Have you been threaten to stop gambling

[Shinpako09]

I haven't been threatened because my gambling addiction isn't severe and I won't let myself go that far. Simply because I've been gambling for so long, I know how it works, and going too far won't help. So going to the point where a threat will come from individuals close to me will not happen.

[carlisle1]

I haven't been threatened because my gambling addiction isn't severe and I won't let myself go that far. Simply because I've been gambling for so long, I know how it works, and going too far won't help. So going to the point where a threat will come from individuals close to me will not happen.

With experience, you will be able to assess on your own if you are already exceeded from your usual habits,
something that you earn from doing it in a longer time frame.

It's good if you have that control and there's no need to wait for someone to tell you that you are not in the right directions
to the point that they will going to threaten you just for you to stop your gambling activities.

[Josefjix]

I haven't been threatened because my gambling addiction isn't severe and I won't let myself go that far. Simply because I've been gambling for so long, I know how it works, and going too far won't help. So going to the point where a threat will come from individuals close to me will not happen.

We are responsibilities to take cate of. I do gamble but more often, knowing the social finance status, ready to take things to the next level. Knowing about gambling is one thing; understanding how it works is quite another. The primary functions that would clear the way for tremendous riches. We are threatened by the crucial factors circumstance around us; it is basically not a solid pavement, but we are left with no other options but to gamble and make cool cash. Faced with gambling threats, of course I would not allow it to come to that, firmly adopting rules that would benefit and bring targets closer connected.

[len01]

I haven't been threatened because my gambling addiction isn't severe and I won't let myself go that far. Simply because I've been gambling for so long, I know how it works, and going too far won't help. So going to the point where a threat will come from individuals close to me will not happen.

that's good. even if you often gamble and you can say you are not addicted yet, but you have good control because before that you already know how gambling works and what you have to do you already know beforehand so you are not too addicted and there won't even be a threat from anyone because Im sure people like you can separate time for gambling and with family or with friends.
I really appreciate people who are like this because it is difficult to control themselves and understand how gambling works and they prefer to take risks and always choose not to be able to control their emotions. because in this situation any gambler will definitely be very bad because they always bet and lose after that gamble every day without thinking about the people around who cause threats to come to stop your gambling.

[ethereumhunter]

I haven't been threatened because my gambling addiction isn't severe and I won't let myself go that far. Simply because I've been gambling for so long, I know how it works, and going too far won't help. So going to the point where a threat will come from individuals close to me will not happen.

It's good if you haven't felt threatened and told to stop gambling and you should have kept it up so you don't get addicted to gambling. But out there, I think some people have been threatened to quit because their gambling is already severe and require them to stop immediately. Otherwise, they can develop a severe gambling addiction. And those who are not yet at the point of being threatened have to be able to keep themselves from crossing those boundaries because we won't be able to realize if we have crossed the boundaries. Only other people can see it.

[Negotiation]

And this is without a doubt a problem as when it comes to small expenses then it is natural that partners in a relationship will have the liberty to spend a small amount of money without telling their significant other about it, but when it comes to a big amount of money then both parties need to be aware of it, and if that is not the case then this is a breach of trust from which it may be impossible to recover if measures are not taken to do something about it.

Small but frequent expenses, over time, can become big, especially if he uses it for gambling. Previously he only used small money, but because he lost, he deposited another small amount, lost again, and deposited another small amount. It's the same as depositing big money but divided into small amounts.

Yes, when there is a breach of trust from their partner, it will trigger a fight because that person can no longer keep their trust. Perhaps, once or twice, it's okay, but if it happens a lot and nothing changes, it will impact his family relationship and both of them.

Damaged self-esteem is one of the most common consequences of infidelity. The person suddenly feels incomplete, unprepared, and wonders why their partner chose someone else. Therefore, being aware of the possible consequences of infidelity will help you avoid actions that you may later regret. But not all forms of gambling give people fun or enjoyment. Life gambling is a defined activity. But those who do not have an innate desire to win at gambling, greed usually works in them, so even after losing, they keep making bigger bets. Then lost and destitute which attacks the family. It is very difficult to give exact instructions on winning in gambling it is based on luck.

[maydna]

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Damaged self-esteem is one of the most common consequences of infidelity. The person suddenly feels incomplete, unprepared, and wonders why their partner chose someone else. Therefore, being aware of the possible consequences of infidelity will help you avoid actions that you may later regret. But not all forms of gambling give people fun or enjoyment. Life gambling is a defined activity. But those who do not have an innate desire to win at gambling, greed usually works in them, so even after losing, they keep making bigger bets. Then lost and destitute which attacks the family. It is very difficult to give exact instructions on winning in gambling it is based on luck.

