Gambler avoiding friends after a big win.

[Fredomago]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

I think he had a personal reason for his actions, but if they were truly close friends and not just gambling buddies, he wouldn't behave that way. Sometimes, celebrating victories with friends is great, but it's not necessary every time. In life, not everyone is genuinely happy for your success some might be envious and pretend to join your celebrations. Personally, I usually bring all my close friends along whenever I have a victory.

There's always a reasn behind and we can't conclude if they are close friends or just a gambling buddies but if it's happen that they are close friends it's better to give that decent reason on why you needed to avoid them, else, the one who win that big amount was been eaten by the money that he acquired, we can't remove that fact, people change either because of power or because of money.

[CryptSafe]

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Of course if one trust his or her friends, one would be able to own up to them whatever the case maybe but the reverse was the case here he did not tell his friends anything but rather he chose to hide and run away from them. This goes a long way to tell you who they are. Probably they might have been making jest of him and unknown to them he knew what they were doing to him but he chose to remain silent about it till he win redeemed his win and he fled from them. Although he has the right whatsoever to do whatever he wishes to do with his wins and that does not really concerns anybody.

He should do it like that because he already knows who his friends are, rather than later having trouble having to comply with his friends' requests. Hiding our winnings from friends who would only ask for something from us is sometimes necessary so that they don't come to us just because there is something they want. We don't need friends like that because they are only there when we are happy, but they won't be there when we are experiencing difficulties. We already know who our good and bad friends are, and we choose which ones we will invite to celebrate the win and which ones we will leave alone. They also can't force their will on us to celebrate their win if we don't want to.

What he did I think is what he feels is the best for him to have done. I believe he must have seeked the opinion of well meaningful individuals before he took that step because I know on a normal he could have just let his friends know that he would be traveling or changing environment and possibly might not tell them about his wins but they would have found out wether he told them or not but what matters most is his safety with respect to the amount of his wins.  Many people have that friend who only wants to benefit and not contribute and when it is time for merriment, you would always see them at the front singing and shouting your praises when they are not the reflection of what they do at the time of your reimbursement. These has made people to take such decisions of running away when ever they make it big avoiding their friends and most times relatives as well. So OP took such decisions based on his experience with his friends.

[Suzume]

There is different personalities person in everyone's friend circle. Some are selfish and some want to do something with their friends. Those type of people who make friends for benefits. This type of people ignore his friends after do something good in life. They ignore those friends who don't do something good in life and want help from him. This is not all are same those who want to do something together never avoid there friend after a big win. Those who make friends for benefits that type of person avoid.

[arimamib]

The saying "Money reveal people" is quite common. I usually don't believe this phrase, and I used to imagine that friends would always have nice intentions towards one another, but I later realised that this is not true because life is full of diverse individuals, each with their own personalities and viewpoints.

It's best to never expect anything from anyone because everyone is out for themselves. This kind of behaviour is nothing new to me anymore, and whenever there are three friends, I usually anticipate one of them to have such an attitude. Why should you be surprised if it occurs amongst friends when it has even happened between blood brothers? When you put expectations on people all you will get from them disappointments so i have learned to live on my own and not expect much from people.

I believe there is truth in the saying "Money reveals people", not only about people who have the money, but also the people around the people who have the money. sometimes people have intention towards the people who have the money, and sometimes people avoid other's intensions towards themself because they feel people only want to benefit from their money.

it also reveals that there are people who dont get affected by having big money. but this situation needs to go both ways, the ones who have it and the ones around them. if not, there will still be the affection. and this affection is revealed in the attitude of those people.
yeah.. expectation plays the big part.

[CryptSafe]

Everyone is entitled to their actions likewise the gambler so if he decided to act that way you would not blame him because they say, experience is a teacher. He has learnt alot from his friends and was quiet following them and when it happened to him that he won big time, he fled for his safety and did not tell his friends because possibly he could not trust them to protect him but rather would want to run.him.down. I believe this was his logic before running away with his wins.

