Have you been threaten to stop gambling

[ethereumhunter]

When we are already married then we must obey our promises and vous which is when we are saying that we will love our wife till death do as part then we must obey that. And that will happen once we don't have any lying or secrets from our wife. And in gambling once we notice that everytime we gamble we cannot control ourselves to make a way to gamble again.and again. Do we must tell to our wife so that they can help us to control ourselves.

It's best if we tell our wife we have a problem so she can help us think of ways to solve it. Openness in the household is needed so that husbands and wives can help each other if one of them needs help. But often, husbands or wives harbor their problems and don't tell their partners until their partners know the real problem. And there are many cases where after the partner knows the real problem, they both get into fights that can lead to divorce and this has happened a lot everywhere. That's why every time we have a problem, we should immediately tell it to our partner so we can solve it. After all, two heads would be better than one.

The essence of all these problems is that openness between families is very important, especially when it comes to serious matters such as gambling addiction, this is a serious problem and for me family is the main key to being able to recover from addiction and stop gambling.

But unfortunately, this openness is still difficult because not many people can be open with other family members. But if they can be open with others and share their problems, they will have a chance to cure their gambling addiction because their family members will help them solve their problems. Gambling addiction is a serious problem that must be solved because it can destroy a person's life and that of his family.

[LUCKMCFLY]

I also agree with what you say, because if a person cannot control himself it is impossible for him to set an example. I have seen many heads of families, men who have their wife and children and suddenly lose control not because of another woman but because of the casino game, because they have losing streaks and start betting more than they should and when they start to see they put their family support money at risk, that's when the addiction comes in, the loss of control and that's why I also second what you say, control is everything when it comes to casino games.

Our major concern should be to provide for our family, which means we should look for a decent a secondary source of income, and I don't propose gambling because it's too risky and not completely reliable. Gambling is a personal decision, but when pushed to an extreme, it reveals the bad traits, depleting all personal and life savings. Of course, no one will threaten you for your money; each individual knows what is best for himself or herself. Gambling is not a good way to go; I've been there, and believe me when I tell it will deplete one's life savings if not controlled and understood on time.

It is so, the game will always be a very difficult way to make money, the game should be seen as a way to have fun with diverted money to be Invested there, where the main thing is that it can be lost, that is why the money that is destined A casino cannot be seen as something that is going to be won, but rather that it is going to be prepared to lose , because if it is lost, there is no Regret or regret, which makes a player leave Satisfied, and as I said before, if the player wins Well, congratulations, things are in your favor and you have to take Advantage of the profits, I think that this is the healthiest way to play, to enjoy a casino and also the most Mature way for a person to see a casino.

If the Person wants to risk those profits that he Obtained , it is already a matter of his decision , Although in my personal Experience it is not good to do So , because he will most likely lose Everything and be Disappointed.

[cabron]

I also agree with what you say, because if a person cannot control himself it is impossible for him to set an example. I have seen many heads of families, men who have their wife and children and suddenly lose control not because of another woman but because of the casino game, because they have losing streaks and start betting more than they should and when they start to see they put their family support money at risk, that's when the addiction comes in, the loss of control and that's why I also second what you say, control is everything when it comes to casino games.

Our major concern should be to provide for our family, which means we should look for a decent a secondary source of income, and I don't propose gambling because it's too risky and not completely reliable. Gambling is a personal decision, but when pushed to an extreme, it reveals the bad traits, depleting all personal and life savings. Of course, no one will threaten you for your money; each individual knows what is best for himself or herself. Gambling is not a good way to go; I've been there, and believe me when I tell it will deplete one's life savings if not controlled and understood on time.

It is so, the game will always be a very difficult way to make money, the game should be seen as a way to have fun with diverted money to be Invested there, where the main thing is that it can be lost, that is why the money that is destined A casino cannot be seen as something that is going to be won, but rather that it is going to be prepared to lose , because if it is lost, there is no Regret or regret, which makes a player leave Satisfied, and as I said before, if the player wins Well, congratulations, things are in your favor and you have to take Advantage of the profits, I think that this is the healthiest way to play, to enjoy a casino and also the most Mature way for a person to see a casino.

If the Person wants to risk those profits that he Obtained , it is already a matter of his decision , Although in my personal Experience it is not good to do So , because he will most likely lose Everything and be Disappointed.

He'll not just lose his money but his family as well. A family without a father is such a bad situation for the kids, it leaves them vulnerable to the influence of other people and who knows what the kids could learn. Its a wake-up call for the father to just stop and rethink again. If he wants to gamble I guess he just has to do it online and hid it from his partner. 

