Our decision making is responsible for the outcomes in our ways

[boty]

Everyone who suggests something to someone else of course has a good understanding of what they are saying and after we give them advice then it is their choice whether they want to accept it or not, this is their choice.
I agree with you, of course it would be better if we could avoid those who think that what we suggest to them is not very useful for them and we can let them learn it on their own until they can realize that what they did was wrong so that they regret it.

Just do not be too open and talkative in front of anyone. Because not everyone is going to appreciate the tips that you are going to tell them.

If you have a lot of ideas and experiences to tell, do not be too vocal because not everyone is willing to take those.

They will hear you out but they are not going to be attentive.

You are right, by being too open with the experiences we have of course we don't have to bother thinking about other people who don't believe what we tell them and if someone asks for advice of course we can share the experiences we have had with them and if so allows us to direct them in carrying out these things so that they can achieve the goals they want.

[kentrolla]

When making a decision, it is always prudent to evaluate the most likely conclusion rather than just the immediate advantage. Do not rush into a choice; instead, take your time and analyze your possibilities. Don't rely your decisions solely on emotions or feelings. First and foremost, conduct research; credible information is required to make an informed decision. Weigh all of the factors. Based on the facts you've acquired, you may compile a list of your possibilities, along with the benefits and drawbacks of each. Also, examine the potential implications of your decision. Keep in mind that even the finest decision is not always perfect. Choices frequently require a consequence. Also, unforeseen circumstances may occur. So use the best information you have available, and choose the choice that is most likely to succeed.

In other words the outcome may not be exactly what we expected as sometimes we tend to underestimate or overestimate things that's the reason we may not be able to get accurate outcome but the outcome will help define the baseline for the expectations which will help us to streamline further and take appropriate steps to get the desired outcome.

[kotajikikox]

Keep in mind that even the finest decision is not always perfect. Choices frequently require a consequence. Also, unforeseen circumstances may occur. So use the best information you have available, and choose the choice that is most likely to succeed.

I like that you mentioned that some choices are truly never perfect. In fact I’m pretty sure not one choice is. Some choice just have better benefits than the others but all choices has some kind of consequence. You just need to choose which is the least harmful to you. Make a list of your possible choices and list down each of their pros and cons to come up with a decision.

[tygeade]

Keep in mind that even the finest decision is not always perfect. Choices frequently require a consequence. Also, unforeseen circumstances may occur. So use the best information you have available, and choose the choice that is most likely to succeed.

I like that you mentioned that some choices are truly never perfect. In fact I’m pretty sure not one choice is. Some choice just have better benefits than the others but all choices has some kind of consequence. You just need to choose which is the least harmful to you. Make a list of your possible choices and list down each of their pros and cons to come up with a decision.

Yeah true, you can't really have the 100% perfect result, it's very rare and I think it's not possible at all. I feel like the best thing we could do, is to just assume that we could make it work one way or another. I believe that the best thing we can do right now would be focusing on how to do better, and that means we are going to be fine, and I do not think that we are going to have much chance if we want to make a choice.

Sure, not all of them are perfect, in fact maybe you are right and none of them are, but we just need to make a choice and that's where it all starts, we should just realize that things aren't all that easy to handle and we could just have some trouble, we can't really make any type of improvement at all.

[dezoel]

as human beings, we have a responsibility to help our brothers or relatives who are really in trouble and need motivation, especially in difficult economic times like now, we have to listen patiently and also provide wise encouragement to those who are having difficulties or are facing problems. get back up and enthusiastic about carrying out their activities. just giving wise advice can sometimes help someone who is in trouble with a glimmer of hope.

We do not really have a responsibility like that. I get that we are going to end up with something that will feel not so great which is fine and understandable but that doesn't mean that we have to do it, even it feels like you want to, if you are not capable of doing that, then you shouldn't. I had a lot of periods in my life, when I had absolutely nothing, so I couldn't help someone I cared about, and when I had the money, I still didn't help many people in my life.

Only people I am willing to help, is my wife and my parents, that's it, three people, nobody else gets my attention, obviously I have no brothers or sisters, if they existed then maybe them, but even they would be questionable, whereas my wife and parents gets my help for sure, nobody else.

Each person's perspective, thoughts, and emotions are unique, and shaped by their experiences and nature. Empathy and sensitivity can be both a blessing and a curse, as you've observed. Having a soft heart allows you to deeply understand and connect with others, share their joys and sorrows, and offer comfort and support. However, it also makes you more vulnerable to emotional pain and potential harm.

I have also observed that soft-hearted people think for others more than themselves. So, sometimes it is good that you are thinking only for your family especially when you have less budget or can only do it for yourself so that your family and you live in comfort. But if you have so much that you can give to others, then I would prefer that helping is a good act, so we should help our relatives and the people around us.

