Gambler avoiding friends after a big win.

[Outhue]

 I think this person did the right thing because if the money the one is very big it could make his dear friends to betray him, I believe the gambler is just scared for his life, there are too many betrayers happening now, and you can't even trust anyone when it's about money, the one you don't even expect to betray you will do it.

 It is also possible that this Gambler is a very stingy man maybe he get away from his friend to avoid giving them some part of the money there are some people who are like this they are hiding their real self because they don't have money and once they get access to some money that is where they will start avoiding people who was with them right from the beginning when they are nobody but all in all I don't want to judge this Gambler because it is unclear what really happened why they decide to make such decision.

 There are some people who keep some friends just because they don't want to be alone and there are some people who keep friends because those friends are genuinely good friend to them so let's not judge anybody you can be in the same position where has the friends you keep you cannot be trusted and there is a part in you that believe that you can't trust them so once you eat a money and they're aware that you eat that money you won't want to stay around such friends since you never trust them right from the beginning so I believe this story looks something like this but I'm not really sure.

Whatever the case might be, there is something we can learn from this story, do not trust people that you never trusted right from day one when you have access to some valuable things or money, they can be the end of you, and do not betray your good friend simply because you are now richer than they are.

[Jody.Drummer]

Yes, as I said above, it's better to hide it than to tell people or friends around, because of course at least there will be ugliness that they might talk about behind saying that we are one of the stingy friends. whether it's a misunderstanding or whatever the point is, there will definitely be ugliness in friendship because of problems that should not be a problem.

True, I also like to look first at the character of the friends around me, if indeed they are very good to me in any case then at least I will definitely leave a little money from the victory to give to him. Unless like you said, if they have a bad character and lack solidarity in friendship then I will definitely hide it, don't care about them, for sure I will behave well to people who are also good to me and know the sign of gratitude.

      -  I also get the point, on the other hand, somehow, because sometimes we have the mentality that we think that our friend's behavior is like that, so we prefer to avoid them. Now, in a situation like that, if I know that the friends I'm with are not really close to me, I would rather keep quiet and not make it obvious that I'm avoiding them.

And apart from that, I will tell them the value of the win first, and if I tell it for sure to someone who knows that I trust completely and who is considered family and important to me,

It is better to prevent than to cure, instead you want to boast about yourself because you have been able to get a victory but on the other hand behind the scenes you are talked about by them because you only sponsor but do not give any rations to your friends as a form of celebrating the results of your victory. It really depends on yourself, if you really want to give them some of the winnings then go ahead if you want to tell them, but if you don't want to give anything then I think it's better to keep it a secret. That's right, it's better to keep quiet and behave as usual by not showing anything and also not to avoid them because there will definitely be suspicion.

If you do want to give a little of the winnings to the closest person then yes you can tell in detail how much it is because if you lie about the amount then surely there might be suspicion, especially if you give it very little. Therefore, honesty is better but you must know the place and know who the person is.

[pawanjain]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

I can think of only 3 reasons why that colleague would behave in this way.

1. He wants to stay low because he doesn't want many people to know about his winning. We know that lots of money brings unwanted attention and may be that's why he is keeping distance from everyone until he figures out what to do with this money.

2. He would be thinking that his colleagues would ask him for money and he doesn't want to give them any.

3. He might be busy enjoying his reward elsewhere.

 Funny enough, I see some reasons in your line of thought. But if it was his friend that won that money and not him, i believe he would be complaining of the Same thing if his friend is giving him this same attitude he currently dishing out. Money some times brings out some hidden characters in people, and the guy has shown to be that kind of person to his friends. There is nothing wrong in giving his friends some amount of money to share within themselves, at least to cheer them up for their friendship over the years, doing that wouldn't make him go broke.

Staying away from his friends, wouldn't increase the money, if he doesn't invest it, the money will still finish and when it finishes will he still be able to see those his abandoned friends as people that he can mingle with again..No.

Sometimes I wonder why some people allow money to control their thinking. Who knows if tomorrow one of those his friends will win a bigger amount of money than what he won, and would also treat him the way he treated them. I don't see any reason why we are to stay far from our friends when we are somebody but embrace them when we are nobody.

