Can Gambling affect your relationship?

[Fatunad]

Most likely people will lose their trust in you and the last person who will leave you is your partner because she knows everything about you when things don't get well and it gets worse day by day, she will leave you for her sake. I'm not gonna lie but I know a person who truly supported her boyfriend throughout his worst time but sadly he took advantage of her and asked her to provide him some money until the girl ran out of choices and chose to break out with him because she no longer has the ability to provide for him and he is not getting well rather he is getting worse and asking more money to suffice his addiction.

I think the topic is not limited to relationship of spouse or girlfriend but seems like you are talking about a situation when you have a real partner who understands you better and love you for who you are find out in your back that you gamble and from the beginning you didn't inform them. It's really sad when you find the truth later because I do see it as lack of trust and anything that comes from that same mouth in the future will be doubt to me isntead been accepted as the truth, it's always good to come clean and straight, if your partner can manage you, they will accept you for who you are and if they will not, they will let you know before the relationship go deeper.

Just like I saw some months ago in a thread where a young boy won a million from gambling but the parent refuse to accept the amount their son gave them because their beliefs is against it and they weren't happy about the source of his money, this is how the people that loves you lost trust in you when you gamble but in the real sense, they think you are just an average guy who do average things.

However, let's say you are a hard die fan of gambling with the addiction but you pretend to your partner that you don't gamble and they later find out that you do that and maybe on that same day, you won a life changing amount of money, even if they feel disappointed and angry for pretending, they will only be angry for a short time, the money under your possession will make them forget that reaction quickly, that's the power of money and how it transform judgement quickly without doing anything. This is to show you how some people loves money than anything in this life.

How i wish that i do have a partner or wife which would really be understanding on the things that what i do like or simply being supportive.This is why it would really be always better that before you do make yourself getting tied with marriage then it would be ideal on choosing the partner on which it do really accepts you on who you are specially if you do gamble then im not saying that she should tolerate you on what you are doing
but something that shows being supportive at the same time she give out some reminders and cautions then thats the best feeling ever. Dont ever come into a point that you are already compromising your relationship specially with your wife becase we know that finances are supposed to be handle up properly and not something to be wasted on somelike gambling which you could really just wasting your money instead of making use of it on the right way. It would really be affecting your overall relationship and status of your family on the time that you dont have money to be spend already and this is something that you should really be that careful.

[Hirose UK]

Most likely people will lose their trust in you and the last person who will leave you is your partner because she knows everything about you when things don't get well and it gets worse day by day, she will leave you for her sake. I'm not gonna lie but I know a person who truly supported her boyfriend throughout his worst time but sadly he took advantage of her and asked her to provide him some money until the girl ran out of choices and chose to break out with him because she no longer has the ability to provide for him and he is not getting well rather he is getting worse and asking more money to suffice his addiction.

You are right, many such situations arise because of an addicted gambler. Many such good relations also break up at one time. I also saw a relationship where boy and girl are very close and they loved each other very much but at some point the boy started to change after he got addicted to gambling. When the changes begin to occur, his girlfriend becomes concerned and later realizes that her boyfriend has turned into an addicted gambler. I didn't see them taking money there but I saw a separation between them after a long period of time. Addiction to gambling actually has an impact on relationship.

Actually gambling is choice and no one can stop gambling activities once someone has decided to do it and it is very rare for someone who gambles to tell what he is doing to other people even to his own partner.
Not many women are willing to accept that their partner is addicted to gambling and there are probably only one or two women who are willing to accept or even support every gambling decision their partner makes.

However so far many families have been destroyed because the husband became gambling addict and when harmonious family has to be destroyed because of gambling then I say that the man is a failure in the sense of failing as a husband and father because he fully responsible for the warmth in the family.

If are still just boyfriend or girlfriend maybe don't really regret it and it can still be considered a problem that is not too complicated but if you are already married then this is problem that is quite regrettable.

[benalexis12]

On the other hand, I believe that if you approach the subject correctly and it benefits you in your family, other endeavors, or even your personal life, it won't have an impact on the relationship.

