stop the unnecessary blame on gambling whenever you get unlucky

[terrific]

Why people most times condemn gambling is because the number of player's lives it has wrecked apart is far more greater than those it has helped. But with caution and the right approach, one can avoid being wreckless.

And the people that are coming back to it just to gamble again is also enormous. As long as you're aware with what you are up to, and specifically with gambling.
If you are unlucky, it's not gambling's fault but your fault because you chose to gamble and from there, you're not going to lose if ever you haven't gamble at all.

[lienfaye]

I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

Indeed. Before we use our money in gambling, it's crucial to know what we are getting into especially the consequences if the outcome is not favor in you. Chances to lose in gambling are very high, therefore we should be prepared for that situation. Because it's a big problem if you play and didn't take time to research and worse you use the money that you can't live without. That's the usual mistake of gamblers who don't have self control. They just go with the flow, placing wager without even thinking then will blame gambling if it didn't go as planned. Hence, if you want to gamble, make sure that you are aware how gambling works. Learn to have discipline so you'll not go beyond your limit. Lastly, be responsible enough to face the consequences of your action because no one force you to use your money in gambling. It is your own decision thus don't blame gambling or others if you happen to be in such situation.

[CODE200]

Let them do what they want OP, these people that are blaming themselves aren't going to stop anytime soon just because they're constantly reminded that it doesn't do anything to the game and that blaming leads to nothing, I think that it's best to let them do their thing. This kind of people will almost always come to their senses on their own and they'll stop eventually, if we don't want to be like this, the easiest solution would be to stop gambling, that's the easiest I think. Think of this as someone who believes in luck, there are some things that they can just explain so they leave the explanation as fate or luck, much easier that way, it's the same with these people blaming the game, they want some outlet for their frustrations.

[Gozie51]

Let them do what they want OP, these people that are blaming themselves aren't going to stop anytime soon just because they're constantly reminded that it doesn't do anything to the game and that blaming leads to nothing, I think that it's best to let them do their thing. This kind of people will almost always come to their senses on their own and they'll stop eventually, if we don't want to be like this, the easiest solution would be to stop gambling, that's the easiest I think. Think of this as someone who believes in luck, there are some things that they can just explain so they leave the explanation as fate or luck, much easier that way, it's the same with these people blaming the game, they want some outlet for their frustrations.

You are correct with your submission. If you are reckless with gambling then you will have to keep complaining about losses. You can't gamble rightly with minimal bankroll and you keep complaining about the bad omen. A gambler with minimal stake has better control of his game more than that gambler that throws in all he has at once going for the winning without considering that he would be losing all of the money if he didn't win.

It is better to have some gambling limit so that when you are not getting it right then you can easily withdraw yourself and wait for the next time game to try hitting back, continuous trying to win is a ticket to addiction because you are losing your control.

[Oilacris]

Let them do what they want OP, these people that are blaming themselves aren't going to stop anytime soon just because they're constantly reminded that it doesn't do anything to the game and that blaming leads to nothing, I think that it's best to let them do their thing. This kind of people will almost always come to their senses on their own and they'll stop eventually, if we don't want to be like this, the easiest solution would be to stop gambling, that's the easiest I think. Think of this as someone who believes in luck, there are some things that they can just explain so they leave the explanation as fate or luck, much easier that way, it's the same with these people blaming the game, they want some outlet for their frustrations.

Yes, no matter how other people would really be telling that they shouldnt really be doing this but still it wont really be that enough for them to be stopped on what they are doing.
This is why it would really be better that letting be on what they are gonna going to do would really be just that fine. They are the ones who would really be messing up their lives on the time that they would really be making out such bad decision on which it will really be affecting their lives later on. We do know that on the time that we are unlucky then we do love on having those kind of blaming
into other people or with the platform itself. You wont really be finding yourself that getting contented and would be going into other people to be blamed on.
You wont really be blaming your own self no matter what. hehehe

[Taskford]

Let them do what they want OP, these people that are blaming themselves aren't going to stop anytime soon just because they're constantly reminded that it doesn't do anything to the game and that blaming leads to nothing, I think that it's best to let them do their thing. This kind of people will almost always come to their senses on their own and they'll stop eventually, if we don't want to be like this, the easiest solution would be to stop gambling, that's the easiest I think. Think of this as someone who believes in luck, there are some things that they can just explain so they leave the explanation as fate or luck, much easier that way, it's the same with these people blaming the game, they want some outlet for their frustrations.

