Can Gambling affect your relationship?

[Mr. Magkaisa]

Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems.

People who have become addicted to gambling and think that they can generate income from gambling, are examples of people who will have damaged relationships, whether family, business, or partner. I often meet people like that. When they earn $500 in a month then they use almost 3/4 of their income to gamble. They hope their bet will be good several times over. Some people can use under 10% of their income to have fun, but the problem is that not everyone can control their desires so they don't get addicted.

That's why addiction has become something that must be avoided. As long as we can still use our brain perfectly and we do know how to prevent being addicted with gambling. The addiction was the key factor in making human to lose its self control.
The willingness to play the game non stop is also making people addicted. No doubt if in the most of cases addiction has become the main problem. It's so hard to leave from there.

Many threads have been also discussing regarding how bad the addiction would be affecting our lives. It's not all of people can't control their finances after they become so addicted to the gambling.

This will be slowly but surely affecting our lives. People shall try even harder in avoiding the addiction. That's the only way.
The addiction can some time makes could to be divorced.

       -  Actually, it is possible to play gambling without becoming an addict; the only difference is that they let their passion for gambling consume them, and when they experience winning, it becomes a way for them to enter greed into their personality, and when this happens, it becomes the road to having a gambling addiction.

Many have fallen into this concept of gambling. The casino itself doesn't do anything wrong that gives gamblers choices to play gambling, but they still become tools to develop an addiction to gambling.

[mirakal]

Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems.

People who have become addicted to gambling and think that they can generate income from gambling, are examples of people who will have damaged relationships, whether family, business, or partner. I often meet people like that. When they earn $500 in a month then they use almost 3/4 of their income to gamble. They hope their bet will be good several times over. Some people can use under 10% of their income to have fun, but the problem is that not everyone can control their desires so they don't get addicted.

In gambling, one should only bet 5% to 10% of their monthly income, if it goes above that limit, know that you are not making a wise decision. Although it’s hard for most of the gamblers to stick with their betting limit, but for you to play safe with gambling and to limit your losses as well, then gambling at a very small amount is always advisable. However, you can adjust your betting limit if you are winning big consistently. But always bet on the amount that you can always afford to lose.

[piebeyb]

But if everything doesn't goes well and your wife is not supportive towards your gambling activity then its really better to quit that activities so that we can save up our relationship and no hard feelings or quarrel that possibly could happen.

Yes, as much as possible, take care of and respect your wife, if she doesn't support gambling activities, then just stop rather than losing her. Luckily for me, my wife allows me to gamble within a certain budget and on weekends, so I trust her to manage my finances for gambling. so that there is no longer anything to hide, usually a wife will be angry and disappointed if you try to hide your gambling activities.

For example, my wife knows that I gamble just for entertainment and have fun on my cellphone every weekend because she thinks that instead of me going out of the house and having an affair with another woman, let alone gambling in an offline casino where there are probably lots of beautiful women there, I think My wife doesn't forbid it as long as it's within reasonable limits and thankfully I always limit my gambling both in time and budget so it doesn't become an addiction. The point is to learn to be open and tell your wife what it is because when you are honest your wife will definitely understand

[Docnaster]

But if everything doesn't goes well and your wife is not supportive towards your gambling activity then its really better to quit that activities so that we can save up our relationship and no hard feelings or quarrel that possibly could happen.

Yes, as much as possible, take care of and respect your wife, if she doesn't support gambling activities, then just stop rather than losing her. Luckily for me, my wife allows me to gamble within a certain budget and on weekends, so I trust her to manage my finances for gambling. so that there is no longer anything to hide, usually a wife will be angry and disappointed if you try to hide your gambling activities.

