stop the unnecessary blame on gambling whenever you get unlucky

[maydna]

Those are immature behaviour of people/gamblers who doesn't want to attest their responsibilities when gambling. These are same people who always regrets their moves and blaming others is their defense mechanism to make them feel good after gambling. This also happens when emotions controls your moves and decisions. In simple terms, these are behaviour of problematic gambler.

They can blame gambling all they want but it is not gambling fault if they want to gamble in the first place.These persons are not responsible as they only realize when they finish their session and see they have lost money then they say it is the casino fault because they exist and I could not resist the temptation.If this person can't control himself then it is his fault which generates all the bad things that happen after that.

They will never realize that it was actually their fault. Even though they already know, they don't want to admit it and instead blame it on gambling, and that really isn't a responsible gambler. Losing money in gambling is a normal thing, but we don't need to lose large amounts of money because we are the ones who have to control ourselves when gambling. We also must not fall too deep into gambling and must be able to consider gambling as entertainment so that we will not be influenced by anything we see in the casino. And if they can use gambling as entertainment, they will definitely not blame gambling because they realize that if they lose a lot, it is because they cannot stop themselves from gambling.

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[Westinhome]

Thats the advantage on having a bigger bankroll on which you could really be able not to make yourself having those kind of adjustments on your gambling activity and having that
possible recovery if ever you would turn out to be lucky but of course it wouldnt really be still that a guarantee because we know that once things turns out to be messy or simply you arent that
lucky enough then chances on wrecking yourself hard would really be there. Blaming? Its a common human being behavior on which they are really that having that kind of behavior on the time
that you would really be suffering extreme loss. There are ones who could be able to control out but there are ones who dont be able to do so.

The gambler who loss the money in the gambling site can able to make the same money in the gambling site alone.Because their was a might,we should search the thing where we lost.So this was reason for the gambler to do gambling after the loss.But the gambler who do gambling with the random bet will loss the money in the short while.The gambler should create a strategy for the game that strategies will help him to make huge money in the future game.Many people think that the gambler who loss the money will not able to recover in the future.But the gambling skills help him to recover the big money losses in gambling site.

[Quidat]

Those are immature behaviour of people/gamblers who doesn't want to attest their responsibilities when gambling. These are same people who always regrets their moves and blaming others is their defense mechanism to make them feel good after gambling. This also happens when emotions controls your moves and decisions. In simple terms, these are behaviour of problematic gambler.

They can blame gambling all they want but it is not gambling fault if they want to gamble in the first place.These persons are not responsible as they only realize when they finish their session and see they have lost money then they say it is the casino fault because they exist and I could not resist the temptation.If this person can't control himself then it is his fault which generates all the bad things that happen after that.

They will never realize that it was actually their fault. Even though they already know, they don't want to admit it and instead blame it on gambling, and that really isn't a responsible gambler. Losing money in gambling is a normal thing, but we don't need to lose large amounts of money because we are the ones who have to control ourselves when gambling. We also must not fall too deep into gambling and must be able to consider gambling as entertainment so that we will not be influenced by anything we see in the casino. And if they can use gambling as entertainment, they will definitely not blame gambling because they realize that if they lose a lot, it is because they cannot stop themselves from gambling.

One of the main reasons on why people would really be continuing for them to play just because they cant really just that accept that they have lost their bets and they do know that there's nothing wrong with their selection on which it do comes into a point that they are really that blaming something that there's something wrong like this and like that on which it is really that a laughable thing.
Why they cant really just that accept the fact that they had really been that able to make mistakes which we know that gambling isnt always on the winning side. If we do lost a bet then
its better to move on and just that call it a day rather than on pushing yourself into betting just because you cant really just that accept yourself that you are on the losing side. lol

[passwordnow]

Blame game is normal for most of us when we're too emotionally attached on that time we gamble. Disappointing bets that are there and seemingly going to take care of themselves but then, in the end we're losing. I just can't take the idea of having someone to blame because we're losing. That is a sign of being immature and when you're like that, you definitely have to grow up and avoid being the blamer of your own actions.

Can't stop themselves from blaming gambling because blaming themselves is more pathetic but eventually they will realize it after the regrets.

Regrets do come at the end and when they realize that they've been beaten by the games they've bet on then that's totally fine on their end to analyze their mistakes and bets on that moment. The blaming comes when you just can't point your finger to yourself and that's why it is essential that you need to make up this thing on your own and be the man that have gambled and understood that losing is part of the game and you'll not lose if you don't gamble at all. For this matter, you're unlucky and just accept the reality that not at all times even if we feel that luck is with us, it is just not there.

