Social experiments in the world of gambling

[Shamerkhan]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

[SyGambler]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

make it more clear , like he is asking for money as a help or asking for help to stop gambling ?
when it comes to money I won't lend a gambler who lost all his bankroll  , if he was cautious enough he wouldn't lose his own money at first place which means most likely he will bust your money too 

if he asking for help to quit then that should involve professional therapy not just some chats with friends , chatting with friends can help sometimes but it's much better to seek professional help

[milewilda]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

What help would he ask? He cant expect for any financial support on this place for sure but he would get some support when it comes to good advises and tips on how he would able to solve his current problem with gambling.Gambling is just a matter of win or lose and if he lost up big time then he should deal with it because before playing gambling
you should know always the risk behind.Dont play if you cant handle out the stress or frustration on losing big.

[sunsilk]

Asking for help to return his losses? I doubt it that there will be willing to help him that way but if it's about the suggestions, opinions and tips there will be a wave of help for that guy.

Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Coming to that point of asking help because of my mistake? in some ways but not that much because if I loss and I know that I'm the cause of it, I'm accepting the fact that I've lost because it's gambling.

[Duzter]

It happens and no one will intend to help, because the mistake done is after understanding the true risk of gambling. Myself too is a victim, and I haven't asked for help with unknown persons. I've requested help from friends without revealing my failure on gambling. Also I've requested the support team of the casinos. Friends have helped me, and I'm repaying little by little.

[Sanitough]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I think I've already seen some members here begging money because they loss in gambling but they were criticized instead.
This is not a good place to bet as its against the forum rules, if they loss, just accept the loss and be a man.

In the first place, we all know that we might loss in gambling so being responsible is very important, never go beyond the limit and that's it.
For me, I would rather donate my money to charity than to people begging help because they loss in gambling, I don't want to tolerate that wrong action, I will let them realize their mistake and find ways to solve the problem.

[Wexnident]

Bro if its money, never ever EVER help a gambler in terms of it. If it's advise or just a simple talk about what happened, I'm all in. Its a lot of fun with that kind of talk. Plus, we all know how most gamblers are in terms of money. Just like what other comments have said, be a man, buckle up, and take the loss. Geez, it ain't the end of the world for you to collapse so much with a loss in gambling.

[maydna]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

No, I won't help him because he will be back to gambling again and again. I don't want to get trouble by giving help to him because once I give him the money, he will still play gambling.

Fortunately, I never have experienced like that because from my first time in gambling until now, I don't use big money to play gambling. Even though if I calculate the money that I have been used in gambling, it's not too big. Besides that, if I get lost a few times, I always think about to stop gambling and close the browser, so I don't think about my loss.

[leowonderful]

I'm willing to help and talk to people I know if they're down for any sort of reason including gambling, but I also agree that at some point some sort of professional help is appropriate, though venting or talking to others can be the remedy for smaller problems including medium-sized losses in gambling. I've never personally experienced large losses in gambling because I don't gamble a whole lot compared to many others in here, but I have know those who have, and sometimes the issue's something you can't really tackle yourself.

[robelneo]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I don't think I can loan him, because this will just push him to gamble more, but if it's an emergency I can give him a loan but if it's because he lost from gambling I don't think I can even if I have a fund, he should learn his lesson not to lose big amount of money and then loan, people should have control on how they gamble and how much money they can allocate.

[Text]

I can only offer is advice. I will help him through realization. He should just accept and move on cause he can never bring back what already lost. If he wants to bet again, I want him to take note next time that gamble only what he can afford to lose. I think such a big loss is enough to teach him a lesson. If he doesn't want to suffer again, then don't commit the same mistake, he'll just look like a fool if he do so.

[AliMan]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I don't think I can loan him, because this will just push him to gamble more, but if it's an emergency I can give him a loan but if it's because he lost from gambling I don't think I can even if I have a fund, he should learn his lesson not to lose big amount of money and then loan, people should have control on how they gamble and how much money they can allocate.

That's not an appropriate way of helping a person just for a reason that he lost money due to gambling. Maybe I will be more generous to anybody with a truthfulness in their heart while they felt the agony of pain while having problems. To give examples like your loved ones whose in the worst situations like hospitalization bills and funds for medical treatment is the first priority. Loaning for a purpose of gambling entertainment for whatever consideration it is, I can only give money for food and nothing else beyond.

[judeafante]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I will not also lend him if he loses his money from gambling this is to teach him that people will not save him if he does not control his gambling, it's like pushing him to gamble more if we are going to lend, even if he is a good payer I don't think I can give him a loan.

[bering]

If the help which asking by him is not to return his money from gambling or only just to motivate him to forget his losses then i might be will help him but before gambling people should be realize the risk that if lost then obviously he will lost all of his money and if the people cannot accept it then gambling isn't part from them and don't ever try to gamble if people fear to lost

[aioc]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I only lend to people who are in needs or in an emergency, I am not a loan shark to give him a loan if he wants to sustain his gambling habit he better go to a loan shark, I don't want to contribute to his downfall, because that's going to happen to people who loan just to gamble.

[iamaruf]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Maybe no one will help you.Because It's your fault. And you know gambling is risky then why you played? If you win 1btc.you are not going to share your money right? Then when you,why people will help you?
Actually i have few reserved fund to play and if i lose those amount i don’t play that day.         

[plr]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Even if he is a close friend I would have to say no, I don't want to help him to continue gambling, lending him to gamble means you are ok to see him ruining his life to gambling, it's a difference if you are lending money in an emergency situation than lending him for gambling, even if he is giving a high interest.

[acroman08]

No, why would I help someone who is old enough to make his own decision. it is for the best to let him experience the consequences of his own action.
I will only help if the person is asking for advice on how to quit gambling although I may not be the best person to give advice I will still try to
give what I think the action to take when trying to quit gambling.

[mu_enrico]

Helping doesn't mean to lend/give him money for whatever reason. If he admits about his sickness, then I might help him to get the necessary treatment.

The more complicated scenario is when his family is also in trouble and desperately needs money to buy food or pay for school tuition fees. In this case, I would lend/give some money to his wife, but not to him.

Any better solution?

[carlisle1]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

this is your first post yet talking about favor?nice try mate lol.

you did not even clarify what kind of Help are we talking here,if this is financial or technical?


if this is for strategy then you should mention what kind of game first because gamblers has their own expertise

but if this is about financial?then stop it because no fool that will give you a hand when the main reason is to gamble .

[Finestream]

If I know the person, maybe I would help him, but if its somebody, I am sure I would not trust and just help right away, or maybe I can't convince myself to help. Why I would do that? Simple, no one is forcing us to gamble and in the first place we know its risky, so we should learn how to manage our our-self, if we are just spending based on what we can afford, there is no reason we will beg for money or ask for help as we can get that amount again especially if we have a job.

let them learn the hard way, losing money will not end yourself, as long as you are healthy, you can always find a solution to every problem you will experience.

[btc78]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

mind to tell us what is the experiment about this?this is not experiment but asking for favor lol.

i will help him why not?but first you must tell me what kind of help is this,because if you are looking for Fiat or Crypto help?then i may passed .

[barbara44]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Crying out after losses and then seeking help from others are the common happening in gambling world and after the revolution of social media we are seeing a lot of people are trying to scam this way to gather some free money. Even it will be social media, I'm not ready to believe into an Internet stranger. Because, the reason of gambling is not appropriate in my opinion.

Yes, if you value money then you should never gamble. If you gamble then you must accept your losses. It means you should never cry out out of your gambling losses. So, asking help is completely meaningless in my opinion after the occurrence of gambling losses.

Helping doesn't mean to lend/give him money for whatever reason. If he admits about his sickness, then I might help him to get the necessary treatment.

Unfortunately no gamblers will seek money for their rehabilitation purposes but they will beg for continuing their gambling but in the name of losing committed money. I like to suggest everyone not to believe into any gambler because 99% are fake promising and definitely will continue their gambling.

[bhabygrim]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Nope I wouldn't give that person anything except for advice to quit on gambling,
And I guess nobody would even help or send that person some money because he/she would just go back right away in gambling right after he/she receive it.
I have seen some gamblers asking for some money in some gambling sites because they loss their money on it and it's really hilarious because if some gamblers send them some money they would just bet it again and lose.

[anog]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I think that can help you is yourself, maybe some people here can only advise you and not necessarily after that you really listen to their advice.

It's best to leave gambling if you can't afford to lose and don't do it again, hopefully you haven't/aren't a gambling addict.

[EdenHazard]

Helping doesn't mean to lend/give him money for whatever reason. If he admits about his sickness, then I might help him to get the necessary treatment.

The more complicated scenario is when his family is also in trouble and desperately needs money to buy food or pay for school tuition fees. In this case, I would lend/give some money to his wife, but not to him.

Any better solution?

The topic itself is too general actually, if only the case is more specific like ... 'someone who desperate in life after hit by an unexpected big loss in gambling , a real loss that causing chaos into his whole family life and then come over here looking for solutions' that's a better specific topic  title , but still if you mentioned money ... after you have lost money, none of us will trust you that the money we will give to you will be used to recover the whole thing caused by gambling.

You'll probably trying to recover the losing money by gambling again with that free money given to you , this is vulnerable to be abused.

[Zeke_23]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I think that can help you is yourself, maybe some people here can only advise you and not necessarily after that you really listen to their advice.

It's best to leave gambling if you can't afford to lose and don't do it again, hopefully you haven't/aren't a gambling addict.

More like no one is willing to help someone or a stranger financially due to his own negligence. Giving advice can help to decrease his thoughts and at least he may know that there are people who is willing to listen and talk to him about his problem.

It will be hard for a person that is already addicted to gambling, it's best to help him limit himself until he finally realized leaving his gambling addiction to prioritize the things he needs to do.

[leea-1334]

Why does anyone help people? There is some science behind this,,, of why people instinctively help others not just for no self benefit, but even at the risk of self harm.

This is called human nature.

But oh do not worry, we will see very little of this in altcoin and gambling. Then again, I have seen a lot of strangers help me in casinos.

[pinggoki]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

If someone seeks from me a help then I would gladly give them a a help but the help I will give them is just a techniques and tips on how they will win in the gambling sessions and not necessary giving them a funds or money in order to start gamble again. I will probably share them my tips and technique on how I am winning in gambling and that's all. I recently help people who wants an advice on how they will win and I will share it to them.

[inthelongrun]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

If someone seeks from me a help then I would gladly give them a a help but the help I will give them is just a techniques and tips on how they will win in the gambling sessions and not necessary giving them a funds or money in order to start gamble again. I will probably share them my tips and technique on how I am winning in gambling and that's all. I recently help people who wants an advice on how they will win and I will share it to them.

If your friend losses big amount of money. Will you tell the person to gamble again using your strategy? That's odd. Chances are, you're friend will lost again. I don't believe that the house can be beaten that easy. Maybe it is easy to win a game but is it difficult to profit.

[topbitcoin]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I think in online gambling, we must fix problem by ourself. I mean, in gambling lose is a risk that people must know. Especially if people know we are out of money because of gambling. Tell people about it, will only make us more suffer. Maybe 1-2 will help us, but from what i see until now, in social media if people ask help because he lose in gambling, other people will bully him.

[Ridwan Fauzi]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I won't spend money for someone who will play gambling. Because it won't help him but it will give him have a lot of debt and I'll he will never pay the debt to me and yeah that's the thing I want to avoid.

It is enough to give him a suggestion to don't play gambling first, give him a learning how to play well and give some advice to leave gambling before all his money used up. It pairs enough to me, even this thing will made by him as a learning and it will be different if I try to give him a loan.

[jakelyson]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?

Lending them cash will just reinforce their gambling problem. Losing a fortune in gambling is already bad, and if they start building debt because of it, that is worse.

I can only give advice and any other help except monetary.

Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Fortunately, I have not lost that much in gambling that will make me broke.

[White Christmas]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

It depends upon the situation on what help did he/she wants. If he wants me to help him in terms of giving him a money or stakes in order for him to continue to play and be able to recover his big losses then maybe I can give him some loan but with interest so that I can also have profit if he would been able to recover again his money because of the interest I have been give to his loan. It is just I already help him and also I have gained profit at the same time. It is a matter of fact of gambling and gamble your trust to other people in order to get back again the help you have been got.

[smyslov]

I would say actually yes I lost about 400,000 Dogecoin, maybe for you it's not much but it's very valuable to me
I regret having used it to gamble, I sacrificed what was more important and that was my biggest mistake
I'm confused about what to do because I don't live alone, I have family and money is supposed to be for them! I am too stupid to be the head of a family
Actually I am ashamed to say this, but I am really confused to deal with it, I borrowed a neighbor, mortgaged electronics for necessities
It's financial, if you want to help me, I really appreciate it and I promise I won't use it for the same mistake, I really promise I will use it as best I can!
Dogecoin Address: DU1jLjhjdJhdLeUCKbjAGZpToYirWSJyAm

Thank you!

You are the original poster or the creator of this thread you're asking us to donate you any amount? but I'm very intrigue on the title

Social experiments in the world of gambling

is asking us to donate part of your experiment, because in my part I won't donate to strangers who only has story to tell and no documents to show that he indeed lost, there are so many of these online in fact I can come out with a better story.

You can even get a red tag for begging and I have seen people getting red tag for doing this.

[Wapfika]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

It depends upon the situation on what help did he/she wants. If he wants me to help him in terms of giving him a money or stakes in order for him to continue to play and be able to recover his big losses then maybe I can give him some loan but with interest so that I can also have profit if he would been able to recover again his money because of the interest I have been give to his loan. It is just I already help him and also I have gained profit at the same time. It is a matter of fact of gambling and gamble your trust to other people in order to get back again the help you have been got.

I don't think it's the best option of lending him, he is already frustrated to win back he's losses so if it will be in gambling again, he will be put in too much pressure that may not lead in success especially crypto is too volatile. If I know him personally and he'll be using the money he will lend if ever from to do business or invest then I might consider but if in gambling again maybe no.

[AicecreaME]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

make it more clear , like he is asking for money as a help or asking for help to stop gambling ?
when it comes to money I won't lend a gambler who lost all his bankroll  , if he was cautious enough he wouldn't lose his own money at first place which means most likely he will bust your money too 

I guess this is the case that OP's trying to say, because this is the most common scenarios that would happen. I've experienced this once, a friend of ours way back then was addicted in drugs and gambling, we don't have any updates about him for about 2 years then suddenly he messaged us in messenger (our group chat) he was asking if we could lend him or give him some money for his tuition, though we know that he is just going to use it on his addiction.

And we did what we should, we scold him and real talk him to make him quit those addictions, but he didn't, he left our group chat and live his life what he wanted.

[shoreno]

no i will not ever do that even if he is my friend because his reason to gambling and recover his loss is not acceptable to me but i think i can change my mind if his reason is somehow valid like for example if he will be loaning some cash to buy foods or rice because thier budget was short ( which happen commonly on the people that i know ) anyway . asking for a loan just to play a gambling is i think a really bad idea because it only bring a headache to you .

[DoublerHunter]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

^ The question is, what kind of help he want?
If that is about asking financial support no one will listen to him since that is his fault of not putting a limit on his self. Probably the common words he might hear are those move on and forget what you have lost. And be careful next time when he is in gambling it should have control over his self and set the amount of what he can afford. I never experience this but if I have, I will frankly say those words that remarkable to him and getting knowledge.

[MonsterV]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Depending, a person can provide help when he is able to help the problem at hand, but not all problems are able to be faced by everyone. Maybe most people will help him if your problem is easy, like how to manage money, a good strategy, isn't that also included in help.

When you face loss, there is an mistake there. What mistake did I make? which part? what's the solution? every mistake has experience. Well I always make that experience to continue to progress in gambling.

[Quidat]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

^ The question is, what kind of help he want?
If that is about asking financial support no one will listen to him since that is his fault of not putting a limit on his self. Probably the common words he might hear are those move on and forget what you have lost. And be careful next time when he is in gambling it should have control over his self and set the amount of what he can afford. I never experience this but if I have, I will frankly say those words that remarkable to him and getting knowledge.

Right! Finding up some financial support is nonsense because no one would indeed to give him out and just like what
others been telling on this thread.He would rather able to received some tips and words of wisdom, i agree to that fact that
giving out that like of "move on and go further" line.Its totally no logic if you do help for financial even if you do know that
he do lost up big time? You are just making him to be worst instead.

[shield132]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

make it more clear , like he is asking for money as a help or asking for help to stop gambling ?
when it comes to money I won't lend a gambler who lost all his bankroll  , if he was cautious enough he wouldn't lose his own money at first place which means most likely he will bust your money too 

if he asking for help to quit then that should involve professional therapy not just some chats with friends , chatting with friends can help sometimes but it's much better to seek professional help

I highly doubt that person is asking for help to stop gambling and needs money for that reason to visit medical expert and get help from them to combat his gambling addiction.
Of course reason is clear, to gamble more with the hope of getting lost money back.
Well, in bitcoin community it happens often when people send some satoshies to each other sometimes or even if you are active in chats, on most gambling websites you'll get some rains which includes different altcoins.
And on another hand, I think we don't have to make them even more addicted by giving some money.

[AmoreJaz]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

make it more clear , like he is asking for money as a help or asking for help to stop gambling ?
when it comes to money I won't lend a gambler who lost all his bankroll  , if he was cautious enough he wouldn't lose his own money at first place which means most likely he will bust your money too 

if he asking for help to quit then that should involve professional therapy not just some chats with friends , chatting with friends can help sometimes but it's much better to seek professional help

I highly doubt that person is asking for help to stop gambling and needs money for that reason to visit medical expert and get help from them to combat his gambling addiction.
Of course reason is clear, to gamble more with the hope of getting lost money back.
Well, in bitcoin community it happens often when people send some satoshies to each other sometimes or even if you are active in chats, on most gambling websites you'll get some rains which includes different altcoins.
And on another hand, I think we don't have to make them even more addicted by giving some money.

i guess the OP already got an answer crystal clear! no one will give more money to that person just to spend again for gambling.  it is his battle, and he should deal with it!
i dont think he will ask for emotional or moral support either. if he needs this kind of support, he will not get help from here but from a serious entity that will truly address his personal prob.
tbh, dealing with loss is your personal cross. you did it so accept the consequences!

[Oceat]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Depending, a person can provide help when he is able to help the problem at hand, but not all problems are able to be faced by everyone. Maybe most people will help him if your problem is easy, like how to manage money, a good strategy, isn't that also included in help.

When you face loss, there is an mistake there. What mistake did I make? which part? what's the solution? every mistake has experience. Well I always make that experience to continue to progress in gambling.

The real question is what kind of help does he wants, it is just like asking a stupid question will be answered with a stupid answers too. What you seek is what you get that's how simple is that and if ever he really want something like a way to stop gambling or how to stop losses, or how to stop gambling, etc. At the end it all depends on the OP himself.

