The rate of divorce in the society

[Bushdark]

I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?

Dowry is the most common reason for divorce in our country.It can be seen that many girls are asked by their parents to give dowry during marriage, but if they cannot pay it completely, then after marriage, the girl's in-laws start torturing her in various ways.
What happened in my neighborhood where her husband divorced her for non-payment of dowry.
However, in our society, the practice of dowry is decreasing and even the number of divorces is decreasing.

Maybe you can kindly explain more on what you mean by dowry. If dowry is one of the problems that is leading to divorce in your countryside then things have to be done about it.
That should not be a problem that would lead to divorce. When tow people comes together, they do agree for better for worse but now the opposite is what we are seeing. The rate of divorce in the world is becoming very consistent and I don't think this would change. Many people marry because of the beautiful and endowment they see in women. This should not be the reason when we get married.

[Ravichnadra]

Nothing works as planned in this life. People nowadays tend to get bored easily and they just don't try to fix things rather ending up divorced. It's almost like there's a Divorce Olympics going on, with events like the "Argument Gymnastics," "Emotional Relay Races," and let's not forget the "Marathon of Misunderstandings." And the trophy? Well, it's a piece of paper that says, "Congratulations, you've successfully uncoupled!"

[Essential10]

A woman and a man move from the marriage stage to the divorce stage due to various reasons. I have noticed that divorce has become a common occurrence, especially in less developed countries today. Changes in traditional family structures and values, as well as an increased focus on personal happiness and self-fulfillment, are driving divorce rates in less developed countries. In the past, divorce was often stigmatized and culturally unacceptable.But With increased access to education and information, individuals are becoming more aware of their rights and options within marriage, leading to an increased willingness to seek divorce to achieve personal happiness and well-being.

[jrrsparkles]

A woman and a man move from the marriage stage to the divorce stage due to various reasons. I have noticed that divorce has become a common occurrence, especially in less developed countries today. Changes in traditional family structures and values, as well as an increased focus on personal happiness and self-fulfillment, are driving divorce rates in less developed countries. In the past, divorce was often stigmatized and culturally unacceptable.But With increased access to education and information, individuals are becoming more aware of their rights and options within marriage, leading to an increased willingness to seek divorce to achieve personal happiness and well-being.

Do you mean people seek divorce due to domestic violence? Probably yes, but divorces are always higher in the well-developed nations and you can point to someone who lived with their partners forever in your neighborhood in developed nations but those things are still taboo in some developing nations and for the financial challenges people started to be less commitment than before.

[Bushdark]

Nothing works as planned in this life. People nowadays tend to get bored easily and they just don't try to fix things rather ending up divorced. It's almost like there's a Divorce Olympics going on, with events like the "Argument Gymnastics," "Emotional Relay Races," and let's not forget the "Marathon of Misunderstandings." And the trophy? Well, it's a piece of paper that says, "Congratulations, you've successfully uncoupled!"

There are too many divorces in this recent time and the problem lies in fake love. Now many people fell in love not because they love you but because they really cares about money. People care about money than love and after they get married, either the male or female might determine that they are not interested in the relationship and ready to break up. Some women are always ready to break up with there husband just to cliam propertiee belonging to the man.

[Fiasem20]

In most advanced countries divorce is very common.But  the Christianity religion is against divorce.Some of the reasons why marriages are broken are:
1.Lack of communication: Couples are meant to communicate with each other to spice up the relationship.And in the communication couples should be open to each other.Lack of communication can lead to divorce.
2.Financial Challenge: Inability to provide the basic needs in a relationship due to insufficient fund can also lead to divorce.
3.Denial of sex:This is one major reason like many marriages are broken in the society.Couples who deny their partner sex makes the partner to cheat in a relationship.And when a partner is caught cheating we all know the end result (divorce).

[God bless u]

Nothing works as planned in this life. People nowadays tend to get bored easily and they just don't try to fix things rather ending up divorced. It's almost like there's a Divorce Olympics going on, with events like the "Argument Gymnastics," "Emotional Relay Races," and let's not forget the "Marathon of Misunderstandings." And the trophy? Well, it's a piece of paper that says, "Congratulations, you've successfully uncoupled!"

In reality, people who are they do not try to understand each other they will live together in the same house in the same environment but they do not try to tolerate each othe It means that they are angry that they don't have the time to tolerate each other's words, that is,

If you take an example, if the husband says something to his wife, then the wife should be a little more courageous if the wife says something wrong or bad If it is done, the husband should neglect what is in it and show patience, then  there will be less of a divorce and they will be able to live happily together and those who are other people who  are happy that the relationship between them has broken then the turn will not reach here

[kaka_Shipai]

I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?

