I cannot go home if I don't make a lot of money now!!

[bayu7adi]

If you wanted to earn a lot of money, then multiplying your time is the key.  In short, work smarter and even harder.  You can start by getting side jobs and saving or investing the money you earn from it.

I concur with the notion of saving, albeit refraining from investing until one possesses a solid grasp of mathematical concepts. Deliberate calculations are paramount in the realm of investments to ensure that each decision made holds a higher probability of yielding profits.

It would be wise to engage in discussions with one's spouse regarding investment funds, ensuring that the allocation of investments does not impede the allocation of basic necessities. In essence, one should labor diligently and fulfill their fundamental needs first. Once an ample amount has been accumulated in savings, it can be employed for future projections, such as seeking expert financial advice for investment opportunities.

[kro55]

Previously, did your mother demand that you always get good scores in a math test? If not, why should you be afraid. Excessive fear will make you more trapped in nightmares, you will find it difficult to be creative if you cannot get rid of fear. Regarding the money you have to take home depending on your job, normally in one line of work you can bring home $10 or $15 each day. Don't be too pressured to bring home $20 because you have to work overtime to get more benefits.
Remember, Money can be found, health cannot be bought. Your health is more important than having to make more money to take home.

Well I agree with you. it seems OP is always depressed and doesn't prioritize his own situation. I wish OP could be more open with his family in all situations. And I think they'll understand with every situation the OP is in. And I think what happened to OP may be caused by trauma in childhood that can be embedded into adulthood. That is when parents always demand that their children always get perfect scores. i have a friend who has parents like that. and my friend sometimes looks depressed with his life at that time. But now he is already successful.

I don't think he was influenced by his childhood, maybe he was in a situation where he was forced to have a lot of money that he didn't explicitly tell us about. We all know that health is important and we shouldn't overwork, but it depends on our circumstances. If you need money for surgery for your child or loved one, you have to do more and will not dare to go home without enough money, which is normal. Can you sleep when your child's life or death depends on you? I believe the knitting OP is in such a predicament.

You are absolutely right. I forgot and have no thought until the possibility of the problem. Yes, a situation like that might also happen. but I hope the OP is not in such a situation. I hope he is not in a painful enough situation like that. but thanks guys for letting me see things from a perspective that I didn't think about before.

The OP didn't speak clearly about his situation and misled many people. It can be said that I have had the same difficulty as him when not being able to earn enough money to provide for the family's main meal and coming home after a day of work is a terrible thing. If you have been in that situation, you will understand when you come home from work and see your children standing at the door waiting for their father, but then you will disappoint them after that. As a father, it is an indescribable torment. But luckily, my life has improved a lot now, and I have almost everything I need.

[smile1218]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

It seems that you grew up in a negative environment. As a grew up my i never experienced to be scared on failing my grades because my parents did not set a very high expectation. They just let me study and supported me weather i get a  high or low grade. They do not demand and pressure me to study very hard and get this grades. This is just a suggestion do not do to your children what you had experienced when you are growing up. Being in that kind of situation it can affect their mental health and the fear deep inside them will grow and it will stays in their heart and mind forever. For you to be able to make a lot of money you have to find other means like finding a side job, creating your own business etc. If you will pursue your target goals then you will be able to earn a lot of money. Just be patient and work hard.

[lienfaye]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home,

Scared to go home because of low grades or got fired to work doesn't look good. Is your parents treats you bad before? Is your wife often complain about your salary or threatening you? It seems like you're not in a good situation where someone can understand what you've been going through.

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

No matter how bad your situation is, don't ever think of doing unlawful/unethical work just to get money. Sure you can have money for doing so, but there's a consequences that you'll certainly regret later on. So think positively on how you can maximize your earnings, and think of ways on how to lessen your burden.

[RewFrew]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

Our life is not a bed of rose. Every step of our life is difficult and challenging. So we have to every task care fully and right way. From student life our straggle start and it were continue to family life even till death. So for prosper in life we should industrious. So we shouldn’t afraid in any work.

As our family members dependable to us so we have to earn money for family maintenance. It should be legal way. Because illegal income will not be peaceful. So we need legal income. There are many way to earn money like government service or non government service. Besides service cryptocurrency is also to be earning source. In crypto market there has many way to earn money. Like airdrop, trading and investment. If anyone touch with crypto market i think gradually his economic crisis will solve.

