Set your mind on your goals and nothing else

[Eureka_07]

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If you are being honest with your story, then congratulations.

You're asking if you should help them after how they reacted to you before? In my opinion you should assess that. If I were in your position, I'll probably be picky. If I have time and I do not have any conflict with the person, I'll definitely share some knowledge to them.

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[DaNNy001]

I don’t understand what the grudge is. But if you refuse to help your friends or family today, how are you different from them?

This is exactly my thought, why hate on them or feel grudges, it's better to prove to them that you are a better person that them, because you portraying any bad thought towards your friends due to the past event or experience you had makes you exactly like the people you are despising, so I think letting go makes you a better man and human being. And congratulations on how achievements bro

[Shamm]

I spent five years away from friends and family, because whenever I bring up how crypto can be life-changing they always discourage me, maybe because I lost some money to few trades and I was not that good at trading at the time, I got mad one day and I left the city and move to another city, because they won't let me be and they felt I will waste my life away.

Today, I now own a home and a nice ride, I was able to get married and settle down, but now they feel like they made a huge mistake for not listening to me. I believe this was the best decision I've ever made, I was able to gathered some BTC in 2019  to 2020 bear market and also with the help of my trading skills.

Only God knows what would have happened if I never left, my mind kept telling me to venture into crypto at the time and even my own family shut the idea down.

I don't know why and now they are asking for my help, I have to do it since they are my family, and even my friends are asking for help, would you help your discouraging friends if you are in my shoe? They were my friends, but not anymore, I believe friends should be supportive of each other, am I wrong.

If you are a crypto newbie, make sure you set your mind on your goals, and do not be discouraged by anyone, people can't see the future, we are not gods or demigods who can read the future, do not listen to any naysayers.

For sure this story touches everyone who read this and yes you are right about discouragement because we are living in the world of judgment so we can not deny the fact that even our family member spoke to us discouraging words. But for yourself just go on your decision like what you did Op you've been away from your friends for some couple of year in order to trust your decision and and then you will be successful today. This story is the best for new in investing that ( we must trust ourself and be positive thinker).

[Viscore]

Family will always be family so whatever misunderstandings you had before, forget it and instead help them so they can also live a good life. However, in the case of your friends, I don’t think they become unsupportive to you, maybe they don’t just like the idea about crypto so they will never encourage you to embrace crypto. But maybe in some aspects, they are there to support you so they are still your real friends after all.

Do not focus on hatred or revenge, instead learn to see the positive side that you are now capable to help them so never turn your back on them. Life is uncertain, you will never know if you will still be successful in the future or you might end up as a failure, so never hesitate to help when you are capable of helping others.

[traderethereum]

Even though they have made me sad, I will still help them if they ask for help, especially if it is family.
It's not easy to forgive someone who has underestimated or belittled us, but we must try to forget it for our own good.
It's not good to hold grudges against someone who has hurt us because it will hinder us from growing better.
We must have a goal in investing in crypto so that we can find a way that we can use to achieve that goal.

[SeeBiscuit]

I spent five years away from friends and family, because whenever I bring up how crypto can be life-changing they always discourage me, maybe because I lost some money to few trades and I was not that good at trading at the time, I got mad one day and I left the city and move to another city, because they won't let me be and they felt I will waste my life away.

Today, I now own a home and a nice ride, I was able to get married and settle down, but now they feel like they made a huge mistake for not listening to me. I believe this was the best decision I've ever made, I was able to gathered some BTC in 2019  to 2020 bear market and also with the help of my trading skills.

Only God knows what would have happened if I never left, my mind kept telling me to venture into crypto at the time and even my own family shut the idea down.

I don't know why and now they are asking for my help, I have to do it since they are my family, and even my friends are asking for help, would you help your discouraging friends if you are in my shoe? They were my friends, but not anymore, I believe friends should be supportive of each other, am I wrong.

If you are a crypto newbie, make sure you set your mind on your goals, do not be discouraged by anyone, people can't see the future, we are not gods or demigods who can read the future, do not listen to any naysayers.

Based on your story, it seems as though you intend to show your family the life you've built. Show them that they were wrong. If your intention is to make them feel bad for the way they have treated you, you will fail. If your intention is to make them feel bad at the same time you're helping them, you will fail. I've seen this movie a thousand times already. It's how nature intended it.