Maybe it's because there is no communication or honesty with their partner about what they often do but just hiding it from their partner. And I think it will only cause problems in the future, especially if they are gambling but turns out to be caught by their partner and will cause a fight between them. This can become a mess in their family and spread to their extended family when people around them also know about the problem. So we shouldn't be threatened to stop gambling and do it before it's too late because if it's too late, we will get bigger problems that can lead to divorce.

[Westinhome]

This actually happens if there is a similar thread I'll lock this thread.

My friend invited me for a round of drinks just last night to confess something, and that is his wife threatened to leave their house and file for legal separation because the wife just discovered that he's spending a lot of time gambling, she thought that he's just playing games but she discovered his logged because the idiot has his password in the browser, so the wife check his withdrawal and voila his losing a lot of money and she also discovered that he won big money in the past but didn't tell her.

I guess that blew her patience for not telling his winning, so he threaten that he should stop gambling or they part ways, my friend choose his wife so he cannot play until he can convince his wife and promise her to tell her if he won big.

How about you have you been threatened by your wife, your girlfriend, or your parents, if so tell us your story.

Usually people do weekend party with the Jack game is the common thing,we had a friend of four member to play card in the weekends.Actually it’s offline gambling,because we the real money for the game.Every one had their chance of winning based on the cards delivered to them and the show of card using least possibility.My personal experience is my mom found I had use of gambling over a year,at first she thought I was playing online games on my free times of work.But actually I had loss huge money in last year,So I had rarely take part in the monthly expenses of my family.This was the key factor for my mom to find I had involved in gambling.Then she called me and stop the gambling.Then I stopped to play gambling in the home and use my office time to gambling and my friends home are my spot.

[QueenVera]

This actually happens if there is a similar thread I'll lock this thread.

My friend invited me for a round of drinks just last night to confess something, and that is his wife threatened to leave their house and file for legal separation because the wife just discovered that he's spending a lot of time gambling, she thought that he's just playing games but she discovered his logged because the idiot has his password in the browser, so the wife check his withdrawal and voila his losing a lot of money and she also discovered that he won big money in the past but didn't tell her.

I guess that blew her patience for not telling his winning, so he threaten that he should stop gambling or they part ways, my friend choose his wife so he cannot play until he can convince his wife and promise her to tell her if he won big.

How about you have you been threatened by your wife, your girlfriend, or your parents, if so tell us your story.

This usually occurs when a family member discovers that you've been spend recklessly and that in return is affecting your financial stability therefore would come up with different strategies or ideas even it means involving emotional blackmails to help change the person, but in that case his wife is right because as a man and head of the family it's your duty to be financially stable to cater for your families needs and spending recklessly or losing alot of money to gambling when you have a family to feed is not fair, it unnecessary and uncalled for because if you go bankrupt it would really have a negative impact on the family.
 I think most times it's people that have affected their families with their gambling addiction that are mostly threatened to stop, when they don't have any other options or way of  helping them change, and in my own case im not an addict and barely give all my attention to gambling cause i have other important activities to carry out, anyways when i got my first profit from gambling i disclosed it to my siblings and they where shocked at first that i was able to make good predictions but later advised me on the negative effects of gambling and not to take it very seriously.

[Mr. Magkaisa]

I haven't been threatened because my gambling addiction isn't severe and I won't let myself go that far. Simply because I've been gambling for so long, I know how it works, and going too far won't help. So going to the point where a threat will come from individuals close to me will not happen.

      -    We are the same in another angle of what you said, though, I also gamble but I never let it lead me to become addicted to gambling. That is unlikely to happen to me. Because as long as we can control and discipline ourselves in gambling, it will never happen that we end up in that situation.

And this is really what a normal gambler should do, because if it can't be done, it will be a threat to a gambler in the coming days or every time he plays in a casino

[SeriouslyGiveaway]

How about you have you been threatened by your wife, your girlfriend, or your parents, if so tell us your story.

I also had a story like this when my girlfriend found out that I was participating in the crypto market, and she was very angry about it. She said that I had just one choice: either her or continue with crypto. I was so confused at that moment, but I decided to continue with crypto and told her to give me 3 months to prove that this market is good for investing and our future life if we make sensible investments, not gamble. And now, she completely believes in me and supports me so much.

Nope because no one knows I'm a gambler, I only gamble in my room and I always clear my browsing history, so if someone access my cellphone or PC, they will not find if I was access a gambling site.

Maybe you are single and haven't had a wife yet. If not, every one of your single actions will be detected immediately, even if you always clear your browsing history. Wives are very good at sniffing out things. 

[wxa7115]

And this is without a doubt a problem as when it comes to small expenses then it is natural that partners in a relationship will have the liberty to spend a small amount of money without telling their significant other about it, but when it comes to a big amount of money then both parties need to be aware of it, and if that is not the case then this is a breach of trust from which it may be impossible to recover if measures are not taken to do something about it.