Its the society. Now in this world, we have social media and in the first glance it seems as if we can get a life partner very easily and that allows us to move away from our old relation. Tiktok, insta, social media, shows us so much glamour that we don't get much interest in our partner as they can't be perfect, no one can. They don't have 6 pack, or jawline, ferrari and other stuff and that makes us loose the interest in them, believing that we can find someone better easily but there we are so wrong.

[Bushdark]

I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?

Its the society. Now in this world, we have social media and in the first glance it seems as if we can get a life partner very easily and that allows us to move away from our old relation. Tiktok, insta, social media, shows us so much glamour that we don't get much interest in our partner as they can't be perfect, no one can. They don't have 6 pack, or jawline, ferrari and other stuff and that makes us loose the interest in them, believing that we can find someone better easily but there we are so wrong.

People should understand why they are getting into marriage because if this is not defined, it usually lead to confusiona that do make marriages to break due to so many reasons. The love for fashion and exploration had made men and women to think that if they are stressed in there marriages, they have the option to lead and go and find a better home somewhere.
Most celebrities we are seeing divorcing thinks there partners are not good enough and they can get someone better which is very wrong.

[Brainiac01]

I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?

Both are at fault. In this our generation of people with erratic character, People marry one another for the wrong reasons:
#1. They marry out of pity. After months or years of marriage, they find themselves fed up and find it hard to give their partners the love they deserve.
#2.  Some women these days marry men because of money, men they do not love, sometimes men old enough to be their fathers. And in the course of marriage these women indulge in infidelity, and when they are fed up pretending, they go for their pay day. They file for a divorce and acquire 50% of the man's property.
#3. People marry without knowing the true meaning of love and sacrifice.
#4. People marry without getting to know their partners really well.

[SATWAT]

I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?

Its the society. Now in this world, we have social media and in the first glance it seems as if we can get a life partner very easily and that allows us to move away from our old relation. Tiktok, insta, social media, shows us so much glamour that we don't get much interest in our partner as they can't be perfect, no one can. They don't have 6 pack, or jawline, ferrari and other stuff and that makes us loose the interest in them, believing that we can find someone better easily but there we are so wrong.

People should understand why they are getting into marriage because if this is not defined, it usually lead to confusiona that do make marriages to break due to so many reasons. The love for fashion and exploration had made men and women to think that if they are stressed in there marriages, they have the option to lead and go and find a better home somewhere.
Most celebrities we are seeing divorcing thinks there partners are not good enough and they can get someone better which is very wrong.

As mentioned many things with mostly this happening due to lack of communications which is most important for the marriage and in case we lost this no one can stop with I check few things around us this generation is having problem with doing decisions very quickly and not thinking about the consequences as well which are going to ruin their life after doing wrong decision as many cases around me already but now no way of going back to normal which is also killing.
We can avoid this all, but we need to be had some patience and better understanding which need some time so just keep cool and try to give time every thing with all can be sorted out without any tragic decision even now divorce ratio is coming down but still need some good work to do about this all.

[Cryptoprincess101]

I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?

Point of correction, divorce isn't a normal thing as couples now a days doesn't actually understands what marriage is all about before they enter into marriage and what's causing this high rate of divorce cases is 1: entering into marriage with little or no knowledge of the commitment that's involved in marriage, 2: marrying because of physical qualities, 3: seeing marriage as one sided that is as a man's duty to make the marriage work, and lastly not being resourceful and productive.

Many a people, enter into marriage this days simply because their mates are getting married (peer pressure) or because they think they are of age to get married without thinking about the fundamentals of marriage, like those things that actually matters as marriage ought to be a lifetime commitment between the man and the woman to live together as husband and wife regardless of challenges and obstacles they may encounter.

The high rate of divorce this days is really a thing of concern and I think there should be a sensitization programs for couples in other to emphasize the needs why divorce shouldn't be an option to resolve marital issues as there are ways to resolve matters among husbands and wives without necessarily seeking for divorce because if this divorce cases continue to increase them am afraid people will begin to show little or no interest towards marriage because they will be afraid of the aftermath of their marriage therefore in other to prevent a divorce from happening after marriage, it had better be no marriage in the first place

[|MINER|]

The problem here is both.  Today's women hide their real existence.  They are not satisfied with their appearance.  To hide one's real beauty and show another form is a kind of deception. And men are becoming worshipers of forms.  It is a disease.  No one here is happy with their real life.  Everyone is busy with their fantasy world.  So many other downfalls in the relationship for this

[God bless u]

Nothing works as planned in this life. People nowadays tend to get bored easily and they just don't try to fix things rather ending up divorced. It's almost like there's a Divorce Olympics going on, with events like the "Argument Gymnastics," "Emotional Relay Races," and let's not forget the "Marathon of Misunderstandings." And the trophy? Well, it's a piece of paper that says, "Congratulations, you've successfully uncoupled!"

