Have you ever felt remorse after gambling?

[Gozie51]

If a person gamble and at the end of the game he starts to feel remorse is that a good thing or should the person be on alert?

Apart from the money involved that could make gamblers feel remorse or regret, I think for a gambler why you should feel that way is when you didn't follow your instinct and you bet contrary to what you want to bet maybe a friend caused you to change your mind in the middle of betting what is from your mind and at the end, it happened that you would have won the bet if you had followed your instinct and analysis.

You can also feel remorse when you have almost won the bet in few minutes there is a turn of event against your bet like if a good was scored against you in dying minutes of the game.

You can also feel that way if you eventually won the bet but you staked with very low amount, so you would be wishing you added more funds to your bet that would have increased your winning prize. On the other hand too, vice versa, you can feel that way if you took higher risk and lost the game.

I think majority of bettors regret when they have cash out to pick up but because have greed, they leave it in expectation of a bigger potential win but to no avail, they lose everything at the end when the cash out is gone and the bet is lost also. Many bettors have this remorse certainly 

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[ShowOff]

In gambling activities, defeat is certain, victory is a hope. Many cases have been experienced by gamblers who often suffer defeats rather than wins. Even though most of them regretted having spent money that could have been used for other purposes, this did not stop them from continuing to gamble.
Heartache is only limited to disappointment due to having just experienced defeat, but that feeling of disappointment or whatever will soon disappear when you have enough money to return to gambling. Losing and winning are part of the game, there's nothing to regret when you're losing because it's an unavoidable law of a game.

Feeling disappointed because you lost a bet is common, and of course the average gambler has experienced it. I, you and every other gambler have experienced it but each with a different amount to lose. Of course I don't mind the loss, it's a consequence and shouldn't dwell on it for too long. It's true that winning and losing are part of the game, but when they can't control their emotions, of course there will be many problems due to defeat.

Set a budget limit for gambling so that when you lose you are not too disappointed. You would be fine if you gambled for fun, but not many gamblers gamble for fun including myself and many others.

[pawanjain]

Gambling is risky and can drain our bank accounts; I often felt remorse for my takes action, but it was only temporary, and the next day, I returned to gambling, and this time, I used everything at my disposal, disregarding the repercussions. That is completely one of the characteristics of an addict, ready to place anything valuable to raise money for gambling, but that was my previous life, and I'm a changed guy with good examples. I bet frequently, and I'm able to regulate the amount of my gambling rate; I gamble twice on weekends, and only on games that I'm confident about; if it goes according to my predictions, I enjoy; if it goes against my predictions, I lose; in any case, I liked.

It's not bad to gamble but gambling above your budget is. We should know how much we can afford to lose and only gamble within our limits.
It's always good to acknowledge your mistake and do the right thing. While you knew you were spending more on gambling you still took control started saving.
Not everyone has the capability to do that. Make sure you stick to it and never fall for the money making through gambling trap again.

I agree with you, and I must say that gambling above one's budget is the riskiest thing and one should avoid it at any cost. The ones who get addicted to gambling will gamble without any limits and they lose almost everything with such a low-level habit. One should also be careful to not gamble when his/her mind is in a bad state because in those times people often want to have gratification in the form of winning and unfortunately they forget about the limits. It's always better and secure to gamble only when you are in good modes and your mind is in a happy state, and also to stick to the limits in order to not lose everything in a sitting.

That's a good point actually. Gambling when you are in a positive mood is more beneficial than when you are not.
I remember gambling when I was kind of angry because of losing and then I started chasing the losses in anger and emptied my gambling account.
There's no point in gambling like this and should be avoided at all times.

[blockman]

Gambling is not merely a game of winning or losing; it involves staking one's money.

Thus, there's winning and losing because it involves money.

Many gamblers deeply regret their losses after gambling and squandering their funds.

This is true and the reality that everyone is being set. We do know that whenever we gamble, the anticipation of winning and losing is there and mostly, we think that we're about to lose. By then, we try our best to recover our losses but that's how where our emotions are being played with by the situation. In the end, we feel bad of how we lose and why we didn't take the money when we're able.

