yes, that's true, because I think it's like that too, because I myself have a friend who likes gambling and when he gambles he can't be bothered even if he is called, it's unlikely he will respond to our calls, this makes me think that gambling can affect Their thinking becomes more focused on gambling, and makes them not care about other things around them. In my opinion when they become addicted to gambling, it makes it difficult for them to see the conscious side, and as you said, because in their minds there is only gambling and gambling. Also, with them like that, in my opinion, they won't see the loss they have experienced and it will definitely be a big loss.

I agree with you I think these three things are important for those who want to gamble including us too. because if we can master these three things, I think they can avoid big losses and also with gambling addiction, in my opinion it should be avoided, but with their thinking like that,  in my opinion it will only lead them to gambling addiction. I think this applies to those who have a good mindset, so they can see the negative side.

Thank you for this advice, and I am baffled with some responses on this thread at times as some will even encourage such a bad attitude. Your work is your work and gambling is gambling, the two should not mix. Even if you can't control the urge to gamble at work, that means that you should be extra careful because something might be fishy and will never be good for the person. Imagine, even at the time of doing the work that delivers to you your daily bread, you can check your gambling platform many times in just an hour, and you think that is still normal? This is an addiction and it is not too late to stop it, and the earlier such is fought, the better.

I've fought a whole lot of app addiction like that before and I won easily, it only takes some awareness of the conclusion of whether what you are doing is right or wrong. Once you can reasonably conclude that it is wrong, then the determination and discipline to fight it are what you should reach out for. Once you can be successful in fighting it in a day, or two and going to the fourth day, I am certain that you will have defeated it, and you will not even remember you have such a bad practice any more. But it will persist if we are idiotic and believing that we are doing what is good while it is actually bad. Even if you are not caught or penalised by anyone at work, it is morally right that you are focused on what you are doing unless it is just the type of job that is so informal or that gives the free time/room for that.

a common problem that gamblers often do is when they don't want to lose but they still gamble but when they lose they brag and blame other parties and this is a very ridiculous incident that gamblers often do.
I understand that there are gamblers like this, in fact almost all the gamblers I know still have this kind of character when they don't want to lose or lose, they keep betting because in their brain they have the assumption that they want to try to get a big win even though logically their mind already says it's impossible to win big while being unlucky and gamblers like this are like going against their own minds who don't want to gamble and are forced to do so.

the feeling of wanting to continue gambling actually only depends on your mindset and for me, if a gambler has a good mindset, of course when he wants to gamble again he will firmly adhere to the guidelines in his own mind not to gamble anymore and secure his budget so he can gamble responsibly.

This actually depends on where each person lives. If you are in a country where gambling is legal, of course talking to other people about the gambling you do will definitely feel like normal. However, if you live in a place where the majority of people reject gambling activities, of course, silence is better. At least you don't harm other people with your gambling activities.

All of us at some point when we are doing anything in a casino, if we are playing with slots, with dice, with any game we can get money, it's expensive, the more we sign, because we want to keep winning and this is something that always goes away to fulfill, especially in players who are novices, this type of thing always manifests itself, when they are playing we see that there may be many reasons to quit, other reasons to continue, even if you are a novice and you like the game then you will not hesitate to continue playing and betting, but before all that, I think it is a very intelligent and sensible thing to do is to allocate money willing to lose, and if that is achieved, well, if you win, excellent, you make a good return of funds. , but in the case that nothing is won, then we have to assume, that is what we must do in case of losing, there is no problem, if we insist because we can lose much more, such as dispossessing more, putting in more money, that is not It is recommended because we would be going against our own rules.

Now, when we are looking for things to do to have greater confidence, that is, if the person allocates an amount willing to lose, let's say 40 USD, and if the person wants to go crazy, or wants to play in a very crazy way, they can do it, but as long as When the premise is to take care of the money, if the money is lost, well that's the end of the party, nothing else is done, otherwise the things that can be done are different, that's why when we play in a casino we have to have the Maybe above all, not only budget management, if we want to learn well about casinos, their games, we have to know how to play and see if we can make more money, it is something unique, if we do it very well, otherwise We managed to achieve very good results, as I said carefully , to remain calm , you know that you can't put in more money.

reanalyzing the analysis of the experts will help the gambler to have a firsthand information on the predictions and why it was kept the way it is by the expert. That would be extra work for the gambler, coupled with the amount of money he has paid to the expert. Many wouldn't want to engage into such stress again, they'll wager the amount of money that looks substantial for a big win on the prediction, because it's from an expert. The gambler would think it's accurate, then he'd definitely make it big. That's always a bad experience for gamblers in money aspect. In most case if the prediction works at some point the gambler won't stop buying the predictions. He'd stick to it despite seeing he's not winning anymore with the expert's help. It's fine that we may not mind wagering more money, even when we are losing out money.

But of what use would it be patronizing, over and over, an expert who contributes to the losses. It'll be great for the gambler to do it himself, since no difference is spotted. The player may get luckier using his prediction compared to what the expert has to offer. I've realized that gambling requires not much stress, doing lots of research and analysis. Investing little time predicting the game can be profitable than reading all the sport channels for hours trying to know what a football result will become in the next few hours. What will be of the match will be, and no amount of research would change it. The casual prediction has worked for many gamblers, including myself. Those games you thought wouldn't be positive or yield profits, ends up playing in your favor. While the ones we think is sure, ends up disappointing us, the gambler.