If he doesn't wanna be blamed by the kids when they grew up, he better put himself together and fix issues. When a wife complains already, there is definitely an obligation that he took for granted.

[Shamm]

When we are already married then we must obey our promises and vous which is when we are saying that we will love our wife till death do as part then we must obey that. And that will happen once we don't have any lying or secrets from our wife. And in gambling once we notice that everytime we gamble we cannot control ourselves to make a way to gamble again.and again. Do we must tell to our wife so that they can help us to control ourselves.

It's best if we tell our wife we have a problem so she can help us think of ways to solve it. Openness in the household is needed so that husbands and wives can help each other if one of them needs help. But often, husbands or wives harbor their problems and don't tell their partners until their partners know the real problem. And there are many cases where after the partner knows the real problem, they both get into fights that can lead to divorce and this has happened a lot everywhere. That's why every time we have a problem, we should immediately tell it to our partner so we can solve it. After all, two heads would be better than one.

The essence of all these problems is that openness between families is very important, especially when it comes to serious matters such as gambling addiction, this is a serious problem and for me family is the main key to being able to recover from addiction and stop gambling.

But unfortunately, this openness is still difficult because not many people can be open with other family members. But if they can be open with others and share their problems, they will have a chance to cure their gambling addiction because their family members will help them solve their problems. Gambling addiction is a serious problem that must be solved because it can destroy a person's life and that of his family.

This is the reality mate not all gamblers open their situations in their family but some of their friends already know about them.  And the reason why is that happened is that they are more open to their friends rather than to their family because when their family will know about their situation then it will cause minor or even major problem fro their family.

[ethereumhunter]

This is the reality mate not all gamblers open their situations in their family but some of their friends already know about them.  And the reason why is that happened is that they are more open to their friends rather than to their family because when their family will know about their situation then it will cause minor or even major problem fro their family.

And if their friends already know that someone is already addicted to gambling, they can approach him and try to get him out of gambling while giving him a choice of activities to do. This will make people addicted to gambling think that they still have many choices of activities that they can use to reduce their gambling activities. And after knowing this, he can tell that he wants to stay away from gambling but still can't. I think his friends will help him to reduce his gambling time and even help him to cure his gambling addiction.

[wxa7115]

This is the reality mate not all gamblers open their situations in their family but some of their friends already know about them.  And the reason why is that happened is that they are more open to their friends rather than to their family because when their family will know about their situation then it will cause minor or even major problem fro their family.

Different cultures have different attitudes towards gambling, for many people gambling is just another hobby you can enjoy with your money, but there are some cultures in which any amount of gambling regardless of the reason is deeply frowned upon.

So it makes sense that some people choose to hide this from their families as they do not want to hear any complains from them, especially if they have things under control, however this makes harder a recovery for those which became addicted as they feel they cannot share that secret with anyone, as they fear the repercussions of sharing this information with their loved ones.

[Weawant]

This is the reality mate not all gamblers open their situations in their family but some of their friends already know about them.  And the reason why is that happened is that they are more open to their friends rather than to their family because when their family will know about their situation then it will cause minor or even major problem fro their family.

If a gambler is having problem with addictions I think it'll be better they tell their family instead of hiding it from them because if they find out from outside it won't be nice and embracing to them. Hiding things from your family never ends well from how I see things.

Friends will understand if they find out you were addicted to gambling without telling them besides your family are those that'll take you more seriously and try to help you by all means you recover from your gambling addiction problem. Only a very few friends will try to help.

You shouldn't be scared of getting shouts from your love ones, those attitude at time is how they show their love to you. No family member will see one of their own in a problem and won't try to help them out if it. Sometimes they might threaten you just to get you to quit.

[Josefjix]

And if their friends already know that someone is already addicted to gambling, they can approach him and try to get him out of gambling while giving him a choice of activities to do. This will make people addicted to gambling think that they still have many choices of activities that they can use to reduce their gambling activities. And after knowing this, he can tell that he wants to stay away from gambling but still can't. I think his friends will help him to reduce his gambling time and even help him to cure his gambling addiction.

It is better and advisable to recapture that a problem shared is half addressed. Approaching someone who is addicted to gambling and convincing them to stop is a difficult exertion; it takes a long time before things turn out correctly. Addicts have little regard for their winnings, especially when watching gambling games. We can carefully supply recreational activities that will keep them busy, and gradually they will avoid betting games, thereby permitting them to see the truth. Their huge losses, disadvantages, and repercussions if they do not stop gambling.