You need to be the bigger person and help your family and friends because at the end of the day those are the only humans you can really socialize with. I see that you mentioned God, so I'm assuming you fear him just as much as I do. You know he is watching, and you know that he is expecting that you become the bigger person. You share the same story with countless individuals in this space and it's sad to see people are burning bridges instead of building them. Your family will see you in a whole new light, because they will remember how badly the treated you. Your mere success is a daily reminder of all the bad things they did to you, so don't add fuel to that fire ok?

You got this, bro. Go be with your family. Go be with your friends.

[Smack That Ace]

Even though they have made me sad, I will still help them if they ask for help, especially if it is family.
It's not easy to forgive someone who has underestimated or belittled us, but we must try to forget it for our own good.
It's not good to hold grudges against someone who has hurt us because it will hinder us from growing better.
We must have a goal in investing in crypto so that we can find a way that we can use to achieve that goal.

I'm going through this. To be honest, my economy is getting so much better by investing in bitcoin, and now I'm belittling the people who used to belittle and criticize me for not making money and wasting time investing in bitcoin. Many times when I sit alone and think back, I find myself making the same mistakes as they did in the past. But when I saw them, I recalled the words they threw at me, I was really angry and didn't want to share bitcoins with my loved ones. I still can't get rid of my hatred to help them.

[alastantiger]

At first I felt sad when I read the first two sentences but soon had a wide smile on my face when I read the last sentence. Sometimes we wish people can tell the future.

Just stay true to Bitcoin and be a person of strong conviction as regards your beliefs about Bitcoin. Set your Bitcoin and trading goals and work today the.

Goal are personal, setting your mind and focusing all your effort on your goals is the best thing you can think of. Not minding the discouragement from either family or friends. You shouldn't  expect full support from family or friends because they dont see what you see, they cant understand the positive impact you want to make in life. People will discourage whatever idea you bring depending on their own level of understanding about improvement. Most discouragings comes from family, friends, relatives but that does not mean that when you succed you shouldn't estend a helping hand. I believe family will want you to do better. It all depends from their understanding. You just have to stick to your goal and be consistence about it.

[Vaculin]

Trading in general — regardless if cryptocurrency trading or not, is such a difficult path to take that you really can't blame people for being skeptical/cautious. Long-term success rates are staggeringly bad that you're better off doing something else instead.

Assuming you're telling a true story of you doing well, don't get too cocky — because not because you did well in the past, doesn't automatically you're going to do well in the long-term.

People have different mindset towards crypto trading and you can’t expect for them to share the same mindset with you. That’s why you can’t blame them if they become skeptical about trading, especially that they have seen you struggling and losing your money in trading before. But that was before. Now, they have realized already that they’re wrong about crypto trading and so you should be considerate for them. Instead of resenting, give them another chance and help them if they ask help from you. You can always find friends as they only come and go, but real friends are hard to find and so let them stay. Share them about what you have learned from crypto, and maybe by this time they will be very willing to listen to you.

[Daniel91]

OP, Personally, I would never recommend you to share your personal things with all your friends, some things should always remain private, especially when they have to do with finances.
In this way, you would avoid many misunderstandings and problems with your friends.
Our mutual relationships are very important, both with friends and with family, and should be nurtured and developed.
In life, not only money and our personal goals are important, but also our relationships with other people, and family relationships.
Also, you should not brag about your financial successes because it is a variable category and it changes very quickly, it is unstable.
What is much more important and lasting in our lives is family and our community, friends, and you will understand that one day.
Money is not the goal of our lives, but only a means to achieve some other goals.
I advise you to focus more on the people around you, and less on your personal financial success, and your life will then be much more fulfilling and bring more satisfaction.

[armanda90]

No body interested with your offering about how promising when investing assets in cryptocurrency exactly with Bitcoin due you still loss and poor, their mindset think about you were crazy and Bitcoin investment based on their mind are gambling or hype investment way. Change viewed with your when having much money and they can see how success you are after investing in Bitcoin due with your house and you have nice ride.

I don't think good ideas explained to them right now when you have everything and earn much profit from Bitcoin investment, will get bigger risk waiting for if you keep recommended them for investing in Bitcoin because price have been up right now, better keep teaching about risk and right moment when investing in bitcoin.

