help with stalking and harassment

[DrahogErusiel]

Why don't you attempt communicating with her and try to settle things?

Seriously. Walking around with the mindset that you have does not defuse stalker situations. In the end, remember that you are dealing with a person who harbors intense feelings regarding you.

this person is mentally ill. no reasoning with insanity

How is she mentally ill?

shes obsessed, text me about going to see her shrink all the time. i dont know what shes ill with but glad i dont got it.

That's a weak answer. That doesn't sound like enough to consider someone mentally ill. So far, it sounds like she can't get over you and does not know how to deal with it. Unfortunately for her, you don't sound mature enough to address the issue effectively.

i wish you could be in my shoes. we never hard a relationship we have been the same pubic space twice. so her feeling for me are not my problem. my weak answer is about all i have to go on. what she text me. so maybe read and process my information im giving you.

I'm done here. I don't know the situation. But she probably believes, in her mind, that you might change your mind. Remember, she's a person. You really should try communicating with her as a person. Start by being nice but explanatory. Do you really think ignoring and complaining are behaviors that will heal the situation?

may i ask your age? just curries.. i think a persons thoughts etc on something like this may change drastically with age.

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[Gordon Bleu]

In Google you can create a Rule to filter her Messages,
and for the Police, her IP should be enough (Show Messages as Plain Text/Original - Litttle Downside Triangle/Arrow in the right Top Corner for each Message)

[FirstAscent]

Why don't you attempt communicating with her and try to settle things?

Seriously. Walking around with the mindset that you have does not defuse stalker situations. In the end, remember that you are dealing with a person who harbors intense feelings regarding you.

this person is mentally ill. no reasoning with insanity

How is she mentally ill?

shes obsessed, text me about going to see her shrink all the time. i dont know what shes ill with but glad i dont got it.

That's a weak answer. That doesn't sound like enough to consider someone mentally ill. So far, it sounds like she can't get over you and does not know how to deal with it. Unfortunately for her, you don't sound mature enough to address the issue effectively.

i wish you could be in my shoes. we never hard a relationship we have been the same pubic space twice. so her feeling for me are not my problem. my weak answer is about all i have to go on. what she text me. so maybe read and process my information im giving you.

I'm done here. I don't know the situation. But she probably believes, in her mind, that you might change your mind. Remember, she's a person. You really should try communicating with her as a person. Start by being nice but explanatory. Do you really think ignoring and complaining are behaviors that will heal the situation?

may i ask your age? just curries.. i think a persons thoughts etc on something like this may change drastically with age.

Late forties. But as I said, I'm done here. You're right that I don't really know the situation.

[DrahogErusiel]

In Google you can create a Rule to filter her Messages,
and for the Police, her IP should be enough (Show Messages as Plain Text/Original - Litttle Downside Triangle/Arrow in the right Top Corner for each Message)

thank you i filtered her email address to archive. so i can dig them up when the shit hits the fan

[DrahogErusiel]

Why don't you attempt communicating with her and try to settle things?

Seriously. Walking around with the mindset that you have does not defuse stalker situations. In the end, remember that you are dealing with a person who harbors intense feelings regarding you.

this person is mentally ill. no reasoning with insanity

How is she mentally ill?

shes obsessed, text me about going to see her shrink all the time. i dont know what shes ill with but glad i dont got it.

That's a weak answer. That doesn't sound like enough to consider someone mentally ill. So far, it sounds like she can't get over you and does not know how to deal with it. Unfortunately for her, you don't sound mature enough to address the issue effectively.

i wish you could be in my shoes. we never hard a relationship we have been the same pubic space twice. so her feeling for me are not my problem. my weak answer is about all i have to go on. what she text me. so maybe read and process my information im giving you.

I'm done here. I don't know the situation. But she probably believes, in her mind, that you might change your mind. Remember, she's a person. You really should try communicating with her as a person. Start by being nice but explanatory. Do you really think ignoring and complaining are behaviors that will heal the situation?

may i ask your age? just curries.. i think a persons thoughts etc on something like this may change drastically with age.