[Betwrong]

~ How about you have you been threatened by your wife, your girlfriend, or your parents, if so tell us your story.

For someone who is a responsible gambler there would be nothing much to tell. Relatives, wife or parents, wouldn't be threatening such a person, because would know that gambling is entertainment for him, and if he's working and making money with his job, he needs some fun too, needs it for relaxation, to do his job better and to earn even more money.

I don't think the person the OP is referring to is a responsible gambler, if the person is a responsible gambler he wont really have problem with his wife even after she was able to access her husbands phone and she notice that her husband is a gambler. Maybe the are having financial crisis, maybe the husband have been complaining about lack of money, but she was just surprise to see her husband to have wasted lots of money on gambling, definitely her wife will be mad at him, because she believe her husband is wasting money on what those not really worth it.

If the Op is not addicted, i see no reason why he should be hiding it from his wife that he is not a gambler, nothing is bad in gambling but don't just be addicted to gambling.

Well, in that case he should seek professional help to get off from addiction. It works. A good friend of mine was suffering from gambling addiction 4 years ago, and he was helped by professionals and there were no incidents since.

But also know that often family members and friends have prejudices about gambling activity. They think every gambler is addicted by definition. Which is certainly not true.  Only around 5% of gamblers are problem gamblers, according to various reports.

[Doan9269]

This is the reality mate not all gamblers open their situations in their family but some of their friends already know about them.  And the reason why is that happened is that they are more open to their friends rather than to their family because when their family will know about their situation then it will cause minor or even major problem fro their family.

And if their friends already know that someone is already addicted to gambling, they can approach him and try to get him out of gambling while giving him a choice of activities to do. This will make people addicted to gambling think that they still have many choices of activities that they can use to reduce their gambling activities. And after knowing this, he can tell that he wants to stay away from gambling but still can't. I think his friends will help him to reduce his gambling time and even help him to cure his gambling addiction.

Though this is true but it's very rare for you to discover nowadays that friends will advise someone positively than the negative way constituting to the already created problem on ground, also, we are no more kids that will expect people around us taking us as a reference point of discussion while correcting us from the wrong way we have been living our lives being a gambrler, we should instead be a motivation to others as well.

[Blitzboy]

This is the reality mate not all gamblers open their situations in their family but some of their friends already know about them.  And the reason why is that happened is that they are more open to their friends rather than to their family because when their family will know about their situation then it will cause minor or even major problem fro their family.

If a gambler is having problem with addictions I think it'll be better they tell their family instead of hiding it from them because if they find out from outside it won't be nice and embracing to them. Hiding things from your family never ends well from how I see things.

Friends will understand if they find out you were addicted to gambling without telling them besides your family are those that'll take you more seriously and try to help you by all means you recover from your gambling addiction problem. Only a very few friends will try to help.

You shouldn't be scared of getting shouts from your love ones, those attitude at time is how they show their love to you. No family member will see one of their own in a problem and won't try to help them out if it. Sometimes they might threaten you just to get you to quit.

I appreciate the wisdom in your words. But its important for us to approach this issue with caution and avoid generalizations. Dealing with addiction is a multifaceted matter that necessitates an individualized approach. While involving family can play a crucial role in ones recovery. This may not always be advantageous.

In situations where family dynamics are harmful or dysfunctional exposing oneself to such an environment may do more harm than good. Therefore we must balance the narrative of always disclosing addiction to family with the reality of each unique circumstance. The significance of friendships in recovery cannot be underestimated. People develop diverse relationships with both friends and family.

Each carrying its own unique dynamics. The belief that only a few friends will provide support might not hold true for everyone universally. The determining factor is the strength of the relationship itself. Rather than solely relying on labels such as 'friend' or 'family'. Lastly while employing a tough love approach may have its merits in certain cases it should not be seen as universally applicable. It is vital to handle such situations delicately and with utmost care, respect, and empathy – preferably under the guidance of a professional counselor

[Shamm]

~ How about you have you been threatened by your wife, your girlfriend, or your parents, if so tell us your story.

For someone who is a responsible gambler there would be nothing much to tell. Relatives, wife or parents, wouldn't be threatening such a person, because would know that gambling is entertainment for him, and if he's working and making money with his job, he needs some fun too, needs it for relaxation, to do his job better and to earn even more money.