As you said, he has the right to do that, especially if he sees that his friends cannot be trusted. He would probably prefer to hide his win rather than tell his friends and only tell it to those close to him. But whatever the reason, he is entitled to his win, and to say or hide it also depends on him. He will choose whichever is comfortable for him, and if he feels he can say something about his win, he will say so. His other friends also had no right to force him to tell them about what happened with the bet because he had avoided them.

To me, the only weird thing is that you avoid your friends just because you won, if you don't tell them that you won big in gambling that's normal but if you avoid your friends just because you won big in gambling I think that is not normal. Yes, that's his right, but I don't think that's normal.

I think their friend's head has grown up, there are many people like this that when they make a lot of money they forget, they become arrogant. It's not bad to be picky if you need it, the bad thing is that you avoid your friends just because you won a lot of money in gambling even though they don't do anything to you. They will understand if you can't give them because they are your friends.

It is a personal decision he took and that is non of anybody's business. Possibly maybe he must down that for his own personal reasons or security situations because lost people are just funny you know. What if his friends are the type of that nature what do you think they could do to him. I believe he did that for his own safety and another thing you should think is how his friends treated him.while they were all together because people tend to respond to the same manners as they were treated when they had nothing in their name.
So it is not a thing of judging him for his actions but to find out the reasons behind his actions as that could tell why he acted that way.

[LUCKMCFLY]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

I think he had a personal reason for his actions, but if they were truly close friends and not just gambling buddies, he wouldn't behave that way. Sometimes, celebrating victories with friends is great, but it's not necessary every time. In life, not everyone is genuinely happy for your success some might be envious and pretend to join your celebrations. Personally, I usually bring all my close friends along whenever I have a victory.

I think if they are close friends and not close because of gambling involvement I don't think they should avoid their friends when they get a win, a win in gambling doesn't have a strong enough reason for them to avoid one of their friends, although maybe I can't say that's entirely true because it depends on their personality too, and if they are a stingy person then no matter whether it's a close or distant friend they will still behave stingy by hiding their winnings.

So I think it depends on the friendship between the two people and also depends on the personal nature of the person who gets the winnings, and also on the other hand actually the person who wins has the freedom to whatever they want to do with the money, there is no other person's right to your luck, and maybe if you are generous then you can share a small portion of the winnings with others. Of course, while on the other hand enjoying the winnings with friends is fun, I always do that because there is a thrill and enjoyment in itself, honestly I don't care whether or not people are jealous of my luck but what is certain is that I have increased solidarity by doing good to them, and as for whether or not they will be happy with my luck is up to them.

Sometimes we have to be people who should not get attached in some way to others, get attached to the fact of considering friends to people who in reality are not just, but are companions, who mainly noticed that what there was was a companion where there was no He had no type of connection with others, merely as playmates, where each one shared a meeting or something like that, because a friend does not really forget the people who have helped him, in part the people who are from this style they have to clarify to others what they are, because if they are like that then you must be very clear so as not to have false expectations, in a casino in anything that is going to be done by risking money, you have to be very clear, obviously They were 3 friends, colleagues, they should have agreed on something first of all, so that any of the 3 when they have a high income of money, then in some way give some percentage and in this way many things are avoided, that is why everything has to be balanced .

What I can conclude from this type of case is that, in addition, they are not family or something that can make them like a connection or a link, this is what you have to see, now, once things are settled in a casino clear because it has to be taken into consideration that whoever of the group wins, since he takes a higher percentage than the others, that is what has to be done when working in a team, group or whatever, although to be However, I would not recommend working as a team, because that is like working in a partnership and that when there is even the slightest incident or misunderstanding, the parties come out torn, if they are friends, or whatever they have, then the money is not worth it. It's a shame that things are going that way, but whenever you are going to deal with what you want, which is money, everything must be discussed, including signing to avoid problems. It is better to sign because only then the word of all parties is preserved. .

[wxa7115]

What he did I think is what he feels is the best for him to have done. I believe he must have seeked the opinion of well meaningful individuals before he took that step because I know on a normal he could have just let his friends know that he would be traveling or changing environment and possibly might not tell them about his wins but they would have found out wether he told them or not but what matters most is his safety with respect to the amount of his wins.  Many people have that friend who only wants to benefit and not contribute and when it is time for merriment, you would always see them at the front singing and shouting your praises when they are not the reflection of what they do at the time of your reimbursement. These has made people to take such decisions of running away when ever they make it big avoiding their friends and most times relatives as well. So OP took such decisions based on his experience with his friends.

