He Committed Suicide After Losing School fees, And That Of Friend To Betting..

[TopTort777]

I dont think that loosing school fees was the real reason to commit a suicide. It was last drop before he made that decision. I believe that people dont commit suicide so instantly, it is a decision they  came to with time. It said that he has bough insecticide. I think he has planned that suicide. As you can just all of a sudden decide so quickly how to kill yourself, as he had to be sure that it will work, but not just cause damage and paid.

[Mauser]

We are in the 21st century, until when before people realize that suicide does not put an end to problem, but rather create more for those living??

That's really a sad story, but I can't understand why someone would end his life over gambling. The shame and financial insecurity that comes with losing large amounts of money is devastating, but suicide is not fixing any problems. It's the easy way out for the person itself, and everybody else is stuck with the problems. Like you said, suicide is only creating more problems not fixing them. I wish anybody who has thoughts about suicide would think more deeply about the situation. All the debt you accumulated and the money you lost for your friends and family is not coming back overnight, it's not solving any problems for the living. That's exactly why I would not consider suicide a real option, my family and their well being is more important to me than my own situation. I couldn't leave them alone with all the problems. There is always a chance to find a new job and repay the money we lost, life is more important than money.

[Doan9269]

That's a ridiculous and childish kind of behavior, how could he reason to that extent of using his school fees to bet including his friend's own, well on this planet earth there's nothing new anymore, such person needed to be well dealt with, punished and restricted of some rights of opportunities for freedom, if care is not taken, such child can use his parents money to gamble by stealing them from the house or from any other source outside their home, such person should be handled with strict discipline to curb him from further attempts.

[piebeyb]

I dont think that loosing school fees was the real reason to commit a suicide. It was last drop before he made that decision. I believe that people dont commit suicide so instantly, it is a decision they  came to with time. It said that he has bough insecticide. I think he has planned that suicide. As you can just all of a sudden decide so quickly how to kill yourself, as he had to be sure that it will work, but not just cause damage and paid.

Yes, we never know who knows there was a motive for the murder, I also did not delve deeper into this news because logically, if it was only because of school fees, it would not be possible for lives to be that cheap to risk, I think there was another motive behind the death, but we'll just return it on the laws that apply there, I just think this could be food for reflection for all of us.

Children under age or still at school should be prohibited from gambling of any kind because they are worried that this could happen repeatedly and follow the example of their other friends that if they have a lot of problems because of money and the best way is to kill themselves, that is clearly a very wrong teaching and cannot be accepted. by reason.

[danherbias07]

Very sad story.
This is why I don't go far on what I can afford, I don't want to be in that position as that kid where you feel like you are cornered and no one can help you out but just to end it yourself by suicide. It's not the right way to solve problems, be responsible for the damage, or seek help, and there are parents who won't turn their back on you. Yes, they might get mad for a day or two because of your mistake but they will help eventually.
What we can do is learn a good lesson from this especially if we have kids. Make them feel loved so that even at their worst they can always go back and ask for help.
Gambling is such a mess. I was once stressed with a losing streak that made me stay up until 4 AM just so I could chase my losses back until I was left with nothing. I just slept on it but my thought process is still to get my revenge some other time. It was another mistake to happen but thankfully I restrained myself from doing it.

[Doan9269]

Very sad story.
This is why I don't go far on what I can afford, I don't want to be in that position as that kid where you feel like you are cornered and no one can help you out but just to end it yourself by suicide. It's not the right way to solve problems, be responsible for the damage, or seek help, and there are parents who won't turn their back on you. Yes, they might get mad for a day or two because of your mistake but they will help eventually.
What we can do is learn a good lesson from this especially if we have kids. Make them feel loved so that even at their worst they can always go back and ask for help.
Gambling is such a mess. I was once stressed with a losing streak that made me stay up until 4 AM just so I could chase my losses back until I was left with nothing. I just slept on it but my thought process is still to get my revenge some other time. It was another mistake to happen but thankfully I restrained myself from doing it.

The whole story is sad enough and disheartening because of the sad experience that ended it, death is not a live warrant to face even if the worse should happen but we can see how our emotional imbalance and lack of self-control can take us far as to leaving a life of regret, well i think he would have believed that nothing is more left for him to handle or fall back at after this ugly consequence than to kill himself through sucide, the family will wage war against him, the friend that could save him also will be after him because his own money was also involved, it's a shame when we take a risk in which we can't afford to embrace the consequences if the worst happened.