I don't think the person the OP is referring to is a responsible gambler, if the person is a responsible gambler he wont really have problem with his wife even after she was able to access her husbands phone and she notice that her husband is a gambler. Maybe the are having financial crisis, maybe the husband have been complaining about lack of money, but she was just surprise to see her husband to have wasted lots of money on gambling, definitely her wife will be mad at him, because she believe her husband is wasting money on what those not really worth it.

If the Op is not addicted, i see no reason why he should be hiding it from his wife that he is not a gambler, nothing is bad in gambling but don't just be addicted to gambling.

Well, in that case he should seek professional help to get off from addiction. It works. A good friend of mine was suffering from gambling addiction 4 years ago, and he was helped by professionals and there were no incidents since.

But also know that often family members and friends have prejudices about gambling activity. They think every gambler is addicted by definition. Which is certainly not true.  Only around 5% of gamblers are problem gamblers, according to various reports.

In order to leave in to addiction the gambler itself must help themselves to separate their lives in to the gambling world and yes by the help of some professional and expert the addict of gambling can still leave from addiction. But the addict himself he must know that self control is the only way to leave addictions or else he will find some other happiness in order to forget gambling industries.

[bitzizzix]

~ How about you have you been threatened by your wife, your girlfriend, or your parents, if so tell us your story.

For someone who is a responsible gambler there would be nothing much to tell. Relatives, wife or parents, wouldn't be threatening such a person, because would know that gambling is entertainment for him, and if he's working and making money with his job, he needs some fun too, needs it for relaxation, to do his job better and to earn even more money.

I don't think the person the OP is referring to is a responsible gambler, if the person is a responsible gambler he wont really have problem with his wife even after she was able to access her husbands phone and she notice that her husband is a gambler. Maybe the are having financial crisis, maybe the husband have been complaining about lack of money, but she was just surprise to see her husband to have wasted lots of money on gambling, definitely her wife will be mad at him, because she believe her husband is wasting money on what those not really worth it.

If the Op is not addicted, i see no reason why he should be hiding it from his wife that he is not a gambler, nothing is bad in gambling but don't just be addicted to gambling.

Well, in that case he should seek professional help to get off from addiction. It works. A good friend of mine was suffering from gambling addiction 4 years ago, and he was helped by professionals and there were no incidents since.

But also know that often family members and friends have prejudices about gambling activity. They think every gambler is addicted by definition. Which is certainly not true.  Only around 5% of gamblers are problem gamblers, according to various reports.

In order to leave in to addiction the gambler itself must help themselves to separate their lives in to the gambling world and yes by the help of some professional and expert the addict of gambling can still leave from addiction. But the addict himself he must know that self control is the only way to leave addictions or else he will find some other happiness in order to forget gambling industries.

You have to do it, if you want to stop gambling you must have a strong intention from yourself to do so because this is the main point besides professional help or any other help.
a wise gambler must have a target when to stop and when to live comfortably, in my opinion when you have a family you have to get out of the gambling industry. Because family is the most important thing for us to prioritize because families really need money for many needs, think about if you continue to gamble and lose after marriage, what will happen to your family. And what if it continues like that, and I'm sure your wife will be angry and even ask for a divorce.

I mean gambling addiction and if you have a family you should treat it immediately so your wife and children don't suffer. And no gambling addict can make a family happy, otherwise the household will be full of emotions because of gambling addiction.

[lienfaye]

This is the reality mate not all gamblers open their situations in their family but some of their friends already know about them.  And the reason why is that happened is that they are more open to their friends rather than to their family because when their family will know about their situation then it will cause minor or even major problem fro their family.

I can relate. When I was just studying and had problems at school, like in my grades, teachers and classmates (about bullying) i'm more comfortable to open up to my friends because they know me well. There are many things my family doesn't know about me back then, maybe because I don't want them to worry or I want them to think everything is okay.

Anyway, it might hard but it's better to talk to your family first about your problem than choosing to open up to your friends. Because they're family and should be the one to know of what's bothering you and what you've been going through. If you have a gambling problem, be open to your partner because it's not good to keep your gambling to him/her just because you don't want him/her to get mad. Communication, respect and understanding are necessary in a relationship to last long.

[tusandii]

In order to leave in to addiction the gambler itself must help themselves to separate their lives in to the gambling world and yes by the help of some professional and expert the addict of gambling can still leave from addiction. But the addict himself he must know that self control is the only way to leave addictions or else he will find some other happiness in order to forget gambling industries.

