they do not experience losing their money. If they can have self-control and strict discipline, they will not experience many losses. They can also use gambling as a means to have fun.

If they can use gambling well, they can get pleasure from gambling, especially if they can gamble moderately and not use gambling as a way to make money.

Only dumb people would blame the casino for what they have experience especially if its negative on their side. If they could just able to think accurately on what actions they have done for sure they will be curious to know the risky action they made also those bad decisions they drop. They also get ashame for blaming the casino for encountering a bad luck and provably they could learn a lot of lesson for those mistakes.

Gambling will be dangerous if only the person conducting the activity doesn't have good discipline and expecting some passive from it since usually they are the one will face a harsh result then provably encounter such huge lose that they can't imagine. After that those addiction will follow that's why we need to be aware on the risk and think about good thing about gambling and also have fun rather than thinking always on the profit they can possibly earn there.

Like what I have read about various gamblers whose lives have been ruined because gambling is something for me, if I look at it from another angle, it seems that it is not, because if that is true, then all the gamblers who are playing games now have ruined all their lives, right?

There are others whose lives have improved because of gambling, but there are also others who have ruined themselves and their lives. Other gamblers prospered or became rich because of gambling, and also because of gambling, they became poor again.

You are coming up with the assumption that the amount of people, who lost from gambling is equal to the amount of people, who won from gambling. This is too far away from the truth. The amount of gambling addicts, who ruined their lives is way bigger than the people, who profited from gambling. In fact, I don't know about anyone, who changed his life for good because of a big win from a casino.
I agree that the blame game is pointless, but don't try to paint a picture, that isn't real. The gambling industry isn't as balanced as life in general. There is a reason why "the casino always wins". If the amount of winners was equal to the amount of losers, the gambling industry wouldn't be so profitable.

Well, gambling have not come through for me in any way, possibly because I am not that regular, but then, I still love gambling and do encourage any body interested to give it a try as long as they stick to the rules, no body knows where their blessing and financial breakthrough will come from.

I used to be one of those people that hated gambling and gamblers alike, because the society I lived in made me believe that gambling is an irresponsible thing to do, and that only irresponsible people gamble.
So, I myself being someone who was raised with moral values, I hated anything that is irresponsible, and gambling, as well as gamblers happened to be one of those, I never had anything to do with gamblers, until I meet someone who changed everything, and today, gambling have become something I love engaging in from time to time.

One thing I normally say on this forum is that, those who are castigating gambling, and discouraging people from engaging in it, and yet, wearing signature that belong to a gambling casino, are nothing but confused beings.

When anyone messes up in thier lives they would need someone or something to blame upon. This called denial to believe that they did wrong. I have rarely seen anyone accepting that the fault lies within. I don't agree that gambling should be blamed for the loss. At the same time I don't agree that some people have made fortune through gambling. I would say a handful of few have made it big whereas a large group has lost everything. I also don't agree that gambling itself is a wrong activity as in our life we always gamble in various stages. Getting addicted to gambling can ruin anyone and those blaming gambling are the one who have ruined themselves due to addiction.

I kept seeing or hearing people or gamblers that made themselves stupid for blaming gambling , blaming other people or even blaming something because of their own mistakes.

Gambling is one thing that we all agreed to play and lose, we are not even forced to bet so how much are we stupid blaming people?

But thanks for this reminder mate and let this be the peoples marking to not blaming others for their losses.

Well, you have a point. However we know majority of gamblers are just losing their money than winning because of the house edge. There might be gamblers who are fortunate to hit a jackpot but we know there's only few. It's not similar to other investment opportunities (though there's also a risk) that you can influence the outcome to gain profit.

Because in gambling you have to accept the fact that losing is inevitable. That being said, if you can't stand losing your money then don't gamble, simple as that. Luck is a major factor to win in gambling so keep that in mind before blaming gambling (or anyone who attracted you to play) just because you lose your money.

Gambling is for mature minds and not for irresponsible people. I think this is the reason why there is a minimum age limit people should attain before they are allowed to gamble. An understanding that gambling is unpredictable will help people understand that they might win today and lose the next time they bet. Most people who lament about their loss are people who gamble more than they can afford to lose.
 Gamble is not dangerous it is simply risky. You risk your money to get fun and more money. This is a forum and you cannot stop people from sharing their gambling experience. Anyway anybody who concludes that gambling is bad is ignorant because it has so many benefits if handled responsibly. If one can control his gambling activities, such a person will find it interesting.
Gamble for me is a game that gives me fun as I also expect to make some profit. It has never had any negative consequences on my finances, health, family relationships, and other areas of my life. I try as much as possible to gamble within my means and this is done by following strictly my gambling plan.

there is a difference between Addicted gamblers and just a Normal gamblers mate, and those that you are
mentioning who have ruined their life are Addicted one and not like us who are just normal or occasional gamblers only.

but actually the topic is for those who are blaming everything because of what had happened to their life
but the truth is? this is about their own mistakes.

People only care with their own selves, that's why when something bad happens on them, they will make a complaint and give excuses to make them get a benefit.

For the casino, the best is ban them even though they're give money to the casino, but still the time spent to take care of them is more valuable than the money they had donated.

For other people, it's the best to avoid them because they can make create unnecessary dramas because they're have narcissist personality disorder.

Right. Trying to mimic someone else's success in gambling can lead to a tricky mindset. It's easy to get caught up in the idea that you'll hit the jackpot too and regret often kicks in when things don't pan out. Knowing when to step in and more importantly, when to step out is so important

Although for some people gambling indeed has given the capital to start whatever business they want to do and for others the money they could live from during the rest of their lives, no one should count on the same fate. We should be aware that it's possible and may hope that it will happen to us too, but we must know the probability of us losing is slightly higher than that of winning. And then later, if we lose, we shouldn't blame anyone but ourselves, because we knew that that was the most probable outcome.

 People will always need to blame someone for their misfortunes especially when it comes to gambling but you'd hardly accrediting their successes to someone else and that's the funny thing about life. I have a friend who I keep my distance from if I know he lost because any thing I say may be used against me.  ;D..gamblers ought to know that there are good days as well as there are bad, the same way you celebrate when you rake in a win, also take it in same stride when you lose so that way you can keep a cool head when staking the next time.
 Although is not everyone who does that blaming act, these set of people when they lose, they'll quietly leave without looking for who to blame or even causing any problem. We should know that the main reason why they blame someone is  to pass on that anger to the nearest victim to express themselves and sometimes it get them in a fight, so is best to avoid anyone who has lost a bet if not you become the devil that made them lose.

It takes some grace for gamblers who won from gambling to invest the money on something good, majority of them would rather keep gambling to make more money so stop saying that people are winning and having a change of life through gambling, not all of them are free from the gaze of gambling, it's not as that easy.

Those who are warning gamblers about the self destruction in gambling are not saying it wrong, they are right and accurate about it, do you know how easy it is to lose everything in gambling? Gambling can easily hinder your future plans if care isn't taken, that's why I believe that gambling is not for everybody, some people are so weak at taking the right decisions in life and some gets too attached to everything they do.

You should not blame gambling when you are unlucky and you should not rely on gambling as your source of income, it's about luck and it's never going to work out for you everytime you gamble, for a lot of people, it's better not to gamble at all and do something else, because when its the time to stop it can be difficult to put an end to everything.

Whomsoever that's putting blame on gambling for making their life unbearable or drawing their dreams backwards doesn't even have a vision for their future because you can't tell me that a game you actually know that there are two things involved, either you lose or you win then you focused all your energy and money towards it with the belief that it will make you rich in life. Gambling itself is a risk and the gambler is also taking a risk as well so one ought to be mindful of how they take risk as there is an extent with which you can go in taking a risk and you will fail and find it difficult to rise again in life.

One shouldn't take because gambling also have the possibility to make one wealthy and now take gambling as a habit to extent that you can't even go a day without playing gamble and one shouldn't take because you're inquisitive of winning and deprive yourself of some life obligations you needed to achieve just because of gambling. Gambling of a truth has made some persons in life and also damaged the life of some people but the possibility of winning is very far from the possibility of losing because most gamblers always experience losses it's only few that have made it through gambling so this statistics is good enough to ring a bell to people to be careful when going about their gambling life. A game that you knew the possibility of losing is higher than that of winning means you ought to be very careful while going about it.

This is why the government ensures that you reach a certain age before you gamble and do some other adult things. This is for you to make an informed decision at that age, not the one that they make for you, and if someone could decide to gamble as an adult, that is his decision and not another person's decision, so why blame another person or try to shift the blame? As an adult, you should know your right from your left and wrong from right, and if you make any decision, you should be ready to face the consequences thereafter either good or bad. Gambling has been there for ages and once you are not being forced, you should not cry foul. You do not have the right to blame a friend, family, your country's situation and not even the house, because you should have known what you are signing for as a result before you do so.

I often laugh when I see a lot on the internet when it is an emotional discussion about gambling, that is not necessary. I do say that emotion is a weakness, gambling could severely affect your life if care is not taken, so as an adult, you do not just dabble into a thing simple because your friend introduced it to you or you just found out they are doing it one way or another. You have to first research about it, then you learn it if you so desire to participate. And through learning, you should be able to know the good and the bad side of it, and after all these you still proceed in it, then you and only you are to be blamed.

People should not have to scream because they think that gambling is destroying them. If they can use gambling properly, their lives will not be ruined and they can still enjoy gambling as entertainment. We don't need to blame gambling because gambling is neutral and depends on each person who uses it. If we use gambling excessively, we will get bad effects from gambling where we will lose money and not be able to buy anything or meet our daily needs. Those who complain that gambling has had a bad impact on them need to check their attitude towards gambling. If they find that they have used too much money, that means the fault is theirs because gambling never told them to gamble using a lot of money. Because of their own greed, they have to correct their mistakes by trying to control themselves and be disciplined and responsible when playing gambling.

I experienced both what Mr. A and Mr. B experienced so I don't play the pointing fighters or the blame game.

Yeah, I also hate those who blame gambling for their own mistakes. It's a simple rule, you play with risk and be sure that you are ready for the consequences because you either win or lose and it's up to you.
There's always the other choice, don't gamble at all. That way, you neither win or lose.
Gambling sites will always be rigged, it's a business, not a charity. They cannot just give away money to people while they are enjoying the game. Imagine if every player is a winner. I don't think we should call that gambling. :D
There's another choice to have a higher percentage of winning, sports betting. If you know your sports then you will definitely have a high chance to win a bet and I've seen a lot of gamblers do that.
Casino games are where most gamblers lose, and get rekt, this is where they play the blame game, it's because they are playing against the house, unlike sports betting where you are guessing who will win or lose.

And it's a bad sign of gamblers upon losing, are blaming everyone if they are unlucky, it could be on how they cope. But still we should be man enough to admit to ourselves that there's no one to blame here but ourselves on the bad consequences.

So we have to think again if we have to gamble the next time. That if we losses, we should exit the screen, or if we a playing online, go home empty pocket but then just be quiet and plan our next move. Maybe to play again or just simply stop for the time being.

You are right, if you know what you are going into you should be fully prepared and things will go fine for you, but OP, do you know that there are some serious gamblers that are responsible and they never get lucky with gambling?

The good part is gambling failed to ruin them, because they stick to their strategy of using few dollars on gambling.

Gambling can't be blamed, it's people that are surrendering to their greed with gambling, I as a person, gambling can never hurt me because I am never going to give more than I can afford to gambling all in the name of I could get lucky.

It's either you never get lucky in gambling and you are still doing well in life or you are not lucky in gambling and you are doing all you can to get lucky, which I believe that the latter idea will get you in serious trouble, if luck doesn't find you, don't desperately look for it.

Consciously, people who gamble should have agreed to the risks of the gambling they are doing, but after they make mistakes and lose, it actually makes them forget about the agreement they agreed to at the start, that's why every gambler who experiences defeat will never want to stop playing gambling because they don't want to experience defeat and lose money so they try to recover all their losses with the remaining money they have even though it will make them poor and bankrupt in the end.

Every gambler will definitely make mistakes and also experience defeat, therefore it is important to instill it in our mindset when gambling that in gambling there are not only wins but also defeats which must be understood, accepting the reality that when you experience defeat there is no point in blaming yourself, let alone other people. Other than that, whatever has been agreed at the beginning before playing gambling, you definitely have to accept the final result, even if it is disappointing and you lose money from gambling itself. I also hope that those who gamble really understand that when they lose, what they have to do is limit each budget and always bet. Use unused money so you don't complain after losing.  ;D

It is normal human nature to always try to shift blame when something doesn't go as intended or planned and same thing applies when it comes to gambling. Many a time, when some gamblers lose stakes they end up attributing blame in one way or the other however it is of no use. More experienced gamblers in same situation also feel the pain of losing but accept the fact that they lost.
Refusing to accept the fact that one lost a stake based on your personal decision can cause such person to possibly make mistakes in their next stake making them to lose.

gambling is actually just an activity that is easy to understand and an enjoyable activity for those who know how gambling works and can understand what things to avoid.
It's just that, nowadays most gamblers fail to understand gambling and they only think that gambling is a place to make money or a place to double money.
on the one hand, those who think like this are the first signs of gamblers who will regret it when their savings run out and start blaming other parties, such as blaming the gambling party or blaming other people.
In this case, of course we will often see many gamblers who are very happy and throw a party when they get a big win but they will cry and get angry blaming gambling when a losing streak drains their savings.

I always have the same advice as usual if you really want to be a healthy gambler without getting bad effects, try to keep pressing our minds to understand that gambling will not give us large amounts unless we are lucky and luck will not be obtained every day but only once a lifetime (big luck)
and also always teach our own minds to think that gambling is a business to provide benefits to its customers with pleasure and will provide monetary profits for the casino owner.
so you don't need to bother spending excessive amounts of money, but gamble with a budget that you can afford to lose and still limit the budget and number of bets.
enjoy every game, think of it as just a game of luck.

We know already that gambling is not bad, just an activity for fun that is usually abused by people because they fail to control themselves. People gamble for fun, and it has lots of health benefits. Lucky people will never be found blaming gambling, only unlucky people do. If you also check out from the lifestyle of these people, you notice that complaining and passing blames is just a part of them, they are also casting blames and complaining about other things in their life. People who take responsibility, and although they become gambling addicts will hardly blame gambling for their problems but blame themselves for not controlling themselves with gambling.

Infact you just defined what gambling is, you said that it's an expensive hubby, and I totally agree with you, anybody that is going into gambling whether for fun or as a business should understand that it's where you will put your money and may not have any profit in return, therefore in that regard it's not a cheap hubby or business. So anybody that is going into gambling needs to be very well informed about how it works, that you have more chances of losing your money in it than winning. A major factor in gambling is luck, it does not guarantee that after staking that you will win, so if you blame gambling for your lose, then you're indirectly blaming your ignorance for not being knowledgeable enough to understand that gambling is a game where you will either lose or win.

One of the most common behavior of a losing gambling is that they would really be always loving on pointing out their fingers into someone or even into the platform itself that it is really that unfair or someone
who had told them to play on on which it is really just that a very casual.Some do play really just that for fun but most people would really be playing for the sake of money.On the time that they wont really be able to control their emotions then they wont really be stopping on playing until the very last money that they do have on their pockets or accounts. Gambling is really just that a matter of luck and this is really just that good for entertainment and if you are that someone whose really that going after for entertainment then you wont really be finding yourself that being that too desperate but if you are someone who do really goes after
for making money then getting impulsive would really be the main feelings or emotions or behavior that you would really be having on the time that you do gamble.

I don`t think putting good use of the money won from gambling has anything to do with grace. Saying it takes grace is like relating it to some divine force and making it seem like it requires force to make proper use of gambling money. I don`t support that. To me, it`s about self-awareness and rationality. Self-awareness creates the consciousness and discipline necessary for utilizing gambling money properly. Even this discipline doesn`t start after a win but even during a stake. That is gambling in a way that you don`t run into problem gambling.

It should be known too that not every winning can easily be used for investment. For instance, can someone who stakes $10 and then wins $70 think of investment? sincerely, if it`s me, investment wouldn`t come to my mind because what kind of an investment can be done with $70? but then, If I win above $5000, I will make better use of the money. So, investment solely depends on how much was won.


Yeah, it is so easy to lose in gambling because, by nature, gambling is a game of probability. In my opinion, the only certainty in gambling is that you MUST lose. Winning is never guaranteed. This is enough reason to put money won from gambling into good use. No one has ever played gambling to get ruined by it. So, why let this be the reality? Regardless that gambling has helped some persons, gambling has negatively affected others also. Some lost houses, cars, relationships, prospects etc. and that is why I concur that gambling is not for everyone. Know if it works for you and if it doesn`t quit.


Gambling brings joy, riches and satisfaction to some gamblers and gamblers who attach greed to the game will always run into revenge gambling and when they are unlucky, they blame it on gambling. There is no need for blame games. Gambling works for you if you want it to. So, whether we see gamble from a positive or negative angle depends on the gambler. This can be likened to individuals who went to school but didn`t make it, their inability to graduate doesn`t make going to school bad.

Everyone has their own ways of thinking but mind you, your way of thinking might be wrong, it doesn't mean it's wrong to believe in yourself but when something is too easy you should be curious why, gambling isn't for everyone, it's not a dream land or a wish granting wardrobe, going into a casino, what is the first thing that comes to your mind? That you are going to be lucky? There is no different sun that will arise to make you believe that it's yet another one of those luck days for you.

Gambling isn't to be blamed for your loss, it's you that want to make money the easy ways, and any way ways if making money comes with greater risks, you need to then learn how to manage the risk well or you risk paying for the price, hard working is exchangeable for money, but luck to money should be obviously way harder than anything.

I don't deceive myself when gambling like many people do, that's why I am always surprised when I win money unexpectedly, it feels way better because I don't risk too much and at the same time I am not expecting too much either.

