I cannot go home if I don't make a lot of money now!!

[Doan9269]

I have an advise for you mate on this and it's on two opinions which i will like you to decide on what to do or which one to take, the first idea is that we need to be more prolific with your career, which means you can always get an alternative means of earnings money aside the job you're doing, you can try to empower your children as as well to learn and developed a skill, put your wife also busy with maybe a teaching job or any other thing she could easily learn and do to fetch in an additional income benefits, they must not totally depend on your earnings from the current job you do to live, if not your greatest fear of loosing the job will turn a reality one day, secondly i will advise you to learn a trade and personally develope a skill and be self employed, this will permanently solved your fear of getting sacked one day and you loose your job without anything to fall back to.

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[salad daging]

The pressure of ensuring that we have the money to provide for our family is truly difficult to deal with specially during times when we can't do much. I know OP is desperate to earn for their family but it will be more difficult to do something illegal and be held accountable for that as all opportunities to earn and make money for your family will all be gone. So the bottom line here is -- work hard.

Earning money to support yourself and your family (if you have a family) is great, but you don't need to be overly ambitious by doing everything you can to win.
We need to be mindful of this so that we don't cross the line into things that violate the rules.

Indeed, in this case there may be many reasons such as compulsion or whatever it is but I think it will only be a silly reason so do not let it be because we are only focused on money as one of the things aimed at supporting us and our families, we become uncontrolled and violate all existing rules because precisely by doing so it will harm yourself and the original intention of seeking a life for the family will actually further torment the family.

[Fuso.hp]

The pressure of ensuring that we have the money to provide for our family is truly difficult to deal with specially during times when we can't do much. I know OP is desperate to earn for their family but it will be more difficult to do something illegal and be held accountable for that as all opportunities to earn and make money for your family will all be gone. So the bottom line here is -- work hard.

People are usually busy earning money because they are happy with their family and when their means of earning money is stopped while earning money, that person realizes how difficult it is for him to manage his family. Here OP mentions that he used to earn a lot of money with which he used to live well with his family but suddenly his money income stopped due to which now he is looking for ways to earn money like before and he says he will not return home until he can earn good amount of money ie he is now desperate for money income. As you have said that he should not seek the opportunity of earning money in any illegal way because he is addicted to earning money because there are risks involved in earning money in illegal ways. OP needs to find a legitimate means of income even if it takes a little more time.

[adiksau0414]

Unlawful and unethical? Why? I know the pressure your family gives you but earning money in a negative way still gives you zero. What if the job you will having will lead you to harm or might also danger to your family? Better to have a good communication with your family and try to think  on how you can help each other.

[AnonBitCoiner]

The OP didn't speak clearly about his situation and misled many people. It can be said that I have had the same difficulty as him when not being able to earn enough money to provide for the family's main meal and coming home after a day of work is a terrible thing. If you have been in that situation, you will understand when you come home from work and see your children standing at the door waiting for their father, but then you will disappoint them after that. As a father, it is an indescribable torment. But luckily, my life has improved a lot now, and I have almost everything I need.

Everyone had some struggling for affordable life some of them went successfully through planning and some of them remains in same phase for years because of lacking planning and wise thoughts.

There are lots of parents who worked in some other cities or even in other countries and the reason of living away from there families is only providing stable life to their children and its one of the appreciable approach for one's family.

Your life become easy but surely you would have faced some troubles and difficulties in life which you would have overcome so everything become easy after hardship.

[bayu7adi]

Unlawful and unethical? Why? I know the pressure your family gives you but earning money in a negative way still gives you zero. What if the job you will having will lead you to harm or might also danger to your family? Better to have a good communication with your family and try to think  on how you can help each other.

Psychologically, when a man encounters a problem, he tends to conceal it and tries to solve it on his own. On the other hand, a woman, when faced with an issue, seeks solace and shares it with others.

For OP, if you wish to lead a good and enjoyable life, pursue it through righteous and delightful means. No one justifies that criminal actions will resolve all problems.

[Cookdata]

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

You need help man, your problem is not just money, you are scared about life and you need to see a therapist to help you out, the forum cannot help you out on that aspect. You have been scared right from kid and that trauma has affected you in facing the reality of life, men are build up by society to challenge life and live with it comfortably no matter how difficult it is, they always learn to adapt any difficulty but you seem to be attached to your kid life that has happened more 15 years ago if I'm right since you said you are married, please do see a therapist, book an appointment and have a one on one discussion about this fear, they will help you out.