[nydiacaskey01]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

If this person will knock on my door and ask for money and I ask him where is he going to spend that money, and he says to recover his loses in gambling, on the spot, I will say NO. However, the answer maybe different if that scenario happens inside a casino, lets say he a good friend and we are sitting beside each other, on a poker table, and he asks for help, maybe  I will lend him a few chips and pay me back when I see him again. Big NO if its a random person.

[Ailmand]

Absolutely not, I never encourage people who ganble to borrow money to chase their losses. Even if it is not gambling, I don't lend people money right away if it is not necessary or not an emergency. I never borrow money from people because I want to be responsible with my monry and to suffer by ny self and never to burden others because of my fault. I don't want to be the reason why a people will have. a debt because of addiction.

[maydna]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

^ The question is, what kind of help he want?
If that is about asking financial support no one will listen to him since that is his fault of not putting a limit on his self. Probably the common words he might hear are those move on and forget what you have lost. And be careful next time when he is in gambling it should have control over his self and set the amount of what he can afford. I never experience this but if I have, I will frankly say those words that remarkable to him and getting knowledge.

I guess he will ask for help to lend him some money to continue gambling. That is what someone will do if he loses his money in gambling and meets some guy so he can borrow money from that guy. I think he won't listen to that guy if that guy tells to move on and forget, and I guess that person will search the other guy to borrow the money.

That person needs to realize that he must stop gambling for a while and don't continue gambling because that will be difficult for him to win and to pay the money. But if that person asks for help to drive him back to his home, perhaps we can help him.

[Johnyz]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Its ok to help but I won't help him thru money maybe thru emotional help its possible but since he lose money he might ask for a debt and of course I wont help him on that. I didn't experience like this before because I usually stay away from any gambler as much as possible and I want to have fun alone especially on a slot machine.

[coin-investor]

Some gamblers are liers they will do everything just to continue this vice, he is good at pretending, I have seen these kinds of people we have so many of these on the internet and in actual life and besides we don't know if these people really experienced that, there is a lot risk dealing with people in the internet, some of them will just use us, because we have no way of knowing because we have not seen or have no knowledge on all his actions.

[DabsPoorVersion]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

^ The question is, what kind of help he want?
If that is about asking financial support no one will listen to him since that is his fault of not putting a limit on his self. Probably the common words he might hear are those move on and forget what you have lost. And be careful next time when he is in gambling it should have control over his self and set the amount of what he can afford. I never experience this but if I have, I will frankly say those words that remarkable to him and getting knowledge.

I guess he will ask for help to lend him some money to continue gambling. That is what someone will do if he loses his money in gambling and meets some guy so he can borrow money from that guy. I think he won't listen to that guy if that guy tells to move on and forget, and I guess that person will search the other guy to borrow the money.

That person needs to realize that he must stop gambling for a while and don't continue gambling because that will be difficult for him to win and to pay the money. But if that person asks for help to drive him back to his home, perhaps we can help him.

That may be the common thing, he will ask for money to help himself. Since he lost so much money in gambling, the only thing on his mind is for sure how he will be able to get all those money back. If that's the case, the right thing to do help him in another way. It is not right to avoid listening to him, at least show him that there are still more people to listen to someone who has a problem when it comes to gambling.

Once you have talk to him, I know he will realize everything, and he will stop gambling once it happens. Most of the time, that kind of person only needs someone to talk to and help them realize the things that they don't.

[onrise]

Absolutely not, I never encourage people who ganble to borrow money to chase their losses. Even if it is not gambling, I don't lend people money right away if it is not necessary or not an emergency. I never borrow money from people because I want to be responsible with my monry and to suffer by ny self and never to burden others because of my fault. I don't want to be the reason why a people will have. a debt because of addiction.

One of biggest mistake is to gamble with borrowed money , quite high chances that you might end up losing that money as well and end up on a messy note as you would not have money to replay those debts and thus relationship gets spoilt .

[qwertyup23]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Yes but the help/support that I will be giving is limited to advice, and not monetary support.

Most persons that I know always ask for support/help whenever they feel like they already succumbed to addiction and gambling. Advising them what to do despite them not listening at all would not stop me from extending my time and support to them.

Addiction is not something that could be resolved overnight. It is a series of steps and stages where a person undergoes for rehabilitation and goal-setting. You have to understand first their side before even judging them.

[kaya11]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

If ever there will be one, I will be just saying to him that accept the sad truth about it and move on. I guess it there would no one that would accept for a help like that, they knew from the start what are they entering and they should've been ready for what the consequences are.

[Kasabus]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?

I won't help and this experiment will surely fail, the answer of this is obviously now, I am not even expecting one member here that would say they are willing to help.

Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I deal with it alone, I don't beg people to compensate my loses because int he first place, it was my own will to gamble and in gambling its normal to lose, but you'll be stupid if you lose beyond your budget in gambling.

[Darker45]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

It depends on the particular help he asks from me. If it is monetary or financial help, I might not help him.

I have experienced this several times but not here. I have gambler friends whose life is mostly about doing what makes them happy for the moment without necessarily thinking about the day/s to come, or what happens next, or even their family's needs. I admire and pity them at the same time. Sometimes, I cannot fight the urge to help them, even lend them some amount, for the sake of their family.

[peter0425]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

absolutely not lol,why would i help a gambling addict?he must be responsible for his action and must be learn from the experiences.

no one tells him to gamble then why disturb me when he fails?nothing that i will help him ,he must help himself .

[Kevondo]

no i will not ever do that even if he is my friend because his reason to gambling and recover his loss is not acceptable to me but i think i can change my mind if his reason is somehow valid like for example if he will be loaning some cash to buy foods or rice because thier budget was short ( which happen commonly on the people that i know ) anyway . asking for a loan just to play a gambling is i think a really bad idea because it only bring a headache to you .

It is like adding fuel to the fire. If a gambler will borrow money from someone and happens to lose it in this game, he will be in double trouble. He wont only lose the money but become a person with debt having no penny in pocket. Moreover, people who have addict gamblers as their friends, should never lend them money even if they want it for grocery. Better would be to send require products instead of money.

[Asuspawer09]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

In my opinion, this guy was already addicted to gambling if are just thinking wise you will never bet all of your money in gambling because as we know that it is risky,
Sometimes we win and sometimes we lose in gambling you that's why we cant bet all of our money because we could easily lose it all in gambling and vice versa we could easily win a good profit in gambling but helping someone that loses in gambling? the guy was already addicted and I think if you help him we will just going to gamble the money and hoping to win and pay you back or try his luck again in the game.
Also sometimes this is one of the user's scam asking for money or bitcoin.

[Golftech]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

If ever there will be one, I will be just saying to him that accept the sad truth about it and move on. I guess it there would no one that would accept for a help like that, they knew from the start what are they entering and they should've been ready for what the consequences are.

Acceptance need to get inside his mind as gambling addicted didn't know how to control, if you will help him in terms of financial assistance he might go back and play again. The help that he need is to how he can move away from this kind of addiction, he needs mental assistance if you can guide him or if you can refer good doctor to assist him. But in terms of money matters he should not get anything for him to realize and for him to think that quitting is the best way to cure himself.

[Betwrong]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I wouldn't give/lend money to such person, because it would only make things worse for him/her, but I would be more than happy to help with an advice on how to deal with loss, and on how to avoid such situations in the future.

I know, people pay big money for counselling, but the thing is that shrinks are no gamblers themselves, and thus they can hardly say anything constructive on the matter.

I would suggest to such a person to come here, on this forum, to spell out their problem with as many details as possible, and to get free counselling. Maybe it would be helpful.

[diazepam666]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Gambling field is not the helping field and we never can do the investment on gambling first but at the same time lending to some people in this field is not a worthy one.
 I not sure where is the social experiment going at here.
It is purely foolishness to invest on gambling fields.

[AjithBtc]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

He have very less chance of getting any help financially if he goes bankrupt by just gambling alone because people see as irresponsible person so even helping them might leads to waste the money by betting again,but if he changed the things now want to survive and starving for food then will help him.

When one is out of gambling due to loss and doesn't able to survive he should be given help mentally and if he is requesting for financial help it should be avoided. Mostly when stops gambling out of funds, and if he gets small amount too he'll start gambling again. This way I'll help him with mental aid consoling to find a way for life.

[Lucasgabd]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

He have very less chance of getting any help financially if he goes bankrupt by just gambling alone because people see as irresponsible person so even helping them might leads to waste the money by betting again,but if he changed the things now want to survive and starving for food then will help him.

When one is out of gambling due to loss and doesn't able to survive he should be given help mentally and if he is requesting for financial help it should be avoided. Mostly when stops gambling out of funds, and if he gets small amount too he'll start gambling again. This way I'll help him with mental aid consoling to find a way for life.

definitely. therapy is the way to go
and analysing how's the person quality oflife and habits.
usually gambling can also be a compensation for a lack in other areas of life like poor food quality/junk food, lack of exercise, etc...

humans are definitely complex beings.

[dunfida]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

He have very less chance of getting any help financially if he goes bankrupt by just gambling alone because people see as irresponsible person so even helping them might leads to waste the money by betting again,but if he changed the things now want to survive and starving for food then will help him.

When one is out of gambling due to loss and doesn't able to survive he should be given help mentally and if he is requesting for financial help it should be avoided. Mostly when stops gambling out of funds, and if he gets small amount too he'll start gambling again. This way I'll help him with mental aid consoling to find a way for life.

Or in short, a help psychologically not on financial because it will just worsen up the situation.If someone is addicted and want to get rid
of it then its better to avoid to handle up some funds because this will really be a main trigger for you to play again.

You can give emotional support but not financial ones.Also, for sure no one would help out to lend you up some money as a form of help.
No person would easily do that.

[goinmerry]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

If they asked for help, why not? As long as I have spare funds and they are telling the truth, I'm ready to give them a hand.

Now, the next part of the story will be decided if where they will use the help money.

If they go gambling again to retrieve the losses, then no way I will help them for a second chance. If they will put the help money on good and began changing their gambling behaviour, then I'm willing to lend a hand anytime.

I do experience big loss but became a better gambler after. We really need to suffer big losses before becoming a mature gambler.

[maydna]

I guess he will ask for help to lend him some money to continue gambling. That is what someone will do if he loses his money in gambling and meets some guy so he can borrow money from that guy. I think he won't listen to that guy if that guy tells to move on and forget, and I guess that person will search the other guy to borrow the money.

That person needs to realize that he must stop gambling for a while and don't continue gambling because that will be difficult for him to win and to pay the money. But if that person asks for help to drive him back to his home, perhaps we can help him.

That may be the common thing, he will ask for money to help himself. Since he lost so much money in gambling, the only thing on his mind is for sure how he will be able to get all those money back. If that's the case, the right thing to do help him in another way. It is not right to avoid listening to him, at least show him that there are still more people to listen to someone who has a problem when it comes to gambling.

Once you have talk to him, I know he will realize everything, and he will stop gambling once it happens. Most of the time, that kind of person only needs someone to talk to and help them realize the things that they don't.

I always listening if someone has a problem but to lend him the money for gambling, I don't think that is a good idea. Even sometimes I help other people who need money by giving them a job at my friend's office so he can get the money. But he should promise to me that the money will not be used for gambling. Otherwise, I won't care about him anymore.

I have a friend who is often playing gambling in the past. He came to me to lend some money to do a new job, and he tells me that he won't gamble anymore. I trust him and give him some money to create a new small job in his home. After a few months, he comes to me and gives back the money and said that his life is changed now, and he already stops gambling from that day.

[matchi2011]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

If they asked for help, why not? As long as I have spare funds and they are telling the truth, I'm ready to give them a hand.

Now, the next part of the story will be decided if where they will use the help money.

If they go gambling again to retrieve the losses, then no way I will help them for a second chance. If they will put the help money on good and began changing their gambling behaviour, then I'm willing to lend a hand anytime.

I do experience big loss but became a better gambler after. We really need to suffer big losses before becoming a mature gambler.

One important matter is how will you deliver the help, if you will blindly provide the need that being ask and you will not look to whatever this gambler will do with the money, then you are just tolerating  this bad vices. Although it's understandable that you also came from this situations
and you are aware but people have differences if you manage to become a good gambler chances that the person that you are helping will become more worse better to allow him to learn from this and find time to think about this wrong things before helping.

[Fundamentals Of]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

If they asked for help, why not? As long as I have spare funds and they are telling the truth, I'm ready to give them a hand.

Now, the next part of the story will be decided if where they will use the help money.

If they go gambling again to retrieve the losses, then no way I will help them for a second chance. If they will put the help money on good and began changing their gambling behaviour, then I'm willing to lend a hand anytime.

I do experience big loss but became a better gambler after. We really need to suffer big losses before becoming a mature gambler.

One important matter is how will you deliver the help, if you will blindly provide the need that being ask and you will not look to whatever this gambler will do with the money, then you are just tolerating  this bad vices. Although it's understandable that you also came from this situations
and you are aware but people have differences if you manage to become a good gambler chances that the person that you are helping will become more worse better to allow him to learn from this and find time to think about this wrong things before helping.

The question is whether you will know what your friend did with the money that you let him borrow. Of course your friend would tell you that he used them to buy food or give to his family, but how would you know the truth? If he borrows you saying that he needs the money so that he could gamble again, you will not let him borrow. And so he has to tell a lie in order to have the money. And he would again tell a lie as to what he did with the money in order for you to continue to trust him. For me, I won't let him borrow money.

[bobyhodob]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

if he is someone who can believe and have a track record of excellent especially when he's playing gamble I may be able to give him the help.
I had to know someone luckybit he is very reliable even if I was in need of capital he can help me. how could I just silent if there is a friend who are in need help

[lienfaye]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?

It depends, If I know this someone personally then I will help him, otherwise no. I will help him to start over again by correcting his mistakes and not to use the money to chase back his losses. Because before we gamble using our hard-earned money we must know the consequences of our actions.

Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Yes way back in time I was still greedy to earn money. I have regrets but it already happened so I just move on and face the problem cause of my addiction. Its not easy especially if you lose huge money but you can still earn it by working hard.

[Sadlife]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

what i believe that a gambler won't lose that big if he is not an addict or super greed,from that point what i think is they deserve that losses and will not entitled for any help.

for me he must learn what is wrong and the mistakes for doing such thing,this will helps them realized and learn the good things the hard ways and i am sure that in time it will make them a much better person.
so theres no help from my side but purely advises is what i can give.

[iamsheikhadil]

It depends on if I know the person well enough before he made a big loss. If he's a friend (both online or offline) or a relative, I'll help my best.

But if he's a total stranger who just come to me "bro, I just busted a full btc, can you help me, I'll gamble again to recover" then hell no.

Frankly, I would be hesitating to even help a gambler friend because they will most likely gamble with my money too to recover.

[sayaya17]

I will not give a loan in the form of money to a gambler because it is very unlikely to lend money to an unknown person. Especially if the money will be reused to gamble. I don't think anyone would lend it to him. Maybe I would suggest to the gambler to stop while playing gambling, and if there is already a lot of money please to gamble back, but must be ready to lose back.

[michellee]

I will not give a loan in the form of money to a gambler because it is very unlikely to lend money to an unknown person. Especially if the money will be reused to gamble. I don't think anyone would lend it to him. Maybe I would suggest to the gambler to stop while playing gambling, and if there is already a lot of money please to gamble back, but must be ready to lose back.

Even if you know that person who wants to borrow money was your friend, you will think twice to give that money to your friend because you know he already loses in gambling. Maybe it's better to ask him to stop gambling and search for a real job, so he doesn't have to borrow the money for just playing gambling. Borrowing money from other people will give another trouble to that person.

[angrybirdy]

I will not give a loan in the form of money to a gambler because it is very unlikely to lend money to an unknown person. Especially if the money will be reused to gamble. I don't think anyone would lend it to him. Maybe I would suggest to the gambler to stop while playing gambling, and if there is already a lot of money please to gamble back, but must be ready to lose back.

Even if you know that person who wants to borrow money was your friend, you will think twice to give that money to your friend because you know he already loses in gambling. Maybe it's better to ask him to stop gambling and search for a real job, so he doesn't have to borrow the money for just playing gambling. Borrowing money from other people will give another trouble to that person.

It's hard to decide,
If it is your friend and you know what he has done, you will have second thoughts if you will lend him money. There are things to consider first like asking him what he will do and if does he realize his priorities, the things he needs to do and if he is ready to leave gambling after that.
There's a huge stress that he currently faces after his loss, and I think finding a job will take time since blaming himself will be there, for all those stress to be removed, there should be someone from his loved ones to support and guide him to the right path for that to happen.

[huige007]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I wouldn't give/lend money to such person, because it would only make things worse for him/her, but I would be more than happy to help with an advice on how to deal with loss, and on how to avoid such situations in the future.

I know, people pay big money for counselling, but the thing is that shrinks are no gamblers themselves, and thus they can hardly say anything constructive on the matter.

I would suggest to such a person to come here, on this forum, to spell out their problem with as many details as possible, and to get free counselling. Maybe it would be helpful.

If he promises to never ever gamble again then there is no harm in lending money to a gambler who has decided to give up on this game. If he is asking for financial help in order to fulfill needs of his family or something like that with the intention to return the borrowed amount back, the guy deserves help. We should never ever disappoint someone who has High Hopes from us. Saving one life is equal to saving all humanity. If this is not possible then he must be encouraged for good times at least. Mostly gamblers become depressed which is the biggest problem.

[dimonstration]

I will not give a loan in the form of money to a gambler because it is very unlikely to lend money to an unknown person. Especially if the money will be reused to gamble. I don't think anyone would lend it to him. Maybe I would suggest to the gambler to stop while playing gambling, and if there is already a lot of money please to gamble back, but must be ready to lose back.

I will not allow lending too even the one who will borrow is a higher rank as gambling been so delicate to know whether there will be an earning back or a chance to be paid. If the borrower have some collateral to impose then possibly and as much as possible I should know him personally or there's someone related to us that we can assume whether to be a trustee. But gambler is not really a good payee as in our area they always have excuse to delay paying.

[Botnake]

I never donated money on a gambler that is begging for help, however, I might consider depending on the situation as I need to do some investigation on the account that is begging, just to make sure its legit and it is not just doing it to scam people.

When it comes to money, people are really careful on extending here, even charities here are having a hard time to collect money, how much more a gambler who loss and beg.

and if ever OP is not aware of the rules.

This is against the forum rules.

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you,

7. no begging. - https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=703657.0

[michellee]

It's hard to decide,
If it is your friend and you know what he has done, you will have second thoughts if you will lend him money. There are things to consider first like asking him what he will do and if does he realize his priorities, the things he needs to do and if he is ready to leave gambling after that.
There's a huge stress that he currently faces after his loss, and I think finding a job will take time since blaming himself will be there, for all those stress to be removed, there should be someone from his loved ones to support and guide him to the right path for that to happen.

But we cannot lend him money if that money will be used for gambling because that is not a solution for him. I think he will use the money to continue gambling, but if he can promise not to apply for gambling, I might lend the money to him. I say that because I realize that sometimes that person will lie to other people so they can get the money and I don't like it if they have to lie to borrow the money.