We do gambling by our own choice. No one forced us to go gambling and we knew that profit and loss, is a part of gambling. So in case we loss any amount in gambling, there is no use to blame the gambling site. Also, gambling sites will not refund us the money in case we start to blame them. For us, gambling is just a game, for them (the gambling sites) it is the business and all the win by the gamblers is a profit for them.

I do not understand why people start crying after they lose their hard earned money in gambling. If the money is so crucial to them, they should have limit their gambling activities so that they do not lose much amount. Even if they lose more, they should be using only that money which is not so crucial for them. Playing the blame game will not recover the loss and also it will only create frustration in the gambler.

Winning while gambling is just depends on the probability so we never know when we will win and when we will lose, gambling can indeed give money that can change life into a fortune but it doesn't mean one who gambles should aim for that because it is an incident that is totally unpredictable and happen rarely than a loss so just understand the fact if you bet 100 bets in luck based game then you may win 10 bets and loss 90 bets or it can be totally other way that is why we call its game of luck.

Blaming the form you are doing even when you know these facts, then its wrong or you are just ignorant about gambling and still chose to do it which is also wrong.

More precisely, there is absolutely no certainty whatsoever that can guarantee your victory at the end of the session, of course the result at the end of the session is always about two things, namely winning and losing, if you want to win then of course you have to be really lucky but the problem is whoever will never know when they will be lucky because luck always cannot be predicted when it will come and when it will go, and this is the reason why it is highly recommended for anyone not to put hope or even chase victory in gambling because it is too unreasonable unless occasional wins.

On the other hand, yes, you have explained the scenario that if we push too hard to win, it means that there will be a lot of trials and the lack of certainty in gambling will make us experience more losses than wins because it is impossible to get lucky. streak. Therefore, becoming a responsible gambler is more recommended. You can become a responsible gambler if you are basically able to understand the real concept of how gambling works.

Its a good site for a gambler if he doesn't always imagine himself in terms of winning. Because a common complaint among gamblers is that they lose. Gamblers who can embrace the humanity of losing can manage to gamble successfully in the long run. A gambler who takes losing easily can never blame gambling. They rather try to find their faults there. Gambling involves winning and losing. Most of the time the losses will outnumber the wins. I think that simply accepting this defeat will reduce such type of blaming attitude.

Yeah, every one is believed to know the good and bad side of whatever decision they want to take in life and in gambling you're entitled to any decisions you want to take because it's your money and you work for it so you can choose whichever way you want to go about it no problem but a situation where you know the complexity of your job and to be spending it on gambling even when you don't win is a very bad habit because if you truly know what you're passing through before you receive your salary i believe you wouldn't be happy to be wasting money just because you are desperate of winning.

 A gambler needs to understand that gambling is associated with risk and winning is by luck not by force so a situation where one can't actually control their gambling habits then what ever consequences that comes along with it you would have only but yourself to blame and moreover, you have been advised but yet you choose to give a deaf ear so you should be ready to bear the brunt alone when the consequences arises.

Rationally, that would be the right thing to do before making every decisions in life, however, the reality is different, because many people act by impulses and momentary desires they feel on the present moment, without measuring the potential consequences of their acts. These are considered irresponsible, immature, unstable individuals who will always find someone to guilt for their own personal mistakes, so they never feel bad about themselves.

And it's even more common among the new generations who don't accept following rules, traditions and want to do everything on their own way, consequently failing in the end, because they didn't listen to wiser old people who are more experienced in life and have already passed through many ways the youngs are knowing only now for the first time. Even worse is the fact these generations are arrogant, so they never apologize and admit their mistakes, causing the "blame game" you mentioned in your post.

Now you might ask, is there a solution for this social problem? I think at some point life teaches these people how to behave in a decent manner towards their pairs, accepting their responsabilities and consequences for their own acts. Although while they don't get conscious about it, the tendency is that things keep getting worse in their lives until they finally learn and improve.

Life indeed isn't balanced!!

Like the famous saying, one man's meat is another man's poison and true to this, gambling has made wins from small amounts and these guys are set for life and for the losing party all I can say is greed is the father of all ruined lives!!!

Otherwise let's all treat gambling to be based on pure luck..more like 1% skill and 99% luck and this will save many of us from depression, denial and revenge gambling!

Honestly, it's 50/50 for me I have lost big before and won some big tournaments from it and can't really complain...only regret is the 1 BTC prizes I won several several years ago win BTC was under $500 and if I was holding by now would have be laughing all the way to the bank with a new Lambo.

I'm sure no gambler doesn't know that they will lose their money. gamblers know the risks and clearly know the chances of winning or losing. but they still decide to bet, so there is nothing to regret about gambling activities.
If the impact of gambling is too bad for a gambler, then it is not the gambling that should be considered bad. This is a game, if you misinterpret it then it is the gambler's fault.
Casinos indeed offer winnings as part of promotions. but the win is still based on luck. so if we are not lucky, then we have to accept defeat.

Indeed, if seen from this point of view, when someone understands the game of gambling, there should be nothing to regret and must accept that they are indeed unlucky, but why are there always so many people who complain and regret the gambling they have done even before they knew? that winning and losing are certain in gambling.

among them are making wrong decisions, using money they cannot afford to lose and playing with ambition to win which makes a person forget what he knew about gambling and games before he decided to play.

You would be surprised how things work actually, in this life of ours there are certain things that we all ought to know that is good but at the same time we still fail to do them reason being centered on the fact that we fail to reason that particular actions at the very climax of things and tend to do the one that might end us all on regrets and this is the funny part we all still others to blame when this happens, it's just a common thing for everyone.

Firstly, gambling is not an investment. It's a game where you will lose and win. Investment is you putting your money in places/items that can make your money continue to make money. And you can't say you invest in gambling games.

Secondly, you say they should have considered the consequences. Some gamblers I know think they can make money from gambling and get rich quickly. Get rich instantly. They are willing to spend their money just to bet in the hope of getting the jackpot. So in my opinion most gamblers don't understand and can think carefully about what they are doing.

I get your point @Hanadawa however in my statement I wasn't tagging gambling as a form of investment, but rather making a comparison for those that take it as a form of investment, if you research deep you'll understand that they both involve committing a certain capital with expectations of making profits, although gambling is more riskier cause once the event you bet of ends the gambler stands a chance of making profits or loosing completely based on their decision on the event. While stock investment can be very rewarding over time interval, however it's not totally risk free just that gambling is more riskier.
 If you really care about those bettors, you should atleast try to convince them to decist from seeing gambling as a quicker means of getting money, it's not a get rich quick or ponzi scheme but should rather should be seen as a means of entertainment that could fetch them a fortune maybe out of luck or good gambling skills. If they got the skills, fine good for them but if not they should decist from the act and apply the risk managements of gambling.

You have classified two kinds of gamblers regarding how they treat their gambling loses, that is the class that admit that they take lost and hope for another day and the class that they shouldn't have made the mistake to lose. So this last set of class are the one that will lose more because they will continue trying and keep blaming themselves for the loses hence will want to try again and vow to themselves not to make sure mistake again but failing to understand that it is not just working for them to win on such days. Those who lose and walk away get properly prepared to win at the next trier.

Frustrations, of course. Maybe it is the gambler's way to ease it by blaming or displacing the negative feeling from losing to the game itself. Everyone's aware thaat there's a tendency for us to lose our bet but why do we sometimes, if not often, tends to transfer the hate? Simply because we regret things and that we want to release our emotions and feelings of desperation. Unfortunately, it will just continue like a cycle and you will never learn from it unless you accept losing and to not bet that much next time. For sure, if the amount you lost is tolerable, you won't be in such situation because things will still be fine especialy with your finances. We just have no full control of our luck, therefore being preventive of extensive loss is a must to avoid regret afterwards.
If anyone forced you to gamble, then he/she is the one to be blamed. Are there any? for sure no other than ourselves took the initiative to do so. Other than acceptance with unwanted outcomes, there's no other thing to do. No one is to blame even yourself; you just have to accept that things do happen in gaambling, both desired and unwanted consequences. If you know to yourself that you cannot handle the stress this activity is giving on your end, then you better quit to save yourself from those negative reactions. Gambling is open to anybody of legal age but a good future won't be for everyone just because they wanted it.

You're right - most gamblers are naive people who dream of making a big score and change their lives in an instant. Except that they do not want to realize that it will not be possible to do this for everyone. Although on the other hand I somewhat understand their naivety, because having in your pocket $100, you can find a dream. Let it be temporary, but it warms the soul and heart, which is often lacking in people. The only thing is that this dream can also be quickly shattered when your account runs out of money.

People who usually paint gambling as bad simply because they have been unlucky are immature. Gambling is a two way thing, it's either you win or you lose. There is no gambler that has not lost money at one point or the other so have they also won certain amount of money. If you think gambling is not for you then quit and let those who are ready to gamble responsible continue. Many times gambling has given me big winnings when I least expected.

These are the primary things that you should make yourself that realize that gambling isnt something that you could really be able to treat it up as an investment but rather it is really just that good for leisure things.
Risk is high and you should really that having that kind of realization in the first place on which you would really be needing up for you to know that gambling is really just that for the sake of fun and not for making money.
Tendency or chances of losing is really that very high and if you are someone who do keep pushing your luck then you would really be having those odds on losing up more rather than on making yourself making some profits.
For those who do really love to blame then yes its really that common behavior of someone but its not really that right at all. You are the ones who have decided on taking some gambling and not others
on which you are really that doing it on your own free will on which blaming someone is really just that useless nor really be able to take back those things that are currently happening.

Theoretically, on an average one can have fewer wins than their lose but it just depends on the luck factor of an individual but myself who is know what amount of luck I had when I attempt to change the fortune of life with something little, it just ended up as nothing and I am okay with it because I didn't expect it to happen, I just wish if it happen then I would be happy but even when it didn't I have nothing to lose cause I did what will be the most expected outcome.

The time gambling can be seen as a dangerous thing is on the ground that people are found addicted to it by spending more than they bargained for, allowing gambling to control their lives, which will lead them to live a reckless life. That's how I sense why some people view gambling as a dangerous thing to humans.

Those who sense it to be that way, are judging gambling because of how some people engage in it wrongly by not having fun in it, betting on what they can't afford to lose, and also gambling with the mindset of being rich out of gambling.

Putting this into consideration, when you see people who partake in gambling with the wrong mindset, you can view it as a dangerous thing without knowing that those who engage in It in such a manner are to be blamed for it

So it's like this Dude, basically we can't forbid someone from making their posts according to what they want.  especially, related to the defeat he suffered. Several members of the community want to share their complaints, or some experiences related to their problems. and in fact, there is nothing wrong with all that. most importantly, no rules were violated. conversely, so do the people who post their wins. All of this is their right, although it is not uncommon for some to want to show off and many also share their experiences with their wins. We here, on the gambling discussion board, can discuss anything, especially gambling. there are those who complain, there are those who are happy with their winnings, there are those who share tips, there are those who want to get rid of their addiction and many other things. What is certain is that you cannot forbid someone from doing what they want, especially if it does not violate existing regulations.

Including you, who made the post in this thread. Maybe you are a little uncomfortable, with so many people screaming about how their gambling has ruined their lives. but in fact, they still make posts on gambling discussion boards. Well, if there are those who still view gambling as a very dangerous thing as you said. In fact, you will not be able to force our different mindsets regarding gambling. So, it's a normal part of the dynamics that occur especially in our community. Most importantly, you can make threads according to what you want, even more useful. or, you just stop by the thread you like. the rest, ignore. yeah, it's that simple Dude. one more thing, gamble while you enjoy it. stop, if it is no longer interesting and enjoyable.

That is true every time when ever we do gambling we always have to keep one things in our head and mind that gambling is all about luck it fully depend on luck whether you will won or whether you will face losses. So if we lose the gamble then we should take it easy, And we have to agree with that losing are also the part of gambling so before doing gambling we have to set our mind on that way.

Nonsense, they experience a loss in gambling and then they regret it, promising not to repeat the same mistake and to gamble responsibly. But the next day, they returned to betting an unreasonable amount and gambled indefinitely, they only stopped when the money in their household was gone. And if they feel they are still not satisfied with gambling, they will take out a loan or sell their belongings, so they can continue betting. They are really addicted to gambling and are unable to control themselves well when gambling.

And of course it's not the gambling that's wrong, but their own bad assumptions and behavior that often makes them make mistakes, which ultimately leads to losses and other negative impacts. Gambling is just entertainment, which is played for fun, not for profit.

remember that gambling should be considered a responsible form of entertainment and not as a way to deal with financial or emotional problems. Implementing self-control measures can help minimize the risk of error and result in a more positive gambling experience.

what you described over there is more like running a legitimate business...the differences between your illustration on gambling at the receivers's end (the casino owners) is actually wider than being at the giver's end (addicted gamblers)...

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I'm still gonna say there's nothing wrong with having them complain - most gambling site don't even give a fuck how much you deposited/ how much you've lost so far.. all they're after is their cuts at the end which makes the whole thing very creepy to anyone that sees the insight.

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People always love to shift the blame whenever possible. A lot of gamblers don't want to take responsibility and accountability for losing their money, hence they will look for ways to take the blame somewhere else. I never once blamed anyone when I lost money in the casino or in sports betting sites. I know it's my fault for playing at that time and there's no one responsible for my own loss but me.

These people should not be allowed to hold other people's money IMO. They will only make lots of financial mistakes and they will never take accountability when shit hits the fan.

People gambling others things and people but themselves. It is nothing new and it is exclusive to gambling, by the way. I believe it has happened to all of us, we try to deflect the blame other way when we feel we have been wronged and when we feel we have done nothing wrong for us to suffer such consequences. In the case of gambling is common, because it is an activity which directly involves money.
The most common way for people to deflect the blame when they lose money in the casino is to alledge the game is rigged against them, which could be possible if they play in a shady/scam casino, but those kind of point of view are dismantled when the game is either other source or probably fair.
If anyone gambles and after losing throws a temper tantrum on the casino or their bad luck, perhaps that person is not supposed to gamble in the first place. Though, throwing a temper tantrum and venting are different from each other, immature adults and toddlers throw temper tantrums, adults and mature young adults vent from time to time to keep their mental health in check.

Yeah, take it easy when we gamble and when we lose too. That's one hard thing to absorb when we're gambling and if the amount is higher. It is making us hard to accept that fact when we're losing because that feeling sucks.

IMHO, blaming has been a culture for most when they are disappointed wants to find no fault to themselves. If someone has that attitude then he/she has to change for the better.

Learn to accept the losses and never blame the casino or anyone that you've been losing money because before you gamble, they didn't even pursue you and it's a personal decision to bet.

There is one thing that I have understood about some people: they don't like to take the blame for their mistakes; they just want to send the blame somewhere else, and all those things or people should be held responsible for their own actions. That way, they feel better.
 
And many new gamblers believe that because it works for their friend or relative, it must also work for them that same way, which is far from how gambling works, and anytime they place their bet and it goes against their prediction, they start sending blame to the basin rather than themselves. Such people are not ready to start gambling in the first place because their mind is not prepared for what it comes with.

The gamblers who look to make huge money via gambling may end up blaming the casino for not providing them enough wins. Players are having a hard time trying to get the type of money they seek while gambling, instead of going for the fun, they're completely taken away by the joy of other winners around them. They forget that while gambling could be hard to win, people win every day, but listening to their stories you'd notice they've been losing as well. Hence, players who think that they could win, like any other gambler they've set their eyes on who won some money, may be lying to himself. Because that's not true. He could end up finding it difficult to accept the fault is from his end than he thinks of the casino. Gamblers have a lot to learn, which wouldn't get achieved easily, the player has to experience thicks and thins for his thoughts to balance while gambling. Such that whenever, he doesn't win, it won't cross his mind to blame the casino.

Regarding this, what I’ll say is that if you want to blame gambling then it’s best to stay clear from it. However, if you want to keep gambling then embrace the good and the bad; stop turning your back and blaming gambling when it goes wrong but praise it when it goes right. If it ruined your life, why don’t you stay clear once and for all. But no, they go back, and when they win they’ll forget they accused it of ruining their life.

Blaming gambling whenever someone is unlucky? I don't think that's the right point. These people who fall on gambling didn't blame gambling for why they became like that. Instead, they blame themselves for getting into it and not accepting the fact that gambling is a win-win situation.

But actually, that's a good thing that these guys fall. Without that bad experience, they will never realize what they're doing is worse. Fortunately, some people were able to survive being the worst gamblers and now living a happy life outside of gambling. On the other hand, unfortunately, not all people can be like that.

There's this thing called, Fundamental Attribution Error or FAE, which is a normal human phenomena where it's shown that humans will blame everything else first before they blame themselves. I personally don't know the history of why this phenomena came to be and I'm not about to school you about its origins. But this plays a large part as to why people who gamble, revenge gamble.

They'd find ways to find fault against other people, sometimes even mock them amidst their sufferings. You see someone who's pissing himself in the slot machine from playing too much, you immediately think of him as a lowlife bastard who threw his shit away for moments of gratification and a false promise of millions of dollars. But when a similar thing happens to you, you find ways to excuse yourself out of the equation. Funny yeah?

This is how the normal human being's brain work every time they are put in a circumstance, gambling just brings it up a notch. A gambler who has no control over his emotions and psyche will start and continue to blame other factors for his losses but himself. In his head he knew he played his cards right, there's no room for mistake on his end, and everything else that went wrong was not within his realm of control. This is simply false and a massive cause for why people find themselves revenge gambling. They just simply couldn't make it in their minds that the fault was theirs and so they'd continue gambling.