For example, my wife knows that I gamble just for entertainment and have fun on my cellphone every weekend because she thinks that instead of me going out of the house and having an affair with another woman, let alone gambling in an offline casino where there are probably lots of beautiful women there, I think My wife doesn't forbid it as long as it's within reasonable limits and thankfully I always limit my gambling both in time and budget so it doesn't become an addiction. The point is to learn to be open and tell your wife what it is because when you are honest your wife will definitely understand

Personal relationship like marriage isn't something that should be joked with or probably risked because of gambling. There are a lot of women who doesn't like gambling and forbids anyone around them to engage in gambling so if you happen to marry such women, it's absolutely unwise to continue gambling openly or secretly.
When you have a wife who forbids gambling and decides to gamble secretly, there's definitely gonna be a time she would find out and that might make her to seperate from you. When seperation happens, you've allowed gambling to affect your relationship with your wife.

[Fivestar4everMVP]

But if everything doesn't goes well and your wife is not supportive towards your gambling activity then its really better to quit that activities so that we can save up our relationship and no hard feelings or quarrel that possibly could happen.

Yes, as much as possible, take care of and respect your wife, if she doesn't support gambling activities, then just stop rather than losing her. Luckily for me, my wife allows me to gamble within a certain budget and on weekends, so I trust her to manage my finances for gambling. so that there is no longer anything to hide, usually a wife will be angry and disappointed if you try to hide your gambling activities.

For example, my wife knows that I gamble just for entertainment and have fun on my cellphone every weekend because she thinks that instead of me going out of the house and having an affair with another woman, let alone gambling in an offline casino where there are probably lots of beautiful women there, I think My wife doesn't forbid it as long as it's within reasonable limits and thankfully I always limit my gambling both in time and budget so it doesn't become an addiction. The point is to learn to be open and tell your wife what it is because when you are honest your wife will definitely understand

Personal relationship like marriage isn't something that should be joked with or probably risked because of gambling. There are a lot of women who doesn't like gambling and forbids anyone around them to engage in gambling so if you happen to marry such women, it's absolutely unwise to continue gambling openly or secretly.
When you have a wife who forbids gambling and decides to gamble secretly, there's definitely gonna be a time she would find out and that might make her to seperate from you. When seperation happens, you've allowed gambling to affect your relationship with your wife.

Well, felt like you were talking to me actually .
I am a married man, and like you said, my wife hates anything gambling, in fact, she wouldn't even want to hear anybody mention gambling around her, i knew she doesn't like people who gamble right from when we were dating, but i have always been gambling secretly.
We have been married for over 7 years now, i am still gambling, but i do it secretly without her knowledge, and thank God for online gambling, which have made it possible to gamble without having to go to a physical casino.

Let me just say that, for me though, even if my wife catches me gambling which  i believe she never will, she can never leave me or end our marriage because of that, it is plainly stupid for a woman to walk out of marriage simply because she caught her husband gambling, such an excuse is too flimsy is you ask me.

[AicecreaME]

Personal relationship like marriage isn't something that should be joked with or probably risked because of gambling. There are a lot of women who doesn't like gambling and forbids anyone around them to engage in gambling so if you happen to marry such women, it's absolutely unwise to continue gambling openly or secretly.
When you have a wife who forbids gambling and decides to gamble secretly, there's definitely gonna be a time she would find out and that might make her to seperate from you. When seperation happens, you've allowed gambling to affect your relationship with your wife.

Gambling isn't just a man thing. Women do it too.

For me, regardless of gender, one must know the limitations in order to avoid conflict especially the conflict among your partners in life. There's a reason why the other half was called "partner" in relationship and it's because you are teammates, hence you should work together and help each other out to bring out the best versions of yourselves. And when there's something bad your partner pinpoints, it's best to tackle the issue immediately so it won't escalate into something worse.

For instance, your wife or husband don't want you to engage in gambling or at least they want you to lessen your gambling time and expenditures. You can resolve this by communicating well and by laying all your concerns onto the table allowing to discuss both sides. This way, you can arrive and meet halfway without having to resort to secrecy and other sort of things that could hurt your spouse. Respect is one of the key factors so is open communication.

[Sanugarid]

But if everything doesn't goes well and your wife is not supportive towards your gambling activity then its really better to quit that activities so that we can save up our relationship and no hard feelings or quarrel that possibly could happen.

Yes, as much as possible, take care of and respect your wife, if she doesn't support gambling activities, then just stop rather than losing her. Luckily for me, my wife allows me to gamble within a certain budget and on weekends, so I trust her to manage my finances for gambling. so that there is no longer anything to hide, usually a wife will be angry and disappointed if you try to hide your gambling activities.

