how to get over it

[Asuspawer09]

I’ve turned $1,000 into $100,000
I’ve turned $6,000 into $80,000
I’ve turned $11,000 into $550,000
and recently I’ve turned $4,000 into $90,000

With nothing to show for it…I’m a sharp sports bettor, but I always end up going all in. I can never be satisfied until it’s too late. I always need to go all in.

I’ve been reading comments from my last post (turning $4,000 into $90,000 and losing the entire $90,000), and I can’t help but feel like shit.

How do I get over the countless failures? I’ve been chasing the $1,000,000 dream for years.

You are surely lucky making 100,000$ from 1000$ I mean that's 100x already and you still didn't take a profit from that? All you need this discipline and set your goal here since you already winning set your goal to a certain amount which is possible and not difficult to achieve like probably 2x. Getting 100k you could easily take a profit on 50k$ and gamble the rest at that. You get greedy since you wanted 1million$ thinking that you could win but most of the time that is what businesses wanted so your gonna get hooked and start to bet all of your money. Betting a huge amount at once was not a bad idea but if you make it every time there will surely be a time that you going to get lost and all of your winnings are useless.

I mean that just greed you already win but you let your emotions on it, just gambling responsively was supposed to be fun and entertainment but it might turn into a bigger problem losing a big amount of problem.

[Negotiation]

When you were able to make $1000 to $100k, surely it is possible for you to make $100k to $1000k. You need to follow the same process as that you did to make $1000 to $100k. The mistake from your side is going all in one. At some point you're looking for a much faster way to reach your dream target. This is where the loss is happening and you gonna start from the scratch once again. You're really a great one, because not everyone is able to make it happen out of sports betting.

Maybe he should watch the movie wild card and learn from the gambling experience there, the more attempts you continue to make  keep winining will surprised you that the last move you may attempts will be the last chance that will render you total forfeiture of the entire earnings you been making frombthe beginning, he would have left and be satisfied with the little he has gained than taking risk on the entire money to make the last gamble, maybe he would have been given that opportunity to have something as take home.

I agree, the movie wild card is about gambling and talks about all kinds of experiences here. It is important to take some time to learn the basics before risking money Once you have a good understanding of how things work, you can start placing bets with confidence. Before playing any casino game or placing a bet, you should always set aside a certain amount of money that you are comfortable losing.

[inthelongrun]

You gotta gamble moderately mate. Gambling might give you the chance to earn but you should never consider it as your way of achieving financial freedom. We are supposed to consider gambling as a form of entertainment. This way, we do not have high expectations on our bets. And the most important is to bet only amounts that we can afford to lose which means any amount that we don't regret if we end up losing.

And about your goal of achieving $1 million. Why not start a business of your own? Or invest in cryptocurrencies with long-term goals?

[maydna]

When you were able to make $1000 to $100k, surely it is possible for you to make $100k to $1000k. You need to follow the same process as that you did to make $1000 to $100k. The mistake from your side is going all in one. At some point you're looking for a much faster way to reach your dream target. This is where the loss is happening and you gonna start from the scratch once again. You're really a great one, because not everyone is able to make it happen out of sports betting.

Maybe he should watch the movie wild card and learn from the gambling experience there, the more attempts you continue to make  keep winining will surprised you that the last move you may attempts will be the last chance that will render you total forfeiture of the entire earnings you been making frombthe beginning, he would have left and be satisfied with the little he has gained than taking risk on the entire money to make the last gamble, maybe he would have been given that opportunity to have something as take home.

I agree, the movie wild card is about gambling and talks about all kinds of experiences here. It is important to take some time to learn the basics before risking money Once you have a good understanding of how things work, you can start placing bets with confidence. Before playing any casino game or placing a bet, you should always set aside a certain amount of money that you are comfortable losing.

So after getting that big win, he can use the same budget as before to get even bigger wins. And if he loses, his loss is just the amount of the budget he has prepared, and it won't hurt too much because he still keeps most of his winnings. He could use some of the winning money to try his luck again.