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

You should never think about doing anything illegal, it will land you in jail and you will become a bad dad to your kid and embarrassment to your family and people that look up to you. If you have an academic results, apply for jobs you studied in school or start a business if you have the means to start anyone, you can also improve and rank your account and joined any available signature promotion on the forum, you can engage in the Forum to earn some sats to support your physical husle and with that, you should be fine and happy with your family.

[Gladitorcomeback]

Yes, I am complaining that people are not nerdy enough. It's been 14 years since Satoshi published his white paper and the vast majority of people still don't understand what Bitcoin is and how to use it. Sure there are many people buying Bitcoin on crypto exchanges and speculating on it.

However, the average guy on the street that I speak to, and even many people on crypto forums still don't understand Bitcoin's potential as a virtual commodity, or it's potential to create an alternative to Fiat economies. Maybe the problem is deeper than just a lack of understanding about the technology? Maybe it's a lack of understanding about economics as a whole? How many people are economists?

I understand that my frustration might be due to the fact that I am coming from a very privileged position. What are your thoughts on this?

I think ignorance of digital technology is the main reason why a common man does not understand the potential of Bitcoin.If you come from a very privileged place, your frustration is perfectly justified.However,the number of investors in Bitcoin is still not small.People who know about Bitcoin and have capital,are investing in Bitcoin,because they know that Bitcoin has the potential to give them the best returns in the future.I myself came to know about Bitcoin a year ago now I am thinking if I had known about Bitcoin ten years ago I would have made a great return on my investment.I hope that many people will invest in Bitcoin in the future but the need is to try to attract them in a good way about Bitcoin.

[Crypt0Gore]

As a man, the first rule to take very serious is to avoid kids and female, in your early 20s set your mind of financial freedom, this will get you somewhere even if your life goals haven't become a reality, they way you think will be different.

I see most men starting to regret only after they have two kids and a wife at home, that's when they will start feeling like they messed up, the job they do won't be enough to do something good for themselves because of the responsibility, I have seen some men living the rest of life in this same shame as they don't have any other way out.

There are some things we need to have done before having family, to make our journey a lot easier, if I have a son I will keep advising him to think more about financial goals instead of planning to start a family, this is one of the reasons why.

[dothebeats]

As a man, the first rule to take very serious is to avoid kids and female, in your early 20s set your mind of financial freedom, this will get you somewhere even if your life goals haven't become a reality, they way you think will be different.

I see most men starting to regret only after they have two kids and a wife at home, that's when they will start feeling like they messed up, the job they do won't be enough to do something good for themselves because of the responsibility, I have seen some men living the rest of life in this same shame as they don't have any other way out.

There are some things we need to have done before having family, to make our journey a lot easier, if I have a son I will keep advising him to think more about financial goals instead of planning to start a family, this is one of the reasons why.

I somehow agree with your point. Some may see this as a bad thing when it is actually beneficial for both men and women. You cannot just jump into something that you are not ready for. If you are a man in your early 20s and you let your desires get the best of you, and you "accidentally" start a family, you and your whole family will only suffer the consequences financially. Hence, it is better to be smart and avoid situations that will lead you there. Instead, be smart and focus on getting financial freedom first before any of that.

[Smack That Ace]

As a man, the first rule to take very serious is to avoid kids and female, in your early 20s set your mind of financial freedom, this will get you somewhere even if your life goals haven't become a reality, they way you think will be different.

I see most men starting to regret only after they have two kids and a wife at home, that's when they will start feeling like they messed up, the job they do won't be enough to do something good for themselves because of the responsibility, I have seen some men living the rest of life in this same shame as they don't have any other way out.

There are some things we need to have done before having family, to make our journey a lot easier, if I have a son I will keep advising him to think more about financial goals instead of planning to start a family, this is one of the reasons why.

I somehow agree with your point. Some may see this as a bad thing when it is actually beneficial for both men and women. You cannot just jump into something that you are not ready for. If you are a man in your early 20s and you let your desires get the best of you, and you "accidentally" start a family, you and your whole family will only suffer the consequences financially. Hence, it is better to be smart and avoid situations that will lead you there. Instead, be smart and focus on getting financial freedom first before any of that.

I don't object to what you two are saying. But the problem is when we are at that age, we never think about our career or our future, we get carried away with friends, the pleasures of youth. I believe that when we were young, our parents used to give such advice, but how many people will listen and follow? That is the instinct of youth and almost all of us have to go through it. It seems easy to say, but few people do it, or most only realize the mistake when everything is over.