[killerfrost]

Viewing it as pure entertainment, devoid of guaranteed rewards, is crucial to avoid the pitfalls of addiction and emotional distress. The initial excitement of gambling can be intoxicating. The potential for quick wins, the adrenaline rush of a close call, it's all very seductive. But it's vital to remember that gambling is designed to be a zero-sum game, where the house always wins in the long run.

The problem arises when people mistake gambling for a viable path to wealth. They start chasing wins, pouring in more money, and eventually, the entertainment turns into an obsession. This is where the emotional toll becomes evident. Losses sting, leading to self-blame and despair. The cycle repeats, fueled by the mistaken belief that the next bet will be the one to turn things around.

So, how do we break this cycle? It all starts with accepting the inherent randomness of gambling. There's no guaranteed outcome, no magic formula for success. Instead, approach it as a leisure activity, with set limits and clear boundaries. Treat your bets like the price of entertainment, not an investment.

[bitvalak]

I am a person who believes that gambling is not a place to earn money. Gambling for me is entertainment, where when I really want to find pleasure I will gamble. I will stop when I win, and will stop when the money I brought is gone. There are no regrets when playing.
For some people, gambling may be a negative thing because many people fall into addiction which affects their lives significantly. People who blame their losses at the gambling table are usually people who are frustrated because they didn't get the win they expected.

[Antotena]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.
 Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do. My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.
 I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

When it actually favour them, they would forget about the banting and say Gambling is good and gambling has change my life but just because there own decisions didn't favour them, they will blame everything on gambling for ruining their life, I thought all consequences has action and there is equal and opposite reaction. You know gambling is 50-50, no other out of it but when it doesn't just go as you want cry as victim when nobody even force them to gamble.

If you believe that anytime you bet and you expect nothing, there is nothing that will ever disappoint you in gambling, you will even be surprised anytime you win gambling and that's what bring the fun of it but when you are too focus and expect to win and you don't win, you will hate gambling forever and it's when you force it get worser.

[SeaCoinCollector.]

Winning and losing can happen when you gamble. Although some have made money, others have been ruined. Personal accountability and making well-informed choices are very important. Nevertheless, addiction and hurt are real issues that need to be addressed by society and need support systems. Knowing both the pros and cons of gaming is very important.

[Hirose UK]

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The gambler who loss the money in the gambling site can able to make the same money in the gambling site alone.Because their was a might,we should search the thing where we lost.So this was reason for the gambler to do gambling after the loss.But the gambler who do gambling with the random bet will loss the money in the short while.The gambler should create a strategy for the game that strategies will help him to make huge money in the future game.Many people think that the gambler who loss the money will not able to recover in the future.But the gambling skills help him to recover the big money losses in gambling site.

What is clear is that mistakes will always occur to gamblers who fail to have good mindset and management, they will feel what is called being controlled by their own desires.
But it does not rule out the possibility that gamblers who have large bankrolls can get satisfactory results and this is not just matter of luck but also how they use good strategy in gambling.
There will be conditions where the gambler experiences defeat and there will be conditions where the gambler can win, all of which will have bad impact if the gambler himself cannot have the right approach.
So far, from personal experience and observation of various gamblers that I know, on average they are gamblers who always experience failure in limiting themselves and when faced with opportunities, they make mistakes more often.
Only their mindset and how much control they have can change all of this into result that meets expectations.

It possible that making money will happen if win comes, but doesn't gambling guarantee defeat?
We have to be able to think up to this point if we really want to be smarter gamblers and not easily make mistakes.
We have to be able to think that gambling is actually not place to make money but a place to spend or waste some money.

[maydna]

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One of the main reasons on why people would really be continuing for them to play just because they cant really just that accept that they have lost their bets and they do know that there's nothing wrong with their selection on which it do comes into a point that they are really that blaming something that there's something wrong like this and like that on which it is really that a laughable thing.
Why they cant really just that accept the fact that they had really been that able to make mistakes which we know that gambling isnt always on the winning side. If we do lost a bet then
its better to move on and just that call it a day rather than on pushing yourself into betting just because you cant really just that accept yourself that you are on the losing side. lol

People continue to gamble after experiencing loss because they cannot accept their loss easily, and they see that they still have some money that they can use to gamble, so they decide to continue gambling. They know it could cause them to lose even more money, but they still want to try to recover their losses and chase the next win. Continuing to gamble is not wrong, but they should be able to measure their own abilities, especially after seeing the defeats they have received, and it is better if they can stop gambling. They still have a lot of time to spend gambling, so by stopping gambling, they can reduce their tension and also rest. We cannot force ourselves to exceed our set limits because that could cause us to lose even more money.

[Gheka]

I am a person who believes that gambling is not a place to earn money. Gambling for me is entertainment, where when I really want to find pleasure I will gamble. I will stop when I win, and will stop when the money I brought is gone. There are no regrets when playing.
For some people, gambling may be a negative thing because many people fall into addiction which affects their lives significantly. People who blame their losses at the gambling table are usually people who are frustrated because they didn't get the win they expected.