And yes, he needs to manage his finances by not using all his money plus his winnings to gamble in the hope of doubling his money because it's not easy. He can achieve his desired target and enjoy the process by learning all that is required.

[acroman08]

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With nothing to show for it…I’m a sharp sports bettor, but I always end up going all in. I can never be satisfied until it’s too late. I always need to go all in.

I’ve been reading comments from my last post (turning $4,000 into $90,000 and losing the entire $90,000), and I can’t help but feel like shit.

How do I get over the countless failures? I’ve been chasing the $1,000,000 dream for years.

forget about the dream of having $1 Million at the moment and get yourself into a rehabilitation facility because it clearly looks like that you have a gambling problem. you, saying that you kept going all in, shows that you are greedy, impatient and aggressive. you need to fix your mindset and try another approach, it may be gambling again but you need to have full control of yourself so you won't experience unnecessary losses.

[elevates]

I’ve turned $1,000 into $100,000
I’ve turned $6,000 into $80,000
I’ve turned $11,000 into $550,000
and recently I’ve turned $4,000 into $90,000

I’ve been reading comments from my last post (turning $4,000 into $90,000 and losing the entire $90,000), and I can’t help but feel like shit.

How do I get over the countless failures? I’ve been chasing the $1,000,000 dream for years.

Control your greed and you will succeed. You are able to analyze the right team and this is a good skill. The problem with you is that you want to make it fast, this happens because you are unable to control your greed. You can reach your target of $1,000,000 in a systematic way by that I mean you need to break your goal into multiple parts. If you go in all in one go the probability of losing everything is pretty high.

[darewaller]

forget about the dream of having $1 Million at the moment and get yourself into a rehabilitation facility because it clearly looks like that you have a gambling problem. you, saying that you kept going all in, shows that you are greedy, impatient and aggressive.

I am not sure if it's easy for him to do that. All I can see right now is pure disappointment throughout his face. It's going to hard to move on for that kind of losses. Imagine, you are close to that dream but still lose it. We all experience a loss but it's only smaller than his, yet, we are having a hard time to sleep at night so imagine him? Maybe he is thinking about ending his life now but of course that was wrong. I hope he won't do it. There are known suicide hotlines that he can contact to talk about his problem if this forum is not enough.

you need to fix your mindset and try another approach, it may be gambling again but you need to have full control of yourself so you won't experience unnecessary losses.

If he manage to earn that kind of amount before. I'm sure he can still do it but like you said, he will only need to control himself this time and manage his winnings or next move properly.

[zaim7413]

Previously you have succeeded in turning small amounts of money into larger amounts, why should you be confused about the situation you are facing now. The more you progress, the more confused you are with the situation you will face, I mean you will get a win if you are lucky and you will lose if you are unlucky, one of these two sides always approaches you when you are gambling. Greed becomes the one thing that has made you lose control, the dream of getting $ 1,000,000 is like you want to touch the sky with your hands, you can see the sky but can't reach it.

[Apocollapse]

Set a limit and never go all in, as simple as that.

I don't know how much your bankroll for each month, but let's assume you can afford to lose $1,000 per month. So it's mean $250 per week, football match usually happen every week. Keep in mind when you want to place your bet, the maximum amount you can gamble is $250 per week, even though you win in the first week, it doesn't mean you should use your winnings to gamble on the next week. The winnings you make is a bonus for you.

[Jody.Drummer]

Set a limit and never go all in, as simple as that.

I don't know how much your bankroll for each month, but let's assume you can afford to lose $1,000 per month. So it's mean $250 per week, football match usually happen every week. Keep in mind when you want to place your bet, the maximum amount you can gamble is $250 per week, even though you win in the first week, it doesn't mean you should use your winnings to gamble on the next week. The winnings you make is a bonus for you.

So I agree with what you said, if we don't have a limit to bet, no matter how much money we have, we will lose in one bet. You are saying something very true here by describing when we are prepared to lose a certain amount of money in one month, and that is indeed very good money management. Like what you said, maybe we can win in the first week, but there is no guarantee that the same thing will happen in the second week and the following weeks. If we spend our money in one bet, then that is the beginning of ruin in my opinion. It's better to allocate as little as possible even though maybe if you win it won't be as big as when we allocate it to the maximum.

