Will you stop gamble if your girl friend insists ?

[Bitinity]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

Absolutely NO, she is just girl friend who has no right to control my life. It does not mean that she cant give me an advice, it is fine to hear an advice from girl friend but she should not force me to do what she want. As long as gambling is not affecting my life negatively, why should I stop? It also apply for wife, even if my wife insists me to stop gambling, I would not stop. It is better for me to stop gambling because I want it.

[Don Pedro Dinero]

In my case it is extremely unlikely that this would happen to me, as I gamble occasionally in a perfectly rational and controlled manner. So, if she were to tell me that because I gamble from time to time with funds I can afford, I would have a serious conversation with her, because you have to set boundaries.

The question would make more sense for someone who has a problem with gambling and the girlfriend notices. In that case it would be better to consider stopping, because after all she has detected the problem and is trying to help, and not doing so, or at least trying to do so, could mean being left without a girlfriend and aggravating the problem.

[peter0425]

We must have a constant communication and constant understanding , Gambling is something we should learn as 2 things.

for Fun and Happiness?

for Profit and Gains.


either of these 2? our partner will be part of our decision making ,  and yes if my partner ask me to stop? then surely She has a good reason for that and I will follow.

[GigaBit]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

Oh, the beta males, well, vouch for another girlfriend then. The thing is you're not that fully committed yet and you're still on the knowing to each other and minding personal expenses but that doesn't mean she can stop it that immediately. I know it's a bad thing not to hear them out but totally stopping is a subjective preference and that depends on every man. I'm not stopping, maybe put it on moderation.

It is a completely personal matter. It will be difficult for those who are used to gambling. If any partner feels that gambling is causing him to lose heavily or that its negative effects are affecting his personal life. If something like this happens then he should definitely stay away from it. If it is considered as fun then it can be a part of entertainment.

[Alisha-k]

The truth is, there are times I might listen to her, that is if I've lost a whole lot from it. Every sane person would stop when it looks hopeless at some point.
 Another reason I may stop is if she's not doing it out if selfish interest but I'm certain she's even be keeping tabs in my winning..
I'd stop on her behest if nothing comes out if it.

[gabbie2010]

Except if my gambling habit or addiction is having a devastating effect on my health and well being that is when I will get the attention of my girlfriend advice to stop gambling of course that is if had I had allow her to be beware of being a gambler, thanks to online gambling sites which enable gamblers to gamble anonymously without going to the usual physical gambling shop where they can easily be identified. Moreso if gambling is my main source of income I won't even bother to listen to her advice having known that I have earning profits consistently and has been the source funds for my daily needs.

[xSkylarx]

If it doesn't compromise my personal responsibilities, I don't see any reason to stop gambling even if she tells me to stop it. Gambling is fine for me because it can reduce the stress we experience in daily life and as long as it is done in moderation. It just became a stereotype that gambling is bad because of the people that ruins their life because of it. If the opposite happens like my girlfriend does gambling, I won't stop her as long as I see her enjoying it for pure pleasure and not seeing her getting addicted.

[topman21]

Your girlfriend will never care about your good or bad in a relationship that is built to pass time. Whenever a good relationship develops then a girl will notice the good and the bad in your life.Never let your girlfriend do things where your life is wasted.But of course good work and good advice must be heard.Because a truly loving person would never want her boyfriend to be addicted to evil.

[romero121]

My girlfriend used to accompany while gambling online. This happened for fun, and we weren't into any financial problems by then. Later my gambling habits went out of control and I started spending hiding it from her. She came to know and insisted don't, because we're getting into financial problems. If I could've stopped there, we could've escaped big financial problems. Now we're in big debt, but somehow things happening with the blessings of God.

[Cryptmuster]

You just need to talk to her, why is this important to her? A person who has an addiction will never admit that he has an addiction. Based on this, you will need to talk with the girl and understand how she sees my passion for gambling, maybe she understands something wrong, or I really got carried away. Then we'll see what we agree on, but a compromise can always be found.

[Renampun]

honestly, men and women have the same thoughts about gambling...

You may be able to hear your boy/girlfriend's words in front of them but you will find it difficult to listen to his/her words behind his/her back. in that relationship "honesty and openness" is important so that there is no future betrayal. Tell your partner that you will try to reduce the gambling habit and hope that your partner will support it.

[Razmirraz]

Girlfriend is not necessarily a life partner (wife), but if the form of concern is sincere and he want to save us money by leaving habits that can absorb big expenses, I will obey him and stop for a while. Next time I will try to set aside little of the income to do a habit I often do without him knowing. Actually it is a bit difficult to leave something that has become a habit, it takes a process to do it, it is the same as someone is wanting to quit smoking, very rarely do they succeed.