[Blitzboy]

If a person gamble and at the end of the game he starts to feel remorse is that a good thing or should the person be on alert?

Apart from the money involved that could make gamblers feel remorse or regret, I think for a gambler why you should feel that way is when you didn't follow your instinct and you bet contrary to what you want to bet maybe a friend caused you to change your mind in the middle of betting what is from your mind and at the end, it happened that you would have won the bet if you had followed your instinct and analysis.

You can also feel remorse when you have almost won the bet in few minutes there is a turn of event against your bet like if a good was scored against you in dying minutes of the game.

You can also feel that way if you eventually won the bet but you staked with very low amount, so you would be wishing you added more funds to your bet that would have increased your winning prize. On the other hand too, vice versa, you can feel that way if you took higher risk and lost the game.

I think majority of bettors regret when they have cash out to pick up but because have greed, they leave it in expectation of a bigger potential win but to no avail, they lose everything at the end when the cash out is gone and the bet is lost also. Many bettors have this remorse certainly 

Its hard to behave against our instincts because of others' opinions only to learn we were right. Thats bitter medicine. Like missing a winning goal. Gambling's worst sensation is losing a guaranteed win in the last moments. It's like seeing the finish line and tripping before crossing it. Disappointment can be severe. When we win low and regret not being bolder, we're happy. When we lose significant bets, we feel terrible. Bigger wins are tempting. Its like passing up a larger piece of cake even when you're full. But occasionally that decision leads to losing everything, leaving terrible regret. Indeed, betting blurs greed and ambition.

[goldkingcoiner]

Losing certainly feels bad. I know the feeling of losing a lot of money due to my stupidity but that has not stopped me from losing even more money in the all-too-near futures after that. Just put it out of your head and not dwell on it too much. Otherwise you start thinking you can win your loss back but end up losing more money...

You're right, I think we've all experienced at some point that things like this, losing because of a bad move feels ugly, sometimes with sadness, anger, of course that turns into remorse with the desire to have a feeling of revenge, and that Sometimes you have to control it, sometimes we must humbly accept that we lose when we gamble, it is the best, since seeking revenge or chasing losses is the worst, because that turns into continuing to lose money, and that is not correct, because gambling In a casino it should be synonymous with fun, but not with pressure, stress or something that turns into a nightmare.

Absolutely, loss is part of the game, and its acceptance safeguards us from the treacherous cycle of vengeance gambling. However, your view banks on players having the emotional wisdom for self-discipline.

Also, consider the socio-political undertones of your stand. By pushing "gambling as fun," you're aiding giant casinos that glorify gambling. For them, its a goldmine, but for others, it morphs into a compulsive demon.

Therefore, I endorse stricter oversight and public enlightenment about gambling hazards. A community-centric strategy, mixed with personal duty, is the future.

Yes, I know what you mean, the only thing is that many like casinos, others like to smoke, others like alcohol and others like drugs, of all the drugs that I would never recommend doing or trying are because that is seeing how a human being is lost, I think that it is the most rotten thing that exists that a human being becomes nothing, I know that some drugs are used for medicine, others to cure, but to a degree under optional judgment made by a doctor, however, since there are many forms of "fun", I believe that all of them in excess are bad.

Whoever drinks alcohol will bring Problems to his life if he doesn't control it , because it can take him to a very ugly critical point Those who like to smoke know that they are killing themselves, I think it goes without saying much , but in a casino No , a casino can give fun and money at the same time, but if you don't relax and take things well, everything It can get out of control, that's why you Always have to be 18 years or older for these Games , because you are under the full Responsibility of the Person.

I have seen how in some families they quit because of alcohol , and I have seen how a person's smoking makes his family suffer a lot because he dies of lung cancer or something like that, so everything under an eighth scheme is what else should be done, when we are 18 years old , we know what we are doing , we know what we are going for , there is nothing to do but do things right to guarantee a good Old Age..

An excess of anything is bad. As the great Paracelsus once said, the dosage is what makes the poison. A person could die from drinking too much water or eating too much food. We are all responsible for our own discipline and knowing our own limitations. We cannot simply say "alcohol is at fault or gambling or some other bad habit is at fault" when the truth is that we ourselves are at fault.