Small but frequent expenses, over time, can become big, especially if he uses it for gambling. Previously he only used small money, but because he lost, he deposited another small amount, lost again, and deposited another small amount. It's the same as depositing big money but divided into small amounts.

Yes, when there is a breach of trust from their partner, it will trigger a fight because that person can no longer keep their trust. Perhaps, once or twice, it's okay, but if it happens a lot and nothing changes, it will impact his family relationship and both of them.

True, small expenses can become a problem if we spend that amount of money too often, but at the same time it is not as if a spouse needs to keep records of all expenses as that will be too overbearing for everyone involved, as now they will not have the liberty to do anything without consulting each other.

So a balance must be reached in which an adequate control over your finances can be established, but doing so without restraining some small freedoms to spend in a thing or two you may want, something which is clear the friend of the OP has failed to establish.

[maydna]

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True, small expenses can become a problem if we spend that amount of money too often, but at the same time it is not as if a spouse needs to keep records of all expenses as that will be too overbearing for everyone involved, as now they will not have the liberty to do anything without consulting each other.

So a balance must be reached in which an adequate control over your finances can be established, but doing so without restraining some small freedoms to spend in a thing or two you may want, something which is clear the friend of the OP has failed to establish.

Those small expenses will add up if we don't realize it and stop immediately. And it's best if our expenses can be recorded properly so we can know that we can reduce those expenses and not use the money excessively.

And yes, it may have been a failure for friend @OP but at least he can learn from his mistake and intend to change it to avoid it again. But that requires awareness from @OP friends so they can really reduce their gambling activities and communicate with their partners.

[LUCKMCFLY]

I haven't been threatened because my gambling addiction isn't severe and I won't let myself go that far. Simply because I've been gambling for so long, I know how it works, and going too far won't help. So going to the point where a threat will come from individuals close to me will not happen.

Well, I think you have said all the consequences of when an assignment is acquired, and if you are right they can be like that, in my very personal opinion I am a player who controls very well what is destined to play and lose in a casino For me , if the money that I have destined to use in the casino runs out because I lost it, I will stay away, I will not start inventing more edpepostitar because I will be going against my own rules and that is something that I never want us to be able to and should not do neither in the game nor in the trade.

Now, if a person who has spent their money in the casino and decides to take a loan, it is because that person has the ability to pay in case they lose, whether it be with jewelry, gold, cars, whatever, it is their decision. of the person, now if the person has nothing or capciada of payment, it is a very bad decision to have taken a loan and secondly things should not be done like this because a person who is of legal age and completely of legal age does not have to recriminate nothing, because it was under his decision that they gave him that credit or loan.

In particular, I am a person who would never take a loan to play in a casino. It seems to me the dumbest way to spend money, because it is very difficult to earn with that pressure that the money is lent, I must also emphasize that things are not how people always imagine them, when you take a loan there is the hope of earning the most money, to repay the loan and make a profit, or worse, to go after what you already spent to see if it can be recovered.

I am one of those who think that when there is a lot to spend in a casino, other types of things can be done, but less for a loan because I consider that a loan in a casino is not as necessary as for other things that are necessary, it is In other words, for things that must be paid for health, or emergencies, of course it is my criteria, I don't see any other, but there are some who give priority to casinos and that is respectable, everyone has their criteria.

[Betwrong]

I haven't been threatened because my gambling addiction isn't severe and I won't let myself go that far. Simply because I've been gambling for so long, I know how it works, and going too far won't help. So going to the point where a threat will come from individuals close to me will not happen.

From what I see, you are a responsible gambler, and you shouldn't be told to stop gambling. But if, being a gambler like you described, a responsible gambler, you would still be threatened "to stop gambling" by your close ones, what would you do? What would you say to them? Because I don't think such people would be convinced by the words above.

[fullhdpixel]

How about you have you been threatened by your wife, your girlfriend, or your parents, if so tell us your story.

I also had a story like this when my girlfriend found out that I was participating in the crypto market, and she was very angry about it. She said that I had just one choice: either her or continue with crypto. I was so confused at that moment, but I decided to continue with crypto and told her to give me 3 months to prove that this market is good for investing and our future life if we make sensible investments, not gamble. And now, she completely believes in me and supports me so much.

Lol, that's funny, you are right that some wives are over-suspicious and they would always be looking for things you might be doing behind their back and if you are actually doing something without telling them and they get to know about it, that will either be the last day for you on earth or you are going to be single again because wives with such natures wouldn't just let things go and move on, they would never forget and you will never be forgiven for what you did.

However, not all of them are the same and there are a lot of wives who are too good with their partners, and if the partners hide something from them and they come to know about it, they will simply threaten them to stop doing that or they will leave and I believe that is a very modest reaction to it.

