We will only playing gambling with our spare cash and not takes too long because we care with our money and don't want to see the loss. Recovering the loss will not be a good idea because we can lose more money and many people already experienced that.
This where addiction always start at the cost of trying to regain what we have lost we often sink down into addiction which is might be very hard to control in the future so that best to is to set a restriction to myself to limit gambling for the moment till otherwise if not I don't see any good reason to continue gambling when you are on lose. Over time people fails to understand it rather will always engaged themselves into gambling the more thinking continuously gambling will increase their chances of making winning in time to come since they don't consider their lost rather would say when they win their lost will be covered from their winning. Yes, the addiction will start when a gambler doesn't realize that he must stop immediately before everything becomes worst. When he loses in gambling games, he will not trying to recover his losses because he knows that can makes him losing more money. He knows that the addiction can comes without he realizes and if he tempting with the gambling more than he can afford, he will gets addicted to gambling and he will forget with his limitations. Having limitations while playing gambling is necessary so that can help us to control our gambling activity and we don't have to face a bad experiences like what other gamblers already gets. We will not involved too deep in gambling because we don't want to gets addicted to gambling. We know how danger the addiction to gambling so we will always preventing. |
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That is the right mindset of a gambler facing the possibility of losing their last bit of cash. Gamblers have to accept any outcome of gambling, because if a gambler can accept losing their last cash, they won't worry about it too much. This is a proper last shot mentality when the idea that if a gambler sees their last bit of cash as their final attempt before quitting, they might not dwell on the potential loss.
This is an awareness of risks involved and therefore may not feel as sad about potential losses. Having a supportive network of friends or companions at the casino can provide reassurance and camaraderie, contributing to a more relaxed and enjoyable gambling experience. This touches on various aspects of the gambler's mindset, including acceptance, risk awareness, practical considerations, and social support. Gambling with this mindset makes everything feels easy going.
Accepting the outcomes on gambling is a must although many gamblers can't do that easily because they thinks that they can win some money. They know that's not easy and can makes them losing more money. Even some gamblers can win some money with their lasts cash, that will not happen to many gamblers because that will depends on their luck. A gambler should think about himself and the problem behinds of playing gambling because many gamblers already have a bad experiences. If gamblers can aware about the risks and the potential losses, they will not used too much money to playing gambling because they don't want to loses that much money. They will prevents playing gambling excessively by always limiting their money and time as that will help them to enjoy gambling as a fun. If their money almost runs out, they will not force themselves by depositing more money because they thinks that it's not a good idea. They will stop playing gambling and not trying to continue because that can makes them losing more money. If they win on the last cash, that means their luck coming and helping them to win so they can stops playing gambling. |
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Though, people struggling the addictions (regardless whether one is talking about addiction to gambling or addiction to illicit substances) one needs to keep in mind those chances given by family and friends are limited. They will be able to understand you have a problem at first, and they are likely to help you to overcome those obstacles when you first mention them, but as time passes and they catch you doing the same thing and committing the same mistakes again and again, sadly they will start losing hope and patience on you, they would even start to neglect you and abandon you because they assume there is nothing which can be done to help you out.
In the end, the willpower needed to overcome those very serious situations are supposed to come directly from the inside of the person suffering from the addiction, family support helps, but it is useless if one takes it all for granted and do not take advantage of it to seek for professional help to curb the addiction and regulate the way one spends money.
It is a cruel and sad reality of people who end up homeless and we see walking around on the street. Because if it, we must appreciate the support our family give us all, and in the same way support them as much as possible, for our households to stand indefinitely in all difficulties.
The chances are limited but that doesn't means family and friends can't gives their supports to the addicted to gambling because they should helps the addicted to gambling to cure his addiction. It needs awareness from the addicted to gambling knowing that he already have addiction to gambling and he must talk to his family and friends about his problems so they can immediately helping him by seeking a way to start curing his addiction. When family and friends with the addicted to gambling can realize and give supports to him, he will knows that he is not alone because his family and friends will always besides him. This also gives trusted from his family and friends that he is serious to cure his addiction, especially if the addicted to gambling already seen what happens to him. Together, they will have a chance to helped the addicted to gambling and maybe doesn't need to takes too long to see the addicted can slowly cure his addiction. People deserves a second chance to get his normal life back but that depends on how the addicted to gambling wants to cures his addiction. Those who doesn't get any supports from their family and friends can't survive from his addiction and become worst because they don't know how they must do and how they can cure his addiction. Yes, supports from family and friends gives an impact to the addicted person to gambling to realizes about his problems and cure his addiction. |
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If our goal is to seek pleasure, then winning is not our priority, thus it will minimize the level of our losses or prevent us from playing by looking for victory or chasing defeat. There are two things that are wrong with gambling, namely seeking wins and chasing losses, because that will make us continue to gamble without stopping. and when that happens, be prepared that we will become gambling addicts.