[kamvreto]

Set a limit and never go all in, as simple as that.

I don't know how much your bankroll for each month, but let's assume you can afford to lose $1,000 per month. So it's mean $250 per week, football match usually happen every week. Keep in mind when you want to place your bet, the maximum amount you can gamble is $250 per week, even though you win in the first week, it doesn't mean you should use your winnings to gamble on the next week. The winnings you make is a bonus for you.

So I agree with what you said, if we don't have a limit to bet, no matter how much money we have, we will lose in one bet. You are saying something very true here by describing when we are prepared to lose a certain amount of money in one month, and that is indeed very good money management. Like what you said, maybe we can win in the first week, but there is no guarantee that the same thing will happen in the second week and the following weeks. If we spend our money in one bet, then that is the beginning of ruin in my opinion. It's better to allocate as little as possible even though maybe if you win it won't be as big as when we allocate it to the maximum.

Not all gamblers will allocate funds like that. Those who just walk in with all their money and risk some, end up risking it all because on the first bet they lost and lost, eventually left with no money. Correct money management will help gamblers not lose all their money. Hoping to win, but instead get a loss.
The allocation for gambling may be only a little and being able to lose this allocation, it would be better.

[Fortify]

I’ve turned $1,000 into $100,000
I’ve turned $6,000 into $80,000
I’ve turned $11,000 into $550,000
and recently I’ve turned $4,000 into $90,000

With nothing to show for it…I’m a sharp sports bettor, but I always end up going all in. I can never be satisfied until it’s too late. I always need to go all in.

I’ve been reading comments from my last post (turning $4,000 into $90,000 and losing the entire $90,000), and I can’t help but feel like shit.

How do I get over the countless failures? I’ve been chasing the $1,000,000 dream for years.

I don't believe any of the figures you've spouted but it's an interesting theoretical situation. First off I would recommend that you seek to vastly expand your knowledge on finances and how to diversify your assets. Going "all in" repeatedly is a recipe for disaster when there are only two outcomes: win or lose. Take some time to learn about the stock market. It is not gambling but has plenty of elements of risk in it and you get to learn about how different businesses function. Take a share of your earnings and buy stocks instead, they do not have such a binary outcome - it's possible to sell out on the way down or skim profits on the way up.

[rahmad2nd]

You gotta gamble moderately mate. Gambling might give you the chance to earn but you should never consider it as your way of achieving financial freedom. We are supposed to consider gambling as a form of entertainment. This way, we do not have high expectations on our bets. And the most important is to bet only amounts that we can afford to lose which means any amount that we don't regret if we end up losing.

And about your goal of achieving $1 million. Why not start a business of your own? Or invest in cryptocurrencies with long-term goals?

Ideal as you say. even overall, i agree with you. in particular, why doesn't the OP just invest in Bitcoin. but what is certain, someone has their own preferences and they have the right to do what they want to do, including what the OP did.

And if i refer to this thread i try to imagine. what gambles does OP make, how can he be consistent with the results he gets. for me, this is the interesting part. because referring to what the OP said, at least he has been pursuing for years. can we do the same with him, consistently for a few years. I'm sure the answer is no. because, we only gamble for fun and not for a $1 juta target. so the point here is, the OP really wants to get what he's aiming for and that's his right. unfortunately, in the end he lost it all in one gamble. unlike us, we only do gambling as a fun part of entertainment. plus, add to the appeal of adrenaline while watching the game.

[NicNacCoin]

I’ve turned $1,000 into $100,000
I’ve turned $6,000 into $80,000
I’ve turned $11,000 into $550,000
and recently I’ve turned $4,000 into $90,000

With nothing to show for it…I’m a sharp sports bettor, but I always end up going all in. I can never be satisfied until it’s too late. I always need to go all in.