As a friend, maybe we can suggest to him not to give up on searching for a new job, or if we can help him, that will be worth him. We can give the money to him to buy food while he searches for the job, and I guess that will help him to survive for a few days until he can get a new job.

[uneng]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

If you mean financial help, the only money I would give to a trouble gambler on that situation would be the money to pay him a cab to go home... And I think it's a common situation at casinos. Usually there are people around willing to help on these cases.
From my own experience gambling community is very friendly and empathic to others, maybe because many of them can be in a hard situation like that anyday.

[LogitechMouse]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

What help does he need? A financial support? An advice? What?

If financial support then I will not help him ever. I know how risky gambling is and I don't want to help him to give some more finances just to have funds for gambling. He suffered a loss already and he must stop with it.

If an advice then that is the time that I can help him. Either I will help him to consult to a mental specialist or we will go outside and play other games not gambling.

[doomloop]

I never donated money on a gambler that is begging for help, however, I might consider depending on the situation as I need to do some investigation on the account that is begging, just to make sure its legit and it is not just doing it to scam people.

When it comes to money, people are really careful on extending here, even charities here are having a hard time to collect money, how much more a gambler who loss and beg.

and if ever OP is not aware of the rules.

This is against the forum rules.

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you,

7. no begging. - https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=703657.0

It is hard to trust someone here, asking for help because you never know whether that person is telling the truth or is just fabricating the story. He should also abide by the rules of this forum. But anyway, if he has not then at least he should not expect people to be this fool that they will help without doing thorough investigation first. moreover, No one has time to accomplish this activity so these people must learn to make your decisions after thinking.

[GreatArkansas]

What help does he need? A financial support? An advice? What?

If financial support then I will not help him ever. I know how risky gambling is and I don't want to help him to give some more finances just to have funds for gambling. He suffered a loss already and he must stop with it.

If an advice then that is the time that I can help him. Either I will help him to consult to a mental specialist or we will go outside and play other games not gambling.

Me too, but it also depends on how broke he/she is.
If advices, then it totally free and most of the people here are willing also to help giving such advises.
But there are some people who are asking for help about financial things, like they want some capital or funds to get their loss back.
Some also asking for a loan with interest, that is also possible but there's a different section that, not here in Gambling Discussion.

[bobyhodob]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

What help does he need? A financial support? An advice? What?

If financial support then I will not help him ever. I know how risky gambling is and I don't want to help him to give some more finances just to have funds for gambling. He suffered a loss already and he must stop with it.

If an advice then that is the time that I can help him. Either I will help him to consult to a mental specialist or we will go outside and play other games not gambling.

yes it is a logical choice for those who are hard addicted to gambling, they need to get mental therapy.
there are many bad effects when people are addicted to gambling and can't stop themselves from playing anymore even until they lose everything
we don't need to help money because they will return to the danger gambling zone that we can only provide advice for them.

[iamsheikhadil]

It happens and no one will intend to help, because the mistake done is after understanding the true risk of gambling. Myself too is a victim, and I haven't asked for help with unknown persons. I've requested help from friends without revealing my failure on gambling. Also I've requested the support team of the casinos. Friends have helped me, and I'm repaying little by little.

I think that's a wrong choice, by taking help from others without revealing that you intent to gamble with the funds! It's alright to make mistakes, but taking loans to gamble to recover is taking a huge burden specially if you lose their money on gambling as well. Might damage relationships.

[alexsandria]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

May be yes and may be no. Depending on the problem I would be taking care off. Because not all the time you are a big help to the others. Either way I'll be lending a hand or even just being a listener to at least he can speak up or voice out his/her grudge to a certain problem he/she dealing with.

[MonsterV]

So from the conclusion of all that giving help to the mistakes of others (gambling) is wrong, maybe it's okay if the person providing the help is sincere and understands the situation. But keep in mind that those who ask for help when losing in gambling are better to borrow than to beg or stop.

Lending section has been provided in this forum so use it for those of you who feel loss, even the government will not be responsible for your failure.

[Patatas]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Motivation help - Yes
Financial help - No
Buying him a burger - YES

You often come across such gentlemen in the chat boxes of gambling sites. Most of them do get help of a few pennies from the fellow gambling buddies. I personally wouldn't feel remorseful over their loses.

[adzino]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I have never experience such thing (did lose small amounts but didn't care much). But I have seen people in  online casino losing a shit load of coins. I have never seen that begging on the chat box after losing his coins on a big bet. Instead I have seen some of them laugh it off and in fact they come back later and gambles as usual.
If someone who lost a lot of coins in gambling and asks for a little help (coins to gamble), I don't think I will give him any.

[pakhitheboss]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Personally I do not think I would be able to help someone, who suffered a loss in gambling. I am not sure about the community. Gambling is a risk and the person should have the courage to take that risk and suffer the consequences. We are not promoting gamblers here.

[Kevondo]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

What help does he need? A financial support? An advice? What?

If financial support then I will not help him ever. I know how risky gambling is and I don't want to help him to give some more finances just to have funds for gambling. He suffered a loss already and he must stop with it.

If an advice then that is the time that I can help him. Either I will help him to consult to a mental specialist or we will go outside and play other games not gambling.

In his situation, a financial help will definitely do more than advice. The guy is asking for money. It is a bit of against the rules too but still, as he is not really begging and whining, it is pretty OK. He must have done this out of no other option. The best for him would be to take advice and start doing any sort of job instead of depending on others. Even if we want to help, we will be doing a lot of investigation first.

[alisonwonder]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

of course I will not help him, because when he lose a large amount, then he want to revenge it, I think this is not a good idea he will become more and more. good lesson for them to realize after losing a lot of money, so they will think to stop.

[anog]

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Motivation help - Yes
Financial help - No
Buying him a burger - YES

You often come across such gentlemen in the chat boxes of gambling sites. Most of them do get help of a few pennies from the fellow gambling buddies. I personally wouldn't feel remorseful over their loses.

Yes, if they already know each other, but if not, I don't think anyone will help, and risk begging in chat, the account will be banned.

I think the most appropriate choice is to stop gambling and forget about the losses that have occurred instead of having to beg.

[jhonjhon]

If your asking if we will give that person money then I would rather not give him especially if I don’t know the person because we really don’t know if that person is telling the truth about his loss, there is also a possibility that he is just making those story up just to ask money from people around here. Another possibility is that what he is saying is true that he lost big time but wanted to ask money to gamble again to recover the losses, whatever reason I would not easily give money because if I help them by giving money then they will be addicted more, I would rather advise them to stop right away to avoid having more and more losses and if he wanted money to start over then he can join signatures campaigns here as well.

[michellee]

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Motivation help - Yes
Financial help - No
Buying him a burger - YES

You often come across such gentlemen in the chat boxes of gambling sites. Most of them do get help of a few pennies from the fellow gambling buddies. I personally wouldn't feel remorseful over their loses.

Yes, if they already know each other, but if not, I don't think anyone will help, and risk begging in chat, the account will be banned.

I think the most appropriate choice is to stop gambling and forget about the losses that have occurred instead of having to beg.

Even if we know each other, that doesn't mean we will help him because if he uses the money for playing gambling, that will give another problem to him. As long as the money is not for playing gambling, let us help him because he is our friend. I think that will what other people do to help their friend. But that will not work for people who always lend his money to other people because he will think that is the best chance to make more money from desperate people

[Debonaire217]

It basically depends from the intention. But most of the time, if someone loses their funds on betting it, it isn't necessary for them to ask the people here for help. They will just be sad about it on their own. In the first place, it is quite embarrassing for people to entertain him, and if he ask for money, no one will surely help. But for advise, I consider myself to help him out.

[imstillthebest]

if there is no financial involved why not ? many gamblers  are crawling here on the past asking for help ( not money or loans ) but help on how can they minimize thier gambling addiction  . users here are also helpful and responds imediately to thier queries  .  forums like this are really helpful so that people can give and share thier problem  but there are also people that will only post here and ask for loans because he want to gamble . thats a silly reason imo and the chances for them to be helped is  slim  .

[carlfebz2]

It basically depends from the intention. But most of the time, if someone loses their funds on betting it, it isn't necessary for them to ask the people here for help. They will just be sad about it on their own. In the first place, it is quite embarrassing for people to entertain him, and if he ask for money, no one will surely help. But for advise, I consider myself to help him out.

Most of the time where people wont really assist in terms of money yet he would just basically gamble after that since he know that he do already have some funds into his pocket.
Financial support would be out of the list but for verbal support then there would someone help on that but most of the time people should really be the one who do resolve his
own gambling problems.Consequences do happen if you do just let gambling addiction control you.Just play for small amounts and when you already get the entertainment you seek then you should stop
and dont play further more.

[KnightElite]

It basically depends from the intention. But most of the time, if someone loses their funds on betting it, it isn't necessary for them to ask the people here for help. They will just be sad about it on their own. In the first place, it is quite embarrassing for people to entertain him, and if he ask for money, no one will surely help. But for advise, I consider myself to help him out.

Most of the time where people wont really assist in terms of money yet he would just basically gamble after that since he know that he do already have some funds into his pocket.
Financial support would be out of the list but for verbal support then there would someone help on that but most of the time people should really be the one who do resolve his
own gambling problems.Consequences do happen if you do just let gambling addiction control you.Just play for small amounts and when you already get the entertainment you seek then you should stop
and dont play further more.

I know many people that got addicted in gambling and it seems thay gambling addiction is controlling them. They keep losing but still they continuing to do gambling. Gambling for me is a hobby and it is my stress reliever. When I do gambling, I know when I will stop and when I will still play.

[kotajikikox]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

no i will not.

i will rather help poor people than helping an addict gambler because for sure the help he will get from me will also go to gambling and thats not make sense.

[Finestream]

Consequences do happen if you do just let gambling addiction control you.Just play for small amounts and when you already get the entertainment you seek then you should stop
and dont play further more.

This is the reality that some of the gamblers neglected, we should all be responsible for our actions and gambling addiction always has a bad consequences in life. When you lose control, that means you are weak and you are not responsible in gambling, when you let your emotion over your mind which supposedly do the planning, it will always end up a disaster.

i can tell based on my experience but I am glad I never get addicted for too long and I am back in gambling now enjoy betting only a small amount of money.

[uray]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I would not trust anyone online let alone lend money to a gambler  . Gambling is when you do some fun activity with your own money and not with other peoples investment and that is the case with any form of financial investments and gambling, if you start lending money to invest or gamble then you will not survive much longer and your credit score takes a huge hit.

[Chrystora123]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?

I will only help people who are really having a hard time, and losing when gambling is not a difficulty!!  my personal experience, people who lose big in gambling will never return the services, energy or money we help, they only use us and will not help us when we have difficulties in the future.

[Kittygalore]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

no i will not.

i will rather help poor people than helping an addict gambler because for sure the help he will get from me will also go to gambling and thats not make sense.

Well, you have a point there, but if ever something like this happens then maybe I give advice and explanation that the person who suffers in great loss should rest or for good stop playing gambling. I'm not saying that gambling itself is terrible but it will depend on how the person treats gambling, so for situation of a friend consulting me after a significant loss then maybe I will give a long advise and make them reflect on what wrong they did in resulting to a significant loss for that person to stop playing gambling to stop more worst situation. But it's a good idea that rather than helping an addicted person, then maybe I spend more assisting others to that in genuinely need.

[michellee]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?

I will only help people who are really having a hard time, and losing when gambling is not a difficulty!!  my personal experience, people who lose big in gambling will never return the services, energy or money we help, they only use us and will not help us when we have difficulties in the future.

You got that. They only borrow money without thinking about how they will go to pay the money. Once they got the money from us, they will not show themselves to us because they will busy to play gambling. If they win, they will not come to us and pay the money, but they will use that money to gamble again. But if they lose, they will come to us and ask for another time to pay for the money back.

[sarnic]

Bro if its money, never ever EVER help a gambler in terms of it. If it's advise or just a simple talk about what happened, I'm all in. Its a lot of fun with that kind of talk. Plus, we all know how most gamblers are in terms of money. Just like what other comments have said, be a man, buckle up, and take the loss. Geez, it ain't the end of the world for you to collapse so much with a loss in gambling.

So much true, lending money a person addicted to gambling is a huge mistake, that's not help, quite the contrary.

[DevilSlayer]

What kind of help? if it is financial help then I cannot help him but I can help him to to fix his psychology and his mindset. He losses big amount of money because of his not good risks management. I know there is a big psychological effect to it and it is not easy to overcome that kind of obstacles. I will give an advice that can motivate and can help him to regain his losses.

[peter0425]

the problem here is that OP does not even care about this "Experiment" topic he started and not even give a single reply for all the question.

he expect answers for not complete questions.

so none can give specific replies as this topic was not active at all.

[South Park]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

You do not specify what kind of help the gambler is asking from the people in the forum, if he is asking for ways to stop gambling whatever we say is never going to be enough to help him, he needs to get professional help because it is incredibly difficult to overcome and addiction, but if what he's asking is for money to somehow keep gambling then the answer is obvious and I think I am not alone on this but no one is going to give him the money to keep gambling and if anything I'll give him the same advice, to get professional help.

[johnwest]

the problem here is that OP does not even care about this "Experiment" topic he started and not even give a single reply for all the question.

he expect answers for not complete questions.

so none can give specific replies as this topic was not active at all.

He might be reading the reply's from his original account because I feel he created that ID just to ask these silly questions.

I dont think anyone will help you in that case and yes, people do suffer from loss while gambling and most of them suck it up.

[Lanatsa]

the problem here is that OP does not even care about this "Experiment" topic he started and not even give a single reply for all the question.

he expect answers for not complete questions.

so none can give specific replies as this topic was not active at all.

He might be reading the reply's from his original account because I feel he created that ID just to ask these silly questions.

I dont think anyone will help you in that case and yes, people do suffer from loss while gambling and most of them suck it up.

I dont see in regards to that.Why he would tend to create a new account in regards to his post? Theres nothing to hide actually if hes really serious on getting some responses on here.

We cant be sure though and the thing you've said might be true but well it doesnt matter though yet most answers here are all the same and on the same side.

Back to topic where no one would surely help out a certain addict when it comes to financial aspect.Moral support yes but for money? meh.

[Kasabus]

the problem here is that OP does not even care about this "Experiment" topic he started and not even give a single reply for all the question.

he expect answers for not complete questions.

so none can give specific replies as this topic was not active at all.

The question is would you give some help to a gambler that loses a big amount of money? that's how I understood it,
OP might have added a poll to know the majority's reply, but I know majority would say now as gamblers don't likely donate a help to its fellow gambler, unless they know the person.

[Lecam]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

If someone suffer because of gambling i think that person is not okay to give him help why because he know the risk of gambling. If he need help because he lose in gambling i think he don't deserve for a help if i have money i will choose to give in poor people than to this guy lossing his money in gambling.
I gamble also but i know how to control my self so that i didn't lose a big amount. Maybe try again next time to find your luck don't be greedy.

[Debonaire217]

If someone suffer because of gambling i think that person is not okay to give him help why because he know the risk of gambling. If he need help because he lose in gambling i think he don't deserve for a help if i have money i will choose to give in poor people than to this guy lossing his money in gambling.
I gamble also but i know how to control my self so that i didn't lose a big amount. Maybe try again next time to find your luck don't be greedy.

Maybe we could provide them with information and some strategies for them to avoid things that caused them failures way back in the past. But giving them help through financial and cryptocurrency because of their lost in gambling. In the first place some gambling sites already provide faucets for them to have initial balance again if they have their funds lost in the a bet. In this case they have the chance to start again.

[michellee]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

If someone suffer because of gambling i think that person is not okay to give him help why because he know the risk of gambling. If he need help because he lose in gambling i think he don't deserve for a help if i have money i will choose to give in poor people than to this guy lossing his money in gambling.
I gamble also but i know how to control my self so that i didn't lose a big amount. Maybe try again next time to find your luck don't be greedy.

I think the same as you. It is better to give the money to people who needed than to give for people who will use that money to play gambling. I think that a person cannot control himself in gambling, so when he loses the money, he wants to play more and more. And if he doesn't have more money, he will borrow from the other people. But maybe we can ask him what the money that he wants to borrow. But that will depend on us, and we don't have to lend the money if we don't have more money.

[lienfaye]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

no i will not.

i will rather help poor people than helping an addict gambler because for sure the help he will get from me will also go to gambling and thats not make sense.

Well if its not about money and just a piece of advice then you can offer a gambler this kind of help. Sometimes its not about money and why would anyone lend money to a gambler (unless you personally know him) who has a possibility to use it to play again thinking he can chase back what he have lost.

[matchi2011]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

no i will not.

i will rather help poor people than helping an addict gambler because for sure the help he will get from me will also go to gambling and thats not make sense.

Well if its not about money and just a piece of advice then you can offer a gambler this kind of help. Sometimes its not about money and why would anyone lend money to a gambler (unless you personally know him) who has a possibility to use it to play again thinking he can chase back what he have lost.

Putting other kind of help aside from lending money, For sure if you will give a gambler money he will go back and try his luck again and again.
Not unless this people only made a mistake and not really into gambling, he can learn lesson in the hard way and forget about his past experienced
and move forward to continue leaving. But if the person is really addicted don't bother to lend money but advise to stop.

[carlisle1]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

no i will not.

i will rather help poor people than helping an addict gambler because for sure the help he will get from me will also go to gambling and thats not make sense.

Well if its not about money and just a piece of advice then you can offer a gambler this kind of help. Sometimes its not about money and why would anyone lend money to a gambler (unless you personally know him) who has a possibility to use it to play again thinking he can chase back what he have lost.

thats the problem with OP mate,because he did not even come back to clarify the topic because all of the question is if this is about money or not.

if this is just about seeking advice?then i will surely glad to help,but if money?no way because i am sure he will go back to table and gamble again.

[Eclipse26]

I would be glad to help someone in a way that I can help them emotionally and mentally by giving advice as much as I can and I know. I can only give advice about gambling issues and I would also be glad to listen to others story. In that way, I can help them how to cope up with it based on my knowledge (I'm not a professional) and at the same time I can also use their experiences to increase my knowledge, to avoid having problems same as them, and to help others who shares the same problem.

But financially, I cannot help anyone. And I don't see it as a help. Because if you really want to help, you'll try to change what is wrong, not encouraging them to continue it.

[Webetcoins]

the problem here is that OP does not even care about this "Experiment" topic he started and not even give a single reply for all the question.

he expect answers for not complete questions.

so none can give specific replies as this topic was not active at all.

May be he never ever planned to reply on anyone’s thought and just want to discover the thinking of other gamblers in this perspective. He is just observing the positive and negative feedback. In case of having a good feedback like most of the gamblers will help, the replies could be regarding the further procedure. But as mostly people are not willing to go this far here, he might be just reading through comments. However, the topic is an interesting one.