Gambling can affect us for either positive or harmful causes, and there are only two possible outcomes. When we attempt to play gambling in the gambling business market, we have the choice of which of the aforementioned outcomes we wish to occur.

[masulum]

If both of them gamble, then their goal is to really go make money otherwise they'd just stay at home and play together by themselves. Sooner their kids can join them, it's all in the family. But then they will understand if one occasionally goes to a casino or plays online, they may even share an account so yep it's a family affair. Why not? It bonds them together an d a family stays together. This is where you can see a positive effect I guess.  

But it won't be that easy to have a positive effect. If a husband can control himself, what about his wife? If wives and husbands can control, what about their children? It will become more complicated in the future. Because a person's ego and emotions are different. I think there should be 1 person who can prevent the potential for gambling more. and in my opinion the wife is the one who should not gamble, because maybe the husband hopes that his wife can help manage how to use his money for gambling (if permitted).

However, I know that there are many wives who let their husbands gamble, because they feel that their finances are fine and remain harmonious.

I remember a story about Jerry and his wife to solve the lottery code together, Jerry & Marge who made big profits from their cooperations to break the lottery code with their mathematics skill

[Strongkored]

Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems.

Any activity that you do that interferes with your relationship with your family or those closest to you is included in the category of addiction, so in fact it is not only gambling addiction that can damage relationships but also other addictions.
If you can still control yourself well then it will not be possible for gambling to damage your relationship, because everything is done with good control, when to play, how long to spend playing, including the money spent on gambling. However, if you talk about self-control, it's just a theory, but it can be done even though it's difficult.

[dezoel]

Most likely people will lose their trust in you and the last person who will leave you is your partner because she knows everything about you when things don't get well and it gets worse day by day, she will leave you for her sake. I'm not gonna lie but I know a person who truly supported her boyfriend throughout his worst time but sadly he took advantage of her and asked her to provide him some money until the girl ran out of choices and chose to break out with him because she no longer has the ability to provide for him and he is not getting well rather he is getting worse and asking more money to suffice his addiction.

I know a lot of people who are like that, they are either dependent on their partners or on someone from their family to feed them and their family (spouse and kids) as well and that is the worst of a person you can see. They don't work because they are too lazy for that, but they will need money from time to time so that they can gamble with it hoping to make something out of their gambling that they can use to run their household but that never works out.

We all know that gambling isn't a constant source of income and one cannot rely on it, but some people simply don't get it. I have a relative who does this exact thing, they don't do a job saying they will do their own business when they will have money and all they do is sit at home and eat by taking money from others.

[Juse14]

On the other hand, I believe that if you approach the subject correctly and it benefits you in your family, other endeavors, or even your personal life, it won't have an impact on the relationship.

Gambling is our personal life and we should not associate our gambling activities with family matters. We can only gamble when our responsibilities as head of the family have been fulfilled. Starting from household needs to the needs of a child, only then can we carry out gambling activities for our personal enjoyment.

Gambling can affect us for either positive or harmful causes, and there are only two possible outcomes. When we attempt to play gambling in the gambling business market, we have the choice of which of the aforementioned outcomes we wish to occur.

In my opinion, there is no choice in gambling, there is also a necessity. Namely, as much as possible we must be able to take full responsibility for the gambling activities that we carry out during. Gambling is everyone's right, but before we take this right, we must first fulfill and complete our responsibilities and obligations as a husband or head of the family.

[Vaculin]

If you let it affect your relationship, yes.

The thing is that this type of discussion only comes up when you either took it out of the line and gambled against your partner's wishes, or you're falling into gambling addiction and it's starting to take a toll on your relationship. Either way you recognize that there's a problem, and you pretty much know what the solution is. I don't go against partners that are not happy with their husbands/wives gambling. For one, it's true that there are other ways for you to find catharsis and relaxation if the only thing you're looking for is entertainment and thrill anyway, another would be the fact that gambling shouldn't even warrant a serious discussion between you two. If it comes to that point you're pretty much fucked and you either have to choose between keeping up with your addiction, or staying within the relationship.

