stop the unnecessary blame on gambling whenever you get unlucky

[Natsuu]

what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B.

This is where people do usually mess up on the time that they would really be trying out to mimic someone specially if they have been able to win up something big and on the time that mindset and emotion has been fixed on this way then it would really be creating out that kind of imaginary approach towards gambling on which they would really be trying it out to make it happen on the same way for themselves and this is why people do really end up on having that miserable lives because of those wrong assumptions on which they do really believe that they could really be able to get out safe.
If you are lucky then you might be able to achieve those things but if not then you would really be ending up on regretting.

Regrets are always at the end, this is why it would really be that important that you should really know on when to get in and when to get out on certain conditions
on which it would really be just that a normal thing.

Right. Trying to mimic someone else's success in gambling can lead to a tricky mindset. It's easy to get caught up in the idea that you'll hit the jackpot too and regret often kicks in when things don't pan out. Knowing when to step in and more importantly, when to step out is so important

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[Betwrong]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.
 Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do. My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.
 I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

Although for some people gambling indeed has given the capital to start whatever business they want to do and for others the money they could live from during the rest of their lives, no one should count on the same fate. We should be aware that it's possible and may hope that it will happen to us too, but we must know the probability of us losing is slightly higher than that of winning. And then later, if we lose, we shouldn't blame anyone but ourselves, because we knew that that was the most probable outcome.

[Majestic-milf]

 People will always need to blame someone for their misfortunes especially when it comes to gambling but you'd hardly accrediting their successes to someone else and that's the funny thing about life. I have a friend who I keep my distance from if I know he lost because any thing I say may be used against me.  ..gamblers ought to know that there are good days as well as there are bad, the same way you celebrate when you rake in a win, also take it in same stride when you lose so that way you can keep a cool head when staking the next time.
 Although is not everyone who does that blaming act, these set of people when they lose, they'll quietly leave without looking for who to blame or even causing any problem. We should know that the main reason why they blame someone is  to pass on that anger to the nearest victim to express themselves and sometimes it get them in a fight, so is best to avoid anyone who has lost a bet if not you become the devil that made them lose.

[Outhue]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.
 Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do. My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.
 I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

It takes some grace for gamblers who won from gambling to invest the money on something good, majority of them would rather keep gambling to make more money so stop saying that people are winning and having a change of life through gambling, not all of them are free from the gaze of gambling, it's not as that easy.

Those who are warning gamblers about the self destruction in gambling are not saying it wrong, they are right and accurate about it, do you know how easy it is to lose everything in gambling? Gambling can easily hinder your future plans if care isn't taken, that's why I believe that gambling is not for everybody, some people are so weak at taking the right decisions in life and some gets too attached to everything they do.

You should not blame gambling when you are unlucky and you should not rely on gambling as your source of income, it's about luck and it's never going to work out for you everytime you gamble, for a lot of people, it's better not to gamble at all and do something else, because when its the time to stop it can be difficult to put an end to everything.

[Richbased]

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Whomsoever that's putting blame on gambling for making their life unbearable or drawing their dreams backwards doesn't even have a vision for their future because you can't tell me that a game you actually know that there are two things involved, either you lose or you win then you focused all your energy and money towards it with the belief that it will make you rich in life. Gambling itself is a risk and the gambler is also taking a risk as well so one ought to be mindful of how they take risk as there is an extent with which you can go in taking a risk and you will fail and find it difficult to rise again in life.

One shouldn't take because gambling also have the possibility to make one wealthy and now take gambling as a habit to extent that you can't even go a day without playing gamble and one shouldn't take because you're inquisitive of winning and deprive yourself of some life obligations you needed to achieve just because of gambling. Gambling of a truth has made some persons in life and also damaged the life of some people but the possibility of winning is very far from the possibility of losing because most gamblers always experience losses it's only few that have made it through gambling so this statistics is good enough to ring a bell to people to be careful when going about their gambling life. A game that you knew the possibility of losing is higher than that of winning means you ought to be very careful while going about it.

