I cannot go home if I don't make a lot of money now!!

[Dimitri94]

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

It is necessary to earn money for the family. Without money every human's life is filled with sadness. But the decision you are going to take here can be a message of chaos rather than peace of the family. More money is needed to be happy in life. But it must be valid. But I think it's a different matter if it's not something to embezzle or steal someone else's money. Cryptocurrencies are still not legalized in most countries around the world. So many may call it illegal but I think making money through investment is not stealing. Now it is not being legalized due to various reasons but in the near future it will be legal. I will advise you to invest in cryptocurrency.

[Fortify]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

Things are always solvable but you need to talk to the people you love about it, not hide away and bottle it up all alone - that makes you do silly and irrational things. It's bad that you consider "unlawful and unethical" to be an acceptable course of action, I have way more respect for somebody who cleans toilets for a living than I do for people like trashy phone scammers or thieves. However, somebody that comes out with that sort of statement has already decided that they would stoop so low. What good will it be when you get caught and sent away for a long time to prison, your wife and kids will end up in an even worse position, that's if you don't annoy the wrong person and end up dead instead.

[Unbunplease]

It is necessary to earn money for the family. Without money every human's life is filled with sadness. But the decision you are going to take here can be a message of chaos rather than peace of the family. More money is needed to be happy in life. But it must be valid. But I think it's a different matter if it's not something to embezzle or steal someone else's money. Cryptocurrencies are still not legalized in most countries around the world. So many may call it illegal but I think making money through investment is not stealing. Now it is not being legalized due to various reasons but in the near future it will be legal. I will advise you to invest in cryptocurrency.

To invest in cryptocurrency, you need to have the appropriate knowledge, otherwise you can lose money. Cryptocurrencies are still a young market, and there is a lot of fraud. So I would be cautious about such advice. In my opinion, it is better to look for other options to earn money.

[Davidvictorson]

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

Hey you have to take it easy on yourself. You have to know what is in your control and what is not in your control. If you engage in something a level on or unethical for the sake of money when you get killed in the process without getting the money how do you think you are a few kids and the rest of your family would feel. Personally I don't think that anyone derives joy from spending money gotten through illegal means. While they may look happy deep down within them they have no peace because they know that how they got their money is through the wrong way.

One truth remains that there are people who have it worse than you and are striving so hard to make it the legal way and think about it. Please do not do anything evil for the sake of money.

[GeorgeJohn]

Only thing I need contribute in this thread is advice, because I know quite well that what you need to succeed in life is plan and strategies and with this you can excel any areas of your concentration, making money is determined by your agenda and you can have a twelve agenda's of succeeding in life but it's only few can be actualize, so in summary is that even in cryptocurrency investment you most have option A and B should incase if first option fails you can switch to the second option .

[Lanatsa]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

Things are always solvable but you need to talk to the people you love about it, not hide away and bottle it up all alone - that makes you do silly and irrational things. It's bad that you consider "unlawful and unethical" to be an acceptable course of action, I have way more respect for somebody who cleans toilets for a living than I do for people like trashy phone scammers or thieves. However, somebody that comes out with that sort of statement has already decided that they would stoop so low. What good will it be when you get caught and sent away for a long time to prison, your wife and kids will end up in an even worse position, that's if you don't annoy the wrong person and end up dead instead.

You would really be ending up with that kind of emotion and thinking on which it do seems that you are in great trouble because you do believe that your family or your wife would really be like that but most of the time which money isnt everything as long the family members do able to get and survive on day to day needs then it would really be just enough but still depending on your wife because there are ones who are really having that high standards or expectations when it comes to their family situation or condition on which some wont really be that contented on what they do have.

We dont actually know the story on why OP having this kind of mindset or maybe she had a wife on having that kind of standard? Good wife wouldnt really be minding about on those money
because she had married you on what you are on the first place, unless if you've been a rich guy before and now get bankrupt?

[GeorgeJohn]

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

It is necessary to earn money for the family. Without money every human's life is filled with sadness. But the decision you are going to take here can be a message of chaos rather than peace of the family. More money is needed to be happy in life. But it must be valid. But I think it's a different matter if it's not something to embezzle or steal someone else's money. Cryptocurrencies are still not legalized in most countries around the world. So many may call it illegal but I think making money through investment is not stealing. Now it is not being legalized due to various reasons but in the near future it will be legal. I will advise you to invest in cryptocurrency.

My advice is that their is no need of encouraging someone to invest in cryptocurrency with all his funds because we all know that government is against cryptocurrency especially bitcoin when someone is investing in cryptocurrency the person should have a 99% that bitcoin is not legalized generally or worldwide because bitcoin each country government have it policy and power of restricting the existence of bitcoin around the country geographical environment and it will happen since its government order, so investing in cryptocurrency especially bitcoin we have to take precautions

[TelolettOm]

Money is needed but you seems too much thinking about money.

