Aikidoka
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January 27, 2018, 08:52:20 PM |
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I think you should stay away from his problem because that is his not yours. It is your duty to back him up, but do not waste your time convincing his parents they are on the wrong foot. Believe me, they will never be convinced because parents in general think they always are right.
Plus, I do not understand why your friend wants to gamble so bad. It is really a waste of time and money. Instead, convince your friend to stop gambling and fulfill his time with various activities.
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lienfaye
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January 27, 2018, 10:44:45 PM |
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Due to their past experiences they are aware of the possible consequences that might happen to your friend and so he should take that advise from them and forget about gambling. There an alternative ways if he just want to have fun, they are just afraid your friend commit the same mistakes that probably they wish didnt do.
Better to do other activites with your friend instead of proving them wrong about gambling. You might be put in a hard situation if you interfere in their stance.
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SamsungBitcoin
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January 27, 2018, 10:56:30 PM |
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For me i would suggest no to try it, you know they have bad history in gambling they losses huge amount of money not only 1 family member experience that but 2, i feel that their family has no luck in gambling much better to find alternative way to make them self entertain and used his money in other method that he can able to earn much better income.
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RealPhotoshoper
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January 27, 2018, 11:47:28 PM |
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Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?
I don't see how anyone can stop him for doing what he wants to do if he is 18+, as it is not your family you really should stay out of it. anyone else faces such issues?
Yes but not in gambling. When two are fighting it is best to step aside That's true , besides as long as he is old enough to being responsible on whatever he wanted , you cannot do much with that fact but give some suggestion is necessary. Everyone with this similar cases won't let their family member to do the same mistake. for sure you are the only one who can decide , but yeaa it has an effect to change your decision.
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noormcs5
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January 28, 2018, 05:33:57 AM |
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Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?
Well the elders who have lost in Gambling will never want their siblings or anyone close to them lose or face such difficulties which they have experienced. They are right in one sense but thing may not be same for every person. Perhaps your friend luck is better than his uncle and he can be a millionaire in short time, but there is no grantee . Risk of losing still resides.
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Baoo
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January 28, 2018, 02:33:16 PM |
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Everything is in your mind, that's means when you think of negative things ( like, I cannot win , I'm a loser ) then it will adversely affect your destiny and the same is true for gambling. Moreover, Of course, the fate of a family member ( in gambling) does not affect other individuals . but the problem that many people imitate their family members in many things, especially in negative things .
Furthermore, It is very important to deal with the truth and for example, if you lose a big amount of money in gambling, You must accept this loss and deal with this problem, learn from this experience and start over, then the financial loss will be compensated with substantial profits.
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BTCeminjas
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January 28, 2018, 03:28:12 PM |
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Everything is in your mind, that's means when you think of negative things ( like, I cannot win , I'm a loser )
Yes that negative think may turn you a loser forever, in doing gambling you must have a positive energy or having a good vibes. If you don't have these things much better to stop gambling or else you may lose all your money. Frankly speaking gambling is not good to us, why do we need to gambled our money besides, we all both know that gambling is 99% risky. Does your family past incidents effect you?.. That's a case to case basis you may gambled even they did not know, or you may gambled at some gambling site that they don't know. There's many way if you want not just because of your past family do.
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January 28, 2018, 03:42:41 PM |
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the gambling effect will be perceived by every people because some people consider gambling will always bring bad influence for people and their families and i think his family was fear he would be the next victim from negative effect from gambling and this is normal that if his family does not allowed him to gamble but if he still insist to gamble i think there is no problem regarding that because he still able to gamble unnoticed by his family use cryptocurrencies
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milewilda
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January 28, 2018, 03:55:21 PM |
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the gambling effect will be perceived by every people because some people consider gambling will always bring bad influence for people and their families and i think his family was fear he would be the next victim from negative effect from gambling and this is normal that if his family does not allowed him to gamble but if he still insist to gamble i think there is no problem regarding that because he still able to gamble unnoticed by his family use cryptocurrencies
Stopping him would be completely meaningless if the mind is already fixed on having the motivation on playing gambling then no matter how they hold or advised that person he would definitely play gambling no matter what since there are lots of ways which you can able to play without even their awareness which means the only thing that can stop himself on playing is on his mind decision where if he would be sensible to see possible scenarios happen when he do try to engage.
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January 28, 2018, 04:09:33 PM |
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Everything is in your mind, that's means when you think of negative things ( like, I cannot win , I'm a loser ) then it will adversely affect your destiny and the same is true for gambling. Moreover, Of course, the fate of a family member ( in gambling) does not affect other individuals . but the problem that many people imitate their family members in many things, especially in negative things .
Furthermore, It is very important to deal with the truth and for example, if you lose a big amount of money in gambling, You must accept this loss and deal with this problem, learn from this experience and start over, then the financial loss will be compensated with substantial profits.
You should never expect to have a steady income, a continuous profit from gambling, that's the matter. When you expect nothing but to play a game and just to get unexpected huge rewards at some point you might would be fine to gamble no matter what was happened to other people in the past, just keep in mind to stick on what you've planned.