There are too many divorces in this recent time and the problem lies in fake love. Now many people fell in love not because they love you but because they really cares about money. People care about money than love and after they get married, either the male or female might determine that they are not interested in the relationship and ready to break up. Some women are always ready to break up with there husband just to cliam propertiee belonging to the man.

The main problem is that from here, the problem is created that there is no peace in the house, people are running after money nowadays so much that all the relationships are broken, the importance of money are more and relationships are going to end now, no one has any interest in them anymore, all the relationships are breaking, the main reason is money.  If you put aside what you have and take care of your relationships first, then all the relationships that you have will be established in their place and the system of divorce that exists in the society will also be reduced and you can live a normal life.

[Bushdark]

Let's start to begin to take up the challenge in making relationship and marriage work out for those in it, we can do all out best in creating an atmosphere for learning on how to live together as partners forgetting about our individual difference and embrace tolerance, this can be organized through seminars, the aim is to help married people enjoy their marriages despite the challenges involved.

You can only take up the challenge to make your own relationship successful without problem of ever divorcing. Many relationships are facing problem if cheating that's why we are seeing frequent divorcee because of problem of compatibility. Before we get into marriage, it is good we first study our partner and see if we can endure the differences and that would never make us complain in the future when marriage is involved. Misunderstanding is keep set mist marriage on fire.

[oktana]

I think the man is insane. Sorry if that’s extreme but how is it possible that you courted someone for at least months and you never got to see their supposed real face? No video calls? No visitations? For this to happen, it means that he didn’t court her long enough to know even basic things about her(her face), and now the next day, he wants to run away from it. I hope he tells his next wife that he got married for a night only and failed to hold his end of the bargain. 

[MegameSama]

Our ancestors didn't have many choices, before there was no internet, pornography, TV and other access that made them have varying standards of beauty. So the standard of beauty according to our ancestors was based on the area they lived in. compare it to today, with access at your fingertips. We have very broad fantasies and beauty standards, so nowadays it is very difficult to commit to marriage and respect the partner we choose in marriage, only strong people can. but yes, it depends on the person too. in my country the divorce rate is very low.

[uneng]

Our ancestors didn't have many choices, before there was no internet, pornography, TV and other access that made them have varying standards of beauty. So the standard of beauty according to our ancestors was based on the area they lived in. compare it to today, with access at your fingertips. We have very broad fantasies and beauty standards, so nowadays it is very difficult to commit to marriage and respect the partner we choose in marriage, only strong people can. but yes, it depends on the person too. in my country the divorce rate is very low.

Also, our ancestors didn't have the alternative to divorce, with rare exceptions, because it was against the morals and laws during the ancient times. To be a divorced individual in past times was a curse, especially for women, who totally lost their values inside the society, so they prefered to remain married, even if unhappy, as after measuring the pros and cons, they reached to the conclusion it was more benefical to them to stay together, at least formally, in front of the society.

Nowadays the society doesn't see divorced individuals in a negative way anymore, so people don't feel socially prejudiced when deciding to abandon their partners. There isn't a punishment by doing so anymore. It's quite the opposite, they see this as a new opportunity to find someone new and better than the previous one. That is what we call "liquid love". They don't last for long, they aren't solid, they are volatile and in other cases highly artificial.

People just use each other and once they get bored, they go to the next one. It's the individuality trait of the "self" exercising full control over the individual, and demanding to be served by the world outside incessantly, without giving anything back in counterpart.

[cryptoWODL]

I noticed that divorce is now a normal thing , people will get married today and in less than two months they are divorced already..I heard a story of how a man after seeing the wife's face without  make-up the following morning divorced his wife saying he was deceived that she is not as beautiful as he sees her before.
But our forefathers has been with same women for decades, is it exposure ? Who is really the problem ? The man or the woman?

The trend of divorce is increasing day by day in our society and many families are getting wounded due to this divorce. Most of the reasons for divorce in our society are created by husband and wife without their own knowledge. One of the reasons for divorce in our society today is the lack of mutual respect and values of both the husband and wife for each other due to which divorces are constantly happening in our society. In the country where I live, divorce rates are higher in urban areas than in rural areas

[encryptogon]

The rate of divorce in my society is increasing with every passing day. The plausible reason for this spike in divorce is higher expectations in marriage. In my country girls are mostly looking for a settled boy and for them age does not matter. No one is willing to struggle. Hence, if you go for a well-settled person, there might be no bonding between the individuals because the person she is marrying is already busy and might not give her the time she needs. Also, money is not everything in marriage. Once the money charm is over and people face the reality they divorce because of their different nature.