The term of lot of money can be different among people. How much money do you think enough for you?
Anyway, whatever the amount of money will be always not enough for any people, we always want more and more. So, I believe it is difficult to determine how much money money that can be classified 'a lot of money' for you.

Dude, home should be the most comfortable place for us. It is just a wrong perception if you feel uncomfortable to go home whatever the reason is. Your family members must understand you although you can get the money as expected. Go for work is a must, but sometimes we can't determine how much money to get. Personally, I will be happy to go home whatever he money I got from my job.

[Uruhara]

OP I think the answer is that it will remain the same, that is, you have to work harder and need to be more patient and learn more to be able to increase your income. Having extra income and also building relationships is important to improve your business in the future.

I think you have to start not being afraid to face your own family. Trust me if you can explain your situation to your family. then little by little they will understand. wouldn't the family be together in joy or sorrow. I think family support is also needed to increase your motivation.

hope you get the best way friend.

[Asuspawer09]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

Sounds like you're getting a lot of pressure, I mean no one pressure you to do this kind of thing for sure if they are your family they are going to easily understand this kind of thing this was just normal so I suggest telling them what you really feel right now, I think you just need to let this thing out on your chest so share it to your family. It's always okay to fail, being a failure doesnt mean anything unless you live on that failure you could always get up and take another step. You just need to realize that these failures are just normal and it is part of being successful, I don't know anyone who become successful that didn't experience or fail at some point in his life. Actually, this failure is what gives you the knowledge and experience to become even better.

At this point I think the best thing to do is to invest in your skills, the most stable income you could make is your job so invest in your skills with that you could easily land high paying job, and after that you could easily save and invest your money to be able to invest on other sources of income like business, passive incomes like apartments, etc.

[rojan]

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

It is necessary to earn money for the family. Without money every human's life is filled with sadness. But the decision you are going to take here can be a message of chaos rather than peace of the family. More money is needed to be happy in life. But it must be valid. But I think it's a different matter if it's not something to embezzle or steal someone else's money. Cryptocurrencies are still not legalized in most countries around the world. So many may call it illegal but I think making money through investment is not stealing. Now it is not being legalized due to various reasons but in the near future it will be legal. I will advise you to invest in cryptocurrency.

The happiness and peace of a person's life is completely dependent on money. Now it can be seen that if someone does not have money then that person has no value. So I think that money has a big role in making a person live well. But if that money is illegally earned.  No one will have that happiness and peace for long. And if it is earned in halal way then the happiness and peace will be permanent. But I like the advice you have given. We can earn money by trading.  I don't think it's illegal.

[isaac_clarke22]

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

Not sure where you reside from, OP but in reality, nobody will ever tell ya how to make "a lot" of money. It's just like the usual "get yourself out there". If people would tell ya, how to earn money, surely anybody else had milked the crap out of that way.

For cheap starter, just work for a fast food chain and you might be able to earn a penny or two. It's not just something that people would tell you upfront.

The happiness and peace of a person's life is completely dependent on money. Now it can be seen that if someone does not have money then that person has no value. So I think that money has a big role in making a person live well. But if that money is illegally earned.  No one will have that happiness and peace for long. And if it is earned in halal way then the happiness and peace will be permanent. But I like the advice you have given. We can earn money by trading.  I don't think it's illegal.

Money can indeed buy happiness. You can buy a peace of mind with it. Nobody wants to fall behind bills.
The value of a person is quite different though as I believe that's like a family dependent situation wherein you'll be looked down when you don't have a job.

[Dr.Osh]

when you have a job and are afraid of being fired, then you need to prepare for the worst possibility and make a solution. investing, or building another business is the solution to that. you can look for additional work. in fact, you can teach your wife how to sell a product. because I think your wife will definitely help and support you if you make an effort. when you are afraid of something, then you need to find a solution from it. settling at one job is not the solution to how you feel. try to learn and explore the knowledge of investing.

[Vishnu.Reang]

We cannot say money is not important, if someone is saying money is not important then he/she must have to be a mad or a monk. Money is important but money is not life, money is not everything. That much understanding should be within us. Money is just like petrol, what is the importance of petrol in our life? we cannot use petrol like perfume in our body because it is flammable in same we if we start use money in our life then there will be flame which is known as anger, frustration and jealousy etc. We need to use money to move forward in life after all metal peace is ultimate.

[user210822]

I can see  plenty of moralist around. But did you look to outside world? Who has the most wealth and respect for their income? How was it earned? The biggest crooks are the most rich. Crypto society even not close to those levels as it is way too behind actual wealth... Sorry to look so pessimistic but look around yourself! We are not surrounded by pink ponies...