Yes, no matter how other people would really be telling that they shouldnt really be doing this but still it wont really be that enough for them to be stopped on what they are doing.
This is why it would really be better that letting be on what they are gonna going to do would really be just that fine. They are the ones who would really be messing up their lives on the time that they would really be making out such bad decision on which it will really be affecting their lives later on. We do know that on the time that we are unlucky then we do love on having those kind of blaming
into other people or with the platform itself. You wont really be finding yourself that getting contented and would be going into other people to be blamed on.
You wont really be blaming your own self no matter what. hehehe

People need to stop giving sympathy to those people who are not willing to receive some advice or suggestion, since for sure they will not take any words we give to them and they feel bad since provably this people will just think about we spoil the fun and not letting them to win then feel bad about us. That's why sometimes they need to learn a lesson on hard way so that they realize that what they do is totally not good for them and might they correct those mistakes done. Usually this type of people put the blame on other people or casino so if we don't want to experience those bad words to them by trying to stop or advice them much better if we just let them experience about other negative consequences that will happen to them.

[angrybirdy]

Let them do what they want OP, these people that are blaming themselves aren't going to stop anytime soon just because they're constantly reminded that it doesn't do anything to the game and that blaming leads to nothing, I think that it's best to let them do their thing. This kind of people will almost always come to their senses on their own and they'll stop eventually, if we don't want to be like this, the easiest solution would be to stop gambling, that's the easiest I think. Think of this as someone who believes in luck, there are some things that they can just explain so they leave the explanation as fate or luck, much easier that way, it's the same with these people blaming the game, they want some outlet for their frustrations.

Yes, no matter how other people would really be telling that they shouldnt really be doing this but still it wont really be that enough for them to be stopped on what they are doing.
This is why it would really be better that letting be on what they are gonna going to do would really be just that fine. They are the ones who would really be messing up their lives on the time that they would really be making out such bad decision on which it will really be affecting their lives later on. We do know that on the time that we are unlucky then we do love on having those kind of blaming
into other people or with the platform itself. You wont really be finding yourself that getting contented and would be going into other people to be blamed on.
You wont really be blaming your own self no matter what. hehehe

Usually this type of people put the blame on other people or casino so if we don't want to experience those bad words to them by trying to stop or advice them much better if we just let them experience about other negative consequences that will happen to them.

yeah that's true, it's better for them to experience the things that don't fit their plan so that they can learn and experience it early so that they can avoid doing it the next time. When you give advice to someone even if it hasn't happened yet, it used to be like spoon-feeding them, so maybe we shouldn't lead the time.

[tusandii]

Let them do what they want OP, these people that are blaming themselves aren't going to stop anytime soon just because they're constantly reminded that it doesn't do anything to the game and that blaming leads to nothing, I think that it's best to let them do their thing. This kind of people will almost always come to their senses on their own and they'll stop eventually, if we don't want to be like this, the easiest solution would be to stop gambling, that's the easiest I think. Think of this as someone who believes in luck, there are some things that they can just explain so they leave the explanation as fate or luck, much easier that way, it's the same with these people blaming the game, they want some outlet for their frustrations.

You are correct with your submission. If you are reckless with gambling then you will have to keep complaining about losses. You can't gamble rightly with minimal bankroll and you keep complaining about the bad omen. A gambler with minimal stake has better control of his game more than that gambler that throws in all he has at once going for the winning without considering that he would be losing all of the money if he didn't win.