[Alphakilo]

Setting of your whole mind and full focus on your goal is one step ahead in achieving your goal. It is a personal thing.
Since goals are personal, you dont regard any discouragement from loved once. Either friends or your family. People around you will or might not understand your point of view when you tell them about what you want to invest on, so is will so hard for your to have their full support. So all you need to do is to stay focused on your set goal if you must achieve it. Regardless of any discouragement from your family and friends, you should help them when the investment start profiting you.

[traderethereum]

Even though they have made me sad, I will still help them if they ask for help, especially if it is family.
It's not easy to forgive someone who has underestimated or belittled us, but we must try to forget it for our own good.
It's not good to hold grudges against someone who has hurt us because it will hinder us from growing better.
We must have a goal in investing in crypto so that we can find a way that we can use to achieve that goal.

I'm going through this. To be honest, my economy is getting so much better by investing in bitcoin, and now I'm belittling the people who used to belittle and criticize me for not making money and wasting time investing in bitcoin. Many times when I sit alone and think back, I find myself making the same mistakes as they did in the past. But when I saw them, I recalled the words they threw at me, I was really angry and didn't want to share bitcoins with my loved ones. I still can't get rid of my hatred to help them.

People who can use bitcoin properly will feel the benefits of bitcoin for them and I also feel like you.
It will be good nostalgia for us when we remember our struggles in our early days considering making money from crypto.
But you should try to eliminate your hatred for them because they know nothing about bitcoin and belittle what you do.
They will see the joy you feel after you can change your life for the better and can achieve all the goals you want.
Let's achieve that goal together and live a better life using crypto.

[Getmon]

After what they did to you, I understand how you felt and how much you were hurt. However, you must comprehend that they were also attempting to steer you in the right direction. The only reason their advice did not work is that they do not know better than you. I will still assist them if they ask, particularly if it is from family if you have more than enough. We must make an effort to forget someone who has undervalued or denigrated us for our own benefit, even though it is difficult to forgive them. It is detrimental to our growth to harbor feelings of resentment toward someone who has harmed us. You were successful and have a compelling story. Now demonstrate to them that you are also adept at handling the past.

[Nheer]

I spent five years away from friends and family, because whenever I bring up how crypto can be life-changing they always discourage me, maybe because I lost some money to few trades and I was not that good at trading at the time, I got mad one day and I left the city and move to another city, because they won't let me be and they felt I will waste my life away.

Today, I now own a home and a nice ride, I was able to get married and settle down, but now they feel like they made a huge mistake for not listening to me. I believe this was the best decision I've ever made, I was able to gathered some BTC in 2019  to 2020 bear market and also with the help of my trading skills.

Only God knows what would have happened if I never left, my mind kept telling me to venture into crypto at the time and even my own family shut the idea down.

I don't know why and now they are asking for my help, I have to do it since they are my family, and even my friends are asking for help, would you help your discouraging friends if you are in my shoe? They were my friends, but not anymore, I believe friends should be supportive of each other, am I wrong.

If you are a crypto newbie, make sure you set your mind on your goals, do not be discouraged by anyone, people can't see the future, we are not gods or demigods who can read the future, do not listen to any naysayers.

You knew what you have been doing from the start and you believed in yourself and you believed in what you have been doing, its so unfortunate they didn’t believe in you and even though they don’t believe in what you are doing all they could have done is to show concern because you are their family and friend. They failed you when you needed them most but then i feel they did it all because of the love they have for you, they mean well thats why did didn’t want you to keep wasting time at least thats what they thought.
No matter what they are all you’ve got and your family will always be your family so just forgive them and let it all slide am sure they are also having regrets and don’t hesitate to assist them in anyway you can.

After what they did to you, I understand how you felt and how much you were hurt. However, you must comprehend that they were also attempting to steer you in the right direction. The only reason their advice did not work is that they do not know better than you. I will still assist them if they ask, particularly if it is from family if you have more than enough. We must make an effort to forget someone who has undervalued or denigrated us for our own benefit, even though it is difficult to forgive them. It is detrimental to our growth to harbor feelings of resentment toward someone who has harmed us. You were successful and have a compelling story. Now demonstrate to them that you are also adept at handling the past.

Exactly, this things happen in almost every household, let it slide and embrace them with warm heart. I will assist them and forgive them if I was to be in your shoes because we don't know what the future holds.

[SOKO-DEKE]

I spent five years away from friends and family, because whenever I bring up how crypto can be life-changing they always discourage me, maybe because I lost some money to few trades and I was not that good at trading at the time, I got mad one day and I left the city and move to another city, because they won't let me be and they felt I will waste my life away.