For example, my wife knows that I gamble just for entertainment and have fun on my cellphone every weekend because she thinks that instead of me going out of the house and having an affair with another woman, let alone gambling in an offline casino where there are probably lots of beautiful women there, I think My wife doesn't forbid it as long as it's within reasonable limits and thankfully I always limit my gambling both in time and budget so it doesn't become an addiction. The point is to learn to be open and tell your wife what it is because when you are honest your wife will definitely understand

Personal relationship like marriage isn't something that should be joked with or probably risked because of gambling. There are a lot of women who doesn't like gambling and forbids anyone around them to engage in gambling so if you happen to marry such women, it's absolutely unwise to continue gambling openly or secretly.
When you have a wife who forbids gambling and decides to gamble secretly, there's definitely gonna be a time she would find out and that might make her to seperate from you. When seperation happens, you've allowed gambling to affect your relationship with your wife.

You're right there, there are women who don't want their husbands to gamble and of course there are also women who allow their husbands but I think there's only a limit but that's okay because we know that when we gamble there must be a budget or a limit so you can still control yourself.
So you should really think carefully about the actions you will take.

[maydna]

       -  Actually, it is possible to play gambling without becoming an addict; the only difference is that they let their passion for gambling consume them, and when they experience winning, it becomes a way for them to enter greed into their personality, and when this happens, it becomes the road to having a gambling addiction.

Many have fallen into this concept of gambling. The casino itself doesn't do anything wrong that gives gamblers choices to play gambling, but they still become tools to develop an addiction to gambling.

In the beginning, they gambled without being addicted to gambling. Still, over time, many of them could not control themselves and instead gambled too often, which made them slowly become addicted to gambling and couldn't get away from gambling. When they win, they feel a different pleasure than usual and want to repeat it to get the next win by continuing to gamble. But they don't think that if they continue gambling, they have a chance of losing, which could cost them all their money.

Many have fallen into gambling because they lose self-control, and it causes problems with their relationships with the people around them. If this is left without awareness, those who are addicted to gambling will further worsen the relationship, and there is no possibility of repairing it.

[nara1892]

Wrong assumptions would really be ending up whether a disaster or the right call on which most of the time when it comes to gambling then having those kind of thoughts really do end up negatively.
This is why it would really be that better that you should really be sensible on what are the things that you are doing specially that getting in touch or dealing with gambling on which we do know that it is really that imposing such risks and lots of people do really fail on trying out to control themselves and this is why disasters do really happen in the end of the line. Gambling could really affect with your familys relationship on which it would really be just that so normal that if finances had already that ended up on getting compromised or affected then it would be that normal that
needs and wants are already that been in concern.

No wife will really be happy on seeing that your children is really that suffering when it comes to their needs just because their father is really that too irresponsible when it comes to spending.
Its never been recommendable that you would really be that secretive towards your gambling activity because on the time that you would get caught then for sure it would really might
result into divorce if its not been fixed or been properly be resolved out. We dont know on what would happen because decisions be made will really vary.

Well I also don't understand whether they really don't realize that the mindset and assumptions they bring are beyond common sense, as you said the mistake of putting assumptions will end up with something they don't want at all. So we have to really be wiser in seeing things, especially in this gambling, I understand there are opportunities but I say the chances are very small and the fact is that you are always difficult to get a win there, so with that alone it has been proven that the mindset you bring cannot prove anything including your own expectations, and even if it is proven but maybe only occasionally from the dozens of trials you have done. In the event that you've got a lot of time on your hands, you're going to want to make sure that you've got a good idea of what you're going to do.

In terms of family relationships, I think this is quite easy to guess, as we know when someone is married, there will be basic needs that must always be met, such as feeding his wife and children is mandatory, while gambling greatly affects a person's finances, meaning that it is clear that the family economy will be disrupted or decreased due to one of them gambling. In fact, as you said friend, it is not uncommon for many to end up divorced because they cannot afford all the financial conditions that are getting worse. So the point is that gambling has a very negative impact on everything around you, so there is no other way to avoid it unless you stop.

