Have you been threaten to stop gambling

[Josefjix]

Now a smart phone is enough for gambling so it is possible to gamble blindly if one gambles in his spare time.  But if someone is addicted to gambling, the addicted gambler gambles for long hours every day due to which his gambling is revealed to his family and relatives. And then he is put under a lot of pressure from his family and relatives and everyone starts to dislike him because gambling is not a good thing in the eyes of the society.

My elder siblings have often advised me to stop gambling, but they do rejoice with me whenever I win the Lotto, because they, as well, are human beings who really need money to solve their own problems. We strive and work for our everyday survival; nothing ought to cease us from accomplishing or taking a new step every day. Family members are free to do whatever they believe is proper, but a man is obligated to stand his ground and seek his daily bread. It's a good thing to take action and combat dissatisfaction; we're here to conquer and make the best of our opportunities.

[Fundamentals Of]

That's a funny story but something serious at the same time. Lol. I haven't been in that kind of situation. I haven't been secretly gambling. My family knows I gamble once in a while. That's not really a big deal because I am not an addict gambler. I gamble just for fun. Although sometimes I lose a good deal of money, it isn't something that is intended for something else. So if a significant amount is lost, there's still food, bills are still paid, etc. No serious damage done.

[len01]

My elder siblings have often advised me to stop gambling, but they do rejoice with me whenever I win the Lotto, because they, as well, are human beings who really need money to solve their own problems. We strive and work for our everyday survival; nothing ought to cease us from accomplishing or taking a new step every day. Family members are free to do whatever they believe is proper, but a man is obligated to stand his ground and seek his daily bread. It's a good thing to take action and combat dissatisfaction; we're here to conquer and make the best of our opportunities.

I understand what you're saying but I'm a bit thinking isn't it not very good or very bad in the long term? because it seems as if you think gambling is a place to win or get more money from your bet.
I admit that as a man, I have the responsibility to provide for them in various ways to get money to be able to meet their needs, but if it's like what you do, it seems a little disagree.
I don't know for sure if you will gamble every day like you said when nothing can stop you from gambling but at least you try to have some control to try to make a profit in something other than gambling and try to stop gambling 

[AicecreaME]

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Gambling is a bad addiction due to which many women cannot accept it. And drinking alcohol and other drugs are very harmful to the human body due to which women cannot accept their consumption from their husbands or boyfriends. Not just gambling or drinking but my wife can't tolerate a simple smoking. I gamble secretly from my wife because she is too much of a threat to me. If she finds out about my gambling and smoking activities, she might leave me too 

Any addiction is bad, there are people that call themselves workaholic, basically it is a way to say they are addicted to work, however a person which was truly addicted to their work will be as bad as a drug addict or an alcoholic, after all they will not attend to the needs to their families as they are fully concentrated on their jobs, dnd this will lead them to develop the same problems any addict develops.

Also as a personal note maybe it could be a good idea that you give up on gambling, as there is no point on risking your family over something which should be a harmless hobby.

Well, everything that is too much is harmful. Some might be oblivious, especially if something pays well that it becomes not a great concern to them, but anything that is done excessively has its repercussions. For instance, if you are a workaholic person, you sacrifice your time and effort for the sake of earning money. You lose your work-balance life because you're too engrossed in working to get high salary in return. This will cost you your peace of mind and at the same time your health and well-being.

The same applies in gambling, if you will be too engrossed in playing or betting, you sacrifice your time that could've been allotted to something else such as spending it with your family or doing other things that will be more beneficial to you. It's true that we are entitled to our own decision, but reassessing ourselves and changing for the better isn't a bad idea too, especially if gambling isn't adding much value to your life based on your own assessment.

[Razmirraz]

This actually happens if there is a similar thread I'll lock this thread.

My friend invited me for a round of drinks just last night to confess something, and that is his wife threatened to leave their house and file for legal separation because the wife just discovered that he's spending a lot of time gambling, she thought that he's just playing games but she discovered his logged because the idiot has his password in the browser, so the wife check his withdrawal and voila his losing a lot of money and she also discovered that he won big money in the past but didn't tell her.