We can't predict when victory will come, sometimes just playing with the money from the bonus we get will actually make us win big. I don't deny that winning will make us happier, but the problem is we don't know when that will happen, so gambling with limits is a good way for us to do so that we are still within the scope of reasonable gambling. Don't let us follow greed or have high hopes for victory, because once again gambling is closely related to luck, and we don't know when the goddess of fortune will come to us.
We playing gambling because of seek pleasure so we don't have to chase the wins or loses on gambling. But most gamblers playing gambling because they want to win on their favorite gambling games. They don't thinks about preventing the problems that can occurs such as losing their money or addiction because they see their chance to win on the gambling games so that attracts them to try their lucky. We can only playing gambling without knowing when we can win because in gambling, we playing gambling for having fun and not making money. Winning will come to the lucky person but not to many gamblers so we must realizes that we don't have a big chance to wins on gambling. When we win, we will be happy especially if the win money is big and we thinks that money can recover our lost before. But if we calculates the total money, we actually lose more money than our winning. |
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When you are still that a noob then you would really be definitely having those kind of assumptions that gambling is always that a winning thing on which we do know that it cant really be that possible on which we know
that on the time that we do get involved with gambling then it would really be in between winning and losing. When you are still new into this field and having ended up with those kind of condition won which you havent been able to expect and on the time that it did break your expectations then this is where disappointment would really be coming from on which it would really be that resulting for you to become that
desperate and becoming that impulsive.
What you should we do need to do when losing? Then it would really be just that best that you should really be calling it a day. Never ever make yourself that intend to chase up those
loses and assuming that you could really be able to break even or even winning up.
That's normal things if we think like that because we don't have much experiences in gambling while we already see many people can win on gambling. Our minds will thinks that we can also win like them and that makes us to playing gambling long than before but the fact is not like our minds. We will lose more money and if we can't control ourselves, we will only used or deposit more money just to want to win on gambling. We can gets involved too deeper in gambling when we lose our minds because of we wants to win on the gambling games. That is a dangerous for us if we don't realizes the risks that we face because we can become addicted to gambling and we will not see the reality of what happens to us. When we lose, we must stop playing gambling and not trying to recover the losses because if we still trying doing that, we can lose more money and we will not realizes the fact. Many gamblers can't see the real fact about themselves and even when they becomes addicted to gambling, they will still using more money without having a chance to realizes especially if no people warned them. |
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That means the key is always about "managing and controlling" isn't it? Well that's obvious, in any case and not just about gambling, everyone has emotions and it's normal for them to occur due to something that's not what you expected, but if it happens excessively then obviously it's not good and will actually cause a lot of new problems, and also on the other hand we have to understand where we are, or we mean we have to understand that this is gambling which is always about winning and losing.
So it's ridiculous behavior if you're overly emotional about losing, and I would probably say that you're not a responsible gambler. And the point is like you said that the only way if they don't want to experience dominating emotions is that they should gamble moderately and reasonably in the sense of only putting an amount that will not make them angry if the money is lost in the end, and I believe that treating gambling with some of the suggested actions will be easier to do when you make gambling as a suggestion of entertainment, because then I am sure that you will not think of doing excessive actions and also I am sure that you will not be too dominated by emotions when the results do not match.