Once you do leave and abandon those friends then it would really be final and there's no turning back but if you are lucky then there are really friends who are really that willing or ready to forgive you but of course this is something that cant be known until it would happen. Come to think that there's no such thing about permanent on this world and we do know on how relevant on having a friend is but its not shocking that for the sake of money then anyone could really changed up an instant and this is something not really that good to look at on which you are really that making yourself getting that controlled with the love of money or simply being greedy on which you are really that prepared or willing to surrender anything for the sake of it on which it isnt really that a good quality of a certain person.

Good thing if you do able to make those amounts to be able to make it big or something that could sustain you but we know that it wont really be that easy specially on investment or whatever business you would be making. Once you do able to fail then you would really be coming back into those basic things on which meeting up with friends and hanging out again? It wont really be that the same ever
again after you have abandoned them.This is why its never been that ideal on taking up such action specially when it comes to relationship because money cant really be able to
exchange or replace that loyalty and friendship.

That is true. Managing expenses and investments is not everyone's cup of tea. In fact, many people are bad at managing their wealth and end up bring broke even after having a huge amount of money.
We have already seen people who had won a huge amount of money in lotteries still ended up being poor. So such people lose their wealth as well as their relationships with their closed ones just because they changed when they got money.
Nothing lasts forever and I have even written it as my personal text in my profile. People should be aware of this fact and stay humble with everyone.

[Ever-young]

It's already nothing new because people think there's no real friends because they've experienced to become a royal with a fake friends. So they treat every friends are same and not deserved to get his money.

This happens a lot as you have pointed out, but most times the friends might also be the one to be blame this is because for someone to keep you by his side when he have made it in left means, at the struggling stage you where there giving them that support they needed to overcome what ever circumstances that hardship have presented and doing that alone shows that those people have the interest of your success at hand.

So the question is, the people who claims the man have abandoned them and forgetting their long time friendship, when he have not won that bet what have they done for him, have they supported him in any way, even if it’s not financially have they given him any form of moral support which will help him reach where he is today. No body want to keep who can’t help them go far in life close to them, I have money now means I should be dreaming big and anything that will want to drag be backward I will have to cut those things up, so I believe that’s what the guy in question just did.

[Gozie51]

That lucky gambler is just want to play safe because he thought those two bald guys will ask him to give some money because they will say they're his "best friends". As long as this person isn't join other circle which is rich or has luxurious lifestyle, he's not a bad guy.

I quite understand why that person did that, it's why I don't think he's making mistake or become arrogant when he stay away from his old circle.

Apart from gambling win, money is something that reveals your true self on what you are capable of doing. Many people are selfish but you won't know until there is a thing happening that will reveal the real identify of the like the gambler who ran off his gambling friends . Now is he associating with the guys who have some money but he couldn't do that before his winning, he sticked with his friends. He has inferiority idealogy and that is why he felt he has moved up and won't go to the gambling friends. Anyway, money is transient if not well managed.

So the question is, the people who claims the man have abandoned them and forgetting their long time friendship, when he have not won that bet what have they done for him, have they supported him in any way, even if it’s not financially have they given him any form of moral support which will help him reach where he is today. No body want to keep who can’t help them go far in life close to them, I have money now means I should be dreaming big and anything that will want to drag be backward I will have to cut those things up, so I believe that’s what the guy in question just did.

However, it depends on the level of friendship that exist between them because I know some gamblers just form clique while gambling because they share shame goal and aspiration which is to win big some day and this is fustered because they meet almost on a daily basis at the offline gambling house. So in such situation they may not be regarded as friends that are indepted to each other one way or the other but there are also true friends who have been through thick and thin, so you don't have to move on like that after all you guys where there together and putting heads together trying to summount the insurmountable financial huddles all the while.

[Josefjix]

Apart from gambling win, money is something that reveals your true self on what you are capable of doing. Many people are selfish but you won't know until there is a thing happening that will reveal the real identify of the like the gambler who ran off his gambling friends . Now is he associating with the guys who have some money but he couldn't do that before his winning, he sticked with his friends. He has inferiority idealogy and that is why he felt he has moved up and won't go to the gambling friends. Anyway, money is transient if not well managed.

Losing and winning are both different in the system. When a gambler records losses, he finds means to sort out himself with recreational activities that would ease his pains and probably hang out with friends, he would do anything to forget about the terrible incidents about the space, but anytime he made hugh winnings, he will definitely keep it discreet if he happens to be that mute guy that doesn't like spreading good news because people will always comes to your dms for aides, both the ones that's your close friends and the ones that are not, choosing not to spread good news of winnings is impressive and totally understandable,  besides he has other priorities to reach.

