What's more important in your life?

[Pffrt]

I have been struggling with my job. I don't like it at all but I have to continue it for some reason. With my current job, neither I'm satisfied nor I'm happy with my personal life (I have to live far away from my family). I am serving this company for the last 3 years.
I can't lead my own way of life, I can't enjoy myself. In other words, I am not happy at my own definition of "Happiness".
What's important to you?
A job which pay a fixed salary at the end of month, no matter what you are sacrificing for that job?
Or, happiness by your own definition?

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[Cootie]

I have been struggling with my job. I don't like it at all but I have to continue it for some reason. With my current job, neither I'm satisfied nor I'm happy with my personal life (I have to live far away from my family). I am serving this company for the last 3 years.
I can't lead my own way of life, I can't enjoy myself. In other words, I am not happy at my own definition of "Happiness".
What's important to you?
A job which pay a fixed salary at the end of month, no matter what you are sacrificing for that job?
Or, happiness by your own definition?

What's important to me is my own definition of happiness. Why? Because it reveals your true self making your every happiness genuine. I think you are not defining your own happiness here. And also, somebody may find having a job with fixed salary as their own definition of happiness. How can you say its your definition of "happiness" when you say you are not happy? You're missing some point here, or am I. I think you're just confused. Mistaking something as your happiness where in fact, it doesn't really make you happy. You need to reevaluate some things, make time for yourself to think. Or maybe try to do the things you love or you can try new things. That may help you find which really makes you happy.

[Krsps]

I have been struggling with my job. I don't like it at all but I have to continue it for some reason. With my current job, neither I'm satisfied nor I'm happy with my personal life (I have to live far away from my family). I am serving this company for the last 3 years.
I can't lead my own way of life, I can't enjoy myself. In other words, I am not happy at my own definition of "Happiness".
What's important to you?
A job which pay a fixed salary at the end of month, no matter what you are sacrificing for that job?
Or, happiness by your own definition?

I think we have all find ourselves in circumstances that didn't make us happy. Feeling trapped by a job, and feeling alone is a real thing and and its good to be aware of how unhappy a situations make us.

That's the beginning of being able to change it into something else.

What I have found is that when I am most unhappy, is when I am stressed to the point of exhaustion. 

Resting is vital to our ability to relax. The more we can relax, the more solutions can occur to us. And just feeling relaxed makes us more fulfilled so we get a little happier.

How to relax? Some of us go immediately to what ever addictions we have. I won't list them..pick your poison.. But  addictions don't really help us relax at all.

Resting, getting enough sleep is important but if you're depressed and isolated, get out and meet people in the real world.  Find a group of ones interest. 

But I know sometimes that's not all that easy either to get that motivated.

If that seem to hard for me to do then I take a walk at the beach. Or just sit  there looking at the ocean. This is much better. It becomes a mediation and gives me space for new thoughts and ideas to come in.

Any useful repetitive task, can produce a meditative state,  like cleaning, or playing a musical instrument or singing, knitting, drawing, painting, dancing, even writing. But if you write all day long maybe do something else.

The beach or nature allows me to empty my mind. Or to go to a good movie.

The bottom line is when you're alone you do have to learn to become your own best friend.  And indeed if even if you're living with a pack of people,  family or otherwise, we still have to learn how to be a good friend to ourselves,  and not forget to ask..
"What makes me happy?
And what can I do right now to make me happy?"

[Johnzky]

I have been struggling with my job. I don't like it at all but I have to continue it for some reason. With my current job, neither I'm satisfied nor I'm happy with my personal life (I have to live far away from my family). I am serving this company for the last 3 years.
I can't lead my own way of life, I can't enjoy myself. In other words, I am not happy at my own definition of "Happiness".
What's important to you?
A job which pay a fixed salary at the end of month, no matter what you are sacrificing for that job?
Or, happiness by your own definition?

If you are a single and just working to help your parents and siblings then maybe I can say that you can choose happiness from other form of works.but if you have own family then that’s a different thing because for me our children’s and wife is our happiness and since we are working to make them happy we have no need to find other job unless you are not paying well

[mersal]

I have been struggling with my job. I don't like it at all but I have to continue it for some reason. With my current job, neither I'm satisfied nor I'm happy with my personal life (I have to live far away from my family). I am serving this company for the last 3 years.
I can't lead my own way of life, I can't enjoy myself. In other words, I am not happy at my own definition of "Happiness".
What's important to you?
A job which pay a fixed salary at the end of month, no matter what you are sacrificing for that job?
Or, happiness by your own definition?

If you can be able to find a job near your family even the salary is little bit lower then you should accept that job offer because we all are earning money to live happily so making money by sacrificing that happiness it too bad.

But some people like to do be alone and I am that kind of person because I feel to alone even with the familty so its better to be alone and live the life i the way we want to be.

[MFahad]

I have been struggling with my job. I don't like it at all but I have to continue it for some reason. With my current job, neither I'm satisfied nor I'm happy with my personal life (I have to live far away from my family). I am serving this company for the last 3 years.
I can't lead my own way of life, I can't enjoy myself. In other words, I am not happy at my own definition of "Happiness".
What's important to you?
A job which pay a fixed salary at the end of month, no matter what you are sacrificing for that job?
Or, happiness by your own definition?