[EarnOnVictor]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.
 Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do. My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.
 I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

This is why the government ensures that you reach a certain age before you gamble and do some other adult things. This is for you to make an informed decision at that age, not the one that they make for you, and if someone could decide to gamble as an adult, that is his decision and not another person's decision, so why blame another person or try to shift the blame? As an adult, you should know your right from your left and wrong from right, and if you make any decision, you should be ready to face the consequences thereafter either good or bad. Gambling has been there for ages and once you are not being forced, you should not cry foul. You do not have the right to blame a friend, family, your country's situation and not even the house, because you should have known what you are signing for as a result before you do so.

I often laugh when I see a lot on the internet when it is an emotional discussion about gambling, that is not necessary. I do say that emotion is a weakness, gambling could severely affect your life if care is not taken, so as an adult, you do not just dabble into a thing simple because your friend introduced it to you or you just found out they are doing it one way or another. You have to first research about it, then you learn it if you so desire to participate. And through learning, you should be able to know the good and the bad side of it, and after all these you still proceed in it, then you and only you are to be blamed.

[ethereumhunter]

People should not have to scream because they think that gambling is destroying them. If they can use gambling properly, their lives will not be ruined and they can still enjoy gambling as entertainment. We don't need to blame gambling because gambling is neutral and depends on each person who uses it. If we use gambling excessively, we will get bad effects from gambling where we will lose money and not be able to buy anything or meet our daily needs. Those who complain that gambling has had a bad impact on them need to check their attitude towards gambling. If they find that they have used too much money, that means the fault is theirs because gambling never told them to gamble using a lot of money. Because of their own greed, they have to correct their mistakes by trying to control themselves and be disciplined and responsible when playing gambling.

[danherbias07]

I experienced both what Mr. A and Mr. B experienced so I don't play the pointing fighters or the blame game.

Yeah, I also hate those who blame gambling for their own mistakes. It's a simple rule, you play with risk and be sure that you are ready for the consequences because you either win or lose and it's up to you.
There's always the other choice, don't gamble at all. That way, you neither win or lose.
Gambling sites will always be rigged, it's a business, not a charity. They cannot just give away money to people while they are enjoying the game. Imagine if every player is a winner. I don't think we should call that gambling.
There's another choice to have a higher percentage of winning, sports betting. If you know your sports then you will definitely have a high chance to win a bet and I've seen a lot of gamblers do that.
Casino games are where most gamblers lose, and get rekt, this is where they play the blame game, it's because they are playing against the house, unlike sports betting where you are guessing who will win or lose.

[Dave1]

And it's a bad sign of gamblers upon losing, are blaming everyone if they are unlucky, it could be on how they cope. But still we should be man enough to admit to ourselves that there's no one to blame here but ourselves on the bad consequences.

So we have to think again if we have to gamble the next time. That if we losses, we should exit the screen, or if we a playing online, go home empty pocket but then just be quiet and plan our next move. Maybe to play again or just simply stop for the time being.

[KiaKia]

You are right, if you know what you are going into you should be fully prepared and things will go fine for you, but OP, do you know that there are some serious gamblers that are responsible and they never get lucky with gambling?

The good part is gambling failed to ruin them, because they stick to their strategy of using few dollars on gambling.

Gambling can't be blamed, it's people that are surrendering to their greed with gambling, I as a person, gambling can never hurt me because I am never going to give more than I can afford to gambling all in the name of I could get lucky.

It's either you never get lucky in gambling and you are still doing well in life or you are not lucky in gambling and you are doing all you can to get lucky, which I believe that the latter idea will get you in serious trouble, if luck doesn't find you, don't desperately look for it.

[piebeyb]

Consciously, people who gamble should have agreed to the risks of the gambling they are doing, but after they make mistakes and lose, it actually makes them forget about the agreement they agreed to at the start, that's why every gambler who experiences defeat will never want to stop playing gambling because they don't want to experience defeat and lose money so they try to recover all their losses with the remaining money they have even though it will make them poor and bankrupt in the end.

Every gambler will definitely make mistakes and also experience defeat, therefore it is important to instill it in our mindset when gambling that in gambling there are not only wins but also defeats which must be understood, accepting the reality that when you experience defeat there is no point in blaming yourself, let alone other people. Other than that, whatever has been agreed at the beginning before playing gambling, you definitely have to accept the final result, even if it is disappointing and you lose money from gambling itself. I also hope that those who gamble really understand that when they lose, what they have to do is limit each budget and always bet. Use unused money so you don't complain after losing. 