I guess that blew her patience for not telling his winning, so he threaten that he should stop gambling or they part ways, my friend choose his wife so he cannot play until he can convince his wife and promise her to tell her if he won big.

How about you have you been threatened by your wife, your girlfriend, or your parents, if so tell us your story.

Well, after I read the entire contents of the topic, at least your friend has made a big mistake because he has wasted the trust his wife has placed on him. Hiding his big win from his wife was the biggest mistake, maybe all this time his wife was very patient with their family's financial condition, she did not dare to demand anything from her husband because she was considered to have no money.

Naturally, his wife threatened to leave the house due to being very disappointed after learning the truth. If your friend had been more open with his wife, maybe he wouldn't have received such sadistic threats. So far I have been very open about the activities I do, my wife doesn't demand much from me, the important thing is that she always has enough monthly shopping money. I have never received a threat like the one you described above.

[coinerer]

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Gambling is a bad addiction due to which many women cannot accept it. And drinking alcohol and other drugs are very harmful to the human body due to which women cannot accept their consumption from their husbands or boyfriends. Not just gambling or drinking but my wife can't tolerate a simple smoking. I gamble secretly from my wife because she is too much of a threat to me. If she finds out about my gambling and smoking activities, she might leave me too 

Your wife is very simple and she probably loves you so much that she does not allow you to indulge in any bad habits and also wants to keep you away from smoke addiction because it causes cancer. And to tell the truth she wants peace in your family that's why she wants to keep you away from bad habits like gambling. But you can secretly gamble on your smartphone to pass your boring time with fun. and because of your wife's pressure, you can stay away from deep addiction to gambling.

[klidex]

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Gambling is a bad addiction due to which many women cannot accept it. And drinking alcohol and other drugs are very harmful to the human body due to which women cannot accept their consumption from their husbands or boyfriends. Not just gambling or drinking but my wife can't tolerate a simple smoking. I gamble secretly from my wife because she is too much of a threat to me. If she finds out about my gambling and smoking activities, she might leave me too 

Your wife is very simple and she probably loves you so much that she does not allow you to indulge in any bad habits and also wants to keep you away from smoke addiction because it causes cancer. And to tell the truth she wants peace in your family that's why she wants to keep you away from bad habits like gambling. But you can secretly gamble on your smartphone to pass your boring time with fun. and because of your wife's pressure, you can stay away from deep addiction to gambling.

If someone forbids bad habits such as gambling, it is a sign that the person is very kind and sincerely helps to break free from addiction.
I'm sure his wife is very kind and patient with this behavior and I hope leonair can respect her feelings because she only wants the best for her partner.
Always control yourself and gamble responsibly, maybe it's a little easy to say but I understand that someone who is already addicted will find it difficult to avoid it except for the support of his wife.

[Wakate]

That's a funny story but something serious at the same time. Lol. I haven't been in that kind of situation. I haven't been secretly gambling. My family knows I gamble once in a while. That's not really a big deal because I am not an addict gambler. I gamble just for fun. Although sometimes I lose a good deal of money, it isn't something that is intended for something else. So if a significant amount is lost, there's still food, bills are still paid, etc. No serious damage done.

It is very wrong when we are been forced to stop gambling. Gambling is something that we need to decide to stop if we really want to stop gambling but not someone telling us to stop gambling or threatening us in one way or the other to stop gambling. There are people that gamble for fun like you are hi but it is not good when we become too focus as a gambler. Gambling is not something we need to do with our common sense and we should not become too focus and addicted to it like the way many of us see gambling to be an activities that we needed to engage in that will give us the kind of profits that we want.

[348Judah]

It is very wrong when we are been forced to stop gambling. Gambling is something that we need to decide to stop if we really want to stop gambling but not someone telling us to stop gambling or threatening us in one way or the other to stop gambling.