If you are not satisfied with your job, then you should think that what is thing you wanna do?
First thing, you don't like your this type of job, or you don't want to do job.
May be you don't like your job, because you have less salary, that's why you wanna change.
Or may be you have no skills to do job, you wanna start your business and you have no more money, that's why you are frustrated.
But i suggest you, don't blame your life, be satisfied whatever you have.
Actually, happiness is our choice, we could live in a less salary if our heart and mind decide it.

[akram143]

Living without any disaster is most happiest moments happening time in your life and I think no one will be in this situation for long time that's why we long for your happiness again and again when the disaster for the sorrow things happening in our life otherwise everyone need to face all the situation in different times

[rodel caling]

I have been struggling with my job. I don't like it at all but I have to continue it for some reason. With my current job, neither I'm satisfied nor I'm happy with my personal life (I have to live far away from my family). I am serving this company for the last 3 years.
I can't lead my own way of life, I can't enjoy myself. In other words, I am not happy at my own definition of "Happiness".
What's important to you?
A job which pay a fixed salary at the end of month, no matter what you are sacrificing for that job?
Or, happiness by your own definition?

The family is most important of our lives we can do anything to them give fulfillness, sometimes we need to sacrifice of our own happiness because for me family is my happiness. Both are important for me job and family because without job i can give to them their daily needs but if talking need to choose job or family i choose family.

[omonuyak]

I have been struggling with my job. I don't like it at all but I have to continue it for some reason. With my current job, neither I'm satisfied nor I'm happy with my personal life (I have to live far away from my family). I am serving this company for the last 3 years.
I can't lead my own way of life, I can't enjoy myself. In other words, I am not happy at my own definition of "Happiness".
What's important to you?
A job which pay a fixed salary at the end of month, no matter what you are sacrificing for that job?
Or, happiness by your own definition?

Be in control of what happens around me is more important to me than anything in life because my life and happiness depend on that. Remaining in the job that makes you unhappy is the worst life to live. We live to be happy and if you are not happy about the day today things you do then why living? It is important that we sacrifice everything in life for happiness.

[southafricadude]

To me, happiness is most important. Money does not buy happiness, but it certainly helps a lot. You can change your attitude and try to be better and happier in the job and situation you dont like to try and tolerate it better. Keep trying to find something better that you will be happier doing, but your attitude can be adjusted to assist you while you find that place.

The goal is to find what you love to do, and see if you can find a job doing what you love. If there is none, sometimes you have to invent one, which is hard, but can pay off bigtime if you get it right.

Good luck!

[ttcsalam]

I have been struggling with my job. I don't like it at all but I have to continue it for some reason. With my current job, neither I'm satisfied nor I'm happy with my personal life (I have to live far away from my family). I am serving this company for the last 3 years.
I can't lead my own way of life, I can't enjoy myself. In other words, I am not happy at my own definition of "Happiness".
What's important to you?
A job which pay a fixed salary at the end of month, no matter what you are sacrificing for that job?
Or, happiness by your own definition?

At present, the path of income is very difficult. I think the way to earning a permanent income is currently in many challenges.

[gulkhantruckart]

Happiness and your family is the most important to your life time

[carina228]

For me, my subscribers are important. In the 21st century, the Internet provides an opportunity to become popular and earn big money without having special talents and special skills. There are over 1 million subscribers on my YouTube channel and I love them! I regularly make cool videos, edit them with imovie for windows and publish on my YouTube channel. For me, this is the most important and valuable in my life!

[kotajikikox]

I have been struggling with my job. I don't like it at all but I have to continue it for some reason. With my current job, neither I'm satisfied nor I'm happy with my personal life (I have to live far away from my family). I am serving this company for the last 3 years.
I can't lead my own way of life, I can't enjoy myself. In other words, I am not happy at my own definition of "Happiness".
What's important to you?
A job which pay a fixed salary at the end of month, no matter what you are sacrificing for that job?
Or, happiness by your own definition?

Well I am not saying go and resign to your job.What will I say is find another job tjat fixed you to be happy.apply to other company while your still working find a job that you think you will be happy.
And we know that job is important in our life this is to be able to survive. It is also important that we are happy in doing such a thing for our lives.there is a lot of things that are important.job,family, love ones are so important to us and thinking all of thos should makes you feel happy.
If you asking flme what morw important to me? My answer are my son and my partner they are so important to me.

[daneal stev]

The most important thing in my life is my family and my work

[MFahad]

The most important thing in my life is my family and my work

Exactly, family is always first, without family we can die. Our family is important for us then we have a courage to achieve something and do work. In life, mostly people are not satisfied with their life, actually we should see may be we are wrong and may be we have some bad habits that's why we can't satisfied with our life.   

[Therowlingk2]

Family is more important things, and the second is my friends or maybe some friends we call bestfriend. Cause a lot of people in this world just pretend to be good in front of us but actually they didn't. Be aware to fake people and keep your circle small

[peter0425]

Life is not fair. I'm more willing to sacrifice for my family though. So I don't care if my job sucks or if I work far away from them. At the end of the day, if you can make them happy then I'm fine with it. Of course, we all wanted to to be happy but as I have said, we always need to sacrifice something in our life.

[DigitalTerminal]

The most important thing is to be happy of course. Working with a stable income is good, but if the family falls apart because of this, is it worth it? The salary will remain with you, but what will you spend it on?

[Bitcoin Smith]

Not only me but also everyone who live in this world needs the food without the food no one will survive so in my life food play an important role and it is the most necessary thing in my life.