Yes, managing and controlling is the key to playing gambling with fun and that will us to control emotion not to become high. Playing gambling can makes our emotion become high but with learning about controlling, that doesn't makes us lose self-control. We can't expect having a good experience by playing gambling and win because we can lose many times and we will not feel happy when we see that. But if you can learn about self-control, you will not face that because you will not breaks your rules just to chase the win. By always limiting our gambling activity, we can prevent becomes too emotional and we will not playing gambling too long or with bigger money because we know that can attract us to use a big bet that can cause us losing the money. We must learn becoming a responsible gambler to prevents anything that can lead us to have trouble when we playing gambling. With self-control that we learned and practiced, we will always holds ourselves by not placing a bet with too big money because we know that can gives more losses. Many gamblers already have that experienced and we learned from them so we can prevent it and not happens to us. We can also treating gambling as a fun activity because that is the truth so we will not break our rules. |
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Agree with your opinion, support from family and close friends is very important for us to maintain good and correct behavior in the gambling games we play and especially if we lose, it could be that people around us will get medicine. to cure him. ourselves when we are sad.
Yes, it is from family support that we will try to recover from addictive behavior, although little by little if done confidently and consistently, it will most likely be successful.
Supports from family and close friends will gives a good affect to addicted to gambling because they will knows that their families and friends is not leaved them and stills cared to them. That can gives more power to addicted to gambling so they will try to pass every steps to recovery their addiction. They will not feels too difficult to pass everything that's necessary to cure their addictions because they feel that they are not alone to do that. It's why the family and friends supports is always needed to helped the addicted gambling to realizes that he still have a second chance to have his lives back. |
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those who win are those who are not influenced by emotions, these are good words that I have ever heard and if practiced then the results are very good for all aspects of life, as well as in gambling, those who gamble carried away by emotions will only experience losses, such as OP's case, he said he lost when betting big but won when betting with small capital, i know it's not easy to control emotions, but learning to control it is very important, especially since gambling is an activity that risks money, don't be emotional for a moment so we lose the money we have worked so hard to find.
Yes, you are right because those who can controls themselves with good will not face a problem while they are playing gambling. They can know what they must do in gambling and not become too serious playing gambling because they thinks that if they place a big bet, that can cause them losing their money and that means, their money will runs fast without they realizes. The gambling can tempting many gamblers if they can't control emotions, especially if they want to chase the win or recover their loss. They better to playing gambling for fun and only placing their bet with the money they can afford. That will be safe for them because they don't have lose too much money as they can manage their money to be used for playing gambling. |
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Presently I have never involved myself with any bet as I don't have spare cash to waste or risk for any game and bet so, after clearing up with things surrounding me then I can know the best steps to take otherwise I don't have mindset to spare out any funds for bet. I don't force myself to gamble or even involving myself in compulsive gambling at the caused of trying to recover what I have lost while still wasting more money which is not wise as human being we ought to be although people there are some people who keeps applying the Martingale theory where they keeps increasing their bets even though they are losing.
That's better for you because with the risks on gambling, not many people can accept the risks. They only care with how they can playing gambling without thinking about how if they lose even with their spare cash. We must responsible if we decide to playing gambling and if we thinks that we don't have or can't responsible with our gambling activity, we don't have to playing gambling too often. We will only playing gambling with our spare cash and not takes too long because we care with our money and don't want to see the loss. Recovering the loss will not be a good idea because we can lose more money and many people already experienced that. |
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Especially those who are mostly addicted to gambling are basically a threat to society and family. If a gambler is in the family and community, he can affect many more people. Therefore, the gambler should be removed from here because the time he is gambling, he should be kept busy gambling and not allowed to participate. It is best to remove a gambling person, because he is a terrible start to his family and to society and to an educated nation.