And sure, drinking any amount of alcohol or smoking any amount of cigarettes can be considered to be bad for your health but we need to weigh the bad over the good. And if you know your limits and can indulge in a bad habit without losing control then I say go ahead and have fun. Nobody cares if they live to 100 or only 90 anyway.

[tiCeR]

Yes, I know what you mean, the only thing is that many like casinos, others like to smoke, others like alcohol and others like drugs, of all the drugs that I would never recommend doing or trying are because that is seeing how a human being is lost, I think that it is the most rotten thing that exists that a human being becomes nothing, I know that some drugs are used for medicine, others to cure, but to a degree under optional judgment made by a doctor, however, since there are many forms of "fun", I believe that all of them in excess are bad.

Whoever drinks alcohol will bring Problems to his life if he doesn't control it , because it can take him to a very ugly critical point Those who like to smoke know that they are killing themselves, I think it goes without saying much , but in a casino No , a casino can give fun and money at the same time, but if you don't relax and take things well, everything It can get out of control, that's why you Always have to be 18 years or older for these Games , because you are under the full Responsibility of the Person.

I have seen how in some families they quit because of alcohol , and I have seen how a person's smoking makes his family suffer a lot because he dies of lung cancer or something like that, so everything under an eighth scheme is what else should be done, when we are 18 years old , we know what we are doing , we know what we are going for , there is nothing to do but do things right to guarantee a good Old Age..

An excess of anything is bad. As the great Paracelsus once said, the dosage is what makes the poison. A person could die from drinking too much water or eating too much food. We are all responsible for our own discipline and knowing our own limitations. We cannot simply say "alcohol is at fault or gambling or some other bad habit is at fault" when the truth is that we ourselves are at fault.

And sure, drinking any amount of alcohol or smoking any amount of cigarettes can be considered to be bad for your health but we need to weigh the bad over the good. And if you know your limits and can indulge in a bad habit without losing control then I say go ahead and have fun. Nobody cares if they live to 100 or only 90 anyway.

I enjoyed reading your post because there is a lot of truth to it, but it falls short of relevant research findings. To say that an alcoholic is to blame for drinking alcohol or a smoker is to blame for smoking or, for the matter of this thread, a gambler is to blame for gabling is an incomplete shortcut for the truth. People with exposure to any of these negative things during their childhood are differently programmed in their brains than people growing up under normal and wholesome conditions. The issue is that it might take them too much time to understand that their disposition to exaggerate any of those bad habits does actually exist within them. They find out once they are already in a problematic situation. But that is when society judges them and they feel shame to look for help and consult doctors. As much as many think that they are the only ones to blame, i also think that it is time for society to acknowledge that some have a harder time than others to get back control over themselves and that stigma can be as bad as the addiction itself because stigma keeps the addiction alive as people decide against medical treatment.

[Huppercase]

Gambling is not merely a game of winning or losing; it involves staking one's money.

Thus, there's winning and losing because it involves money.

The guy is talking as if he was force to come play, it actually involved staking of money but nobody put a gun at your neck to stake the money, the better is willing to take a risk because he knows there is chance of winning and there is also a chance of losing, there is nothing to be complaining about if indeed the player is a calculative risk taker and as bettor, if you know your ways, your winning will be more than what you staked because there is no way to gamble without any loss but with a good skill in strategies, money will be made no matter what.

Many gamblers deeply regret their losses after gambling and squandering their funds.

This is true and the reality that everyone is being set. We do know that whenever we gamble, the anticipation of winning and losing is there and mostly, we think that we're about to lose. By then, we try our best to recover our losses but that's how where our emotions are being played with by the situation. In the end, we feel bad of how we lose and why we didn't take the money when we're able.

Guilt will only come when the player have so much interest in using that money and the player used it to stake, this where the guilt comes in because when the ticket fail, anger and how to recover the money start to ring on the head and gamblers that often end in this situation become gambling addictions.