How I wish you were correct but the fact is there are many losers and few winners, you're using the word some on your post as if there's an equal number of winners and losers when it's not, gambling is black or bad for people who made the wrong intention on the platform like trying to make money out of it and blame people and the platform on the platform

You could do that but when you're in front of the gaming table or gambling interface it's different all your ideas and choices go out of the window all you can think of are the games and potential profit that you're going to make, in gambling experience is the best experience until you experienced the bad things about gambling or you've seen an example coming from persons who are dear to you, that's when realization come.

Gambling is not completely wrong in this case because it depends on those who use their gambling irresponsibly. When someone's life is ruined because of gambling, it must be because he has become addicted and is unable to stop it, making it uncontrollable and increasingly making him bankrupt and experiencing significant losses. big. I understand what you mean about linking investment with gambling because investment does not run smoothly producing profits, there are profits and losses, sometimes we experience losses and sometimes losses, but if we patiently wait for a long period of time the money we invest will double, which is different from gambling if If you lose, your money will be lost. It takes patience to recover your losses and it is not certain that your money will be returned.

It is true that before we make a decision to gamble we should consider the risks first because that is what will determine whether a gambling journey is disciplined or not because if we don't think about the risks it will end in continuous losses and ultimately ruin your life.

Yes, that's right, if we want to blame gambling when we make our own mistakes, it would be better if we didn't gamble, because in gambling it really plays a big role in the luck that gamblers will get to be able to win their bets, every gambler certainly regrets the mistakes they make so they lose. in their bets and regret what they did but still go back to gambling to try their luck in winning the bet they played and they forget what they got yesterday.

It's obvious that in gambling you don't need to blame anyone for whatever they missed in their gambling and it's obvious that gambling is lucky game and its not mean that in all points you will be unlucky it's obvious that sometimes you have to unlucky in gambling and if we should equate this, it's obvious we have to be unlucky almost everytime in gambling, when you cross check gambling you will notice that gambling is like a game of light and dark and the occurrence of dark always be higher than the one of light..so this reference will make you to understand that benefiting in gambling is rall and its obvious that the statistics of someone being unlucky is higher someone be lucky in gambling activities

Another example in this scenario is about a gun. People blaming guns killing people but what they don't really understand is that people killing people. Gambling and guns don't have this brain thing that manipulate humans to do something stupid. We have to act responsibly so we won't end up playing this blame game.

Yes, almost no investment is risk-free, but they usually offer, ceteris paribus, a reasonable expectation of gain. We cannot say the same about gambling, where you have to beat odds that are against you by definition.

And saying that it is an investment for the casino owners, well, what can I say? you're right, but it has nothing to do with the topic you started and we are discussing here, which is focused on the gambler's perspective.

If you fail you fail,if you win you win,I don't know why the blames will be put  into the gambling.its a game of fun and if you don't love what you do,you let go of it.its just like a game of chess and ludo that people play for fun and to make it look more attractive they stake money so the winner goes home with it,that how all of this casinos started and then they grow bigger by the day

So if any gambler thinks for his failure he can put the blames on gambling then his making a huge mistake and by doing so,he is  spoiling the name of gambling. Yes,it's all about decision making and when you know very well you can meet up to the gambling standard and doctrines then why venture into it.

Whether gambling is dangerous or not depends on how each person reacts to it and the circumstances in which they engage in it. There is a large number of people who consider gambling as a way to gain financial gain, a belief that drives them to impulsive actions that lead to a loss of self-control and frequent mistakes in their betting choices.

If someone has a wrong understanding about gambling, it can lead to inappropriate actions in playing it. As a result, gambling can only result in financial setbacks and other detrimental consequences. Therefore, it is important for us to always remember that gambling functions as a means of entertainment and is done for fun. In addition, we must be skilled at distinguishing between things that are important and things that are just entertainment. In this case, engaging in gambling does not guarantee status as a paramount endeavor.

It's always just about luck that will lead you to the expected results as well as the amount of winnings you get, and I understand that anyone can win in gambling even with large amounts, but the problem is that there is absolutely no certainty that can guarantee you a win in every session because as you said above that it only depends on luck and this is what makes there is no consistency in the winnings from gambling which makes losses more frequent than wins when you make more attempts.

On the other hand you have a pretty good approach to gambling by only putting small amounts into your involvement and I would probably say that you are one of the more responsible gamblers, you have also said that even if the results don't match it won't upset you and you will be fine. However, this approach is more advisable than being aggressive, because with a healthy approach like responsible gamblers, it will make you more calm in every situation especially if you lose at the end of the session.

That's why someone needs to know that when he loses a lot of money from gambling, it is because of his own fault and there is no need to complain about gambling. No one forced him to gamble using a lot of money and no one told him to gamble for a long time. These people really need to realize that gambling should only be for fun and not for making money. With such awareness, they will not want to gamble for long and will always limit their gambling activities.

A person who blames gambling for causing him major losses needs to see a specialist so he can realize that it was his own fault. He needs to change his mindset so he won't think of blaming gambling. With this awareness, he will know that playing gambling for too long and using a lot of money can result in big losses. He will try to reduce his gambling activities rather than experience as many losses as before so that he will not blame gambling anymore.

We might be able to provide advice to novice gamblers regarding the actual understanding of gambling. it may save some gamblers from falling into negative gambling. but not for novice gamblers who know gambling themselves. for example from social media advertisements or spam messages in social media groups.
Gambling casinos advertise huge signup bonuses. deposit bonus. even such advertisements assure maximum winnings. That's how novice gamblers first fall into the perception that gambling is a game for financial gain.

It’s pretty simple. When one wins a good sum of money, it’s solely due to his skills and prowess in gambling but when there is a loss or series of losses, it’s “gambling” that’s the cause of it. Very quick to claim all the glory when the outcome is positively in your favor and quicker to absolve oneself of any fault or responsibility when the outcome isn’t what was hoped for and turns out negative.

People have and probably would still blame everything and everyone else but themselves for their own actions and failures. Admittedly, no one likes to fail or lose.. but it’s life. There are wins and losses for literally everyone and the sooner one owns up to his mistakes and failures, it would be easier to learn from it and move on.

So many gamblers are doing this I know a lot in my neighborhood who blame almost everything, even the weather or the black cat that walks in front of them, this is just their reason so they will not blame themselves so they can go back to gambling, they don't want to blame themselves because if they do that people will question them on why they continue gambling when they will just blame themselves when they lose.
So most of the time they blame the casino like they are being cheated or the casinos are not being fair, they are so self-righteous that they believe that they did the right thing so they cannot lose.

We have so many gamblers who are poor bettors and then blame the casinos for losing a lot of money, some of them even open a scam accusation just to make it appear that the casinos are at fault, when in fact their being a poor bettors or manipulating the rules are what cause their losses or being banned.

That means he is just a gambler who hopes to get a 100% win. He forgot that even if he traded or have a business, he could lose all his money. Either way carries the same risk but not as high as on gambling. Blaming the casinos is childish. It is better for person like that to stay away from gambling, because gambling is not a business that can give their players a 100% guaranteed of their money without even losing 0.1%. If he accuses the casino of committing a scam, then he must have a real evidence that companies fraud caused the player to lose. As long as the system has standards according to the license provided, then even if the player loses within 1 month of gambling every day, there is no reason to blame the casino or accuse them of cheating. It could be that he already had the chance to win, but because he was greedy, he lost completely because he didn't want to stop playing.

Any gambler who stakes his money on an upcoming event with the idea of making 100% return is a joke to me, no doubts that miracles still happen and one could be very lucky atimes, but it's not something that happens very often, it's very rare and happens to 1 in 10 persons, In the world of gambling, loss is bound to even punters that sometimes makes huge profits from it also secure heavy losses atimes, but try to bring up new strategies to win again. That's why as a gambler, one ought to be very strategic, a gambler without skills or strategies is like a farmer going to the farm without his tools.
 I believe that the casino sites and gambling platforms have their license to operate their business online and off and every gambler especially online have come  across the terms and conditions of the platform and even agreed to it sometimes upon registration, so i wonder why same person would say gambling is a scam because they're not benefiting from it or blame the Casino when they lose out of greed.

This is what responsible gambling and it has been said over a million times from different members in different words but the concept is the same, you can decide what will happen in the future which makes gambling more unpredictable and amusing. Knowing our limits is very important thing in our limit that also applies to gambling and never chase loss because someone won while doing it.

We can see such people almost everywhere who do no accept their mistakes and instead blame others for it.
They don't even want to listen what the other is saying and complete blames the other for it.
It's better to stay away from such people because them understand is like digging your own grave.

We will alwa finds a means of resulting every of our gambling ugly experience on something being responsible for that around us, but forgetting that we also contributed to the highest percentage of them all, gambling is not what we should always expect a winning game without having the both side of it's experience, we should also blame the mistakes we do which have contributed to the failure we have in each gambling attempt we make.

Those gambler just need to accept the fact that they loss, no need to blame or find a reason why they loss.
If they couldn't accept it then it is better for them to just stop on gambling because they couldn't accept the fact that they aren't always going to win on it.
They are blaming others because they couldn't accept their loss and wants to make it easier for them to cope up with it.
Instead of blaming just grow up no need to find reason, cause in the first place when they gamble they should already be aware that they could lose, and they already accepted the risk in gambling their money.

This is true. In fact this makes sense as we see some gamblers exert their frustration on people around them. Any little thing they are all aggressive on you. So when they lose, they can’t take the blame, they have to take it off their shoulders and put it on someone or something else. Just like how many people cuss and blame sports players when they didn’t score a goal leading to their money being lost.

This is the human nature. Humans are so good at blaming their misfortune on a factor but tend to give accolades to themselves for fortunes. This is not different in gambling. When a gambler wins he is happy and then channels the winning to self-effort and when he is on a losing trek he tends to transfer blame to gambling.

In my opinion, such a gambler is immature. It is high time people understand that gambling is like a mountain. It is always there and it is you who go to the mountain because mountains don`t move. Thus, whatever happens to a gambler should solely be blamed on the gambler and not gambling. If you have self-control, you will not have a problem gambling but when you lack control you will have problem gambling. So, this is about the gambler and not the gambling. Apportioning blame has never solved a problem. So, instead of blaming your misfortune on gambling gamble wisely.

It's not uncommon to find or hear some people who say and suggest something that does seem reasonable, the difference in the way of delivery does not matter because we can also know that all suggestions and ideas lead to good goals which in fact can make gamblers safer and calmer in their gambling activities as I said earlier and however this is a better approach that must be taken if you are one of the gamblers who are quite active in your gambling activities.

As we know that gambling can always trigger things that we never expected before, especially in terms of bad effects, the many temptations there make gamblers almost carried away because they cannot maintain their consciousness, actually I think all of this is a choice, because there is enough evidence that we can make as examples and considerations, such as the bad effects experienced by addicts in real life. and I'm sure all gamblers don't want to be carried away by the flow because they can't maintain their consciousness, And I'm sure all gamblers don't want to experience the same thing and so it's very clear that there is no other way to do it other than having a good approach like you said with control and some other limits and maybe I would add that don't put any expectations on winning because the randomness that exists in gambling does not allow it to always be realized.

I agree with your statement.

People tend to be one-sided when it comes to winning and losing. Like what you just mentioned, whenever we fin, we always focus on ourselves too much to the point that we tend to discredit the efforts of others even if they contributed on why we won on the first place. Then if a person loses, they tend to blame others since they cannot accept the fact that they lost due to their efforts.

In conclusion, it is always easy to look for a scapegoat than to accept our shortcomings. It is so much easy to blame others rather than to accept our mistakes and this is primarily the reason on why we blame others on the mistake that we made.

The blame-game is natural, and one which can never be totally eradicated entirely inasmuch as gambling is concerned, since it has to do with people losing something of value, most especially of such money had been budgeted for a different item altogether, and you ended up losing it to gambling without any alternative of getting the money back.
Moreover, blame-game could be of certain degrees, that is, a scenario whereby someone could blame himself and never gambles anymore, or someone could blame himself, learn from his mistakes and move on, e.t.c.. Hence, the lever at which the blame-game works differs from one individual to another.

Agree on what you have said, we would really be always loving on trying out to blame out on whatever we do able to see whether the site or other people on the unfortunate condition that we do able to
experience on which it isnt really that a shocking behavior for most gamblers. In the end, you would really be the only one who would really be that suffering on what the actions you had made.
If you dont have that kind of self control and discipline towards gambling then you are really that putting yourself on such trouble.  Gambling should really be just that for fun and not on stressing up yourself because once you do find yourself that having that kind of situation then this isnt really for entertainment anymore but rather you are really that desperate on making money
and on the time that outcomes are really that different on what you are expecting then this is where blaming time begins.

You are right. Those who win may get some benefits and can open a business from the winning money. But those who lose and become addicted will ruin their lives and those of their families. Granted it's a balance but what I know is that more gamblers lose and become addicted than gamblers who play the game just as a game.

I think gambling is not the same as investing. In investing, you will be given assets that you can save and sell whenever you want. This is different from gambling where you risk your money on a game with the possibility that your money will double if you win or lose completely. So I think gambling is a game and not an investment at all.

Luck is a part of every aspect of life, including gambling, and blaming oneself or others for not winning only increases the negative impact of losing. I think it is necessary to focus on responsible gambling practices, understand the odds, and treat gambling as a means of entertainment rather than a guaranteed source of financial gain. By taking a balanced approach to gambling, we can reduce the unnecessary blame and blame associated with it and create a healthier relationship with the activity.

Besides, some can find support and help from friends or relatives who share the same interest in responsible gambling. It is also preferable to search for reliable resources and information on how to play safely and identify signs of addiction and potential negative effects. And introducing and implementing the right financial management strategies can have a significant positive impact on your gambling experience. Good budget plans can help reduce the financial and emotional stress of gambling and promote self-control.

Gambling has never been an investment. People only started looking at it as an investment due to the jackpot and huge wins it could provide to a gambler. In agreement to the general rumor that all the money a player has spent gambling, will be handed out to him as a jackpot. So, people easily spend money on gambling on such bases. And they don't regret losing, the only problem is that they are actually suffering pains than financial loss. Gamblers know that they'll win at some point. It gives them some bragging rights as a gambler. Seeing it that money shortage is the reason to the trouble or problem why gamblers blame their new habit inherited from gambling, could be argued. As not all are actually suffering from the problem. Gambling addicts don't always run out of money completely. They get worried over the amount of money spent on a single day because of gambling. Such shock in them can be choking them to an extent of raising an alarm. Which during his explanations to others would make it sound like gambling is the cause his trouble. But dip down he was only passing through the pain of spending high amount of money consistently.

I don't think anyone is actually painting gambling here mate. Everyone has a personal experience with the gambling activities. Not everyone will make wins some will while some will loss. That's what balances the who thing. You can't just go ahead blaming gambling for ruing you life or causing you loss as it's just an activity that you personally decided to partake in. If we go around like that placing blames on gambling it shows more of irresponsibility.

What ever decisions we make as to when it comes to gambling is ours to bear that why it's said to gamble what you can afford to loss. If you put too much into gambling and expect to win double, you might end up losing all. While Gambling we should make sure to make the right choice to avoid situations where we start pointing fingers.

of course what you say is true, some have fun and celebrate and some lose and suffer, in gambling it is a gathering place for rich and poor people, the rich tend to be more likely to win and they have a higher chance of winning than the rich, I say it because usually the rich don't really care about the bets they play while the poor are too afraid of risks, do you think this is fair?
it's fair if it's simpoor vs simpoor
rich people vs rich people

Well, in a logical viewpoint, rich people has a higher tendency of winning than average to poor individuals. Why? bigger your bankroll means more chances of betting and more chances of winning. With poor gamblers or ones who don't have that much they will only be able to bet a few times depending on their winning percentage. This is not to limit things, many people who are financially deprived  managed to win and turn things towards their lives. We are not playing against other players tho' but rather with your chances of winning and bankroll management in order to be profitable in the long run. Poor gamblers or gamblers having nothing much if financial freedom would be normally has higher nervousness but that doesn't mean that they are afraid to risk 'coz if that's the case they won't be even in this activity we re having in the first place.

And with random blaming or transferring of frustrations to objects or surroundings, then that won't be valid except for the fat that it could be one's reason to cope up with negative emotions. It is also a safeguarding technique used by them to not hurt their ego that they have lost that much from this industry.

The possibility of the rich person to make the big winning because of their back up money for the further game.The gamblers who want to make huge money should hold the money for the backup even after the loss.Many poor gamblers will lose the hope and money in the gambling site.So the poor gamblers don’t have any backup money for the further game.This was biggest drawback for the poor gamblers,even after earning good strategies with the loss.The poor gamblers won’t have money to make the continuous winning.So the gamblers who have huge money will create more money from the same gambling site.

Thats the advantage on having a bigger bankroll on which you could really be able not to make yourself having those kind of adjustments on your gambling activity and having that
possible recovery if ever you would turn out to be lucky but of course it wouldnt really be still that a guarantee because we know that once things turns out to be messy or simply you arent that
lucky enough then chances on wrecking yourself hard would really be there. Blaming? Its a common human being behavior on which they are really that having that kind of behavior on the time
that you would really be suffering extreme loss. There are ones who could be able to control out but there are ones who dont be able to do so.

Before even involving yourself in gambling, one should already know what he's getting himself into, a gambler should be fully aware of that gambling isn't really guaranteed investment, winning isn't always guaranteed as you can loose everything you have trying to chase profits or even your losses. I mean every gambler knows this, so saying gambling destroyed your life is something I'll never accept.
If there's anything that destroyed your life in gambling, then it's nothing more but your greed and desperation, because if you gamble responsibly without having the mindset or seeing gambling as a do or die, then there's no way gambling can destroy your life. I mean you're not the only gambler who experiences losses in gambling, every gambler does but responsible gamblers knows when to call it a quite and when to continue gambling and that's what makes you immune to gambling hazzard.

