Bully Problem

[SacriFries11]

Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

Same as you It also happen in my childhood days, almost every day my friends bully me even though I am not doing anything to them. Telling them to stop doing it is not that easy instead they are happy doing it. Try to not talk to them then maybe they will realize that they are doing a wrong thing. True friends are supposed to be the one who are not hurts your feelings. Sometimes crying is not bad at all but make sure that after it you already move on and face the reality that friends are easy to find but true friends can’t.

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[jakezyrus00]

Nowadays bully is one of the reason why many teenagers did not want to attend in their school anymore. Because they are afraid of being bullied by their classmates. Instead of going to school, they will just stay in their room and they want to be lonely. That is the effect of being bullied. That issue is the real problem and the case of it is continuously rising up.

[Supreemo]

,just to tell you the truth, true friends or your bestfriends actually knows a lot about you, if that bullying is already hurting you tell them the truth, you can't ignore them and besides you can't remove them from your life just tell them about how you feel. There is no one else that can do that aside from you, aside from that they are your friends so i am sure they will understand and acknowledge your feelings. Even if you are friends you still have some self respect

[Bored Logic]

bully are not your friends your judgment of friends is wrong make stupid and honest friends

[1DC]

I remember my friend when I'm in the middle school. He learned how to fight back to the one who bullied him. Since then he is not being bullied again. This kind of issue is bothering to the society now because it has a lot of negative effects specially to the teenagers. They will have insufficient self confidence because of it.

[reych]

If they are your true friends they will not bully you too much. They would know their limitation.Friends make fun of each other but not in the sense that they will hurt each others feelings. If they will say mean things or bad things about they, they should do it with love, thinking of how you will accept it. They should still consider your feelings.

[Ljanesanti]

Here's the thing they can't bully you if you didn't give them a sh*t to bully you. You get what i mean? They are bullying you and CONSTANTLY bullying you because YOU LET THEM. You give them permission to do so.

Piece of advice, talk to them. Maybe they are just insensitive individuals who like to pick on someone who they know they can.
If they cant stop doing it, PLS LEAVE THEM! They are not worth your time and self anyway. Give yourself respect at least. Thing that they dont have in their self. I hate bullies I really do.

[Rabi3]

I think that they aren't really your friends , because the best friend will never hurt you or hurt your family , you should leave them from the fact that they have bullying you

[Sithara007]

Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

You need to fight for yourselves. And make no mistake. Bullies can never be your friends. You need to think about the long term impact these people are going to have on your life and you need to take steps to avoid them.

[zaisha]

If I were you I would use my fist to teach them, you should think about the real friends will not be so to you, they do not respect you and your parents, as soon as possible away from them.

[Mad7Scientist]

I hope I'm not missing anything important by not reading the whole thread.

This could be an opportunety to toughen up. Bullies target people who tend to not fight back. Even if someone is weak but still fights back even for a double loss the bullies lose interest.

If they make fun of you they are likely insecure themselves. Find out what they are insecure about in life and call them out on that. Make labels for these people when you refer to them in conversations with other people, by calling them "that liar" or "metrosexual loser" or "that loser who has to bully people" like how Donald Trump used labels for his opponents during the election. Then they probably won't want to talk to you at all after that but that's not a bad thing.

[masterwakokok7]

Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

Friends do bully each other in a way that they don't hurt each others feelings. A real friend knows when to stop, and knows how to apologize if they said something that aren't that good.

Try to fight back, there's nothing wrong if you want to defend your pride and family. Step up, so that your so called true friends set limitations in terms of teasing you or something. If you don't do anything about it, this same scenario could occur again but this time it is much worse. Getting rid of a friend is really hard, but if it is for your own good then leave that group. It's not your loss actually, since that type of group you have right now will hinder you to grow as a person. If you leave now, more doors will open in front of you. More opportunities will come and that decision my friend would let your mind and soul be free from hatred, anger and self pity.

Don't let them to break you down! Have courage to stand and fight for yourself!

[JoMarrah Iarim Dan]

Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

In our childhood days, most of us were bullied like me when I'm in my grade school. Straight grade one (1) to grade six (6) almost everyday i got bully. Sometimes i think i want to quit studying so i will be bully and i will not see those bully persons everyday. But no I dont give up I just show them that I am ignoring them and i don't care to what they say because I think this is the only way I can do maybe you try it. If you ignore them they will get tired of bullying you then they will stop.
You say they are your true friends? But they include your parents?
ARE THEY REALLY YOUR TRUE FRIENDS ? WHAT MAKES THEM YOUR TRUE FRIENDS IF THEY INCLUDE YOUR PARENTS? It is normal that your TRUE FRIENDS bully you but they should not include your parents.

[Come on!]

Do you think they're still true friends knowing that they involved your parents? Wake up dude! I also have bully friends but they never involved my family in such things because its too personal.

I don't really even know it right now, I kept on thinking what should I do now. Another thing is they are my group mates on thesis.

Talk to them personally and tell them what you really feels inside. It's hard to work on a group project if you have discomfort or hard feelings to other members. Conflicts may exist in your decision making regarding to your thesis because the decision is not unanimous. In order to prevent that from happening, you should open up with them, tell them everything, ask them what they want and what they really after. If they stop it then its okay, but if they ignore everything you say then its time for you to decide whether to stick with them or ask your professor to let you join other group. Good luck bro!

[Karmakid]

Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

Tell your friends that you're not feeling good with what they're doing. True friends treat each other nice. It's ok to joke around sometimes but if it's too much and you're hurting someone it should be stopped. I'm sure you can find more friends, done hold on to someone who doesn't treat you well.

[Ziomuro27]

Ask yourself first if your friends are your truly friend because if they are your friend they will help you and support you in everything that you do.If you want to get rid or escape to your friend because they are bullying you call for help like, teachers, family or your sister or brothers, there is also an act of anti bullying which can warned your friend to stop bullying you.

[Eternu]

Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.

Well i guess if they are truly you friends, if you talk to them and tell them that they are hurting your feelings they will stop. If they do not do that... well than they are not your friends at all. In that case say bye to them, and find other people who will be your true friends. I guess that it sounds hard to find good friends and it is, but it is not impossible. Good luck.

[machinek20]

Your true friends will not harm you verbally or physically, if you still think that they are your friends then go and talk with them, if they dont listen, leave them find a new friends, a friend that gave a bad influence to you is not worth to be called as friend, if you keep on going be friend with them it is going to affect your psychology and your mental health and also your self esteem

[Xester]

Actually the one who can bully you that hard are your true friends.  Better if you will tell then that they were bullying or their jokes were too much for you.  You should not be ashamed of telling them your feelings a you said they were your true friends.  Be true to them or set boundaries.  Talking or making fun with family is absolutely unpleasant.

[eagleman]

If they are your true friends they will include your parents nor family with their bullying.
They are not true friends if they are hurting you, report it to your school principal for proper action.
And if they want some counselling too.