Even if a gambler manages to get out of gambling addiction because of the help of several professionals and themselves, if after that he cannot immediately leave gambling and still occasionally tries to come back, then there is still a high probability of becoming a gambling addict again because as we know that gambling gives a very high sense of curiosity and can easily lead to feelings of addiction.
If he really has an awareness of the dangers of gambling addiction and can really get out of it, then he should also be able to quit the gambling industry and never return to playing occasionally or just watching other people's gaming sessions.

[2Pizza410000BTC]

I was threatened many times by my family members to stop gambling. Since gambling is considered a punishable offense in our country, one cannot openly indulge in gambling in our country. Sometimes law enforcement officers from gambling dens arrest criminals.

[ethereumhunter]

It is better and advisable to recapture that a problem shared is half addressed. Approaching someone who is addicted to gambling and convincing them to stop is a difficult exertion; it takes a long time before things turn out correctly. Addicts have little regard for their winnings, especially when watching gambling games. We can carefully supply recreational activities that will keep them busy, and gradually they will avoid betting games, thereby permitting them to see the truth. Their huge losses, disadvantages, and repercussions if they do not stop gambling.

As long as the person who warns gambling addicts to stop immediately can continue to warn them, I think the gambling addict will slowly open his mind that what that person said is true. Maybe he will accept that person's advice to stop gambling and want to do rehabilitation for his recovery from gambling. It does take time to heal himself from gambling addiction but that's what must be done to recover from gambling addiction. Maybe if a gambling addict is willing to accept his suggestions, that person can invite him to do other activities that can keep him busy so he won't think about gambling.

Though this is true but it's very rare for you to discover nowadays that friends will advise someone positively than the negative way constituting to the already created problem on ground, also, we are no more kids that will expect people around us taking us as a reference point of discussion while correcting us from the wrong way we have been living our lives being a gambrler, we should instead be a motivation to others as well.

Gambling addicts rarely want to correct themselves because they will not think about self-reflection. But if someone advises him about his gambling addiction and finds a solution and does it together, I think it still has the potential to heal. A gambling addict needs attention from the people around him so that a gambling addict can know that the people around him still need him. If the people around him can treat him kindly, there is a possibility that the gambling addict will realize that what he is doing is wrong. And with the help of other people who will accompany them during the healing process, gambling addicts will not feel alone.

[Doan9269]

I was threatened many times by my family members to stop gambling. Since gambling is considered a punishable offense in our country, one cannot openly indulge in gambling in our country. Sometimes law enforcement officers from gambling dens arrest criminals.

Threats are in categories when it comes to the ones coming as a result of gambling, you can manage to argue your way out with the kind of threats coming from the family members or your friends you're having, but you dare not risk any form of government threat on gambling especially when they are taking strictness on gambling in such country you may found yourself in or the local community settings where you lived in

[danherbias07]

I was threatened many times by my family members to stop gambling. Since gambling is considered a punishable offense in our country, one cannot openly indulge in gambling in our country. Sometimes law enforcement officers from gambling dens arrest criminals.

Threats are in categories when it comes to the ones coming as a result of gambling, you can manage to argue your way out with the kind of threats coming from the family members or your friends you're having, but you dare not risk any form of government threat on gambling especially when they are taking strictness on gambling in such country you may found yourself in or the local community settings where you lived in

That's correct. A threat from a family member is not that harsh and I doubt they will report you to the government even though they have strict rules about gambling. They are still your family and I do believe they are just doing it for your own good or they are scared that in the future you will be caught with what you are doing and they don't want that to happen. So, stopping it as early as possible while you are not yet addicted to it "yet" will be the solution they can find. Try to be in the same position as they are where someone you love is gambling like crazy.

When you are there (addicted to gambling), I doubt you can stop it easily. I've seen it, especially now when casinos are available with just an internet away and a computer or a smartphone. If you can control it now, keep it that way or you will end up in jail if that habit is unauthorized in your country.

[piebeyb]

I was threatened many times by my family members to stop gambling. Since gambling is considered a punishable offense in our country, one cannot openly indulge in gambling in our country. Sometimes law enforcement officers from gambling dens arrest criminals.

Do you think of this threat as something that can stop you from gambling, I'm sure there's no way it can stop you that fast, especially just because of a ban from the government in your country, as long as the site is still accessible I'm sure you can still play with your cellphone except for land casinos it may be less secure but for online casinos it can still be accessed easily.

In my country it is also banned but I can still play casino through my phone using crypto, but still if your family threats are good to keep you from getting addicted everything will look good , you need to follow them because of course they don't want you to fall too deep into gambling so that becoming an addict, personally I can still gamble in a controlled manner so it is still relatively safe to gamble