[rahmad2nd]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

A little funny reading this thread, why, yes considering my almost similar childhood. I don't remember the details, but the upbringing of parents then and now is very different. we are taught not only about formal lessons at school, but there are many values ​​of life, whether ethics, culture, religion, hard work, desire, intention, and whatever it is we must have good grades. if not, there will be consequences of punishment from my parents. my parents' upbringing patterns in the past, embedded in my personal life.

The point is, if we want to produce results, we have to work hard to make it happen. that's why, I prefer the old school pattern even though it's too harsh.

referring to what you said, I do not know what is the essence of the problem you are facing. but believe me if you open yourself a little more and explore the potential that is within you, you will find something you want. at least, it's better than you despair with the fear you face. Anxiety that is too high becomes a separate problem that can prevent you from becoming much more developed. You can do many ways, yep, to get money, however, there are ways to make it happen. It's not easy indeed, but in order for your financial economy to be better, you yourself determine the answer. In fact, fate is in your own hands.

[Uruhara]

You are absolutely right. I forgot and have no thought until the possibility of the problem. Yes, a situation like that might also happen. but I hope the OP is not in such a situation. I hope he is not in a painful enough situation like that. but thanks guys for letting me see things from a perspective that I didn't think about before.

The OP didn't speak clearly about his situation and misled many people. It can be said that I have had the same difficulty as him when not being able to earn enough money to provide for the family's main meal and coming home after a day of work is a terrible thing. If you have been in that situation, you will understand when you come home from work and see your children standing at the door waiting for their father, but then you will disappoint them after that. As a father, it is an indescribable torment. But luckily, my life has improved a lot now, and I have almost everything I need.

Even though I've never experienced it. but after reading what you wrote here. I seem to understand a bit and it seems that in a situation like a father's heart it really is like being stabbed by an invisible dagger. The father must have wanted to cry. but he couldn't do it because a father must always look strong in front of his children.

I am grateful that your situation has improved. and I hope you are more successful friend. and hopefully everyone who is in a situation that is not easy can get up soon and get a better life.

[n0ne]

The need for money keeps increasing as the inflation keeps rising with time. When a person gets into family life, automatically people get much committed and need for money once again keeps rising. To tackle and handle situations there is need of more additional earnings.

When one isn't able to make money, the he/she should make plans to live with what is available. Both needs to be mutually supportive, only then it is possible to lead the life in a better way than just getting pressurised.

[Swordsoffreedom]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

It seems that you grew up in a negative environment. As a grew up my i never experienced to be scared on failing my grades because my parents did not set a very high expectation. They just let me study and supported me weather i get a  high or low grade. They do not demand and pressure me to study very hard and get this grades. This is just a suggestion do not do to your children what you had experienced when you are growing up. Being in that kind of situation it can affect their mental health and the fear deep inside them will grow and it will stays in their heart and mind forever. For you to be able to make a lot of money you have to find other means like finding a side job, creating your own business etc. If you will pursue your target goals then you will be able to earn a lot of money. Just be patient and work hard.

The OP's story reminds me of the bitcoin education for kids discussed recently on the forum. Many parents are forcing their children to learn bitcoin when they are too young, and they are always asking their children to learn bitcoin by all means without regard for their feelings. That will not bring any benefit, but on the contrary, it will cause their children to have a negative childhood, affecting their future like what OP is going through.
Each child is an individual and has a different stage of development, so parents should not force their children too much but let them grow up on their own

[Marykeller]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

Don't let your fear of the unknown cause you to take the wrong turn because you are worried about losing your job and not being able to support your family.

You already have a job, stick to it. Do your best to uphold honesty in all of your dealings, and abstain from using any sort of money-making shortcuts. Nobody lives to enjoy their illegally obtained wealth. You will avoid the unjustified crime that you can't handle when caught if you are aware of the kind of danger that people who engage in illegal activity subject themselves to and pass through. It's important to first understand your origins before any other illegal action comes to your mind.

A word is enough for the wise and it would be unwise for a family man to think of going into an illegal means of making money in this 21st century when there is so many business he can involve with online.