[Negotiation]

It's already nothing new because people think there's no real friends because they've experienced to become a royal with a fake friends. So they treat every friends are same and not deserved to get his money.

This happens a lot as you have pointed out, but most times the friends might also be the one to be blame this is because for someone to keep you by his side when he have made it in left means, at the struggling stage you where there giving them that support they needed to overcome what ever circumstances that hardship have presented and doing that alone shows that those people have the interest of your success at hand.

So the question is, the people who claims the man have abandoned them and forgetting their long time friendship, when he have not won that bet what have they done for him, have they supported him in any way, even if it’s not financially have they given him any form of moral support which will help him reach where he is today. No body want to keep who can’t help them go far in life close to them, I have money now means I should be dreaming big and anything that will want to drag be backward I will have to cut those things up, so I believe that’s what the guy in question just did.

It does not take time to forget a long term relationship if someone is financially harmed but one's moral values will not work here for betting it depends entirely on luck so it is not right to behave like this. Life moves at its own pace and in its own way and with it comes a change in the world of thought of man some friendships don't stay the same for good reasons friendships don't have to be all the same. But many feel that it is important to stay on the same straight line and when they don't get it it becomes difficult for them to maintain friendship.

[noormcs5]

It's already nothing new because people think there's no real friends because they've experienced to become a royal with a fake friends. So they treat every friends are same and not deserved to get his money.

This happens a lot as you have pointed out, but most times the friends might also be the one to be blame this is because for someone to keep you by his side when he have made it in left means, at the struggling stage you where there giving them that support they needed to overcome what ever circumstances that hardship have presented and doing that alone shows that those people have the interest of your success at hand.

So the question is, the people who claims the man have abandoned them and forgetting their long time friendship, when he have not won that bet what have they done for him, have they supported him in any way, even if it’s not financially have they given him any form of moral support which will help him reach where he is today. No body want to keep who can’t help them go far in life close to them, I have money now means I should be dreaming big and anything that will want to drag be backward I will have to cut those things up, so I believe that’s what the guy in question just did.

It does not take time to forget a long term relationship if someone is financially harmed but one's moral values will not work here for betting it depends entirely on luck so it is not right to behave like this. Life moves at its own pace and in its own way and with it comes a change in the world of thought of man some friendships don't stay the same for good reasons friendships don't have to be all the same. But many feel that it is important to stay on the same straight line and when they don't get it it becomes difficult for them to maintain friendship.

That's really sad that the long and old friendship just get break only because of jealousy and a person winning big amount in gambling.
Not all the time this happens but if the relationship is broken because of this reason then believe me those friends were never true friends and they were only for the some individual benefits which we don't need to discuss.

Maybe you can take positive thing from this that if a friend leaves another friend because he has won some money then it's better that friend leave him forever as they are not true friends.

[tjtonmoy]

I don't think a gambler should take that far, how much did they win that will warrant that kind of treatment. The money he won will finish at some point and when that happens, if he is the type that cannot mingle alone, he will be feeling lonely and will want to regroup with the same guys he left when he had a minor change with him.

I think the guy is only stingy type that thinks his friends are after his money that will finish one day. Only few people use gambling money for serious things, most likely pay bills and enjoy for some couple of days and then go back to how they are use to been broke. As long as he didn't win a jack pot of money, by the time the money finish, he will comr back to the street.

I don't know any story or any details about something like this. But this seems logical unless the gambler decides to quit gambling and invest what he own and to some businesses and carry on with his life that way. But most people don't think like this, especially gamblers. They think that they have won something with their luck and this money should be used for luxurious things. Or for gambling in the future.

Not everyday people win jackpot. So if the guy who wins it decides to do better in life, then he should always prioritize investing that money in order to make more money and not blew it all away again in gambling in hopes for another jackpot. But as a gambler I don't think many people do this.

[temple]

I don't think a gambler should take that far, how much did they win that will warrant that kind of treatment. The money he won will finish at some point and when that happens, if he is the type that cannot mingle alone, he will be feeling lonely and will want to regroup with the same guys he left when he had a minor change with him.

I think the guy is only stingy type that thinks his friends are after his money that will finish one day. Only few people use gambling money for serious things, most likely pay bills and enjoy for some couple of days and then go back to how they are use to been broke. As long as he didn't win a jack pot of money, by the time the money finish, he will comr back to the street.