Would really be that mind boggling on how someone would really be just simply ignore with those risks if ever they would really be making out such action. It would really be that impossible that you wont really be able to notice up such possibilities that could happen ahead. Self will is there and we do know on whats wrong and whats right but it cant be avoided that you do tolerate out such behavior even if you do know on what are those possible consequences but still you do decide to go further and do really continue on what you do have in mind. I would say that its never been worth on destroying your families relation specially into your wife and into your kids just because of gambling. Mistakes could happen but as much as possible then you better avoid that because gambling is really just for entertainment and its not something that would really be worth for you to be able to in exchange with your family situation and condition specially on finances or money.

Dont make yourself that ending up on banging your head into the wall just because you have lost your family or loved ones because of the action that you had made.
Regret do always come at the end and if you arent really that careful nor mindful about your actions then most likely you would be experiencing such devastated situation on your entire life
on which it could bring out that entire life regret and telling that you shouldnt have done that.

Yes, I also can't understand why they can ignore the huge risk, even though they always lose, they always do it and don't think about how long they want to do activities that are not profitable at all, they always assume that gambling can give them a big win and also satisfaction, but the reality is not like that, and even reversed far from expectations, even though the expectations you bring are nothing more than something excessive that you get because of opportunities and then you like to conclude that the opportunity is really real. It is not like that buddy, you are wrong in thinking and inferring the opportunity that is meant in gambling. So I think you should immediately correct your mindset before going further and of course there will be more losses.

I think there is nothing else you can do but try to stop, after all you have to think about life and especially the family economy and I think you also know that your responsibility for children and wife is very large, so this can really have a bad impact on your life and theirs. That's right, if you continue then it's very likely that you're going to be in a stressful position because the finances are going to get worse and you might do something out of control there. So we always try to prevent it before it's too late.

[madnessteat]

       -  Actually, it is possible to play gambling without becoming an addict; the only difference is that they let their passion for gambling consume them, and when they experience winning, it becomes a way for them to enter greed into their personality, and when this happens, it becomes the road to having a gambling addiction.

Many have fallen into this concept of gambling. The casino itself doesn't do anything wrong that gives gamblers choices to play gambling, but they still become tools to develop an addiction to gambling.

In the beginning, they gambled without being addicted to gambling. Still, over time, many of them could not control themselves and instead gambled too often, which made them slowly become addicted to gambling and couldn't get away from gambling. When they win, they feel a different pleasure than usual and want to repeat it to get the next win by continuing to gamble. But they don't think that if they continue gambling, they have a chance of losing, which could cost them all their money.

Many have fallen into gambling because they lose self-control, and it causes problems with their relationships with the people around them. If this is left without awareness, those who are addicted to gambling will further worsen the relationship, and there is no possibility of repairing it.

There is a certain percentage of people who are not able to control themselves and their desires and it is not just about gambling. Someone gets drunk on alcoholic beverages to the point where he can't remember anything the next day, someone eats so much food that he exceeds his recommended weight by 2-3 times, someone can't live a sexual life only with his wife and is constantly looking for new partners. In my opinion, the problem here is not gambling, but the inability to control one's desires and unwillingness to limit oneself. 

[Jossque]

A couple of my friends have a slot game that they play together. This does not affect their relationship, on the contrary, I can say that when they lose, they lose with fun. When they are going to put money on the site, they all put up a capital together and take turns playing. If I give an example, 5 friends and each of them puts 100 dollars. This is 500 dollars in total and they enter the slot game with 500 dollars. Although they don't have an exact figure in their heads, if there is 2000 dollars, they play with the idea that if we take our money and let's split it. When this happens, the loss is everyone's loss and the gain is everyone's gain. There are also methods that do not affect friendships in such a way. Because they know this risk themselves and provide an investment accordingly.

[Blitzboy]

Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems.