[Broly46]

i'm glad, there is too many comments and i didn't read them yet, but i forget to add when i am about to die, i also need to grind very hard. if the child end up going spoilt, or go to internet to upload every degenerated contents, or do all the funny clown all over the place, son end up thug life instead of inheriting bloodline, daughter end up whoring herself to every dick she craving, because she would hit the wall by 30yo anyway why not yolo. my retirement might be at stake of collapsing too, the fear of getting zero mark in retirement make me an insomnia, control-freak, insecured about everything. i need to make more money, more money give me more control over people and have a sweet retirement.

[Ojima-ojo]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

Well same apply to everyone in here and kids wi alwabe kids and that fear in them make them to seat up and work hard to earn higher marks in the next test because they know that mum is a no nonsense disciplinarian unlike dad.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

Life become a cycle and until you attain the financial stability that could take care of all of your bills and at the same time having a lot of savings that way you may not be under pressure when your source of income witness a delay.


In other news, you don't need to put yourself under high pressure because of that but you need to fine other sources of income because if your income is diversified it make your pressure to be less than having a single source.

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mmeansunlawful and unethical!

You said you are ready to do anything to make money,  that mindset could lead you into crime and other activities that could affect your well being in the long run.

[Fatunad]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

It seems that you grew up in a negative environment. As a grew up my i never experienced to be scared on failing my grades because my parents did not set a very high expectation. They just let me study and supported me weather i get a  high or low grade. They do not demand and pressure me to study very hard and get this grades. This is just a suggestion do not do to your children what you had experienced when you are growing up. Being in that kind of situation it can affect their mental health and the fear deep inside them will grow and it will stays in their heart and mind forever. For you to be able to make a lot of money you have to find other means like finding a side job, creating your own business etc. If you will pursue your target goals then you will be able to earn a lot of money. Just be patient and work hard.

The OP's story reminds me of the bitcoin education for kids discussed recently on the forum. Many parents are forcing their children to learn bitcoin when they are too young, and they are always asking their children to learn bitcoin by all means without regard for their feelings. That will not bring any benefit, but on the contrary, it will cause their children to have a negative childhood, affecting their future like what OP is going through.
Each child is an individual and has a different stage of development, so parents should not force their children too much but let them grow up on their own

Being early is good but its not really that something that should really be forced on doing so because if you do able to do such thing then you would really be definitely be able to stir up their minds and might be ending up
on things which arent you that expecting. Forcing something on early age would definitely be giving out that kind of possible effect which might led into lost of interest or missing out those things which are supposed to be
done first or would cherish out first specially when they are young. You would definitely make them more stressed if you try to force on learning something just because you do really like in doing so.
Always be considerate on other factors or things.

In regarding in the situation on which you cant really be able to go home just because you dont have that much money on which your wife expecting into is such a bullshit story. You've been married
and able to earn things according into your job. How your wife would really be not letting you on going home without bringing money in the first place?
Unless if you have spend it all in other things around.

[Uruhara]

i'm glad, there is too many comments and i didn't read them yet, but i forget to add when i am about to die, i also need to grind very hard. if the child end up going spoilt, or go to internet to upload every degenerated contents, or do all the funny clown all over the place, son end up thug life instead of inheriting bloodline, daughter end up whoring herself to every dick she craving, because she would hit the wall by 30yo anyway why not yolo. my retirement might be at stake of collapsing too, the fear of getting zero mark in retirement make me an insomnia, control-freak, insecured about everything. i need to make more money, more money give me more control over people and have a sweet retirement.

It seems that your position is indeed much heavier than we imagined. But I believe you are a strong person and a person who has high motivation to continue to survive and fight harder. Because somehow I always think that the people who come to this forum are highly motivated people. they fight for life and will never give up. Well, sometimes a lot of money does make us more valued by anyone, including our family. I wish the best for you and your family. never stop giving advice to your family. and believe me one day everything will return to be good again.

[Adams0001]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

Money isn't everything; you can't buy back a lost loved one's life, knowledge, or true friends. The goal of money is to be able to save it in order to buy things (purchasable, of course) that you need or want, and that will better your life or the lives of others. If you have money but don't know what to do with it, he can't stay long. If you have money but don't know what to do with it, you should look for a job or start a small business that will pay you every day or monthly, and then think about investing in something that will pay you for a long time.