I think this is similar to saying "this gamepad doesn't work" after losing 1 v 1 video game. People generally love to blame other when they lose in gambling. I personally dislike people blaming others about their gambling losses. Some people even go further and say "you sit there, that's only reason I lost" which is completely meaningless. Gamblers should have strong mentality to keep on gambling in my opinion. We should all stay sane.

This is not always true although having enough bankroll will help you to play longer since you have extra money to bet once losing streak hits you hard. However this is a double edge sword since the more your bankroll is the more money you can possibly lose so it’s better not to rely much on your bankroll size since casino counters it with maximum bet and maximum so it will be harder for you to recover your losses once your down since you have max bet.

Casino will just slowly kill you with their house edge especially if you are already down with huge percentage of your bankroll. It’s important to just play what you can afford to lose.

Is backup money to continue gambling not the same as revenge gambling? In my opinion, they are the same thing. When people desperately need to recoup their loss by engaging in further gambling is revenge gambling. From experience, you will run into a crisis because you would be gambling with the wrong state of mind. Funny enough, revenge gambling doesn`t guarantee you winning rather you will make the bookies richer because the cry of a gambler is the smile of a bookie.

The implication of this is that you will end up losing more than expected. For instance, If I fund my online bet account with $500 with the mind of only playing with that amount and lose the money, will it be wise to fund again or take a pause? Experience tells us that taking a pause is better. Remember he who fights and runs, lives to fight another day. If you die today there is no fight tomorrow and gambling continues so there is no need for backup money rather there should be a limit to what we can gamble and once exhausted we are done for the day. A gambler shouldn`t be quick to place additional bets on other events in quick succession hoping to make up for the initial loss. Always accept your loss.

Yes. Just because rich people have more money to play with and can play for longer periods of time, it doesn't guarantee that they will win. In fact, the more they play, the more money they can lose. Winning isn't about having a lot of funds, it's more about having self-control.

The first instinct whenever an individual loses a game or is frustrated with something else. Point those fingers to someone and let the blame game begin. The sad part is when you are playing as a team and one player points his finger at his teammate, that will probably hurt.
I think that's one of the bad traits that we inherit from our parents or those we grow up with or it could be inside us but just needs to be activated.

Regarding the blame game in gambling, it happens a lot of times. Visit the chatbox of an online gambling site and you will see a lot of rants from gamblers.
But, I do feel them and that is why I just let them do it. If it could somehow help them release all the rage that they are keeping then so be it. Besides, I don't think an admin or a moderator will stop them unless they are using foul words which leads to the account being muted.
I do understand the frustration because many times that it happened to me too, an example would be a long losing streak and your wallet almost being depleted without any RTP happening. Those kinds of things happening to a gambler leads to frustration and they will think the system is rigged or they cheat. Well, it is rigged and we have to accept that the first time we lay our hands on an online gambling site.  

I would like to support OP. I am also tired when people complain and blame everyone when they lose in gambling. Especially I dont like when people say that casino make something special to make them lose. That casino on purpose do manipulations to get those couple of dollars that gambler has just bet. People must learn how to cope with their emotions.

I agree with you but the sad thing is, that people find blaming their irresponsibility on something else(gambling) much easier, it makes them feel better and at the same time makes them feel like they are victims. this is why gambling awareness is extremely important, not only does it educate people on how to gamble responsibly it also teaches them to take responsibility for their gambling habits and not just blame every stupid decision they make while gambling to gambling.

Not just from person to another one, even with the same person he could be complaining today for the losses, happy and celebrating the second day he wins. It’s the human nature not just in gambling but everything he does, so most of people feel better they prefer to blame anything else beside them and take out their responsibility when someone negative happens due to their actions and activities.
Personally, I have done that multiple times when I lose while playing slots games, I start saying that I haven’t win anything from this slot so that must be it problem or the casino, knowing deep inside it’s just me who is unlucky and that happens to everyone.

While other gamblers tend to even to worse than just complaining or blaming, some of them once they lose on a real casino by destroying that slot machine or table, fight with the dealer or other gamblers. We have also seen stories here where some people lie about their losses in gambling and blame it as someone stole the funds.

That's human nature especially if they are immature enough to determine something that its really their fault on why they experiencing such unfortunate lose on the casino. They should stop blaming those platforms since in first place they are the one came there and try to test out their luck. Also they really need to be mature enough to know the consequences of the action they do so that they would know what need to change on their attitude and so they can adjust on something important for a gambler to do. We commit mistakes in gambling and these people should adjust and stop blaming those platforms on the wrong decisions they do.

In everything in life there are gains and losses. So the sooner you understand this and bet only what is necessary and in moderation, your life and your emotions will be very different.

The process requires separate understanding and awareness from the gambler himself. However, when you encounter difficult conditions such as consecutive losses, the choice is to leave and stop and continue at another opportunity. or continue to pursue victory.
People who are aware will probably stop and close the game. but when you play, situations sometimes make our emotions uncontrollable. and continuing the game is sometimes the wrong choice but we still choose it.

I've blamed the game or casino when things go wrong too. Blaming others is easier than accepting that luck doesnt always cooperate. Gambling is just one example of this human propensity that appears in practically every facet of life. Deflecting blame is our initial reaction to failure. Its a human reaction, but not ideal

I know there's a fine line between pleasant gambling and bad behavior due to frustration. Like you, I've heard horrific loss stories. Venting or being sad over a loss is different from doing crimes. Gambling should always be for fun, never harmful

They can blame gambling all they want but it is not gambling fault if they want to gamble in the first place.These persons are not responsible as they only realize when they finish their session and see they have lost money then they say it is the casino fault because they exist and I could not resist the temptation.If this person can't control himself then it is his fault which generates all the bad things that happen after that.

Sometimes it's not even about having more back up money but a lot has to be done with strategy, when you have got a very good strategy and risk management even with your little bankroll, you still be able to stay long enough in the game but without a good risk management strategy, it's very obvious you will not last long gambling before you go bankrupt.

The Rich gambler usually have stake but a poor gambler usually low or stake with the minimum amount allowed at a time so the difference is usually with the amount they are able to stake at a time, the rich may have a very big bank roll and divides it into several portions and stake accordingly but a poor gambler with no strategy may put all his bankroll at once so he will be able to equate with the rich guy and when they loose  he's kicked out while the rich still continues because he's got a strategy with which he continues to stay in the game as against that of the poor guy without a strategy but if the poor guy divides his little bankroll in to several portions then he could stay as long as the rich guy too.

I am wondering why Westinhome deleted his comment, or was that the work of a mod, I don't think so..

But back to the discussion, what you said is right, though very different from what I understand Westinhome to be saying, Westinhome is actually talking about the ability for gamblers to test a game in their fun mode, which is often for free, before moving to play the same game in their normal play mode which requires real money, he is saying that doing this will help a gambler learn much about a game and how to win it before the gambler commits real money into the game.

I was going to partially agree with this, on the grounds that this feature is only available on slot and in-house games, and it is also very limited to some casinos or a few casinos rather, and the ultimate reason again, I feel this strategy does not add any value to a gambler is because, from my personal experience, playing a slot game in fun mode, is completely different from playing same game in their normal paid mode, a game one easily wins in fun mode, can be so difficult for the same player to win same game in their paid mode, because fun mode and paid mode of slot and in-house games are programmed differently.

Rich gamblers have perfected their techniques. Spread their bets, consider long-term. The catch: that's a necessity, not a luxury. Rich or poor, anyone can use it. Your point on bankroll portioning? Right on. Yes, that is the foundation of risk management. It doesn't matter how big your cash is. How you approach it matters. Every gambler, regardless of bankroll, requires a technique to handle losses without hitting rock bottom

Bankroll isn't the difference. Mindset matters. Poor gamblers can outlive affluent ones with the appropriate tactics. Not only hopeful stakes, but educated judgments. Remember, healthy gambling is about enjoying the game, not risking everything on one roll. That keeps you in the game and may flip the tables

^ Even if the poor gambler does have backup money, it will not be as huge as the rich gambler. Eventually, it will dry up when luck runs out, especially with a strategy that hasn't been perfected. The only that is perfected here is the risk management to prolong the entertainment.

Can't stop themselves from blaming gambling because blaming themselves is more pathetic but eventually they will realize it after the regrets.

They will never realize that it was actually their fault. Even though they already know, they don't want to admit it and instead blame it on gambling, and that really isn't a responsible gambler. Losing money in gambling is a normal thing, but we don't need to lose large amounts of money because we are the ones who have to control ourselves when gambling. We also must not fall too deep into gambling and must be able to consider gambling as entertainment so that we will not be influenced by anything we see in the casino. And if they can use gambling as entertainment, they will definitely not blame gambling because they realize that if they lose a lot, it is because they cannot stop themselves from gambling.

The gambler who loss the money in the gambling site can able to make the same money in the gambling site alone.Because their was a might,we should search the thing where we lost.So this was reason for the gambler to do gambling after the loss.But the gambler who do gambling with the random bet will loss the money in the short while.The gambler should create a strategy for the game that strategies will help him to make huge money in the future game.Many people think that the gambler who loss the money will not able to recover in the future.But the gambling skills help him to recover the big money losses in gambling site.

One of the main reasons on why people would really be continuing for them to play just because they cant really just that accept that they have lost their bets and they do know that there's nothing wrong with their selection on which it do comes into a point that they are really that blaming something that there's something wrong like this and like that on which it is really that a laughable thing.
Why they cant really just that accept the fact that they had really been that able to make mistakes which we know that gambling isnt always on the winning side. If we do lost a bet then
its better to move on and just that call it a day rather than on pushing yourself into betting just because you cant really just that accept yourself that you are on the losing side. lol

Blame game is normal for most of us when we're too emotionally attached on that time we gamble. Disappointing bets that are there and seemingly going to take care of themselves but then, in the end we're losing. I just can't take the idea of having someone to blame because we're losing. That is a sign of being immature and when you're like that, you definitely have to grow up and avoid being the blamer of your own actions.

Regrets do come at the end and when they realize that they've been beaten by the games they've bet on then that's totally fine on their end to analyze their mistakes and bets on that moment. The blaming comes when you just can't point your finger to yourself and that's why it is essential that you need to make up this thing on your own and be the man that have gambled and understood that losing is part of the game and you'll not lose if you don't gamble at all. For this matter, you're unlucky and just accept the reality that not at all times even if we feel that luck is with us, it is just not there.

Viewing it as pure entertainment, devoid of guaranteed rewards, is crucial to avoid the pitfalls of addiction and emotional distress. The initial excitement of gambling can be intoxicating. The potential for quick wins, the adrenaline rush of a close call, it's all very seductive. But it's vital to remember that gambling is designed to be a zero-sum game, where the house always wins in the long run.

The problem arises when people mistake gambling for a viable path to wealth. They start chasing wins, pouring in more money, and eventually, the entertainment turns into an obsession. This is where the emotional toll becomes evident. Losses sting, leading to self-blame and despair. The cycle repeats, fueled by the mistaken belief that the next bet will be the one to turn things around.

So, how do we break this cycle? It all starts with accepting the inherent randomness of gambling. There's no guaranteed outcome, no magic formula for success. Instead, approach it as a leisure activity, with set limits and clear boundaries. Treat your bets like the price of entertainment, not an investment.

I am a person who believes that gambling is not a place to earn money. Gambling for me is entertainment, where when I really want to find pleasure I will gamble. I will stop when I win, and will stop when the money I brought is gone. There are no regrets when playing.
For some people, gambling may be a negative thing because many people fall into addiction which affects their lives significantly. People who blame their losses at the gambling table are usually people who are frustrated because they didn't get the win they expected.

When it actually favour them, they would forget about the banting and say Gambling is good and gambling has change my life but just because there own decisions didn't favour them, they will blame everything on gambling for ruining their life, I thought all consequences has action and there is equal and opposite reaction. You know gambling is 50-50, no other out of it but when it doesn't just go as you want cry as victim when nobody even force them to gamble.

If you believe that anytime you bet and you expect nothing, there is nothing that will ever disappoint you in gambling, you will even be surprised anytime you win gambling and that's what bring the fun of it but when you are too focus and expect to win and you don't win, you will hate gambling forever and it's when you force it get worser.

Winning and losing can happen when you gamble. Although some have made money, others have been ruined. Personal accountability and making well-informed choices are very important. Nevertheless, addiction and hurt are real issues that need to be addressed by society and need support systems. Knowing both the pros and cons of gaming is very important.

What is clear is that mistakes will always occur to gamblers who fail to have good mindset and management, they will feel what is called being controlled by their own desires.
But it does not rule out the possibility that gamblers who have large bankrolls can get satisfactory results and this is not just matter of luck but also how they use good strategy in gambling.
There will be conditions where the gambler experiences defeat and there will be conditions where the gambler can win, all of which will have bad impact if the gambler himself cannot have the right approach.
So far, from personal experience and observation of various gamblers that I know, on average they are gamblers who always experience failure in limiting themselves and when faced with opportunities, they make mistakes more often.
Only their mindset and how much control they have can change all of this into result that meets expectations.

It possible that making money will happen if win comes, but doesn't gambling guarantee defeat?
We have to be able to think up to this point if we really want to be smarter gamblers and not easily make mistakes.
We have to be able to think that gambling is actually not place to make money but a place to spend or waste some money.

People continue to gamble after experiencing loss because they cannot accept their loss easily, and they see that they still have some money that they can use to gamble, so they decide to continue gambling. They know it could cause them to lose even more money, but they still want to try to recover their losses and chase the next win. Continuing to gamble is not wrong, but they should be able to measure their own abilities, especially after seeing the defeats they have received, and it is better if they can stop gambling. They still have a lot of time to spend gambling, so by stopping gambling, they can reduce their tension and also rest. We cannot force ourselves to exceed our set limits because that could cause us to lose even more money.

Entertainment is just the expression you get in a time when things are not too chaotic, your mood has enough positivity to neutralize the negative things as well as the luck that comes from gambling, typically we have unexpected joys coming from family as well as happiness with love, even advancement in work performance, when luck is so surrounding, it's hard to blame some bad luck. While we have all the bad things of the day surrounding us, mindless cursing and blaming will appear, this situation is just not good for long, it's normal to force your mouth to say a few bad words, but you still shouldn't say too many hurtful things

What "faults" are you talking about? It looks like you think that if faults were identified, the number of losses would be reduced subsequently. But, in fact, no matter how much you analyze your play, you can't improve anything in purely luck-based games. Accepting defeat is a good attitude and it can improve your mood overall, but it will not make you win more.

I absolutely hate such people and can't bear them near me, especially those who blame the casino for their losses and think that there has been some sort of manipulation by the house to make them lose, I mean, why the hell would they need to do that just for $50 when they have players betting thousands of dollars every second?

Another category of such people is those who would first ask you for suggestions, and if you give them some suggestions and they act upon them, and if they lose money after doing that, they would start blaming you because they followed your suggestion and lost money. I mean, what the hell? You are the one forcing me to give you some suggestions and now you are blaming me for it, you were not forced to do what I said it was a mere suggestion. What's more ironic is that they would never give you any credit if they manage to win following your suggestion, lol.

That is not even about coping or venting, to be honest. Those examples are of people whoare not mature enough to be ready to take responsibility on their actions and where they put their money on. Those are people who one is supposed never to share betting advices with, it is just a mental trick done by them to avoid any self-accountabilty for money they were not even ready to wager in the first place.
I am not sure which of those two examples you talk about are worse, then compared one against the other, but if I had to be forced to interact with either someone who blames the casino or someone who directly blames me, I would rather not to be personally attacked by anyone while I am just trying to get some amusement out my spare time.  :P

Also, pretty rude if someone does not even credit you for giving a good betting tip, at the very least one just expects and thank you. Not even money.

It seems that there are still some gamblers who don't really understand the concept of real gambling :D they are talking about something that is not fundamental, after all this is gambling and not a place that can turn someone into a rich man, and the idea of accepting mistakes for things that they think should not be done really has nothing to do with the results in the gambling they do, as you said even if they manage to identify their mistakes it will have nothing to do with the results at the end of the session, But identifying or knowing the mistakes and making changes is useful for a preventive measure, such as if you always suffer a lot of losses, then the problem and what should be changed is that you have to limit the time for involvement as well as the amount of budget allocated, and obviously this only leads to a preventive measure so that you no longer suffer large losses and does not mean that by doing this you can get bigger wins.

No matter what you do you will never be able to increase the winning percentage to a more "likely" one because the casino has everything organized behind the scenes, and that means you will only be able to win when you are really lucky, or your winnings depend on how lucky you are at the time of the session if you are involved in a purely lucky type of betting.

Because in the end, something like this is not very ethical. We gamble without anyone's coercion and we already know the risks when gambling, there will definitely be situations where defeat has greater control so when we have lost, don't feel too much that we are cheated and blame others or whatever is around us because in the end things like that are very likely in gambling.
We must realize that what we do in gambling has its own risks so we just have to be prepared to accept the possibilities that inevitably occur.

We must try to be mature because blaming others for the mistakes made by ourselves, especially in gambling problems, is an immature act and things like this must be avoided.

And this is why they do mess up their lives because of those kind of false hopes on which this is something that should really be stopped mid-way.It would really be just that a normal reaction for someone who do have those kind of blaming time on the time that they would be losing money on which they cant just accept it on how its been possible but we do know that people do really have that kind of behavior on which it couldnt really be stopped. This is why it would be better that we should really just that ignore on whatever behavior that they would really be having.It is really
just that there are those people who cant really just that able to accept themselves as losers.