[tusandii]

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It's impossible if someone doesn't regret in the gambling game because no matter how much money a gambler has when they experience a big loss, there must be regret that they will feel.
No matter how great a gambler is, they cannot really accept every loss that occurs.
As a gambler, I also have an understanding and awareness that defeat must occur and have become the most dominant part of gambling, but when I lose because of my own mistakes, a feeling of regret arises by itself and cannot be avoided.

It's true, as you said, regretting losing at gambling is something that every gambler can experience. Regardless of how much they lost, the regrets would still linger. It's okay to regret losing, but what must be avoided is the impact of these losses, especially if they lose in large numbers.

Most of us gamble for money, in fact it is very rare that we find a gambler gambling for fun. But as long as we are responsible for whatever is the consequence of gambling, then the bad effects will likely be minimized.

Regret for a detrimental action is a human attitude so it cannot be said that one should not regret their loss.
Usually the impact of losses is chasing wins to be able to return the amount of money that has been lost and this is a gambler's biggest mistake.

Well, it all depends on each other's goals and as long as there are still limitations or controls that can be controlled, then any risk can be minimized.

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It's impossible if someone doesn't regret in the gambling game because no matter how much money a gambler has when they experience a big loss, there must be regret that they will feel.
No matter how great a gambler is, they cannot really accept every loss that occurs.
As a gambler, I also have an understanding and awareness that defeat must occur and have become the most dominant part of gambling, but when I lose because of my own mistakes, a feeling of regret arises by itself and cannot be avoided.

Almost all people feel a sense of regret after losing and it is quite normal because we lose some of our money. The main thing is that the feeling of regret should not turn into an obsession to try to win back the lost money as in most cases such ideas lead to even greater losses. As I have said many times to protect yourself from losing money that is needed for other purposes is very important to learn to limit your budget for gambling and play only on the money that is not sorry to lose.

But in reality regret will actually be an incentive for a gambler to have a higher option of being able to win games or bets.
Awareness and calm thinking must be possessed by all gamblers so that they don't act wrongly which could actually make the condition even worse.

[skarais]

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Regret for a detrimental action is a human attitude so it cannot be said that one should not regret their loss.
Usually the impact of losses is chasing wins to be able to return the amount of money that has been lost and this is a gambler's biggest mistake.

You're right, so I agree on that.
If a gambler plans to chase losses to make up for previous losses, then he will soon become a problem gambler. Indeed, there is an intention to return losses, but when this intention is carried out continuously, they will realize that the amount of loss will be far greater than the profit they get.

The average bad gambler is one who fails to be a responsible gambler. They are not responsible for losses, but only want wins. Gambling losses should be considered normal and can never be 100% avoided even if you have a strategy. So always be responsible for anything that will be the result of gambling.

[Silberman]

You're right, so I agree on that.
If a gambler plans to chase losses to make up for previous losses, then he will soon become a problem gambler. Indeed, there is an intention to return losses, but when this intention is carried out continuously, they will realize that the amount of loss will be far greater than the profit they get.

The average bad gambler is one who fails to be a responsible gambler. They are not responsible for losses, but only want wins. Gambling losses should be considered normal and can never be 100% avoided even if you have a strategy. So always be responsible for anything that will be the result of gambling.

Chasing your losses is one of the fastest ways to lose your money not only in gambling but in almost any other activity, after all something similar happens as well when people trade and they lose several times in a row, they simply cannot accept this is happening to them and they cannot stand seeing their account being on the red and then decide to disregard their trading strategy completely and chase their losses, and that is when massive losses can be amassed by traders or investors.

[Outhue]

Feeling remorse comes after you lose, not before you gamble every gamblers always believe that they will win and they lost money only to end in depression and regrets, there are certain rules to gambling that every gamblers must take very serious.

1. Gamblers must stay away from taking loans or borrowing money for gambling purposes, it makes no sense and you are not even conform to gamble because you have no source of income.

2. Gamblers must stick to a certain amount of percentage for gambling when they feel like gambling, if you are making some money from your job, take a small part of the money to gamble, you are a man, you have a home, you have your life responsibility, gamble as a responsible man.

