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December 02, 2012, 09:21:26 PM |
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It sucks, any advice?
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December 02, 2012, 09:22:45 PM |
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Accept it and fold. That's life (and that's poker).
Yes, it sucks, says the single man who's over 30. That's life.
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December 02, 2012, 09:24:19 PM |
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Stab him in the chest - just don't get caught.  |
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December 02, 2012, 09:27:54 PM |
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Kill the girl just don't get caught.  |
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December 02, 2012, 09:32:11 PM |
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The fact that her boyfriend is not you may be a character flaw. Move on.
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December 02, 2012, 09:33:02 PM |
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Plenty of fish in the sea...
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December 02, 2012, 09:33:25 PM |
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Wow, all such great advice: fold, kill the guy, or kill the girl. I'm thinking the best approach is to treat it like a background thread... drop some hints and monitor the situation, but generally speaking try not to bet on it and so keep on the lookout for something new. It's easier said than done though... this one's a keeper. Dammit, this sucks monkey f*ck. |
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December 02, 2012, 09:34:52 PM |
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The fact that her boyfriend is not you may be a character flaw. Move on.
That occurred to me as well lol! But I just met her a few weeks ago. Damn, if I had met her two months ago then I might have had a shot. |
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December 02, 2012, 09:36:25 PM |
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The fact that her boyfriend is not you may be a character flaw. Move on.
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December 02, 2012, 09:41:55 PM |
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Follow your heart, you'll know when you find your soulmate.
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December 02, 2012, 09:42:32 PM |
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Patience, most men are inherently stupid in their decisions, if they happen to break up when you are still single, then be a friend when shes looking for a friend.
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December 02, 2012, 10:13:23 PM |
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Follow your heart, you'll know when you find your soulmate.
Hey, I like that. Keep it organic  Patience, most men are inherently stupid in their decisions, if they happen to break up when you are still single, then be a friend when shes looking for a friend.
Exactly my thoughts. I'm just waiting for the buffalo in the field to show signs of weakness, and then I'll pounce. |
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December 03, 2012, 12:42:56 AM |
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If you can, talk to her about her situation and her relationship. If she has kids and she's a long term comitted relationship, then just fold and move on. If she's with some dude and haven't been with him for too long, what do you have to lose? But this could also be a test of character, if you can take her away from a man, then another man probably can take her away from you! Or, if you look at it from another angle, what if you were with her already, would you've liked that another man tried to take her away from you ? Also make sure the guy she's with is not the kind of guy that'll ambush you in one of your jogging tours in the woods, smash in the back of your head with a hammer, and bury you. Well, seriously, just circle around the port, if there's an opening (she getting single), then move in - everything else is mostly a shit move. But who am I to judge, in love and war, everything is allowed.. |
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BrightAnarchist (OP)
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December 03, 2012, 12:58:40 AM |
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If you can, talk to her about her situation and her relationship. If she has kids and she's a long term comitted relationship, then just fold and move on. If she's with some dude and haven't been with him for too long, what do you have to lose? But this could also be a test of character, if you can take her away from a man, then another man probably can take her away from you! Or, if you look at it from another angle, what if you were with her already, would you've liked that another man tried to take her away from you ? Also make sure the guy she's with is not the kind of guy that'll ambush you in one of your jogging tours in the woods, smash in the back of your head with a hammer, and bury you. Well, seriously, just circle around the port, if there's an opening (she getting single), then move in - everything else is mostly a shit move. But who am I to judge, in love and war, everything is allowed.. They've been together one month, so that's the good news for now. Tks for the advice |
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December 03, 2012, 01:04:07 AM |
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Ask dank to write some romantic poems for you to ply her with.
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December 03, 2012, 01:52:20 AM |
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See if she has any friends that are like her and single. "I think you're amazing and if there are any friends that you have who are like you but single I think it would be great if you could introduce us." Don't be creepy about it. Honestly feel that way and see what happens. Odds are she'll probably get freaked out and never talk to you again. But a year from now who really cares, you'll have given it a shot Before you do anything take this into account. http://www.forbes.com/sites/meghancasserly/2012/07/26/every-man-you-work-with-thinks-you-want-to-sleep-with-him/Its just our nature. |
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December 03, 2012, 03:50:10 AM |
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Teach him how to mine coins. Hopefully he will forget about the girl in no time!
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December 03, 2012, 04:20:08 AM |
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Patience, most men are inherently stupi  in their decisions, if they happen to break up when you are still single, then be a friend when shes looking for a friend. "the friend zone" is not where you want to be. 1) avoid her 2) when your with her, act like you would rather be somewhere else. 3) when she breaks up with her BF, wait till you "accidentally" run into her 4) ask her lots of questions about herself. 5) invite yourself to her place 6) As she shows you her scrap book, kiss her! lol you really should just find a single girl.... you could skip the first 3 steps. |
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December 03, 2012, 06:43:02 AM |
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It sucks, any advice?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NsOyvVVgYDgIt is simple. Wait for weakness in their relationship and then jump. At some point their relationship will hit a rough patch and she might ask you for advise. In the mean time go practice with other girls because it is not good to be stuck on 1 person. |
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December 03, 2012, 06:44:37 AM |
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Seriously, go find other girls and explore the outside world a bit, it sucks being attached like that and then of course if you try and be nice about it and not interfere she'll inevitably dump him and bitch to you about it and you'll immediately go ">_<" in real life because that's what's happened to me before lol, just think about why she has a boyfriend, if it turns out she's had several before chances are she wouldn't last long with you anyway. There really are times in my life where I've been sad about a girl but then after hearing about her breaking up with someone etc. I've gone "PHEW, I fucking dodged a bullet there big time!", trust me it's not worth chasing a taken girl most of the time, unless of course you really really like her in which case you're screwed.
Oh and if there are any girls watching this thread, if a guy tells you another guy is an asshole, fucking listen, it's like with girls and other girls, the same gender always know what they're talking about when it comes to each other.
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