It's not polite enough for an adult gambler to be advised to stop gambling when they are not children, an underaged gambler can be advised to stop gambling, we have to gamble as matured men in a responsible manners, too much of everything is very bad, we can enjoy gambling at our comfort zone with fun as being entertained because we love to gamble and have it to the full whenever we are in it.

There are people that gamble for fun like you are hi but it is not good when we become too focus as a gambler. Gambling is not something we need to do with our common sense and we should not become too focus and addicted to it like the way many of us see gambling to be an activities that we needed to engage in that will give us the kind of profits that we want.

It is very important that we know that not all of us have thesame character and can reason the same way others do, some people don't just know how to balance their entertainment time with their personal life and career with how they relate with the people around them without giving them a second thought about us.

[Aikidoka]

That's a funny story but something serious at the same time. Lol. I haven't been in that kind of situation. I haven't been secretly gambling. My family knows I gamble once in a while. That's not really a big deal because I am not an addict gambler. I gamble just for fun. Although sometimes I lose a good deal of money, it isn't something that is intended for something else. So if a significant amount is lost, there's still food, bills are still paid, etc. No serious damage done.

I’m glad that you aren’t addicted to gambling and also just doing it for fun. That’s how it’s been for me since a long time ago, It’s just a risky activity and you shouldn’t take it seriously as a source of money imo. As far as you ain’t surpassing your limit and paying your bills as well as your family knows about it then it’s fine.

[Youngkhngdiddy]

 I've been in this situation before but not very similar to he's because I'm yet to be married, in my own case I've had more loses than winning, but the amount of cash I make from my  wins in a particular time is greater compared to the number of times I've lost, I do disclose to friends of my winning from betting but find it difficult to tell them when I lose sometimes due to shame of fear of being abused by them.
 But asides from the fact that your different didn't open up to his wife of his winning, maybe he's not fulfilling his responsibility as a man which prompted her to get angry on seeing the amount he's won am kept it to himself or it might be that she's scared the number of times he's lost is affecting his ability to provide as well as becoming a gambling addict and losing more money.
 But threating someone in such matter is not a way of helping them to quit maybe it might have worked for her making him consider her request due to his love for her but she should know that an addiction is not an easy thing to quit and it takes a gradual process with good advise and some therapeutic means to help them other than forcefully making them quit.

[ethereumhunter]

That's a funny story but something serious at the same time. Lol. I haven't been in that kind of situation. I haven't been secretly gambling. My family knows I gamble once in a while. That's not really a big deal because I am not an addict gambler. I gamble just for fun. Although sometimes I lose a good deal of money, it isn't something that is intended for something else. So if a significant amount is lost, there's still food, bills are still paid, etc. No serious damage done.

I’m glad that you aren’t addicted to gambling and also just doing it for fun. That’s how it’s been for me since a long time ago, It’s just a risky activity and you shouldn’t take it seriously as a source of money imo. As far as you ain’t surpassing your limit and paying your bills as well as your family knows about it then it’s fine.

That's exactly what we have to do with gambling. We should not sacrifice money for everyday life just to gamble because, after all, we have to survive and by having money, we can survive. But if we instead use the money to gamble in the hope that we can win, that is not recommended because gambling means that we can lose at any time and when we do lose, we want to recover that loss. And we have to gamble with limits to avoid all the problems that will arise later.

[Shamm]

That's a funny story but something serious at the same time. Lol. I haven't been in that kind of situation. I haven't been secretly gambling. My family knows I gamble once in a while. That's not really a big deal because I am not an addict gambler. I gamble just for fun. Although sometimes I lose a good deal of money, it isn't something that is intended for something else. So if a significant amount is lost, there's still food, bills are still paid, etc. No serious damage done.

I’m glad that you aren’t addicted to gambling and also just doing it for fun. That’s how it’s been for me since a long time ago, It’s just a risky activity and you shouldn’t take it seriously as a source of money imo. As far as you ain’t surpassing your limit and paying your bills as well as your family knows about it then it’s fine.