If you cross your limits in gambling, obviously it will sure to create an effect on a relationship. That’s the problem with most of the die hard gamblers because they seem to be uncontrolled when it comes to fighting their urge from gambling. Except for those who know how to deal with gambling risks and has develop discipline from it, maintaining their relationship with their partners in life would be easy to handle.

[carlisle1]

If you let it affect your relationship, yes.

The thing is that this type of discussion only comes up when you either took it out of the line and gambled against your partner's wishes, or you're falling into gambling addiction and it's starting to take a toll on your relationship. Either way you recognize that there's a problem, and you pretty much know what the solution is. I don't go against partners that are not happy with their husbands/wives gambling. For one, it's true that there are other ways for you to find catharsis and relaxation if the only thing you're looking for is entertainment and thrill anyway, another would be the fact that gambling shouldn't even warrant a serious discussion between you two. If it comes to that point you're pretty much fucked and you either have to choose between keeping up with your addiction, or staying within the relationship.

If you cross your limits in gambling, obviously it will sure to create an effect on a relationship. That’s the problem with most of the die hard gamblers because they seem to be uncontrolled when it comes to fighting their urge from gambling. Except for those who know how to deal with gambling risks and has develop discipline from it, maintaining their relationship with their partners in life would be easy to handle.

Yes, as even it's just a small percentage of those gamblers who can create or set their limits, it's still possible to see those who have a good
balance with relationships and finances.

As long as it's not affecting your financial capabilities and you have that good and manageable habits when playing the game.
chances are both enjoyment and some money to make when you manage that discipline and able to work it out in each gambling session
that you joined.

[maydna]

Gambling can affect us for either positive or harmful causes, and there are only two possible outcomes. When we attempt to play gambling in the gambling business market, we have the choice of which of the aforementioned outcomes we wish to occur.

In my opinion, there is no choice in gambling, there is also a necessity. Namely, as much as possible we must be able to take full responsibility for the gambling activities that we carry out during. Gambling is everyone's right, but before we take this right, we must first fulfill and complete our responsibilities and obligations as a husband or head of the family.

What you said is correct. We must first be responsible for all the things that are our responsibility before we can do other things, in this case gambling. We do this so that no one is disturbed, especially with financial problems, because if we don't allocate a certain amount of funds for gambling, it will reduce the portion for other things in the family. And that will disrupt the financial balance that we have previously established. So if everything can run normally and there are no problems at all, it won't impact our relationships with other family members. But if our gambling has reached the point where we use money from our allocated funds for other things, it will affect those things, and in the future, it may impact our relationships with others.

[Jocuserious]

Social relationships and personal aspects will affect you and people who dislike you will increase especially those who don't like gambling. If gambling bothers your family or friends then you should gamble secretly. You cannot be expected to gamble if you are caught in their emotional web. The family will criticize this because gambling can lead to huge debts.
The results from gambling are one-sided as if you win the money will increase and if you lose the money will decrease, which is impossible to freely accept so your family may be confused about this. Hence gambling is not a person's profession income source and people enjoy gambling in different ways. But what an addictive gambler does is that they sell personal assets and gamble with business money.

[Rabata]

Most likely people will lose their trust in you and the last person who will leave you is your partner because she knows everything about you when things don't get well and it gets worse day by day, she will leave you for her sake. I'm not gonna lie but I know a person who truly supported her boyfriend throughout his worst time but sadly he took advantage of her and asked her to provide him some money until the girl ran out of choices and chose to break out with him because she no longer has the ability to provide for him and he is not getting well rather he is getting worse and asking more money to suffice his addiction.

I think the topic is not limited to relationship of spouse or girlfriend but seems like you are talking about a situation when you have a real partner who understands you better and love you for who you are find out in your back that you gamble and from the beginning you didn't inform them. It's really sad when you find the truth later because I do see it as lack of trust and anything that comes from that same mouth in the future will be doubt to me isntead been accepted as the truth, it's always good to come clean and straight, if your partner can manage you, they will accept you for who you are and if they will not, they will let you know before the relationship go deeper.

Just like I saw some months ago in a thread where a young boy won a million from gambling but the parent refuse to accept the amount their son gave them because their beliefs is against it and they weren't happy about the source of his money, this is how the people that loves you lost trust in you when you gamble but in the real sense, they think you are just an average guy who do average things.