[LogitechMouse]

the problem here is that OP does not even care about this "Experiment" topic he started and not even give a single reply for all the question.

he expect answers for not complete questions.

so none can give specific replies as this topic was not active at all.

Probably he is reading all of the replies here (or some of it since none of us have the initiative to read all the replies here one by one ) and aside from him, it can help other people too who are reading here in any way. What is important right now is somebody is keeping this "Experiment" active and somebody will read.

[Betwrong]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Motivation help - Yes
Financial help - No
Buying him a burger - YES

You often come across such gentlemen in the chat boxes of gambling sites. Most of them do get help of a few pennies from the fellow gambling buddies. I personally wouldn't feel remorseful over their loses.

Yes, the size of the loan/help matters big time here. Earlier I said that I wouldn't loan money for gambling, but it totally slipped my mind that I actually was doing that lots of times. I forgot about that because those were small amounts, like $5 max. And if we are talking about such small amounts, that's a whole different story. Although I myself never borrow even $1 to gamble with it, I don't think it's a big deal when someone does it. As long as it's in the range of the money one can afford to lose, there's nothing wrong with that imo.

[Best Dreams]

the problem here is that OP does not even care about this "Experiment" topic he started and not even give a single reply for all the question.

he expect answers for not complete questions.

so none can give specific replies as this topic was not active at all.

Probably he is reading all of the replies here (or some of it since none of us have the initiative to read all the replies here one by one ) and aside from him, it can help other people too who are reading here in any way. What is important right now is somebody is keeping this "Experiment" active and somebody will read.

People are sharing their views and they talk about what they had from gambling. This topic is related to different people who have been gambling and who learned how to gamble with different experiences and mistakes so here we ask them to share those moments so that people who are new will surely read it and will gain some knowledge.

[South Park]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

If someone suffer because of gambling i think that person is not okay to give him help why because he know the risk of gambling. If he need help because he lose in gambling i think he don't deserve for a help if i have money i will choose to give in poor people than to this guy lossing his money in gambling.
I gamble also but i know how to control my self so that i didn't lose a big amount. Maybe try again next time to find your luck don't be greedy.

I think the same as you. It is better to give the money to people who needed than to give for people who will use that money to play gambling. I think that a person cannot control himself in gambling, so when he loses the money, he wants to play more and more. And if he doesn't have more money, he will borrow from the other people. But maybe we can ask him what the money that he wants to borrow. But that will depend on us, and we don't have to lend the money if we don't have more money.

This is really simple if the help that a gambler is asking from you is in the form of money you should always refuse regardless of what kind of excuse they use to try to convince you, you must remember that it is very difficult to detect if a person is addicted to gambling and if that person lost everything that he had with him when he entered the casino you cannot be sure that he's not addicted to gambling and that he is not going to spend whatever you lend to him at the casino once you turn your back to him.

[michellee]

I think the same as you. It is better to give the money to people who needed than to give for people who will use that money to play gambling. I think that a person cannot control himself in gambling, so when he loses the money, he wants to play more and more. And if he doesn't have more money, he will borrow from the other people. But maybe we can ask him what the money that he wants to borrow. But that will depend on us, and we don't have to lend the money if we don't have more money.

This is really simple if the help that a gambler is asking from you is in the form of money you should always refuse regardless of what kind of excuse they use to try to convince you, you must remember that it is very difficult to detect if a person is addicted to gambling and if that person lost everything that he had with him when he entered the casino you cannot be sure that he's not addicted to gambling and that he is not going to spend whatever you lend to him at the casino once you turn your back to him.

That is why I never lend my money to other people who I don't know. Even if I know that person, I will ask him what for that money so I can see that he will not use that money for playing gambling. I will find out his habit first before I lend the money because I don't want him to use the money for something wrong. And using the lending money for playing gambling will be totally wrong because he will be difficult to pay back the money.

[DarkDays]

I've seen plenty of friends look huge stacks, only to then turn to me to ask if I will bankroll them for a few hands. Depending on how well I know them, and wealthy I know they are, I'll then choose whether or not to do so.

I definitely won't be bankrolling anybody I know to be a problem gambler, but sometimes you do get high net worth individuals that just get a bad beat and end up getting felted.

In these cases, you can be sure they've got the finances to pay you back, so it's not usually an issue.

[Assface16678]

the problem here is that OP does not even care about this "Experiment" topic he started and not even give a single reply for all the question.

he expect answers for not complete questions.

so none can give specific replies as this topic was not active at all.

Probably he is reading all of the replies here (or some of it since none of us have the initiative to read all the replies here one by one ) and aside from him, it can help other people too who are reading here in any way. What is important right now is somebody is keeping this "Experiment" active and somebody will read.

People are sharing their views and they talk about what they had from gambling. This topic is related to different people who have been gambling and who learned how to gamble with different experiences and mistakes so here we ask them to share those moments so that people who are new will surely read it and will gain some knowledge.

For the first time in gambling, we are still exploring how does the gambling works, in starting you must to have a starting money for just almost ten dollars is enough to know how does gambling works. Many beginners already failed on their first try as a person who is knowledgeable in gambling; it is better to help those people who want to learn and enjoy the game of gambling. Don't hesitate to help; many people learn in by their experience knowledge is not enough for being a good gambler.

[Betwrong]

Since the OP has disappeared after creating this topic (although he was present on the site two weeks later), I tend to think that he was expecting some kind of gamblers' solidarity, in the sense that if a fellow gambler lost big amount one day, other gamblers would chip in in order to help in recovering losses for the unfortunate gambler. If that would have turned out to be the case all that's left would be making up a sob story about losing big amount and posting his BTC address. When it turned out that no one was willing to give out their money, he decided to abandon this place without replying.

I know I may be wrong, but that's my impression after following this thread for some time.

[South Park]

I've seen plenty of friends look huge stacks, only to then turn to me to ask if I will bankroll them for a few hands. Depending on how well I know them, and wealthy I know they are, I'll then choose whether or not to do so.

I definitely won't be bankrolling anybody I know to be a problem gambler, but sometimes you do get high net worth individuals that just get a bad beat and end up getting felted.

In these cases, you can be sure they've got the finances to pay you back, so it's not usually an issue.

Personally I prefer to never mix my friends with my money because it always ends badly, even if a person is wealthy and has the money to pay you in the case you lend him some money that doesn't mean that he's going to pay you, if anything those that have a lot of money have a tendency to not want to pay even for stuff that they know that they received because that is the way that they had to become wealthy, so no matter what happens I will never lend someone money if his intention is to gamble it.

[Debonaire217]

For the first time in gambling, we are still exploring how does the gambling works, in starting you must to have a starting money for just almost ten dollars is enough to know how does gambling works. Many beginners already failed on their first try as a person who is knowledgeable in gambling; it is better to help those people who want to learn and enjoy the game of gambling. Don't hesitate to help; many people learn in by their experience knowledge is not enough for being a good gambler.

You don't need 10 dollars to start playing in gambling. Based from my experience, you could play on gambling sites that provides free cryptocurrency or faucets to consider, for you to still play games without depositing. With that, if you doubled your money, you could win much more based on your luck. My advise is for you to practice betting with that faucets so if you are to deposite more money, then you already know how to play and to discover efficient ways of playing.

[Sanitough]

For the first time in gambling, we are still exploring how does the gambling works, in starting you must to have a starting money for just almost ten dollars is enough to know how does gambling works. Many beginners already failed on their first try as a person who is knowledgeable in gambling; it is better to help those people who want to learn and enjoy the game of gambling. Don't hesitate to help; many people learn in by their experience knowledge is not enough for being a good gambler.

You don't need 10 dollars to start playing in gambling. Based from my experience, you could play on gambling sites that provides free cryptocurrency or faucets to consider, for you to still play games without depositing. With that, if you doubled your money, you could win much more based on your luck. My advise is for you to practice betting with that faucets so if you are to deposite more money, then you already know how to play and to discover efficient ways of playing.

In sports gambling site that I am playing with, their minimum is around 1 mbtc and I think that is an affordable amount.

The good thing with crypto gambling is you don't need to risk or spend a big amount to gambling, your suggestion by the way is good but you don't get a good amount playing faucet these days, so its better to start with your own money.

maybe try to join the competition, find some job online like bounty campaign and what you earn as reward, you can use that to gamble.

[Shinpako09]

If you mean giving a money as a help to this gambler. Who the hell will do such kind of thing? No one. Begging isn't allowed inside the forum even in site chatroom, you are not allowed to that. As if a gambler will show pity and give some of his coin to this gambler, definitely not. Maybe they will just show sympathy and that's it. But if you're an HR and often rain on chatroom, there's a chance that some might tip you back.

[JohnBitCo]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

It depends upon what can of help he need ? Sociological help or a financial help. I may not help him  financially unless I see he has some good job or business and he can pay me back. I am saying this because I actually help my friend in such a situation and to my surprise he again bet on the loan which he got from me and lost that amount also. 

[Genemind]

You should have written the kind of help that a person would be asking. If it's about lending him funds to make him return his losses, I guess it will be too hard for me to help him. There's no guarantee that he will still be successful in trading. He should know about its risks and that gaining a good profit from gambling is still unsure. He might only be doing the same thing if I would help him. There's always a consequence for our actions so we should think twice before betting.

[iamsheikhadil]

It happens and no one will intend to help, because the mistake done is after understanding the true risk of gambling. Myself too is a victim, and I haven't asked for help with unknown persons. I've requested help from friends without revealing my failure on gambling. Also I've requested the support team of the casinos. Friends have helped me, and I'm repaying little by little.

Not a good idea to ask from friends without revealing that you will be gambling or for gambling recovery because in past I have also been in such situations and it turned worse as I gambled with their money to recover the losses. Best is to avoid getting into more debts.

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

It depends upon what can of help he need ? Sociological help or a financial help. I may not help him  financially unless I see he has some good job or business and he can pay me back. I am saying this because I actually help my friend in such a situation and to my surprise he again bet on the loan which he got from me and lost that amount also. 

Well, exactly, that's a reason it's bad to borrow more if you are going to gamble with the money anyway, but sometimes urgent need arises which are out of our control. That times help can be done.

[Golftech]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

It depends upon what can of help he need ? Sociological help or a financial help. I may not help him  financially unless I see he has some good job or business and he can pay me back. I am saying this because I actually help my friend in such a situation and to my surprise he again bet on the loan which he got from me and lost that amount also. 

Such experienced will really give you the right to forget about helping him again, though an addicted gambler doesn't have any reputations to think about. As they are all think about how they will manage to playback and try their luck to recover  previous loses that they've made. Difficult to see them suffered but you also need to tech them that quitting is the best options with this kind of activities.

[pixie85]

I'd tell that person to help himself and his family by getting out and at first trying to lowering stakes. Playing with a few dollars is the best way to satisfy your addiction and not lose a lot of money.

I don't feel bad for gamblers who lost a lot of money. It was their choice and if they won they'd be bragging about it everywhere and buying stupid useless shit. We shouldn't help these people financially they have to learn from it and suffer the consequences.

[Debonaire217]

I'd tell that person to help himself and his family by getting out and at first trying to lowering stakes. Playing with a few dollars is the best way to satisfy your addiction and not lose a lot of money.

I don't feel bad for gamblers who lost a lot of money. It was their choice and if they won they'd be bragging about it everywhere and buying stupid useless shit. We shouldn't help these people financially they have to learn from it and suffer the consequences.

If they are to consider lowering their bets in the game, then it will surely not satisfy their hunger to play more. Basically why people play and gets addicted is when they bet a huge amount and they win. If they are to bet small amount then its sadly but true, its boring. So, to help someone who lost, then an advice would do for him to limit playing, or else, work hard to have too much to spend in gambling without worrying of losing everything.

[shoreno]

I'd tell that person to help himself and his family by getting out and at first trying to lowering stakes. Playing with a few dollars is the best way to satisfy your addiction and not lose a lot of money.

I don't feel bad for gamblers who lost a lot of money. It was their choice and if they won they'd be bragging about it everywhere and buying stupid useless shit. We shouldn't help these people financially they have to learn from it and suffer the consequences.

If they are to consider lowering their bets in the game, then it will surely not satisfy their hunger to play more. Basically why people play and gets addicted is when they bet a huge amount and they win. If they are to bet small amount then its sadly but true, its boring. So, to help someone who lost, then an advice would do for him to limit playing, or else, work hard to have too much to spend in gambling without worrying of losing everything.

being satisfy to play more  ? but betting lower  amounts in  every game can make you last longer than betting times two or times three of what you have but still it cant give a full satisfaction depending on the player as it only gives small profit but what majority do is to earn big every game so they risk to bet bigger than usual  . advicing too work hard is helpful because he will have a busy time and will slowly forget gambling on his schedule and he will also spend money wisely because he will think about his hard work  .

[DabsPoorVersion]

I'd tell that person to help himself and his family by getting out and at first trying to lowering stakes. Playing with a few dollars is the best way to satisfy your addiction and not lose a lot of money.

I don't feel bad for gamblers who lost a lot of money. It was their choice and if they won they'd be bragging about it everywhere and buying stupid useless shit. We shouldn't help these people financially they have to learn from it and suffer the consequences.

If they are to consider lowering their bets in the game, then it will surely not satisfy their hunger to play more. Basically why people play and gets addicted is when they bet a huge amount and they win. If they are to bet small amount then its sadly but true, its boring. So, to help someone who lost, then an advice would do for him to limit playing, or else, work hard to have too much to spend in gambling without worrying of losing everything.

being satisfy to play more  ? but betting lower  amounts in  every game can make you last longer than betting times two or times three of what you have but still it cant give a full satisfaction depending on the player as it only gives small profit but what majority do is to earn big every game so they risk to bet bigger than usual  . advicing too work hard is helpful because he will have a busy time and will slowly forget gambling on his schedule and he will also spend money wisely because he will think about his hard work  .

Debonair217 has a point. Actually even if you can last longer in playing, your hunger for earning a huge amount in just one bet will always be there. Betting small amounts will just make a gambler more hasty in the long run and will end up in the same direction.
Giving advice is not enough, what gamblers need is to have another habit and slowly forgot the addiction to gambling.

[michellee]

I also think the same way. This social experiment about finding out people’s response related to a big loss has turned out to be a huge failure in the end. It could have benefited OP if the kind of solidarity he was seeking was actually possible to be acquired. But it is not the case in the world of gambling. Emotions or peace keeping could never overshadow the importance of money.

Response people for a big loss will be varied, and they will act with many things to express how their feeling and emotion at that time. But the important thing that the gambler needs to find out how to solve his problem because other people cannot give full help to him. But if he cannot do that, I don't think that he can solve his problem and even he will desperate and will try to end his life.

[swogerino]

In the forum rules asking for financial help is considered as begging and it is not allowed.In real life,in physical casinos when someone loses a big amount of money and goes broke many other gamblers there become friendly to him in the sense that they offer him like 10-20 Dollars to maybe turn him back to win a part of money he lost.
You cannot do this in online gambling,if you lose no one can help you.

[South Park]

For the first time in gambling, we are still exploring how does the gambling works, in starting you must to have a starting money for just almost ten dollars is enough to know how does gambling works. Many beginners already failed on their first try as a person who is knowledgeable in gambling; it is better to help those people who want to learn and enjoy the game of gambling. Don't hesitate to help; many people learn in by their experience knowledge is not enough for being a good gambler.

You don't need 10 dollars to start playing in gambling. Based from my experience, you could play on gambling sites that provides free cryptocurrency or faucets to consider, for you to still play games without depositing. With that, if you doubled your money, you could win much more based on your luck. My advise is for you to practice betting with that faucets so if you are to deposite more money, then you already know how to play and to discover efficient ways of playing.

But the problem with that strategy is that now you are investing even more time to gamble and that is no good, because now you're thinking more about gambling with whatever money that you can get out of those faucets, so now you have increased the possibility of becoming addicted to gambling and that is never a good thing, it is way better to set a budget about the amount of money that you want to spend when you gamble and just stick with.

[vintages]

Confusing question.
If I understand it the way you stated it, you mean if someone used all his funds in gambling and then happens to ask me for some help.
At first, I will question him on why he went gambling when he knew that was his last funds.
It's not about been able to show sympathy or so, anyone who is gambling should be able to answer or be responsible for their actions.

[fortunecrypto]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I'll definitely not give help, he should have thought first before betting all his money that he will need money for his needs, this kind of gamblers are reckless drivers who never give a second thought if what will happen to him if he loses, no wonder they always end up taking a loan from a loan shark

[Finestream]

Confusing question.
If I understand it the way you stated it, you mean if someone used all his funds in gambling and then happens to ask me for some help.
At first, I will question him on why he went gambling when he knew that was his last funds.
It's not about been able to show sympathy or so, anyone who is gambling should be able to answer or be responsible for their actions.

That's a good explanation, we should let them learn from their mistakes, they loss because of their negligence now they find ways to solve that money problem. Actually there only two kinds of gambler, the responsible and irresponsible one, and if the responsible loses they know they will not loss everything they got as they strictly follow the principle in gambling.

We as gamblers know the risk and therefore we should also know how to gamble based on our limit only.

[owengtam09]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

What kind of help does he want from here? Financial or some advice? Well, he cannot get money from here, it he is lost then he must manage what he has done from playing gambling, we don't need to take responsibility for his loss. Maybe a piece of advice could help him better than giving him some money but after all, lose it again with gambling.

[pakhitheboss]

Betting is addictive and addiction is your problem, not mine. Take professional help rather than asking more money to fuel your addiction. It is shameful to even post a topic like this one here. Sounds more like begging.

[huige007]

Confusing question.
If I understand it the way you stated it, you mean if someone used all his funds in gambling and then happens to ask me for some help.
At first, I will question him on why he went gambling when he knew that was his last funds.
It's not about been able to show sympathy or so, anyone who is gambling should be able to answer or be responsible for their actions.

I will have somewhat same kind of attitude towards him. The issue is not in helping him; real issue is that he is going to again use money in gambling. This person does not need monetary help; he or she needs some psychological help in regard of overcoming gambling addiction. We need to guide him or her towards some other game which is actually nice and helps him or her in developing some healthy habits.

[Debonaire217]

Betting is addictive and addiction is your problem, not mine. Take professional help rather than asking more money to fuel your addiction. It is shameful to even post a topic like this one here. Sounds more like begging.

Then encouraging the person who lost not to ask for money is the best way to consider. Because for me, if we just gave him money, he will just try to take back the losses that he have and might end up still in the same situation. Why not to teach him and to tell him to have job first wherein, whenever he lost again, he still have a source of bet for him to play.

[imstillthebest]

Betting is addictive and addiction is your problem, not mine. Take professional help rather than asking more money to fuel your addiction. It is shameful to even post a topic like this one here. Sounds more like begging.