Even if you lost money you will feel alright still, because you don't use what you can't afford to lose, as a gambler you need to be in a safe position first and that's money management.

[len01]

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Regret for a detrimental action is a human attitude so it cannot be said that one should not regret their loss.
Usually the impact of losses is chasing wins to be able to return the amount of money that has been lost and this is a gambler's biggest mistake.

You're right, so I agree on that.
If a gambler plans to chase losses to make up for previous losses, then he will soon become a problem gambler. Indeed, there is an intention to return losses, but when this intention is carried out continuously, they will realize that the amount of loss will be far greater than the profit they get.

The average bad gambler is one who fails to be a responsible gambler. They are not responsible for losses, but only want wins. Gambling losses should be considered normal and can never be 100% avoided even if you have a strategy. So always be responsible for anything that will be the result of gambling.

a gambler is too ambitious and self-confident which causes a person to be triggered by dopamine in the brain that always thinks about winning after depositing funds again into gambling to chase losses. bad thinking like this is influenced by too much self-confidence as I said.

so it will be very important that every gambler has responsibility for all things that are done in gambling even if he loses he must stop immediately and clearly know when to stop betting.

[GigaBit]

I don't think that there's any gambler that hasn't for one time felt remorseful after gambling in the history of the game of gambling. Though most of these gamblers will still have to go back to gambling immediately the pains of losing is reduced especially the gambling addicts.
It is believed that there's a level one will get to in gambling and wouldn't be feeling too bad when they lose because they know that losing is also part of the game

Yes it's true every gambler regrets at some point after gambling. Because gambling has wins and losses that is why gamblers mind can be affected. However, regular bettors may regret their losses after gambling and can easily adjust to it. Because they know that winning and losing is part of gambling. I think this happens to all gamblers and will happen as well . However, it is more common in some gamblers and many are able to keep it under control. However, those who lose large bets and try to recover the bet quickly are more likely to regret it.

[maydna]

Feeling remorse comes after you lose, not before you gamble every gamblers always believe that they will win and they lost money only to end in depression and regrets, there are certain rules to gambling that every gamblers must take very serious.

That is what happens to many people who gamble. At first, they feel confident and say that today is their lucky day, so let's gamble. But after playing a few games, they lose more and more, so they regret it. That's common, but that doesn't deter them or rest for a while after losing. They even returned to play and wanted revenge for their loss yesterday. And they indeed lost money, but they are still okay even though they were sorry. We don't have to do that, and if we regret it, we should try to reduce our gambling to avoid bigger losses.

[n0ne]

Feeling remorse comes after you lose, not before you gamble every gamblers always believe that they will win and they lost money only to end in depression and regrets, there are certain rules to gambling that every gamblers must take very serious.

That is what happens to many people who gamble. At first, they feel confident and say that today is their lucky day, so let's gamble. But after playing a few games, they lose more and more, so they regret it. That's common, but that doesn't deter them or rest for a while after losing. They even returned to play and wanted revenge for their loss yesterday. And they indeed lost money, but they are still okay even though they were sorry. We don't have to do that, and if we regret it, we should try to reduce our gambling to avoid bigger losses.

It is the reality of gambling and it takes time for them to understand the reality. People try to stay positive, beyond some point automatically they'll loss the patience. This is where they loss control and increase the bet Value to recover what is being lost. Some find lucky whereas the majority end up losing everything in the wallet. This is where the person think, we should have stopped earlier so that the loss could've got limited. When we think we don't have anything to loss. Thinking at the right time will make gambling enjoying and don't get into guil.

[tusandii]

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Regret for a detrimental action is a human attitude so it cannot be said that one should not regret their loss.
Usually the impact of losses is chasing wins to be able to return the amount of money that has been lost and this is a gambler's biggest mistake.

You're right, so I agree on that.
If a gambler plans to chase losses to make up for previous losses, then he will soon become a problem gambler. Indeed, there is an intention to return losses, but when this intention is carried out continuously, they will realize that the amount of loss will be far greater than the profit they get.