If you approach gambling in a balanced and reasonable way, they are more likely to lead to earnings than to lose. Of course, you need to constantly restrain yourself, and try not to participate where there is virtually no human involvement, and absolutely everything is decided by chance, and embedded in the program creators. Study the topic of betting - and luck will accompany you

That's the detrimental impact of false hopes and the refusal to accept losses, particularly in situations involving gambling or similar behaviors. The inability to accept defeat can indeed lead to a cycle of blame and potentially worsen one's situation. Ignoring such behavior may seem like a simple solution, but maybe thare is the underlying reasons behind these actions. Some people may struggle with self-acceptance and have difficulty coping with failure that leads them to seek validation through risky behaviors.

These issues need to be addressed which requires a multifaceted approach that involves not only acknowledging the behavior but also providing support and resources for people to develop healthier coping mechanisms and self-esteem. Encouraging self-reflection and seeking professional help when needed can be crucial steps in breaking the cycle of destructive behavior and fostering personal growth.

In my opinion, the reason for making the accepted gambling age 18 is because, at that age range your thinking and actions most have been mature enough for you to make good decisions for yourself. Any gambler who puts his blames on gambling after his unlucky trial, is just exhibiting a childish act. Though some persons do that in public casinos to attract help from others. But in the first place we were advised not to invest with more than what we can easily forget we used in gambling. That is, having a spare change for gambling rather than just gambling with whatever comes to your mind.

The gambler should response to the gambling site with more responsibilities.Because the money using in the gambling site are real,So we can’t get emotional after the loss.Some new gamblers will get some sad because of the money loss in the initial stage.But later they understand the fact the gambling site are also give some good profit if your statistics for the betting was good one.The gamblers who ready to play the gambling without any emotional touch can able to make some good money in the same gambling site.

The luck was the key for the gambling along with the strategy for the game.If the gamblers play the gambling without any luck means it may leads to a loss of money at the end.So play the game with the luck to earn more form the gambling site.

The gambler who are not ready to take the responsibility for the money in the gambling site may skip the gambling and play the other games which doesn’t include the money.Because with the responsibility the gamblers can able to create a strategy for the game.Without the strategy without the gambling was the long lasting phenomenon in the gambling site.The emotional impact should not allow the gambler who make the big money loss in the gambling site.Because most of the gamblers loss their money in gambling by emotional playing.



The strategy was more important then a luck in the gambling.Because we don’t know when we get luck or not,but we know the game which can be won using the good strategy in the gambling.The strategy should not include the big money betting for each game,which may leads to huge risk of game.

But still in the end strategy will also refer to luck, no matter how good the strategy you have and use it will not be completely useful to bring victory but maybe it can at least make you closer to the chances of winning. Honestly in betting I never think and use any strategy unless it is in sports betting, but if you play on the type of game that is pure luck then any strategy or pattern will not affect at all and that means I will believe that luck is more important than strategy even though basically you will never know when luck will come. I understand the concept of luck is uncertain when it comes but by having a good approach and recommended in gambling this will be more able to keep you awake and avoid the name of a large number of defeats. So don't focus too much on winning because this is a matter of your own luck, and on the other hand I agree with you that we should involve small bets every time we gamble, it's better to focus on precautions because if it's lucky then we can also win.

Oh believe me bro we need to stop the unnecessary blame on gambling whenever we get unlucky

I actually who blame everything not just gambling even in my real life hahaha until I realize that blaming others is not gonna change everything maybe I should change myself rather than blaming the others.
In gambling or trading too it happens usually when friend suggesting a team or a position and then I follow him and ending up lose Im gonna blame him but why I should follow him at the first place right>

Are you sure about this? because if what you say is true, a gambling addict should not be taken to a professional in order to recover from his addiction because maybe one day he can make money and build a business from the results of his gambling because usually it is the addict who will always be willing to gamble with any amount of money because there is no fear of losing. So maybe there are people who can build their business from gambling, but it's not a path that can be set in that way because I'm sure those who succeed in doing it are just a coincidence because they win a lot of money.

I don't consider gambling as a way to make money, this is just an ordinary game, and for gamblers who blame casinos or others for their losses are people who also do the same thing when they experience bad things in their lives, such as when they fail in business, they will blame anyone they can blame, or when he has an accident he will also blame other people, and indeed gamblers who lose should not blame anyone because it is impossible to always win at gambling and it is also impossible to always lose.

I like luck's unpredictability. Like the weather, we can predict it but not control it. Understanding gambling turns it from a math problem to an uncertainty exercise.

However, I strongly support subtle tactics, especially in sports betting. Luck is involved, but a well-planned approach gives you control over the unpredictable oceans of chance. Instead of outwitting luck, dance with it, grasp its rhythms, and make informed decisions.

Your point about tiny bets? Im with you. The goal is fun, not victory. Small bets keep the pleasure going and reduce loss stress. It reminds us that gambling is amusement, not a goal.

Yes that's true with small bets as long as it's fun why not, after all if we don't have a goal to win big so we don't have to try to increase the bet even though there is a chance to win, it all depends on the goal too whether it's for entertainment and having fun or just wanting to find money in gambling, if the goal is only to make money in gambling, you usually have to take a big risk, meaning the bet is bigger compared to a smaller bet because it will affect the winning amount of the bet amount.

Almost every weekend I also have a special budget, around $30 and that's no more than 10% of my income each week. The point is that I find it fun with smaller bets because I can have more time than with bigger bets, I believe that every People have different goals when gambling, but when I see there are people who like smaller bets, that's good, at least I agree with betting like that, the duration of the gambling time is also a little long and it's fun, of course if the goal is just to have fun, that's fine. rather than making money. it must be tiring.

I guess the word "blame" or "blaming" when used in gambling is quite negative. I see this being irresponsible because we blame people or ourselves on our mistakes where in fact it was already planned before we gamble. Losing is inevitable, it's part of the game, but losing more than you can afford to lose and especially if you keep experiencing that, you will not last enjoying gambling, instead you'll living up a miserable  gambling life.

They should be able to stop blaming gambling and choose to introspect on what they have done so that they can know that it was their fault. No one is to blame, especially since it was their money that was consciously used for gambling. But because they are greedy and want more money, they end up gambling excessively, which results in them experiencing total defeat, so they can easily blame it on gambling. Even though it is their own fault for not paying attention to the use of their money, we can't remind them because they won't want to listen to our advice.

Nothing is planned before we start gambling, for the fact that losing in gambling is inevitable, does not mean that our losing is already planned even before we start gambling, using or making such statements will make some gamblers see or find all online gambling casino as untrustworthy.

The outcome of every gambling session is always a product of luck or the players skill or level of knowledge, depending on which type of gambling game the player is playing.
And again, still it is worthy to let us all know that every gambling game still requires some atom of luck to win, regardless of whether the game is a skill based, knowledge or luck based game.

The vast majority of countries of the planet earth accept 18 years of age as being mature enough to fully understand your actions and the consequences that could follow. Hence the minimum acceptable age for one to gamble being 18. But being 18 years of age doesn’t necessarily make one mature or an adult. You say anyone who blames his losses on gambling or someone else is just being childish. It actually shouldn’t surprise you that there are lots of people who ordinarily should be matured enough but still behave childishly.

I think lots of people just don’t want to be responsible for their actions when the outcome finally comes out negatively in their favor.

Of course that is true because there is nothing that can be used as an excuse to beat the casino, everything is clearly the fault of the gamblers themselves, the casino has made an announcement when you first enter that this is a gamble that risks your money which on the other hand there is absolutely no certainty or guarantee whatsoever for you to win at the end of the session, and if you still blame other parties for what you experience especially the adverse effects of the amount of loss then obviously I will call you a gambler who has absolutely no responsibility or you are a loser who wants to win but does not want to lose. So before you gamble then you should really consider and ask yourself whether or not you are ready for all the possibilities that are very likely to occur, not only the chances of winning but you also need to think about what if you lose money and if you are not ready to lose money then obviously your best decision is not to gamble.

When we do speak about legal age then it would really be playing around 18-21 on which it would be depending on a certain country but in overall when we do speak about maturity then this is something that would really be pertaining about on someones self awareness on things on which they could really be able to think up well on whats good and whats bad. Once you do step your foot into
gambling space then you should really that make yourself that be wary about on the risks that you would really be able to experience out. It wouldnt really be that something talks about being positive
but rather on negative. It would be mattering on how you would really be able to make out those decisions which you do seem that it would really be putting yourself on right position.

Failures are usually related to the nature of the player's actions. Impulsiveness, haste in action, excessive excitement, excessive risk, inability to stop in time - the list goes on. You can always choose a variant of gambling, which will reduce the risk to a reasonable - but no, give us everything at once

Yes the better a gambler gets over losses the better he can manage his emotions. Naturally when people make losses they always look for something or someone worth blaming.  Just like there is a causation to every gambling loss so people tend to want to have a cause to blame when they lose but the fact is it is not a proper practice.
As a gambler one should learn to manage the emotional stress that comes with either loss or wins as both if not properly managed can affect a gambler negatively. When some persons win they can become over excited and end up making wrong decisions.

I get that losing money gambling can be frustrating.  Believe me, I've been there.  But blaming the dealer or saying things like it's that machine's fault is just making excuses.  At the end of the day, gambling is gambling - you win some, you lose some.  Thats the nature of it and 

I'm not trying to lecture.  I just think getting angry and making accusations won't improve your chances or mentality.  Having a level head is important.  Freaking out makes it all less fun anyway.  It's best to just accept the losses in stride.

Stay sane out there, folks!

The ability to cope with both losses and wins is a great asset for maintaining a healthy and sustainable relationship with gambling. It's natural for people to seek reasons or someone to blame when they experience losses, because it can be difficult to accept personal responsibility for the outcome. Assigning blame is not a productive practice in the context of gambling. Instead, focusing on understanding the inherent risks, managing the emotions, and learning from both wins and losses can lead to more balanced decision-making.

Emotional resilience is key in navigating the highs and lows of gambling. While it's understandable to feel excitement after a win, gamblers need to remain level-headed and avoid making impulsive decisions that could lead to further losses. Maintaining emotional stability contributes to a more positive and fulfilling gambling experience while minimizing the potential negative consequences associated with emotional extremes.

No one is happy to lose money; by all means, it's understandable to be upset. However, there's a thin line between taking responsibility for your actions and your own mistakes and blaming other people or a casino for your misfortunes. Gambling is usually a triggering event or an excuse for a problematic behavior. Lack of self-control is the actual issue, not gambling itself; it can occur in any kind of behavior that can become addictive and thus harmful, such as alcohol or compulsive purchasing. Not being able to control how much you spend or how much you drink is your issue, not someone else's, but one you cause yourself.

Yes, but it's the emotions that is involved here, we can't control it obviously, we have to find someone or something like escape mechanism to cope with our (heavy) loses. And just like when we win big as well, we could attribute it to someone being a lucky charm. I know a girl (we can call her escort), a old but rich man when playing in a casino, just wanted this girl to be beside him because she thinks that she is the lucky charm.

However, I don't hear stories than when this rich man losses millions, he blame it to the girl. Maybe he is sane or knows that game too well, or just simply blinded by the beauty of this young girl that even in losses, he thought that they can recoup the next day with the girl beside him playing baccarat or slot machine.

Yes, because luck is something that cannot always be predicted when it will come, and if there were some people who could actually know when they would be lucky then it would be clear that many people would have become rich instantly by gambling, but the facts show that it really is. it doesn't happen and most of it is nothing more than illusions or hallucinations in the minds of people who come with the aim of winning.

Of course, in any kind of betting, be it sports or anything else, of course the main point is that luck will always be something that is very important which will be able to determine the outcome at the end of the session, especially getting a win, for example in sports betting, even if you have understanding and experience as well as broad insight. about the world of sports, but it is not uncommon for the team you are betting on to end up losing due to something unexpected that happens on the field such as a red card which ultimately makes the match run unbalanced and also ultimately makes the team you bet on lose, right? Once or twice I have experienced this kind of scenario, therefore, as I said before, no matter what, your best strategy will still rely on luck.

There is no healthy approach other than gambling by only placing small amounts. You have explained several facts about the advantages of placing small amounts and this will make us feel the pleasure of gambling more without having to feel too much pressure due to losing.

I agree with that. We must be responsible for our own actions and losing means we took the risk. If there's anyone who is at fault, it will be us.
We made the choice and we can also choose not to gamble so we won't lose anything but if we did take the other path, we must be ready for the consequences. And gambling sites are not a charity to just give away the money we gambled, there will be a fight first and that's to analyze things first before making a bet.
Pointing the finger at gambling sites will not help, hell even their customer service won't help us if we lose our money through gambling because it's all in terms.
This ain't like a console game where we could just save our progress and then load again is we made a mistake. Once the money is lost, we cannot do anything about it. The only option is to just win it back by playing more. But the risk will still be there that we might lose it all.

i actually think that it's okay for a gambler to get emotional if they lose, we don't need to be naive that we are like that sometimes. however, the most important thing is that gamblers don't get too emotional when they are emotional, so that it makes them think irrationally and end up gambling recklessly. gamblers should be able to calm themselves down first and gamble when they have gathered their composure again, then they can gamble again.

People who blame others after losing a bet of gambling know that there is no way to get their money by blaming. But some gamblers habitually do these things. They think that losing bet and  blame others and maybe their loss is not because of their own failure but because of others. And this act they probably console themselves. But a gambler should never such blame. He takes his own risk with his own money and neither gives nor accepts the share of winning or defeat. A gambler should understand these things well before gambling.

We will not be able to beat the casinos because we know that the casinos are the ones running the business. We can only try to gamble moderately with self-control and restrictions so that we don't exceed what we can afford. When we lose a certain amount of money, we will not blame the casino because that is the risk of gambling, and we should have understood it when we started gambling. To avoid losing a lot, we must always control ourselves when gambling and limit our time and money so that when we lose, we don't lose a lot of money. Many people have misunderstood this, so they still make mistakes like that, so they will only blame the casino even though it is their own fault. With the awareness that we must be able to limit our gambling games, we still try not to exceed the limits and only use gambling as entertainment and nothing more. If we can be responsible gamblers, we can enjoy gambling as entertainment and can avoid the problems that other gamblers have faced.

That's why a gambler must have good self-control to control his emotions when he loses. He will not try to recover from that loss because he is already thinking about what further risks he will accept. He does not want to lose more money, which will not help him recover his losses. The gambler also won't blame the casino when he loses, so he will just gamble in moderation because, for him, gambling is just entertainment that doesn't need to be played too often. When gambling, a person must always be able to control his emotional stress so that it does not increase, too high, and only self-control can control his emotions so that they do not increase.

If it is to entertain themselves, they should not come to gambling because it will be a waste if they lose. They will keep blaming the casino while the casino won't respond, and even if they say that in the chatbox at the casino, maybe the admin will immediately block their account because they have made a fuss at the casino. Such people do not need to gamble, and it is better to use other activities besides gambling so that they do not need to blame other people or the casino. They should be aware of the risks of gambling so that they can always try to limit the amount they lose.

However, gambling is nothing more than a probability activity or a chance activity which means that obviously you will be able to win when you are "lucky" no matter how skillful you are. The possibility of losing cannot be completely avoided because gambling is a risky activity and that is the risk that anyone can lose any amount of money and anyone can win or double the amount of money, but everything there is nothing more than a "possibility" which means you may lose or you may win, you cannot know when you can win but losing is a definite risk because this is a business for casinos which means you really have to have good luck if you want to win but the problem is that anyone can never know when he can get lucky.

Therefore gambling is really based on the right understanding because this activity involves a huge risk that can lose you any amount of money in an instant. On the other hand many people are involved in gambling but there are some of them who feel fine without experiencing significant impact while others are those who are trapped in many problems due to gambling and that means there is something wrong that you apply to your gambling activities, looking at the examples of many people and then doing self-introspection to recognize the location of the error is what you must do when you are in such a situation rather than blaming the innocent party.

there is nothing wrong if someone wants to seek entertainment in gambling as long as they know all the risks and are willing to accept these risks and most importantly know how to avoid bad risks.
gambling is just a way of having fun with a little luxury like paying for your place to play the games you like and on the one hand, if a gambler already knows all that, there should be no need to blame anyone when he loses because that is a risk when he is unlucky.
blaming the gambling party is just a very silly attempt when we buy pleasure from what has been provided but when we lose we blame the casino and for me that is very silly.

It all matters about acceptance and something that do talks about realistic approach towards gambling then there should really be no problems on which it would
really be that a common thing that people would be thinking about becoming that rich with gambling on the sense that it could give out that kind of probability on hitting up those higher
chances or odds that will really be possibly that bring you up into a situation or condition that you might be getting rich. Yes, its possible but its not something that too easy to hit on,
odds or chance are close to impossible and this is why it would be better that you should be not delusional on that aspect.

When you do lose then its a common behavior for most people who do really love on pointing out the blame into something whether into the site itself or into those people
around or to those who had been recommending on doing so. This is why it would be best that you should really be that having that self control on time such as this.

Some individuals are used to blaming others when they lose as they don't want to take responsibility for their actions. They blame others so they won't feel guilty about what happened that made them to lose money when gambling. Blaming others for your losses is a waste of time, when you blame them the money won't come back and they won't give you back the money and also since you didn't accept the responsibility, you won't learn from that mistake.

If you want to stop losing when gambling then you first have to stop blaming other individuals when you lose your bets. You also should start budgeting your games so you don't over spend when gambling or over gamble from playing too many games and if you were to lose you won't have to lose too many amounts of money that you'll start looking for other individuals to blame so you don't feel guilty.

If you are not new in gambling you already know this but there are just gamblers who are bitter about losing. All what they want is to win and earn more money but it's not possible. We need to lose too sometimes so that others can also win. That's a healthy gambling community.