Then encouraging the person who lost not to ask for money is the best way to consider. Because for me, if we just gave him money, he will just try to take back the losses that he have and might end up still in the same situation. Why not to teach him and to tell him to have job first wherein, whenever he lost again, he still have a source of bet for him to play.

i have a friend who i know recently and he have a manner exactly like this   . he begs to me most of the time and me sometimes i cant deny because i still have some funds left on my account so i just gave him but not too much and he also said that he will re pay which is also true and he also give more if he win big  . it comes to the point that i want to tell him that he is already addicted and want him to stop doing that  and i also  recomend him to look for other ways to earn so that he can sustain himself and wont beg for someone else if ever he still want to continue playing  .

[lienfaye]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

What kind of help does he want from here? Financial or some advice? Well, he cannot get money from here, it he is lost then he must manage what he has done from playing gambling, we don't need to take responsibility for his loss. Maybe a piece of advice could help him better than giving him some money but after all, lose it again with gambling.

Losing everything because of gambling is hard and to someone who is suffering from this I think he dont need money but instead a friend who can advice him to change or realize his mistakes for spending too much in gambling. If you lend him money he might gamble again and repeat the same mistakes because of his past losses that he wants to chase back.

[supercanada1]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I'll definitely not give help, he should have thought first before betting all his money that he will need money for his needs, this kind of gamblers are reckless drivers who never give a second thought if what will happen to him if he loses, no wonder they always end up taking a loan from a loan shark

These loan sharks are dreadful and horrible. They go to any extends in order to get back their money within limited time span. The biggest mistake gamblers commit which leads to bankruptcy is taking loan for betting. People show no mercy to gamblers because as per them, gambler is and was responsible for all his actions and shall have thought about consequences beforehand. Nobody likes helping them.

[youdacapt]

I will not give anything when he is still in a high emotional level, even in such conditions any advice will not be too influential. If the attitude and thoughts have returned to normal, then if he wants to borrow capital again must go through a mutually agreed mechanism, all agreements must continue to use common sense because gambling has a high risk.

[Saisher]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I have experienced this to one of my friends and I turned him down because you don't lose everything in gambling because you have  mouths to feed and gambling should only be for fun only and not to empty your wallet, it's a big disgrace losing and asking for a loan.

[Janation]

I always say that it should set as a lesson to him.

I don't encourage people to gamble since my parents raised me to be that kind of person. If someone asks for a suggestion about what should they do after suffering from a big loss I would just tell them that don't ever gamble again. They can't accept their loss despite knowing that they have a higher probability of not winning and they can't afford to lose in it so better keep their distance on gambling. They should take responsibility for it since it is their decision.

[huige007]

I always say that it should set as a lesson to him.

I don't encourage people to gamble since my parents raised me to be that kind of person. If someone asks for a suggestion about what should they do after suffering from a big loss I would just tell them that don't ever gamble again. They can't accept their loss despite knowing that they have a higher probability of not winning and they can't afford to lose in it so better keep their distance on gambling. They should take responsibility for it since it is their decision.

These people are usually the ones who are afraid of working hard and want to make money in short time. I personally feel that media influences young people a lot in this regard. There are a lot of movies that show protagonist as poor who then becomes a successful gambler with a lot of wealth. But that does not happen to be case in real gambling. We shall stop our friends and family from getting involved into this sin even if they are doing it for fun.

[sunsilk]

I always say that it should set as a lesson to him.

I don't encourage people to gamble since my parents raised me to be that kind of person. If someone asks for a suggestion about what should they do after suffering from a big loss I would just tell them that don't ever gamble again. They can't accept their loss despite knowing that they have a higher probability of not winning and they can't afford to lose in it so better keep their distance on gambling. They should take responsibility for it since it is their decision.

I have compassion for those gamblers that are in that situation and they didn't control their severe addiction and goes up to the point that they've lost everything. But that little help which they think is too little for us will be granted but they've never thought of it before continuing.

They should've asked themselves first if the people are willing to help if ever they'll be on a huge loss or if there will be a stranger that's going to lend them a hand after the decision they've made that turned out to be a failure.

[julius caesar]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

As his friend, I will help him but not in giving money because I know there is still a chance that hey he will use the money to play again. I will also give a piece of advice so he can learn from his mistakes. We should tolerate our friend who keeps on playing gambling even they already lose a lot of money. I have some experience with my friend who borrows some money to me because he already loses his money in playing gambling but even he keeps on telling me that he will return it with interest I still now give him the money that he wants. It's better to give him a piece of advice than giving him money that he can use to play.

[Slow death]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?

Gambling has always been a high risk thing, it is not something that one can be guaranteed to make big profits on and rather it is something that involves good bankroll management and an efficient strategy. I see sports trade specialists having some losses, that means that even the smartest and most knowledgeable person in gambling can lose all money. So if a person loses all the money, then he should not borrow money from anyone. So answering your question:

it will depend on the case of the person, if I think the person is a gambling addict then I will not give him money

Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Nope, I don't have such problems

[Bitcoinislife09]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I am willing to help but not in terms of giving them money. Everyone loses in gambling and losing will become your teacher and will teach you lesson. So, I think I will help them by giving advice such as don't be addicted in gambling because even if you are winning, there is always a time for you to lose.

[Krislaw]

That's a great sign of addiction if he takes that money back into gambling. What he needs is a financial advisor to talk him out of his gambling addiction. I would also for an excuse not to help him out because he won't use the money in an appropriate way.

[shoreno]

That's a great sign of addiction if he takes that money back into gambling. What he needs is a financial advisor to talk him out of his gambling addiction. I would also for an excuse not to help him out because he won't use the money in an appropriate way.

if you know the person is addicted why would you not care to help him to get out of his addiction  ? you wont help in a financial way but you can help him avoid loosing more and he could have regain his funds if he dont play gambling more oftenly  . many player including myself is sometimes make a depo for sometime  ( it was like taking back money into gambling ) but this isnt a sign of addiction or we are now already addicted  but we alread spend some of those profits for ourself   .

[Blackdeath]

In my own point of view, if i would gonna ask by a person who just lose a lot of money from gambling, whether it is money to gamble or help for his neccesity i would not help him because even he gives any reason it is still his fault not being responsible with his actions. He probably used the money if i gave him just to play gambling, that is why it will better if he just face the consequences of his actions.

[Kevondo]

That's a great sign of addiction if he takes that money back into gambling. What he needs is a financial advisor to talk him out of his gambling addiction. I would also for an excuse not to help him out because he won't use the money in an appropriate way.

Nobody wants to help those who became addicts in the course of gambling because people doubt their decision making powers. People fear that they are still under the influence of gambling addiction and whatever helps in the form money will be done, they will simply invest it again into gambling. But people would come forward to help them by providing them some therapies or referring them to therapists.

[Triffin]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I am willing to help but not in terms of giving them money. Everyone loses in gambling and losing will become your teacher and will teach you lesson. So, I think I will help them by giving advice such as don't be addicted in gambling because even if you are winning, there is always a time for you to lose.

When you want to help someone never give them money as giving them money will make it their habit and it will make their life bad so try to help someone by teaching them some earning skills like gambling and investing. We are living in New era so be ready for having people like them just be social in limit never give people chance to take all your money and never reject to help them as well.

[Kevondo]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I am willing to help but not in terms of giving them money. Everyone loses in gambling and losing will become your teacher and will teach you lesson. So, I think I will help them by giving advice such as don't be addicted in gambling because even if you are winning, there is always a time for you to lose.

When you want to help someone never give them money as giving them money will make it their habit and it will make their life bad so try to help someone by teaching them some earning skills like gambling and investing. We are living in New era so be ready for having people like them just be social in limit never give people chance to take all your money and never reject to help them as well.

Helping them by lending money is simply making them passive eaters. They are never ready to then earn for themselves and make money. They are always looking to crash at others place for food and shelter. I am myself also a strong advocate of disseminating skills among needy people rather than circulating money which is not in their best interest. I am the one who would like to make skilled people for our society.

[finaleshot2016]

For me, I will not help them 'cause doing mistakes are part of surviving in life, if you accepted your mistakes then you'll learn on it. I don't want to help people that are being eaten by their own greed. It's their choice to waste money and put their future at risk so I think it's their responsibility to fix their life with their own choice too.

I'll help but in terms of encouraging them not to do it again and be practical in life.
If you help them financially, they will just abuse it and will not learn what happened to them.

[djsugar]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Not sure here that what are you trying to ask but if it is not financial help, count me in to help. I wont ever lend money to anyone, even a friend or family to use it in gambling. There has been times when few friends have asked me for money and I realized that they lost that too in gambling. Since then I am more cautious when it comes to financially helping a gambler. If it is tips and other help, I am sure to do whatever I can.

[Best Dreams]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Not sure here that what are you trying to ask but if it is not financial help, count me in to help. I wont ever lend money to anyone, even a friend or family to use it in gambling. There has been times when few friends have asked me for money and I realized that they lost that too in gambling. Since then I am more cautious when it comes to financially helping a gambler. If it is tips and other help, I am sure to do whatever I can.

It is a good habit to keep such thinking and helping other people. If you are helping people in gambling for making a profit it’s another thing but doing such kind of acts for humanity is great things. After being rich only a few people remain social but those who got a beautiful heart will surely help other people and they will support other people who are interested in gambling the same as them.

[wildan88]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Not sure here that what are you trying to ask but if it is not financial help, count me in to help. I wont ever lend money to anyone, even a friend or family to use it in gambling. There has been times when few friends have asked me for money and I realized that they lost that too in gambling. Since then I am more cautious when it comes to financially helping a gambler. If it is tips and other help, I am sure to do whatever I can.

It is a good habit to keep such thinking and helping other people. If you are helping people in gambling for making a profit it’s another thing but doing such kind of acts for humanity is great things. After being rich only a few people remain social but those who got a beautiful heart will surely help other people and they will support other people who are interested in gambling the same as them.

never help anything in gambling, let him learn from gambling so that he realizes that he will eventually lose everything, and hopefully he will stop to gamble. I was better help people who really need help such as food or other needs than helping to gamble which will eventually lose again.

[Oilacris]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Not sure here that what are you trying to ask but if it is not financial help, count me in to help. I wont ever lend money to anyone, even a friend or family to use it in gambling. There has been times when few friends have asked me for money and I realized that they lost that too in gambling. Since then I am more cautious when it comes to financially helping a gambler. If it is tips and other help, I am sure to do whatever I can.

It is a good habit to keep such thinking and helping other people. If you are helping people in gambling for making a profit it’s another thing but doing such kind of acts for humanity is great things. After being rich only a few people remain social but those who got a beautiful heart will surely help other people and they will support other people who are interested in gambling the same as them.

never help anything in gambling, let him learn from gambling so that he realizes that he will eventually lose everything, and hopefully he will stop to gamble. I was better help people who really need help such as food or other needs than helping to gamble which will eventually lose again.

Its dumb to help out people which we know that the money would be spent to gambling again.Not to be harsh but i would definitely do the same thing.
Its better to help out people in financial terms when it comes to main priorities like food shelter and clothing same as you said but for gambling?
I would never consider that i would help him out.I can give advise but not in terms of money.

[bitcoin31]

If my friend who suffered a big lost in gambling and they want me to help I think the only give to him is advice but not a money. Because first of all that is my fault is his decision to play a gambling not mine Im a friend or person who tolerate a person who did that but for the others maybe if they friends got lose in gambling and need help maybe they give them a money.

[Meowth05]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Honestly, I haven't tried to bet and lose a huge amount of money upon playing gambling games because I simply use this gambling as a means of entertainment and if I hit the jackpot randomly then that would be great, however, that seems impossible. Anyway, I think the help only I can provide is to encourage him/her to not spend a lot of money in just a game but rather use it for investment. I am not totally saying that he should leave the gambling but rather have a discipline or limitations and spend only the money you can only afford to lose.

[senne]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Never in a situation , I would help a stranger with money to support his gambling habits but if it is anything except finances , I would be happy to put forth my opinion and exerience to help him with the same .

[vintages]

That's a great sign of addiction if he takes that money back into gambling. What he needs is a financial advisor to talk him out of his gambling addiction. I would also for an excuse not to help him out because he won't use the money in an appropriate way.

To me it seems more like he used the more for an important stuff to gamble which is why he tend to beg to replace it back.
Though, the addiction part can also play a role, if he has done it couple of times. Then he surely need a therapist though.

[KnightElite]

If my friend who suffered a big lost in gambling and they want me to help I think the only give to him is advice but not a money. Because first of all that is my fault is his decision to play a gambling not mine Im a friend or person who tolerate a person who did that but for the others maybe if they friends got lose in gambling and need help maybe they give them a money.

I will not also give my money even if my friend is begging for help because I know that he will only spend it in gambling. A gambling addict have different mindset and idea, they keep thinking about how they will earn money from gambling. They also spend most of their day in playing gambling. Being a gambling addict is not simple, it require a psychiatrist in order to treat that kind of addiction.

[onrise]

That's a great sign of addiction if he takes that money back into gambling. What he needs is a financial advisor to talk him out of his gambling addiction. I would also for an excuse not to help him out because he won't use the money in an appropriate way.

Quite right if you set yourself a target and play and have a self discipline then you would be out once you win that amount and would not be a playing . This will help you to as you can fulfill other needs or pay off your debts if any taken from this money .

[michellee]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Never in a situation , I would help a stranger with money to support his gambling habits but if it is anything except finances , I would be happy to put forth my opinion and exerience to help him with the same .

If we help a stranger with our money to support his habit of gambling, then we will not have a chance to get the money back. We don't have to help him if he will use that money to gamble because that will not help him to solve his problem. But if he needs money to buy food, then yes, we can help him because it's about humanity.

[nasipadang]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I could have helped him with some money, but I think most likely he will return to gamble and ask for help again. Here I will direct more help to primary needs, from what I know many gamblers suffer from problems in their mindset, actually I want to suggest to change the gambler's personality, unfortunately I have never experienced it.

When I lose gambling, I better accept it. I do not want to bother others for the mistakes I have made by losing money in gambling.

[Debonaire217]

Being lost in gambling will not be a reason for us to ask help especially if we are asking for funds to play again. We should always bear the consequence if we lose and try our lack next time. IT is a matter of pride to play with our own money instead of asking people to give us and to save us from our own losses.

[Naida_BR]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I would give psychological support of course.
If he asks me for money in order to keep gambling I would never do it because this would feed his addiction more and it will not help him at all.

[Mumbeeptind1963]

That's a great sign of addiction if he takes that money back into gambling. What he needs is a financial advisor to talk him out of his gambling addiction. I would also for an excuse not to help him out because he won't use the money in an appropriate way.

Quite right if you set yourself a target and play and have a self discipline then you would be out once you win that amount and would not be a playing . This will help you to as you can fulfill other needs or pay off your debts if any taken from this money .

I will not give him money, because he is not at his stable mindset and and in good condition. I will give him some advices rather than money, Im sure he has still have a money, he needed an advisor, I am myself experiencing some problems in losses too, but I know how to control myself and have a control in gambling, we need to control our money and our emotion as well, if you will give him money, it will only makes him more addicted.

[peter0425]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I would give psychological support of course.
If he asks me for money in order to keep gambling I would never do it because this would feed his addiction more and it will not help him at all.

and you will only feeding his stupidity giving him another amount to play,if we really wanted to help that person?we must teach him how to keep away fropm gambling and learn what he got from the past.

playing again will only worsen the situation and will keep him on the same track forever in which very wrong and not tolerable.

so either advice him,or just leave him alone for his own recovery and realization.

[AicecreaME]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Never in a situation , I would help a stranger with money to support his gambling habits but if it is anything except finances , I would be happy to put forth my opinion and exerience to help him with the same .

If we help a stranger with our money to support his habit of gambling, then we will not have a chance to get the money back. We don't have to help him if he will use that money to gamble because that will not help him to solve his problem. But if he needs money to buy food, then yes, we can help him because it's about humanity.

And that is the tricky part, if someone is asking for money, let's just say he is asking for it to buy some food, but the truth is he will not use it to buy some food, instead he is going to use it to play gambling, that is why for me when I'm helping someone, I'm not giving money, I'm asking them what they need and I buy it to give it to them, mostly it is food and clothing, I am not going to give money or anything materials that won't help them to be honest.

[Webetcoins]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I would give psychological support of course.
If he asks me for money in order to keep gambling I would never do it because this would feed his addiction more and it will not help him at all.

and you will only feeding his stupidity giving him another amount to play,if we really wanted to help that person?we must teach him how to keep away fropm gambling and learn what he got from the past.

playing again will only worsen the situation and will keep him on the same track forever in which very wrong and not tolerable.

so either advice him,or just leave him alone for his own recovery and realization.

It is true .A person who has suffered from some serious loss in the past via gambling must not be offered more money to try his luck again. This is because it will only add up to his distress as he will try his best to win this time. And winning with such a mental instability is not possible most of the time. Gambling must not take over one’s nerves. It should only be limited to be a source of fun.

[Colt81]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

If someone ask a help for me after he suffers from losing a huge amount of money. I think it would depends because if he will ask money just for him to gamble i would rather not help him because he will just be push himself to gamble even more again. But if he ask money to help him to financial problem i would only lend him a few money and watch him goes, so i could know if he will really use it for good.

[passwordnow]

If someone ask a help for me after he suffers from losing a huge amount of money. I think it would depends because if he will ask money just for him to gamble i would rather not help him because he will just be push himself to gamble even more again. But if he ask money to help him to financial problem i would only lend him a few money and watch him goes, so i could know if he will really use it for good.

I think that's the case too and what if I'm also in the same situation but not having a problem in gambling but real life financial problem. I can help him in some manner but if it's the money, no can do. You sure to lend him even if you don't know him? I think it wouldn't be lend anymore but that would be your good will to help him so that he have something to start with. Well, only few people will do that unless you really have something to offer and you're okay with the amount you're giving him.

[michellee]

If we help a stranger with our money to support his habit of gambling, then we will not have a chance to get the money back. We don't have to help him if he will use that money to gamble because that will not help him to solve his problem. But if he needs money to buy food, then yes, we can help him because it's about humanity.

And that is the tricky part, if someone is asking for money, let's just say he is asking for it to buy some food, but the truth is he will not use it to buy some food, instead he is going to use it to play gambling, that is why for me when I'm helping someone, I'm not giving money, I'm asking them what they need and I buy it to give it to them, mostly it is food and clothing, I am not going to give money or anything materials that won't help them to be honest.

We don't know if his reason to ask for money for gambling, but he says that with the money, he will buy some food. I think we don't know what he will do after we give that money. But maybe we can ask them first, and if they say that money will be used to buy food, we can ask him to buy that food, and we can pay for that food. That will prevent him from using that money for playing gambling, and I think that is the right solution for us to know what is his real reason to ask that money.

[swogerino]

If we help a stranger with our money to support his habit of gambling, then we will not have a chance to get the money back. We don't have to help him if he will use that money to gamble because that will not help him to solve his problem. But if he needs money to buy food, then yes, we can help him because it's about humanity.