[Mia Chloe]

It is normal human nature to always try to shift blame when something doesn't go as intended or planned and same thing applies when it comes to gambling. Many a time, when some gamblers lose stakes they end up attributing blame in one way or the other however it is of no use. More experienced gamblers in same situation also feel the pain of losing but accept the fact that they lost.
Refusing to accept the fact that one lost a stake based on your personal decision can cause such person to possibly make mistakes in their next stake making them to lose.

[len01]

gambling is actually just an activity that is easy to understand and an enjoyable activity for those who know how gambling works and can understand what things to avoid.
It's just that, nowadays most gamblers fail to understand gambling and they only think that gambling is a place to make money or a place to double money.
on the one hand, those who think like this are the first signs of gamblers who will regret it when their savings run out and start blaming other parties, such as blaming the gambling party or blaming other people.
In this case, of course we will often see many gamblers who are very happy and throw a party when they get a big win but they will cry and get angry blaming gambling when a losing streak drains their savings.

I always have the same advice as usual if you really want to be a healthy gambler without getting bad effects, try to keep pressing our minds to understand that gambling will not give us large amounts unless we are lucky and luck will not be obtained every day but only once a lifetime (big luck)
and also always teach our own minds to think that gambling is a business to provide benefits to its customers with pleasure and will provide monetary profits for the casino owner.
so you don't need to bother spending excessive amounts of money, but gamble with a budget that you can afford to lose and still limit the budget and number of bets.
enjoy every game, think of it as just a game of luck.

[Queentoshi]

My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.

We know already that gambling is not bad, just an activity for fun that is usually abused by people because they fail to control themselves. People gamble for fun, and it has lots of health benefits. Lucky people will never be found blaming gambling, only unlucky people do. If you also check out from the lifestyle of these people, you notice that complaining and passing blames is just a part of them, they are also casting blames and complaining about other things in their life. People who take responsibility, and although they become gambling addicts will hardly blame gambling for their problems but blame themselves for not controlling themselves with gambling.

[Kelward]

First of all, gambling has nothing to do with investments. Gambling is a game, an expensive hobby, and like with many other hobbies, you have to keep your sanity and enjoy it in moderation. It is not all black, but not all white either.

Infact you just defined what gambling is, you said that it's an expensive hubby, and I totally agree with you, anybody that is going into gambling whether for fun or as a business should understand that it's where you will put your money and may not have any profit in return, therefore in that regard it's not a cheap hubby or business. So anybody that is going into gambling needs to be very well informed about how it works, that you have more chances of losing your money in it than winning. A major factor in gambling is luck, it does not guarantee that after staking that you will win, so if you blame gambling for your lose, then you're indirectly blaming your ignorance for not being knowledgeable enough to understand that gambling is a game where you will either lose or win.

[milewilda]

And it's a bad sign of gamblers upon losing, are blaming everyone if they are unlucky, it could be on how they cope. But still we should be man enough to admit to ourselves that there's no one to blame here but ourselves on the bad consequences.

So we have to think again if we have to gamble the next time. That if we losses, we should exit the screen, or if we a playing online, go home empty pocket but then just be quiet and plan our next move. Maybe to play again or just simply stop for the time being.

One of the most common behavior of a losing gambling is that they would really be always loving on pointing out their fingers into someone or even into the platform itself that it is really that unfair or someone
who had told them to play on on which it is really just that a very casual.Some do play really just that for fun but most people would really be playing for the sake of money.On the time that they wont really be able to control their emotions then they wont really be stopping on playing until the very last money that they do have on their pockets or accounts. Gambling is really just that a matter of luck and this is really just that good for entertainment and if you are that someone whose really that going after for entertainment then you wont really be finding yourself that being that too desperate but if you are someone who do really goes after
for making money then getting impulsive would really be the main feelings or emotions or behavior that you would really be having on the time that you do gamble.

