Social experiments in the world of gambling

[Capt00]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

if the help you need wants to leave gambling and try to live a better life maybe I will give direction to be able to change your life so that you don't feel curious because you want to make up for the losses you experienced in gambling. but if the help you need is loan capital to be able to roll back, i won't give you the capital you need at all

In terms of funds and to use again in gambling in order to recover his losses? It gonna be different and I don't give such a thing. Gambling doesn't give assurance and how this person could give you back if he loses again.

And I agree with you, make help that could only change his life direction, not the way that it add more to his miserable life. It ends up nothing and may your help will just be wasted.

[michellee]

Even if he loses the money, he will search the other people so he can borrow the money again. He will do that over and over because he is addicted to gambling. That is sad because that person cannot hold or control himself in gambling, and that will only make him search for money for playing gambling. We cannot help him by giving the money because he will use that money to play gambling if we don't know.

Yeah this is not good to get addicted in gambling infect we should try to avoid such habit but you can keep playing untill you think and see that you are winning but when you realize that you are loosing your money in gambling you should stop gambling so a gambler must have self control and don’t be emotional, don’t give money to addicted gambler.

If he still playing gambling for the long term, I don't think that he will have a chance to win. He needs to realize that he should not risk his money to playing gambling, and when he got addicted, that will the time for him to feel hard to stop and leave the gambling itself. We hope that a person doesn't borrow the money from other people, and he needs to realize to solve his problem with someone who can help him.

[imstillthebest]

Even if he loses the money, he will search the other people so he can borrow the money again. He will do that over and over because he is addicted to gambling. That is sad because that person cannot hold or control himself in gambling, and that will only make him search for money for playing gambling. We cannot help him by giving the money because he will use that money to play gambling if we don't know.

Yeah this is not good to get addicted in gambling infect we should try to avoid such habit but you can keep playing untill you think and see that you are winning but when you realize that you are loosing your money in gambling you should stop gambling so a gambler must have self control and don’t be emotional, don’t give money to addicted gambler.

If he still playing gambling for the long term, I don't think that he will have a chance to win. He needs to realize that he should not risk his money to playing gambling, and when he got addicted, that will the time for him to feel hard to stop and leave the gambling itself. We hope that a person doesn't borrow the money from other people, and he needs to realize to solve his problem with someone who can help him.

playing long term does not mean that you play every day or playing more often  . you still need to rest and have some breaks because in gambling you cant win contiously/nonstop  . there are days that you are bad luck while there are also times that you can feel that you can always hit your traget  . lets hope so that gamblers can realize those things you guys mention above so that they cant lead to borrowing money or to not get become adicted in the future  .

[peter0425]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

if the help you need wants to leave gambling and try to live a better life maybe I will give direction to be able to change your life so that you don't feel curious because you want to make up for the losses you experienced in gambling. but if the help you need is loan capital to be able to roll back, i won't give you the capital you need at all

are you a former gambling addict?because before we can be functional to become a adviser we must be experienced and will tell exactly our own ways in the past because if you will just give a random advice?better not since this will only waste of time or will lead to much bigger addiction.and also if this is about capital or Money?then yeah  no one will be fooled to tolerate his stupidity

[owengtam09]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

What kind of help does he want from here? Financial or some advice? Well, he cannot get money from here, it he is lost then he must manage what he has done from playing gambling, we don't need to take responsibility for his loss. Maybe a piece of advice could help him better than giving him some money but after all, lose it again with gambling.

Losing everything because of gambling is hard and to someone who is suffering from this I think he don't need money but instead a friend who can advice him to change or realize his mistakes for spending too much in gambling. If you lend him money he might gamble again and repeat the same mistakes because of his past losses that he wants to chase back.

That's true, that is why it is not better to give him or donate money because once he got some, he will do it the same thing after. He will realize that it is okay to lose his money because there are some people here who is giving away their money from people they didn't know.

[Golftech]

Here's the proper mindset, if we are to give money back to someone who lost that money, we'll just pushing him to let that money be lost again, for sure it will not help him so we should consider other ways such as providing betting advice and to help him earn and control his money to not be bet all in all in gambling.

It's okay if he will stop gambling after we give him money but most gamblers does not think and do like that, if they have some money, they will still gamble again thinking they can win back all their loses, it's kind of an unrealistic mindset that will only push their to a more disastrous life ahead.

if we are a true friend or if we really care, we won't tolerate, let them learn from their mistake.

