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October 11, 2014, 03:54:08 AM |
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well there you go this is where i went wrong.
i stopped giving a shit for some reason....
long term relationships are hard man, its complicated as fuck, because we all have our problems, no one is perfect, you have to be willing to find a way to make it work and put in the effort
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do what billyJean dose, hook up and get the fuck out fast, which sure sounds like fun.
If you don't give a shit, then what's the problem? She wants out of a relationship with a man who doesn't give a shit, and you don't give a shit. If you really want to give a shit because you love her, or you give a shit but can't show it, explain the situation (whatever the particulars may be, I have no clue) and agree to couples therapy. There's obviously something you're supposed to be doing that you're not. Instead of speculating on what women want in general, which is what the rest of us are doing, you should be asking HER what she wants in particular. Expect to make some concessions; if that means you don't get to troll the thread for 12 hours a day shouting your book, well, if you want your woman back, be prepared to dial it back. she wants things which i don't want to do. take my meds go see a shrink stop obsessing about bitcoin ... she right... i need these things.... i don't want to admit it... dont worry guys, i will do the right thing! bitcoin has been a bit of stress on me, being an early adopter, Bitcoin has ROCKED MY WORLD. i have to get back to my life, i have to take care now. go luck too you all i still think we are very early in this game, this game has no ending... ![Wink](https://bitcointalk.org/Smileys/default/wink.gif) this will be my last post. ( LOL! ) ![](https://ip.bitcointalk.org/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fstatic.fjcdn.com%2Fgifs%2FI_66e355_2569917.gif&t=665&c=mJ7PuxRoYSgSPQ)
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October 11, 2014, 03:56:28 AM |
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October 11, 2014, 04:01:17 AM |
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she wants things which i don't want to do.
take my meds go see a shrink stop obsessing about bitcoin
... she right... i need these things.... i don't want to admit it...
You just did. Sounds like you've got a woman who cares. It's up to you if you want to try to keep it or if you want to gambool on finding a new one. Just know that it is a gamble that lasts for years, because you just never know how things will turn out down the line.
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October 11, 2014, 04:01:42 AM |
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adamstgBit
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October 11, 2014, 04:06:51 AM |
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she wants things which i don't want to do.
take my meds go see a shrink stop obsessing about bitcoin
... she right... i need these things.... i don't want to admit it...
You just did. Sounds like you've got a woman who cares. It's up to you if you want to try to keep it or if you want to gambool on finding a new one. Just know that it is a gamble that lasts for years, because you just never know how things will turn out down the line. i love her.
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October 11, 2014, 04:12:08 AM |
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i love her.
Love isn't that hard to find, it's trust that's hard to find. I've loved several women, I've only ever trusted one.
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October 11, 2014, 04:19:12 AM |
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Getting to know people on here is a real downer
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October 11, 2014, 04:20:42 AM |
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she wants things which i don't want to do.
take my meds go see a shrink stop obsessing about bitcoin
... she right... i need these things.... i don't want to admit it...
You just did. Sounds like you've got a woman who cares. It's up to you if you want to try to keep it or if you want to gambool on finding a new one. Just know that it is a gamble that lasts for years, because you just never know how things will turn out down the line. i love her. I don't blame you. Her wanting things for you that you know you need suggests it hurts her to see you doing wrong by yourself, which means she obviously loves you, too. It's like, it'd be different if you didn't think you needed those things, because then you wouldn't be making changes for yourself, you'd be doing it for her, which ultimately won't be doing either of you any favors. Here, this is much simpler: you just said "I need these things," she wants you to take care of yourself, so where is the issue, exactly, other than you need to be telling her the stuff you're telling me? Sober up, give her a day or two if you got into a big fight with her before she left, then talk to her.
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October 11, 2014, 04:25:11 AM |
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Just take half the time you spend on bitcoin and spend it giving her attention and things she wants from you. A healthy relationship and bitcoin hobby are not mutually exclusive.