[bakasabo]

There is no way OP gonna make a lot of money just by getting advices here on there forum. OP is looking for an easy way, but there is no solution to get a lot of money except working hard or being a very lucky guy. There is no magic pill or short path to money. Be strong, act like an adult, but not as the same scared kid that is afraid to act and take adult decisions. Go home, have a rest and start searching for a side job (we have a nice topic here - Does a side job/business improve your finanical stability ?) or improve your skills that you use at work to become irreplaceable, so no one would fire your or cut your salary.

[judaspriest]

It is necessary to earn money for the family. Without money every human's life is filled with sadness. But the decision you are going to take here can be a message of chaos rather than peace of the family. More money is needed to be happy in life. But it must be valid. But I think it's a different matter if it's not something to embezzle or steal someone else's money. Cryptocurrencies are still not legalized in most countries around the world. So many may call it illegal but I think making money through investment is not stealing. Now it is not being legalized due to various reasons but in the near future it will be legal. I will advise you to invest in cryptocurrency.

To invest in cryptocurrency, you need to have the appropriate knowledge, otherwise you can lose money. Cryptocurrencies are still a young market, and there is a lot of fraud. So I would be cautious about such advice. In my opinion, it is better to look for other options to earn money.

True sometimes people forget the importance of having knowledge,
investing or trading in cryptocurrencies is so complicated and full of risks that when we have no preparation even empty knowledge it will be easy to lose money,
think carefully before entering the crypto market.

[Lida93]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

First, it's not right to do something wrong just to have a lot of money, someone as determined will do everything just to earn a living even though he's not used to it just for the sake of the people who depend on him he will do it even if it is difficult.
Rather than doing something illegal that can harm you, if something bad happens to you, what if the people who depend on you are a bigger problem if you leave them. That's why it's still good to do good so you can reap good results.

It's so disheartening seeing how OP is pouring out his frustration in a very uncontrollable manner, despite how sympathetic it seems, indulging in illegal activities as an option to make money isn't a welcome idea entirely. For him to have a job despite how underpaying it is, it then mean he's giving value and he should diversify such value by directing it to others areas of good sources of income through the internet,  Google KDP for instance and numerous of others.

If he's caught in the act of crime and convicted it's most definitely that the very family he thinks he wants to give a better life would rather be living in the opposite. OP needs to redefine his position for the sake of those he claims to care about.

[tjtonmoy]

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

Chill out man, your life isn't over yet. Hardship doesn't make you weak, if you can overcome this, it will only make you stronger. And if you are afraid to tell your problems to your family, then seek help. Talk to them and create a good relationship with them. They should support you throughout all your situations.  Trust me I have faced the same situation in life. To a level where I was dedicated to killing myself. Life was so miserable back then. So I took a break and went back to my family. After some hard work, now I am doing quite well.
One thing that I have learned, you should never give up. Situations like this will come and go. But the people around you should support you in every ups and downs in your life. So go back to your family, and explain everything. Hopefully, they will understand and support you. Then work hard to get back on your feet. Don't go for unlawful and unethical work which will ruin your relationship with your family later on.

One piece of advice I would give to you is that, make savings for emergency situations like this. You never know what could happen to you at which time. Take proper action before that happens. And hopefully, you will become successful again in life. Don't lose hope because God is the best planner. Cheers.

[slapper]

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Sounds like you're getting a lot of pressure, I mean no one pressure you to do this kind of thing for sure if they are your family they are going to easily understand this kind of thing this was just normal so I suggest telling them what you really feel right now, I think you just need to let this thing out on your chest so share it to your family. It's always okay to fail, being a failure doesnt mean anything unless you live on that failure you could always get up and take another step. You just need to realize that these failures are just normal and it is part of being successful, I don't know anyone who become successful that didn't experience or fail at some point in his life. Actually, this failure is what gives you the knowledge and experience to become even better.

At this point I think the best thing to do is to invest in your skills, the most stable income you could make is your job so invest in your skills with that you could easily land high paying job, and after that you could easily save and invest your money to be able to invest on other sources of income like business, passive incomes like apartments, etc.

Obviously, we're not all created equal. We don't all start from the same place or have access to the same chances and resources because of this. Claiming that "failure is normal" is an elitist viewpoint. What if this individual is confronted with structural barriers, such as poverty or discrimination?

It's easier to say "invest in your skills" than to really do so. But what if they are financially unable to pursue further learning or acquire new skills? It's a fantastic idea if you have some extra cash lying around, but not if you have to budget every penny.

Your suggestions, while superficially sensible, ignore the inequalities of life. What about issues like unemployment, low salaries, and inequality of opportunity that plague our society as a whole? It's not always as easy as "falling down, picking yourself up, and trying again," is it?