Those who are ruined by gambling are addicted to it. I feel sorry for them but it's not yet the end as long as they are willing to change their situation. If we are playing a game of luck, it's okay if we a aren't making a well-informed choice but we need it or such plan in order to quit on the casino immediately once we achieved our desired winning, so that it won't be returned to the casino anymore.

today in my country I read a news that said that a young man was sent to withdraw money from the bank, his parents told him to withdraw 200$ (I converted my country's money into American dollars and gave 200$), the son raised the 200$ and he disappeared, he has been missing for 3 days, when his parents reported him missing and the police started investigating, they managed to discover something shocking, the young man took the 200$ and went to play aviator which is a gambling, the parents told the police that that money was to pay their son's school bills, at this moment the son is still missing. It is not known whether he is alive or not. but this is not the first case in my country, in the last 3 months there have been more than 10 cases of suicide involving an aviator game

due to the many cases of suicide involving the aviator game, the police in my country blamed the aviator game, but this is a serious mistake, the aviator game is not to blame, the aviator game does not think, it does not act for itself . and just a computer program. but the police in my country blamed the aviator game, strangely enough, most of the suicide cases involving the aviator game are police officers in my country who borrowed money, played aviator, wrote a letter saying things and committed suicide. So the police in my country, instead of investigating these cases further, just decided to blame the game. By this I mean that people often blame others because they don't want to admit that it's their fault.

It’s was shocking to hear this news,because the missing person is the kid.So anything can be happened,because after the loss they may get into the suicide because of the fear.But some ransom also the cause for the missing,we should wait and find the result of the investigation.The money 200$ is not the big money,but by the kids was involved in the Aviator game.They can be followed by some criminal to kidnapping the kids for the ransom.The suicide cause is they had used the school fee to play the Aviator game,the loss is not the wrong one.But the kids committing because of the fear with their parents and their parents reaction for the loss.

Anyone who comes to gambling wants to make money from it, regardless of whether it is for entertainment or taking it as a serious job. To participate in a certain game or job, we must understand the rules of the game or the skills related to it. I think gambling is like any other type of job out there, which also requires the necessary skills to get good results. Many people say that this is just a game of red and black, based mainly on luck, it is true that most gambling games are 50/50 but what makes the winners better than the losers is the way they control their emotion, and that is also a skill you need to learn.
Therefore, if you have not determined from the beginning what you need to have, losing is natural, you cannot blame anyone, it is like being fired for not doing a good job. The number of winners in gambling is like the number of rich people in this world, it is small and not for the majority, that is natural and that is the fairness of life.

I agree with almost everything you say, but, please, don't  say "behind the scenes". It creates an impression that gambling sites are doing something shady, while in fact they don't even need to be dishonest to make their profits. They provide services and take a fee in the form of the house edge, and they doing it openly; no need for cheating, actually.

What irks me more about these seta of people that throws tantrums about how their lives has been ruined and bastardized by gambling is that even in that series of complains they are still into gambling they haven't quit. And I wonder, who is actually ruining who. Because from how I see It it is the person that is actually ruining his life in this one.

It is natural that we quit from any activity, business or relationship that is not favouring us but whereby we still settle in and dishing blames out we are mainly acting stupid because the blame game won't bring any resounding solution but quiting will not only bring you solution but with a peace of mind too.  If you must gamble, then gamble responsibly.

Actually you have a point but we can't even say if they are really honest with their customers, because there are instances that if you observe, it seems like there is fraud going on, especially the slot machines in a casino house. I'm not sure if it's really just bad luck but it's surprising if every day you play, there are only losses and no wins. Wouldn't you be surprised if that happened to you?

The desire to blame another person for our failures is a normal reaction of our psyche. More precisely, this is the reaction of people with a weak personality, those who did not draw conclusions and did not reflect during their lives. We are the only ones responsible for all the decisions in our lives, and everyone should understand this. For example, if a friend said that you need to bet on a certain number, and then it did not fall out, you should not blame him. After all, we make the final decision ourselves - whether to place a bet or not.

But can't the winning percentage be increased, as in sports betting by predicting using knowledge, skills and experience, so clearly this is an effort to increase the chances of winning.
Moreover, this is only an increase, not guarantee, so that anyone who is gambling will be able to increase their chances of winning depending on how each gambler thinks and their abilities, except in casino games such as slots or roulette, then obviously it is pure luck.
Not all gamblers are stupid and not all gamblers are always just gambling carelessly.

But regarding everything that has been arranged behind the scenes, it is actually not arranged behind the scenes, but in the casino, everything has program that has been designed in secret or in secret.
I believe the way casinos work is random where gambler chances of winning can never beat the casino itself as place that provides variety of games and bets.
Casinos do not cheat but they do business and make money, if gamblers are wise and have responsible mindset they will be able to accept all this even though their only chance of gambling is losing.

It's actually fine to really get emotional when you loose a game but then it's also not healthy when you allow it linger enough to get a greater part of you, that will make you start thinking in unhealthy directions and want to do things that are not good for your gambling habit, and may likely cost you some money such that if you are not disciplined enough you may actually get bankrupt from the extra money you will be further spending gambling. After every loss the gambler should learn to further control their selves not to be too disturbed by how much they have lost already but to making sure they.

Don't gamble out of emotions as it will not help you at all become good gambler rather it makes you continually gamble recklessly and to your own detriment and never getting to stay profitable gambling .

Well, I hate blaming because as we gamble, it means that we know what we are doing and we are old enough to think if I have to put my bets or not. In fact, we are not forced to do that but we are willing to do that which means, we are already about this and whatever the results are, it seems to be accepted.

Besides, this is gambling and we're not too lucky every day. That is why blaming is not the right thing to do because winning is not just the only expected results but losses as well. Instead of blaming others, better to blame ourselves as we are the ones who decide this.

It doesnt really make any sense if you are really that trying out to make yourself that pointing out fingers on the losses that you are currently experiencing. It is really that a very common human being behavior
on which you are trying out to make yourself getting comforted with those loses that you do have or simply with those frustrations.Its a common defense mechanisms that you would really be setting up into your mind
and this is why you would really be having those blaming time into those people who are really that getting involved with gambling or someone whose attached you into.

On the time that you do play gambling then it would really be just that right that you should really be that wary about on the things that  you are getting involved into. You wont really be that making yourself
that too much impulsive if you are really just that realistic on the things that you are getting involved with. Sometimes too much expectation or being that too optimistic would really be
leading up with these kind of assumptions that later on would turn out to be disappointments if things havent met.

Gamblers should know about the chances of winning and how lucky they are in winning their gambling games so that they don't need to blame gambling if they lose. They should know that behind gambling games, there is a high risk if they use more money, so they must be able to prevent losing a lot of money. Anyone can win, but it will depend on many things, so they also have to realize that they cannot play gambling for too long because it will only waste their money without being able to have a big chance of winning. Those who come to gambling to double their money will experience disappointment because they will not get it easily, especially since there will be big losses that will come to them if they cannot control themselves. And they also have to think about the luck factor that must be possessed by those who want to win, even though luck will not always come when they gamble.

If more people could understand gambling properly by not using gambling as a way to make money, people would not experience losing so much money. They can even use gambling to have fun in their free time and will not think about chasing victory and will let the victory come to them. If they cannot win after playing several rounds of gambling, they can immediately stop gambling and leave the casino. They know that continuing to gamble after losing several times will only increase the number of losses, and they may be unable to bear it. They don't want to experience the consequences of gambling excessively and also won't blame the casino if they lose because that is the risk they face when they lose gambling. They must be able to introspect themselves when playing gambling so that they can prevent large losses that will waste all their money.

It's not wrong if someone seeks entertainment by gambling. But they must be able to limit themselves to gambling and not use a lot of money because when gambling, they will probably experience defeat more often, which can make them emotional and end up spending more money. And when they lose, they also cannot accept their defeat well and instead deposit more money, thinking they can recover their losses. They are the ones who then blame the casino for taking their money and causing them to suffer heavy losses. Even though it was their own fault for gambling without limits, they experienced big losses. Playing gambling without limits will only cause someone to experience defeat, and the loss will be even greater if they cannot stop their gambling activities. And that's what happens to many gamblers, but they don't realize it and instead gamble more and more often.

It's okay if you blame yourself for your bad luck, because that is a normal response to this bad reality. What is not permissible is when someone blames himself too much for his bad luck, to the point where he curses himself and considers himself useless. That is a complete no-no. Because gambling is related to luck and gamblers must be prepared for all possibilities that they could lose at the gambling they play. And when their expectations do not match reality, it means they have to accept reality with a humble heart.

Very well said, but then, not every person understands things like the way you said it here.
In the last week or so, I  created a thread here of a reddit user was said he hated himself so so much for being so unlucky, he said his friends are winning, making money off gambling, but for him, the story had been completely different for several weeks as he kept losing his bet, regardless of how sure he was he was going to win it, and that had made him hate himself, and feel so shameful of himself that it was affecting his self esteem.

Personally, I sometimes feel it's completely crazy how deep some people allow gambling get into them, like the world is going to end if they do not win their gambling games.

That is very well said.Most people cannot make a real distinction between the reality that the odds are against them when gambling and the illusion that with gambling you will win a lot of money,that is the real motivator but one should also consider the odds against himself when gambling.Yesterday as usual I played like 90 dollars and kept losing and recovering during the session but I saw that I was staying in the same pattern loop and quit after a couple of hours with the initial bankroll.If I had continued I would have lose them all.

The good thing to do when you finally realize any habits are not benefiting you but instead harming you along with others that are close to you, you should not to blame others but focus on pondering upon your mistakes and not waste your time thinking about it all day because you need to move on and look for a productive way to enjoy your life. You can always find some people who want to have nothing but good with their lives, to their way of living and their habits are no exception as well. I have been friends with some people who were addicted to drinking alcohol but when they decided to change, they also changed their habits to raising livestock and crops they enjoyed it a lot this time and they also helped others as well when they wanted to join their club.

Every gambler must accept every loss they experience in gambling as they accept winnings in gambling, in fact gambling is not just about winning but also understanding and comprehending defeat, the average gambler never wants to experience defeat so sometimes they always blame themselves Even though it is something that every gambler normally does, in the end gamblers must be able to accept any situation when gambling, at least accept all the risks.

This should be a concern for every gambler that before gambling, you should understand the issue of risk before playing, because by understanding the risk we will play with grace whatever the outcome, losing is something normal that must be accepted by all gamblers in this world, the point is to continue learn from every loss and failure experienced when gambling so that you can play responsibly in the next game, don't be too reckless and go beyond your limits so you don't get addicted to gambling because gambling addiction is very difficult to cure, therefore don't blame yourself if you fail but continue learn to gamble with good control.

Gambling will always remain gambling, it is an activity that could go either way, so everyone should get prepared for it or just excuse themselves out of it before they start the blame game. What determines your winning in gambling are primarily two, which are your expertise about it and luck. And what you require in them is determined by the kind of games you are playing, so it is best that we weigh our options and risks involved before we proceed. This goes a long way in helping us as gambling is never a thing of force, it is all about the game of choice, and if you've decided as an adult to go for it, you should also accept the risk involved, and not blame others. It's all about you.

And eventually, if you lose through it, you should take heart, because it is either you win or you lose, and if you lose, the house wins, and if you win, the house loses, so no one should cry foul between you and the house so far they do not cheat you. I deeply knew about gambling before I started and this has been helping me till today. It helps me not to be addicted to it and also not to believe that I can get rich with it. This mindset alone has helped me to be more managerial in my gambling and I've never been so engrossed by it to the point that I will be so miserable to be shifting blame. That's just not maturity.

Accepting the blame is the first step to rearranging your overall experience and future risk accessibility because most of the gamblers who have lost so much in the past all did that because they failed to take responsibility for what their current and previous outcome was and maybe shifting the blame on others or even the casino who doesn't allow them to have a self-exclusion.
But then also we have to put in some extra effort to conclude who to blame even if we are not in a good frame of mind because by accepting the blame, you are taking the lesson alongside the pain.

True, most of them, especially those who are addicted, are trapped in a circle of illusion in their minds because of the hope they put on winning, as you said that they cannot distinguish between feelings and logic, what I mean is that they are too prejudiced for gambling which is actually full of logic. and when you put hope in gambling then indirectly without realizing it will create confidence in yourself by saying that "I can win", And when you put hope in gambling then indirectly without realizing it, it will create confidence in yourself by saying that "I can win", especially when they see or hear some victories that are successfully obtained by other people or one of their friends which of course this will further motivate them to act more crazy and aggressive.

However, healthy gambling is when you are able to balance everything, and you can only get that balance when you understand the concept of gambling, especially in terms of possible risks, which basically can never be separated from the name of gambling. So you will only be able to make everything balanced and avoid the bad possibilities that exist in gambling when you are able to turn yourself into a gambler who is responsible for any possibilities that will occur, you will not be too difficult to take some recommended actions that are indeed the best decision for yourself such as stopping when the situation is not possible.

It is a not a quite negative word because it is a negative word hahaha. That is why if we make mistake just blame ourself hahah and learn from it but yeah sometimes losing in gambling is very make us sad and angry at the same time and yes i agree with you it is part of the game no need to blame the other.


Correct winning and losing is inevitable so we must thread both equally when win we should thanks and when we lose we should thanks to hahah to not blame the other after all this is luck based game like you said everything can go to anywhere

Acceptance and realizations would be they key and this is something which is really that recommended when you are dealing with gambling. You wont really be putting yourself in trouble if you are really just that good on handling up these kind of situations on which it would really be that best on having  that kind of moderation and control is a must on a certain individual. I've been dealing or engaging with gambling for a long time
and i could tell to myself that i wasnt been able to comes into a point that becoming addicted or able to blame out someone just because of the unfortunate conditions that i have been able to experience. If you are someone who do have that kind of personality on which doesnt really accept defeat then you would definitely be having those kind of issues on which you would really be loving on pointing out fingers and this is why it would really be that best that moderation will really be the key.

True, the awareness and acceptance that you mentioned is indeed very important and must be applied in everyone when they are involved in gambling, not least because it is by having good acceptance that it will help you to minimize the possibility of uncontrolled emotions when you are in a losing situation and this will be useful to minimize the possibility of significant losses that should not be done, and also you can more easily do or decide on precautions like this when you are in a level of awareness.

By being a responsible gambler then this will help you to avoid the possibility of addiction which is indeed the point where a person experiences a lot of problems especially in his finances, not only that because it is very likely that you also experience depression or stress due to not being able to withstand the pressure of various problems that come and the rest I strongly agree with the idea of your statement that acceptance and awareness is one of the keys to avoiding the possibility of addiction.

Cocaine is associated with so much negativity but clinically it also has its usefulness as it can be used as an anesthetic in surgical procedures. The same thing can be said about gambling, it may have some deleterious effect on some persons but it has also changed some lives for good. Why people most times condemn gambling is because the number of player's lives it has wrecked apart is far more greater than those it has helped. But with caution and the right approach, one can avoid being wreckless.

Lessons learned by losing are always temporary for most gamblers.  ;D You will see a gambler losing a bunch of money today, abusing the casino, himself, and people around him, and doing all sorts of things out of frustration and anger, they would even say that they aren't going to gamble anymore. Fast forward a week, and you will see them in the casino again, lol ;D. That's how gamblers are, they are unpredictable with their regrets and remorse.

I have seen a lot of gamblers losing a lot of money and raging out of anger but then gambling again after a couple of days, some wouldn't even wait more than one day before they start gambling again because they just can't control the urge to gamble which makes them forget what happened earlier.

Yes I would be surprised. Actually it happened to me just recently: I played a new slot be pretty famous provider and from the very beginning I was losing constantly, I'd lost like 50 times in a row and I thought "This is definitely a rip off!", but the next day I started winning on the same slot and realized that it was just a coincidence that when I only started playing it I lost 50 times in a row.

But you are talking about in-house games. Can you name on, that I'd try it out myself?

Becoming a responsible gambler must be achieved by many gamblers to avoid more losses and avoid addiction because this is a problem that is often faced by gamblers who lost their responsible while they are gambling, even being a responsible gambler is it's difficult, they have to keep learning it because it is the key to being able to gamble comfortably and not encounter various kinds of problems that have made many gamblers end up falling deeper into gambling. They cannot be responsible gamblers at all because they have lost their sense of responsibility in gambling and their gambling goals have changed and make them only want to chase more wins.

That is why awareness and acceptance of whatever results you get from playing gambling are absolutely necessary so that you will not try to chase wins or recover losses, because that will only cause you to experience more losses. If someone is aware of this and can accept their losses well and will not think about recovering their losses by immediately stopping the gambling game, they can avoid losing more money because they don't see any chance of winning. Moreover, the chances of winning will only decrease if we continue gambling while we have already experienced several defeats. If we could realize what we have experienced, we would not try to continue gambling because it could result in losing money that we would not be able to accept.

Responsible gambling patterns and methods can be learned, however, they can't be practiced by everyone unless they are generally responsible with everything they do in their lives. It's all about being responsible by your nature, and if you don't have a responsible nature, even if you learn how to become a responsible gambler, you will still end up doing things that make you an irresponsible gambler because that thing isn't inbuilt in you.

So I don't think that it can work this way but one can still give it a try. A person might learn and take suggestions from others and create a budget for their gambling activities, but when they lose that budget very quickly, they might go ahead and make another deposit which isn't what a responsible gambler would do.

Since habits are human creations, man can quickly overcome these habitual problems if he so desires. There are some gamblers in gambling who never want to loss themselves even if they lose they hesitate to accept it. When they blame others without any reason, they lose the acceptance of people towards them. The gambler must learn to simply accept the outcome of gambling. A gambler cannot always win. He must be defeated. For those who fail to accept defeat, gambling becomes more negative than successful. People who have such habit problems should quickly come back from that position. If one tries to understand well before doing any work and then engages himself then he will be successful. After learning about gambling, try to understand and keep their wins and losses to themselves will never blame others.