A terrible start will always ruled the day, and none of us will be dashing out for the long run because gambling is not all about luck. Perhaps we have those that have section everything in the system to become luck. The society acknowledged the ones that have contributed positively to the system. The educated minds will give everything to grab a winning because it's important and straightforward for everyone of us. Gambling addicts are threats because they contribute absolutely nothing but keen on achieving the major targets of the season. It's due to the top course of fighting to make brilliant moves. We can't let the addicted gambling becomes deeper in gambling, especially if the addicted person to gambling is one of the family members. We must helped them to get out from their addiction no matter if that is hard because we care each other and wants to solve their problem in addicting. We must try to open their minds and telling them that gambling is about luck and if they don't have luck, they will difficult to win. Maybe it's not 100% about luck because in gambling, analysis is also needed. Gambling addicts needs to realizes that they already gets addicted to gambling and we here to help them to cure their addiction. By doing that, the addicted to gambling will see that they have a big problem and needs to thinks wisely how to solves their problems. They will thinks that gambling is just a game that needs luck so they must not used it too often. |
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In many occurrences it's alarming how people win big on their last wager. The person due to the fun, doesn't think of stopping, unless determined. This rarely happen, and players do lose their last cash. Although it shows a strong urge to take the last shot, yet gamblers need to review the risks. What happens next after winning or losing the game, should be an embraced question for every gambler, who intends to take this step. Will he have to trek, long distant, before he gets home. Or wager his wins again, till it exhausts, or go home with enough funds to take a ride. Those are three different occurrences attached to such a prediction. The player needs to show he's ready to face the obstacles. When the last cash wins money, what will it bring to the gambler? More stress or rest? Gamblers are troubled with lots of factors, making it difficult for a gambler to stay steadily aware of what could happen with him and his funds.
A gambler can lose their lasts cash but if he can accept the results he gets in gambling, he will not have too worry about his lasts cash. He will considers that is the lasts shot before he quit gambling and will not think much about that. If many gamblers can do that and don't thinks about the outcomes, they will not have to feel too sad because they already knows the risks. Besides that, it's just a gambling which have two options, win or lose and he will place his lasts money. But if he can wins with his last cash, that will be a surprised for him because he can winning before he go home. But a gambler must thinks about how he go to home if his last cash is the lasts money that he have and lose his money. If that is the cases, he must not place a bet because he can't go home without money. But if he go to casino with his friends, he will not have to worry. |
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It happens to the physical casinos, someone will approach you randomly and you totally don't know that stranger will ask you to buy their thing because they've lost.
It's a normal scene and you already know the reason why they'd do that.
Yes, that happens to someone who loss much money but he wants to continue playing gambling. He asks someone to buy his thing in a cheap price so he can have money and playing gambling to trying to recover his losses. That's a bad thing that people must avoid because that will not gives them a chance to gets their stuff/thing back. They don't knows that continue playing gambling can makes them losing more money. It's better they stops and leaves the casino to prevent the next losses. The situations will become worst if they want to continue playing gambling because their minds will not thinks about the losing they gets. |
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Gamblers focused on their sector and make the best out of it while casino gamblers do generate quite huge amount of profits in the system. I can't place my thoughts right but ensuring I reap every possible means of doubling our streams in the system because I'm quite aware how difficult it can be. Making money is part of the plan. In the current space, I can't indulge in activities that doesn't appear to be running in massive profits. At our happiest moment, that's someone craving sorrows and remorseful for the wrong choices made that led to heavy losses in the system.
Casino will makes huge profits than the gamblers because the casino runs the business while gamblers only playing gambling on the casinos. Gamblers can win but their winning will not be bigger than the casino so gamblers must realizes that they don't have to playing gambling using big money. Otherwise, they will lose their money and that will be the profit for the casino. Making a profit is the reasons for many gamblers but they must know that playing gambling can't give that big money. They must be wise when they playing gambling so they don't spend too much money just to chase the win because the casino will takes all of their money if gamblers don't use limitations. We will only regrets if we lose big money because we can't recover that money and even will lose more money if we continue playing gambling. |
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Research for the information is a must things for gamblers who wants to place a bet. Without information, they will not be able to pick the right teams that can be the winners. They can analyze each teams from the information that they gets so they must search many information from many sources. The benefit of having many information is we can knows which teams that have a bigger chances to win because we collect many information about each teams so we can makes a decision and pick the right teams. Besides of that, a gambler must know how much money he can used to places a bet and don't used too big money if he doesn't want to lose big.
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I think, people are aware that when you enter a gamble, there are only two possible outcomes, that is to win and lose. Maybe that's why the reaction of the players is like they are surprised or shocked because they didn't expect the possible things that will happen once you start it, you know? maybe some of them are just beginners. You're right, chasing losses is not really the answer to recover all the money you lost because if you do that, you will only lose more and you will be forced to recover what you lost. One of the best things to do to recover is to give yourself a break so you can rest as well as your wallet.
