gambling winner identity

[Vaculin]

Idk man looked like he just used his wife and child as an excuse, and his original goal is, well, really, his privacy. The wife and child may also be part of the bigger idea but it isn't everything I guess, other family members, friends, heck even random people by the road may be a part of it. I do wonder if he's able to actually hide it for so long and where he's planning to spend it. If it was a backup investment for his children in the future then it's rather understandable why he sees no need to tell it to his family.

I understand his point of view to keep his privacy and to stay away from those people who might take advantage on his won amount. It’s his decision so we also have to respect it. But for me, I would rather want my family to know it, especially my wife and child but maybe explain to them that the money will not be used for the present but it is intended for the bright future of the child and for the emergency funds of the family. That way, they will know their limits.

[Oilacris]

Idk man looked like he just used his wife and child as an excuse, and his original goal is, well, really, his privacy. The wife and child may also be part of the bigger idea but it isn't everything I guess, other family members, friends, heck even random people by the road may be a part of it. I do wonder if he's able to actually hide it for so long and where he's planning to spend it. If it was a backup investment for his children in the future then it's rather understandable why he sees no need to tell it to his family.

I understand his point of view to keep his privacy and to stay away from those people who might take advantage on his won amount. It’s his decision so we also have to respect it. But for me, I would rather want my family to know it, especially my wife and child but maybe explain to them that the money will not be used for the present but it is intended for the bright future of the child and for the emergency funds of the family. That way, they will know their limits.

When you do have lots of money and this is something that you arent get used to those numbers then it would really be creating that kind of impulsive emotion which you wouldnt care anymore on how

you would gonna spend.This is really depending on someones control and discipline towards your money and if someone a lottery winner do decide to hide himself on public then its really his choice.

We know that we do have different situation if we do talk about behavior of our family members which there's a probability about being getting lazy if they do know
that they do have lots of money due to that lottery hit.

[virasisog]

Idk man looked like he just used his wife and child as an excuse, and his original goal is, well, really, his privacy. The wife and child may also be part of the bigger idea but it isn't everything I guess, other family members, friends, heck even random people by the road may be a part of it. I do wonder if he's able to actually hide it for so long and where he's planning to spend it. If it was a backup investment for his children in the future then it's rather understandable why he sees no need to tell it to his family.

I understand his point of view to keep his privacy and to stay away from those people who might take advantage on his won amount. It’s his decision so we also have to respect it. But for me, I would rather want my family to know it, especially my wife and child but maybe explain to them that the money will not be used for the present but it is intended for the bright future of the child and for the emergency funds of the family. That way, they will know their limits.

When you do have lots of money and this is something that you arent get used to those numbers then it would really be creating that kind of impulsive emotion which you wouldnt care anymore on how

you would gonna spend.This is really depending on someones control and discipline towards your money and if someone a lottery winner do decide to hide himself on public then its really his choice.

We know that we do have different situation if we do talk about the behavior of our family members which there's a probability about being getting lazy if they do know
that they do have lots of money due to that lottery hit.

For me, it is fine to hide everything from other people but not from your wife. She's supposed to be her lifetime partner so she should know everything that is going on with his husband. She has the right to know about it unless the husband doesn't trust her. It will be unfair to her since they're both the foundation of the family. If the wife would find out about it, it will be offensive on her part.

[Russlenat]

I'm actually more curious whether there is an obligation for lottery winners to be documented when giving prizes? If not, then my guess is just for fun.

As for why he hid his winnings from his family, it could be that he had evil intentions with the money he got, meaning to enjoy it for himself, it is better to educate the family to be able to use money properly than to hide it just because of fear of his wife and children being lazy, hopefully not something bad happened to him because it could be that neither he nor his family ended up enjoying anything because of stupid reasons like that

Most probably, he will use the money for another purpose like investing into something that his family is not aware to. So that if he fail, there will be no regrets coming from his family, and if he succeed, that’s the time he will tell his wife about it. But in my personal opinion, I would not hide from my family especially when it comes to huge amount of money. They deserve to know everything about it.

[Viscore]

These stories fascinate me. I understand that you can hide 30,000 USD from your wife, children and friends, if you like, but 30 million? Not a chance.

Besides, I think he has the wrong mentality. It's true that there are people who win a large sum of money in the lottery and go bankrupt, but that money well managed gives you peace of mind for the rest of your life. I would make it clear to both of them, especially to the son, that as long as they behave as they should, they won't have to worry about money for the rest of their lives, but if, for example, when the son has to go to university instead of studying, he spends his time drinking, partying and doing cocaine, he won't see a penny.