And that is the tricky part, if someone is asking for money, let's just say he is asking for it to buy some food, but the truth is he will not use it to buy some food, instead he is going to use it to play gambling, that is why for me when I'm helping someone, I'm not giving money, I'm asking them what they need and I buy it to give it to them, mostly it is food and clothing, I am not going to give money or anything materials that won't help them to be honest.

We don't know if his reason to ask for money for gambling, but he says that with the money, he will buy some food. I think we don't know what he will do after we give that money. But maybe we can ask them first, and if they say that money will be used to buy food, we can ask him to buy that food, and we can pay for that food. That will prevent him from using that money for playing gambling, and I think that is the right solution for us to know what is his real reason to ask that money.

That would be a good idea but I think that an addicted gambler would do anything just like an addicted alcoholic.I know this at first hand,one time when I was coming out of church a person told me and many other people he just needed money to feed his families and I together with some others gave him each 5 Euros.We saw him soon after running at a bar and we learn next morning that he was drunk.I don’t trust strangers anymore from that day and never give them money even if they are telling the truth.

[rodskee]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

sure i will help him,if he can promise that he will not use the amount for another risk in gambling,and also if he can afford to stop gambling to start again for new life.

[Sahyadri]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I am confused if you mean to ask for financial help or some other kind of help. If it is financial help , then I am adamant of not trusting my money with someone else gambling skills. I dont think so I would ever help someome financially and support his gambling addiction . Coming to other types of help, I am open to help be it strategizing or anything about the gambling game itself.

[Debonaire217]

Here's the proper mindset, if we are to give money back to someone who lost that money, we'll just pushing him to let that money be lost again, for sure it will not help him so we should consider other ways such as providing betting advice and to help him earn and control his money to not be bet all in all in gambling.

[SummerBliss]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I have helped few of my close friends to cover their losses in gambling, some gave back the money and some did not but leaving all that aside : I feel I would be hesitant enough to help a stranger financially specially when it comes to supporting his gambling habit. Maybe if that person promises to get out of gambling after he gets the money, I might help him financially too just to get good karma. Never faced such a situation , so cant really say it with guarantee.

[Kasabus]

Here's the proper mindset, if we are to give money back to someone who lost that money, we'll just pushing him to let that money be lost again, for sure it will not help him so we should consider other ways such as providing betting advice and to help him earn and control his money to not be bet all in all in gambling.

It's okay if he will stop gambling after we give him money but most gamblers does not think and do like that, if they have some money, they will still gamble again thinking they can win back all their loses, it's kind of an unrealistic mindset that will only push their to a more disastrous life ahead.

if we are a true friend or if we really care, we won't tolerate, let them learn from their mistake.

[Latviand]

I will help him/her in the right way instead of borrowing money again and let that person play again until that money you've lend will be lost, then I will choose to talk to that person and give a lecture. Maybe he/she will be angry at me, and if it does, then it is the sign that the person is fully addicted because he/she doesn't want to stop after losing a huge amount of money. And by lecturing, I will also advise that person, guide, and help to overcome the addiction and made him realize how addiction in gambling could severely affect its own life and maybe the people that important around that person.

[Savemore]

Here's the proper mindset, if we are to give money back to someone who lost that money, we'll just pushing him to let that money be lost again, for sure it will not help him so we should consider other ways such as providing betting advice and to help him earn and control his money to not be bet all in all in gambling.

It's okay if he will stop gambling after we give him money but most gamblers does not think and do like that, if they have some money, they will still gamble again thinking they can win back all their loses, it's kind of an unrealistic mindset that will only push their to a more disastrous life ahead.

if we are a true friend or if we really care, we won't tolerate, let them learn from their mistake.

That is right, they will only stop playing gambling until they get satisfied. They keep playing even though they keep experiencing losses, if they seek help where they will borrow money from me; I will ignore him immediately because I do not have guarantee that he will return the money that he will borrow to me. I will help a gambling addict to overcome his current problem but not financial problem, I can ehlp him to become a normal person who will stop gambling his money.

[michellee]

Here's the proper mindset, if we are to give money back to someone who lost that money, we'll just pushing him to let that money be lost again, for sure it will not help him so we should consider other ways such as providing betting advice and to help him earn and control his money to not be bet all in all in gambling.

It's okay if he will stop gambling after we give him money but most gamblers does not think and do like that, if they have some money, they will still gamble again thinking they can win back all their loses, it's kind of an unrealistic mindset that will only push their to a more disastrous life ahead.

if we are a true friend or if we really care, we won't tolerate, let them learn from their mistake.

That is right, they will only stop playing gambling until they get satisfied. They keep playing even though they keep experiencing losses, if they seek help where they will borrow money from me; I will ignore him immediately because I do not have guarantee that he will return the money that he will borrow to me. I will help a gambling addict to overcome his current problem but not financial problem, I can ehlp him to become a normal person who will stop gambling his money.

Even if he loses the money, he will search the other people so he can borrow the money again. He will do that over and over because he is addicted to gambling. That is sad because that person cannot hold or control himself in gambling, and that will only make him search for money for playing gambling. We cannot help him by giving the money because he will use that money to play gambling if we don't know.

[Faxmate]

Here's the proper mindset, if we are to give money back to someone who lost that money, we'll just pushing him to let that money be lost again, for sure it will not help him so we should consider other ways such as providing betting advice and to help him earn and control his money to not be bet all in all in gambling.

It's okay if he will stop gambling after we give him money but most gamblers does not think and do like that, if they have some money, they will still gamble again thinking they can win back all their loses, it's kind of an unrealistic mindset that will only push their to a more disastrous life ahead.

if we are a true friend or if we really care, we won't tolerate, let them learn from their mistake.

That is right, they will only stop playing gambling until they get satisfied. They keep playing even though they keep experiencing losses, if they seek help where they will borrow money from me; I will ignore him immediately because I do not have guarantee that he will return the money that he will borrow to me. I will help a gambling addict to overcome his current problem but not financial problem, I can ehlp him to become a normal person who will stop gambling his money.

Even if he loses the money, he will search the other people so he can borrow the money again. He will do that over and over because he is addicted to gambling. That is sad because that person cannot hold or control himself in gambling, and that will only make him search for money for playing gambling. We cannot help him by giving the money because he will use that money to play gambling if we don't know.

Yeah this is not good to get addicted in gambling infect we should try to avoid such habit but you can keep playing untill you think and see that you are winning but when you realize that you are loosing your money in gambling you should stop gambling so a gambler must have self control and don’t be emotional, don’t give money to addicted gambler.

[radjie]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

if the help you need wants to leave gambling and try to live a better life maybe I will give direction to be able to change your life so that you don't feel curious because you want to make up for the losses you experienced in gambling. but if the help you need is loan capital to be able to roll back, i won't give you the capital you need at all

[Capt00]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

if the help you need wants to leave gambling and try to live a better life maybe I will give direction to be able to change your life so that you don't feel curious because you want to make up for the losses you experienced in gambling. but if the help you need is loan capital to be able to roll back, i won't give you the capital you need at all

In terms of funds and to use again in gambling in order to recover his losses? It gonna be different and I don't give such a thing. Gambling doesn't give assurance and how this person could give you back if he loses again.

And I agree with you, make help that could only change his life direction, not the way that it add more to his miserable life. It ends up nothing and may your help will just be wasted.

[michellee]

Even if he loses the money, he will search the other people so he can borrow the money again. He will do that over and over because he is addicted to gambling. That is sad because that person cannot hold or control himself in gambling, and that will only make him search for money for playing gambling. We cannot help him by giving the money because he will use that money to play gambling if we don't know.

Yeah this is not good to get addicted in gambling infect we should try to avoid such habit but you can keep playing untill you think and see that you are winning but when you realize that you are loosing your money in gambling you should stop gambling so a gambler must have self control and don’t be emotional, don’t give money to addicted gambler.

If he still playing gambling for the long term, I don't think that he will have a chance to win. He needs to realize that he should not risk his money to playing gambling, and when he got addicted, that will the time for him to feel hard to stop and leave the gambling itself. We hope that a person doesn't borrow the money from other people, and he needs to realize to solve his problem with someone who can help him.

[imstillthebest]

Even if he loses the money, he will search the other people so he can borrow the money again. He will do that over and over because he is addicted to gambling. That is sad because that person cannot hold or control himself in gambling, and that will only make him search for money for playing gambling. We cannot help him by giving the money because he will use that money to play gambling if we don't know.

Yeah this is not good to get addicted in gambling infect we should try to avoid such habit but you can keep playing untill you think and see that you are winning but when you realize that you are loosing your money in gambling you should stop gambling so a gambler must have self control and don’t be emotional, don’t give money to addicted gambler.

If he still playing gambling for the long term, I don't think that he will have a chance to win. He needs to realize that he should not risk his money to playing gambling, and when he got addicted, that will the time for him to feel hard to stop and leave the gambling itself. We hope that a person doesn't borrow the money from other people, and he needs to realize to solve his problem with someone who can help him.

playing long term does not mean that you play every day or playing more often  . you still need to rest and have some breaks because in gambling you cant win contiously/nonstop  . there are days that you are bad luck while there are also times that you can feel that you can always hit your traget  . lets hope so that gamblers can realize those things you guys mention above so that they cant lead to borrowing money or to not get become adicted in the future  .

[peter0425]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

if the help you need wants to leave gambling and try to live a better life maybe I will give direction to be able to change your life so that you don't feel curious because you want to make up for the losses you experienced in gambling. but if the help you need is loan capital to be able to roll back, i won't give you the capital you need at all

are you a former gambling addict?because before we can be functional to become a adviser we must be experienced and will tell exactly our own ways in the past because if you will just give a random advice?better not since this will only waste of time or will lead to much bigger addiction.and also if this is about capital or Money?then yeah  no one will be fooled to tolerate his stupidity

[owengtam09]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

What kind of help does he want from here? Financial or some advice? Well, he cannot get money from here, it he is lost then he must manage what he has done from playing gambling, we don't need to take responsibility for his loss. Maybe a piece of advice could help him better than giving him some money but after all, lose it again with gambling.

Losing everything because of gambling is hard and to someone who is suffering from this I think he don't need money but instead a friend who can advice him to change or realize his mistakes for spending too much in gambling. If you lend him money he might gamble again and repeat the same mistakes because of his past losses that he wants to chase back.

That's true, that is why it is not better to give him or donate money because once he got some, he will do it the same thing after. He will realize that it is okay to lose his money because there are some people here who is giving away their money from people they didn't know.

[Golftech]

Here's the proper mindset, if we are to give money back to someone who lost that money, we'll just pushing him to let that money be lost again, for sure it will not help him so we should consider other ways such as providing betting advice and to help him earn and control his money to not be bet all in all in gambling.

It's okay if he will stop gambling after we give him money but most gamblers does not think and do like that, if they have some money, they will still gamble again thinking they can win back all their loses, it's kind of an unrealistic mindset that will only push their to a more disastrous life ahead.

if we are a true friend or if we really care, we won't tolerate, let them learn from their mistake.

Good friend always at side and not at the back, if your friend really got into this addictions best not to lend him / her a money but instead walk to him and guide him to the right path, encouraging your friend to find other ways of activities and accompany them at the very beginning will makes them more aware that it's not all about gambling but there's life away from this activities and they will start to renew their lifestyle.

[doomistake]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

if the help you need wants to leave gambling and try to live a better life maybe I will give direction to be able to change your life so that you don't feel curious because you want to make up for the losses you experienced in gambling. but if the help you need is loan capital to be able to roll back, i won't give you the capital you need at all

In terms of funds and to use again in gambling in order to recover his losses? It gonna be different and I don't give such a thing. Gambling doesn't give assurance and how this person could give you back if he loses again.

And I agree with you, make help that could only change his life direction, not the way that it add more to his miserable life. It ends up nothing and may your help will just be wasted.

Correct.

Because if the help he was asking is to give him some capital to get back his losses, it is not a help at all, well it is but on a very bad way. What you guys said was all true about the recommended help that we should do. Let me give an example about it, if you see a beggar on street asking for money but you gave food instead and he didn't accept it, for sure he has some addiction to feed therefore he only wants money, but if it is the other way around, then you've go the real beggar that really needs helps and attention.

The point is, we should first ask the reason why they need it, for us to know if it is worth it to give.

[MWesterweele]

That's true, that is why it is not better to give him or donate money because once he got some, he will do it the same thing after. He will realize that it is okay to lose his money because there are some people here who is giving away their money from people they didn't know.

Indeed! He will only do what he has done, and he will only be desperate to win all of it just because he has a money again to gamble. Better to help him in his decision do some advices, make him rest for awhile so that it will help him to clear his mind , it will only make him an addict if he will continue to get what he already lost. He need to get a lesson on it .

[MyIdeas]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

There is a person in our area who is a full time gambler and spend much of his money on gambling and he always ask help from different people for getting money. We all know that about 90% of money which he collect in help spend in gambling and the remaining on his family. We know that it is not good to give him money so he often ask from people who do not know about him.

[Landak]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?

loses gambling and he asks for our help (need money) to continue the losing bets and he hopes his money will come back (if he wins)? It seems I will think again in giving him help (money), but if it's just a suggestion I would be happy to give it.

Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Yes, I've felt that and I've been in a position like that asking for help to my friend with the reason to recover a losing bet. In the end my friend never gave me help because of reasons for gambling.
so whatever happens when betting in gambling we must accept all the risks including a major loss that can not be recovered.

[Wawa2013]

Incidentally, I have never experienced someone asking for my help on the grounds of borrowing money for losing in gambling. This seems impossible, but maybe someone has experienced this. But if it happens to me, I will not lend money to someone who loses in gambling. Because my finances are also very minimal.

[MyIdeas]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?

loses gambling and he asks for our help (need money) to continue the losing bets and he hopes his money will come back (if he wins)? It seems I will think again in giving him help (money), but if it's just a suggestion I would be happy to give it.

Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Yes, I've felt that and I've been in a position like that asking for help to my friend with the reason to recover a losing bet. In the end my friend never gave me help because of reasons for gambling.
so whatever happens when betting in gambling we must accept all the risks including a major loss that can not be recovered.

I think you agree to give money to gamblers for continuing their gambling after losing their money because you yourself a gambler and have faced that condition in the past and you have the hope that a person can earn money in gambling but it is not an sure to anyone that anyone can recover his lost money that is why many people do not give any loan to a person who want to gamble with it to recover his loses.

[zhekinsp]

It all depends on the intention of borrowing money,if its for food then giving ir right choice but for recovering all the loss he made earlier then try to stay away from that user because he will never realze that he will lose more and more money if he plays gambling games to make money.

[MWesterweele]

Yes, I've felt that and I've been in a position like that asking for help to my friend with the reason to recover a losing bet. In the end my friend never gave me help because of reasons for gambling.
so whatever happens when betting in gambling we must accept all the risks including a major loss that can not be recovered.

Yes this is what I am talking about . We need to accept all the result of our game, whether we win or whether we lost a lot. Gamblers will find a way to have a money again for them to gamble again and that will be the result of being in addiction, they needed a guide and advices not money anymore it will only push them to do gamble and lose too much again.

[hahay]

It all depends on the intention of borrowing money,if its for food then giving ir right choice but for recovering all the loss he made earlier then try to stay away from that user because he will never realze that he will lose more and more money if he plays gambling games to make money.

There are no exceptions to the problem, whatever the reason it will not be accepted because he should have realized what a great risk that will make him suffer. No one will support you to become a beggar, because there are many ways to recover losses and you must be smart to get out of any suffering.

[Sanitough]

It all depends on the intention of borrowing money,if its for food then giving ir right choice but for recovering all the loss he made earlier then try to stay away from that user because he will never realze that he will lose more and more money if he plays gambling games to make money.

There are no exceptions to the problem, whatever the reason it will not be accepted because he should have realized what a great risk that will make him suffer. No one will support you to become a beggar, because there are many ways to recover losses and you must be smart to get out of any suffering.

We are smart and matured here, no one would help someone if helping him would only tolerate his bad activity, he should realize that what he did is wrong so he will make good decision next time, there's no place for beggars in the gambling space because we as gamblers are expected to risk what we can afford only and we can afford to gamble.

[michellee]

If he still playing gambling for the long term, I don't think that he will have a chance to win. He needs to realize that he should not risk his money to playing gambling, and when he got addicted, that will the time for him to feel hard to stop and leave the gambling itself. We hope that a person doesn't borrow the money from other people, and he needs to realize to solve his problem with someone who can help him.

playing long term does not mean that you play every day or playing more often  . you still need to rest and have some breaks because in gambling you cant win contiously/nonstop  . there are days that you are bad luck while there are also times that you can feel that you can always hit your traget  . lets hope so that gamblers can realize those things you guys mention above so that they cant lead to borrowing money or to not get become adicted in the future  .

I mean, sometimes we can spend more than 1 hour, and we play almost every day so that it can make us lose too much money if we don't limit the amount. Stopping for a while can be a solution so we can take a break, and take a rest for a while, so we can think if it's necessary or not if we continue playing gambling.

[shoreno]

It all depends on the intention of borrowing money,if its for food then giving ir right choice but for recovering all the loss he made earlier then try to stay away from that user because he will never realze that he will lose more and more money if he plays gambling games to make money.

There are no exceptions to the problem, whatever the reason it will not be accepted because he should have realized what a great risk that will make him suffer. No one will support you to become a beggar, because there are many ways to recover losses and you must be smart to get out of any suffering.

many ways to recover losses  ? he can work on his own to earn and not borrow someone else money   because that makes him lazy but almost majority of gamblers are dont have a work but they are the ones that have the guts to borrow money while us that have work are the ones that are scared or doubting to borrow money even if we have the ability to pay  .  if a person has a different reason and he is sincere when he say it , i guess its okay to lend him something  .

[MWesterweele]

many ways to recover losses  ? he can work on his own to earn and not borrow someone else money   because that makes him lazy but almost majority of gamblers are dont have a work but they are the ones that have the guts to borrow money while us that have work are the ones that are scared or doubting to borrow money even if we have the ability to pay  .  if a person has a different reason and he is sincere when he say it , i guess its okay to lend him something  .

Yes this is true, he need to work for his own money, as what I have said before , gambler will always find a way to gamble, and when the time you will only lend him some money, it can only make his situation worst, he needed to work hard for him to get money again, and when he do that he starting to realized many things, especially in handling money, his mind can change as well , as time passes by.

[Inkdatar]

many ways to recover losses  ? he can work on his own to earn and not borrow someone else money   because that makes him lazy but almost majority of gamblers are dont have a work but they are the ones that have the guts to borrow money while us that have work are the ones that are scared or doubting to borrow money even if we have the ability to pay  .  if a person has a different reason and he is sincere when he say it , i guess its okay to lend him something  .

Yes this is true, he need to work for his own money, as what I have said before , gambler will always find a way to gamble, and when the time you will only lend him some money, it can only make his situation worst, he needed to work hard for him to get money again, and when he do that he starting to realized many things, especially in handling money, his mind can change as well , as time passes by.

