some exception here and there will not change this fundamental diversity between the two gender, and has nothing to do with growing up, this is my opinion, i consider women inferior when it comes to technology
To quote Maria Klawe:
“We’ve done lots of research on why young women don’t choose tech careers and number one is they think it’s not interesting. Number two, they think they wouldn’t be good at it. Number three, they think they will be working with a number of people that they just wouldn’t feel comfortable or happy working alongside.”
In other words, one of the major reasons that there are fewer females than men working in technology is that they don't want to associate with the likes of you.
that quote do not imply that the number 3° reason is the major reason, this is your assumption, i smell that the first reason is the major one, they are not interested, and i have my reason to think why they are not interested, the answer is the second reason you quoted....