Entertainment is just the expression you get in a time when things are not too chaotic, your mood has enough positivity to neutralize the negative things as well as the luck that comes from gambling, typically we have unexpected joys coming from family as well as happiness with love, even advancement in work performance, when luck is so surrounding, it's hard to blame some bad luck. While we have all the bad things of the day surrounding us, mindless cursing and blaming will appear, this situation is just not good for long, it's normal to force your mouth to say a few bad words, but you still shouldn't say too many hurtful things

[Betwrong]

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Its a good site for a gambler if he doesn't always imagine himself in terms of winning. Because a common complaint among gamblers is that they lose. Gamblers who can embrace the humanity of losing can manage to gamble successfully in the long run. A gambler who takes losing easily can never blame gambling. They rather try to find their faults there. Gambling involves winning and losing. Most of the time the losses will outnumber the wins. I think that simply accepting this defeat will reduce such type of blaming attitude.

What "faults" are you talking about? It looks like you think that if faults were identified, the number of losses would be reduced subsequently. But, in fact, no matter how much you analyze your play, you can't improve anything in purely luck-based games. Accepting defeat is a good attitude and it can improve your mood overall, but it will not make you win more.

[redsun114]

I would like to support OP. I am also tired when people complain and blame everyone when they lose in gambling. Especially I dont like when people say that casino make something special to make them lose. That casino on purpose do manipulations to get those couple of dollars that gambler has just bet. People must learn how to cope with their emotions.

I absolutely hate such people and can't bear them near me, especially those who blame the casino for their losses and think that there has been some sort of manipulation by the house to make them lose, I mean, why the hell would they need to do that just for $50 when they have players betting thousands of dollars every second?

Another category of such people is those who would first ask you for suggestions, and if you give them some suggestions and they act upon them, and if they lose money after doing that, they would start blaming you because they followed your suggestion and lost money. I mean, what the hell? You are the one forcing me to give you some suggestions and now you are blaming me for it, you were not forced to do what I said it was a mere suggestion. What's more ironic is that they would never give you any credit if they manage to win following your suggestion, lol.

[Hispo]

I would like to support OP. I am also tired when people complain and blame everyone when they lose in gambling. Especially I dont like when people say that casino make something special to make them lose. That casino on purpose do manipulations to get those couple of dollars that gambler has just bet. People must learn how to cope with their emotions.

I absolutely hate such people and can't bear them near me, especially those who blame the casino for their losses and think that there has been some sort of manipulation by the house to make them lose, I mean, why the hell would they need to do that just for $50 when they have players betting thousands of dollars every second?

Another category of such people is those who would first ask you for suggestions, and if you give them some suggestions and they act upon them, and if they lose money after doing that, they would start blaming you because they followed your suggestion and lost money. I mean, what the hell? You are the one forcing me to give you some suggestions and now you are blaming me for it, you were not forced to do what I said it was a mere suggestion. What's more ironic is that they would never give you any credit if they manage to win following your suggestion, lol.

That is not even about coping or venting, to be honest. Those examples are of people whoare not mature enough to be ready to take responsibility on their actions and where they put their money on. Those are people who one is supposed never to share betting advices with, it is just a mental trick done by them to avoid any self-accountabilty for money they were not even ready to wager in the first place.
I am not sure which of those two examples you talk about are worse, then compared one against the other, but if I had to be forced to interact with either someone who blames the casino or someone who directly blames me, I would rather not to be personally attacked by anyone while I am just trying to get some amusement out my spare time.  

Also, pretty rude if someone does not even credit you for giving a good betting tip, at the very least one just expects and thank you. Not even money.

[Dewi Aries]

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Its a good site for a gambler if he doesn't always imagine himself in terms of winning. Because a common complaint among gamblers is that they lose. Gamblers who can embrace the humanity of losing can manage to gamble successfully in the long run. A gambler who takes losing easily can never blame gambling. They rather try to find their faults there. Gambling involves winning and losing. Most of the time the losses will outnumber the wins. I think that simply accepting this defeat will reduce such type of blaming attitude.

What "faults" are you talking about? It looks like you think that if faults were identified, the number of losses would be reduced subsequently. But, in fact, no matter how much you analyze your play, you can't improve anything in purely luck-based games. Accepting defeat is a good attitude and it can improve your mood overall, but it will not make you win more.

It seems that there are still some gamblers who don't really understand the concept of real gambling they are talking about something that is not fundamental, after all this is gambling and not a place that can turn someone into a rich man, and the idea of accepting mistakes for things that they think should not be done really has nothing to do with the results in the gambling they do, as you said even if they manage to identify their mistakes it will have nothing to do with the results at the end of the session, But identifying or knowing the mistakes and making changes is useful for a preventive measure, such as if you always suffer a lot of losses, then the problem and what should be changed is that you have to limit the time for involvement as well as the amount of budget allocated, and obviously this only leads to a preventive measure so that you no longer suffer large losses and does not mean that by doing this you can get bigger wins.