Late forties. But as I said, I'm done here. You're right that I don't really know the situation.

ok thank you

[Feneusens]

does anyone have any remedies to a stalker? this has been going on for almost 2 years and now its come to the point where i get "im going to kill you" txt over and over again from various numbers. obviously its her.

and yes this is the person who has been harassing me on the forum


i have blocked all number as they come in.
called the police they have called her to tell her to stop (this has happened tonight)
any other tricks to block contact with set IP address? shes already blocked from the forum but still reads it. she will see this.

sad soul she is. here is my statement about her


Monica started her account here JUST to harass me. she has been blocked by paypal and i think her bank for continually doing things like sending me thousands of dollars, coming down from the DRUGS her quack doctor gives her. then, claiming that her account was hacked and the charges are false. all the money has been returned to her. I made no claims that the money was mine. Monica is seriously ill. we have only met a few times years ago and form there the stalking and harassment from her has never stopped. only thing i did was not want a relationship with her and this is her way of making sure we have one, no matter what.

Seriously, did you did anything bad to her?

[b!z]

Why don't you call the police?

[BitcoinAddicts]

Why don't you call the police?

Do police even care? Last I know police will care only if the women got stalked by some guy....

[missworld]

this is the end of year 2. i have been compassionate im a cold hearted prick...

...Sounds like that's what got him into this predicament in the first place.

And it seems like this post was just created to incite her, if he believes she still reads this forum. The information he's asking for can be obtained from the local police or a simple google search.

There's a reason why truly crazy stalker stories make the news, because it's not as common as you think. I know this is a pretty male-centric forum but I just have to say it's MORE common for a guy who can't deal with emotional volatility from a woman to slap the "crazy" label on her. More than likely this guy did something to her to make her react this way. He may have even made death threats himself...

[Wardrick]

I watched a show on TV where something similar like this happened. A families next door neighbor would harass them everyday. Even when they had a restraining order on her because she lived across the road nothing could be done. I think it went on for years, until she finally started getting arrested every time she tried to harass them (Somehow she worked for some position in the criminal justice system, wtf right?). Every time she calls you report it to the police and stress that she's constantly harassing you 24/7, eventually she'll start getting arrested every time she tries to harass you.

[beetcoin]

wouldn't providing your local authorities proof that she is physically threatening to harm you be good enough? or maybe you could just politely ask her to leave you alone, and that you have enough evidence on her if she doesn't.

[DrahogErusiel]

this is the end of year 2. i have been compassionate im a cold hearted prick...

...Sounds like that's what got him into this predicament in the first place.

And it seems like this post was just created to incite her, if he believes she still reads this forum. The information he's asking for can be obtained from the local police or a simple google search.

There's a reason why truly crazy stalker stories make the news, because it's not as common as you think. I know this is a pretty male-centric forum but I just have to say it's MORE common for a guy who can't deal with emotional volatility from a woman to slap the "crazy" label on her. More than likely this guy did something to her to make her react this way. He may have even made death threats himself...

broska, this was sarcasm to some other asshole like yourself throwing out your "PROBABLY" more or less this is technical questions about IPs and blocking contact with people. nice way to keep the female figure in the victim slot. this is 2013 right? i dont care what her genitals are doing. we are all people and this PERSON is putrid non the less.

[DrahogErusiel]

this is the end of year 2. i have been compassionate im a cold hearted prick...

...Sounds like that's what got him into this predicament in the first place.

And it seems like this post was just created to incite her, if he believes she still reads this forum. The information he's asking for can be obtained from the local police or a simple google search.

There's a reason why truly crazy stalker stories make the news, because it's not as common as you think. I know this is a pretty male-centric forum but I just have to say it's MORE common for a guy who can't deal with emotional volatility from a woman to slap the "crazy" label on her. More than likely this guy did something to her to make her react this way. He may have even made death threats himself...

also after reviewing your post, i can see you're all about talking about your female status. makes sense, why you would say this. I was once told that every time a male and woman have sex, its a form of rape. does that extreme also fit your ideas?

[missworld]

this is the end of year 2. i have been compassionate im a cold hearted prick...

...Sounds like that's what got him into this predicament in the first place.

And it seems like this post was just created to incite her, if he believes she still reads this forum. The information he's asking for can be obtained from the local police or a simple google search.

There's a reason why truly crazy stalker stories make the news, because it's not as common as you think. I know this is a pretty male-centric forum but I just have to say it's MORE common for a guy who can't deal with emotional volatility from a woman to slap the "crazy" label on her. More than likely this guy did something to her to make her react this way. He may have even made death threats himself...

broska, this was sarcasm to some other asshole like yourself throwing out your "PROBABLY" more or less this is technical questions about IPs and blocking contact with people. nice way to keep the female figure in the victim slot. this is 2013 right? i dont care what her genitals are doing. we are all people and this PERSON is putrid non the less.

I'm honestly not being mean here but this post is borderline unintelligible. Mind trying again?