The average bad gambler is one who fails to be a responsible gambler. They are not responsible for losses, but only want wins. Gambling losses should be considered normal and can never be 100% avoided even if you have a strategy. So always be responsible for anything that will be the result of gambling.

The awareness of a gambler will usually disappear when they have the desire to chase victory because calm can no longer be felt and only ambition and emotions are in their minds so that when everything is gone with a larger amount they can only be aware of the swelling of losses until finally only regret feel more deeply.
Becoming a responsible gambler is not as easy as we imagine because there are many obstacles that must be passed such as controlling emotions and finances, whereas when gamblers see that there are decent opportunities they will forget about limits and self-control.

[Josefjix]

The awareness of a gambler will usually disappear when they have the desire to chase victory because calm can no longer be felt and only ambition and emotions are in their minds so that when everything is gone with a larger amount they can only be aware of the swelling of losses until finally only regret feel more deeply.
Becoming a responsible gambler is not as easy as we imagine because there are many obstacles that must be passed such as controlling emotions and finances, whereas when gamblers see that there are decent opportunities they will forget about limits and self-control.

I often feel remorseful for my actions in gambling, but I'm left with nothing than to gambler, either record losses or profits, that's my decision to decide. Gambling is a simple game to learn but a challenging one to master. I've been there, and I know exactly how it appears and feels to become a profitable market gambler. We all have aspirations to accomplish, whether within or outside of the system, but we should be delighted for the opportunity to do our best, and our luck ought to sparkle for us. We make decisions, and we are held accountable for the repercussions of those actions.

[xSkylarx]

Feeling remorse comes after you lose, not before you gamble every gamblers always believe that they will win and they lost money only to end in depression and regrets, there are certain rules to gambling that every gamblers must take very serious.

That is what happens to many people who gamble. At first, they feel confident and say that today is their lucky day, so let's gamble. But after playing a few games, they lose more and more, so they regret it. That's common, but that doesn't deter them or rest for a while after losing. They even returned to play and wanted revenge for their loss yesterday. And they indeed lost money, but they are still okay even though they were sorry. We don't have to do that, and if we regret it, we should try to reduce our gambling to avoid bigger losses.

Even though they felt remorse, they still continued and came back the next day. That kind of gambler won't learn any lesson, even after losing the budget that was intended for others and thinking again about gambling after losing it. For sure, this kind of behavior is already indicative of an addiction to gambling, and if this happens, the gambler can't control himself no matter what. If we feel regret for sure, our natural reaction to that is to play less gambling and save our money but it was opposite to others.

[maydna]

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It is the reality of gambling and it takes time for them to understand the reality. People try to stay positive, beyond some point automatically they'll loss the patience. This is where they loss control and increase the bet Value to recover what is being lost. Some find lucky whereas the majority end up losing everything in the wallet. This is where the person think, we should have stopped earlier so that the loss could've got limited. When we think we don't have anything to loss. Thinking at the right time will make gambling enjoying and don't get into guil.

But unfortunately, not many gamblers want to think about what they have experienced gambling because most of them just want to continue playing gambling. Losing control of gambling can happen at any time, so they need to continue to take care of themselves to stay in control. And if they try to recover what was lost in gambling, we fear it won't be easy, but we'll just have another loss. And people who can win from gambling are indeed lucky people, and they should be able to be grateful for whatever amount of money they get because other people only suffer losses from gambling. If they win and can quit, it would be better for them as they can avoid the losses that could come after the next round.

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Even though they felt remorse, they still continued and came back the next day. That kind of gambler won't learn any lesson, even after losing the budget that was intended for others and thinking again about gambling after losing it. For sure, this kind of behavior is already indicative of an addiction to gambling, and if this happens, the gambler can't control himself no matter what. If we feel regret for sure, our natural reaction to that is to play less gambling and save our money but it was opposite to others.

That's what happened to many people, and I also experienced it

But the difference is that I don't immediately return the next day but a few days or weeks later so that my mind feels refreshed and I don't think about the previous defeat. I did that so I don't remember my last defeat and not think about how much money I lost at the gambling table. And we should indeed gamble less and save money to appreciate better the money we earn for work.