I bet this man has an issue with money when it comes to his family. That’s why he wants to save it to himself alone and not telling even his wife. Although his intention is good but his way of dealing it is quite wrong. Instead of hiding it, it’s always better to be honest to your wife and kid and tell them about what you have gained. And explain to them that they should not rely from it because it will be only be used for the education of the child and when sudden emergency cases happen.

[Wakate]

I'm actually more curious whether there is an obligation for lottery winners to be documented when giving prizes? If not, then my guess is just for fun.

As for why he hid his winnings from his family, it could be that he had evil intentions with the money he got, meaning to enjoy it for himself, it is better to educate the family to be able to use money properly than to hide it just because of fear of his wife and children being lazy, hopefully not something bad happened to him because it could be that neither he nor his family ended up enjoying anything because of stupid reasons like that

Most probably, he will use the money for another purpose like investing into something that his family is not aware to. So that if he fail, there will be no regrets coming from his family, and if he succeed, that’s the time he will tell his wife about it. But in my personal opinion, I would not hide from my family especially when it comes to huge amount of money. They deserve to know everything about it.

We all come from different families with different ways of seeing things. We all have different families and we know what is best for our immediate family and how to treat them. For the fact that a gambler that won a fund, requesting for his identity to be anonymous is not a bad move because this can become a bigger problem if everyone knows that such person won a big fund. Family, friends, relatives, even enemies will be waiting for the person so they can have a share of the fund and if they don't get it, attacking the person might be the next move against the person. This is why we need to be very careful who do things.

[Sanitough]

this is a good topic [Gambling house responisbilty to protect people data] and it should be mandatory for gambling houses to keep user privacy safe but there is something interesting that I saw in a tweet;


source tweet

The man's reasoning is reasonable, but in my personal opinion this is an irresponsible act, he should as a husband, be honest with his wife or children and even if they turn into lazy, he just needs to educate them hard.

what do you think, is the man's action right or if you experience it (win a big jackpot) will you do as the man did or even be honest with your victory to your family??

Let’s not jump to being an irresponsible husband because we don’t know really his story and his family. But if I were to win that huge amount, I will not keep it secret to my wife and child. They are my family so they should be aware of the things happening to me. And instead of hiding the money, it would bring a lot of happiness to my family if they know that we won’t be struggling anymore with money as long as it will be properly managed and use it according to its own good purpose.

[Quidat]

These stories fascinate me. I understand that you can hide 30,000 USD from your wife, children and friends, if you like, but 30 million? Not a chance.

Besides, I think he has the wrong mentality. It's true that there are people who win a large sum of money in the lottery and go bankrupt, but that money well managed gives you peace of mind for the rest of your life. I would make it clear to both of them, especially to the son, that as long as they behave as they should, they won't have to worry about money for the rest of their lives, but if, for example, when the son has to go to university instead of studying, he spends his time drinking, partying and doing cocaine, he won't see a penny.

I bet this man has an issue with money when it comes to his family. That’s why he wants to save it to himself alone and not telling even his wife. Although his intention is good but his way of dealing it is quite wrong. Instead of hiding it, it’s always better to be honest to your wife and kid and tell them about what you have gained. And explain to them that they should not rely from it because it will be only be used for the education of the child and when sudden emergency cases happen.

There are people who are really that selfish into extreme extent on which even keeping up secrets from his family or simply with her wife which money that had been
won which is multi million dollars cant really be shared up.Really hard to believe on but there are actually people who are really just that too greedy and selfish.
They do really like to cherish out those winnings for their own without the intention on sharing or telling it out.Its his own way though but for sure there are
lots of criticisms on what he had decided on not telling or just simply being honest.

[rahmad2nd]

Idk man looked like he just used his wife and child as an excuse, and his original goal is, well, really, his privacy. The wife and child may also be part of the bigger idea but it isn't everything I guess, other family members, friends, heck even random people by the road may be a part of it. I do wonder if he's able to actually hide it for so long and where he's planning to spend it. If it was a backup investment for his children in the future then it's rather understandable why he sees no need to tell it to his family.

I understand his point of view to keep his privacy and to stay away from those people who might take advantage on his won amount. It’s his decision so we also have to respect it. But for me, I would rather want my family to know it, especially my wife and child but maybe explain to them that the money will not be used for the present but it is intended for the bright future of the child and for the emergency funds of the family. That way, they will know their limits.