Good friend always at side and not at the back, if your friend really got into this addictions best not to lend him / her a money but instead walk to him and guide him to the right path, encouraging your friend to find other ways of activities and accompany them at the very beginning will makes them more aware that it's not all about gambling but there's life away from this activities and they will start to renew their lifestyle.

[doomistake]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

if the help you need wants to leave gambling and try to live a better life maybe I will give direction to be able to change your life so that you don't feel curious because you want to make up for the losses you experienced in gambling. but if the help you need is loan capital to be able to roll back, i won't give you the capital you need at all

In terms of funds and to use again in gambling in order to recover his losses? It gonna be different and I don't give such a thing. Gambling doesn't give assurance and how this person could give you back if he loses again.

And I agree with you, make help that could only change his life direction, not the way that it add more to his miserable life. It ends up nothing and may your help will just be wasted.

Correct.

Because if the help he was asking is to give him some capital to get back his losses, it is not a help at all, well it is but on a very bad way. What you guys said was all true about the recommended help that we should do. Let me give an example about it, if you see a beggar on street asking for money but you gave food instead and he didn't accept it, for sure he has some addiction to feed therefore he only wants money, but if it is the other way around, then you've go the real beggar that really needs helps and attention.

The point is, we should first ask the reason why they need it, for us to know if it is worth it to give.

[MWesterweele]

That's true, that is why it is not better to give him or donate money because once he got some, he will do it the same thing after. He will realize that it is okay to lose his money because there are some people here who is giving away their money from people they didn't know.

Indeed! He will only do what he has done, and he will only be desperate to win all of it just because he has a money again to gamble. Better to help him in his decision do some advices, make him rest for awhile so that it will help him to clear his mind , it will only make him an addict if he will continue to get what he already lost. He need to get a lesson on it .

[MyIdeas]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

There is a person in our area who is a full time gambler and spend much of his money on gambling and he always ask help from different people for getting money. We all know that about 90% of money which he collect in help spend in gambling and the remaining on his family. We know that it is not good to give him money so he often ask from people who do not know about him.

[Landak]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?

loses gambling and he asks for our help (need money) to continue the losing bets and he hopes his money will come back (if he wins)? It seems I will think again in giving him help (money), but if it's just a suggestion I would be happy to give it.

Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Yes, I've felt that and I've been in a position like that asking for help to my friend with the reason to recover a losing bet. In the end my friend never gave me help because of reasons for gambling.
so whatever happens when betting in gambling we must accept all the risks including a major loss that can not be recovered.

[Wawa2013]

Incidentally, I have never experienced someone asking for my help on the grounds of borrowing money for losing in gambling. This seems impossible, but maybe someone has experienced this. But if it happens to me, I will not lend money to someone who loses in gambling. Because my finances are also very minimal.

[MyIdeas]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?

loses gambling and he asks for our help (need money) to continue the losing bets and he hopes his money will come back (if he wins)? It seems I will think again in giving him help (money), but if it's just a suggestion I would be happy to give it.

Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Yes, I've felt that and I've been in a position like that asking for help to my friend with the reason to recover a losing bet. In the end my friend never gave me help because of reasons for gambling.
so whatever happens when betting in gambling we must accept all the risks including a major loss that can not be recovered.

I think you agree to give money to gamblers for continuing their gambling after losing their money because you yourself a gambler and have faced that condition in the past and you have the hope that a person can earn money in gambling but it is not an sure to anyone that anyone can recover his lost money that is why many people do not give any loan to a person who want to gamble with it to recover his loses.

[zhekinsp]

It all depends on the intention of borrowing money,if its for food then giving ir right choice but for recovering all the loss he made earlier then try to stay away from that user because he will never realze that he will lose more and more money if he plays gambling games to make money.

[MWesterweele]

Yes, I've felt that and I've been in a position like that asking for help to my friend with the reason to recover a losing bet. In the end my friend never gave me help because of reasons for gambling.
so whatever happens when betting in gambling we must accept all the risks including a major loss that can not be recovered.

Yes this is what I am talking about . We need to accept all the result of our game, whether we win or whether we lost a lot. Gamblers will find a way to have a money again for them to gamble again and that will be the result of being in addiction, they needed a guide and advices not money anymore it will only push them to do gamble and lose too much again.