[AicecreaME]

Very sad story.
This is why I don't go far on what I can afford, I don't want to be in that position as that kid where you feel like you are cornered and no one can help you out but just to end it yourself by suicide. It's not the right way to solve problems, be responsible for the damage, or seek help, and there are parents who won't turn their back on you. Yes, they might get mad for a day or two because of your mistake but they will help eventually.
What we can do is learn a good lesson from this especially if we have kids. Make them feel loved so that even at their worst they can always go back and ask for help.
Gambling is such a mess. I was once stressed with a losing streak that made me stay up until 4 AM just so I could chase my losses back until I was left with nothing. I just slept on it but my thought process is still to get my revenge some other time. It was another mistake to happen but thankfully I restrained myself from doing it.

People should really know their limitation when it comes to gambling. Most of these sad and regretful stories come from a place of greed and ambitiousness of the players. I don't know why some can't learn a lesson from others and still be impulsive. Making rush decisions will cost you big time. The same way risking the money you can't even afford to lose or you don't have will make a huge impact on your life. Hence, we should always be wise and responsible when it comes to money. Financial literacy should really be taught at a young age to avoid unfortunate circumstances such as this.

Always remember that life is valuable. Money can be earned, your debts can be paid as long as you are willing and determined. Take accountability of your actions. As an adult, we must be matured enough to face the consequences head on since we decided to do it in the first place.

[Webetcoins]

This is the worse that could happen to one of your family or friends committing suicide because of gambling, the guy has so much guilt about what he did and it becomes unbearable for him, no one deserves this he failed to ask for help on the times he badly needs it.

We should always check out the family or friends for signs of depression and guilt if he has a weak character it will lead to this scenario, if you see these signs talk to him and be with him and urge him to get help from professionals, it's the best that we can do for him.

Well, we can only save someone if we see them having some trouble or if we feel it when they are around but when they are not around us and they face problems and don't discuss it with us, we can't really do much for them, and we all know that what has to happen will happen for sure and no one can really stop that no matter how hard one tries if it's what destiny has to show us, we will surely see it.

Family and friends that are always around us might also be going through hard times and no one knows when the tensions that are building up in one's mind make them take a decision that will put everyone in deep grievance just like what happened to this guy.

[Sirait]

It's really a shame, this is really one of those sad stories that really tell the dark side of sports betting and gambling in general, I could not help it, but had tears rolling down my cheek while reading this story..

Another future father, a future millionaire maybe, young 22 year old boy with a promising future lost to suicide after losing his school fees, and that of his friend to sport betting due to gambling addiction..

We are in the 21st century, until when before people realize that suicide does not put an end to problem, but rather create more for those living??

This is really a sad story though, ya all can read it on https://punchng.com/how-ogun-student-committed-suicide-after-losing-school-fees-to-sports-betting/?utm_source=telegram&utm_medium=social

I hope we all as gamblers learn a thing or two from this, and go back and look at our gambling life and see if there is a thing or two that needs to be adjusted..
I pray non of us, and any of our relative shall ever be a victim of such a sad story 😢😢.

I only pray for the suicide perpetrator and also the family he left behind, hopefully they (both parents) can let go of their child. I wonder how the child's daily life is, are there no parents who control it, this is pure negligence on the part of the parents, they fail to educate their children, they must just be busy making money so they don't know what their children have been doing, even gambling that their children do.

[maydna]

I dont think that loosing school fees was the real reason to commit a suicide. It was last drop before he made that decision. I believe that people dont commit suicide so instantly, it is a decision they  came to with time. It said that he has bough insecticide. I think he has planned that suicide. As you can just all of a sudden decide so quickly how to kill yourself, as he had to be sure that it will work, but not just cause damage and paid.

When someone can't think of how he can solve a problem and suicide is the best way out, he will make a plan to kill himself. So I also think so because a person doesn't immediately decide to commit suicide, no matter what. But he will decide to commit suicide when there is no other way out. They think that suicide will solve their problems, but it will create problems for others. They are desperate and don't want to consider what it means for those around them.

[retreat]

Condolences for the family he left behind, it must be very painful to lose a child at a relatively young age just because of online gambling. Honestly, it's very sad to hear news like this, especially since he's still so young, how he carelessly ended his life without thinking about his family's condition. I don't want to blame anyone for this, but parents should also be able to know how their children are and care more about what their children are doing out there. If they cared for their child and paid more attention to it I think they would have prevented things like this. It's really unfortunate for that to happen, hopefully this won't happen again in the future.