It is better to have some gambling limit so that when you are not getting it right then you can easily withdraw yourself and wait for the next time game to try hitting back, continuous trying to win is a ticket to addiction because you are losing your control.

Having your own rules or having limits before deciding to carry out gambling activities is very necessary and must be done by a gambler because only in this way can a gambler have self-control not to chase wins or losses too much because we are used to these limits so we won't may violate this limit.
Indeed, having limits like this is not easy to do, but as long as a gambler has a strong desire to bet safely, he will certainly easily learn little by little to obey the rules that have been made.

Yes, indeed, a gambler who always bets with the smallest amount can always have strong control and never experience deep disappointment because the money he has lost has been planned and will not feel like he has lost because the budget used is money he can afford to lose.
In the past, at first I wasn't used to limits like this, but as long as I tried consistently not to make the same mistakes, I managed to have good control, even when I bet on Black Jack when I lost once, I chose to wait until the right time to bet again so that not too emotional and enjoy the bet more.

[Betwrong]

Why people most times condemn gambling is because the number of player's lives it has wrecked apart is far more greater than those it has helped. But with caution and the right approach, one can avoid being wreckless.

And the people that are coming back to it just to gamble again is also enormous. As long as you're aware with what you are up to, and specifically with gambling.
If you are unlucky, it's not gambling's fault but your fault because you chose to gamble and from there, you're not going to lose if ever you haven't gamble at all.

You know that's not true, right? There are tons of ways to lose your money and gambling is just one of them. You can invest in sh*tcoins, you can invest in some shitty stocks or you can buy property that will lose it's value with time. And with all those things you actually can lose much more than with gambling if you are a responsible gambler.

[Quidat]

Why people most times condemn gambling is because the number of player's lives it has wrecked apart is far more greater than those it has helped. But with caution and the right approach, one can avoid being wreckless.

And the people that are coming back to it just to gamble again is also enormous. As long as you're aware with what you are up to, and specifically with gambling.
If you are unlucky, it's not gambling's fault but your fault because you chose to gamble and from there, you're not going to lose if ever you haven't gamble at all.

You know that's not true, right? There are tons of ways to lose your money and gambling is just one of them. You can invest in sh*tcoins, you can invest in some shitty stocks or you can buy property that will lose it's value with time. And with all those things you actually can lose much more than with gambling if you are a responsible gambler.

Risks could really be everywhere no matter what kind of venture that you would really be dealing with. The main difference when dealing up with gambling is that you could lose those big amounts
in a blink of an eye comparing into those investments that you have mentioned except with investing with a project that rugpulled which we know that it do only last for a few minutes.
When it comes to blaming then it is really indeed part of human instinct on finding up those things on where they could really be able to blame out specially on the time of frustration on which it would really be just that so common action that you would really be having on the time that you are on such condition on which we know that it isnt really just that right that you should really be
putting up blame to people.

When you do gamble then you should really be expecting something like this on which those big loses, this is something very normal on gambling field.
You wont really be that making yourself that getting that exemption since everyone could be able to experience it no matter how well you do gamble.
Being lucky? It is really that something that totally random, doesnt matter whether you are dealing with luck based or strategic based on which
everything would really be depending on that.

[harapan]

Those are immature behaviour of people/gamblers who doesn't want to attest their responsibilities when gambling. These are same people who always regrets their moves and blaming others is their defense mechanism to make them feel good after gambling. This also happens when emotions controls your moves and decisions. In simple terms, these are behaviour of problematic gambler.

Those unlucky one's that put blames on gambling are those ones that  have so much interest in getting money out of it, meanwhile they should have be rest assured and known that gambling is a game of Fun,so you have to Go with the flow.
But if you think aside this there are ways you can make it out,then you probably should bare in mind that alot id coming your way,and you should be ready to face and tackle them.

If you don't really want to just gamble for fun, then stop it entirely,cause not when you think you have put do much energy and time and everything in it and it tends not to come out positive you put up blames,that's where they are all getting it all wrong.
Investment it's quite different from gambling and it shouldn't be placed that gambling is an investment that will profit you later.