However, let's say you are a hard die fan of gambling with the addiction but you pretend to your partner that you don't gamble and they later find out that you do that and maybe on that same day, you won a life changing amount of money, even if they feel disappointed and angry for pretending, they will only be angry for a short time, the money under your possession will make them forget that reaction quickly, that's the power of money and how it transform judgement quickly without doing anything. This is to show you how some people loves money than anything in this life.

There are still people in society who are not greedy. I was also read the thread about the guy you mentioned. What I realized there is that people don't value only money. Some of them prioritize trust love and dignity. But almost everyone knows that its number is limited. I will not deny that some gamblers and their acquaintances who win big money from gambling will no longer think of gambling negatively but will forget all about it because of the money they win. As not everyone will just run towards money and many will value money. But naturally the picture we see is that if a gambler becomes addicted to gambling then some changes will occur in him so that if his favorite personality is not greedy then he will definitely ask him to quit gambling.

[Gheka]

On the other hand, I believe that if you approach the subject correctly and it benefits you in your family, other endeavors, or even your personal life, it won't have an impact on the relationship.

Gambling can affect us for either positive or harmful causes, and there are only two possible outcomes. When we attempt to play gambling in the gambling business market, we have the choice of which of the aforementioned outcomes we wish to occur.

I can't imagine the huge positive that gambling brings, any angle that is directed towards gambling, just the first few times gambling will probably be positive and not harmful but that is just a physical and mental trap, we are very obviously stimulated by fun and possibly income then a gambling algorithm with infinite loop occurs. Mental collapse and deterioration of thinking, instead of thinking about a relationship, we're thinking about how many times we've lost and calculating how to win, ultimately leaving our friends and family behind

[summonerrk]

Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems. Gambling which was meant to be a popular kind of entertainment for many and was designed to provide a temporary escape from everyday life and also help one to be more observant mentally task your brain and it is also good for your mental brain. When it becomes an addiction it causes financial strain the strain can manifest in various ways including the loss of shared savings, debt accumulation, and financial secrecy which may lead to strained communication between partners. This communication breakdown can prevent couples, friends, and associates from working together.

According to leading psychologists, addiction arises precisely because gambling gives a man incredible freedom. Think about it for yourself: modern society imposes on us the opinion that we owe everyone, that we live by the instructions, and cannot deviate from their implementation by a single step. And everything is easy and clear in gambling. Everything is raised there as if we own the situation ourselves, and the rules are clear and friendly. As if there is no casino, but there is a world where the player is free, and the casino is just a tool. Of course, any woman will not approve of such a departure from reality for a man, especially when debts begin.

[Juse14]

Gambling can affect us for either positive or harmful causes, and there are only two possible outcomes. When we attempt to play gambling in the gambling business market, we have the choice of which of the aforementioned outcomes we wish to occur.

In my opinion, there is no choice in gambling, there is also a necessity. Namely, as much as possible we must be able to take full responsibility for the gambling activities that we carry out during. Gambling is everyone's right, but before we take this right, we must first fulfill and complete our responsibilities and obligations as a husband or head of the family.

What you said is correct. We must first be responsible for all the things that are our responsibility before we can do other things, in this case gambling. We do this so that no one is disturbed, especially with financial problems, because if we don't allocate a certain amount of funds for gambling, it will reduce the portion for other things in the family. And that will disrupt the financial balance that we have previously established. So if everything can run normally and there are no problems at all, it won't impact our relationships with other family members. But if our gambling has reached the point where we use money from our allocated funds for other things, it will affect those things, and in the future, it may impact our relationships with others.

And we also need to understand the meaning of maturity, because many people understand this only in broad terms, which can be called an adult when they are 18+ or married, but the measure of maturity is not just age and status. . However, the measure of a person's maturity is more about maturity in thinking and acting.

Moreover, when we are married, where we cannot carry out gambling activities, this becomes our priority activity, because there are things that are more important than that.

Apart from that, before someone actually decides to gamble or enter into a relationship, in my opinion the measure is not only about maturity but it also includes whether or not we are able to do that.