I don't know any story or any details about something like this. But this seems logical unless the gambler decides to quit gambling and invest what he own and to some businesses and carry on with his life that way. But most people don't think like this, especially gamblers. They think that they have won something with their luck and this money should be used for luxurious things. Or for gambling in the future.

Not everyday people win jackpot. So if the guy who wins it decides to do better in life, then he should always prioritize investing that money in order to make more money and not blew it all away again in gambling in hopes for another jackpot. But as a gambler I don't think many people do this.

Stopping to gamble when players have a winning streak is hard to do and I wonder what the main motivation would be to avoid so called friends when someone won big. It could either be because he wants to avoid other people being jealous or maybe he also knows that these friends will get him back to gambling rather sooner than later and that is why he wants to avoid them. Another question is when someone stops because he won big, what does "stopping" really mean? Quit gambling forever or just that night and maybe temporarily for a few weeks. In the end gambling is what it is, a game of chance and if someone keeps gambling long enough, becoming a loser again because luck is gone is only a question of time. I think it really is a rare story that someone wins big, quits gambling forever and uses the money in reasonable ways. So many people can't handle huge lottery wins for a reason.

[FanEagle]

Not really stupid idea, wouldn't say that it is a good one neither.

The problem here is that if you think that you have the type of people around you that would ask for money if you have a lot, then you are with wrong people to begin with. Get people who like you for who you are and not your money before you get rich, the fact that you will need to cut contact with people because you fear that you are going to get bombarded with money requests means that you were never with people who were all that decent.

So yes, I agree that the idea of cutting all contact with those people is a smart move and you should do that if those people around you are like that, but the problem with that is the fact that you spent your life so far with those kind of people and called them your friend, that should be an important distinction.

I could tell all my friends that I won 10 million dollars today, everyone around me, and aside from my wife who will spend most of it in 5 minutes (lol) nobody else would care about it and just congratulate me and move on.

[Sakanwa]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

That guy who won the money just showed his true self. Using his friend for his own convinience and abandoning them after the success. Money can be gone in an instant but true friendship last forever. I believe that true friends is more valuable than millions. Though not all has the same mindset as mine and we can't blame that friend because it might be his true nature. Luckily I don't have friends like that, in fact they helped me in making me join in their hussle which makes us all benificial with each other.

You are right mate,it is true that the true colour of a man shows when he has money,a man can remain humble and cool when there is no money,but immediately he starts seeing money,he can change overnight,and you will now come to see the arrogance that has been hiding under his skin.Money can intoxicate you know.This particular one is happening everywhere,that  people change when money enters their hand,but they forget to know that life is not always good,It isn't balanced at atall.
If you have the chance to help anyone today,better do it because you don't know how tomorrow will turn out to be,thesame friends you abandoned,might be thesame people you will run to for help,and with this attitude displayed,they might turn their back on you as well.

[ethereumhunter]

You are right mate,it is true that the true colour of a man shows when he has money,a man can remain humble and cool when there is no money,but immediately he starts seeing money,he can change overnight,and you will now come to see the arrogance that has been hiding under his skin.Money can intoxicate you know.This particular one is happening everywhere,that  people change when money enters their hand,but they forget to know that life is not always good,It isn't balanced at atall.
If you have the chance to help anyone today,better do it because you don't know how tomorrow will turn out to be,thesame friends you abandoned,might be thesame people you will run to for help,and with this attitude displayed,they might turn their back on you as well.

And this has happened to many people where they can change and be different from before when they have money. We may have experienced it in our friendships with friends like that. But it's up to them if they decide because it's their money and they can do as they like. We also can't say that they changed because of money, even though that is the reality. And we also can't blame them for doing it because human nature is like that and we must understand it. And if later they come to us needy, we must not say bad things about them. We can accept them back as friends. But if someone can't accept him as a friend, that's okay because it depends on each person.

[bayu7adi]

A million dollars is a substantial sum, and buying a meal for two friends wouldn't cost more than $150 to enjoy a delicious feast. I personally view it as a friend who doesn't understand the meaning of sharing joys and sorrows. Perhaps today, they win a bet, but tomorrow when they lose, they shouldn't be seeking help from their friends.

Selfish behavior among gamblers is rare, but it does exist in this world. Those who win from gambling usually share a bit with their friends who lose.