[DrahogErusiel]

this is the end of year 2. i have been compassionate im a cold hearted prick...

...Sounds like that's what got him into this predicament in the first place.

And it seems like this post was just created to incite her, if he believes she still reads this forum. The information he's asking for can be obtained from the local police or a simple google search.

There's a reason why truly crazy stalker stories make the news, because it's not as common as you think. I know this is a pretty male-centric forum but I just have to say it's MORE common for a guy who can't deal with emotional volatility from a woman to slap the "crazy" label on her. More than likely this guy did something to her to make her react this way. He may have even made death threats himself...

broska, this was sarcasm to some other asshole like yourself throwing out your "PROBABLY" more or less this is technical questions about IPs and blocking contact with people. nice way to keep the female figure in the victim slot. this is 2013 right? i dont care what her genitals are doing. we are all people and this PERSON is putrid non the less.

I'm honestly not being mean here but this post is borderline unintelligible. Mind trying again?

nope, you can dissect my ignorance if you really wanted 2.

[missworld]

this is the end of year 2. i have been compassionate im a cold hearted prick...

...Sounds like that's what got him into this predicament in the first place.

And it seems like this post was just created to incite her, if he believes she still reads this forum. The information he's asking for can be obtained from the local police or a simple google search.

There's a reason why truly crazy stalker stories make the news, because it's not as common as you think. I know this is a pretty male-centric forum but I just have to say it's MORE common for a guy who can't deal with emotional volatility from a woman to slap the "crazy" label on her. More than likely this guy did something to her to make her react this way. He may have even made death threats himself...

also after reviewing your post, i can see you're all about talking about your female status. makes sense, why you would say this. I was once told that every time a male and woman have sex, its a form of rape. does that extreme also fit your ideas?

"All about talking about your female status."

Well, one of my posts was on a poll asking the gender of the members of this forum. Last I checked only 8 identified as female and over 70 are male. I've only mentioned my status because there are so few of us on here, and I just happened to see these threads, all of them gender/sex themed, and I chose to respond. You're choosing to make a dumb assumption that I'm some feminazi because I mentioned I'm a girl? Oh, and because I pointed out something that several other (I'm assuming male) posters mentioned that you may have a more active role in your "stalker" situation than you're admitting?

But apparently I think all sex is rape and I think women are weak because I'm arguing for the woman in your situation. Right.  

[DrahogErusiel]

this is the end of year 2. i have been compassionate im a cold hearted prick...

...Sounds like that's what got him into this predicament in the first place.

And it seems like this post was just created to incite her, if he believes she still reads this forum. The information he's asking for can be obtained from the local police or a simple google search.

There's a reason why truly crazy stalker stories make the news, because it's not as common as you think. I know this is a pretty male-centric forum but I just have to say it's MORE common for a guy who can't deal with emotional volatility from a woman to slap the "crazy" label on her. More than likely this guy did something to her to make her react this way. He may have even made death threats himself...

also after reviewing your post, i can see you're all about talking about your female status. makes sense, why you would say this. I was once told that every time a male and woman have sex, its a form of rape. does that extreme also fit your ideas?

"All about talking about your female status."

Well, one of my posts was on a poll asking the gender of the members of this forum. Last I checked only 8 identified as female and over 70 are male. I've only mentioned my status because there are so few of us on here, and I just happened to see these threads, all of them gender/sex themed, and I chose to respond. You're choosing to make a dumb assumption that I'm some feminazi because I mentioned I'm a girl? Oh, and because I pointed out something that several other (I'm assuming male) posters mentioned that you may have a more active role in your "stalker" situation than you're admitting?

But apparently I think all sex is rape and I think women are weak because I'm arguing for the woman in your situation. Right.  

sucks when people just assume huh.

[missworld]

this is the end of year 2. i have been compassionate im a cold hearted prick...

...Sounds like that's what got him into this predicament in the first place.

And it seems like this post was just created to incite her, if he believes she still reads this forum. The information he's asking for can be obtained from the local police or a simple google search.

There's a reason why truly crazy stalker stories make the news, because it's not as common as you think. I know this is a pretty male-centric forum but I just have to say it's MORE common for a guy who can't deal with emotional volatility from a woman to slap the "crazy" label on her. More than likely this guy did something to her to make her react this way. He may have even made death threats himself...

also after reviewing your post, i can see you're all about talking about your female status. makes sense, why you would say this. I was once told that every time a male and woman have sex, its a form of rape. does that extreme also fit your ideas?

