if you want to win big...accept defeat

[South Park]

True, because in gambling there are two kinds of possibility happen that you should accept. Because in gambling if you lucky then you win, but if you defeat then back again on the next, if you want to win big.

That is the kind of thinking that produces players addicted to gambling, it is very easy to accept a win and we can do it without any effort but when gamblers lose instead of accepting it as easily as they accepted the win, players begin to try to recover the money they have lost to the casino and begin to make bigger bets in an effort to reduce the time it could take, however the amount you bet does not change the odds of winning or losing and as such they will keep losing money, this is why I do not see my bets as money lost to the casino but as the price needed to pay to obtain some fun, similar to what you could expect to pay to see a movie at the cinema or the money needed to buy a video game.

[Kasabus]

Defeat is something a big deal for everyone and it for sure nobody wants to keep it every day.
Though it won't make us a reason to quit but of course, it affects our mindset and makes some discouragement. If I'm losing 5 out of 10 bets it's a gonna be fair but if we just lose 8 times out of 10, there is something wrong with our strategies or in our self. It probably we don't have luck in gambling.

[MonsterV]

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Accepting defeat give you an opportunity to think over again and modify your strategies and model you are following in gambling. This works pretty well and is regularly practiced in business world. You lose big and you look back to see what went wrong, work to restore it again and the odds of making it to the top popup. This is why it is vital to accept defeat.

Indeed defeat for me is very important, because with defeat we will know what is wrong from the strategies and decisions we make. Especially for newbies, a newbie needs more losses because every loss they will get experience, but unfortunately a newbie does not realize that their defeat is important.

And maybe only a pro gambler is difficult to accept defeat because they feel too confident with the abilities they have. They will always pursue their defeat until it becomes a victory, this is what we must avoid, overconfidence makes us forget that self-introspection is important.

[xSkylarx]

If you consider your defeat a lesson then you will suceed next time you try. Defeat or failure is part of life, it depends how we analyze it either in a negative way or positive way. If you think for long term, a defeat would definitely help you to become a better person.

[coin-investor]

hello gamblers
many players are complaining about the way they always get busted, they keep playing in the same way and they are doing nothing but making their loss bigger. the point here is not about greed or being greedy, its all about the right time to stop which is very hard since no one can predict the next move in gambling. many players make good profits but they keep playing instead of stoping, and it always leads to one result,,,bust. how ? once they make good profits and starts to lose they refuse to accept the defeat and keep playing to recover, and it ends up losing all they have, the case here is not about greed, but about accepting defead. once you accept the loss and say ( its enough losing ) you can take what left from your profit, do it over and over and you will make a good profit.
if you want to be successful in gambling accept the defeat first, and the game is all yours.
best of luck rolling

Winning and losing is part of gambling, I don't know how can you win big by accepting defeats when it's a game of luck, you can accept defeat all the time but that will not mean that luck will be yours, when the dice roll even if you have the mindset that you will accept defeat if it's not in your favor, it will not change anything.

I've read from one case study that some compulsive gamblers are playing to lose, not to win, they just want to get the feeling of getting excited and coming back from losing, for some gamblers it's not the win it's always the excitement, you'll know that when you are playing the game to long.

[darklus123]

Stop being a stereotype, Accepting defeat is not the thing that you have to consider winning big amounts of money in gambling. No matter how you can accept your losses the point that your luck is as low as 1% you will still be losing money. By any means accepting defeat will only save you from losing more money but it does not connect to winning big at all.


You wanna win big? Study a skill based game than a pure luck gambling game. Be smart in managing your finances as well. Lastly, be freaking lucky and put in a lot of money. You have to understand that winning "Big" is equal to "High" risk. The higher risk you put in the higher you can get but then again this are all destiny based thing.

I do not completely understand the meaning of accepting defeat here. What should a gambler do when he get defeated. Pack up and accept it and do not play further gambling ?

In all honestly, I find this post nonsense. In fact winning big in OP title was never been discussed and this not connect with the content of this post.

[noormcs5]

Not all gamblers can accept defeat in gambling, especially for gamblers who have many experiences. I see my friends who gamble for a football game, and he uses money with his friends, but suddenly his team gets lost. His first expression is angry, and he says bad words with cannot hold his emotion but then we say to him that is normal if he gets lost in the game because the team will depend on how they can cooperate each other so they can win.