[borovichok]

It takes some grace for gamblers who won from gambling to invest the money on something good

I don`t think putting good use of the money won from gambling has anything to do with grace. Saying it takes grace is like relating it to some divine force and making it seem like it requires force to make proper use of gambling money. I don`t support that. To me, it`s about self-awareness and rationality. Self-awareness creates the consciousness and discipline necessary for utilizing gambling money properly. Even this discipline doesn`t start after a win but even during a stake. That is gambling in a way that you don`t run into problem gambling.

It should be known too that not every winning can easily be used for investment. For instance, can someone who stakes $10 and then wins $70 think of investment? sincerely, if it`s me, investment wouldn`t come to my mind because what kind of an investment can be done with $70? but then, If I win above $5000, I will make better use of the money. So, investment solely depends on how much was won.

do you know how easy it is to lose everything in gambling? Gambling can easily hinder your future plans if care isn't taken, that's why I believe that gambling is not for everybody, some people are so weak at taking the right decisions in life and some gets too attached to everything they do.

Yeah, it is so easy to lose in gambling because, by nature, gambling is a game of probability. In my opinion, the only certainty in gambling is that you MUST lose. Winning is never guaranteed. This is enough reason to put money won from gambling into good use. No one has ever played gambling to get ruined by it. So, why let this be the reality? Regardless that gambling has helped some persons, gambling has negatively affected others also. Some lost houses, cars, relationships, prospects etc. and that is why I concur that gambling is not for everyone. Know if it works for you and if it doesn`t quit.

You should not blame gambling when you are unlucky and you should not rely on gambling as your source of income, it's about luck and it's never going to work out for you everytime you gamble, for a lot of people, it's better not to gamble at all and do something else, because when its the time to stop it can be difficult to put an end to everything.

Gambling brings joy, riches and satisfaction to some gamblers and gamblers who attach greed to the game will always run into revenge gambling and when they are unlucky, they blame it on gambling. There is no need for blame games. Gambling works for you if you want it to. So, whether we see gamble from a positive or negative angle depends on the gambler. This can be likened to individuals who went to school but didn`t make it, their inability to graduate doesn`t make going to school bad.

[Crypt0Gore]

Everyone has their own ways of thinking but mind you, your way of thinking might be wrong, it doesn't mean it's wrong to believe in yourself but when something is too easy you should be curious why, gambling isn't for everyone, it's not a dream land or a wish granting wardrobe, going into a casino, what is the first thing that comes to your mind? That you are going to be lucky? There is no different sun that will arise to make you believe that it's yet another one of those luck days for you.

Gambling isn't to be blamed for your loss, it's you that want to make money the easy ways, and any way ways if making money comes with greater risks, you need to then learn how to manage the risk well or you risk paying for the price, hard working is exchangeable for money, but luck to money should be obviously way harder than anything.

I don't deceive myself when gambling like many people do, that's why I am always surprised when I win money unexpectedly, it feels way better because I don't risk too much and at the same time I am not expecting too much either.

[noormcs5]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.

We do gambling by our own choice. No one forced us to go gambling and we knew that profit and loss, is a part of gambling. So in case we loss any amount in gambling, there is no use to blame the gambling site. Also, gambling sites will not refund us the money in case we start to blame them. For us, gambling is just a game, for them (the gambling sites) it is the business and all the win by the gamblers is a profit for them.

I do not understand why people start crying after they lose their hard earned money in gambling. If the money is so crucial to them, they should have limit their gambling activities so that they do not lose much amount. Even if they lose more, they should be using only that money which is not so crucial for them. Playing the blame game will not recover the loss and also it will only create frustration in the gambler.

[Findingnemo]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.
 Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do. My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.
 I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

Winning while gambling is just depends on the probability so we never know when we will win and when we will lose, gambling can indeed give money that can change life into a fortune but it doesn't mean one who gambles should aim for that because it is an incident that is totally unpredictable and happen rarely than a loss so just understand the fact if you bet 100 bets in luck based game then you may win 10 bets and loss 90 bets or it can be totally other way that is why we call its game of luck.

Blaming the form you are doing even when you know these facts, then its wrong or you are just ignorant about gambling and still chose to do it which is also wrong.