While some may consider this to be a bad attitude to have towards their friends we do not know what could have pushed this person to take that decision.

As for all we know they could have been justified on their actions and what they did is what any other rational person would have done, as it is easy to take the side of their friends as this is the only information the OP received, but as we know there are always two versions of the same story, and maybe if the OP heard it they will understand why this happened.

[angrybirdy]

What he did I think is what he feels is the best for him to have done. I believe he must have seeked the opinion of well meaningful individuals before he took that step because I know on a normal he could have just let his friends know that he would be traveling or changing environment and possibly might not tell them about his wins but they would have found out wether he told them or not but what matters most is his safety with respect to the amount of his wins.  Many people have that friend who only wants to benefit and not contribute and when it is time for merriment, you would always see them at the front singing and shouting your praises when they are not the reflection of what they do at the time of your reimbursement. These has made people to take such decisions of running away when ever they make it big avoiding their friends and most times relatives as well. So OP took such decisions based on his experience with his friends.

While some may consider this to be a bad attitude to have towards their friends we do not know what could have pushed this person to take that decision.

As for all we know they could have been justified on their actions and what they did is what any other rational person would have done, as it is easy to take the side of their friends as this is the only information the OP received, but as we know there are always two versions of the same story, and maybe if the OP heard it they will understand why this happened.

We need to hear both sides of the story! kidding aside, It's quite difficult to judge since we don't know the possible issues prior the winning break of that person. maybe there's a misunderstanding between them or maybe they are not that close and those friends assume that they are. I don't think a person will avoid you without having any valid reason and for me, if I won a big prize, there's a tendency that I will treat my friends since they are my company during the gambling session.

[piebeyb]

There is different personalities person in everyone's friend circle. Some are selfish and some want to do something with their friends. Those type of people who make friends for benefits. This type of people ignore his friends after do something good in life. They ignore those friends who don't do something good in life and want help from him. This is not all are same those who want to do something together never avoid there friend after a big win. Those who make friends for benefits that type of person avoid.

There are many types of friends in question, so they cannot be equated with just one view, if they are only friends when gambling I don't think they are real friends, maybe there are things that allow someone to forget their friends when they get a big win from gambling, usually maybe friends like that often borrow money but never pay back the borrowed money and it is difficult to be charged for that, so avoiding it is the right way to win big. 

It is true that in a circle of friends each has their own personality which perhaps we cannot know if we are just friends and have only been introduced for a year or two, which is different from having been friends since childhood because the personalities are more different, so if you ask why you should avoid it when your friend wins, that is their right as well so There is no need to think of him as a stingy person. There is a reason why we should think positively about him, don't think anything negative.

[Docnaster]

There is different personalities person in everyone's friend circle. Some are selfish and some want to do something with their friends. Those type of people who make friends for benefits. This type of people ignore his friends after do something good in life. They ignore those friends who don't do something good in life and want help from him. This is not all are same those who want to do something together never avoid there friend after a big win. Those who make friends for benefits that type of person avoid.

There are many types of friends in question, so they cannot be equated with just one view, if they are only friends when gambling I don't think they are real friends, maybe there are things that allow someone to forget their friends when they get a big win from gambling, usually maybe friends like that often borrow money but never pay back the borrowed money and it is difficult to be charged for that, so avoiding it is the right way to win big. 

It is true that in a circle of friends each has their own personality which perhaps we cannot know if we are just friends and have only been introduced for a year or two, which is different from having been friends since childhood because the personalities are more different, so if you ask why you should avoid it when your friend wins, that is their right as well so There is no need to think of him as a stingy person. There is a reason why we should think positively about him, don't think anything negative.