But many people aren't realizes about the wins and the loses that will be the result of playing gambling. They only thinks that when they playing gambling, they can win but don't thinks about the lose that they can gets. It's why many people still playing gambling excessively without thinking about the chances of losing from gambling. Beginners or veterans of gambling have the same thinking to win on the gambling games but some of them are realizes that playing gambling doesn't need too serious because gambling is just for having fun. If they can thinks like that and consider gambling is just one of many activities that gives excitement, they will prevent big losses and if they lose their money, they will not try to chases or recovers the losses because they know that will not easy to gets their money backs. |
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The support of family and friends is essential to help in the treatment of a person who goes through this type of addiction, and certainly criticizing is not a good thing as the process to "deconstruct" the addiction and develop healthier habits is quite long, it has relapses and also awakens many negative emotions in the person trying to recover. So, a criticism or word that is said badly will certainly make this recovery much worse.
But I still believe that support from family and friends alone is not enough, no matter how good their intentions are... in addition to them needing to be very careful with what they say and also patient, they should encourage the addicted person to seek professional psychological assistance to avoid relapses or replace this addiction with a worse one such as alcohol, cigarettes or illicit drugs.
No doubt that the support of family and friends is essential and needed for people who gets addicted to gambling so they can follow every step recovery phases that help him to solve his addiction. Without that, he can't pass every recovery phase and will give ups without having a chance to cure his addiction. He will not sees the support from his family and that makes him feel sad and will run away from the recovery. Besides of the support from family and friends, the addicted to gambling must have strong intention from themselves to solve his problems so he will have more powers to pass every recovery steps. Many people can't be able to survived from the recovery phase without other people's supports or don't have a strong intention to solved the addiction. Only some people who has strong intention and power that can solves his addiction and back to his family and friends. |
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Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.
When they lose money by gambling, they have a very good mentality, they behave well towards their family. And when they lose money through gambling, they cannot control their mind, they lose their temper in a short time, so their behavior in the family is very bad. But gambling doesn't save much money most of the time maybe gambling with this mindset they will win a lot of money it is seen that gambling they are losing time after time thus damaging their cash by gambling harming their family So it is best to avoid gambling. If that gambler can managing his emotions towards his family, he will not doing something bad for his family even if he gets losses by playing gambling. His emotions will not gets impact because of his losses because he will thinks that losing in gambling games is a certain and he knows that he doesn't have to playing gambling too hard. By doing that, he will not have to feel emotions if he losses and when he comes back to his home, he can manage his emotions properly and not getting impact from his losses. It needs a good self-control for not getting impact from whatever he gets from gambling so he can be okay whether he wins or losses. He knows how to treats gambling properly because he knows gambling is just for having fun. |
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No one will knows how the luck is works in the gambling games based of luck because when someone is lucky, he can wins much money. He will thinks that someone beside him give him the chances to wins much money. But we will never know if that person besides him really give a big luck to him and we only say likes that. A gambling games based on luck depend on the luck from a gambler itself. If a gambler don't have luck, he can not wins any money from gambling. But if he have his luck, he will wins some money, even if that is only one rolls in the gambling games based on luck.
Maybe @OP really gives his friend lucks so his friend can wins much money. But once again, we don't knows how luck works and only thinks like that.
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I already used number 1 only if I thinks I am sure with the matched. But sometimes, I only place 1 bet because I don't see a chance to win on the other match.
I never try number 2 just because I don't knows how and what I should do. The number 3 is the most thing that I used, especially if I see that I can make some money, more than the amount that I placed to bet. I don't have to wait until the match finish because I often experienced losing the money. So cash out is a good solution for me to take the money out with the profit. The number 4 is rarely I gets because I don't place a bet in sports betting too often.
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We never know when we can win on gambling and we can only playing gambling. But besides of continue playing gambling, we must know when we must stop playing gambling. Sooner or later, you can win without you expecting so you just playing gambling because of the fun things from gambling. When you playing gambling for fun, you only want to feel the fun and no intention to win so you don't playing gambling so hard because you know that's only makes you even more eager to win the gambling game. That will good for you because that can attract you become deeper on gambling and you can lose your money and the worst thing that happen to you is getting addicted to gambling. If you can used gambling as a fun thing, you should not worry with anything and you will surprise when you can win the gambling games as @OP got.
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