The very first emotions that will comes out when you are ain't ready accepting defeats, you'll got angered with people around you since you wanted to released all those bad emotions inside of you, but after you overcome everything then chances to bounce and tried to win back always there for your activities.

There are two ways one behave when he is faces a loss in gambling. Either he get disappointed and leave the gambling for the time being or he become angry and is overtaken by emotions which may result in wrong decision from him. The right act is to accept the defeat and think of a plan to avoid the mistake which caused the loss.

[finaleshot2016]

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When you're not accepting defeat then it may lead to something different that might destroy your life. If you easily accept your defeat then it means you are capable of finding a way to conquer the situation you're facing. That's how you will become strong and due to that situation, you'll learn and face it again to win.  

For me, it's the wonderful life hacks that we should learn.

[Chrystora123]

hello gamblers
if you want to be successful in gambling accept the defeat first, and the game is all yours.
best of luck rolling

these words are like quotes to me  

why many fail in gambling??  it's all because there are still many people who can't accept defeat, which they hope doesn't match the reality on the ground. There is no one in the world of gambling who has never lost, they must often lose but what causes them to still be able to profit is "the mentality of those who have been trained to accept defeat"

[legendster]

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I don't get the point of this post...

Okaym, you want me to accept defeat? Then what?

I have always adviced people away from gambling and just because there's a horde of yesmen that want to encourage people to gamble, should I just accept defeat and give in?

Whatever happened to making your voice heard?

[Betwrong]

~In all kinds of gambling,defeat is something one should a player knows to handle.If he had won most of the time and then defeat comes for him,he should know how to recognize it and must be able to know when to stop or else he will always be a loser in the end.Accept the fact that in gambling,it's either you win some or you lose some.

I think the main idea of the OP, with which I completely agree btw, is accepting your defeat before you start playing.



I know it's easier said than done, and I myself don't always follow this pattern, but we, gamblers, should at least try to follow it. It's like a lifebuoy for us in the stormy ocean of gambling.

[serjent05]

If you consider your defeat a lesson then you will suceed next time you try. Defeat or failure is part of life, it depends how we analyze it either in a negative way or positive way. If you think for long term, a defeat would definitely help you to become a better person.

I fully agree, learning a leason from a lost is a great thing. From there, we will know what your next move is.  We will be more observant and rational and will know what we will do if we are in a losing streak or when we are winning. 

Defeat is normal, and that will happen to all people, but unfortunately, not all people can accept defeat because they are hard to realize reality. Most gamblers cannot recognize the losses when it comes, and they still spend more time and more money to continue to play, but in the end, the result will be the same as before.

Pride is what makes it for people to deny defeat and sadly only a few learn how to use it (pride) wisely.  Aside from that fallacy in gambling is also one of the reason why player don't want to accept defeat.

[cabalism13]

I don't get the point of this post...
Okaym, you want me to accept defeat? Then what?  

Just a very simple idealism. Accept defeat then make a bet again, its much more likely about chasing all of your loss, but I think this was just a false criteria and idea, for it will just make you lose everything.

Winning big doesn't have any tactics or plans to be followed. Its just a matter of understanding and luck. Ideals such this are just a mere influence to make the players bet all over again.

Pride is what makes it for people to deny defeat and sadly only a few learn how to use it (pride) wisely.  Aside from that fallacy in gambling is also one of the reason why player don't want to accept defeat.

It wasn't just pride, perhaps it is also because of the goals of having money in gambling makes you feel rich. Everyone has their pride on every game but as you said it clearly only few can use it wisely, its just a matter thinking for every wise men around the casino.

[samcrypto]

~In all kinds of gambling,defeat is something one should a player knows to handle.If he had won most of the time and then defeat comes for him,he should know how to recognize it and must be able to know when to stop or else he will always be a loser in the end.Accept the fact that in gambling,it's either you win some or you lose some.

I think the main idea of the OP, with which I completely agree btw, is accepting your defeat before you start playing.



I know it's easier said than done, and I myself don't always follow this pattern, but we, gamblers, should at least try to follow it. It's like a lifebuoy for us in the stormy ocean of gambling.