[Slow death]

I haven't been threatened because my gambling addiction isn't severe and I won't let myself go that far. Simply because I've been gambling for so long, I know how it works, and going too far won't help. So going to the point where a threat will come from individuals close to me will not happen.

threatening people, blackmailing people is not a good thing. this type of behavior is unacceptable. I have seen cases in the newspapers and on TV in which the man threatens his wife for her not to go to bars and consume alcohol and when she does not obey then he starts to attack her, and as in many cases the women in my country leave their fathers' houses parents in a very bad way, they fight with their parents to stay with a man, this happens because their parents don't approve of the man she chose and in many cases their parents are right. now something interesting is that when men start to abuse gambling to the point of taking money destined to pay bills and use that money to gamble, when their wives charge and threaten them

men resort to violence against women and it is only after suffering violence for a long time that women decide to leave the man's house, because they realize that the man has no cure anymore, he has reached rock bottom, you see that the woman would be being raped while her sole purpose was to help the man. this also happens with houses where the children are still at their parents' house, the children are lied to that they are paying for college while they are and taking the money to go consume drugs, beer and gambling and when the parents find out and tell them they ask them to stop and change their behavior they don't listen

after some time the parents are left with no choice and send the children away from home, unfortunately when the parents do that, the children destroy their futures forever, they do not recover from the addiction, on the contrary they get worse and the end of them is death, I'm not threatened, I'm not someone who gambles every day, I don't spend a lot of money on gambling, I don't consume alcohol, that's because I lost many relatives because of addiction. So it was a big trauma for me, I always tell myself: I won't follow the same path, I won't follow the same path. I try very hard to have my act of control

[bitcrystal]

the problem here is that he did not let his wife know about it until she found out. telling him to stop is a good thing because she saw some loses which she feels is not good enough especially if it continues and it can affect him and the household at large. i wont be surprised if the wife has been trailing him for a while and expecting maybe the man will tell him about it, some women are like that. if you are gambling and doesn't want anyone else to know should keep it private enough and clear all traces that can make it known. this is an easy thing if you are not addicted.

[Weawant]

I haven't been threatened because my gambling addiction isn't severe and I won't let myself go that far. Simply because I've been gambling for so long, I know how it works, and going too far won't help. So going to the point where a threat will come from individuals close to me will not happen.

It's good if you haven't felt threatened and told to stop gambling and you should have kept it up so you don't get addicted to gambling. But out there, I think some people have been threatened to quit because their gambling is already severe and require them to stop immediately. Otherwise, they can develop a severe gambling addiction. And those who are not yet at the point of being threatened have to be able to keep themselves from crossing those boundaries because we won't be able to realize if we have crossed the boundaries. Only other people can see it.

It's very crucial we don't get to the point where we have to be threatened to stop gambling before we stop the habit of unhealthy gambling, because it's only when it becomes unhealthy that their would be threats to stop if that's the only available means to explore and get you to stop, but then if you are gambling responsibly there will be no need to give you a threat so you could stop.

I have never been threatened to stop gambling because I don't make my gambling habit public and I aswell don't allow myself become addicted such that it becomes a problem for me or people around me, so I have never gotten to the point were I even had to stop or forced to but I do take break when ever I feel I'm already loosing so much so I don't have to chase losses.

It's really not a good thing to get to the point where you should be forced, basically try to control your habit and gamble responsibly for your good and that of people around you, don't spend more than 10% of your income on gambling so you don't get to become addicted while trying to make money off gambling and catch the fun and entertainment in the game.

[Westinhome]

It's very crucial we don't get to the point where we have to be threatened to stop gambling before we stop the habit of unhealthy gambling, because it's only when it becomes unhealthy that their would be threats to stop if that's the only available means to explore and get you to stop, but then if you are gambling responsibly there will be no need to give you a threat so you could stop.

I have never been threatened to stop gambling because I don't make my gambling habit public and I aswell don't allow myself become addicted such that it becomes a problem for me or people around me, so I have never gotten to the point were I even had to stop or forced to but I do take break when ever I feel I'm already loosing so much so I don't have to chase losses.

It's really not a good thing to get to the point where you should be forced, basically try to control your habit and gamble responsibly for your good and that of people around you, don't spend more than 10% of your income on gambling so you don't get to become addicted while trying to make money off gambling and catch the fun and entertainment in the game.

Actually I don’t get any threaten in the gambling,because I don’t accept the words of my wife.But my friend had get big threaten by his wife like she will divorce,if he doesn’t stop the gambling.Because he had loss nearly 4000 dollars in a period of six months in the gambling,actually he doesn’t agree my point of the tactical gambling games.He try the many games with the random bet in the gambling.This was the biggest mistake made by my friend to get this bad situation.Actually he had quit the gambling because of their children and not for his wife.