That's exactly what we have to do with gambling. We should not sacrifice money for everyday life just to gamble because, after all, we have to survive and by having money, we can survive. But if we instead use the money to gamble in the hope that we can win, that is not recommended because gambling means that we can lose at any time and when we do lose, we want to recover that loss. And we have to gamble with limits to avoid all the problems that will arise later.

That's the why a a gambler we need to have a peaceful mindset which is we need to control ourselves and gamble using our exist money because once we get money from our daily need and play gambling because we have the mindset that once we bet we will win then that's a bad idea as we all know that in the world of gambling  there's no assurance that in everytime we bet we gain money. Because the outcome is very unpredictable.

[fullhdpixel]

Now a smart phone is enough for gambling so it is possible to gamble blindly if one gambles in his spare time.  But if someone is addicted to gambling, the addicted gambler gambles for long hours every day due to which his gambling is revealed to his family and relatives. And then he is put under a lot of pressure from his family and relatives and everyone starts to dislike him because gambling is not a good thing in the eyes of the society.

Even if you are not addicted to gambling, some will still see you as a negative person but sometimes they won't stop you on this activity. Being concerned is a different personality anymore and not all have that. Even if we explain gambling to these people, there is no guarantee that they will change their mind towards it.

We can only waste our time so it's better to just ignore them and continue doing what you love. You know there is nothing wrong with you because you are not a compulsive gambler. For those who are a true addict, they need to accept their mistakes and they need to listen to the people who cares about them as this was also for their own good.

[coinerer]

Now a smart phone is enough for gambling so it is possible to gamble blindly if one gambles in his spare time.  But if someone is addicted to gambling, the addicted gambler gambles for long hours every day due to which his gambling is revealed to his family and relatives. And then he is put under a lot of pressure from his family and relatives and everyone starts to dislike him because gambling is not a good thing in the eyes of the society.

Even if you are not addicted to gambling, some will still see you as a negative person but sometimes they won't stop you on this activity. Being concerned is a different personality anymore and not all have that. Even if we explain gambling to these people, there is no guarantee that they will change their mind towards it.

We can only waste our time so it's better to just ignore them and continue doing what you love. You know there is nothing wrong with you because you are not a compulsive gambler. For those who are a true addict, they need to accept their mistakes and they need to listen to the people who cares about them as this was also for their own good.

Gambling addicts don't care who likes and dislikes his activists. so they don't care about their family. but those who gamble only for fun, always think that gambling should not cause any problems for them. therefore, the behavior of a gambling addict and a non-addicted person will never be the same. and those who are more addicted to gambling are the ones who have the tendency to get rich in a short period of time. and as a result they quickly become poorer rather than developing their position

[rojan]

Now a smart phone is enough for gambling so it is possible to gamble blindly if one gambles in his spare time.  But if someone is addicted to gambling, the addicted gambler gambles for long hours every day due to which his gambling is revealed to his family and relatives. And then he is put under a lot of pressure from his family and relatives and everyone starts to dislike him because gambling is not a good thing in the eyes of the society.

Even if you are not addicted to gambling, some will still see you as a negative person but sometimes they won't stop you on this activity. Being concerned is a different personality anymore and not all have that. Even if we explain gambling to these people, there is no guarantee that they will change their mind towards it.

We can only waste our time so it's better to just ignore them and continue doing what you love. You know there is nothing wrong with you because you are not a compulsive gambler. For those who are a true addict, they need to accept their mistakes and they need to listen to the people who cares about them as this was also for their own good.