No matter what you do you will never be able to increase the winning percentage to a more "likely" one because the casino has everything organized behind the scenes, and that means you will only be able to win when you are really lucky, or your winnings depend on how lucky you are at the time of the session if you are involved in a purely lucky type of betting.

[Raflesia]

I would like to support OP. I am also tired when people complain and blame everyone when they lose in gambling. Especially I dont like when people say that casino make something special to make them lose. That casino on purpose do manipulations to get those couple of dollars that gambler has just bet. People must learn how to cope with their emotions.

Because in the end, something like this is not very ethical. We gamble without anyone's coercion and we already know the risks when gambling, there will definitely be situations where defeat has greater control so when we have lost, don't feel too much that we are cheated and blame others or whatever is around us because in the end things like that are very likely in gambling.
We must realize that what we do in gambling has its own risks so we just have to be prepared to accept the possibilities that inevitably occur.

We must try to be mature because blaming others for the mistakes made by ourselves, especially in gambling problems, is an immature act and things like this must be avoided.

[Quidat]

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One of the main reasons on why people would really be continuing for them to play just because they cant really just that accept that they have lost their bets and they do know that there's nothing wrong with their selection on which it do comes into a point that they are really that blaming something that there's something wrong like this and like that on which it is really that a laughable thing.
Why they cant really just that accept the fact that they had really been that able to make mistakes which we know that gambling isnt always on the winning side. If we do lost a bet then
its better to move on and just that call it a day rather than on pushing yourself into betting just because you cant really just that accept yourself that you are on the losing side. lol

People continue to gamble after experiencing loss because they cannot accept their loss easily, and they see that they still have some money that they can use to gamble, so they decide to continue gambling. They know it could cause them to lose even more money, but they still want to try to recover their losses and chase the next win. Continuing to gamble is not wrong, but they should be able to measure their own abilities, especially after seeing the defeats they have received, and it is better if they can stop gambling. They still have a lot of time to spend gambling, so by stopping gambling, they can reduce their tension and also rest. We cannot force ourselves to exceed our set limits because that could cause us to lose even more money.

And this is why they do mess up their lives because of those kind of false hopes on which this is something that should really be stopped mid-way.It would really be just that a normal reaction for someone who do have those kind of blaming time on the time that they would be losing money on which they cant just accept it on how its been possible but we do know that people do really have that kind of behavior on which it couldnt really be stopped. This is why it would be better that we should really just that ignore on whatever behavior that they would really be having.It is really
just that there are those people who cant really just that able to accept themselves as losers.

[Unbunplease]

If you approach gambling in a balanced and reasonable way, they are more likely to lead to earnings than to lose. Of course, you need to constantly restrain yourself, and try not to participate where there is virtually no human involvement, and absolutely everything is decided by chance, and embedded in the program creators. Study the topic of betting - and luck will accompany you

[arimamib]

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And this is why they do mess up their lives because of those kind of false hopes on which this is something that should really be stopped mid-way.It would really be just that a normal reaction for someone who do have those kind of blaming time on the time that they would be losing money on which they cant just accept it on how its been possible but we do know that people do really have that kind of behavior on which it couldnt really be stopped. This is why it would be better that we should really just that ignore on whatever behavior that they would really be having.It is really
just that there are those people who cant really just that able to accept themselves as losers.

That's the detrimental impact of false hopes and the refusal to accept losses, particularly in situations involving gambling or similar behaviors. The inability to accept defeat can indeed lead to a cycle of blame and potentially worsen one's situation. Ignoring such behavior may seem like a simple solution, but maybe thare is the underlying reasons behind these actions. Some people may struggle with self-acceptance and have difficulty coping with failure that leads them to seek validation through risky behaviors.

These issues need to be addressed which requires a multifaceted approach that involves not only acknowledging the behavior but also providing support and resources for people to develop healthier coping mechanisms and self-esteem. Encouraging self-reflection and seeking professional help when needed can be crucial steps in breaking the cycle of destructive behavior and fostering personal growth.

[Makus]

In my opinion, the reason for making the accepted gambling age 18 is because, at that age range your thinking and actions most have been mature enough for you to make good decisions for yourself. Any gambler who puts his blames on gambling after his unlucky trial, is just exhibiting a childish act. Though some persons do that in public casinos to attract help from others. But in the first place we were advised not to invest with more than what we can easily forget we used in gambling. That is, having a spare change for gambling rather than just gambling with whatever comes to your mind.