I don't think the duration of a friendship between someone and another is a big factor to determine the how any of them can behave after winning big in gambling.
There are some set of friends that are good in squandering any sum of funds that they come in contact with and these kind of friends will never advice you to invest your money wisely rather they'll encourage to spend it with any form carefulness. So if a gambler wins and happens to find out that that his group of friends majorly consists of people of this kind of attributes, he's very likely to avoid them no matter how long they've been friends because he would want to invest his winning wisely since he doesn't know when to win again

[CryptSafe]

What he did I think is what he feels is the best for him to have done. I believe he must have seeked the opinion of well meaningful individuals before he took that step because I know on a normal he could have just let his friends know that he would be traveling or changing environment and possibly might not tell them about his wins but they would have found out wether he told them or not but what matters most is his safety with respect to the amount of his wins.  Many people have that friend who only wants to benefit and not contribute and when it is time for merriment, you would always see them at the front singing and shouting your praises when they are not the reflection of what they do at the time of your reimbursement. These has made people to take such decisions of running away when ever they make it big avoiding their friends and most times relatives as well. So OP took such decisions based on his experience with his friends.

While some may consider this to be a bad attitude to have towards their friends we do not know what could have pushed this person to take that decision.

As for all we know they could have been justified on their actions and what they did is what any other rational person would have done, as it is easy to take the side of their friends as this is the only information the OP received, but as we know there are always two versions of the same story, and maybe if the OP heard it they will understand why this happened.

These are the reasons why most times I do not be in a rush to judge and I do not side anybody but i remain neutral on possible solutions to further strengthen ties because no one knows the next phase or steps of their life. I strongly believe for him to have taken such steps by running away from his friends after a big win, then there must be more to his actions than one could imagine.  His friends would have offended him in many ways best known to him and he might have had no option than staying glued to to hem hoping and praying for a day or f victory for him to come and fortunately, he got his big wins and left his friends to their fate which is what he thinks he could have done best to pay them back for what the had done to him.

I also believe in listening to the two sources and hearing from both sides of the story and if it were possible to meet with them one after the other, I would have done it to get a clearer picture of what transpired amongst them while they were together and upon the big win because I believe there is no smoke without a fire.

[Lida93]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

I think he had a personal reason for his actions, but if they were truly close friends and not just gambling buddies, he wouldn't behave that way. Sometimes, celebrating victories with friends is great, but it's not necessary every time. In life, not everyone is genuinely happy for your success some might be envious and pretend to join your celebrations. Personally, I usually bring all my close friends along whenever I have a victory.

I think if they are close friends and not close because of gambling involvement I don't think they should avoid their friends when they get a win, a win in gambling doesn't have a strong enough reason for them to avoid one of their friends, although maybe I can't say that's entirely true because it depends on their personality too, and if they are a stingy person then no matter whether it's a close or distant friend they will still behave stingy by hiding their winnings.

So I think it depends on the friendship between the two people and also depends on the personal nature of the person who gets the winnings, and also on the other hand actually the person who wins has the freedom to whatever they want to do with the money, there is no other person's right to your luck, and maybe if you are generous then you can share a small portion of the winnings with others. Of course, while on the other hand enjoying the winnings with friends is fun, I always do that because there is a thrill and enjoyment in itself, honestly I don't care whether or not people are jealous of my luck but what is certain is that I have increased solidarity by doing good to them, and as for whether or not they will be happy with my luck is up to them.

Sometimes we have to be people who should not get attached in some way to others, get attached to the fact of considering friends to people who in reality are not just, but are companions, who mainly noticed that what there was was a companion where there was no He had no type of connection with others, merely as playmates, where each one shared a meeting or something like that, because a friend does not really forget the people who have helped him, in part the people who are from this style they have to clarify to others what they are, because if they are like that then you must be very clear so as not to have false expectations, in a casino in anything that is going to be done by risking money, you have to be very clear, obviously They were 3 friends, colleagues, they should have agreed on something first of all, so that any of the 3 when they have a high income of money, then in some way give some percentage and in this way many things are avoided, that is why everything has to be balanced .

Money is power, if you want to have a revelation of what is in the heart of a poor man give him money a lump amount he has never had in his possession as rightfully belonging to him before. That's when you'll be sure if that man was definitely meek, humble and friendly with you or it was just poverty that humbled his ego and real nature.