"All about talking about your female status."

Well, one of my posts was on a poll asking the gender of the members of this forum. Last I checked only 8 identified as female and over 70 are male. I've only mentioned my status because there are so few of us on here, and I just happened to see these threads, all of them gender/sex themed, and I chose to respond. You're choosing to make a dumb assumption that I'm some feminazi because I mentioned I'm a girl? Oh, and because I pointed out something that several other (I'm assuming male) posters mentioned that you may have a more active role in your "stalker" situation than you're admitting?

But apparently I think all sex is rape and I think women are weak because I'm arguing for the woman in your situation. Right.  

sucks when people just assume huh.

No. There's a such thing as an educated guess. You can use pure logic or empirical knowledge. I used both to assume that you may have antagonized that girl to respond the way she did. We only have your side of the story.

But it DOES suck when people make STUPID assumptions based on a few posts where I just identified myself as a woman and I made an argument you're not a fan of, and I wasn't the only one who did.

[DrahogErusiel]

this is the end of year 2. i have been compassionate im a cold hearted prick...

...Sounds like that's what got him into this predicament in the first place.

And it seems like this post was just created to incite her, if he believes she still reads this forum. The information he's asking for can be obtained from the local police or a simple google search.

There's a reason why truly crazy stalker stories make the news, because it's not as common as you think. I know this is a pretty male-centric forum but I just have to say it's MORE common for a guy who can't deal with emotional volatility from a woman to slap the "crazy" label on her. More than likely this guy did something to her to make her react this way. He may have even made death threats himself...

also after reviewing your post, i can see you're all about talking about your female status. makes sense, why you would say this. I was once told that every time a male and woman have sex, its a form of rape. does that extreme also fit your ideas?

"All about talking about your female status."

Well, one of my posts was on a poll asking the gender of the members of this forum. Last I checked only 8 identified as female and over 70 are male. I've only mentioned my status because there are so few of us on here, and I just happened to see these threads, all of them gender/sex themed, and I chose to respond. You're choosing to make a dumb assumption that I'm some feminazi because I mentioned I'm a girl? Oh, and because I pointed out something that several other (I'm assuming male) posters mentioned that you may have a more active role in your "stalker" situation than you're admitting?

But apparently I think all sex is rape and I think women are weak because I'm arguing for the woman in your situation. Right.  

sucks when people just assume huh.

No. There's a such thing as an educated guess. You can use pure logic or empirical knowledge. I used both to assume that you may have antagonized that girl to respond the way she did. We only have your side of the story.

But it DOES suck when people make STUPID assumptions based on a few posts where I just identified myself as a woman and I made an argument you're not a fan of, and I wasn't the only one who did.

im glad you have cleared that all up, thank you.

[missworld]

this is the end of year 2. i have been compassionate im a cold hearted prick...

...Sounds like that's what got him into this predicament in the first place.

And it seems like this post was just created to incite her, if he believes she still reads this forum. The information he's asking for can be obtained from the local police or a simple google search.

There's a reason why truly crazy stalker stories make the news, because it's not as common as you think. I know this is a pretty male-centric forum but I just have to say it's MORE common for a guy who can't deal with emotional volatility from a woman to slap the "crazy" label on her. More than likely this guy did something to her to make her react this way. He may have even made death threats himself...

also after reviewing your post, i can see you're all about talking about your female status. makes sense, why you would say this. I was once told that every time a male and woman have sex, its a form of rape. does that extreme also fit your ideas?

"All about talking about your female status."

Well, one of my posts was on a poll asking the gender of the members of this forum. Last I checked only 8 identified as female and over 70 are male. I've only mentioned my status because there are so few of us on here, and I just happened to see these threads, all of them gender/sex themed, and I chose to respond. You're choosing to make a dumb assumption that I'm some feminazi because I mentioned I'm a girl? Oh, and because I pointed out something that several other (I'm assuming male) posters mentioned that you may have a more active role in your "stalker" situation than you're admitting?

But apparently I think all sex is rape and I think women are weak because I'm arguing for the woman in your situation. Right.  

sucks when people just assume huh.

No. There's a such thing as an educated guess. You can use pure logic or empirical knowledge. I used both to assume that you may have antagonized that girl to respond the way she did. We only have your side of the story.

But it DOES suck when people make STUPID assumptions based on a few posts where I just identified myself as a woman and I made an argument you're not a fan of, and I wasn't the only one who did.

im glad you have cleared that all up, thank you.

You're very welcome. Good luck with your "stalker."