[yazher]

They took their gambling habit to another level and this happened that was a bad story I wonder how it ended up like that because he already knows the money is not supposed to be for gambling and he should not make such kind of decision. But some people are like that and once they are carried away and don't stop themselves from doing things that are not right. they ended up making bad decisions and in the end, they lose reasons to live anymore and also don't have anyone to help them that's why they choose to end their lives thinking it could help them but in reality, it's not.

[Kakmakr]

A lot of people use gambling as an escape from something else.... and if the gambling goes wrong, then they see no future. If you have debt, do not try to get out of the debt, by using gambling.... it is not profitable for most people. 

Also, if you have depression ... rather go and seek help... do not dive deeper into a dark pit of despair by trying gambling to cheer you up. Losing a lot of money is not going to get you out of that situation.   

[freedomgo]

I dont think that loosing school fees was the real reason to commit a suicide. It was last drop before he made that decision. I believe that people dont commit suicide so instantly, it is a decision they  came to with time. It said that he has bough insecticide. I think he has planned that suicide. As you can just all of a sudden decide so quickly how to kill yourself, as he had to be sure that it will work, but not just cause damage and paid.

But somehow, it was the same reason why he decided to end his life because he was really overwhelmed about the existing problems plus, he gambled his school fees which he lost too, eventually. We may not know the real reason why he come up with that idea and carefully planned how to execute it, but we know for sure that he cannot handle the problems anymore and he was already on the edge with nothing hope left.

Condolence to the family

[darkangel11]

We are in the 21st century, until when before people realize that suicide does not put an end to problem, but rather create more for those living??

I feel like the reason for this is these people have nobody to talk to. It's very rare for people who have friends and/or a supportive family to commit suicide.
Suicide is a result of being alone with your problems and feeling like there's no way out. It's important to have someone who will talk to you and explain to you that this is not the end of your life. Money can always be earned back. If you do the math you'll realize that even a large sum of money is just 2 or 3 years of saving up - you can do it. People get 10 year prison sentences and they don't give up, do their time and later have families, their own kids, jobs, businesses. Many people lost their whole houses in fires and rebuilt everything.

[Fatunad]

It's really a shame, this is really one of those sad stories that really tell the dark side of sports betting and gambling in general, I could not help it, but had tears rolling down my cheek while reading this story..

Another future father, a future millionaire maybe, young 22 year old boy with a promising future lost to suicide after losing his school fees, and that of his friend to sport betting due to gambling addiction..

We are in the 21st century, until when before people realize that suicide does not put an end to problem, but rather create more for those living??

This is really a sad story though, ya all can read it on https://punchng.com/how-ogun-student-committed-suicide-after-losing-school-fees-to-sports-betting/?utm_source=telegram&utm_medium=social

I hope we all as gamblers learn a thing or two from this, and go back and look at our gambling life and see if there is a thing or two that needs to be adjusted..
I pray non of us, and any of our relative shall ever be a victim of such a sad story 😢😢.

I only pray for the suicide perpetrator and also the family he left behind, hopefully they (both parents) can let go of their child. I wonder how the child's daily life is, are there no parents who control it, this is pure negligence on the part of the parents, they fail to educate their children, they must just be busy making money so they don't know what their children have been doing, even gambling that their children do.

You cant really blame all into the parents because we arent there into those things that they've been dealing. No matter how you do closely monitor your child but if he/she is a type where it doesnt really open up
problems or not really have that kind of communication in between parents and child then you would definitely skip out on knowing on what are the things that he's into. Therefore you cant really put all the blame into the parents.Yes, there might be some part of their mistake but not totally. This is really that sad that youngsters wouldnt be able to handle out stress and suicide is their last resort or the ones who do solved out
without even thinking that the ones who would really suffer are the ones who had been left behind which is your family to pay up on what you do owe. You might have solved it out via suicide but still
not able to end as long it hasnt paid.Therefore, your life had just put up to useless matter which it is really just a dumb decision to make by someone.

[Tumanggor]

We are in the 21st century, until when before people realize that suicide does not put an end to problem, but rather create more for those living??