[irhact]

If you don't really want to just gamble for fun, then stop it entirely,cause not when you think you have put do much energy and time and everything in it and it tends not to come out positive you put up blames,that's where they are all getting it all wrong.
Investment it's quite different from gambling and it shouldn't be placed that gambling is an investment that will profit you later.

Gambling can never be an investment, gambling is very different from investment. Investment become successful from proper planning and doing your research on the thing or things that you want to invest into before you buy them then you hold for a long time for you to get the best results from the investment but gambling depends mainly on luck. There are some games that you win from having experience on the games but gambling depends on luck for you to win.

As a gambler blaming others for your losses won't help you as you don't give others praises when you win. If you use someone else prediction and you made gains, you won't thank that person for the prediction as many individuals are guilty of this but when they lose that's when they'll start looking for who to blame. Blaming someone else for you mistakes won't teach you any lessons to learn from.

[Betwrong]

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Being lucky? It is really that something that totally random, doesnt matter whether you are dealing with luck based or strategic based on which
everything would really be depending on that.

Right, you can win and you can lose, and that depends on luck entirely. So, if you lose blame your fates, but not some other people. I mean, gambling industry consist of real people like you and me, and if you are blaming gambling, you are basically blaming real people too.

[Fortify]

A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss.  And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling,  while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.
 Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do. My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.
 I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".

I think it is wrong to compare gambling to "every other form of investment", as it's not true. The main factor being the black and white nature of placing a bet. When investing, let's say the traditional method through the stock market, if you stick with big and solid companies - you have very little chance of losing all your money. Even if things start to go bad at the company, there will be many opportunities to cash out and get some of your investment back. However with the short time frames and absolute nature of placing a bet, where the final outcome is you lose everything if it fails - is a misleading comparison.

[bakasabo]

Right, you can win and you can lose, and that depends on luck entirely. So, if you lose blame your fates, but not some other people. I mean, gambling industry consist of real people like you and me, and if you are blaming gambling, you are basically blaming real people too.

Its humans nature never accept loss and always find reasons in someone in somewhere, when they itself are the reason for that loss. Few people can accept that they were wrong and admit it. Many will always search who to blame and find 100 excuses why they have lost. They do it for two reason, they are always right/they cant be wrong. This applies to all areas. In gambling they lose because of someone. On the forum they dont get merit because people are greedy. At work they earn low, because the boss has favorite colleagues, at school/university they fail because teachers on purpose put them low grades, food that they prepared taste bad because ingredients were spoiled and etc.

[angrybirdy]

Right, you can win and you can lose, and that depends on luck entirely. So, if you lose blame your fates, but not some other people. I mean, gambling industry consist of real people like you and me, and if you are blaming gambling, you are basically blaming real people too.

Its humans nature never accept loss and always find reasons in someone in somewhere, when they itself are the reason for that loss. Few people can accept that they were wrong and admit it. Many will always search who to blame and find 100 excuses why they have lost. They do it for two reason, they are always right/they cant be wrong. This applies to all areas. In gambling they lose because of someone. On the forum they dont get merit because people are greedy. At work they earn low, because the boss has favorite colleagues, at school/university they fail because teachers on purpose put them low grades, food that they prepared taste bad because ingredients were spoiled and etc.

basically yes, I have noticed that it is our nature to do this kind of work, we are the type who is really at fault. but we try to find someone else or a way to blame someone, maybe because of our pride, we cannot accept that we are really wrong  but deep inside we know in ourselves that we are the ones who have failed and don't know how to understand.

[Agbamoni]

Right, you can win and you can lose, and that depends on luck entirely. So, if you lose blame your fates, but not some other people. I mean, gambling industry consist of real people like you and me, and if you are blaming gambling, you are basically blaming real people too.

