Does your family past incidents effect you?

[Juggy777]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

[boyptc]

I'm not facing this situation but what makes him such in a haste that he wants to gamble? Is that necessary? if he really wishes to gamble then he can go somewhere where no one recognized him to gamble. (i.e casino - physical or online) His relatives are of course scared on the same fate that he can be. How old is your friend? is he on the right age?

[eann014]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Don't bother their problem, maybe their family is not really good in gambling so maybe it is okay for your friend not to gamble so he will not making another loss for their family. It is not also good that you push your friend to an activity that is no assurance that he will really win. You all both know that gambling is just a matter of luck and if you don't have luck you will not gain profit in gambling.

[machinek20]

I think the best way to deal with this problem is to stay away from it, they have a good reason to forbid your friend from gambling, and they forbid gambling because they dont want to repeat the same history, if you keep convince them wrong and in the end they lost a lot of money, then you will be blamed

[LANZ777]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

I don't know but about my past in gambling its too worst l lost my husband because of gambling. Because it's not we always win the game. There are times we go home loser. But l have to go home with needs if my children. So in short lm lending money for the next capital and foe my kids. Until l've got a lot of debts. Hiding in any place where they can't find me because people are looking at me for my payment. Until me and my husband  separated.So l  can't forget about my experience in gambling.

[eternalgloom]

How old is the person you're talking about? If he's an adult, I don't really see how his family could really stop him from gambling with his own money.
It's understandable though that they're trying to prevent him make the same mistakes as his uncle, but if he's older than 21 they can't.

I'm not really sure if an addictive personality is hereditary, but I've found one source that says it is.
So he might be smart to abstain from gambling.

Source:
http://learn.genetics.utah.edu/content/addiction/genes/

In the end, it's really up to him if he want to roll the dice on becoming addicted or not, seems like he would have an increased chance of that happening.

[jrrsparkles]

I am not a big lover of gambling because my dad lost his valuable assets while gambling and other addictions so it keeps aware or away from gambling.But the online gambling is a best way for me to gamble but I am very conscious with my limits of betting while gambling and keeping time limit too stay away from addiction.

[mrcash02]

How old is the person you're talking about? If he's an adult, I don't really see how his family could really stop him from gambling with his own money.
It's understandable though that they're trying to prevent him make the same mistakes as his uncle, but if he's older than 21 they can't.

I'm not really sure if an addictive personality is hereditary, but I've found one source that says it is.
So he might be smart to abstain from gambling.

Source:
http://learn.genetics.utah.edu/content/addiction/genes/

In the end, it's really up to him if he want to roll the dice on becoming addicted or not, seems like he would have an increased chance of that happening.

There is a good chance it can be inheritable. And personally, it's a bit curious a person who had an uncle in a desastrous situation like that, and now is wanting to gamble too... Why is this young enchanted for gambling knowing it was very harmful for his family?

At first point it can be his own decision to gamble or not, but it's necessary to keep in mind that if he is an addicted person the problem won't be only his, but the whole family will suffer again... To not be radical, a family member could go with him to a casino or stay with him during an online casino game, observing his behavior until reaching to the conclusion he is safe to play by himself or not.

[crwth]

Well if it's in their blood, its probably going to continue or be passed on in some way. Those uncles that he has perhaps got too addicted to gambling that he didn't control himself and continues to think that he was still a lot of money, but those amounts are hard to come by, especially if you don't have a business or something.

[creeps]

They didn’t loose that amont in just 1day is seems like they are addict on gambling. You have to agree on that, because in the first place they already experienced it, and imagine you have a lot of money yet you ended up nothing. Why still encourage your friend to do gambling, this should not be tolerated because gambling is too risky specially when you do this for a living so learn from the expert who loose big money in the casinos.

[yoseph]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

It would be wise if he listens to his family and doesn't gamble at all, there is nothing to prove that what happened to his uncle or grandfather might or might not happen to him but to be on the safe side, It would be okay if he doesn't and end up following what seems to be a family trend.

[Dreamchaser21]

What is the sense of encouraging your friend from doing gambling? Even you explained already to the family of your friend you still can’t convinced them because they experienced a lot i think compared to you. Just listen to them and you will not loose much money. Don’t pass the greed to people who you really care for.

[audaciousbeing]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

If you are helping him explain to them that they are wrong, you had better just give him your own money to gamble with then see how it goes. This is a family who not only have evidence based on hearsay, but witnessed it first hand and I am sure your friend must have met one or two of the people reference is being made and there is no amount of explanation you will do that will make the family change their mind.

If he is bent on gambling, just tell him to go make his own money, gamble with it, make tons of more money then come back to shame his family on how wrong they are by banning him from gambling. Its that simple.

[tabas]

Don't stand between your friend and his relatives or you'll be the one who will be in trouble and receive the consequences. Don't explain anything if there's a tie between relatives, you don't put yourself any among of them. Been into that the same situation but not with gambling and in the end, I blamed myself trying to help others.

[Wendigo]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Tell him to tell them to fuck off and then to go on a week-long trip to Las Vegas having fun like it's his last day on Earth 

[Nanot]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

The reason behind that isue is the luckyness because they believed in the bad aura that you have when your relatives have misfurtune in gambling. So that they could'nt allow that kind of terrible thing to enter because they believed that they may lose all because of you and you are the only one to be blame for. Thats what the reason and also they would not want to be with you because you have a misfutune that be enherit to your relatives. For me i think that its not true maybe we have some reason except of that.

[marlboroza]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

I don't see how anyone can stop him for doing what he wants to do if he is 18+, as it is not your family you really should stay out of it.

anyone else faces such issues?

Yes but not in gambling. When two are fighting it is best to step aside

[gabmen]

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

They may very well be right in restricting him from gambling. They've seen first hand how gambling can drain a person's money so they're restriction comes from a valid point. It can also be a general lesson not only for your friend but anyone who's trying to gamble

[GoodLuck2]

I think the best way to deal with this problem is to stay away from it, they have a good reason to forbid your friend from gambling, and they forbid gambling because they dont want to repeat the same history, if you keep convince them wrong and in the end they lost a lot of money, then you will be blamed

If someone is forbidding you from gambling, believe me he is sincere with you. We should learn from others or at least pay a little attention to their words, especially close ones because they are the people who feel more pain by watching you in trouble. And for those who have friends persuading them to play gambling, I really pity such guys and I hope they find a good rather intelligent company soon.

[stomachgrowls]

How old is the person you're talking about? If he's an adult, I don't really see how his family could really stop him from gambling with his own money.
It's understandable though that they're trying to prevent him make the same mistakes as his uncle, but if he's older than 21 they can't.

I'm not really sure if an addictive personality is hereditary, but I've found one source that says it is.
So he might be smart to abstain from gambling.

Source:
http://learn.genetics.utah.edu/content/addiction/genes/

In the end, it's really up to him if he want to roll the dice on becoming addicted or not, seems like he would have an increased chance of that happening.

I didn't even expect that addictive personality can be passed on into younger generations.The actions been made by his family isn't bad at all because they are just preventing to lose up even more money not only on money matter but also they are really avoiding on getting addicted because it is much more a serious problem if this thing attached to yourself but I do believe that it is really just matter on ones personality if you do able yourself got hooked into it. No one can able to control yourself no matter how hard they would try to avoid.