I feel like the reason for this is these people have nobody to talk to. It's very rare for people who have friends and/or a supportive family to commit suicide.
Suicide is a result of being alone with your problems and feeling like there's no way out. It's important to have someone who will talk to you and explain to you that this is not the end of your life. Money can always be earned back. If you do the math you'll realize that even a large sum of money is just 2 or 3 years of saving up - you can do it. People get 10 year prison sentences and they don't give up, do their time and later have families, their own kids, jobs, businesses. Many people lost their whole houses in fires and rebuilt everything.

that's for sure, parents who are only busy with their own work matters only give birth to children who don't have a place to tell stories and complain. so it's no wonder that children who grow up in families like that have suicidal tendencies

but it is not explained how his family feels about this news, maybe they have forgotten about the suicide caused by this gambling and focused on their own lives

[BitcoinPanther]

I dont think that loosing school fees was the real reason to commit a suicide. It was last drop before he made that decision. I believe that people dont commit suicide so instantly, it is a decision they  came to with time. It said that he has bough insecticide. I think he has planned that suicide. As you can just all of a sudden decide so quickly how to kill yourself, as he had to be sure that it will work, but not just cause damage and paid.

But somehow, it was the same reason why he decided to end his life because he was really overwhelmed about the existing problems plus, he gambled his school fees which he lost too, eventually. We may not know the real reason why he come up with that idea and carefully planned how to execute it, but we know for sure that he cannot handle the problems anymore and he was already on the edge with nothing hope left.

Condolence to the family

One thing is certain if indeed the student take his own life by drinking an insecticide. this person wanted to bail out of the problem he created due to him being a gambling addict.  Aside from that, the person is so coward that he don't want to face the consequence of his action.  Suicide if it really happen is always a planned thing, the person who wanted to commit it either think of it long ago and decided that is the only way to get out of the mess.

It is a sad story but if the guy continue to be a gambling addict he could have created more problem for his parents, I do not think of a bright future for a gambling addict unless he is treated and is fully recovered, it is that the young adult failed to think that his parents will always be in his side and will always help him and will never leave his side when he is in trouble.  If only the guy had realized that his parents loves him so much...

[Sandra_hakeem]

Why would someone choose to trade his life for something he can never have?? Until you understand the logistics that supports and runs every successful betting site, you'll never how to control your emotions,... Secondly, it's important for every gambler to know when, where and how to stake every games that shows up. For the fact that the games didn't cut doesn't crave much reasons to run into a homicide,...how then is he gonna be playing 'em games in the grave henceforth??
I understand how discouraging it is to keep doing a thing and it doesn't show up productively for once ....I know but that's still not enough reasons to have gone that far.. maybe he needed a therapist?? Maybe not but ain't gonna lie, ion feel pity about dumbness... Everyone's gonna pull up one day - I mean, you can always hold on for your time.
These should also serve as a lesson to Peeps out there that would wanna encourage the mindset of getting into addiction.

Sandra 🧑‍🦰

[Mahanton]

Why would someone choose to trade his life for something he can never have?? Until you understand the logistics that supports and runs every successful betting site, you'll never how to control your emotions,... Secondly, it's important for every gambler to know when, where and how to stake every games that shows up. For the fact that the games didn't cut doesn't crave much reasons to run into a homicide,...how then is he gonna be playing 'em games in the grave henceforth??
I understand how discouraging it is to keep doing a thing and it doesn't show up productively for once ....I know but that's still not enough reasons to have gone that far.. maybe he needed a therapist?? Maybe not but ain't gonna lie, ion feel pity about dumbness... Everyone's gonna pull up one day - I mean, you can always hold on for your time.
These should also serve as a lesson to Peeps out there that would wanna encourage the mindset of getting into addiction.

Sandra 🧑‍🦰

On the time that you do find out that you arent prepared about the risks involved on gambling then you should have avoided it in the first place. It is really just that having that winning scenario on which most people been thinking on the time that they do have considerations on dealing with gambling.On the time that reality would be faced up then this is where lots of losses instead.On the time that you do took up some loan or using up others money on believing that you could able to win and cope up and repay those amounts in time because you do have in mind that you could really be able to make money or wins but definitely we would be
experiencing the opposite considering on how high is the risks that we do deal up with gambling. You would really be taking suicide on the time that you had committed such act or on the time that you cant really be able to pay it up just because you had lost it all.As a minor or someone who doesnt have that kind of stable work or income then you would really be ending up with this kind of option.