I’ve been reading comments from my last post (turning $4,000 into $90,000 and losing the entire $90,000), and I can’t help but feel like shit.

How do I get over the countless failures? I’ve been chasing the $1,000,000 dream for years.

OP, what you describe sounds like a complete miracle to me. If your description is true why don't you stop whenever you turn $11,000 into $55,0000. I think you are so greedy that you can lose all your money because of greed. Did you know that gambling platforms are purely luck based platforms. From here you can lose your money anytime. Here you have already lost the $90k you earned from the $4000 you mentioned. You will fall into a bigger failure than you cannot overcome your countless failures. So be content with the money you still have and don't chase your big ($1000000) dreams.

[wxa7115]

I’ve turned $1,000 into $100,000
I’ve turned $6,000 into $80,000
I’ve turned $11,000 into $550,000
and recently I’ve turned $4,000 into $90,000

With nothing to show for it…I’m a sharp sports bettor, but I always end up going all in. I can never be satisfied until it’s too late. I always need to go all in.

I’ve been reading comments from my last post (turning $4,000 into $90,000 and losing the entire $90,000), and I can’t help but feel like shit.

How do I get over the countless failures? I’ve been chasing the $1,000,000 dream for years.

This is difficult to answer as you do not tell us how much time it took you to accumulate those profits or the number of bets which took you to reach those impressive numbers.

At least to me it seems you are not afraid to take risks and make some really bold bets, however while this can help you to accumulate profits quickly, at the same time this does not help you at all when it comes to retain those profits, a good idea could be that once you reach some important profits you change gears and reduce significantly the size of your bets, now this goes against your natural instincts as a gambler so it will be hard to do at first, but if you want to eventually enjoy those profits and use them to buy something you may want then you have no other option but to change your behavior.

[Jody.Drummer]

Set a limit and never go all in, as simple as that.

I don't know how much your bankroll for each month, but let's assume you can afford to lose $1,000 per month. So it's mean $250 per week, football match usually happen every week. Keep in mind when you want to place your bet, the maximum amount you can gamble is $250 per week, even though you win in the first week, it doesn't mean you should use your winnings to gamble on the next week. The winnings you make is a bonus for you.

So I agree with what you said, if we don't have a limit to bet, no matter how much money we have, we will lose in one bet. You are saying something very true here by describing when we are prepared to lose a certain amount of money in one month, and that is indeed very good money management. Like what you said, maybe we can win in the first week, but there is no guarantee that the same thing will happen in the second week and the following weeks. If we spend our money in one bet, then that is the beginning of ruin in my opinion. It's better to allocate as little as possible even though maybe if you win it won't be as big as when we allocate it to the maximum.

Not all gamblers will allocate funds like that. Those who just walk in with all their money and risk some, end up risking it all because on the first bet they lost and lost, eventually left with no money. Correct money management will help gamblers not lose all their money. Hoping to win, but instead get a loss.
The allocation for gambling may be only a little and being able to lose this allocation, it would be better.

No one is saying that all gamblers can do something like that, but not a few gamblers can manage their finances well. If they lose in one bet with the maximum nominal they can lose in a month, then if they want to return to betting with the same nominal, they will experience 2x the loss and that is definitely not something good for a gambler.
I'm sure those who gamble with common sense have considered the risk of losing, but that doesn't mean they have to make decisions that will make them lose a lot of money in one bet. Yes, even though in the end, whatever money we put at stake, it has the same risk.

OP, what you describe sounds like a complete miracle to me. If your description is true why don't you stop whenever you turn $11,000 into $55,0000. I think you are so greedy that you can lose all your money because of greed. Did you know that gambling platforms are purely luck based platforms. From here you can lose your money anytime. Here you have already lost the $90k you earned from the $4000 you mentioned. You will fall into a bigger failure than you cannot overcome your countless failures. So be content with the money you still have and don't chase your big ($1000000) dreams.

Yes there are no words that can be expressed other than the greed that the OP did. If I were in his position, then I would think about stopping for a moment and enjoying the results of my victory. To me, what the OP won was a huge amount, in fact I was thinking, when am I going to win a gamble with that kind of money.
Greed will bring disaster in any case, especially this is a gamble that we know what it's like if we can't suppress our greed.