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I'm in 400,000 euros debt , dont help me , i rather die
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Shenzou
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January 28, 2018, 05:40:59 PM |
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Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?
If it is real life gambling that you are trting to convince them to let him do it, than they have a point, i know that he is free to do what he wants and his luck won't be like his uncle, but family comes first if they don't want him to do it they probably have reasons, but if it is online gambling he could easily do it without them knowing he could buy bitcoin or any other cryptocurrency and put them in an online cassno, and they won't even know about it.
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January 28, 2018, 06:27:02 PM |
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Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?
If it is real life gambling that you are trting to convince them to let him do it, than they have a point, i know that he is free to do what he wants and his luck won't be like his uncle, but family comes first if they don't want him to do it they probably have reasons, but if it is online gambling he could easily do it without them knowing he could buy bitcoin or any other cryptocurrency and put them in an online cassno, and they won't even know about it. What happens to families does not have to happen to other family members, everyone's gambling skills are so different and now gambling is so familiar and comfortable online, I'm sure everyone has strong speculation and just needs refinement, if it is strictly forbidden by family, play without them knowing, but do not get caught up with something you can not control, at least you know the limits and ethics of your own gambling.
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Trivelius
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January 28, 2018, 09:18:13 PM |
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the gambling effect will be perceived by every people because some people consider gambling will always bring bad influence for people and their families and i think his family was fear he would be the next victim from negative effect from gambling and this is normal that if his family does not allowed him to gamble but if he still insist to gamble i think there is no problem regarding that because he still able to gamble unnoticed by his family use cryptocurrencies
It may have some financial as well as psychological effect on your family, but still if you have quit gambling for ever then it is good for you. You need to start a good and profitable business wich can also help you to stop gamblng for ever, because once you become addicted to gamboling then it iwll really be too much hard to stop gamblng for ever.
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pixie85
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January 28, 2018, 10:32:46 PM |
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I don't have such problems because I haven't had any problems with gambling and none of my family members had. I can relate to this in a way because I had some addicts in my family, mostly alcoholics, and this made the rest of them really watchful and scared of any excessive drinking on my part. The only way to battle this is to keep your gambling a secret because they will never stop worrying otr trying to stop you.
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carlisle1
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January 29, 2018, 12:42:18 AM |
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Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?
if this issue were right,i favored the situation as this point helped your friend get away from trouble,though gambling was made for fun,to enjoy and treasure the moment given us on betting win or lose,most of the gamblers becomes addicted and sooner turns into greedy that no one can stop them even their family.so i think your friend must be lucky.in time he will realize those things that saved him
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TheGodFather
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January 29, 2018, 03:37:03 AM |
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Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?
The good thing I think is that even if my family and my relatives have all been taking part and playing various gambling games I still can honestly say that there is no gambling problem in me and my family. Though my immediate family would like to practice caution against these games and would rather have me invest on other skall ventures than play
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January 29, 2018, 11:24:42 AM |
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Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?
Scenarios like this shouldn't be a trauma on anyone, something like this should be take as a lesson, because if you are not going to learn from your mistakes and keep on insisting what you should not do will just lead you to madness and you will continue losing a huge amount of money in gambling. I knoe that there are some people out there who are making a lot of money in gambling but this doesn't mean that it could be also happen to us if we tried gambling. Take this mistake in a good way, instead of worrying on how to win all back what you have lost in gambling, think of another way where it is more safe than gambling that you know you could earn money most of the time.
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szpalata
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January 29, 2018, 12:36:29 PM |
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I don't have such problems because I haven't had any problems with gambling and none of my family members had. I can relate to this in a way because I had some addicts in my family, mostly alcoholics, and this made the rest of them really watchful and scared of any excessive drinking on my part. The only way to battle this is to keep your gambling a secret because they will never stop worrying otr trying to stop you.
Even if you have had issues with your family in the past regarding gambling addiction i don't think its should negatively affect the way you think or approach gambling because chances are that your relative might have been doing the wrong things and gambling without plan or psychology and was thus thrashed into addiction or something worse but you can have a different approach and get things done in gambling the way you want it and not what family history tells you. With the introduction of bitcoin i think you can be guaranteed anonymity and so if you keep it from your family it will be great too.
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bhadz
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January 29, 2018, 12:38:51 PM |
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Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich).
So they are rich enough and doesn't want to lose more with gambling? They don't want your buddy to gamble, why they mind it if its not their money, is your friend that old enough or still a young lad? So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think,
Don't protect your buddy or explain anything to his family, you are out of the family circle so don't try to interfere with their decision. Help your friend to understand why his relatives are talking that way because they don't want history repeat itself. anyone else faces such issues?
I'm not in this situation.
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January 29, 2018, 12:49:39 PM |
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Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?
Even how many times you keep on telling them that I'm sure they will never believed you since they have their trauma already. And in my own opinion as I am an observer I have many seen gamblers ends in losing their money in a million or their properties because of gambling. So how come that gambling is good? Where's the good effect from bitcoin? So better for him to be bared from gambling because his parents know what is good for him.
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