In fact, we will never know the exact motive of the real reason. so far, we only know that he reasoned so that he and his family would not live a hedonistic life. and that's why he kept it a secret. to be honest, I don't really care what his true motives are.  in the end, slowly but surely. the man would tell his family sooner or later. Likewise with you, you can keep it secret from anyone or vice versa, you will tell your wife.  basically all depends on ourselves. however, what actually became interesting was the costume he was wearing, and the lottery casino platform allowed it.

So, the point of the title of this thread is to keep the identity of the gambling winner a secret. and I appreciate the casino for allowing this man to maintain the privacy that he doesn't want the public to know about. I believe that is the real motive of the man.

[ShowOff]

For me, it is fine to hide everything from other people but not from your wife. She's supposed to be her lifetime partner so she should know everything that is going on with his husband. She has the right to know about it unless the husband doesn't trust her. It will be unfair to her since they're both the foundation of the family. If the wife would find out about it, it will be offensive on her part.

You don't even have to hide if you really want to be the big gambler in the world everyone knows about. I don't know why there are people who are so eager to hide their big wins from those closest to them like their wife and children if all this time they all know that you are a gambler. So there's no good reason to mix things up just because they don't want money to run out quickly.

If someone wants to gamble, then be a brave gambler, especially if actually winning big is your dream.

[goinmerry]

I agree, couples should be transparent to one another, they promised to be one and share both sufferings and joys.  Now the father had already won huge amount of money, why leaving his family behind the thought of they are poor.  I always think that this father have other woman.  Now that he has the money, he wanted himself to be free of audit from is wife.  The reason why he don't want to let his family know that he has won a gigantic amount of money.

That man already judged his own family in the wrong way. What kind of thinking is that where you will hide the winnings with your family just because he thinks that it will lead them to become lazy? That was a horrible reason and it seems that he just wants to enjoy the money on his own.

I agree with you that there's a possibility that he's doing something unusual behind the scenes that are why he treated his own family with these crappy reasons.

Money is really the root of shit behavior toward anyone especially if it's involved a big amount.

[serjent05]

Idk man looked like he just used his wife and child as an excuse, and his original goal is, well, really, his privacy. The wife and child may also be part of the bigger idea but it isn't everything I guess, other family members, friends, heck even random people by the road may be a part of it. I do wonder if he's able to actually hide it for so long and where he's planning to spend it. If it was a backup investment for his children in the future then it's rather understandable why he sees no need to tell it to his family.

I understand his point of view to keep his privacy and to stay away from those people who might take advantage on his won amount. It’s his decision so we also have to respect it. But for me, I would rather want my family to know it, especially my wife and child but maybe explain to them that the money will not be used for the present but it is intended for the bright future of the child and for the emergency funds of the family. That way, they will know their limits.

True we have to respect the person if he wants privacy and it should be because it is dangerous for a person to go outside when everyone knows you have lots of money in your pocket.  But I will never respect a man that hides his wealth from his family.  I don't buy his reasoning to teach the kids what poverty is, the reason why he will keep the information of his winnings by himself.  There is no doubt, there is also possibility that he will only provide his family with an enough amount of budget just to go with their living.  I have known lots of husbands that keep their salaries and only gives their wife almost enough budget for the family food and bills and I hate them.

These people don't need a wife but a slave to keep their houses well organized and have someone to order and raise their kids.  

These stories fascinate me. I understand that you can hide 30,000 USD from your wife, children and friends, if you like, but 30 million? Not a chance.

Besides, I think he has the wrong mentality. It's true that there are people who win a large sum of money in the lottery and go bankrupt, but that money well managed gives you peace of mind for the rest of your life. I would make it clear to both of them, especially to the son, that as long as they behave as they should, they won't have to worry about money for the rest of their lives, but if, for example, when the son has to go to university instead of studying, he spends his time drinking, partying and doing cocaine, he won't see a penny.

I bet this man has an issue with money when it comes to his family. That’s why he wants to save it to himself alone and not telling even his wife. Although his intention is good but his way of dealing it is quite wrong. Instead of hiding it, it’s always better to be honest to your wife and kid and tell them about what you have gained. And explain to them that they should not rely from it because it will be only be used for the education of the child and when sudden emergency cases happen.

I think the guy has vices and a mistress.  He intends to keep his finances from his wife so he can do whatever he wanted with the money.  It is ok if he is a single person but he has family that needs to be taken care of and besides a wife and kids that needs to live with financial freedom.  Or possibly, he didn't love his wife that much  .