[passwordnow]

My girlfriend used to accompany while gambling online. This happened for fun, and we weren't into any financial problems by then. Later my gambling habits went out of control and I started spending hiding it from her. She came to know and insisted don't, because we're getting into financial problems. If I could've stopped there, we could've escaped big financial problems. Now we're in big debt, but somehow things happening with the blessings of God.

That's sad to know but it's a learning experience that you should spend an only amount that you can afford to lose in gambling. Whether it is your career or just doing it part-time, you should really have boundaries set so that you won't get into trouble like having a financial problem.
Well, there's no need for her to tell you to stop but both of you understand the situation that you've got in and that's what you need to address and solve it that you've got into that problem.

[asriloni]

The girlfriend my insist me due to the some reasons. I may consider what reasons that make her insistme to stop from the gambling. As long as that was a sense reason and i may consider to stop it but if that doesn't make sense and i may not stop to gamble. There will always be a reason why he was doing it for you and then you must identify what makes here feel like that and tried to insist you to stop doing gambling.

[Ondekinecakabilirim]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

My family members put pressure on me about this before. However, I did not give up my gambling addiction. Actually, I'm not that addicted. I place a few bets on football matches a week for fun. I don't think I am excessively addicted to gambling. That's why I don't take other people's suggestions seriously. I probably wouldn't take my girlfriend seriously either.

[ethereumhunter]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

My family members put pressure on me about this before. However, I did not give up my gambling addiction. Actually, I'm not that addicted. I place a few bets on football matches a week for fun. I don't think I am excessively addicted to gambling. That's why I don't take other people's suggestions seriously. I probably wouldn't take my girlfriend seriously either.

Maybe other people see you placing too many sports bets that they think you are addicted to gambling. That's why they pressure you into reducing your habit of placing sports bets. That's my advice so that your family doesn't worry about your condition because we don't know what will happen in the future. It would be better if we could prevent it before it's too late and it won't be bad for us if we can cut down on placing sports bets.

[KennyR]

I haven't found myself addicted. I was able to control myself, but if I feel I'm out of control surely I'll inform my girl. Because she is the one that helps me financial whenever I was facing some difficulty. Maybe I'll give my financial control with her and request for a small amount to spend on gambling. I want myself to move to the next level of my life financial. If I want to give up something surely I'll do it and take support if required.

[YOSHIE]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling  Will you Stop 

I think it depends on the man, there are certain factors that someone gambles and there are factors that someone has a girlfriend.

Sometimes in the real world there are people who are very addicted to gambling, so that all the words of their girlfriends are ignored, people like this I think even though there is pressure from their girlfriends they don't stop, gambling addicts prefer gambling over girlfriends.

However, there are also those who hear the words of their girlfriends, meaning they are aware of the risks of gambling, the point is: to stop gambling or not to stop depending on the way of thinking by each individual.

[pawanjain]

Dont you think it really depends on how much you gamble already. If your gambling addiction is high then may be your girl is right.
You should probably listen to her for good but if you gamble within your limits then there's no harm in it.
You can try to make her understand and even then if she wants you to quit then quit.
Relations should be the priority over gambling.

[behandsomebecool]

Many people obey their girl friends more than anyone else.

What if their girl friend insists you to stop gambling   Will you Stop  

Lol, no, of course not. Giving up a hobby for someone else is a bad idea so you can easily lose yourself for the sake of someone's desires. I had a girlfriend who first demanded that I quit smoking, then wanted to give my dog to a shelter because she was allergic to wool...In the end, I broke up with the girl

LOL, not all men are like you dude. When you said that, you just showed here what kind of boyfriend you are to a girlfriend, and with what you also said that you broke up because you think she interfered with the routine you had even though you knew it was wrong. Then you just showed that you don't love your girlfriend, you value your vice that is more important than the health of your GF. In other words, you're useless BF, sorry don't be offensive.

Then it doesn't depend on the reason why she stops it, don't follow it if you know it's wrong, in your case I don't see anything wrong with your GF's desire because it's for you too like smoking, you knew to yourself its bad for the health, so what is wrong with that?

Dude, I look at it differently. This is my life, I have just one and I won't have another. So I'm going to do whatever the hell I want: smoke, gamble, and get the shaggiest dogs there can be in this world. if you don't value your freedom, that's your choice, man. And I don't strive to be the best boyfriend on the planet, I strive to be a happy man