People who have become addicted to gambling and think that they can generate income from gambling, are examples of people who will have damaged relationships, whether family, business, or partner. I often meet people like that. When they earn $500 in a month then they use almost 3/4 of their income to gamble. They hope their bet will be good several times over. Some people can use under 10% of their income to have fun, but the problem is that not everyone can control their desires so they don't get addicted.

That's why addiction has become something that must be avoided. As long as we can still use our brain perfectly and we do know how to prevent being addicted with gambling. The addiction was the key factor in making human to lose its self control.
The willingness to play the game non stop is also making people addicted. No doubt if in the most of cases addiction has become the main problem. It's so hard to leave from there.

Many threads have been also discussing regarding how bad the addiction would be affecting our lives. It's not all of people can't control their finances after they become so addicted to the gambling.

This will be slowly but surely affecting our lives. People shall try even harder in avoiding the addiction. That's the only way.
The addiction can some time makes could to be divorced.

Addiction, addiction, addiction; its like a slot machine that never hits the jackpot, isnt it? You make a pretty solid point about it being a crucial thing to avoid, especially in the world of gambling. Now, there’s a wild idea - what if there were a “gamble-ometer” of sorts, like a breathalyzer but for gambling? Something that locks you out of your online gambling account once you've hit your preset limits.

Financial derailment due to gambling is sadly all too common and a discussion worth having, over and over again. You know, its like spinning the roulette and betting it all on a single number – risky, and usually doesnt pan out well. We gotta be the savvy players of our own lives, placing smart, thought-out bets and knowing when to walk away from the table, with our wallets and relationships intact.

[Weawant]

       -  Actually, it is possible to play gambling without becoming an addict; the only difference is that they let their passion for gambling consume them, and when they experience winning, it becomes a way for them to enter greed into their personality, and when this happens, it becomes the road to having a gambling addiction.

Many have fallen into this concept of gambling. The casino itself doesn't do anything wrong that gives gamblers choices to play gambling, but they still become tools to develop an addiction to gambling.

In the beginning, they gambled without being addicted to gambling. Still, over time, many of them could not control themselves and instead gambled too often, which made them slowly become addicted to gambling and couldn't get away from gambling. When they win, they feel a different pleasure than usual and want to repeat it to get the next win by continuing to gamble. But they don't think that if they continue gambling, they have a chance of losing, which could cost them all their money.

Many have fallen into gambling because they lose self-control, and it causes problems with their relationships with the people around them. If this is left without awareness, those who are addicted to gambling will further worsen the relationship, and there is no possibility of repairing it.

There is a certain percentage of people who are not able to control themselves and their desires and it is not just about gambling. Someone gets drunk on alcoholic beverages to the point where he can't remember anything the next day, someone eats so much food that he exceeds his recommended weight by 2-3 times, someone can't live a sexual life only with his wife and is constantly looking for new partners. In my opinion, the problem here is not gambling, but the inability to control one's desires and unwillingness to limit oneself. 

Good point, some times it's mostly the ability to control, self control is something people need to learn and master the art so they don't have to suffer the after effects of addictions gotten resulting from continues engagement in the act, if only they can get good control of themselves over these habits , they can resist the urge whenever it comes and stay put.

But in the case where the self control is lacking they will really find it difficult to cope and it will definitely affect their relationship and even some other aspects of their lives such as their finance and their character generally. Sometimes if their patterns happen to notice this habits in them, they could possibly help the control themselves as the battle for self control is most times not an easy one and requires help sometimes.

[maydna]

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There is a certain percentage of people who are not able to control themselves and their desires and it is not just about gambling. Someone gets drunk on alcoholic beverages to the point where he can't remember anything the next day, someone eats so much food that he exceeds his recommended weight by 2-3 times, someone can't live a sexual life only with his wife and is constantly looking for new partners. In my opinion, the problem here is not gambling, but the inability to control one's desires and unwillingness to limit oneself. 

This means that it depends on each person to control themselves from their gambling addiction because there are people who are addicted to gambling but can still control themselves so that their gambling addiction does not get serious. This may require practice so the gambling addiction does not get worse and can still be controlled. Being controlled here means that he is still aware that he has a gambling addiction but is still at a good level because he can still control himself. And if that happens, maybe his relationships with other people won't be affected because he can still control himself well.