Majority of us are hanging around people we call friends who deep inside they don't see us as friends but mere companions. For the very fact that we receipt them as friends based on how we have been together doing things together for a long periods of time doesn't mean they in same vein mirror us in same manner.
 Many friendships and acquaintance that is still intact today is because money hasn't come into the center of things to test that supposed union. We got to be careful the type of people we quickly call friends for the sake of  our own sanity.

[348Judah]

There is different personalities person in everyone's friend circle. Some are selfish and some want to do something with their friends. Those type of people who make friends for benefits. This type of people ignore his friends after do something good in life. They ignore those friends who don't do something good in life and want help from him. This is not all are same those who want to do something together never avoid there friend after a big win. Those who make friends for benefits that type of person avoid.

There's no any advantage in making friends than the harm it offers for those that had witnessed this should be able to tell more, friends will only be there when things are going well, but immediately they discover that things aren't well as before again then they left on their way, if you're a gambler that have no friends and make win, then you may not have this as a challenge, but when yiu also have participated in eating up others big win in the past then expect for your own turn to come.

[bettercrypto]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

Because we have friends that we know if they are real or not, the friends that we only hang out with because we just know each other but we are not really close to you, we only know you by name. You know what that means.

So, it is possible that those with him are just friends in name and not real friends, so he avoids them as soon as he knows that he has won a large amount of money. Because if it were me, I would do the same, but I wouldn't make it obvious, of course.

[junder]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

I think he had a personal reason for his actions, but if they were truly close friends and not just gambling buddies, he wouldn't behave that way. Sometimes, celebrating victories with friends is great, but it's not necessary every time. In life, not everyone is genuinely happy for your success some might be envious and pretend to join your celebrations. Personally, I usually bring all my close friends along whenever I have a victory.

There's always a reasn behind and we can't conclude if they are close friends or just a gambling buddies but if it's happen that they are close friends it's better to give that decent reason on why you needed to avoid them, else, the one who win that big amount was been eaten by the money that he acquired, we can't remove that fact, people change either because of power or because of money.

But in my opinion, when it comes to the issue of money, it is sensitive, I think it is possible for everyone to change because of a lot of money, and that is also related to the matter of someone who suddenly gets a big win so that he can change his life to be more decent and versatile, of course, people who get a big win will definitely have friends who are deliberately forgotten and friends who are still remembered even to finance their lives, because basically everyone has friends.

But I myself do not assume to forget friends when I get a big win that can change my life, but I myself do not fully expect gambling to change my life, maybe those out there have spent a lot of money gambling and when they are struggling financially they will borrow from their friends, and when they play gambling again and then get a big win that can change their lives they will not forget the friends who have loaned them capital to gamble, but the reality is the opposite most people when asked for help in terms of finance will not help them either because they don't have money or they don't want to lend it. So as I said at the beginning, money is a sensitive subject.

[maydna]

~snip~

What he did I think is what he feels is the best for him to have done. I believe he must have seeked the opinion of well meaningful individuals before he took that step because I know on a normal he could have just let his friends know that he would be traveling or changing environment and possibly might not tell them about his wins but they would have found out wether he told them or not but what matters most is his safety with respect to the amount of his wins.  Many people have that friend who only wants to benefit and not contribute and when it is time for merriment, you would always see them at the front singing and shouting your praises when they are not the reflection of what they do at the time of your reimbursement. These has made people to take such decisions of running away when ever they make it big avoiding their friends and most times relatives as well. So OP took such decisions based on his experience with his friends.

You are right. Therefore, we must be careful in establishing friendships and avoid getting too close to people who only want something when we have it but will not be with us when we experience difficulties. We may have experienced this in friendships, so we have to choose who can be our close friends so that we can share with people who are really close to us. And we also don't need to tell people who are not very close to us even though, in the end, they will find out from other people, but we can deny it by not admitting that it was because of our victory. We also don't need praise from people who are not sincere in building friendly relationships because we are not looking for something like that, and we only want people who can be our friends in all situations and conditions, where we share our joys and sorrows.