There are really indeed people who do really make those kind of thinking that they could really be able to take those 100% winning rate or simply being a perfect gambling on which we know that it cant really be just that possible for someone to have that kind of thing on which we know that there are ones who are really that be able to realize those things and there are ones who cant be able to do such thing.
Blaming out others is something that a very common gambler behavior on which you would really be thinking up that on the loses that you are experiencing is caused by those factors on which you do have in mind
but we do know that these things are just simply that kind of none right thing since you are thinking or skeptical that they arent fare at all.

Temporary? Heavily agree on this one because once that those anger and disappointments would be wept away then they would really be starting to play again and the cycle continues
just like on what others been saying on here that human beings are naturally loving to paste up those blamings of their loses into other people as if it seems that they are the sole
reasons on why they are experiencing those unfortunate condition on which it is really that laughable.

We do know that when it comes to loses then people do really always loving on having to say, not all but majority will really be having that kind behavior.
Some might be easily to move on but there are ones who do love to have those blaming.

Let's think that things are like this, I wouldn't blame anyone or Anyone because the money is mine, the things that I manage in the casinos are always the best, but I only say that when one wins then the responsibility is one's Own, but in In the event that someone gives us advice, or tells us how to play perhaps, it is something that can be very decisive, I am a person who will Always say that things when they try to do in some case are unique and exclusivity responsnaibidla ours, then those people blame someone for their losses because it is real immaturity, I don't see it that way, but honestly the people do it because I think they have to mature a lot and Given these things, they have to be distressed by things like that. As they are , I personally am very determined about that, however, things change when they are done in Society , which I do not recommend.

Things in Society are not recommended, because if one person agrees with another to gamble in a casino and they put the money in and the bill is Handled by both of them , I think that Each movement has to be expressed to the other, or to me But one person has the right to spend an amount But for the rest we have to be very mature in what we Want and in the things we must Assume , in a casino things have to be assumed, Whether you Win or lose.

They should be able to learns responsible gambling patterns if they don't wants to see losing control. Even if that's difficult, they must still learned for their own good. Playing gambling with responsible is difficult and that's why must always practice and if necessary, we practicing with the other things and not just in gambling. Having responsibility will helps you prevents something bad that can arise so you can avoided without giving more problems. A gambler who doesn't have responsibility when they gambling can't hold themselves and will lose their money sooner or later.

We must still learn and practice to be gambler that have responsibility in gambling because gambling have temptations that will always change. If we don't have good responsibility, we will only loses the money without realizing what we have done and there is a chance to lose control because of our mistakes.

And the people that are coming back to it just to gamble again is also enormous. As long as you're aware with what you are up to, and specifically with gambling.
If you are unlucky, it's not gambling's fault but your fault because you chose to gamble and from there, you're not going to lose if ever you haven't gamble at all.

Indeed. Before we use our money in gambling, it's crucial to know what we are getting into especially the consequences if the outcome is not favor in you. Chances to lose in gambling are very high, therefore we should be prepared for that situation. Because it's a big problem if you play and didn't take time to research and worse you use the money that you can't live without. That's the usual mistake of gamblers who don't have self control. They just go with the flow, placing wager without even thinking then will blame gambling if it didn't go as planned. Hence, if you want to gamble, make sure that you are aware how gambling works. Learn to have discipline so you'll not go beyond your limit. Lastly, be responsible enough to face the consequences of your action because no one force you to use your money in gambling. It is your own decision thus don't blame gambling or others if you happen to be in such situation.

Let them do what they want OP, these people that are blaming themselves aren't going to stop anytime soon just because they're constantly reminded that it doesn't do anything to the game and that blaming leads to nothing, I think that it's best to let them do their thing. This kind of people will almost always come to their senses on their own and they'll stop eventually, if we don't want to be like this, the easiest solution would be to stop gambling, that's the easiest I think. Think of this as someone who believes in luck, there are some things that they can just explain so they leave the explanation as fate or luck, much easier that way, it's the same with these people blaming the game, they want some outlet for their frustrations.

You are correct with your submission. If you are reckless with gambling then you will have to keep complaining about losses. You can't gamble rightly with minimal bankroll and you keep complaining about the bad omen. A gambler with minimal stake has better control of his game more than that gambler that throws in all he has at once going for the winning without considering that he would be losing all of the money if he didn't win.

It is better to have some gambling limit so that when you are not getting it right then you can easily withdraw yourself and wait for the next time game to try hitting back, continuous trying to win is a ticket to addiction because you are losing your control.

Yes, no matter how other people would really be telling that they shouldnt really be doing this but still it wont really be that enough for them to be stopped on what they are doing.
This is why it would really be better that letting be on what they are gonna going to do would really be just that fine. They are the ones who would really be messing up their lives on the time that they would really be making out such bad decision on which it will really be affecting their lives later on. We do know that on the time that we are unlucky then we do love on having those kind of blaming
into other people or with the platform itself. You wont really be finding yourself that getting contented and would be going into other people to be blamed on.
You wont really be blaming your own self no matter what. hehehe

People need to stop giving sympathy to those people who are not willing to receive some advice or suggestion, since for sure they will not take any words we give to them and they feel bad since provably this people will just think about we spoil the fun and not letting them to win then feel bad about us. That's why sometimes they need to learn a lesson on hard way so that they realize that what they do is totally not good for them and might they correct those mistakes done. Usually this type of people put the blame on other people or casino so if we don't want to experience those bad words to them by trying to stop or advice them much better if we just let them experience about other negative consequences that will happen to them.

yeah that's true, it's better for them to experience the things that don't fit their plan so that they can learn and experience it early so that they can avoid doing it the next time. When you give advice to someone even if it hasn't happened yet, it used to be like spoon-feeding them, so maybe we shouldn't lead the time.

Having your own rules or having limits before deciding to carry out gambling activities is very necessary and must be done by a gambler because only in this way can a gambler have self-control not to chase wins or losses too much because we are used to these limits so we won't may violate this limit.
Indeed, having limits like this is not easy to do, but as long as a gambler has a strong desire to bet safely, he will certainly easily learn little by little to obey the rules that have been made.

Yes, indeed, a gambler who always bets with the smallest amount can always have strong control and never experience deep disappointment because the money he has lost has been planned and will not feel like he has lost because the budget used is money he can afford to lose.
In the past, at first I wasn't used to limits like this, but as long as I tried consistently not to make the same mistakes, I managed to have good control, even when I bet on Black Jack when I lost once, I chose to wait until the right time to bet again so that not too emotional and enjoy the bet more.

You know that's not true, right? There are tons of ways to lose your money and gambling is just one of them. You can invest in sh*tcoins, you can invest in some shitty stocks or you can buy property that will lose it's value with time. And with all those things you actually can lose much more than with gambling if you are a responsible gambler.

Risks could really be everywhere no matter what kind of venture that you would really be dealing with. The main difference when dealing up with gambling is that you could lose those big amounts
in a blink of an eye comparing into those investments that you have mentioned except with investing with a project that rugpulled which we know that it do only last for a few minutes.
When it comes to blaming then it is really indeed part of human instinct on finding up those things on where they could really be able to blame out specially on the time of frustration on which it would really be just that so common action that you would really be having on the time that you are on such condition on which we know that it isnt really just that right that you should really be
putting up blame to people.

When you do gamble then you should really be expecting something like this on which those big loses, this is something very normal on gambling field.
You wont really be that making yourself that getting that exemption since everyone could be able to experience it no matter how well you do gamble.
Being lucky? It is really that something that totally random, doesnt matter whether you are dealing with luck based or strategic based on which
everything would really be depending on that.

Those unlucky one's that put blames on gambling are those ones that  have so much interest in getting money out of it, meanwhile they should have be rest assured and known that gambling is a game of Fun,so you have to Go with the flow.
But if you think aside this there are ways you can make it out,then you probably should bare in mind that alot id coming your way,and you should be ready to face and tackle them.

If you don't really want to just gamble for fun, then stop it entirely,cause not when you think you have put do much energy and time and everything in it and it tends not to come out positive you put up blames,that's where they are all getting it all wrong.
Investment it's quite different from gambling and it shouldn't be placed that gambling is an investment that will profit you later.

Gambling can never be an investment, gambling is very different from investment. Investment become successful from proper planning and doing your research on the thing or things that you want to invest into before you buy them then you hold for a long time for you to get the best results from the investment but gambling depends mainly on luck. There are some games that you win from having experience on the games but gambling depends on luck for you to win.

As a gambler blaming others for your losses won't help you as you don't give others praises when you win. If you use someone else prediction and you made gains, you won't thank that person for the prediction as many individuals are guilty of this but when they lose that's when they'll start looking for who to blame. Blaming someone else for you mistakes won't teach you any lessons to learn from.

Right, you can win and you can lose, and that depends on luck entirely. So, if you lose blame your fates, but not some other people. I mean, gambling industry consist of real people like you and me, and if you are blaming gambling, you are basically blaming real people too.

I think it is wrong to compare gambling to "every other form of investment", as it's not true. The main factor being the black and white nature of placing a bet. When investing, let's say the traditional method through the stock market, if you stick with big and solid companies - you have very little chance of losing all your money. Even if things start to go bad at the company, there will be many opportunities to cash out and get some of your investment back. However with the short time frames and absolute nature of placing a bet, where the final outcome is you lose everything if it fails - is a misleading comparison.

Its humans nature never accept loss and always find reasons in someone in somewhere, when they itself are the reason for that loss. Few people can accept that they were wrong and admit it. Many will always search who to blame and find 100 excuses why they have lost. They do it for two reason, they are always right/they cant be wrong. This applies to all areas. In gambling they lose because of someone. On the forum they dont get merit because people are greedy. At work they earn low, because the boss has favorite colleagues, at school/university they fail because teachers on purpose put them low grades, food that they prepared taste bad because ingredients were spoiled and etc.

basically yes, I have noticed that it is our nature to do this kind of work, we are the type who is really at fault. but we try to find someone else or a way to blame someone, maybe because of our pride, we cannot accept that we are really wrong  but deep inside we know in ourselves that we are the ones who have failed and don't know how to understand.

If we understand that is normal for humans to put blame on ourselves, why do we complain so much about it. It doesn't change the fact and i don't think there is remedy to it if not we would find it. Blaming gambling for your loss is not bad because gambling has no feeling itself it's just a word you can't see it, but you do it. So, it's the same thing as blaming yourself for gambling. I only see it wrong for person to blame others for their loss. Like in a situation where someone gave them a game to bet or predicted some tips for them then they loss they start blaming the persons that is where it feels wrong. Everyone starting a gambling career should be ready to take responsibility for whatever actions he takes and also be ready to control himself for any outcomes whether good or bad that he gets when gambling.

I may agree on that mate , because i am guilty of this attitude that even if I know that it is my fault yet in my mind I try finding reason to blame others or something (SOunds stupid but true mate)
but trust me that once we overcome this we will be successful in all field that we are aiming to win.

This is indeed a natural human trait, but that does not mean that such traits cannot be controlled, they can be controlled depending on how we try to control these traits. Now the question is who is to blame? I, you and everyone definitely don't want to be blamed, but with humility we can accept the fact that we have done the wrong thing, even though sometimes we are also a little annoyed by that judgment.

In gambling, whether we are lucky or not, we must be able to control ourselves. Because there will only be 2 things that happen, the first is when we realize that we are not lucky but we still continue gambling, that means we are in an emotional state that controls us. And when we are lucky and win gambling and we continue because we want to win bigger, that means we are in a state controlled by greed. We must anticipate this, one of which is by applying limits when losing and when winning. This can minimize us from being controlled by emotions or greed that will arise within us. Yes, it's not easy, but that doesn't mean it can't be done, right?

In gambling if we win, then this is our merit, if we lose this is due to someone else fault. People never accept failure or defeat. And I dont know how to change such attitude. There is no course or medicine that removes such feeling. Imho we are left simply to accept that fact and dont pay much attention to those who blame others or in their failures.

Yesterday was a day like those with Real Madrid playing like a lower league team in the Champions League and presented a very bad way of playing football.They were lucky to even get past this elimination leg as they were nearly beaten at home yesterday when Leipzig hit the post in the last minute of the game.

Therefore sometimes gambling is to blame as no one expected yesterday Real to be playing that bad and not being able to win their game.

People need to hold onto something. So I think, when losing in gambling, they need to blame something since they can't really pinpoint who to blame because it is themselves that do the betting. They can even go deeper by blaming some of the people who introduced gambling to them, or they can blame the team and think that those games are rigged and being controlled by some group or mafia so they can take profit from them. Or blame the casino or the gambling app, saying that casinos are manipulating the game. If the gambler keeps going like this, he or she might get addicted since he or she cannot control his or her emotions.

As gamblers, we should not blame everything when we lose. Since "gambling" is risky, we should know that in the first place. So whenever consequences come, you should face them and take them.

I agree with you on the importance of control in every gambler. Gamblers who gamble responsibly are gamblers with control. Gambling can bring pleasure, excitement, fun and even harmless when done with a limit. Lack of control can cause financial ruin and even personal problems like causing strain in the gambler`s relationship. As you mentioned, two main emotional states can lead to a loss of control in gambling: chasing losses when one is on a losing streak, and greed when one is on a winning streak.

Chasing losses is a common phenomenon in gambling where a person continues to gamble in an attempt to recoup their losses. It’s necessary to set limits on how much one is willing to lose in a given session and stick to it, even if one experiences a losing streak. Applying limits when gambling is essential to maintaining control over one’s emotions and avoiding the negative consequences of gambling.

Yeah, but it's to our benefit to stop thinking like that? I mean, we should stop to blame others when in fact it's we ourselves or our fates to blame. It will not improve our chances of winning on slots, but it will decrease negative effects our losses might have on us for sure, and will our gambling experience better overall.

It's very true, things worked out like that , I personally have Always said something , the biggest mistake of every player in a casino is that they start looking for Culprits for their losses because that is something they can never cover, and blame the casino. It's something Worse, we all know that things with the casinos are different because the casinos ensure their way of winning, in Fact it is clear that they will always have the house advantage and that is something for sure , that is why sometimes we have to understand that the game is like that, it is not just a matter of luck, we may always have very good luck, 'but the casino will always guarantee its winnings, in fact that is Something we always have to accept, to be calm about things we are People who We have to see things from the best point of view and be mature when seeing that some designs of the game work like this , especially for those who play slots the most.

Basically, yes, this is the business of each individual, which means that all the results at the end of the session are purely the responsibility of the gambler himself, even though you basically follow the methods of others but still that you follow their methods based on the consent of yourself which means that whatever the results at the end of the session, especially losing, you are the one who must take responsibility for everything. The fact that you blame others for your losses is what leads me to conclude that you are an irresponsible gambler.

After all gambling is a profit-making activity that stands behind the word "chance or possibility" which means you can be in one of the outcomes at the end of the session between winning or losing, and also gambling is an activity that is always at risk which means however you can never avoid losing and if you lose then it is normal because gambling is not an activity to make money but nothing more than an activity to have fun when you have boring free time. Simply put if you lose it means you are unlucky or vice versa, therefore the act of blaming others for the losses we experience is ridiculous.

It would be easier to blame someone at a casino centre when there are bodies bumping into each other and words fly up and down.
The truth upon reflection is that the gambler has no one to blame but himself.
Firstly, for going there and indulgence of a few games,
Secondly, for the even staking instead of being an onlooker.

Individuals who are constantly searching for someone or something to blame for their losses are not mature. Blaming won't even make up the money you lost; accepting responsibility for your actions is the best course of action. Additionally, I dislike those who criticize or even assign blame, even when their acts were the cause. And the reason they place the blame is that they always strive to appear flawless, as though they never make mistakes, and when professionals falter, it speaks more well of common people.

When the time comes when they will be unable to place the blame anywhere, they will turn their attention to finding ways to make up for their losses. They fail to see that there is no shame in losing. No one would hold me responsible for introducing them to gambling because I don't even introduce people to it, and even if I did, why would you hold me responsible when it was all a question of choice? Not a single cause to assign blame. Either they blame the casino or say anything it won't change anything.

I believe even in those situations, one shouldn't blame gambling for their loss, it should be on your luck if you had bet on Real Madrid or any other team to win but they lost miserably because you decided to gamble and gambling didn't force you to do that. So, when we make a decision ourselves, we should be ready to take credit for whatever happens whether it brings success or failure for us.

People need to understand that they need to make up their minds before they start gambling that if they lose, they are going to blame themselves for it and if they can't do that, they shouldn't gamble in the first place. You take all the credit when you win, so why not take the blame when you lose?

Some individuals naturally are good at holding an external factor for any misfortune in there life. When they have fortune they take the glory and boast that the fortune is as a result of self effort. Personally, I don't see such people as immature as you noted because some people see it as a big deal accepting failure and so instead of accepting failure they prefer to apportion the blame to a factor so that people will not see them as been misfortune. To them, their concern is not about making better choices next time but to control how people will view their actions.

Unfortunately, such way of living doesn't change anything. If you are unlucky and then blame it on gambling, the fact that you are unlucky haven't changed. My humble advise is that instead of blaming gambling efforts should be made to make corrections subsequently because you function for yourself and so you need to make life worth living for yourself and so should blame gambling at all when things doesn't go as desired.

Those individuals blaming others when they're losing are those that'll keep losing when they're gambling as they're not learning anything from the mistakes that they're making. Gambling should be for entertainment and when you lose, you should accept your losses and instead of blaming others you should take the responsibility and work on the things that made you to fail as greed and not being very careful of what you're doing can make you to lose as gambling isn't for every individuals.

There are some individuals that they'll always lose when they gamble but they don't stop gambling as they believe that they can win one day but they have being playing for a very long time yet they're not winning. Before Gambling always, try to taste the difference types of games available at the casino so you can know which game that you're lucky at and always gamble with that game to increase your chances.