For friends who derive enjoyment from the winnings of a gambling champion, don't be selfish and squander the money your friend has earned. We all don't know the individual needs of others, so if invited to celebrate, at the very least, a friend can restrain themselves from burdening the one who treated us to a meal with their gambling winnings. The key is mutual respect to maintain a strong friendship.

[piebeyb]

Maybe you can take positive thing from this that if a friend leaves another friend because he has won some money then it's better that friend leave him forever as they are not true friends.

Sometimes we need to see someone's character with just a little money or a few big wins at gambling, usually we can see which friends are true and which are not, but be grateful if you know what the character of a friend is if you win big money and then stay away from you, so you You can know someone's character with money, after all there are no real friends in this world because everything depends on money. but I won't make any deeper accusations because there could be certain reasons why a friend distances himself from his friend when he wins big.

For example, I once felt that I had a lot of money when I won big, at times like that, many people approached me, from people I didn't know to becoming close friends with me, so that there I could also see which ones were really sincere as friends and which ones were just being a sycophant, basically we can know a person's character from money alone which is more than enough, when I didn't have money there were no friends who were truly sincere to me and everyone left me, at that time when I had money, family was someone The person I prioritize to experience victory more than a friend.

[len01]

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will not blame anyone in that situation and if we think logically I appreciate the person efforts to avoid his friends after a big win because in my experience history when a friend finds out another friend has a lot of money and tries to borrow a large amount promises to return it but in In the end, they did not return the money and the two parties quarreled and broke off their friendship. so if that person avoids his friends to avoid this situation, I really appreciate it because he wants to maintain his friendship with other friends because money can break someone good relationship.

but if we think instantly we will think how bad that person is when it is difficult and happy they are always together but when they win they disappear and avoid other friends and should win big amounts at least give tips whatever the amount to the people closest to them to give them a feeling of gratitude for getting a big win but after all, it was a decision he had taken and as a friend he did not have to think badly.

For me, there’s no need to avoid your friends because you are just afraid that they will try to borrow you and won’t be able to return the money. Instead, face them and tell them the truth that you are also in need of that money so that they will also understand your point. At least, giving them some tips regardless of the amount will make them feel that they are not forgotten and are still important to you. If they are really your friends, they will understand you and won’t never criticize your decision.

your reply succeeded in impressing me and I really appreciate the very wise thoughts related to remaining honest and brave not to avoid friends when they win big and the method you gave is very reasonable and as a friend you will definitely really understand the situation.

but back to each other thoughts because sometimes someone has slightly bad thoughts when trouble comes to their friends but when they get a lot of money they actually avoid their friends and this behavior is actually very inappropriate to be considered friends because as friends we dont need money but need time to gamble together even if you use real money just to hang out and have fun.

[Roseline492]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

Actually you wouldn't blame his actions because those guys are his friends or rather best of friends and before he could behave that way towards his best friends there could be something fishy he may have sense towards his friends perhaps he may have noticed that if giving them the opportunity they could harm him, because I have seen a case were someone won a huge sum of money from gambling and do to the level of trust he had for his friend so he decided to open up and told the guy the money he won and his friend became envious on the guy so he drug the guy and made away with his money without leaving a cent for him.

So no matter how close we may be with people we shouldn't be blinded by trust because a friend that claims to love you may be your worst enemy in a disguise form.

[Fatunad]

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will not blame anyone in that situation and if we think logically I appreciate the person efforts to avoid his friends after a big win because in my experience history when a friend finds out another friend has a lot of money and tries to borrow a large amount promises to return it but in In the end, they did not return the money and the two parties quarreled and broke off their friendship. so if that person avoids his friends to avoid this situation, I really appreciate it because he wants to maintain his friendship with other friends because money can break someone good relationship.

but if we think instantly we will think how bad that person is when it is difficult and happy they are always together but when they win they disappear and avoid other friends and should win big amounts at least give tips whatever the amount to the people closest to them to give them a feeling of gratitude for getting a big win but after all, it was a decision he had taken and as a friend he did not have to think badly.