[bitcampaign]

I think his actions cover up identity
the victory is worth emulating, but if closing the victory is from my wife and children I don't think that's good either, if I were him maybe I would do the same thing to cover my identity about the victory, but I will be honest with my wife and children about the money from the victory so that it can be used to make them happy

[Genemind]

I wouldn't call him irresponsible, if he thinks his wife or children will be lazy if they have sudden wealth, so be it. It is not just for that purpose, being anonymous if you win a huge amount of money is also for your own safety and privacy. People will come to you and your life might also get in danger if people know how much money you have publicly. There's a case here in my country where a lottery winner got killed inside his home a day after winning the jackpot.

[lalabotax]

The man's reasoning is reasonable, but in my personal opinion this is an irresponsible act, he should as a husband, be honest with his wife or children and even if they turn into lazy, he just needs to educate them hard.

Because he is a husband he knows what is best for his family. How can you consider that the man is irresponsible by judging one-side opinion? While we don't know what happen tot hem exactly. He only made his statement. HI didn't say that he doesn't want to give the money to his family. He only wanted their family not to be lazy because of the money. I am sure that he had other plans to give the money to his family wisely. So, I don't think that privacy is irresponsible as long as the husband still fulfills what the family needs. Except that you know if the man didn't give the money to his family.

[Fortify]

this is a good topic [Gambling house responisbilty to protect people data] and it should be mandatory for gambling houses to keep user privacy safe but there is something interesting that I saw in a tweet;

The man's reasoning is reasonable, but in my personal opinion this is an irresponsible act, he should as a husband, be honest with his wife or children and even if they turn into lazy, he just needs to educate them hard.

what do you think, is the man's action right or if you experience it (win a big jackpot) will you do as the man did or even be honest with your victory to your family??

It's a bit unusual but perhaps the reason he gave was just a red herring and he doesn't mind. In reality it's more likely to be friends and family who will pursue more hassling intentions. Money can have a bad habit of ruining relationships, so it can sometimes be sensible to keep it quiet and be more generous in peaceful, unforced ways. It's more a reflection of the greedy state of the world than his personal relationships.

[Davidvictorson]

We all would've done the same thing. When you're poor, people treat you badly, but as soon as you start making big money, everyone wants to kiss your arse. I don't blame the guy, since I would act the same. Pretending to be poor is the only way to become and remain wealthy. I can only imagine what his family must be like for him to go to such lengths. He's probably worked his tail off his entire life and has just gotten a lucky break, and he's probably got some good plans and investments in the works. Telling members of his family may ruin it as they may come up with useless wants that would derail him.

[chaser15]

I wouldn't call him irresponsible, if he thinks his wife or children will be lazy if they have sudden wealth, so be it. It is not just for that purpose, being anonymous if you win a huge amount of money is also for your own safety and privacy. People will come to you and your life might also get in danger if people know how much money you have publicly. There's a case here in my country where a lottery winner got killed inside his home a day after winning the jackpot.

What the hell and to the point that even with your own wife and children, you will really hide it?

Stop that nonsense reasoning because if that will be your decision then they don't deserve to be handled by a head of the family with a mindset like that. We are not dumb not to think that there's another reason aside from that.

That reason is just a cover-up and can't believe you fall easily to that.

[QueenVera]

I'm sure you know there is always a reason for every action.
The man gave a very definite reason and I think that is very reasonable enough pending the fact that this is his family were talking about and the man Knowing the background if his family and the possibility of the family not being able to control the winning has decided to keep the winning away from them.
There is no greater peace than inner peace and family love and unity, the man never said he wouldn't take care of his famiy, but said that he didn't want them do crazy things or met money bring up issues that might at the end tire up the family.

[michellee]

I wouldn't call him irresponsible, if he thinks his wife or children will be lazy if they have sudden wealth, so be it. It is not just for that purpose, being anonymous if you win a huge amount of money is also for your own safety and privacy. People will come to you and your life might also get in danger if people know how much money you have publicly. There's a case here in my country where a lottery winner got killed inside his home a day after winning the jackpot.

That should be a concern for the casinos if they intend to reveal the real names of winners because, with today's technology, it's not that hard to find out who they are. The casino is better off announcing the anonymous names of the winners and contacting them in secret to keep themselves safe from people who have bad intentions toward the winners. This could also clarify that the casino is also very concerned with the anonymity of the winners and the casino may be recognized as a responsible casino in awarding its prizes to winners. Only the casino will know the winner's name and will not make it public.