Gambling addicts don't care who likes and dislikes his activists. so they don't care about their family. but those who gamble only for fun, always think that gambling should not cause any problems for them. therefore, the behavior of a gambling addict and a non-addicted person will never be the same. and those who are more addicted to gambling are the ones who have the tendency to get rich in a short period of time. and as a result they quickly become poorer rather than developing their position

People who are addicted to gambling most of the time do not think about their family they are always thinking about gambling. People who are addicted to gambling have no value in life. Because they cannot enjoy their life properly because they are addicted to gambling they are always thinking where  People who are addicted to gambling can never keep money and soon become destitute. So there is no happiness and peace in their life. Those who can control themselves in gambling and live as fun.  In their case, such cases are very rare.

[danherbias07]

Now a smart phone is enough for gambling so it is possible to gamble blindly if one gambles in his spare time.  But if someone is addicted to gambling, the addicted gambler gambles for long hours every day due to which his gambling is revealed to his family and relatives. And then he is put under a lot of pressure from his family and relatives and everyone starts to dislike him because gambling is not a good thing in the eyes of the society.

Even if you are not addicted to gambling, some will still see you as a negative person but sometimes they won't stop you on this activity. Being concerned is a different personality anymore and not all have that. Even if we explain gambling to these people, there is no guarantee that they will change their mind towards it.

We can only waste our time so it's better to just ignore them and continue doing what you love. You know there is nothing wrong with you because you are not a compulsive gambler. For those who are a true addict, they need to accept their mistakes and they need to listen to the people who cares about them as this was also for their own good.

That's correct. If you know to yourself that you are not crossing that line of being an addicted gambler then there's nothing to be shy about. In my case, my wife sees me every day that I am running an auto bet in a casino game but she doesn't mind because she knows that I don't go as far as damaging our budget or ruining our lives by being too focused on gambling. I mean, that's why it's in Autobet because I am still doing something else which is more productive.
Society will always judge, that's the norm. But, if we know that we are not in the wrong direction yet then there's nothing to worry about. We can just always ignore them because they don't really add any good flavor to our lives, just mere bitterness. Literally. It's not even a threat to our life, words cannot kill people unless we are too soft and will take all their attacks to our hearts.

[bitterguy28]

                             I wasn't threaten by anybody but Myself ,


 Back in the days when i am still super active in Physical gambling (as I live in a community where gambling is bread and butter and part of daily living)

there comes a time when i am thinking of what will happen to me and my family in the future as I never win big and keep losing .

my weekly payroll has been spending and risking for gambling and ending we only have enough for table and no savings at all.

then crypto come to my life in which made easy for me to connect in gambling but realized that I am missing more than half of my life , that is when i start accumulating crypto and lessen my gambling vices , and yes now I only gamble when i have spare money and not to seek to become instant millionaire .

[ethereumhunter]

That's the why a a gambler we need to have a peaceful mindset which is we need to control ourselves and gamble using our exist money because once we get money from our daily need and play gambling because we have the mindset that once we bet we will win then that's a bad idea as we all know that in the world of gambling  there's no assurance that in everytime we bet we gain money. Because the outcome is very unpredictable.

That's why we have self-control so we don't spend much money on gambling. Gambling is okay, but with good self-control, we can manage spending. And for married people, you should really manage family expenses and not interfere with family finances just to gamble and chase victory. We will never always be able to win so we have to remember that and only gamble for fun. Every time we gamble, we can win or lose, so if we manage spending for gambling, we won't have any difficulties.

[borovichok]

That's why we have self-control so we don't spend much money on gambling. Gambling is okay, but with good self-control, we can manage spending. And for married people, you should really manage family expenses and not interfere with family finances just to gamble and chase victory. We will never always be able to win so we have to remember that and only gamble for fun. Every time we gamble, we can win or lose, so if we manage spending for gambling, we won't have any difficulties.

The system is difficult; we has to confront favorable conditions in gambling while applying new techniques that are beneficial to us. We have responsibilities and ought to step in and deliver where we are called upon; most of us are married and have children; we are unable to depend on gambling to provide for our families; rather, we need the basic skills to use our gambling earnings to invest in another business. Self-control is absolutely necessary for gambling; with this attribute, one would be confident enough to refrain from gambling for a day, because we all have our daily budgets to achieve from the system.