For me, there’s no need to avoid your friends because you are just afraid that they will try to borrow you and won’t be able to return the money. Instead, face them and tell them the truth that you are also in need of that money so that they will also understand your point. At least, giving them some tips regardless of the amount will make them feel that they are not forgotten and are still important to you. If they are really your friends, they will understand you and won’t never criticize your decision.

your reply succeeded in impressing me and I really appreciate the very wise thoughts related to remaining honest and brave not to avoid friends when they win big and the method you gave is very reasonable and as a friend you will definitely really understand the situation.

but back to each other thoughts because sometimes someone has slightly bad thoughts when trouble comes to their friends but when they get a lot of money they actually avoid their friends and this behavior is actually very inappropriate to be considered friends because as friends we dont need money but need time to gamble together even if you use real money just to hang out and have fun.

Even human beings does really have  that having in love with money but not all the times that we would really be just like that on which there are really ones who do cherish out their friendship rather than with money or whatsoever that correlates about money because not all the time that people around you would really be mattering on the money you do have. If your friends that you've been dealing or been together with those gambling sessions and then you do suddenly won big amount of money then they would really be surely be happy  for you on what you had experience which we know that winning significant amount is really that rare.
There would really be those common reactions that they would really be joking around that they would be asking a little amount of sort of bonus but its not  something that they would really be asking big or something that mandatory. It would really be just always be depending on someones personality on which there are ones who dont really care if you do win or not as long you are with together or having that cherishing the friendship you do have. As their friend then it would really be just that right that you do have that kind of treatment too on which you dont let money would really be tarnishing out that kind of relationship with other people
specially that you've been long together on things around.

[Westinhome]

your reply succeeded in impressing me and I really appreciate the very wise thoughts related to remaining honest and brave not to avoid friends when they win big and the method you gave is very reasonable and as a friend you will definitely really understand the situation.

but back to each other thoughts because sometimes someone has slightly bad thoughts when trouble comes to their friends but when they get a lot of money they actually avoid their friends and this behavior is actually very inappropriate to be considered friends because as friends we dont need money but need time to gamble together even if you use real money just to hang out and have fun.

The gambler friends had two sides,one is ready to enjoy your victory alone.So it’s essential to skip those friends after the big win from the gambling.It’s essential to keep of one list who had helped you at the time of your sad part of the life.They may help you by two ways,one is by financial at the hard times.Second category people will help you emotional at the bad times.So join hand of your friends who helped at bad times.Then they will realise your real character,If the gambler only join after the victory in the gambling.This friends also try to steal your winning money by asking th loan to repay in shorter period of time.

[Lida93]

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will not blame anyone in that situation and if we think logically I appreciate the person efforts to avoid his friends after a big win because in my experience history when a friend finds out another friend has a lot of money and tries to borrow a large amount promises to return it but in In the end, they did not return the money and the two parties quarreled and broke off their friendship. so if that person avoids his friends to avoid this situation, I really appreciate it because he wants to maintain his friendship with other friends because money can break someone good relationship.

but if we think instantly we will think how bad that person is when it is difficult and happy they are always together but when they win they disappear and avoid other friends and should win big amounts at least give tips whatever the amount to the people closest to them to give them a feeling of gratitude for getting a big win but after all, it was a decision he had taken and as a friend he did not have to think badly.

For me, there’s no need to avoid your friends because you are just afraid that they will try to borrow you and won’t be able to return the money. Instead, face them and tell them the truth that you are also in need of that money so that they will also understand your point. At least, giving them some tips regardless of the amount will make them feel that they are not forgotten and are still important to you. If they are really your friends, they will understand you and won’t never criticize your decision.

your reply succeeded in impressing me and I really appreciate the very wise thoughts related to remaining honest and brave not to avoid friends when they win big and the method you gave is very reasonable and as a friend you will definitely really understand the situation.

but back to each other thoughts because sometimes someone has slightly bad thoughts when trouble comes to their friends but when they get a lot of money they actually avoid their friends and this behavior is actually very inappropriate to be considered friends because as friends we dont need money but need time to gamble together even if you use real money just to hang out and have fun.

it's actually frightening that someone you were having at heart as a friend would just give you some distance because they won huge amount of money. A friend you all probably shared both bad and good moments in all the times you guys have been gambling and just for him to be so fortunate to win that huge amount and he suddenly turned cold and seeing you his own friends as liability that will squander his money if he still stick around.  You guys didn't squander the little he had when he was with you then it's huge amount you'll squander, doesn't that sound hilarious.

It would make much sense he still sticks around but mad it plain  to his friends that he has budgeted the money for some investment or business project so he doesn't have money to give them from the win, I think that would have made sense more than anything else.