[Yaqs15]

When making a decision, it is always prudent to evaluate the most likely conclusion rather than just the immediate advantage. Do not rush into a choice; instead, take your time and analyze your possibilities. Don't rely your decisions solely on emotions or feelings. First and foremost, conduct research; credible information is required to make an informed decision. Weigh all of the factors. Based on the facts you've acquired, you may compile a list of your possibilities, along with the benefits and drawbacks of each. Also, examine the potential implications of your decision. Keep in mind that even the finest decision is not always perfect. Choices frequently require a consequence. Also, unforeseen circumstances may occur. So use the best information you have available, and choose the choice that is most likely to succeed.

Knowledge they said is light. knowledge is also the new money but not in the way you might think of it. this is it: you need information to transform yourself if you don't want to be deformed. Before taking decision, make sure you have the full knowledge of what you are about to do. that's, the knowledge of its advantages and disadvantages of the new decisions comparison between the old and the new ideas. the benefits you are going to have from the new decisions. Then after all of these, you can proceed to either take it or leave it.

[Casdinyard]

While others have learnt their lessions of not utilizing their incomes when they had a stable source for their income flows, some others are paying adamants and ignorant to learn from what has happened to others because they feels they are not of the same calling to be affected with what happened to others.

In life some persons just do what pleases them and doesn't tolerate with any piece of advice from anyone at the times they feels to had acquired the heavens on earth. And yet they are not Concious that as the more they grows their incomes for multiplications is also how it could depreciate to a zero value if not utilize productively for continues growth.

A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be  accounted of his money if not enjoyments?
This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.

How on earth would someone give chasing after income holidays even when you do not have more than enough and not up to the age of retirement yet?

And after squandering all that he has saved he goes about requesting to borrow money.
I have talked to this guy on several occasions but he feels I am a pest disturbing his dear life.
As at this moment, the country is encountering very high rate of inflation which stuffs doesn't go fair as before  leading him sold his car and being struggling to pay his bills while living in the city and at now, he does not have a place of residence of his own so he jumps from one place to the other passing his night's.

He is now the pest perching on any available places conditionally while inconveniencing others.
He now lives a low key with the best he can afford.
"Had I know" is now a national anthem to him.
I don't find his ignorance to be an excuse and I am thinking of disassociating from him before he gets me  affected with his negative possesed energies.

How someone spends his money is out of your business.

What of you if he likes to splurge his paycheck? You said it yourself, he has a sizable amount of savings in his bank account that he's confident of, no need to call him out on how he spends his money. It's money he's worked hard for and didn't ask of anyone for anyway. It doesn't matter how much money he's losing or whatever. Now that he's lost everything the same thing can be said, you shouldn't care about his money, or the lack thereof. He made his bed, and now he must sleep in it. Doesn't matter if it's your dear friend.

The only thing you can really assist his with at this point is provide him the opportunity to make money, not the prospect of money itself. He needs to work for his own dough and work his way up back to his old life, and he could only do this if he perseveres for himself. After that, disassociate with him all you want. You don't want people who are spendthrift anyway.

But at the end of the day, you can't lecture everyone about how they spend their shit, a lot of us here grew up not having any and are thus healing our inner children with the purchases we make. We need that.

[junmisakiro]

While others have learnt their lessions of not utilizing their incomes when they had a stable source for their income flows, some others are paying adamants and ignorant to learn from what has happened to others because they feels they are not of the same calling to be affected with what happened to others.

In life some persons just do what pleases them and doesn't tolerate with any piece of advice from anyone at the times they feels to had acquired the heavens on earth. And yet they are not Concious that as the more they grows their incomes for multiplications is also how it could depreciate to a zero value if not utilize productively for continues growth.

Therefore, we need a balance in living life between personal enjoyment and sustainable growth. While it's important to enjoy life, it's also important to consider the long-term consequences of our actions. We must be open to receiving suggestions and even knowledge provided, and utilize resources wisely as well as evaluate and self-reflect on the actions we have taken, so that it can help us identify which areas we need to improve and make the necessary changes.

[justdimin]

Each person's perspective, thoughts, and emotions are unique, and shaped by their experiences and nature. Empathy and sensitivity can be both a blessing and a curse, as you've observed. Having a soft heart allows you to deeply understand and connect with others, share their joys and sorrows, and offer comfort and support. However, it also makes you more vulnerable to emotional pain and potential harm.

I have also observed that soft-hearted people think for others more than themselves. So, sometimes it is good that you are thinking only for your family especially when you have less budget or can only do it for yourself so that your family and you live in comfort. But if you have so much that you can give to others, then I would prefer that helping is a good act, so we should help our relatives and the people around us.

Life isn't always easy for people who think for others. I have been in quite a big financial trouble lately, and even in my current situation I try to help others and that makes it even harder for me. I should stop thinking about others and start thinking about myself, which would have solved my issue long time ago, but loved ones are loved ones and without helping them it makes it quite hard for me.

I think the best thing that could happen for us would be just focusing on our own financial troubles first. Of course, if you get rich and be wealthy then you can help anyone you want, you can even donate to charity, you do not have to make it work any other way, just do whatever you want to do, and it will be a great situation for sure.