Experiencing defeat and losing money when gambling is a natural thing, but it depends on how we can respond to it. Namely by implementing limits so that we don't experience too much loss of money and of course by implementing these limits we can avoid gambling addiction because we are too chasing losses. We must be able to accept that losing is part of gambling itself and must be prepared for any outcome of winning or losing and can enjoy gambling as entertainment.

Indeed, by implementing things with limits, we can be disciplined and gamble responsibly and not cause things that are more detrimental to us (addiction) and we can take examples of people whose lives have been ruined because of gambling so we can learn that excessive gambling makes life worse someone gets messy and of course we don't want to experience something like that.

The most basic thing is to give children an understanding about gambling, both in terms of winning and also the bad effects of gambling itself.
Indeed, at the age of 18+, a child is starting to be able to think for himself and is happier with his choices. However, in order to prevent evil, it is very important to continue to guide him even if the child doesn't like it. What's more, the problem of gambling is that we are adults who gamble without showing it to other people, especially children. because the bad impacts are very dominant compared to the good impacts of winning at gambling

We can't just conclude that making too many picks can make us to loses more when we bet. Things are different the way we bets is different also. Some persons belief that if they pick more games or matches, their possibility of winning would be low while others thing the opposite is the case. We don't need to affirm it to everyone pointing that if we choose more games we could lose more. Professional gamblers does not care about how many games we are selecting but only after the sure and predictable games. Any how we choose to bet is all left to us and we don't have to see other people as doing the wrong things.

Good point,  timing is a factor when discussing complicated things like gambling,  though we are already in an Era where gambling is no longer a big deal,  there's still a chance that your partner will not agree with what you are dealing with, but if you put it in the position where  both your mood is in the same place, you can use it as opportunity to discuss things where you and your partner  can openly provide your sentiment regarding to what you wanted him to realize.

Good communication helps not to increase  risk but instead  it will serves as a safe guard when you deal things the right way.

I agree that the truth is that saying that you play cunningly to get benefits is not all true. I think what makes gambling players think all of that is true is to establish themselves that they are not the ones who are wrong when they lose at gambling. when in fact, gamblers always want more winnings and cannot control themselves to stop playing when they have won. if they can control themselves to stop playing, surely all of that will never happen and the players can have fun with the winnings they have achieved.

Does this science in gambling guarantee winning? In my thinking, no technique can guarantee a 100% winning rate. Thus, instead of looking or trying to follow principles to win, it is best to control the amount we stake and our level of expectation. Most times, it is the hope that kills. Nobody should be deceived into believing that there is a shortcut. Gambling is 100% uncertain so, principles will help curtain loss but not winning.

Luck is indeed one factor in winning gambling, but I think luck is also not the main factor because as far as I know, many people who are lucky actually lose to smart people, Slot or dice games may rely on luck if we are beginner gamblers , but sometimes bookies have cunning tricks in managing the game so that in the end those who rely on luck will also lose.
 In my opinion, gambling also has knowledge and even analyzing the game is an important thing in gambling. If luck was the main factor in gambling, wouldn't the bookie not have to bother to cheat the game?.
 Winning because of luck does exist, but if we look specifically, of course the winning percentage will be very small and will not happen continuously in the game. I very rarely see lucky people who can win lots of wins and sometimes luck only favors 1 or 3 rounds at a game, while the rest I think is the bookie who controls the game to drain our money every penny.

If your "hope" is tied to gambling results, then you are not in the right business and you should stop gambling all together. Gambling is not for any hope reasons, its for fun and you should be trying to have some fun when you are gambling. Meaning, if you win then you are happy, if you lose then you just gambled and had fun, those should be the emotional things that you are feeling.

If you have emotions outside of that, then you are not really doing a good job. For example, in this case we are talking about having a potentially "hopeful" result, that means you hoped for something and you should not be hoping, hoping for something means that you are going to end up being sad when what you hoped for doesn't happen and that's wrong.

As a wife, opening up and informing your partner that you have involved in gambling does not seem appropriate. Most men would perceive it as a sign of desperation and risky behavior caused by their expectations of the best from their spouses, rather than random women who gamble as another source of money. Facts: Most men consider women who gamble to be idle and lazy; perhaps they have no right to evaluate any activity because the women in issue are grown enough to know what they want; anything that makes you happy, do it.

Gambling can either been seen as negative or positive activity, it depends on a person's point of view. Gambling is an open activity in which anyone can participate without any pressure from others. Besides, this is a free world, and I've worked hard enough to pay my bills, so I won't tolerate any type of abuse from anyone; after all, I'm not looking for an entitlement post in either religion or where I work. We are citizens who work sufficiently forceful to ensure that we create our primary income for ourselves and our families, and we do so while simultaneously creating change for pockets.

Agree with you that taking low risk is not a good gambling strategy. For those who want to enjoy gambling and earn profit from it, there is definitely no alternative to take risk. At the beginning of gambling I thought I could gradually increase my bankroll by taking less risk but that was wrong because after I won a few matches in a row with low skate bets, when I lost a match I lost all my winnings and I had additional losses. If one likes to bet he must take risks. I research before taking a bet and then take the risk. If I lose, I don't regret it because I assume that I will lose there.

You just reconstruct what I just said in your first paragraph. LOL

Anyway, I understand your concern about the grandmother having fun without spending a lot of money. However, what if gambling is the only activity that brings her joy, without causing stress or fatigue? It always varies from person to person what they enjoy doing in their later years. The best approach is to have a conversation with them and show that you can empathize with their interests.