Its humans nature never accept loss and always find reasons in someone in somewhere, when they itself are the reason for that loss. Few people can accept that they were wrong and admit it. Many will always search who to blame and find 100 excuses why they have lost. They do it for two reason, they are always right/they cant be wrong. This applies to all areas. In gambling they lose because of someone. On the forum they dont get merit because people are greedy. At work they earn low, because the boss has favorite colleagues, at school/university they fail because teachers on purpose put them low grades, food that they prepared taste bad because ingredients were spoiled and etc.

If we understand that is normal for humans to put blame on ourselves, why do we complain so much about it. It doesn't change the fact and i don't think there is remedy to it if not we would find it. Blaming gambling for your loss is not bad because gambling has no feeling itself it's just a word you can't see it, but you do it. So, it's the same thing as blaming yourself for gambling. I only see it wrong for person to blame others for their loss. Like in a situation where someone gave them a game to bet or predicted some tips for them then they loss they start blaming the persons that is where it feels wrong. Everyone starting a gambling career should be ready to take responsibility for whatever actions he takes and also be ready to control himself for any outcomes whether good or bad that he gets when gambling.

[Reatim]

Right, you can win and you can lose, and that depends on luck entirely. So, if you lose blame your fates, but not some other people. I mean, gambling industry consist of real people like you and me, and if you are blaming gambling, you are basically blaming real people too.

Its humans nature never accept loss and always find reasons in someone in somewhere, when they itself are the reason for that loss. Few people can accept that they were wrong and admit it. Many will always search who to blame and find 100 excuses why they have lost. They do it for two reason, they are always right/they cant be wrong. This applies to all areas. In gambling they lose because of someone. On the forum they dont get merit because people are greedy. At work they earn low, because the boss has favorite colleagues, at school/university they fail because teachers on purpose put them low grades, food that they prepared taste bad because ingredients were spoiled and etc.

basically yes, I have noticed that it is our nature to do this kind of work, we are the type who is really at fault. but we try to find someone else or a way to blame someone, maybe because of our pride, we cannot accept that we are really wrong  but deep inside we know in ourselves that we are the ones who have failed and don't know how to understand.

I may agree on that mate , because i am guilty of this attitude that even if I know that it is my fault yet in my mind I try finding reason to blame others or something (SOunds stupid but true mate)
but trust me that once we overcome this we will be successful in all field that we are aiming to win.

[mammusu]

Right, you can win and you can lose, and that depends on luck entirely. So, if you lose blame your fates, but not some other people. I mean, gambling industry consist of real people like you and me, and if you are blaming gambling, you are basically blaming real people too.

Its humans nature never accept loss and always find reasons in someone in somewhere, when they itself are the reason for that loss. Few people can accept that they were wrong and admit it. Many will always search who to blame and find 100 excuses why they have lost. They do it for two reason, they are always right/they cant be wrong. This applies to all areas. In gambling they lose because of someone. On the forum they dont get merit because people are greedy. At work they earn low, because the boss has favorite colleagues, at school/university they fail because teachers on purpose put them low grades, food that they prepared taste bad because ingredients were spoiled and etc.

This is indeed a natural human trait, but that does not mean that such traits cannot be controlled, they can be controlled depending on how we try to control these traits. Now the question is who is to blame? I, you and everyone definitely don't want to be blamed, but with humility we can accept the fact that we have done the wrong thing, even though sometimes we are also a little annoyed by that judgment.

In gambling, whether we are lucky or not, we must be able to control ourselves. Because there will only be 2 things that happen, the first is when we realize that we are not lucky but we still continue gambling, that means we are in an emotional state that controls us. And when we are lucky and win gambling and we continue because we want to win bigger, that means we are in a state controlled by greed. We must anticipate this, one of which is by applying limits when losing and when winning. This can minimize us from being controlled by emotions or greed that will arise within us. Yes, it's not easy, but that doesn't mean it can't be done, right?

[bakasabo]

In gambling if we win, then this is our merit, if we lose this is due to someone else fault. People never accept failure or defeat. And I dont know how to change such attitude. There is no course or medicine that removes such feeling. Imho we are left simply to accept that fact and dont pay much attention to those who blame others or in their failures.