Indeed he should help his self to earn money not by borrowing just to gamble. No one could lend him money for him to gamble, it makes him lazy and thinks that it's easy to have the money. A person should have discipline when to stop to play once suffer losses. No one could help him but himself.

[Landak]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?

loses gambling and he asks for our help (need money) to continue the losing bets and he hopes his money will come back (if he wins)? It seems I will think again in giving him help (money), but if it's just a suggestion I would be happy to give it.

Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Yes, I've felt that and I've been in a position like that asking for help to my friend with the reason to recover a losing bet. In the end my friend never gave me help because of reasons for gambling.
so whatever happens when betting in gambling we must accept all the risks including a major loss that can not be recovered.

I think you agree to give money to gamblers for continuing their gambling after losing their money because you yourself a gambler and have faced that condition in the past and you have the hope that a person can earn money in gambling but it is not an sure to anyone that anyone can recover his lost money that is why many people do not give any loan to a person who want to gamble with it to recover his loses.

I'm not saying I agree, because I've experienced it. so I won't help him if someone has a fate like me. even offering a loan I wouldn't want to do that.
at that time I finally gave up because there was nothing I could do to recover my loss. if now there are people who experience it like that, let it go, let him know it feels in conditions like what I experienced.
once again I say that I do not agree, do not make assumptions that are contrary to me!
my advice is better to focus on following the campaign or looking for work in the real world, if there really is a desire to recover loss.

[inanilujimi]

many ways to recover losses  ? he can work on his own to earn and not borrow someone else money   because that makes him lazy but almost majority of gamblers are dont have a work but they are the ones that have the guts to borrow money while us that have work are the ones that are scared or doubting to borrow money even if we have the ability to pay  .  if a person has a different reason and he is sincere when he say it , i guess its okay to lend him something  .

Yes this is true, he need to work for his own money, as what I have said before , gambler will always find a way to gamble, and when the time you will only lend him some money, it can only make his situation worst, he needed to work hard for him to get money again, and when he do that he starting to realized many things, especially in handling money, his mind can change as well , as time passes by.

Indeed he should help his self to earn money not by borrowing just to gamble. No one could lend him money for him to gamble, it makes him lazy and thinks that it's easy to have the money. A person should have discipline when to stop to play once suffer losses. No one could help him but himself.

I agree with you, if it is not from yourself who wants to change, no matter how other people advise, it won't work.
Addiction can only be stopped when you realize the mistakes that have been made.

[leea-1334]

many ways to recover losses  ? he can work on his own to earn and not borrow someone else money   because that makes him lazy but almost majority of gamblers are dont have a work but they are the ones that have the guts to borrow money while us that have work are the ones that are scared or doubting to borrow money even if we have the ability to pay  .  if a person has a different reason and he is sincere when he say it , i guess its okay to lend him something  .

You borrow money for emergencies. You need to eat, sleep, live, pay for rent,,, then okay fine. But to borrow money to pay for another debt? It will bring you into even more ruin. This is the folly of rent, of debt, of interest.

It is all a bad cycle of psychology and mentality. Live small, and modest. Gamble for fun, and stay away from fantasy.

[semobo]

Don't lend him is the mind set of most of the people here and I agree with that too.No one should ever gamble with lend money or until they go bankrupt of their total saving if they do then no one will ever backup them for doing the same thing because the possible result will be complete loss again.

[peter0425]

It all depends on the intention of borrowing money,if its for food then giving ir right choice but for recovering all the loss he made earlier then try to stay away from that user because he will never realze that he will lose more and more money if he plays gambling games to make money.

There are no exceptions to the problem, whatever the reason it will not be accepted because he should have realized what a great risk that will make him suffer. No one will support you to become a beggar, because there are many ways to recover losses and you must be smart to get out of any suffering.

many ways to recover losses  ? he can work on his own to earn and not borrow someone else money   because that makes him lazy but almost majority of gamblers are dont have a work but they are the ones that have the guts to borrow money while us that have work are the ones that are scared or doubting to borrow money even if we have the ability to pay  .  if a person has a different reason and he is sincere when he say it , i guess its okay to lend him something  .

but it is not easy to find work nowadays mate,there are so many jobless in the world(yeah some of them are lazy and some are too confident)but many of them wanted to have a job but cant really find one.

so those ways to recover?sometimes it depends on luck also,if youa re lucky to find job that fits you or even any job that will feed you and let you pay small amount each time to the people who lend you.

[ethereumhunter]

I agree with you, if it is not from yourself who wants to change, no matter how other people advise, it won't work.
Addiction can only be stopped when you realize the mistakes that have been made.

Right, without realizing the addiction, we will go to deeper to that way, and we will not find how to stop or solve the addiction. We need to stop the addicting no matter what because once we addicted to gambling, there is no way out for us to end the addicting unless you try. So when someone asks you to help him to lend your money, you need to know what for the money, and if that money is used for gambling, then you should say no to him.

[lienfaye]

Don't lend him is the mind set of most of the people here and I agree with that too.No one should ever gamble with lend money or until they go bankrupt of their total saving if they do then no one will ever backup them for doing the same thing because the possible result will be complete loss again.

Indeed, lending money to a gambler who suffered losses is like letting him gamble again to chase back what they lost and worse repeat the same mistakes again. Words of encouragement to stop is enough help to someone who lose their money to gambling thats how they will realize they are wrong for playing without discipline and limitation.

[FlightyPouch]

many ways to recover losses  ? he can work on his own to earn and not borrow someone else money   because that makes him lazy but almost majority of gamblers are dont have a work but they are the ones that have the guts to borrow money while us that have work are the ones that are scared or doubting to borrow money even if we have the ability to pay  .  if a person has a different reason and he is sincere when he say it , i guess its okay to lend him something  .

Yes this is true, he need to work for his own money, as what I have said before , gambler will always find a way to gamble, and when the time you will only lend him some money, it can only make his situation worst, he needed to work hard for him to get money again, and when he do that he starting to realized many things, especially in handling money, his mind can change as well , as time passes by.

Indeed he should help his self to earn money not by borrowing just to gamble. No one could lend him money for him to gamble, it makes him lazy and thinks that it's easy to have the money. A person should have discipline when to stop to play once suffer losses. No one could help him but himself.

I agree with you, if it is not from yourself who wants to change, no matter how other people advise, it won't work.
Addiction can only be stopped when you realize the mistakes that have been made.

It is not that other people's advice won't work, it still depends on you. It is all on you but still you need their help. Addiction is not something that you can deal with yourself, you need help from your family, your friends and loved ones. It is so hard that even if you recover from your addiction, you still do it but not as much as you are addicted to it.

[STT]

he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you

Dont bet big before you know the game and are sure of all the possibilities and outcomes.   Losing big and it wasnt from previous profits means you gambled what you couldnt afford to lose, basic idea of the mistake to learn from.   Money management is key to stay in the game longer term.   Crypto has the giant advantage that it allows little bets to learn with,  when you are good ramp it up 10x 

[Webetcoins]

It all depends on the intention of borrowing money,if its for food then giving ir right choice but for recovering all the loss he made earlier then try to stay away from that user because he will never realze that he will lose more and more money if he plays gambling games to make money.

There are no exceptions to the problem, whatever the reason it will not be accepted because he should have realized what a great risk that will make him suffer. No one will support you to become a beggar, because there are many ways to recover losses and you must be smart to get out of any suffering.

We are smart and matured here, no one would help someone if helping him would only tolerate his bad activity, he should realize that what he did is wrong so he will make good decision next time, there's no place for beggars in the gambling space because we as gamblers are expected to risk what we can afford only and we can afford to gamble.

Gambling is a game of money and it is definitely hard earned commodity. People can do charity but not help a gambler because of the societal connotations related to him. People fear that he is going to use donated money in gambling again ultimately giving to some other person who is not in much need of money. People fear that gambler is not going to use their money properly. In gambling, you cannot rely on others for monetary help.

[Mumbeeptind1963]

he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you

Dont bet big before you know the game and are sure of all the possibilities and outcomes.   Losing big and it wasnt from previous profits means you gambled what you couldnt afford to lose, basic idea of the mistake to learn from.   Money management is key to stay in the game longer term.   Crypto has the giant advantage that it allows little bets to learn with,  when you are good ramp it up 10x  

Even small amount bet when you consecutively and when we sum it all , it will result to a bigger amount of money. He suffered losses because he get addicted, but I will give him money but I will make sure that he will use it for other thing rather than he will be using it to gamble again, I will not tolerating his behavior.

[mitchr4]

Even small amount bet when you consecutively bet ,if we sum it all , it will result to a bigger amount of money. He suffered losses because he get addicted, but I will give him money but I will make sure that he will use it for other thing rather than he will be using it to gamble again, I will not tolerating his behavior.

The type of people addicted to gambling will not turn to their habits when having money. Because every time he has money, in their minds a way to double it. Moreover, the habits of a gambler will not be separated if he needs money. I speak of a gambler who prefers profit or earn money from gambling rather than entertainment.

[joshy23]

Even small amount bet when you consecutively bet ,if we sum it all , it will result to a bigger amount of money. He suffered losses because he get addicted, but I will give him money but I will make sure that he will use it for other thing rather than he will be using it to gamble again, I will not tolerating his behavior.

The type of people addicted to gambling will not turn to their habits when having money. Because every time he has money, in their minds a way to double it. Moreover, the habits of a gambler will not be separated if he needs money. I speak of a gambler who prefers profit or earn money from gambling rather than entertainment.

Judging by experienced, most gamblers will aimed for much quicker ways of earning profits than enjoying the game that they've played. This people are engage with wrong impressions about this habits thinking that luck will always be there to help win and get something huge out from this activities.

[pixie85]

Don't lend him is the mind set of most of the people here and I agree with that too.No one should ever gamble with lend money or until they go bankrupt of their total saving if they do then no one will ever backup them for doing the same thing because the possible result will be complete loss again.

Indeed, lending money to a gambler who suffered losses is like letting him gamble again to chase back what they lost and worse repeat the same mistakes again. Words of encouragement to stop is enough help to someone who lose their money to gambling thats how they will realize they are wrong for playing without discipline and limitation.

It can also be an investment in him. If he gambles and gets lucky you'll earn some money the safe way. If you were gambling with your own money and lost you'd be responsible and could not demand compensation. If he loses your money and you have a written agreement, you'll be able to take him to court or demand him to pay back with his car or house.

I know it's taking advantage of him but this is the only silver lining that I can find.

[romero121]

Gambling is very addictive, and before getting into it one needs to know all the consequences that arise out of gambling. Once after losing big maybe people will give advice but it is impossible to get back the lost funds from the casino or from people. Everyone finds it hard, but when it comes to money, everyone running for the same and won't give it that easy for any reason.

[Capt00]

Gambling is very addictive, and before getting into it one needs to know all the consequences that arise out of gambling. Once after losing big maybe people will give advice but it is impossible to get back the lost funds from the casino or from people. Everyone finds it hard, but when it comes to money, everyone running for the same and won't give it that easy for any reason.

Yes, it can be addictive only if we don't know how to control ourselves and let this addiction beating us.
That is too disappointing how some gamblers having a different approach towards gambling, thinking that this is a good source of income and easy money is not a good idea. It seems too hard to influence gamblers and opened up their minds when they don't want to listen to us. That is why gambling addiction can't be easy to stop once it was already eaten up our mind. It is a sad reality but that it was.

[anastasia.graciaa]

depends on his/her history and depends on what kind of connection we have. but generally i will help him with the amount that i'm not expecting to be paid back.

[Ranly123]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

What help does he want? Financial help or any means is not applicable since we both are gamblers. Of course it is out in our conscience if the guy suffer a big loss and it's his responsibility to protect his financial issues.

[Rengga Jati]

What help do you mean here? Giving some money or suggestion to him? If it is about the suggestion, I will always be ready to help anytime. But once helping a gambler with money, I am not really sure since it won't recover him from addiction, nor their loss. We may relieve his loss at that time but he will make another loss tomorrow. So, I think it is not an effective way or the right way to help him.

[Shimmiry]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

People, especially those who bets, often loses due to being unsatisfied with the earnings driving his ego and willingness to surpass more which all turns onto greed alone. Hence, anyone can give any help, such as Financial (by giving enough money whenever he/she was a friend whom helped me somehow only and only if he/she really needs it not for his vices nor any gambling) and Emotional (of course offering him some beer to light up a bit his feelings of money loss). I haven't encountered such gamblers who need help after losing on gambling. It is their shame to beg for help, but I'm still willing.

[imstillthebest]

What help do you mean here? Giving some money or suggestion to him? If it is about the suggestion, I will always be ready to help anytime. But once helping a gambler with money, I am not really sure since it won't recover him from addiction, nor their loss. We may relieve his loss at that time but he will make another loss tomorrow. So, I think it is not an effective way or the right way to help him.

this is my mistake because i always give support to my friend that loves to gamble . i only knew here on the online gambling site that im playing with and he has a high level account now , also hangs out everyday but i cant tell if he is addicted or not because i cant track all the time if he is betting or not  . we only end up loosing both because he ask for money on me and says he can double it , he does double it before but eventually he cant give out anymore . think he got bad luck

[Tipstar]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

We did as a friend and the gambling friend were always honest with their borrowed money and always returned the moment they had the money. In fact I have nearly no default from gambling friends in real life than others.
But in online gambling almost all are scammer. And it's not even ethical to ask for money online for gambling as it would likely make you a scammer as you have no obligation to return.

[MWesterweele]

People, especially those who bets, often loses due to being unsatisfied with the earnings driving his ego and willingness to surpass more which all turns onto greed alone. Hence, anyone can give any help, such as Financial (by giving enough money whenever he/she was a friend whom helped me somehow only and only if he/she really needs it not for his vices nor any gambling) and Emotional (of course offering him some beer to light up a bit his feelings of money loss). I haven't encountered such gamblers who need help after losing on gambling. It is their shame to beg for help, but I'm still willing.

They needed to be contented with their loses. In order for them to get satisfied and will not become addict. When we met some gambler and become friends with them , we shoule encourage them, do not tolerate them by giving extra money , they will put it in gambling again even though their emotion is not okay and there will be a larger  possibility that they can lose it again.

[HatakeKakashi]

I will do is help him to realize that he did not need to bet a big amount of money in the gambling because of they do that again maybe they get lose again.  But because I don't have money to help them financially but Im here to guide him to control his self in betting so did not happen for the second time.  I did not experienced like that because my friend did not play gambling only me but if someone that they needs help about guiding in gambling Im here but Im not helping for the money because we need all money too.  But if a player who lost big amoutn of money  have a friend that can help him financially maybe he wants to help to recover your losses but only few not all the lost amount he is lucky .

[Kevondo]

depends on his/her history and depends on what kind of connection we have. but generally i will help him with the amount that i'm not expecting to be paid back.

There are so many factors that have to be considered before people start helping someone in the world of gambling. Definitely if you know the individual personally and know he or she is really in trouble, you will try to go even out of way for helping them because it is a social service as well. But if someone is not willing to change and is simply trying to gather money for more gambling, no one would help him.

[MyIdeas]

depends on his/her history and depends on what kind of connection we have. but generally i will help him with the amount that i'm not expecting to be paid back.

There are so many factors that have to be considered before people start helping someone in the world of gambling. Definitely if you know the individual personally and know he or she is really in trouble, you will try to go even out of way for helping them because it is a social service as well. But if someone is not willing to change and is simply trying to gather money for more gambling, no one would help him.

Today another option came to my mind that if the person will want help and he is saying that he need this help because of his family and want to feed them and in this case you have doubt on him then you can can buy goods and food for his family and can send them to his home to his family. That will definitely help that person in real means and you will not worry that you helped someone in losing his money in gambling.

[nakamura12]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

make it more clear , like he is asking for money as a help or asking for help to stop gambling ?
when it comes to money I won't lend a gambler who lost all his bankroll  , if he was cautious enough he wouldn't lose his own money at first place which means most likely he will bust your money too 

if he asking for help to quit then that should involve professional therapy not just some chats with friends , chatting with friends can help sometimes but it's much better to seek professional help

I have additional answers. If he ask for help on how to decrease the chances of losing then I am willing and gladly help him what to do but if it's money then refer to quote above. I have recently came across a thread that someone stated that the best tip or solution to avoid losing money or in gambling is to "not gamble at all".

[FlightyPouch]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

What help does he want? Financial help or any means is not applicable since we both are gamblers. Of course it is out in our conscience if the guy suffer a big loss and it's his responsibility to protect his financial issues.

This is common in the gambling society. To be honest, there are a lot of Chinese who take advantages of these kinds of people, they lend them money and will be having interest when they will be paying. Also, if you go online with chats, you would always see people tipping other gamblers, it would count as help too.

[maydna]

depends on his/her history and depends on what kind of connection we have. but generally i will help him with the amount that i'm not expecting to be paid back.

There are so many factors that have to be considered before people start helping someone in the world of gambling. Definitely if you know the individual personally and know he or she is really in trouble, you will try to go even out of way for helping them because it is a social service as well. But if someone is not willing to change and is simply trying to gather money for more gambling, no one would help him.

Today another option came to my mind that if the person will want help and he is saying that he need this help because of his family and want to feed them and in this case you have doubt on him then you can can buy goods and food for his family and can send them to his home to his family. That will definitely help that person in real means and you will not worry that you helped someone in losing his money in gambling.

That will be great. At least, we can prevent him from playing gambling with that money, and if he really wants to feed his family, he will not refuse that help, and he will see that we really want to help his family. I think that is the best thing that we can do to help him, and we don't have to worry if the money will be used for playing gambling. We can suggest him to stay away from playing gambling using the money for buying daily needs, so he doesn't have to borrow money for his family, and perhaps, we can help him if he has difficulty to leave gambling.

[finaleshot2016]

Even he's my friend, I'll not give any single cents to him/her. It's his fault and should face the consequences of being aggressive in gambling. I don't have a problem with gambling but I have problems with those people who keep wasting their funds. They don't have discipline and control then it's not my problem and it'll serve as a lesson for them.

The first loss should be the first and the last mistake, slap him into the reality that gambling isn't really for profit-making. The only people should waste their money on gambling are those luxurious people who think gambling is for entertainment only.

[anastasia.graciaa]

Even he's my friend, I'll not give any single cents to him/her. It's his fault and should face the consequences of being aggressive in gambling. I don't have a problem with gambling but I have problems with those people who keep wasting their funds. They don't have discipline and control then it's not my problem and it'll serve as a lesson for them.

The first loss should be the first and the last mistake, slap him into the reality that gambling isn't really for profit-making. The only people should waste their money on gambling are those luxurious people who think gambling is for entertainment only.

I understand this. But it won't really hurt you to help once and tell that person to change or try to be a better person. At least you warned and reminded him so he knows there won't be a second chance of help from you.