[CryptSafe]

~snip~

What he did I think is what he feels is the best for him to have done. I believe he must have seeked the opinion of well meaningful individuals before he took that step because I know on a normal he could have just let his friends know that he would be traveling or changing environment and possibly might not tell them about his wins but they would have found out wether he told them or not but what matters most is his safety with respect to the amount of his wins.  Many people have that friend who only wants to benefit and not contribute and when it is time for merriment, you would always see them at the front singing and shouting your praises when they are not the reflection of what they do at the time of your reimbursement. These has made people to take such decisions of running away when ever they make it big avoiding their friends and most times relatives as well. So OP took such decisions based on his experience with his friends.

You are right. Therefore, we must be careful in establishing friendships and avoid getting too close to people who only want something when we have it but will not be with us when we experience difficulties. We may have experienced this in friendships, so we have to choose who can be our close friends so that we can share with people who are really close to us. And we also don't need to tell people who are not very close to us even though, in the end, they will find out from other people, but we can deny it by not admitting that it was because of our victory. We also don't need praise from people who are not sincere in building friendly relationships because we are not looking for something like that, and we only want people who can be our friends in all situations and conditions, where we share our joys and sorrows.

It is not virtually everything we need to talk about to our friends. There are some times things we need to keep to ourselves for our own safety because these days nobody can tell what is in the heart of the next person so one needs be careful. He did what he could do to safeguard himself and relocated to another place. Possibly he was looking at the security situations for his own personal safety and maybe that was what prompted him to leave the location coupled with the possibility of his experience with his friends.

These days in my country, friends do not tell each other anything again about their international travels they just keep it to themselves after they had travelled out of the country and have arrived their destination that is when they would call you to inform you if at all they really want to do so. I would not blame him to have taken such drastic measures of not telling his friends his success and relocation.

[slapper]

~snip~

Sometimes we have to be people who should not get attached in some way to others, get attached to the fact of considering friends to people who in reality are not just, but are companions, who mainly noticed that what there was was a companion where there was no He had no type of connection with others, merely as playmates, where each one shared a meeting or something like that, because a friend does not really forget the people who have helped him, in part the people who are from this style they have to clarify to others what they are, because if they are like that then you must be very clear so as not to have false expectations, in a casino in anything that is going to be done by risking money, you have to be very clear, obviously They were 3 friends, colleagues, they should have agreed on something first of all, so that any of the 3 when they have a high income of money, then in some way give some percentage and in this way many things are avoided, that is why everything has to be balanced .

What I can conclude from this type of case is that, in addition, they are not family or something that can make them like a connection or a link, this is what you have to see, now, once things are settled in a casino clear because it has to be taken into consideration that whoever of the group wins, since he takes a higher percentage than the others, that is what has to be done when working in a team, group or whatever, although to be However, I would not recommend working as a team, because that is like working in a partnership and that when there is even the slightest incident or misunderstanding, the parties come out torn, if they are friends, or whatever they have, then the money is not worth it. It's a shame that things are going that way, but whenever you are going to deal with what you want, which is money, everything must be discussed, including signing to avoid problems. It is better to sign because only then the word of all parties is preserved. .

When it comes to relationships and money, especially in the context of gambling, it's all about the bottom line. You've got to be clear on who's who in your circle. Friends, colleagues, or just passing ships in the night, the labels matter. In the scenario with the three amigos, or associates, or whatever they are, the rules of engagement should be black and white. If one wins big, then yes, sharing a cut makes sense – it's a team effort, after all. But let's not sugarcoat it; money has a funny way of rewriting the rules of friendship

So, what's the game plan? Simple: agreements, written and signed. It's not cold, it's just common sense. You lay it all out on the table, clear as day. This isn't a handshake deal; it's business. And in business, as in gambling, the house always wins unless you've got a solid strategy. And that strategy is always, always to have everything in writing

[Rabata]

Everyone is entitled to their actions likewise the gambler so if he decided to act that way you would not blame him because they say, experience is a teacher. He has learnt alot from his friends and was quiet following them and when it happened to him that he won big time, he fled for his safety and did not tell his friends because possibly he could not trust them to protect him but rather would want to run.him.down. I believe this was his logic before running away with his wins.