[LUCKMCFLY]

Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems.

People who have become addicted to gambling and think that they can generate income from gambling, are examples of people who will have damaged relationships, whether family, business, or partner. I often meet people like that. When they earn $500 in a month then they use almost 3/4 of their income to gamble. They hope their bet will be good several times over. Some people can use under 10% of their income to have fun, but the problem is that not everyone can control their desires so they don't get addicted.

When a gambler gets a few wins from gambling he doesn't want to listen to anyone's advice until he loses. He is so confident of winning that he considers gambling as an alternative source of income. Gradually his interest in gambling increased. He gradually became isolated from his family or other circle of friends. On the one hand his  expense increases and on the other hand he gets separated from all kinds of relations. When a person spends a large portion of his income on gambling, his normal life will be disrupted. We always try to keep addiction away from gambling but many are failed.

Of course, when people or some players believe that the game can be used as an alternative source of income, because it is the most reckless thing to do, well some can apply it, maybe you will have luck in applying such a thing in a thread that was talked about the people who are successful in a casino and I consider a person in a casino who every time they play they can do it, as long as they do, for me that is a person who is successful in the game, who knows how to play, and who knows what it is like The process in games that involves many aspects of the game is a plus, but winning is winning, I think nothing goes against that, plus there is something that is a main ingredient in this, what is money, while a person is multiply the die, since it can be considered successful, what happens is that the casino will always have the house advantage, it is very difficult for us to fight against it, because most of the time we stammer and treat each other, but They end up losing more, which is very unusual in a casino like this, there is no reason to feel bad, nor is it a reason to be ashamed, casinos, things are like that and they are applied like that.

When a person thinks that the casino is a bank, or that it is an ATM, I think that at some point that luck will run out and they have to be prepared to face things like that, because something that is difficult is facing losses, that's where it happens. You see the gambler's face, and of course you must already have in your mind that it is something normal, that the casino is a business, it is a company where you will obviously have income, because you cannot make everyone win, so as a player you know that you are competing. against the advantage of the cas plus other things, such as the complexity of the game, the way one has in a state of concentration, all this influences, so a player must always have his degree of self-control because he is a protagonist there in the casino , and that's why they have to do a lot of things to be Profitable.

[carlisle1]

A couple of my friends have a slot game that they play together. This does not affect their relationship, on the contrary, I can say that when they lose, they lose with fun. When they are going to put money on the site, they all put up a capital together and take turns playing. If I give an example, 5 friends and each of them puts 100 dollars. This is 500 dollars in total and they enter the slot game with 500 dollars. Although they don't have an exact figure in their heads, if there is 2000 dollars, they play with the idea that if we take our money and let's split it. When this happens, the loss is everyone's loss and the gain is everyone's gain. There are also methods that do not affect friendships in such a way. Because they know this risk themselves and provide an investment accordingly.

Depending on how people behave, as getting you point, those examples do have things in common and they are good at taking care of
their gambling activities and with problem will not arise.

But in most cases, we seem broken relationship as most of the time a person got addicted and forget about his obligations and limitation.

That's the time where relationship got ruined as gambling addicted person can't no longer control whatever problem inside
him and all he wants to do is to please his lust and desire for gambling.

[ethereumhunter]

A couple of my friends have a slot game that they play together. This does not affect their relationship, on the contrary, I can say that when they lose, they lose with fun. When they are going to put money on the site, they all put up a capital together and take turns playing. If I give an example, 5 friends and each of them puts 100 dollars. This is 500 dollars in total and they enter the slot game with 500 dollars. Although they don't have an exact figure in their heads, if there is 2000 dollars, they play with the idea that if we take our money and let's split it. When this happens, the loss is everyone's loss and the gain is everyone's gain. There are also methods that do not affect friendships in such a way. Because they know this risk themselves and provide an investment accordingly.

Depending on how people behave, as getting you point, those examples do have things in common and they are good at taking care of
their gambling activities and with problem will not arise.

But in most cases, we seem broken relationship as most of the time a person got addicted and forget about his obligations and limitation.

