But has coinbase/gemini/bitstamp had cases where customers accounts got hacked?
Absolutely. It is not a rare occurrence for individual users to fall victim to phishing or malware scams which results in their accounts being compromised.
I thought binance hack affected few users only but did those users get reimbursed? Which accounts got targeted/hacked or was it random?
Binance itself was hacked for $40 million worth of bitcoin, but they covered the losses and no individual customers lost out because of it.
Does that make sense or its complete paranoia? Like i feel like having your seed with you on a piece of paper even in you personal item isn't that safe.
No, that is reasonable, but if you are going to be away from it for so long then you should make other arrangements to be able to access your bitcoin should your hardware wallet fail (as it has done in your case).
Now what would be your recommendation for someone in my position.
I would either take a back up hardware wallet with you, or encrypt your seed, write it on paper, and take that with you.
Yea back then... i wanted to know if there was way to confirm my seed was right.
If you don't want to use the seed check app, then next time you generate a new seed phrase you can write it down, reset the device, reenter the seed phrase, and check the addresses match. Or recover the seed phrase to a second hardware wallet, and again, check the addresses match.
So you say if you had a good amount of btc, you would have gotten two or three nano ledger s and split them a few ways?
I use a combination of of airgapped wallets, paper wallets, and hardware wallets, for the bulk of my bitcoin.