[LUCKMCFLY]

What's worse is that gambling can cause the accumulation of debt to become greater, the relationship between husband and wife becomes messy and in the end it will have a much worse impact on life. The phrase don't play near a well if you don't want to fell it, might be suitable to describe it all and the decision is entirely up to each individual.

The importance of being open to each other and communicating well with your partner will help gambling become better, although maybe not many women like men who gamble, but believe me, if we are honest with our partner, he will definitely understand, just give him the trust to manage the gambling budget so that we not going too far because we need someone to remind us not to play too far.

I applied this to my wife where I asked her to manage all my gambling budget, after all there is no need to be in debt to anyone, it is better to gamble with money that we are ready to lose to have fun, after all my gambling habit is usually to fill my holiday time, not to make money, I always think of winning at gambling as a bonus. If I lose, just think of me paying for something that is fun for me. The point is to be open with our partner and honest so that it doesn't get messy, let alone make the relationship fall apart.

Well, this can be explained as a very good topic and for many it can serve as a way to improve or worsen their relationship situation, for example if a couple has a good relationship and if the man, because it is usually the man who who is most interested in doing these things, then two scenarios can happen, if he tells her and she agrees, perfect then it could be that both of them do it, whether they do well or badly in the game, since it is something that both of them They decided and got drunk in one of them, either they are doing well, or that it is like a roller coaster, sometimes they do well and sometimes badly, but they are both there, it could be that this activity brings them together, that is the best scenario. Now if the man proposes and the wife tells him no, that gambling means he loses a lot of money, if he doesn't do it, then he would, and don't let him do it because that will cause a mini-fight and if they have differences For other things previously, that can be prolonged because she will say that she wants to get addicted, and those things are for more probelams.

The scenarios with this type of things are quite strong, when it comes to women it is complicated, one does not know how they are going to react if they want or not, even if one knows them very well they are always going to look for the "but" that they don't. There is, then another problem may arise, because if you as a man play without saying anything to her, if she discovers it she will begin to complain that why didn't you tell her, why don't you tell her or communicate things to her, another thing is that If you play it secretly, it is not the right thing to do, firstly, because as a good man you should not hide from anyone, and if you do it, it is because you like it, or the tora is that you tell him clearly that you are going to gamble in a casino, that If she wants to play well or not, well, that's fine, but maybe that's just what she likes and wants to do, then nothing can be done, because each person must do what they like and the person who is with them must accept it. with things the way he likes them.

[Viscore]

If you let yourself fall on gambling addiction, surely it will bring some negative effects on your spouse and most especially on your children. Your quality time that you reserved for your family will be steal by your gambling habit, leaving your family feeling not prioritized. Thus, if it will continue to happen, eventually you end up ruining the relationship with your children and break your marital promise with your spouse.

[Docnaster]

If you let yourself fall on gambling addiction, surely it will bring some negative effects on your spouse and most especially on your children. Your quality time that you reserved for your family will be steal by your gambling habit, leaving your family feeling not prioritized. Thus, if it will continue to happen, eventually you end up ruining the relationship with your children and break your marital promise with your spouse.

Gambling to some people is one of the social vices that shouldn't be allowed to thrive anywhere near them and if you happen to have any of such people as your spouse, it's either you totally stop anything that has to do with gambling of never come near them again.
Some people in other to protect their marriage or relationships tends to hide their gambling habits from their partners and whenever their partners eventually cont to the knowledge of their dealings, they end up breaking up with them.

[asyakashi]

of course, I'm sure many of our partners would never agree to it, not only that. Usually gambling places are also decorated with beautiful women who make our partners jealous. it's a waste of our money, our partner wants us to buy useful things rather than to gamble. but some relationships are not that easy to end, usually strong relationships can always think about how to improve each other.

[kojektea]

few relationships will be damaged by gambling. Yes, this is because one of the two really loves their partner. I'm sure the partner will think "maybe he will change, maybe he will stop soon" in the end he will accompany his partner, unless it is really detrimental to his partner and also him. it makes perfect sense for the relationship to end, because it would have been a bad relationship if it continued.