I agree with it. Its reflects a common cognitive bias known as the "self-serving bias." This bias leads individuals to attribute success to their own actions and failures to outside influences. Changing such attitudes can be challenging because they're deeply rooted in human psychology. However, fostering self-awareness, promoting responsibility for one's actions, and emphasizing learning from failures can help shift this mindset.

Topics like this reminds me of the various accusations created by people who always try to find loopholes in a casino's terms and conditions. I'm talking about those who apply for self-exclusions and then creates other accounts to play again. They complain after losing the money claiming that the casino should have blocked their deposit to the second account.

I wonder how such people will raise their child, because you need to teach your children how to accept their mistakes as theirs in other for them to learn from it and grow, people who put their own blame on other people or other things won't be able to realize their mistakes.

Gambling is a game of luck, unfortunately not many people accept this, they believe it's their misfortune that makes them lose in gambling, when the chances of winning are already too thinly in gambling, I try to always avoid people who don't like accepting their mistakes, such people are dangerous.

It is better to still have your life, your home, and your happiness after you fail to have some good luck in gambling than to ruin your life over because of gambling and have nothing to go back to, do not over risk your money because of gambling, I will keep saying it, that its more likely to lose money in gambling than to win.

Yeah.
In gambling, many blame the casino if they lose, but at the same time praise themselves if they win. In fact, all this is just an accident. It is important to learn to accept these phenomena and not forget that gambling is a risky activity, and no one can guarantee victory. The main thing is to enjoy the game process and not forget about possible losses.

It's easy to blame other people because we experience loss. We will say they don't give us a win so we lose when gambling. But when we win, we will praise those with us and even buy them food and drinks.

In gambling, we should not blame other people for our losses. We have to know that winning and losing are things that always change when playing gambling. We must understand that if we don't want to experience loss, we don't need to gamble. We can still look for other fun activities that don't require a lot of money to get that pleasure.

We also have to remember that you only need to play gambling in moderation and don't need to use a lot of money. By always making restrictions, we can enjoy gambling as it should. We must always remember that gambling is just for fun in our spare time.

Its just the attitude of people is so harsh towards their acceptance on their loses since they usually find people to blame and they didn't take the full accountability on the action they done. That's why its hard to celebrate a win together with this people who have this attitude since when they lose they point the blame on us around them since they maybe say that he's out of focus because we are disturbance on his side. I encounter a lot of people like this that's why I usually avoid them.

We should not really blame people towards what we experience since at the end we are the one who held accountable on all actions we do.

Well, that's what happened all along. They easily blame other people for what they get from gambling. They say that this is because other people do not agree with them.

We will not be able to change their attitude like that. They will just be like that and will continue to blame the people around them if they lose. Just leave them like that and we should avoid them. I also avoid people like that just because I don't want to be blamed by them.

They should immediately realize what they are doing. Otherwise, they will lose out on what they do. No one would want to be around them if only to be blamed.

actually it is not only gambling that they are blaming instead everything that they can point fingers is to be blamed , that is how immature most gamblers in the world they cannot just accept the fact that they are stupid loser who tries multiplying their money but when they did not succeed they will blame everyone/everything.

Right, if you to blame something for your losses, then blame you luck, blame the stars or whatever, but don't blame other people. It's actually bad for your mental health, blaming the others. You will become unstable and it can affect your day to day life in negative way.

Can I blame your nickname ? :D I lose only when I place wrong bets, bet wrong, Betwrong :D

People were always blaming others and will continue to do that because a person must have huge balls to admit that he was wrong. Besides, people are mentally focus on the win only. Losing is not an option, and when they lose, there must be a reason for that. Reason in someone or something, but not in themselves. Futhermore, people are lazy to think about consequences that lead to a loss. Easier  and quicker is to blame, then to think.

It should be like that. But as you know, most gamblers never really think about the consequences that will happen to them when gambling. I agree with the OP that there are some gamblers who can win at gambling and open a business. But look how many gamblers there are like that? How many gamblers think carefully and understand the risks when gambling? I have several friends who are in debt and destroying themselves because of their gambling addiction. But I also have friends who are wise gamblers who gamble just for fun. Unfortunately, I don't have any friends who are successful from gambling and can open a business.

If all they got is a loss, yeah but if it's a win, I don't think it is called blaming but more like thanking them because they think they are responsible for their win but there are some who don't act like that. Each people has their own rights and some people are not into gambling, so they can't just force these people to agree with them if they ask them.

There might still be a chance for these blamer gambler to change, most especially if we talk about their problem and suggest them things that they can do about it. They need a help, so we should not avoid them even though it can be hard for us at first, if we are not used to being blamed.

And hence the nickname. Always assume are betting wrong, be ready for that, be ready to lose your bet. Enjoy the game, not the potential win. And then maybe, if Lady Luck will smile at you, you can win. But don't count on that.

It is a truth universally acknowledged, that blaming others for our losses is a bad practice. We all know that, but we forget about it sometimes.

Blaming others is not a good practice of being a gambler, you need to be accountable on your own deeds because no one force you to do that in the first place. Blaming others while you already know that you were the one who failed and you were the one who didn't follow your own rules, you became rash in your actions without knowing what the consequences would be is just a reflection of being an irresponsible gambler for me, you can't admit to yourself the mistakes you made.

That is basically human nature, not everyone is like that of course but there are many people who are like that of course. This is why I believe that we should be careful with what we are doing, and try to not hurt anyone else.

The most common one is towards casinos, most people think that they were scammed because the casino is rigged, but the reality is that casinos ARE rigged, with house edge, a legal way that they let you know before you even start gambling. That house edge literally means you will lose, and people are still shocked that they lose, what did they expected? In the end, let them say whatever they want to say when they lose, there is really nothing to do and we should be considering this as normal.

Gambling is a big risky activity that need big mentality to take responsibility for the actions. Engaging in gambling is conscious choices. Blaming others takes away from that ownership of choice and prevents learning from mistakes. Responsible gamblers analyze their actions that have opportunity to identify what went wrong and how to avoid it next time. Recognizing mistakes is a sign of strength, not weakness. It allows you to adjust your behavior and make better choices in the future.

Gambling can be tough, but you're in control. Taking responsibility for actions is a powerful tool to have a right mindset on how to have good experience in gambling. Gamblers need to apply some strategies to stick on limits of money and time. Having excuse and blaming others are anxiety that could keep haunting in mind. that is not a healthy situation to have.

Gambling is indeed a realm where personal responsibility and mindset play crucial roles. Acknowledging that each bet, win, or loss is a result of one’s own decisions is crucial. It’s easy to place blame elsewhere, but true growth and enjoyment in gambling come from owning our choices.
In essence, the journey to being a responsible gambler is about embracing accountability, learning from our experiences, and continuously striving to make informed, conscious choices. It’s a mindset that not only applies to gambling but to many aspects of life, fostering a sense of empowerment and resilience.

The choice to gamble is of the gambler itself. So anybody to blame in themselves. Now it is a common human defense mechanism to shift the blame on another person or object or concept. The moment a gambler realizes this, they will understand their mistake and stop gambling, which does not happen and they continue blaming others.

It is a vicious cycle and but it can be controlled right at the early stage with professional help. Luck does not come with superstition, it comes on its own and in gambling luck will only favor the casino and not the player.

That's why every gambler must be responsible, which means being responsible for their decision to gamble, everyone has the choice to gamble or not, if they want to gamble they should understand all the risks because gambling is not only about winning but also the risk of losing too. That's why gamblers often make unnecessary mistakes when gambling because most of them don't understand the risks, they only know how to gamble and think they'll win, but when they lose they blame other people, not themselves.

Every gambler has the choice not to gamble and stop gambling because in life there is always a choice to choose one of them, following greedy behavior and being in a vicious circle are things that we are used to hearing about for gamblers, that's why every gambler must be able to control himself so that don't overdo it and get addicted to gambling, let alone making unnecessary mistakes, as a gambler you should also know that the dealer will always win and the gambler will always lose, that's something we've heard all along so don't gamble too much because the results are useless. , unless there is fun in it, the story will be different.

Does blaming bring back the lost money? Absolutely no!

It's normal for humans to blame someone for their misfortunes not only in gambling but in every aspect of our lives. It's actually very hard for people to accept responsibility for their wrong decisions. Losing money makes some people to lose their mind as well since they are not gambling for fun and they end up blaming either the casinos or others around them for their loss. What they failed to understand is lose is usually accompanied with a bad luck as a result of bad decisions you made. I know every lose is due to one reason or another but you make the decision that lead to it and should take full responsibility. It's hard but we have to deal with it. We must learn to separate emotions from decision making processes because emotion is the number one reason for making irrational decisions.

We become lucky and ready to have one of the flowing sites that generated huge earnings for us because we've been through a whole lot lately. We should always take to heart that there's only two solid outcomes that will be experienced each time we gamble, it's either you're on the winning team or losing end, that makes sense to everyone in the system. We gamble because we're after the money that comes our way and that's usually one of the terrible aspects of gambling.

People who win will not blame others around them. But when they lose, they start blaming others and cannot accept their defeat. Some people still make that mistake.

If they still blame other people, they should immediately stop gambling. They will indirectly trigger arguments with other people. If they meet someone with a tough temper, they will immediately fight because that person doesn't want to be blamed for someone else's defeat.

That's why if we see people gambling, we don't need to get too close to them. We don't know what will happen next, so we have to look at the situation first to avoid any trouble.

Blaming others won't get the money back, right? People naturally escape accountability when things go wrong. As emotions run high in gambling, the blame game intensifies. Losing is almost always due to choices, often bad ones. I know it hurts, but that's life.

Emotions cloud judgment. It's life, not gambling. Accepting their orders? A disaster risk.  The finest gamblers and people learn from their mistakes. No complaints. Players take risks, but the brightest bet wisely. They set limits, experience the thrill, then leave when done. You win at the tables and in life by playing that way, my friends.

I think no one should blame gambling because everyone knows that gambling is risky and due to gambling many people are lossing their money therefore it is necessary that don't step towards risky or useless fields that waste your whole money but never give you profit and satisfaction.

People know everything but they don't accept their fault and put all blame on the field but I think that gambling does not force you to loss your money but its you that don't think positively and just work according to your greed.

The fact is that people who put the blame of the outcome of their action on others, will not learn to prevent such action in future. This is because, they will fail to understand that what they did was the wrong move, because they believed that it was someone that led them wrongly. Instead of blaming themselves for their own actions, this is why they will keep on blaming people for their losses.

It is a very bad habit, because even in addiction, they will blame gamble for that, when they gamble for profit and fail to understand that gamble is not a means of making money, they will blame whoever introduced them to gamble. This is why I don't like telling anyone that I gamble apart from my close friends that we gamble together. To avoid any blame on me.

Gambling is an activity and you can’t really fault an activity for someone having either a positive out a negative outcome from indulging in it. You can’t blame gambling for whatever outcome that you get. You partook willingly in the activity and should be responsible enough to accept whatever outcome that comes out of it with a brave face.

Gambling is never to be faulted as being responsible for our losses as we aren’t forced to partake in the activity. Why blame something or someone else for the outcome of an activity we willingly indulged in while being fully aware of how the outcome could go either way.

Actually it's very rare to see someone who has successfully gambled and were able to make good money off gambling enough to start up a business because gambling is usually a thing that has got to do with luck most of the times and just a few times people actually get lucky enough to win huge sums and then for the wise ones they will be able to set up a business and aswell do other things which will actually appear like a wise use of the funds and actually make good use of it to the point they get to make good money off the business they have set up from the funds they were able bro get gambling, sometimes even such records comes with a whole lot of been able to have successfully gambled in a very responsible manner.

It's actually really rare to be able to gamble and make money of gambling responsibly and that's why a few ends up becoming addicts because they never get to realize that they can only make fun of gambling and only a few times they are lucky they would be able to make huge money off it.

Man, blame is pointless. You must own your life. Nobody gets a perfect hand, but how you play them matters

People think badly of gambling, but it's really just a show of the same events we go through every day. Chasing cash? Right then, things get dangerous. The house is built with an edge. But that rush to defy the odds and beat the system? Man, it's primitive. Know that you're playing for fun, not survival

Keeping your gambling circle tight, that's smart. However, life is a gamble, right? Everyday, you wager on yourself. Bet smart, laugh at the ridiculousness, and don't risk what you can't lose. The real gain is the wacky stories, lessons learnt, and self-understanding, not the money

The difference between wise people and stupid people is that when they are advised, wise people when advised will reflect and try to be introspective about their mistakes and bad behavior, while stupid people will feel offended and try to justify their mistakes and bad behavior. What is he doing.

And the easiest way to justify the mistakes we make is to blame others. Even though it is considered bad behavior, there are still many people who behave like this.

Apart from people's negative attitudes towards gambling because of the risks and negative impacts it causes, it is necessary to understand that in life there are many things that are just gambling or risk. Good control over gambling games is necessary, it is the main key in managing gambling activities better, so that these activities do not disturb our financial balance and daily productivity. Life does involve taking risks, but it is also important to make smart decisions and not take risks we cannot afford. The real benefits of life experience come from learning, self-awareness, and experience, not just money.

And we are seeing a lot of such examples, even on this forum too. They should blame their greed for them getting addicted to gambling not the gambling itself. A crack addict shouldn't blame coca plant, an obese person shouldn't blame food for their obesity.

Yes one should first control his greed in gambling otherwise this person will become a big reason for gambling addiction very quickly.  Gambling site games behave the same for everyone so it is foolish to blame the games, if someone panics and over greedy gambles for long and loses gambling then it is entirely his own responsibility. The foolishness of blaming others to avoid one's own fault will not solve it

Indeed, although some gambling addicts might say that this is not the case. I read couple of times someone claiming that a "program" is watching him and makes him lose when he places higher bets. Can you imagine that! Some people really lose their mind because of the addiction. The games are the same for everyone and since only 5% of all gamblers are getting addicted, it's a tragedy, of course, but they should be blaming themselves and no one else.

One of the stages, once the player has already experienced a loss streak, is to blame the game itself, it's part of the reflexes of the people who experience heavy feelings to blame something so at least makes their feeling well, if you are a gambler and would like to seek as gambling could make your life change, could be or not if you are lucky enough be part of the people who enjoy their profits with huge multipliers. Gambling is not all about the money, its all about strategy and emotional capability to think and manage the risk.

I just want to say that if you are trying to apply various strategies to purely luck-based games, it can end up very poorly. And no emotional capability to think will help you there either. And then if you lose, you should blame no one but yourself. But if you are talking about bankroll management, it makes sense. Indeed it's possible to organize your finances allocated for gambling the way that your losses will never hurt you, and since some wins are possible too, your gambling experience will be overall enjoyable.

Exactly, applying several strategies means that someone is really serious or really really wants to win but the problem is that they are wrong in applying their seriousness which is where they apply all their dedication to a place that is actually based on luck which is basically whatever you do and whatever you apply that you believe can bring victory, then in the end you will get nothing but greater disappointment when it turns out that the results at the end of the session do not match your expectations, and this is the reason why previously I often said that don't just apply limits. on the budget or engagement time but also limit your expectations or expectations on winning.

If we talk about financial management then yes of course this is something that must be paid attention to or should not be ignored by all gamblers, because after all it doesn't matter how rich you are when you gamble without any management such as budget limits then it is clear that you will be very it is easy to lose everything you have in a short period of time, this means minimizing the budget allocation for gambling such as only gambling with small amounts of course it can minimize the possibility of significant amounts of loss, but this idea must also be accompanied by a time limit for gambling.

Right, if your expectations are high you start blaming the game if they are not fulfilled. But if you think of it, it's not actually games' fault they you didn't win. Game was designed the way so that some people were winning and others were losing at the same time, and you just was the unlucky one that should lose at that moment. In another moment you can be the lucky that should win. That's how it works. And the amount of won money(by all gamblers playing this game) is a bit smaller than the amount of lost money. The difference is the house edge. That's how casinos stay afloat.  

This is what usually happens when gamblers experience defeat, they will blame themselves for gambling, even though they should know that gambling excessively is not good, let alone making gambling the goal of wanting to make money, obviously they will definitely be blamed when they lose. After all, why do people like that never know and realize that gambling is not only about winning and losing but also about pleasure that cannot be measured in money or anything, in fact it is much more important than taking it too seriously.

Every gambler should be aware that gambling will always make mistakes and also experience defeat, therefore they must understand the process because if you don't want to accept reality, don't gamble because gambling must be full of your own awareness to be able to face all the risks, because gamblers who really gamble They won't think about all the risks because they will only gamble for fun and don't care if they make mistakes or experience losses because that is part of gambling that must be accepted gracefully without complaining about the losses and mistakes made when gambling.

It is not that unnecessary when people lose money.For example yesterday at a Pragmatic Play slot I experienced the worse session of my life and blaming Pragmatic I don't think it is unnecessary,I know no one gives a shit if someone loses money but it makes you really relieve  tension if I started yelling and swearing against this provider yesterday.I know that is my fault that I choose such a provider to play but yelling and blaming is beneficial to one mental health as it makes them feel better.

I agree with this. Sometimes I feel better from playing slots for 20 minutes than from watching a TV show or a video on YouTube for the same amount of time. I'm not comparing it with educational programs, but if we are doing something solely for our entertainment, gambling can be a way to go. I mean, TV shows and videos on YouTube are free, but there are many things that are not free and we pay for them to be entertained. In this regard gambling is a legit competitor to those things. And then the problem of unnecessary blaming on gambling will be solved.

Yes, everyone intention and goal is to make money such as how your time will also come gambling is something I know it’s a Patience is not just what you want that moment. Yes always have the side of whenever you place your game so as to be patient if you lost to because you would definitely win one day at least get the right strategy ask question do the writing thing you would definitely record some winning and it’s not something you should be worried about your winning time. Will come one day don’t blame yourself for losing.