Guapongbadoy
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March 10, 2018, 05:31:37 PM |
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We learn from our past, they say. I've been through an abusive relationship. That often blurs the lines that define my space even today.
To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.
I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.
Yes I been experienced that but not in a relationship but with one of my aunt. She doesn't want me to experience the thing that she didn't experience during her past life. He treated me more than a woman cause I am not allowed to come outside more done the time that she set. Even my study, relationship, and to my family. I experienced also verbal abuse aside from controlling my freedom. It's a kind of a thorn at my neck that when ever you have little attempt to remove such thing will become more harder for me to free.
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orangeibmportD
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March 10, 2018, 06:58:37 PM |
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My 2 years old controls my life like no one else could ever had.
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illbaker8
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March 10, 2018, 08:52:34 PM |
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My wife! I think that answers it all and also explains well the reason.
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1battermainsheet3
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March 10, 2018, 09:35:59 PM |
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The new shows that come out every time controls my life completely.
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Zandar
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March 10, 2018, 10:10:11 PM |
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That's because there is a difference in loving someone and trusting someone. You learn these kind of things during 'certain' relationships. So when you are in one like that, you cannot trust the other and you will feel like being controlled by that person. It is best to get rid of that person as fast as you can, you will feel a breath of freedom come over you.
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kamenix
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March 10, 2018, 10:24:26 PM |
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I know the feeling. There years ago I was in your place.i was acting the way other expected me too. Than I snapped and realized that I have many so called friends. That didn't even remember I was there with them a day. On that day ago I decided I would be the person I was and was prepared too lose all friends, but it never came to that. I became happyer and was more rememberable. I started to go to the gym and that affected my confidence positively.
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shiki3226
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March 10, 2018, 11:20:19 PM |
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I've never been to any abusive or possessive relationship and I'm glad that I haven't experienced. Though it is sad to know that there are people that has to deal with it.
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Lhanjhong
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March 10, 2018, 11:26:14 PM |
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I experience that feeling already,I can't do what I want.All I am doing is wrong for them and they like that I will do what they said and it hurts so much that feeling.That is the cause why people revenge sometimes.
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eurobend6
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March 11, 2018, 05:02:35 PM |
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Yea i always feel so that my wife is controlling my life all the time anywhere and everywhere i go.
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Temitope
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March 11, 2018, 06:53:03 PM |
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At a point in time you are controlled by people around you. While you are small you parents control you. When you enter into big society you are controlled by senior citizens. Even when you get married you are controlled by your spouse
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kaputvapid3
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March 12, 2018, 03:46:57 PM |
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Nope. i am the ruler of my own life no one can ever ever control me anytime
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concatmedial5
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March 12, 2018, 05:50:14 PM |
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No, I don’t think anyone can control my life since I am a very strong.
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hushwind
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March 12, 2018, 10:36:21 PM |
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My father is a control freak and he controls my life even after I turned 26.
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nodtaut7
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March 13, 2018, 01:28:22 AM |
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I guess my mother has controlled my life for a very long time but now she doesn’t.
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excitingconvex04
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March 14, 2018, 10:37:08 PM |
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There is no one controlling my life and I don’t see it happening also for some reason.
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bankbytecode5
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March 15, 2018, 04:44:53 AM |
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I guess, the mobile phones are the one controlling everyone’s life.
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September11Myth
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March 16, 2018, 09:51:59 PM |
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I must say I am also quite allergic to anyone trying to control my life and manipulate me into doing things I don't want. But unlike you I don't get anxiety when this occasionally happens, I just get angry and I react.
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staineddreserved7
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March 17, 2018, 02:34:07 AM |
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Nah. No one controls my life as I am a control freak and I control everyone.
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thongsbe
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March 18, 2018, 02:51:57 AM |
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Actually all the committed guy's life is controlled by someone else but not the life of any single guy is such
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rabidsnake46
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March 19, 2018, 01:42:32 PM |
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Yes, a lot of times. I think my brother for some reason controls my life.
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