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October 11, 2014, 04:26:02 AM |
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i love her.
Love isn't that hard to find, it's trust that's hard to find. I've loved several women, I've only ever trusted one. Ever heard of "without trust, there is no love?"
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October 11, 2014, 04:26:37 AM |
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Just catching up, Adam.
Really sorry to hear it. Hope y'all can work shit out.
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October 11, 2014, 04:32:49 AM |
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@ adamstgBit You're bringing the price down ![Roll Eyes](https://bitcointalk.org/Smileys/default/rolleyes.gif) it sounds like you need to get to bed way earlier, you sound sleep deprived - get more sleep man. And while your mood is depressing the price I'll through in some more unsolicited advice make a list of things that need doing and create a routine and stick to it. There is still lots of time to spend waiting on this forum for Bitcoin to rocket. Meds treat systems not the problem.
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October 11, 2014, 04:32:54 AM |
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i love her.
Love isn't that hard to find, it's trust that's hard to find. I've loved several women, I've only ever trusted one. Ever heard of "without trust, there is no love?" You can't really know whether or not someone is trustworthy until they've been put in a position to prove it though.
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October 11, 2014, 04:33:29 AM |
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Also , learn to sit down to pee in your own house. Trust me its not that bad and you never have to worry about missing.
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October 11, 2014, 04:36:06 AM |
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Adam, Shroomsy, it seems like you're both having an emotional time of it lately so let me tell you what I know about women.
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October 11, 2014, 04:38:28 AM |
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i love her.
Love isn't that hard to find, it's trust that's hard to find. I've loved several women, I've only ever trusted one. Ever heard of "without trust, there is no love?" You can't really know whether or not someone is trustworthy until they've been put in a position to prove it though. I mean you can get to know them well enough to a point where it's pretty likely they'll be trustworthy. You'll literally NEVER get a guarantee, though, because you just never know. Things could change that turn someone once trustworthy into someone untrustworthy.
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October 11, 2014, 04:39:52 AM |
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Are you arguing for a trustless solution?
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October 11, 2014, 04:40:35 AM |
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Are you arguing for a trustless solution?
Bitrelationships?
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October 11, 2014, 04:41:11 AM |
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i love her.
Oh yes and while I'm being a a$$, "love" is a verb - a doing word. It's looking like you're using the word "love" like a needy wanting word. Get some good sleep and do something constructive that will be appreciated tomorrow. And good luck, Bitcoin is a messy meme and do doubt a big part of the issue.
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adamstgBit
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October 11, 2014, 04:41:36 AM |
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she wants things which i don't want to do.
take my meds go see a shrink stop obsessing about bitcoin
... she right... i need these things.... i don't want to admit it...
You just did. Sounds like you've got a woman who cares. It's up to you if you want to try to keep it or if you want to gambool on finding a new one. Just know that it is a gamble that lasts for years, because you just never know how things will turn out down the line. i love her. I don't blame you. Her wanting things for you that you know you need suggests it hurts her to see you doing wrong by yourself, which means she obviously loves you, too. It's like, it'd be different if you didn't think you needed those things, because then you wouldn't be making changes for yourself, you'd be doing it for her, which ultimately won't be doing either of you any favors. Here, this is much simpler: you just said "I need these things," she wants you to take care of yourself, so where is the issue, exactly, other than you need to be telling her the stuff you're telling me? Sober up, give her a day or two if you got into a big fight with her before she left, then talk to her. we will be fine after going back and forth about it in my head, i have realized i need her, i need her to tell me when i am out of line. I need help for time to time like any anyone else... these past few months have been especially stressful... i can blame bitcoin all i want, I went from dirt poor to POSSIBLY RICH as fuck because of bitcoin, but all the riches in the world cannot compensate for a broken heart i have 2 kids! a loving wife that doesn't give shit about my BTC wealth, and only cares about my well being. I am such a fool... I am already am RICH AS FUCK! I need to fix this, I need her back!!!!!
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