[panganib999]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

Is that self-imposed pressure or are you putting this stress upon yourself? Cause if you'd ask me, provided that you're still young, if your parents are putting you in too much pressure like that I'd say you're better off leaving them the first chance you get. No child should feel this stressed upon reaching dreams that their parents set up for them. You're not an insurance plan. If you're putting this upon yourself, I'd say you should actually take it easy my friend. I'm guessing you're at a point in your life where you don't have to really go through so much stress and pressuring yourself like that isn't going to help you ace your exams or whatnot. Plus, just cause you failed one class or something doesn't mean you're a goner. A lot of my friends weren't really textbook smart but now they're even more successful than me, it's all about what you would do after school that would matter the most in life.

[Learn Bitcoin]

Is that self-imposed pressure or are you putting this stress upon yourself?

Of course, it's self-imposed pressure. Look, suppose you are the one who takes care of your family, and you are the one who earns for your family. If you get a salary pay cut, your family may ask you why it's happened. There is nothing to be scary. They won't beat you or won't kill you. Understandably, a job won't last forever. You may lose your job if the company collapse. Or, there might be other reasons.

I know what I am doing. I must find a new job if I get kicked out of my job. The important thing is I have to share this with my family. Family bonding is essential. They have to understand the situation and face a hard time together.

[Swordsoffreedom]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

It seems that you grew up in a negative environment. As a grew up my i never experienced to be scared on failing my grades because my parents did not set a very high expectation. They just let me study and supported me weather i get a  high or low grade. They do not demand and pressure me to study very hard and get this grades. This is just a suggestion do not do to your children what you had experienced when you are growing up. Being in that kind of situation it can affect their mental health and the fear deep inside them will grow and it will stays in their heart and mind forever. For you to be able to make a lot of money you have to find other means like finding a side job, creating your own business etc. If you will pursue your target goals then you will be able to earn a lot of money. Just be patient and work hard.

The OP's story reminds me of the bitcoin education for kids discussed recently on the forum. Many parents are forcing their children to learn bitcoin when they are too young, and they are always asking their children to learn bitcoin by all means without regard for their feelings. That will not bring any benefit, but on the contrary, it will cause their children to have a negative childhood, affecting their future like what OP is going through.
Each child is an individual and has a different stage of development, so parents should not force their children too much but let them grow up on their own

Being early is good but its not really that something that should really be forced on doing so because if you do able to do such thing then you would really be definitely be able to stir up their minds and might be ending up
on things which arent you that expecting. Forcing something on early age would definitely be giving out that kind of possible effect which might led into lost of interest or missing out those things which are supposed to be
done first or would cherish out first specially when they are young. You would definitely make them more stressed if you try to force on learning something just because you do really like in doing so.
Always be considerate on other factors or things.

In regarding in the situation on which you cant really be able to go home just because you dont have that much money on which your wife expecting into is such a bullshit story. You've been married
and able to earn things according into your job. How your wife would really be not letting you on going home without bringing money in the first place?
Unless if you have spend it all in other things around.

I don't think early is good, everything is only good when it comes to the right time and right for each stage of a child's development.

No one forbids you to go home, your wife and children always expect you to come home at the end of the day. But because it's the pressure you put on yourself when you feel like you're useless when you can't make enough money to take care of your family. That's what OP is thinking, he feels so incompetent that he can't give his wife and children a happy life. Are you married yet? If you are the breadwinner, you understand what the OP is going through.

[BenCodie]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

It sounds like you've been living a lifestyle that is quite unhealthy for quite some time. If you are scared to go home, that's troubling to hear. Home should be your sanctuary, no matter what your situation or stress. If you aren't making enough money and you need to make a change, home should be the place where you adjust your plan or make a new one to be able to improve the future. Nothing can be changed in an instant, you can only plan and slowly adjust in order to improve later.

If you are always getting fired that is different. That only comes down to your performance, and maybe if you have good opportunities but you keep losing them, the change might need to come from within instead of changing factors externally.

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

With this mindset, you will only land yourself in a situation where you might never come home...then you will have to live knowing that your wife and children are stuck to survive without you. Think about that before you take irrational or desperate measures.

[Patrol69]

Lack of money is temporary and you should not think so much about the fact that your job is gone, you are a competent person and you have to prove it. You feel that the workplace you used to work for did not leave you. You can earn good money. Your job is gone so you can't get out of that place if you're heartbroken. There is no shortage of jobs if you have qualifications. If you can arrange a job next, look for an alternative income stream in addition to that job so that if one closes, you can continue well through the other.