[hahay]

It all depends on the intention of borrowing money,if its for food then giving ir right choice but for recovering all the loss he made earlier then try to stay away from that user because he will never realze that he will lose more and more money if he plays gambling games to make money.

There are no exceptions to the problem, whatever the reason it will not be accepted because he should have realized what a great risk that will make him suffer. No one will support you to become a beggar, because there are many ways to recover losses and you must be smart to get out of any suffering.

[Sanitough]

It all depends on the intention of borrowing money,if its for food then giving ir right choice but for recovering all the loss he made earlier then try to stay away from that user because he will never realze that he will lose more and more money if he plays gambling games to make money.

There are no exceptions to the problem, whatever the reason it will not be accepted because he should have realized what a great risk that will make him suffer. No one will support you to become a beggar, because there are many ways to recover losses and you must be smart to get out of any suffering.

We are smart and matured here, no one would help someone if helping him would only tolerate his bad activity, he should realize that what he did is wrong so he will make good decision next time, there's no place for beggars in the gambling space because we as gamblers are expected to risk what we can afford only and we can afford to gamble.

[michellee]

If he still playing gambling for the long term, I don't think that he will have a chance to win. He needs to realize that he should not risk his money to playing gambling, and when he got addicted, that will the time for him to feel hard to stop and leave the gambling itself. We hope that a person doesn't borrow the money from other people, and he needs to realize to solve his problem with someone who can help him.

playing long term does not mean that you play every day or playing more often  . you still need to rest and have some breaks because in gambling you cant win contiously/nonstop  . there are days that you are bad luck while there are also times that you can feel that you can always hit your traget  . lets hope so that gamblers can realize those things you guys mention above so that they cant lead to borrowing money or to not get become adicted in the future  .

I mean, sometimes we can spend more than 1 hour, and we play almost every day so that it can make us lose too much money if we don't limit the amount. Stopping for a while can be a solution so we can take a break, and take a rest for a while, so we can think if it's necessary or not if we continue playing gambling.

[shoreno]

It all depends on the intention of borrowing money,if its for food then giving ir right choice but for recovering all the loss he made earlier then try to stay away from that user because he will never realze that he will lose more and more money if he plays gambling games to make money.

There are no exceptions to the problem, whatever the reason it will not be accepted because he should have realized what a great risk that will make him suffer. No one will support you to become a beggar, because there are many ways to recover losses and you must be smart to get out of any suffering.

many ways to recover losses  ? he can work on his own to earn and not borrow someone else money   because that makes him lazy but almost majority of gamblers are dont have a work but they are the ones that have the guts to borrow money while us that have work are the ones that are scared or doubting to borrow money even if we have the ability to pay  .  if a person has a different reason and he is sincere when he say it , i guess its okay to lend him something  .

[MWesterweele]

many ways to recover losses  ? he can work on his own to earn and not borrow someone else money   because that makes him lazy but almost majority of gamblers are dont have a work but they are the ones that have the guts to borrow money while us that have work are the ones that are scared or doubting to borrow money even if we have the ability to pay  .  if a person has a different reason and he is sincere when he say it , i guess its okay to lend him something  .

Yes this is true, he need to work for his own money, as what I have said before , gambler will always find a way to gamble, and when the time you will only lend him some money, it can only make his situation worst, he needed to work hard for him to get money again, and when he do that he starting to realized many things, especially in handling money, his mind can change as well , as time passes by.

[Inkdatar]

many ways to recover losses  ? he can work on his own to earn and not borrow someone else money   because that makes him lazy but almost majority of gamblers are dont have a work but they are the ones that have the guts to borrow money while us that have work are the ones that are scared or doubting to borrow money even if we have the ability to pay  .  if a person has a different reason and he is sincere when he say it , i guess its okay to lend him something  .

Yes this is true, he need to work for his own money, as what I have said before , gambler will always find a way to gamble, and when the time you will only lend him some money, it can only make his situation worst, he needed to work hard for him to get money again, and when he do that he starting to realized many things, especially in handling money, his mind can change as well , as time passes by.

Indeed he should help his self to earn money not by borrowing just to gamble. No one could lend him money for him to gamble, it makes him lazy and thinks that it's easy to have the money. A person should have discipline when to stop to play once suffer losses. No one could help him but himself.