[BitcoinTurk]

How do I get over the countless failures?

To comment on the situation that you are constantly losing money in gambling, I think it is only because of greed. Assuming that the amounts you specified are correct I think you should set goals for yourself and set some rules for yourself in order to achieve these goals. For example, let's say you gamble with a budget of 1,000 units and have a goal of winning 25,000 units. In line with these goals you need to set the maximum bet amount for each game and when you reach the target of 25,000 units you should not risk to win more. So, considering everything you mentioned I understand that the main reason you lost was actually your desire to win more and that you didn't set any rules for yourself.

[milewilda]

I’ve turned $1,000 into $100,000
I’ve turned $6,000 into $80,000
I’ve turned $11,000 into $550,000
and recently I’ve turned $4,000 into $90,000

With nothing to show for it…I’m a sharp sports bettor, but I always end up going all in. I can never be satisfied until it’s too late. I always need to go all in.

I’ve been reading comments from my last post (turning $4,000 into $90,000 and losing the entire $90,000), and I can’t help but feel like shit.

How do I get over the countless failures? I’ve been chasing the $1,000,000 dream for years.

I don't believe any of the figures you've spouted but it's an interesting theoretical situation. First off I would recommend that you seek to vastly expand your knowledge on finances and how to diversify your assets. Going "all in" repeatedly is a recipe for disaster when there are only two outcomes: win or lose. Take some time to learn about the stock market. It is not gambling but has plenty of elements of risk in it and you get to learn about how different businesses function. Take a share of your earnings and buy stocks instead, they do not have such a binary outcome - it's possible to sell out on the way down or skim profits on the way up.

Really hard to believe with those numbers but we know that everyone could really spout out some words about something like this and like that but in overall it would really be hard to believe that if someone do make out money just like on this method or this way on gambling space then i wouldnt really bother on asking out some questions on how to hit up a million dollar win. You would definitely be having the idea on how to do that sicne you do already have that experience and idea on how to win things then you wouldn't really be bothering yourself on asking the community on why you've been betting on something like this or the behavior.
This is why its not that ideal on believing into something which arent really that realistic to be hearing off. No winner or gambler whose on the winning side would really be making out some questions.
Making those bets on having huge profits and asking on how to win despite of the losses and failures that he commits? It doesnt really make sense on why people do have such approach.

[blockman]

How about you stop for a while and think for many times like have some relaxing moments and meditate? So that you will realize which part of your wins you have ignored and missed resulting in your failures. Even if failures are always there and part of becoming successful, you've got a lot of experience to say on what you must do.

Making those bets on having huge profits and asking on how to win despite of the losses and failures that he commits? It doesnt really make sense on why people do have such approach.

Sometimes we don't understand why they have that approach but it can be explained by them. Well, we may not understand why the approach of them is like that but I guess there's a very reason behind it.

[lizarder]

With nothing to show for it…I’m a sharp sports bettor, but I always end up going all in. I can never be satisfied until it’s too late. I always need to go all in.

I’ve been reading comments from my last post (turning $4,000 into $90,000 and losing the entire $90,000), and I can’t help but feel like shit. 

And I'm sure you will lose it all in the end because you don't have a target to stop pursuing victory in gambling, even though previously you had won four times and there should have been a time to stop to continue. In general, gambling cases will end in the same way if you rely on capital like that to multiply profits and there is always no certainty about how many rounds we will spend and be able to maintain the win.

Having a small bankroll while targeting large profits is not right and it will be very impossible to get a big win according to the target you set. It's better to keep small wins and not lose your basic bankroll capital, so that every time you decide to gamble you have a balance in account.

How do I get over the countless failures? I’ve been chasing the $1,000,000 dream for years. 

There is no way to chase the $1,000,000 dream if gambling using this pattern and your bankroll is the basis for why it is difficult. A winning streak will only happen a few times and when you decide to keep increasing bets then that's where you lose.