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July 26, 2017, 02:35:13 PM
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Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.
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July 26, 2017, 02:42:45 PM |
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Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feeling got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.
Do you think they're still true friends knowing that they involved your parents? Wake up dude! I also have bully friends but they never involved my family in such things because its too personal. |
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July 26, 2017, 02:48:44 PM |
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True friends will not bluff, do not let yourself be lowered, you have pride then become a great person without degrading and disturbing others.
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July 26, 2017, 02:51:10 PM |
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If that is a joke then accept the joke unless you also dont give a joke about them. Bullying is just normal for a close friends but one the bullying becomes severe then you should decide as soon as possible before it gets worse
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July 26, 2017, 03:00:58 PM |
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If that is a joke then accept the joke unless you also dont give a joke about them. Bullying is just normal for a close friends but one the bullying becomes severe then you should decide as soon as possible before it gets worse
It is worse right now. This happens to me everyday but I kept ignoring them by just laughing but the real thing is it hurts so much that they don't even know. |
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darklus123
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July 26, 2017, 03:05:22 PM |
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If that is a joke then accept the joke unless you also dont give a joke about them. Bullying is just normal for a close friends but one the bullying becomes severe then you should decide as soon as possible before it gets worse
It is worse right now. This happens to me everyday but I kept ignoring them by just laughing but the real thing is it hurts so much that they don't even know. Are you being emotionally hurt or are they also trying to hurt you physically as well? Then i guess you should have to isolate your self and separate from them. You know what mate if you are living in those persons that doesnt make you feel happy and contented at life then you should find another one. I also has a few friends in my circle because i only choose the ones that are best for me but it also doesnt mean that i wont be interacting with them |
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July 26, 2017, 03:08:43 PM |
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Do you think they're still true friends knowing that they involved your parents? Wake up dude! I also have bully friends but they never involved my family in such things because its too personal. I don't really even know it right now, I kept on thinking what should I do now. Another thing is they are my group mates on thesis. |
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July 26, 2017, 03:13:46 PM |
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Tell you're friends how you feel about their behavior, maybe they don't see it.
Real friends will stop with their bullying when you tell them.
Otherwise, I'm sorry to say this but you should find new friends.
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July 26, 2017, 03:14:10 PM |
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You need new friends. Real friends back each other Up, they do not bully each other. An occasional burn is normal, but when it gets personal and it hurts it is for sure not a thing among friends. Hey do not think twice about getting new friends, it should be a goal of yours. To meet as many people as you can. I am sure that you will meet far better people down the road.
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July 26, 2017, 03:26:14 PM |
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Are you being emotionally hurt or are they also trying to hurt you physically as well? Then i guess you should have to isolate your self and separate from them. You know what mate if you are living in those persons that doesnt make you feel happy and contented at life then you should find another one. I also has a few friends in my circle because i only choose the ones that are best for me but it also doesnt mean that i wont be interacting with them Emotionally hurt only, I feel happy with them but not that contented. Thanks for your advice, I will think of it. |
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July 26, 2017, 03:27:58 PM |
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Tell you're friends how you feel about their behavior, maybe they don't see it.
Real friends will stop with their bullying when you tell them.
Otherwise, I'm sorry to say this but you should find new friends.
I will try telling them. Thanks mate |
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July 26, 2017, 03:28:45 PM |
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Are you being emotionally hurt or are they also trying to hurt you physically as well? Then i guess you should have to isolate your self and separate from them. You know what mate if you are living in those persons that doesnt make you feel happy and contented at life then you should find another one. I also has a few friends in my circle because i only choose the ones that are best for me but it also doesnt mean that i wont be interacting with them Emotionally hurt only, I feel happy with them but not that contented. Thanks for your advice, I will think of it. Well i have an idea why not try to confront them that you are being emotionally hurt and tries to ask them if they can stop it. If they dont then move on but if they do fhen they really are your true friends because they dont understand your feelings |
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July 26, 2017, 03:39:09 PM |
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Tell you're friends how you feel about their behavior, maybe they don't see it.
Real friends will stop with their bullying when you tell them.
Otherwise, I'm sorry to say this but you should find new friends.
I will try telling them. Thanks mate Good luck buddy! I hope they will understand you. |
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July 26, 2017, 03:46:06 PM |
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Tell you're friends how you feel about their behavior, maybe they don't see it.
Real friends will stop with their bullying when you tell them.
Otherwise, I'm sorry to say this but you should find new friends.
I will try telling them. Thanks mate 1st I thought you were underage (mentioned parents) then I seen thesis so I hope you really mean thesis as in college? The poster above gave you true advice. Friends don't hurt friends. But, it's best to let them know how you feel. IF it stops great. IF not yeah those aren't your friends and cut out while you can. I have 1000 acquaintances, but only a few I call friends. Sorry you felt so bad to post this. Good luck with sorting this out and maybe finding new friends  as well as your thesis! |
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July 26, 2017, 03:56:32 PM |
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Very Good to see that you are reaching out. You do realize that a lot of the biggest men in history were bullied in some way. Remove these chump from your life and keep on pushing thru!
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July 26, 2017, 04:09:51 PM |
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They are your so called true friends right? So you must know if they are joking or if they mean it. If they are just joking and it hurts your feelings, since they are your true friends you can tell them to stop. Tell them the truth. But if you think they mean it, then its for you to decide whether you let them doing it to you or let the friendship over.
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July 26, 2017, 04:28:59 PM |
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Well I used to bully my friends through jokes but never really involves their parents .
As a friend they should know their limits and they should really think about their jokes I mean yeah I bully some of my friends but I think it is a different kind of things, I mean even the ones that I used to joke is also laughing about it and it doesn't really hurt him because he also knows that it is just a joke.
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July 26, 2017, 06:15:54 PM |
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Well I used to bully my friends through jokes but never really involves their parents .
As a friend they should know their limits and they should really think about their jokes I mean yeah I bully some of my friends but I think it is a different kind of things, I mean even the ones that I used to joke is also laughing about it and it doesn't really hurt him because he also knows that it is just a joke.
It is good to know your limits. But why bully at all? That is my question. I was never bullied or bullied others, but so my little brother being bullied and it hurted more that fi I was bullied myself |
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July 26, 2017, 06:45:35 PM
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Help me guys, I want to get rid of my bully friends but they are my true friends. A while ago I almost cried, my feelings got hurt again they were bullying me and they involved my parents.
True friends don't do those things, there's a difference between jokes and bullying. Just tell them to stop, tell them you don't like how they're being to you (I don't know if you already did that but you need to tell to them how you are feeling). If they are your "true friends" they'll understand and stop being jerks. If not, well surprise they're not true friends at all... Not so difficult to realize when people understimate you lol unless you think you deserve that (but believe me, no one does) |
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