[doomistake]

What help do you mean here? Giving some money or suggestion to him? If it is about the suggestion, I will always be ready to help anytime. But once helping a gambler with money, I am not really sure since it won't recover him from addiction, nor their loss. We may relieve his loss at that time but he will make another loss tomorrow. So, I think it is not an effective way or the right way to help him.

this is my mistake because i always give support to my friend that loves to gamble . i only knew here on the online gambling site that im playing with and he has a high level account now , also hangs out everyday but i cant tell if he is addicted or not because i cant track all the time if he is betting or not  . we only end up loosing both because he ask for money on me and says he can double it , he does double it before but eventually he cant give out anymore . think he got bad luck

Based on what you have said, I guess you are not really his friend, because you only support him when he was making fortune in gambling, then time comes when he can't make money out of gambling anymore and you lose your confident in him and you don't cheer or support him anymore when he needs you the most. And when you said he has a high level account, that is a solid proof that your friend is really addicted to gambling, and yes, you help him reach that high and left him when he doesn't have anything at all.

[joeperry]

Frankly speaking, no one would ever help you here because you suffered a big loss. We don't give damn helping you here because you just lost a big amount of gambling, in the first place its your responsibility to accept the consequences of your action, second thing simply that we just don't care about you and your gambling we're not a saint to give someone a refill for their loss.

How do you deal with loss? We have different gambling experiences and the person itself who would discover how he/she would deal with this kind of loss. If he/she can't deal with his/her loss it's time to seek a professional.

[Kasabus]

How do you deal with loss? We have different gambling experiences and the person itself who would discover how he/she would deal with this kind of loss. If he/she can't deal with his/her loss it's time to seek a professional.

That's the reality that others still failed to accept, gambling is risky so we need to accept if we lose.
Problem with some gamblers is that they are too aggressive and not realistic, they tend to think that they can make easy money so they lose easily.

When a gambler loses control that's the start of his disaster as most likely he will just lose more when he is losing and will not end up winning if can't stop gambling even when already profited.

[Lanatsa]

How do you deal with loss? We have different gambling experiences and the person itself who would discover how he/she would deal with this kind of loss. If he/she can't deal with his/her loss it's time to seek a professional.

That's the reality that others still failed to accept, gambling is risky so we need to accept if we lose.
Problem with some gamblers is that they are too aggressive and not realistic, they tend to think that they can make easy money so they lose easily.

When a gambler loses control that's the start of his disaster as most likely he will just lose more when he is losing and will not end up winning if can't stop gambling even when already profited.

Being impulsive is somewhat common to newbies or even to older gamblers out there.Where you do make foolish decisions
and isolating or controlling it would really be hard.

Outcomes or your fate would always depend on your hands.If you do let that addiction control you then there would be deeper consequence ahead.
If you are aware on your actions then you can possibly avoid this one.

[Zicadis]

Frankly speaking, no one would ever help you here because you suffered a big loss. We don't give damn helping you here because you just lost a big amount of gambling, in the first place its your responsibility to accept the consequences of your action, second thing simply that we just don't care about you and your gambling we're not a saint to give someone a refill for their loss.

How do you deal with loss? We have different gambling experiences and the person itself who would discover how he/she would deal with this kind of loss. If he/she can't deal with his/her loss it's time to seek a professional.

If you don't have friends that can recognize when you're in a bad situation, and care about you enough to intervene when things get bad, then you've gone severely wrong in life.

Not everybody is able to control themselves. Sometimes external intervention is needed.

Sure, that's what the role of the therapist is, but not everybody has the willpower to even go and see a therapist, nor the money to do so (see thread for reasons).

I think we should all have that strong support system in place, so we have a safety net to catch us when we fall.

[samcrypto]

Frankly speaking, no one would ever help you here because you suffered a big loss. We don't give damn helping you here because you just lost a big amount of gambling, in the first place its your responsibility to accept the consequences of your action, second thing simply that we just don't care about you and your gambling we're not a saint to give someone a refill for their loss.

How do you deal with loss? We have different gambling experiences and the person itself who would discover how he/she would deal with this kind of loss. If he/she can't deal with his/her loss it's time to seek a professional.

If you don't have friends that can recognize when you're in a bad situation, and care about you enough to intervene when things get bad, then you've gone severely wrong in life.

Not everybody is able to control themselves. Sometimes external intervention is needed.

Sure, that's what the role of the therapist is, but not everybody has the willpower to even go and see a therapist, nor the money to do so (see thread for reasons).

I think we should all have that strong support system in place, so we have a safety net to catch us when we fall.

Some of our friends are willing to help but not to the extent that he will suffer as well just because we made a mistake in life and in gambling. If you lose money in gambling and you’re surrounded with unfamiliar faces then you should not expect someone to help you especially if its all about money. Proper budgeting and making plan before you play can save you from being broke like this, its not too late to change your style of playing.

[FlightyPouch]

Even he's my friend, I'll not give any single cents to him/her. It's his fault and should face the consequences of being aggressive in gambling. I don't have a problem with gambling but I have problems with those people who keep wasting their funds. They don't have discipline and control then it's not my problem and it'll serve as a lesson for them.

The first loss should be the first and the last mistake, slap him into the reality that gambling isn't really for profit-making. The only people should waste their money on gambling are those luxurious people who think gambling is for entertainment only.

I understand this. But it won't really hurt you to help once and tell that person to change or try to be a better person. At least you warned and reminded him so he knows there won't be a second chance of help from you.

Help once? Do you even understand how hard it is to be addicted in something? Reminding him once won't help at all, it will just keep on coming back if you will just do it once. That kind of help is not needed, better ignore him if you will just do that half-hearted help of yours. If you will not be there for him, your totally useless in helping him.

[Visbay]

How do you deal with loss? We have different gambling experiences and the person itself who would discover how he/she would deal with this kind of loss. If he/she can't deal with his/her loss it's time to seek a professional.

That's the reality that others still failed to accept, gambling is risky so we need to accept if we lose.
Problem with some gamblers is that they are too aggressive and not realistic, they tend to think that they can make easy money so they lose easily.

When a gambler loses control that's the start of his disaster as most likely he will just lose more when he is losing and will not end up winning if can't stop gambling even when already profited.

When you start gambling you will have to face win and lose and be ready to be calm in case I fortunate as you don’t know what's there in your luck. Gambling is the best source of entertainment for people so sometimes they lose patience and gamble limitless while it’s not a good thing. When you gamble make sure you have full control over your emotions and especially on your Greed to earn more and more.

[Ditchs]

I can only offer is advice. I will help him through realization. He should just accept and move on cause he can never bring back what already lost. If he wants to bet again, I want him to take note next time that gamble only what he can afford to lose. I think such a big loss is enough to teach him a lesson. If he doesn't want to suffer again, then don't commit the same mistake, he'll just look like a fool if he do so.

Good point. If this person had developed a severe gambling addiction then any kind of monetary help would only enable the person and in no way help. As stated above the only help I could give would be to help the person realize there is a problem, take accountability, and figure out what steps need to be taken to overcome this overwhelming addiction. Without admitting to one's self that there is a problem don't expect any change only denials and dishonesty to self and others

[vintages]

What help do you mean here? Giving some money or suggestion to him? If it is about the suggestion, I will always be ready to help anytime. But once helping a gambler with money, I am not really sure since it won't recover him from addiction, nor their loss. We may relieve his loss at that time but he will make another loss tomorrow. So, I think it is not an effective way or the right way to help him.

There is more sense in the point you made. An addicted gambler will always be one till they fully make up their mind to stop. Coupled will self will an dedication.
If one help them with money, there is higher chances they will go back especially when he got it easily. He or she will believe they will beg and the money will come. Later help them in solving their problem than giving them cash.

[MyIdeas]

Even he's my friend, I'll not give any single cents to him/her. It's his fault and should face the consequences of being aggressive in gambling. I don't have a problem with gambling but I have problems with those people who keep wasting their funds. They don't have discipline and control then it's not my problem and it'll serve as a lesson for them.

The first loss should be the first and the last mistake, slap him into the reality that gambling isn't really for profit-making. The only people should waste their money on gambling are those luxurious people who think gambling is for entertainment only.

I understand this. But it won't really hurt you to help once and tell that person to change or try to be a better person. At least you warned and reminded him so he knows there won't be a second chance of help from you.

Help once? Do you even understand how hard it is to be addicted in something? Reminding him once won't help at all, it will just keep on coming back if you will just do it once. That kind of help is not needed, better ignore him if you will just do that half-hearted help of yours. If you will not be there for him, your totally useless in helping him.

And it is also expected that the helper will say that he helped only for once and again he will not help but that will be the habit of the gambler that he will ask help from different person each time and will lose all of the money in gambling which he will ask from people in help. So it is better to motivate him to do any job or any other work to earn money which may also help him to stay away from gambling.

[hahay]

What help do you mean here? Giving some money or suggestion to him? If it is about the suggestion, I will always be ready to help anytime. But once helping a gambler with money, I am not really sure since it won't recover him from addiction, nor their loss. We may relieve his loss at that time but he will make another loss tomorrow. So, I think it is not an effective way or the right way to help him.

There is more sense in the point you made. An addicted gambler will always be one till they fully make up their mind to stop. Coupled will self will an dedication.
If one help them with money, there is higher chances they will go back especially when he got it easily. He or she will believe they will beg and the money will come. Later help them in solving their problem than giving them cash.

Yes, no one will give them money for reasons about this case, once they are given money then they will do it again and again, it would be better to help him get out of gambling addiction by getting him to work or anything that basically there are still many solutions another better and more effective way to help her get out of this suffering.

[MWesterweele]

Yes, no one will give them money for reasons about this case, once they are given money then they will do it again and again, it would be better to help him get out of gambling addiction by getting him to work or anything that basically there are still many solutions another better and more effective way to help her get out of this suffering.

There will be his willing friend that will support him, but this is not the right thing to do, his friend needed to give him advice not many, he only just tolerating his friend if he did that and it  only make his friend mo are addict and can worsten his life. They need to give him jobs that are not related to gambling for him to start again.

[Polar91]

The only possible entity that could provide them with a cash back is if we are an owner of a betting platform or casino in which, we could incorporate faucet systems just like what the usual betying platform does. But if personally, I would not rather help him because once a loss takes a lesson to be learned and if we allow him to play once more through our funds, he might be incline to do the same thing over and over again.

[BartS]

What help do you mean here? Giving some money or suggestion to him? If it is about the suggestion, I will always be ready to help anytime. But once helping a gambler with money, I am not really sure since it won't recover him from addiction, nor their loss. We may relieve his loss at that time but he will make another loss tomorrow. So, I think it is not an effective way or the right way to help him.

There is more sense in the point you made. An addicted gambler will always be one till they fully make up their mind to stop. Coupled will self will an dedication.
If one help them with money, there is higher chances they will go back especially when he got it easily. He or she will believe they will beg and the money will come. Later help them in solving their problem than giving them cash.

Yes, no one will give them money for reasons about this case, once they are given money then they will do it again and again, it would be better to help him get out of gambling addiction by getting him to work or anything that basically there are still many solutions another better and more effective way to help her get out of this suffering.

This is very common with most of those that are addicted to something, they will deny it but as soon as they get in trouble they are going to ask for help and if you do not give it to them then they are going to blame you for their problems even if they are the ones that are completely responsible for them.

And if you try to give them an advice about how to leave their gambling problem they will never accept it thinking you want to take control of their life even if you just want to help them.

[coinfinger]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Helping a gambler usually ending up in big vain as gamblers never quit after losses and any new income stream will boost them to get back into gambling with their own reasoning of "recovering" previous losses but they will simply continue their losing streak. I am not against helping out anyone but our money should not be wasted in gambling but it should be used for building their life at least to the level a common man do have like setting up a small business for life.

I strongly believe social life and gambling life are two different entities and when we try to mingle them that may not produce expected results as gamblers never change their mindset so quickly which always ruining the basic essence of social gathering.

[shoreno]

Helping a gambler usually ending up in big vain as gamblers never quit after losses and any new income stream will boost them to get back into gambling with their own reasoning of "recovering" previous losses but they will simply continue their losing streak.

helping a gambler does not always mean that we are helping or encourage them to play again  . we can help them because they have other financial problems aside from gambling   . gamblers are called gambler because they are known for playing that game but they also have a life outside   . this example also refers to me   . i love playing gambling everyday and once im loss , i know where to stop because i was thinking about my family  . sometimes i ask for loans but not to play or to recover my loss  .

[The Cryptovator]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

I have real life experience about it. A friend of mine was addicted on the gambling, often he had borrowed money from some other friends after lost on gambling. But he never returned that money without arguments. So all of my friends were aware about his behaviour. Once a time everyone stop giving money to him. He had tried to borrow from me as well but I deny always due to his behaviour. I told him just leave gambling addition and start a job, I will arrange a job for you. I asked him, you may play occasionally like on some happy events. So I manage a job for him and start work, although he left that job after few days and found another good job but he is out of gambling addiction now.

So helping them with money won't help for come out for gambling and they would more addicted instead. If you have oppurtunity to help them then give a chance for job or business, so they could out from gambling.

[Little Mouse]

If someone bet and he suffers a big loss and then goes here to ask a little help from you, are you willing to give him help?
Have you ever experienced something like that, how do you deal with this loss?

Begging for BTC or any other crypto or even fiat isn't allowed by the rules of the forum. I think asking for monetary help is also counted as begging. I will not help any gambler because they should know what they are doing and what can cause if they gamble.
I am not a big gambler, I always stay on my limit. I gamble small money and this make no difference for me if I lose all.

[sheenshane]

I have seen here before someone asking help because of massive losses and he wants to overcome those losses. As I remember that is a newbie account but no one will believe and all those replies saying that dont beg money in the forum and probably he is lying just want to earn a simple way of making money.

Those replies above were right, giving money is not the right solution. Once gambling addicts have money it will return to gambling again and again until the entire money will be lost. Good advice is necessary that temporarily leave gambling and find a decent job if they want to sustain their gambling habit.

[ethereumhunter]

The only possible entity that could provide them with a cash back is if we are an owner of a betting platform or casino in which, we could incorporate faucet systems just like what the usual betying platform does. But if personally, I would not rather help him because once a loss takes a lesson to be learned and if we allow him to play once more through our funds, he might be incline to do the same thing over and over again.

Not all gamblers can learn from their losses, and if one gambler can do that, then he might get lucky for his life. We don't want to help that person if the money is not for helping his life, and he only searches for pleasure. Once he can get the money from other peoples and somehow, he loses again, he will try to search from the other people and continue to play gambling. Maybe we can give a lesson to him so he can know that what he did is wrong.

[mirakal]

Those replies above were right, giving money is not the right solution. Once gambling addicts have money it will return to gambling again and again until the entire money will be lost.

Exactly, no gambler would learn if we keep feeding him when he need money, and if we tolerate is wrong doings.
Gambling addiction will only go severe if they have the chance to gamble more and more, letting them learn the hard way is the key.

Good advice is necessary that temporarily leave gambling and find a decent job if they want to sustain their gambling habit.

its' still not good to find a job to sustain gambling,. the right purpose is to find a job to earn and not to spend it on gambling.

[radjie]

The only possible entity that could provide them with a cash back is if we are an owner of a betting platform or casino in which, we could incorporate faucet systems just like what the usual betying platform does. But if personally, I would not rather help him because once a loss takes a lesson to be learned and if we allow him to play once more through our funds, he might be incline to do the same thing over and over again.

Not all gamblers can learn from their losses, and if one gambler can do that, then he might get lucky for his life. We don't want to help that person if the money is not for helping his life, and he only searches for pleasure. Once he can get the money from other peoples and somehow, he loses again, he will try to search from the other people and continue to play gambling. Maybe we can give a lesson to him so he can know that what he did is wrong.

Of course, not all gamblers are able to learn from the mistakes they have made. if he manages to get money from other people to make up for his loss it is likely that he will gamble without emotional control and have a heavier burden because he is very ambitious to win the game, such conditions are certainly not appropriate for returning to play
most likely he will continue to suffer losses and will continue to try to borrow back capital to others

[MyIdeas]

The only possible entity that could provide them with a cash back is if we are an owner of a betting platform or casino in which, we could incorporate faucet systems just like what the usual betying platform does. But if personally, I would not rather help him because once a loss takes a lesson to be learned and if we allow him to play once more through our funds, he might be incline to do the same thing over and over again.

Not all gamblers can learn from their losses, and if one gambler can do that, then he might get lucky for his life. We don't want to help that person if the money is not for helping his life, and he only searches for pleasure. Once he can get the money from other peoples and somehow, he loses again, he will try to search from the other people and continue to play gambling. Maybe we can give a lesson to him so he can know that what he did is wrong.

Of course, not all gamblers are able to learn from the mistakes they have made. if he manages to get money from other people to make up for his loss it is likely that he will gamble without emotional control and have a heavier burden because he is very ambitious to win the game, such conditions are certainly not appropriate for returning to play
most likely he will continue to suffer losses and will continue to try to borrow back capital to others

Those gamblers who manage to get money from other people for gambling they also enter in a condition where they do not worry that if they lose the money or not and continue to get more money from other people. This make the gambler a careless person because in this condition the person do not worry the same as a easy earner do not worry while compare to those who earn with hard struggle. These people create some bad situations in the area and also quarrel with the people to whom they have to repay the loan.

[joshy23]

The only possible entity that could provide them with a cash back is if we are an owner of a betting platform or casino in which, we could incorporate faucet systems just like what the usual betying platform does. But if personally, I would not rather help him because once a loss takes a lesson to be learned and if we allow him to play once more through our funds, he might be incline to do the same thing over and over again.

Not all gamblers can learn from their losses, and if one gambler can do that, then he might get lucky for his life. We don't want to help that person if the money is not for helping his life, and he only searches for pleasure. Once he can get the money from other peoples and somehow, he loses again, he will try to search from the other people and continue to play gambling. Maybe we can give a lesson to him so he can know that what he did is wrong.

That will be the possible outcome if you'll going to allow lending a gambler money since instead of using it to much better ways, he will continue
using it to play and try his luck inside gambling house. Once he loses his money then he will find other people and lend again, it will be a repeat
scenario and definitely he will just doing it over and over.

[Debonaire217]

This is the case where crime rates in gambling somehow increase, that is because many people lend money to gamblers that sometimes falls to be lost because instead of winning back their lost, the money they borrow lost as well. So in this concept, I highly believe that helping a person who lost in gambling isn't worthy, but to teach them with concepts of gambling for them to increase their winning rate is more productive. This will create time frame for them to play again soon, and to probably avoid being addicted.

[zhekinsp]

This is the case where crime rates in gambling somehow increase, that is because many people lend money to gamblers that sometimes falls to be lost because instead of winning back their lost, the money they borrow lost as well. So in this concept, I highly believe that helping a person who lost in gambling isn't worthy, but to teach them with concepts of gambling for them to increase their winning rate is more productive. This will create time frame for them to play again soon, and to probably avoid being addicted.

If someone is in debt then advising him to involve into gambling activities is not a good suggestion to be honest.

Insteaad of teaching about winning rewards later,better teach them about how gambling works and its not possible for anyone to get assurance of winning in gambling.