i am a pedo?

[mrkavasaki]

do you think it is OK to have a 16 years old girlfriend with the age of 22?
 

[Sourgummies]

It is to big a age gap.

Mental maturity is a major factor in the age gap and if I had a daughter that was seeing a guy that big of a gap,he would be riding in my trunk for a visit up at our cabin. Maybe helping me dig a hole in the back for the new shitter and maybe he might trip into it,maybe I dont say anything and maybe I wait a few days to make sure he is unwilling to come out of hole before deciding I dont need a new shitter.

[Dajve]

Probably depends on your local laws. I think it's illegal in the US but legal in the UK. Some countries even have 14 years old as their limit. Personally 16 is too young for you but I guess depends how mature she is.

[Hugroll]

i honestly don't think thats ok yet. maybe if you guys get a bit older the age gap doesnt seem that significant but at this age its wayy too big

[mrkavasaki]

i honestly don't think thats ok yet. maybe if you guys get a bit older the age gap doesnt seem that significant but at this age its wayy too big

comon thats only 6 years different, i dont think its to big.
also i am looking very young for my age

[Jhanzo]

i honestly don't think thats ok yet. maybe if you guys get a bit older the age gap doesnt seem that significant but at this age its wayy too big

comon thats only 6 years different, i dont think its to big.
also i am looking very young for my age

for a second there I thought that guy on your avatar is really you.

I know a 24 years old dude who is currently dating a 10th grade girl. so 6 years should be okay enough... maybe...

[s1lverbox]

if on that picture under your nickname is you, than u one hell old 22 year old fella i ever seen.

plus if that's your photo, try maybe good dental practice or at least hairdresser.

[mallard]

In some countries 16 is the legal age.

[Atomictie]

nope, I'll report you to the police department

[samuray34amo]

I think not much difference 6 years but you need to know limits

[Patatas]

do you think it is OK to have a 16 years old girlfriend with the age of 22?
 

I think it's ok nowadays. And 16 is too old for pedophiles and you're not a pedophile, you're an ephebophile (don't be confused with pedophile, hebephile and ephebophile, they are different in terms of their preferred ages)

[SomeBoy]

The word pedophilia is very commonly and mistakenly used to refer to people who have sex with individuals below what the law determines as the "age of consent" in a given place. However, pedophilia is not a legal term, it's a medical (psychiatric) term. You're either a pedophile or you're not, and that doesn't change depending on what the age of consent laws are where you live.

That being said, I'll quote the Comprehensive Textbook Of Psychiatry, vol.1, by Harold I. Kaplan, MD, and Benjamin J. Sadock, MD:

" Pedophilia involves preferential sexual activity with children, either in fantasy or actuality.  Adult sexual activities or fantasies involving prepubertal children, the essential behavior in pedophilia, may be exclusively homosexual or heterosexual, or a mixture of both, and may occur within the family, among acquaintance groups, or between strangers.

Diagnostic criteria for pedophilia:

A - Over a period of at least six months, recurrent, intense sexually arousing fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviours involving sexual activity with a prepubescent child or children (generally age 13 years or younger).

B - The fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviours cause clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning.

C - The person is at least age 16 years and at least 5 years older than the child or children in Criterion A.  Note: do not include an individual in late adolescence involved in an ongoing sexual relationship with a 12- or 13-year-old. "

So, no, you couldn't possibly be a pedophile for dating a 16 y.o., although you might be breaking the law in some US States if you had sex with her. I'm guessing that's where you're from, since teenage sexuality is a big taboo in the US, while in Europe ages of consent vary between 14 and 16, the sole exception being Ireland where the age of consent is 17.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_Europe

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_North_America

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_the_United_States

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_South_America

Recommended reading:

Adolescent Sexual Health in Europe and the US

[MsCollec]

IF you have a rapper & rich ... Not okay

[cjrosero]

hi pEdo,
yes of course dont let your age gap force you to leave your love one but please make sure and wait till he get to legal age atleast hide your relationship first and wait until 18 of the girl. i have cousin their gap is 10 years and they are still happy and have 1 son and daughter.

[mallard]

-snip-

Nice information, I didn't know that (Then again, I don't go researching this).

[saddampbuh]

legal in most parts of the world, a 16 year old is a woman, of course its ok

[Vod]

do you think it is OK to have a 16 years old girlfriend with the age of 22?
 

At your age, the difference is a bit much, but you're definitely not a pedophile.  Pedophiles like pre-pubescent children.

[Karpeles]

It is OK, they 16 yo girls are in the best of their bodies and are easier to be manipulated.

Worst case scenario you'll have to wait 2 years to do things with her pussie, but have her as GF is not illegal

[Bardman]

do you think it is OK to have a 16 years old girlfriend with the age of 22?
 

At your age, the difference is a bit much, but you're definitely not a pedophile.  Pedophiles like pre-pubescent children.

Maybe the difference is somewhat high but we gotta take in count that the girl is 16 which is pretty close to 18 and lets be honest, from 16 to 18 there is not much change mentally, and phyisically girls at 16 are already mature enough.

[kampretkabur]

maybe a 16yrs old girl is a lil bit too young, though some of them are probably have matured mentally, but still, wait till 18 is better, the gap doesnt matter in my opinion, dont know about the law