Today, I now own a home and a nice ride, I was able to get married and settle down, but now they feel like they made a huge mistake for not listening to me. I believe this was the best decision I've ever made, I was able to gathered some BTC in 2019  to 2020 bear market and also with the help of my trading skills.

I can't really hold them responsible for their lack of support for you because they might be ignorance of cryptocurrency industry, and given that you mentioned that you lost some money in trading at the time, it's possible that they might be reason that lead to discouragement because they don't want you to lose too much money. Do you know that a lot of people have lost a significant amount of money in online investing because they didn't have someone to advice them in initial stage.

However, I am aware that when you are knowledgeable about what you are doing, you should never give up, regardless of the challenges you face. I think this gives you more courage to leave your family and friends.

I don't know why and now they are asking for my help, I have to do it since they are my family, and even my friends are asking for help, would you help your discouraging friends if you are in my shoe? They were my friends, but not anymore, I believe friends should be supportive of each other, am I wrong.

You might need their assistance in the future, so if you are heartless toward them now, it might be challenging to get their assistance back. As for me, I will definitely lend a hand because that is not the end of life and I know that is not everything money do.

If you are a crypto newbie, make sure you set your mind on your goals, do not be discouraged by anyone, people can't see the future, we are not gods or demigods who can read the future, do not listen to any naysayers.

We should only remain adamant on what we have good knowledge about and trust.we also try and listen to some advise some time if not the person may end in nothing after he/she may refuses to listen to any advise,the both have is advantages and disadvantages.

[uche6215]

On your story, you said, you were able to get married and settled down that's good 👍.  If not for the help of your parents you wouldn't have gotten married by now and you will still be single and again your parents are your everything nothing but them, they were always for you in your times of needs but not until you left your parents house. As for your friends they are the best for you, if you don't help them now you can never help them again, no matter what they say it was just a subjection and that was left for you to decide on what to do,  but thanks to God you made the right decision so now help teach or tell your friends about cryptocurrency as for your families help them because in the life of every man there is always a time wbr we all shall make a decision.

[Cryptomiles1]

People may not believe in your dreams but as for you who knows what you are doing, you don't need to be discouraged with whatever they are saying. Always be focused on your goals and achievement whenever it has come to reality they will be the ones to call you again for help and assistance. One thing you must know is that anyone who sees you with laptop may not understand the kind of job you are doing, many may take you for fraudster who always seat at home scamming people, so it's better to stay away from people, hide yourself and focused your business.

Lastly, you need to help them because they are your family and friends, right now what I expected you to do is to explain your business to them so that they will understand you more better.

[knowngunman]

I don't know why and now they are asking for my help, I have to do it since they are my family, and even my friends are asking for help, would you help your discouraging friends if you are in my shoe? They were my friends, but not anymore, I believe friends should be supportive of each other, am I wrong.

Your story is emotional and heartbreaking but the good thing about it is that you overcome and succeed at the end. Do not say they are not longer your friend, they are still your friend no matter what happened in the past. You should understand that they actually want the best for you unknowingly to them that giving up is not the perfect way when things goes opposite.

They've no idea what crypto was as at then and from your story, you said perhaps it was due to the fact that you are lost some money in trading that's the reason for their discouragement. You can see that it was knowledge of crypto they lacked and they don't want you to lose more.

To me, they're supportive friends in a wrong way and this is a perfect time for you to carry them through the crypto world and teach them how it works. Remember that givers never lack and for that I will advice you to continue offering them a helping hand when needed. Regardless, you can not live in isolation but within the associate of friends.

[mamesso]

I spent five years away from friends and family, because whenever I bring up how crypto can be life-changing they always discourage me, maybe because I lost some money to few trades and I was not that good at trading at the time, I got mad one day and I left the city and move to another city, because they won't let me be and they felt I will waste my life away.

Don't get discouraged even if the people closest to you never support what you do. To reach the point of success requires patience, nothing can be achieved without struggle. When starting a career to change lives, you are nobody in the eyes of friends and family, you have to prove to them that what you are doing now can change lives for the future.

Failure is a process, you will learn a lot from failure. You have to be able to go through everything that makes you want to give up, strong determination will allow you to achieve success. Prove to them that you can still be successful even without their support, if necessary teach them to get to know crypto better and direct them to do something that can benefit them.