That's the time where relationship got ruined as gambling addicted person can't no longer control whatever problem inside
him and all he wants to do is to please his lust and desire for gambling.

For the case above, it doesn't seem like it will be a problem because each of them knows the risks of gambling so they can overcome the risks. After all, they collect money together and play together with their friends. Using the method above can be done but this requires choosing friends who have the same vision in gambling so that it won't be a problem later. Otherwise, one of them might not be happy to see him lose and will accuse the other friend of not playing well.

And that might disrupt their friendship. For this reason, they must really be able to find friends who can truly realize that what they do in gambling is only for fun and not to make money. And it's not easy to find friends like that because when it comes to money, anything can happen and even affect the friendships they have built for years.

[roksana.hee]

Yes,

Yes, it has the potential to significantly impact personal relationships. it has a potential negative impact on personal relationships. Here you can see how gambling affects relationships. Various types of negative impact names, see below.

- Financial Tensions

- Psychological Casualties

- Loss of Quality Time

- Communication Breakdown

- Impact on Mental Health

- Role Reversal and Enabling

- Legal and Social Consequences

[bayu7adi]

Let me just say that, for me though, even if my wife catches me gambling which  i believe she never will, she can never leave me or end our marriage because of that, it is plainly stupid for a woman to walk out of marriage simply because she caught her husband gambling, such an excuse is too flimsy is you ask me.

When you win, your spouse is happy. But if you keep losing continuously and only deplete your savings, it might lead to negative thoughts from your spouse. As long as gambling remains under control, it's not a problem. A wife should also understand that her husband needs enjoyable entertainment that doesn't involve other women. Gambling can be a fun pastime as long as your finances remain stable after leaving the casino.

There are many factors that can influence a wife's decision regarding whether or not to divorce her husband due to gambling activities. An easy example is economic factors. If you have a private jet and only wager $10 or $100, your wife will never take your gambling seriously. But if you find yourself in the unluckiest position, with limited income and you're spending a lot on gambling, your marital relationship may be on the rocks. A woman might seek a better partner.

[swogerino]

A couple of my friends have a slot game that they play together. This does not affect their relationship, on the contrary, I can say that when they lose, they lose with fun. When they are going to put money on the site, they all put up a capital together and take turns playing. If I give an example, 5 friends and each of them puts 100 dollars. This is 500 dollars in total and they enter the slot game with 500 dollars. Although they don't have an exact figure in their heads, if there is 2000 dollars, they play with the idea that if we take our money and let's split it. When this happens, the loss is everyone's loss and the gain is everyone's gain. There are also methods that do not affect friendships in such a way. Because they know this risk themselves and provide an investment accordingly.

Depending on how people behave, as getting you point, those examples do have things in common and they are good at taking care of
their gambling activities and with problem will not arise.

But in most cases, we seem broken relationship as most of the time a person got addicted and forget about his obligations and limitation.

That's the time where relationship got ruined as gambling addicted person can't no longer control whatever problem inside
him and all he wants to do is to please his lust and desire for gambling.

For the case above, it doesn't seem like it will be a problem because each of them knows the risks of gambling so they can overcome the risks. After all, they collect money together and play together with their friends. Using the method above can be done but this requires choosing friends who have the same vision in gambling so that it won't be a problem later. Otherwise, one of them might not be happy to see him lose and will accuse the other friend of not playing well.

And that might disrupt their friendship. For this reason, they must really be able to find friends who can truly realize that what they do in gambling is only for fun and not to make money. And it's not easy to find friends like that because when it comes to money, anything can happen and even affect the friendships they have built for years.

Money has ruined tons of friendships and relationships.The problem is to not overdo it and not to gamble in excess or that is a guaranteed thing to disrupt your relationship,family status and many other good things because excess gambling can only bring bad things,like not a good mental health,not a good mood or humor and all sort of related things that can make you escalate pretty quickly in any argument or relationship you maybe in.

That is why for me it is always better to gamble alone,even if your spouse knows it she should not interfere as interfering will bring back those things which they too escalate quickly and can disrupt for the worse the relationship.