We really have to try and clear our mindset before playing and lose another money. If  your purpose is to chase what you've lost then its not good for you, Its hard when you don't give it a try just like on investing. We want to win big without experiencing any losses, well its too impossible to happen and if your mind like this then losing is inevitable. I accept all my failures in life including in gambling, and started over again i'm happy enough for this.

[NavI_027]

We really have to try and clear our mindset before playing and lose another money. If  your purpose is to chase what you've lost then its not good for you, Its hard when you don't give it a try just like on investing. We want to win big without experiencing any losses, well its too impossible to happen and if your mind like this then losing is inevitable. I accept all my failures in life including in gambling, and started over again i'm happy enough for this.

Chasing one's losses is okay for me. I don't see anything wrong with that because pride is in our nature, all of us hate losing that's why our body wants a vengeance naturally. What is deadly is when you are now losing control, you chase your losses eagerly without even noticing that you are now starting to waste what should only be kept. If you are playing a roulette and sudeenly lose then it's okay to play again maybe 2 or 3 times more (but well, still depends if you can afford to) hoping to reclaim your losses or at least minimize it but if you failed after that then that's the right time to be disciplined. Stop! Accept that it's not your day and better luck next time .

[shoreno]

Before gambling, you must know what are the consequences and risks that you may face.

yes this is what i put on my mind but i dont know about the others if they knew that fact or maybe they are still insist to continue even if they arent prepared for the consequences .

Gambling is pure luck and if you are not lucky enough, you will lose so if that happens learn to accept it and move on.

not lucky enough ? means there are still a little luck remain on you . therfor you can still win but  the chances are low  . accepting shouldnt also be applied when loosing but its a good idea if we can accept if we win even at  one time so that we can move on and quit     .

If you lose, don't do revenge gambling because it will give you more losses and will be more depressed if that happens .

that only shows that you are weak and your saying that your easily giving up . tryin isnt wrong but it should also be moderated .

[joshy23]

Before gambling, you must know what are the consequences and risks that you may face. Gambling is pure luck and if you are not lucky enough, you will lose so if that happens learn to accept it and move on. If you lose, don't do revenge gambling because it will give you more losses and will be more depressed if that happens .

Stress and more depressions when you are not ready to accept your defeats, but if you are willing to take that risk and you will be able to enjoy whatever the results may be, time will come for you if lucks permitted you to win a large amount of profits then it's added more enjoyment to your stay inside the industry.

[deisik]

If you lose, don't do revenge gambling because it will give you more losses and will be more depressed if that happens .

that only shows that you are weak and your saying that your easily giving up . tryin isnt wrong but it should also be moderated

Weak and wise look similar

Many wise people say that if you can't change something (e.g. your past and your past bets), your best option is not to hit the head against it (as you can as well hit it against a brick wall, with the same level of success) but to give in, accept the sad fact and move on. This is probably what OP meant by accepting defeat as there is essentially nothing you can do other than to embark on revengeful gambling which will only incur further losses

[maydna]

Before gambling, you must know what are the consequences and risks that you may face. Gambling is pure luck and if you are not lucky enough, you will lose so if that happens learn to accept it and move on. If you lose, don't do revenge gambling because it will give you more losses and will be more depressed if that happens .

Stress and more depressions when you are not ready to accept your defeats, but if you are willing to take that risk and you will be able to enjoy whatever the results may be, time will come for you if lucks permitted you to win a large amount of profits then it's added more enjoyment to your stay inside the industry.

Accepting the risk is the thing that we should have before we gamble, so we know what we will do if somehow we are losing the money on that day. We don't need to come back to the gambling places if we don't want to see another loss because that could impact our feeling to become sad. By accepting the risk, we can come back to the gambling place at any times because we know that in gambling, we only have two choices, win or lose. We will be the winner in someday, but we never know when it's coming.

[Betwrong]

~ I accept all my failures in life including in gambling, and started over again i'm happy enough for this.

There is a big difference between accepting your failures in life and starting over again and doing the same in gambling. And the difference is there already when you are only planning to start your activity. It would be ridiculous to think in advance that you will fail with almost any of our daily life activities, but in gambling this kind of thinking is generally considered the most correct one.