As you said, he has the right to do that, especially if he sees that his friends cannot be trusted. He would probably prefer to hide his win rather than tell his friends and only tell it to those close to him. But whatever the reason, he is entitled to his win, and to say or hide it also depends on him. He will choose whichever is comfortable for him, and if he feels he can say something about his win, he will say so. His other friends also had no right to force him to tell them about what happened with the bet because he had avoided them.

To me, the only weird thing is that you avoid your friends just because you won, if you don't tell them that you won big in gambling that's normal but if you avoid your friends just because you won big in gambling I think that is not normal. Yes, that's his right, but I don't think that's normal.

I think their friend's head has grown up, there are many people like this that when they make a lot of money they forget, they become arrogant. It's not bad to be picky if you need it, the bad thing is that you avoid your friends just because you won a lot of money in gambling even though they don't do anything to you. They will understand if you can't give them because they are your friends.

It is a personal decision he took and that is non of anybody's business. Possibly maybe he must down that for his own personal reasons or security situations because lost people are just funny you know. What if his friends are the type of that nature what do you think they could do to him. I believe he did that for his own safety and another thing you should think is how his friends treated him.while they were all together because people tend to respond to the same manners as they were treated when they had nothing in their name.
So it is not a thing of judging him for his actions but to find out the reasons behind his actions as that could tell why he acted that way.

No doubt he was worried about his safety, which is why the gambler never met his friends again. We cannot take it negatively. Because the gambler was normal before winning gambling but when he won big money this became clear in his behavior. Keep in mind that no one wants to be held responsible if any harm is done. So you must take your own safety. There is nothing wrong with taking precautions before an accident occurs. And if other friends can't judge this matter well then it is normal for them to say negative words. However, not everyone's intentions may be the same.

[CryptSafe]

Everyone is entitled to their actions likewise the gambler so if he decided to act that way you would not blame him because they say, experience is a teacher. He has learnt alot from his friends and was quiet following them and when it happened to him that he won big time, he fled for his safety and did not tell his friends because possibly he could not trust them to protect him but rather would want to run.him.down. I believe this was his logic before running away with his wins.

As you said, he has the right to do that, especially if he sees that his friends cannot be trusted. He would probably prefer to hide his win rather than tell his friends and only tell it to those close to him. But whatever the reason, he is entitled to his win, and to say or hide it also depends on him. He will choose whichever is comfortable for him, and if he feels he can say something about his win, he will say so. His other friends also had no right to force him to tell them about what happened with the bet because he had avoided them.

To me, the only weird thing is that you avoid your friends just because you won, if you don't tell them that you won big in gambling that's normal but if you avoid your friends just because you won big in gambling I think that is not normal. Yes, that's his right, but I don't think that's normal.

I think their friend's head has grown up, there are many people like this that when they make a lot of money they forget, they become arrogant. It's not bad to be picky if you need it, the bad thing is that you avoid your friends just because you won a lot of money in gambling even though they don't do anything to you. They will understand if you can't give them because they are your friends.

It is a personal decision he took and that is non of anybody's business. Possibly maybe he must down that for his own personal reasons or security situations because lost people are just funny you know. What if his friends are the type of that nature what do you think they could do to him. I believe he did that for his own safety and another thing you should think is how his friends treated him.while they were all together because people tend to respond to the same manners as they were treated when they had nothing in their name.
So it is not a thing of judging him for his actions but to find out the reasons behind his actions as that could tell why he acted that way.

No doubt he was worried about his safety, which is why the gambler never met his friends again. We cannot take it negatively. Because the gambler was normal before winning gambling but when he won big money this became clear in his behavior. Keep in mind that no one wants to be held responsible if any harm is done. So you must take your own safety. There is nothing wrong with taking precautions before an accident occurs. And if other friends can't judge this matter well then it is normal for them to say negative words. However, not everyone's intentions may be the same.

Of a truth not everyone's intentions are clear and you do not know who is who but the best way to protect yourself is to take precautionary measures as no one wants to be taken off guard by any unforseen circumstances likewise nobody wants to be held responsible for any reasons unknown to them.  So if he felt such decisions could be of a good help to keep him safe that was the best he could do for himself and he owes no one an explanation for that.